the desire to be loved

[@dailyrepsofficial]

The desire to be loved is deeply human. As Erich Fromm noted, 'Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.' Real love starts within-embrace self-love, and the world reflects it back to you in unexpected ways

[@veronikaaaaaaaaaaa]

realest real❤

[@ylainiee]

3:32 "Having someone to go out with, and having someone to come home to" is so real.

[@Bx.u4]

This video finds you, you Don't find it

[@harithdanieal404]

real. it finds me. i dont search for it. it came to me

[@aesglio]

yep..

[@p_manya03]

@@harithdanieal404 real. And it came when we needed to hear it the most

[@taesgucci7254]

too real

[@grasyacasabar747]

Trueee❤❤❤

[@kaitopillar]

born to be a husband forced into being the cool uncle who doesnt get married

[@AlexadreSalmi]

@@sheryl121 @goobwantstobattle you guys might be answer for one another.

[@ratnermanor]

@@AlexadreSalmi girl one of them is probably 8 and the other 68

[@kaitopillar]

@@ratnermanor im 22

[@lauratoto3524]

Felt this lol

[@hmmmnope2455]

​@@ratnermanor 😭

[@kire_kyuh]

being so desperate for love that if someone shows you a small amount of it, you become obsessed with them only to realize you don't love them and they don't love you.

[@jana-ol1fi]

thats so real it hurts

[@_your_aesthetx]

Maybe they were just being kind 😮‍💨

[@אוריאלכהן-כ2כ]

Limerence

[@esthelaa5028]

😞

[@gayuvayu]

"There's seven billion people on the planet,one of them is going to climb up the moon for you." This was so peaceful to watch and listen to💕✨️

[@Summer_Gold]

Not if you hole yourself up in your room (: * Reminder to myself and everyone *

[@cypstfu]

Yeah but you might die before even having found that person. How are you gonna find them anyway, among 8 billion people? Im not trying to bring the mood down but this doesnt make sense

[@aiy.96]

​@@Summer_Gold then be that person for yourself who would climb up the moon for you

[@kabirbhattacharyya9014]

This is a sentence from the web series sex education

[@kabirbhattacharyya9014]

4:59-5:21 this entire dialogue is from the web series

[@_aryan_69]

"Desire to be loved is the last illusion ,give it up and you will be free "

[@Bx.u4]

@@_aryan_69 is this a quote from a book or smtg? Can you tell me the book title?

[@_aryan_69]

@@Bx.u4 I discovered it when I was 15 ... can't remember the reference but you can find the source through web search I guess , good luck with that ❤️

[@mikylejoubert8347]

@@Bx.u4 “Selected Poems II” by Margaret Atwood

[@Bx.u4]

@@mikylejoubert8347 thx a lot ♡

[@__Karam__]

The problem is when you give it up, you break a lot of hearts who haven't given it up yet.

[@muhfarisyah]

i’m in the singaporean youtube side, and aint complaining

[@OKOk-hg2mg]

as a singaporean as well, I cnat believe you could take footage of gardens by the bay without visitors

[@oliviaswim3455]

I remember I used to go there when I was young and even late at night it was always full of people.

[@bidisharoy441]

This is so soothing.. I guess, my problem is I'm more in love with the idea of love than the love itself, because no one in real life (I've come across so far in my 25 years of life) can treat me better than the faceless man I've in my mind. Maybe I'm just weird. Maybe I'm not meant to find my person. Maybe he doesn't even exist. It is what it is! :)

[@lordfarquaad3086]

i feel you, girl, i really do. in my case, i’ve discovered that when love does get shown to me, i reject it, because it’s so foreign to me. i can’t accept the fact that i can be loved genuinely by another, without a catch. it’s pathetic but it is what it is, too, i guess.

