My safety tip, talk to the truckers! Sometimes they have cameras recording where your semi is. I've had a trucker stop me from going to dinner alone and told me he and his wife would go with me. Apparently, his wife had a weird feeling about a man who had been going around "accidentally" walking into the women's bathroom. My RV was also picked up by their camera. They let me know what time they would be leaving and I left when they did. They were doing their reset and I got a solid amount of rest while having a couple that helped look out for me.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
That’s so great they watched out for you. Thanks for sharing
@TheSharlethaG2 ай бұрын
I love this!❤
@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
There is at this moment a serial killer on I5 working the Highway rest areas - they think it is a trucker - be safe people.
@veldasellers40212 ай бұрын
God bless that angel couple!
@houseportraitscalligraphy74742 ай бұрын
What a blessing,!!
@Frenchy51172 ай бұрын
I drive a truck and have been all over the country, ive found its best to leave the phone in your pocket when you get out anywhere and lock your doors and keep your eyes moving like you do when your driving
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@jacksunstone87712 ай бұрын
I, too, am a driver. And I never exit the truck without my phone.
@garywalton51352 ай бұрын
I have driven a truck for 45 years and have never had any problems!! Sometimes people don’t pay attention and I will give you that . But if your to scared to go out and enjoy this life then maybe it time to stay home where it can happen there also!!!!!!!
@Wanderingwoodys502 ай бұрын
Thx for such great information!! Better to be safe than sorry!!
@nerdyfarmgrl2 ай бұрын
Hey now ...I'm not over 55 for another 15 years... Good informational/thought provoking video as always
@croakingtoad44722 ай бұрын
Canadian RVer here. Our laws are quite a bit different up here, and personal protection while traveling up here can mean using an assortment of methods. First and foremost, no matter where I am and what I am doing, whether on the road, or at home, I always practice a heightened degree of situational awareness. (I'm the type that, when at home, does the walk around checking doors and window locks before going to bed) When travelling we keep the house door locked and when we stop for shopping etc, we always lock the cab doors. While boondocking, I will not park in an isolated spot, or a parking lot that does not have some sort of lighting. As far as the rig is concerned, we have external motion detector lights and video cameras on all sides of the rig, and a door alarm on the house door. That alone makes us a less than desirable target for most of the randoms who may want to approach the rig. When we are "in" for the night, all doors and windows are closed and locked. We also have several "items" within the rig that can be used to deter anyone from entering the rig. They are all within an arms distance no matter where we are in the rig, and scale up in their level of deterrence, starting with always having a charged and working cell phone (to call 911). The next level up is a MUST for all rigs , a fire extinguisher. These non-lethal little buggers, when sprayed into the face of someone trying to enter the rig, can be quite effective as a repellent and aid in incapacitating a would be bad person. We also have several cans of bear spray in the rig. Again, great as a non-lethal human repellent and legal to carry in Canada when out camping (not so legal to carry on your person while out walking around in an urban environment,). Then next level up is a 2 foot long, security flashlight with a taser built in to it. Between the ultra bright light, distorting flashing strobe, and the taser, it packs a threefold punch (it's also long enough and tip heavy enough to make for a good old fashion club.) The other "items" just go up in lethality and carry a lot of controversy with them so we wont mention those here. Now ALL of these things are TOTALLY USELESS, if one does not have the physical and mental ability to use them; and that leads me back to the most important aspects of personal security when RVing, MINDSET. Be alert to your surroundings, , listen to your "gut" instincts. If the location or situation "feels off" leave and head to another spot. Do not get complacent. When overnight boondocking, do not make it so your rig can't get up and go. This is far easier for us as we have a motorhome but can be done with a towable as well.. Someone tries to break the house lock while we're inside, I just jump in the driver's seat, fire the rig up and start rolling. Always be mentally prepared to deal with a hostile situation, be it flight or fight. Have several plans laid out, and follow them I'm an old dog, but did serve in the military when I was young and I truly believe that training, along with regular practice of certain skills, will be enough to ensure mine and my wife's safety. .Be safe out there.
@julietteshore11182 ай бұрын
Thank you. All really good advice. I’m in UK but still these things are so important to take on board. Thanks 🙏
@croakingtoad44722 ай бұрын
@@julietteshore1118 You're welcome. Not all of us live in countries where packing a firearm is practical (or legal), so I thought I'd throw out a few "alternate" methods that are less problematic in those countries. But I still must stress, situational awareness and preventative methods, like avoiding situations to begin with, are far better than trusting any device.
@claramunk74102 ай бұрын
Can you share the flashlight you mentioned ~ if u purchased on Amazon can u possibly share the link
@randythorold73522 ай бұрын
We fellow Canadians. Good points. Thanks
@croakingtoad44722 ай бұрын
@@claramunk7410 I got mine from a local outdoor sports retailer, but there are quite a few similar ones available. I'm not certain links in comments are allowed or appropriate.