[@thu3833]

“Faceless man” is me being in love with someone I don’t remember the face of 😂 and when I do recall the face (from looking at pictures) I’m falling even more, I’m in shambles and I think he has a girlfriend and doesn’t like me, the urge to confront him is a lot but I feel that would make things worse than it already is

[@MuiKaHo]

you're not weird. thats just how society built you. From movies to novels, love has been portrayed to be something more than what it is. I think you'll find someone sooner or later because the alternative of being alone for the rest of your life is quite sad.

[@EshanAbbas]

We all are weird in some good way, friend. Let’s have hope that we find an our purpose, someday. :”)

[@riverphoenixhenzi7943]

as long as u find clarity within yourself that’s all that matters love

[@shiphaherenj]

bros a literal walking studio Ghibli character

[@powerfulmindset8994]

I don't know how this video could appear in my page. I didn't write anything on my phone about my feeling today! But algorithm do more than i expected.

[@niliuq]

same.

[@AmandaJPChin]

“Sometimes u meet someone who feels the same, and sometimes you’re unlucky”

[@slimsoymilk]

im so fucking tired of seeing others in relationships. im so fucking tired of watching movies to try to live these relationships. im so fucking tired of being single im so fucking tired of being alone im so fucking tired of trying to shape myself into someone im not just so society can deem me as a compatible partner im so fucking tired of complaining about trying to better myself just to be shut down by my own anxiety and insecurities im so fucking tired of watching youtube videos of people, people i don't know, people hanging out with people i would want to be a part of im so fucking tired and one day i'll be resting alone with out a care in this world about companionship.

[@priyalkhurana9763]

❤

[@jeremiahragira7633]

Hi slim, I’m sorry you’ve had this experience. I would say that this "ideal love" pushed by society is a fairy tale because everyone has flaws. And at that point you will have to either choose to settle, make a compromise or leave to find the next flawed human. Trying to fix loneliness by getting close to someone else often doesn't work as we expect because it's based on perfect stories we are told by society. I know that we both know perfect stories can't exist when humans are involved. Instead, the best way to feel better is to focus on yourself. Many people are married or have lots of friends and still feel lonely. My advice is to do things you enjoy, like singing, drawing, playing an instrument, or learning a new language. Set up a new daily routine, try to go to bed early. (late night time 8PM and on often lead to more feelings of loneliness). You might find out that you can be really happy on your own. It will take time, and you might feel very lonely sometimes. When that happens, it's okay to cry but keep going and keep growing. In time you will heal and find that all you ever needed was there already, just needed a bit of polishing to see it! All the love to you fellow friend! P.S. Deleting social media Iis the best thing I have done for my mental health ;) All the best, Jeremiah.

[@nisrinafadiya4647]

no please no, ik im just a stranger on the internet but please dont give up with the idea of finding love. im sure you can find it, maybe not now, maybe not in the real life, maybe it's here. in the depth of internet, maybe not the romantic love, just a genuine pure love. please take this comments with all of your heart cuz i really meant it.

[@Hiro_shi89]

@slimsoymilk Exactly what I am feeling over a month now.

[@a.reskii184]

I'm waiting for the same salvation that you are.

[@Adele43150]

"I wounded the good and I trusted the wicked" ❤

[@rudranshiverma2201]

clearing the air, I breathed in the smoke❤️

[@allureuwu6888]

bro the cinematography is insane I GOT GOOOOSEBUMPS FIRST FEW SECONDS

[@zehraak2977]

This is exactly the kind of thought I'd write in my journal. It's as if someone documented the thoughts that come to mind when I lay my head on the pillow. This video felt like it was a part of me, like it was a piece of me.

[@Niha-ic9ib]

Bro this is love itself.

[@_your_aesthetx]

I want to experience how it feels when someone loves you and makes you feel like you deserve it :/

[@hollychan]

I’m a teen who wants to be in a relationship one day. I want to have someone I can truly love and admire, while also being there for them. It’s a part of my romanticist personality. Our modern society just seems to be repelling the idea of a happy relationship: everything’s too complicated and dramatic. It’s not a healthy perspective because it makes people feel like somethings wrong with themselves. I don’t want things to be difficult with my future relationship, I just need to share my love and hopefully get that love back. I just feel… so discouraged. If you feel the same, just know that you’re not alone. I hope that everyone gets a chance.

[@hannaah]

Feeing the same and sending you some love! As a teenager myself, seeing couples and people my age or younger fall in this super romanised “teenage love”, no matter how hard I preach self love to others and myself, we all feel lonely at times too. I’m sure even some people in a relationship feel lonely as well. I hope you manage to optimise allll thue love that you have and direct towards yourself as well! Your family, friends, these are all people deserving of our love as well :) sending virtual hugzzzz

[@Fortniteking192]

4:02 “not knowing the answers is the beauty of love after all”

[@mei_50]

I went through some relationships when I was younger, some traumatized me and at the time I just got into relationships because I liked the feeling of having someone with me. After 7 years alone I started to want to have a relationship again, I met some people but either they didn't like me or for some reason it didn't work out. After meeting someone recently, I felt an immense desire to be with him but unfortunately after ruining everything I realized that I am the problem, before loving someone I need to love myself and become self-sufficient for myself. There's no point in waiting for others to think this about you! If you have low self-esteem or many insecurities, seek professional help. It may not be what will make you have a relationship but it will help you to be a healthy person. Don't give up on love!!

[@kkewsuk]

you know what’s quite similarly frustrating… being loved but not being able to reciprocate it. I’ve had online friends who confessed to me and we were really close. But because of different beliefs and not able to be in a relationship, I’ve always had to brush them off. I’ve always had to say that I don’t feel the same… even though there’s nothing more I’d rather do. It makes me desire love even more…

[@tejasvi-il1go]

Exactly same with Me....

[@adelineliying]

love comes naturally, at least for me. after many tries of dating and putting myself out there in hopes to search for love, not giving up and also not getting my hopes up, I finally found comfort and love in my current relationship. so don't give up in the pursuit of love, one day you'll find one that comes naturally, like it's always meant to be

[@benzichydi710]

“having someone to go out with, and having someone to come home to” hit me.

[@anuraag5461]

The tranquility that this video gives is unmatched. Such peace, watching this with the rain outside, the electricity out. So serene

[@reiraレイラ]

I’ve heard that line before. 5:00 It reminded me of how much i tried chasing and changing for one person, who never really accepted me then i realized that, the person wasn’t for me so i made him go free, to where he belonged; the universe, where others can love him more than i ever did.

[@evevia.a]

❤❤❤

[@dk__4833]

same I've heard that somewhere else hope you're doing good 🫂🤍

[@sodanightsky]

the timing of youtube recommending this is insane. Literally wanted someone to say this. almost made me cry

[@chloegrc.]

When you love someone, you forget all the confusion

[@Mystic_Paths]

Watching this reminds me of the significance of building meaningful connections and cherishing the love we receive.

[@Finn-41]

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear just now. Don't let go of hope.

[@eczavyr2899]

This was a beautiful video!! Sadly I'm not ever finding love, it has never and just will never find its way to me. I really hope for everyone I meet to find that one person, and I'll be there sitting in the corner of the room. That's just the way it is intended. In case anyone reads this, I really wish you all the best in life!! I hope you will find people that you can truly connect with

[@blye879]

this was gr8! loved the cinematography and the vibes are immaculate

[@rachaeljoon]

this video found me while im currently grieving over someone who reached out to me first and made me realize he is who i wanted all along but at a bad time. before we agreed to meet a childhood friend popped back into his life and he started to see something with her but knew it wasnt fair to me while we were talking. if only we met in person earlier i think about how it couldve worked out between us. although we are still friends it pains me trying to move on after hanging with him and realizing he is my type and everything i want in a person that ive never seen in someone else before. its difficult not to entertain the idea that maybe its meant to be later on in life because i dont know that for sure and its selfish to think that right now. but for now im trying to accept the events and move forward

[@Sukmarey_Fung]

I am not lying when I tell you I cried watching and listening to your video. I have never felt so understood in my life, the way you described how you feel. This was truly beautiful and I hope you find someone who can give you the love you deserve. As someone who wants to get married and have kids, is hard seeing your siblings have it before you, but I am trying to patiently wait for mine. It's hard.