@mommaangela93022 ай бұрын
I’m 62 solo towing 33’. I carry a big stainless steel jug with ice in it when I go into gas stops. It has a a place on the lid I can put my hand through and bop you up the side of your head if you mess with me. I try to walk with my shoulders back when going in. I have bear spray handy in my truck. I guess I’m an oddity at campgrounds as people have asked me if I’m alone. I decided for safety measures to get a loveseat camp chair to look like there’s more than one person there. I also put out additional seating. People stopped asking after I did that. I listen to my gut instinct. I’ve been known to leave when it felt off at overnights stops or gas stations, I’ve even started down a trail and it felt wrong so I went back to my vehicle.
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
Well done!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@Randy-v9x2 ай бұрын
The only time your gut is wrong is when you don't listen to it.
@joanies67782 ай бұрын
Back when I used to hike a lot, one day I set out on a trail alone. Not far down the trail I clearly heard the words, "Go BACK!" NO idea what, where, or why... I have learned to listen to that gut instinct without question, especially when it's that loud and clear.
@rolandsorensen96282 ай бұрын
@@joanies6778 Although I do my hiking with my Greater Swiss Mountain Dog mix (87 pounds), I too listen to that instinct. An evening walk in woods in Washington State just didn't feel right so I turned back. Next day I found out from the campground owner that there were bears sighted on the trail later in the evening. My dog is big and protective but not an even match for a bear.
@michellemillette73142 ай бұрын
This is probably going to get worse. I am a single woman and travel by myself with my show dogs. I’m almost 70. I had a a young man come by my motorhome after I stopped at a rest area. He left, but when he was walking away I saw a knife in his hand which was behind him. I’m not a little old lady (yet). I carry.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
That is scary! Glad you were ok, stay safe and thanks for sharing
@sandydemars81002 ай бұрын
That IS scary for sure!
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
So glad you carry!!! I teach an NRA course so I want to add, Get out and practice regularly
@BackcountryExploringAZ2 ай бұрын
Similar happened to my parents a few years back. Their show dogs were three German Shepherds. No problem for the parents.
@pjt38872 ай бұрын
Yes, me too. I'm 56 and starting to feel more vulnerable at times. Concealed carry gives me peace of mind. I live in Washington state on Tuesday a career criminal who should have been locked up in a psychiatric unit for career criminals decided to carjack an 80-year-old woman who was out walking dogs she fought to get the dogs out of the car and he rolled over her killing her and then dumped the car and decided to hurt the dog as well. Had one person had a gun it all would have ended much differently. People tried to come to her aide one of the gentlemen hopped out of the van with a baseball bat but it was too late because he had a knife and was very busy with it. People in Seattle love to talk about how dangerous guns are and I couldn't help but think had someone just had their concealed carry this woman might still be alive and a dog as well. Stay safe. It's going to be like the '70s all over again. With the drug addiction & runaway crime. Police are short staffed and burnt out. The general public gets to be the sitting ducks.
@AcrossAmericawithAliK2 ай бұрын
I am a 49 year old motorhome transporter that travels solo. These are great tips!! I also always pretend like I’m not alone. When leaving the RV, I talk loudly back into the RV like I’m talking to someone. I also talk to truckers. They are a whole community that looks out for each other.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@betterwithrum2 ай бұрын
Rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6. This situation would have ended very differently if he had attacked our family. If you can legally carry, it is your duty to defend your life. Law enforcement can't be everywhere all the time, baddies can be. Fitness only gets you so far when baddies have a knife or a gun. Stay fit and aim small. Tips and Tricks: Smith and Wesson M&P Shield EZ for older folks; Glock 19 for boring folks; Sig Sauer P365 for spicy folks; PSA Dagger Compact for poor folks; H&K P30 for rich folks.
@loraineforshee6992 ай бұрын
Thank you for the info
@jimi.c.e.32002 ай бұрын
@@loraineforshee699 Dead men tell no tales !!
@USA83592 ай бұрын
Your semi-auto bias is shown (I prefer them also). However, not all people can chamber a semi-auto This is were a revolver, like a Ruger SP 101 or SW 60 or even a smaller caliper revolver comes in handy.
@Elizabeth-rq1vi2 ай бұрын
@@betterwithrum one does not have to carry a firearm in order to fulfil your duty ti defend.
@betterwithrum2 ай бұрын
@@Elizabeth-rq1vi I respect your opinion. You are welcome to it. You're categorically wrong, but that's never stopped anyone in history from making poor decisions. I wish you nothing but the best, fellow human. May the odds ever be in your favor.
@virginiabujorian19162 ай бұрын
Situational awareness is key! One of the first things they teach you in a conceal carry class
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@jefflawson94662 ай бұрын
💯 % it is definitely is key to stay one step ahead of potential hazards and threats.
@victorpolston28852 ай бұрын
100% agree. Training is important!!! Practice needs to be consistent.
@mrsjohnson17432 ай бұрын
Head on a swivel.
@tomhestand83852 ай бұрын
One thing I would suggest is if you are in your trailer/RV always lock your door and if you get a knock at the door check out a window before you unlock your door. You can always talk through the window if needed.