[@wajeehasiddqiui5787]

it's really hard to wait for something that the people around you already have

[@lalulu697]

"I wounded the good and I trusted the wicked" 😭 ouch

[@e.e5134]

I needed to see this, I think. I had this weird heavy feeling in my chest the entire time. Regardless of the reason, whether it's because I saw my ex today, or because I felt so harrowingly alone, it doesn't matter. I saw this, and I'll never forget it. Thanks for existing man.

[@lupitahernandez-f1k]

this video said everything ive been feeling and im so happy im not alone because i cant explain my feeling with words at all

[@daisycarter1662]

"7 billion people on the planet, one of them is going to climb up on the moon for you." That's such an awesome outlook on love omg

[@АнастасияТерзинова-н1й]

Im literally crying rn

[@harshitanandiniyogi]

Same🙌

[@Janesa-u1r]

The fact that this video popped up on my for you page as the I guy liked was texting is so convenient….. He was telling me how he’s been hurting himself (mentally) so he wouldn’t hurt the people that he loves and watching this video made me realize that it’s okay to want love but hurting yourself for it is not necessarily the best option and that it takes time for live to come your way it just takes time. So thank you for making me realize this, your words truly hit me in a spot in my heart that made me feel that I wasn’t the only one who felt like this.☺️

[@Howltotoro24]

In this generation, I feel like it's hard to trust someone not only in partner but other people that enter in your life(words from person who have never been in relationships). And a trust thing, really hold back to whom you talk or have a deep conversations. As the video is about love, I think I have never loved someone other than my family. I had crush on one person when I was a kid but turns out it was just a teenage attraction towards opposite gender( I never really talked about it to other or ever confessed that person). But now I tend to push the people away when they confess their love to me or show their interest towards me. I think they are not the right one or it's not right time, even if they aren't in relationship with me I can't forget what I did and they did. I always feel sorry for not loving that person as they did. I don't have many experience of someone that loved me when I was a kid even from teacher, friends or other random people so, now it feels weird. I do confess I have desire to be loved by someone who really understand me one day. But the word 'love' is heavy, feels like burden to be loved. As I have seen some relationship, some bear minimum things in relationship feels hard because u are used to not texting, speaking to other person daily. I feels like texting, speaking is a responsibility and what if they been cheating behind your back. I don't think I can deal with such things which will break my heart. I feel I'm scared to be loved by wrong person. I hope to find a person who will be in part of my life forever not just years, months, days. This video really, let out my inner feeling that I have never talked about. It's cinematic, clam, feels like time is slow ❤.

[@dancer-o2m]

Omg that's true😭🫂

[@Xn0m1x]

the last words hit then your just looking at yourself in the black screen

[@Yourgoodwitch]

Simple but worth watching

[@haneenaljifri1063]

a video so great it made the feeling of being burnt off fade

[@anisshukran6583]

love will always be a bittersweet feeling i have to swallow. they say love is everywhere, that it exists in many forms; but i feel like it's never meant for me to fully embrace. it exists but not quite for me to experience it's genuinety. i've always been the bystander, the people-watcher, the observer, but never the experiencer, the main character that gets what their heart fully desires. i know love is out there, but where, exactly? how do i grab it? how do i hold onto it? how do i even grasp it? and how do i make peace with faith when fate has denied me of it. it has come to the point that i'm assured i will always be doomed by the choices i make, when it comes to romantic love.

[@nur818]

life is too weird. sometimes the people beside you won't understand your thoughts and feelings on the "love" yet a person from the other side of the planet verbalises it better than you...

[@SaliLlamas]

the quality is crazy, crystal clear

[@sarang_gguk]

It is a tragedy when a romantic heart and a mature mind is stuck in the same body...

[@annasilva9928]

5:40 this is exactly how I’m feeling I’m soft hearted and I have a lot of love to offer but because I’m on the asexual spectrum I feel like no one will want me. I feel Like a dog eagerly greeting its favourite person but their favourite person prefers the calmness of cats and I can never be a cat for them

[@Preppy.Addison]

I AM SOBBING UNCONTROLLABLY. PLEASE, HAVE MERCY.

[@palaceofsand]

"there's 7 billion people on the planet, one of them is going to climb up on the moon for you" 😞🤞

[@nataliakobidova2201]

only a person with a heart so beautiful could create a thing filled with so much beauty it makes your heart hurt because of all the love thats in it. thank you, i’m so proud of you and i will always remember the feeling your video left me with. i felt every word you said even before watching it and now i know there is you feeling the same way. please dont ever forget that im here seeing you, feeling the same in my heart, because i will never forget you

[@lettersfromiris]

im glad this was recommended to me, beautiful work. this really inspired me. this video resonates so much with me, having a burning desire to love, to be loved, to express my admiration for the smallest things in existence with just somebody without them thinking it's weird, to love someone for who they are, rather than constantly focusing on what i'd get 'in exchange'. to look at love for what it truly is. to not act like i loathe love infront of my parents when there lies a burning desire in me to love. this hit home. loved it.

[@thatpaigelow]

i didnt know why this popped up on my fyp but whoever is reading this:) you are loved and don't forget that

[@p_manya03]

Was having the same feelings..questioning all of these things in the video, even my own existence. Whether I deserve to be loved just how i give love and care to others. Needed to hear this, I'm so grateful for this video...

[@chansmile226]

Was only just yesterday that I was feeling so unworthy of love and inferior among everyone around me for not being "loveable enough". This video gave me some consolation and for that I am thankful. Keep up the good work!

[@waverlysdiary]

this entire video is poetry, i love the shots you chose and how so many of them there are different kinds of love in frame, in the foreground or background, overall just all around us. love it!

[@ShadowShadowYT]

You brought me to tears. As one who has felt real love this is a masterpiece and captures it perfectly the feeling before or after. The search, the want, stepping back and reflection. I want you to know you have motivated me to create this is what art is and why I love it. Fantastic job from one creative to another.

[@rashigupta20]

I’ve been single all my life…and what you said in this beautiful video..i feel exactly the same from time to time. So if i have come across this video randomly ..i am taking it as a sign that love is just round the corner for me😊 Btw..you have peaceful voice✨ keep up the good work!❤

[@FiuYack]

i love watching this type of video. at the beginning of the day, the ending or anytime. it's just healed my soul...

[@Mwallo_]

Had a dream I loved and was loved back , sucks that I woke up to the single lonely ass reality 😢

[@NeOwO971]

I am honestly done, failed twice. I don't want to feel like this anymore. I really don't want to get in this ever again.

[@festosanjo1442]

Loved the cinematography and the story telling Keep creating

[@mads7542]

this was so beautiful. thank you. made me feel very assured and reminded me that my longing is human and not a bad thing. i hope you find love in the ways you are looking for and the ways you deserve.

[@lucyrimapura8216]

You really have such a soothing and calming voice

[@Iceo09]

I genuinely cried watching this video i dont know what makes this video so warm and cozy is it the diligent words you speak or is it the concept of this video anyways great video mate

[@belugathecat8453]

damn, this is one of those youtube videos that could move you inside in a lifetime. i wish i could find ur channel sooner. felt the same way about the desire to be loved, but yeah.. enjoying the feelings of curiosity about love might be the best for now.

[@sudhajalakam3626]

THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING I SAW TODAY😭💗🌷🎀

[@wemer_chan09]

The desire to be loved the right way✨

[@negan9728]

Having someone can understand my chaotic mind , my false personality and still embracing it after all.... I know I'm a fk problem but I still want to be loved....

[@Niraaaaa13]

Thank you, my friend has been trying for soo many months to get this into my head. U did it in 6 minutes and 43 seconds. Thank you :)

[@manishasokhal7005]

you'll be loved, and you'll be loved 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩

[@Kanishka-qw7ew]

Bro.... The videos ,the editing, the words everything is right into its place and the cozy vibe that it creates is incredible ❤.

[@EdoardoGastaldiMusic]

This is amazing, man. Please keep this up and share more content as deep as this. ❤

[@soundsabitold]

Moment 1:26 , the heart shape that the tree made...

[@utube_snakeu553]

bro casually dropped this piece of art.

[@bnsnt00]

i really love this color grading

[@TaughtPoet]

This just appeared randomly on my recommended list... And im glad it did...

[@bnazalia_]

thanks a lot for making this video, I've always thought. maybe it's really too much for wanted to be loved, but your word makes me realize. of course I deserve to be loved, and I prayed to be loved by the one who really my love

[@SinShu]

My boyfriend/best friend has ignored me for so many years, making me feel so little. Yesterday I confronted him. I dumped him, even though he was crying. Sadly, my desire for being loved grew so much that it belittled the love & longing I had for him.

[@_rat_5758]

This is too real. And so beautiful

[@NhiHuynh-rg6ow]

going thru a breakup and this video found me at such a beautiful coincidental time. love is never a waste and it is all around us

[@quishalianne5868]

you portrayed singapore sooo beatifully and it makes me so much more excited to visit the city. thank you!

[@christineliew1202]

subbed just because how subtle and effortlessly this video managed to touch so many hearts even in the slightest bit, keep it up!!! looking forward to more !!

[@friedavocadoes]

i didnt know i felt all this until i met my person. love really is beautiful

[@ellieyoung8389]

Why did this brought tears to my eyes

[@harshitanandiniyogi]

The sad thing about me is I really can't imagine that someone will love me or fall for me.. Like i am so unattractive, boring and introvert, insecure🙂.. All of my friends have a bf/gf but i don't..

[@emilyollier8804]

This is the most wholesome short film I've ever watched :')

[@phyusin9993]

love is all of the above. love requires effort but love also just, comes. once you see it in someone, all of these questions instantly dissolve away.

[@iamhriee]

the video came into my timeline after 2 months and all i can say is thankyou, its a beautiful video.

[@The.Poison.Avelyn]

this is probably one of the best videos i've watched in a long time.

[@pitasen-o7k]

bro is cultured

[@ninicoco7]

I was crying the entire day because of love and this video popped up 😢❤

[@strawberrymilk.u]

i cried, this is just so beautiful

[@CyrusCalapano]

How can I expect to be loved by someone I like when even my own grandparents and cousins couldn't love me?

[@bruhhhhhh277]

Your lover would . Trust me. They will shower u with love u deserve.

[@ayuzox]

man this video is therapy for me

[@aesglio]

I realise I don’t truly still like that person, it’s just the delusion of a desire of knowing I could’ve been loved. Sometimes that’s why people like people who want them, because it’s the thought of love. It’s the inner desire of knowing you could be loved the way you want to. The way you deserve to be.

[@tejasvi-il1go]

So deep n real with me too

[@aarzoosingla6309]

Thank you so much for this video ❤

[@moon_daisies5491]

born to be a lover.. forced to be a hater

[@YukiMatsuoka-mf3ix]

honestly, this was so peaceful to listen to. I don't usually watch videos in full screen but this one turns out to be an exception