@amymichaelsiford9572 ай бұрын
Personal safety has always been a priority for my husband as he is retired PD. Lock your doors, always be mindful of your surroundings. If you choose to carry any weapon, be trained on how to use it and keep proficient. Cameras and phones documenting actions can save lives. Be smart and safe, not paranoid ❤
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
💯 thanks for watching
@dinamarie66462 ай бұрын
Also be aware of law changes as you cross state lines. Many states have welcome centers on the major highways where you can stop to make changes to meet the state law.
@davidschmittsr.31212 ай бұрын
Thank you for the wake up call. My condolences to those that were not so fortunate.
@davemoulton29712 ай бұрын
Situational Awareness is the number 1 deterrent. If you want to carry fine, just know the laws in the state you are travelling in. Non lethal options are available like Byrna, bear spray, wasp spray, etc. Pepper gel is better than pepper spray as it won't blow back on you in windy areas, but both work. Just stay alert and leave the area if your not comfortable. A women's senses are A lot keener than a mans. Trust your wife/girlfriend if they arent comfortable.
@mariaperham18512 ай бұрын
No disrespect intended, but the real problem with what happened to that couple was that a very evil person attacked them. Shame on him! No one should be attacked whether they are in good shape or not. He robbed this man of his life, and his mate of her dear husband. They had the right to live their life in peace, but now everything is changed. So, so sad. Yes we need to be very careful but we also need to teach others how to be decent human beings.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@rebeccazuckman90592 ай бұрын
Right it was all he period.
@tristan721620 күн бұрын
You can't control other people, you can only make the best decisions yourself. Sadly there are awful people in the world. I hope this attacker gets a terminal prison sentence, but that won't bring the man back to life 🙍.
@davidjackman57732 ай бұрын
Always have a means of personal protection. Don't go to states that prohibit your ability to protect yourself.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
AMEN!!! We don’t go to places that don’t honor our 2nd Rights!!!
@poolchuck662 ай бұрын
Agreed. I would try and stay in Constellational carry states if I could.
@Clareopedia2 ай бұрын
Or, don't support the rules of a country that doesn't take seriously the dangers of aggression.
@philliphall51982 ай бұрын
I agree stay in free states
@JohnSmith-bb7rt2 ай бұрын
We are 74 & 71 and in pretty good shape. We avoid states (and Canada) that restrict 2nd Amendment rights. I carry a second amendment device on my person and have 2 others in our Airstream. I practice my second amendment rights at least weekly. We also choose our campsites carefully. Otherwise we enjoy life.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@JCcreates9272 ай бұрын
I am not so scared. Yes things happen but the chances are not high that they will. I have slept a lot with my rv door and windows open and nothing has happened to me or mine.
@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
@@JCcreates927 I agree. One incident and everybody wants to arm up. Crazy.
@47Banjoman2 ай бұрын
@@vanssolo1 One incident is all it takes . We are not crazy for taking steps to keep ourselves, our families and our pets safe. I don't "gun tote". I'm no showboat. But, both my wife and I have CCP's. It's the last thing we'd ever want to do but are willing to if necessary.
@randywaller76852 ай бұрын
I would like to point out... bear spray works on people as well.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Yes it does…
@debragriffith66282 ай бұрын
So does wasp spray!
@ChloeMMorgan2 ай бұрын
@@debragriffith6628and wasp spray has a truer aim and further aim
@davidenorth2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately some people do not respond to pepper sprays due to being under influence of illegal drugs. Stay situationally aware at times.
@bibimcgill2 ай бұрын
This is great information. I was just wondering about bear spray last night.
@tinabarritt72662 ай бұрын
We have been full-time RVing for a year now. When we pull in for diesel or a rest area, I'm always watching now. But when we first started, I was so vigilant about it. But when I heard this story earlier this year, it woke me up. Love how you covered it, too! Thank-you!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching and for the comment
@dannydaugherty5272 ай бұрын
I used to drive trucks cross country, and now days it's way too dangerous, back around 2012 I stopped at a truck stop, and people were all a buzz about something that happened earlier, when a truck driver got twenty bucks from the fuel island, and was attacked for the twenty dollars, I don't know what is going on with society anymore but I want to go back to the 70s and 80s, way better life back then
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Or the 50s/60s…..
@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
@@GratefulGlamper OH back when women couldn't have a bank account or credit card in our own names. No freakin' way....
@judypiersol81722 ай бұрын
So sad
@wizpopr2 ай бұрын
I agree with everything you said. I am a senior but I'm fairly fit and over 6 feet tall and 200 pounds. That is a bit of a deterrent. While I don't travel a lot, I do snowbird from IL to FL. We only stay at campgrounds. No boondocking at Walmart or a rest area. In my opinion that's asking for trouble. I do stay alert to my surroundings when stopping for fuel or for a restroom break. At campgrounds, even when we know our neighbors or are familiar folks, we still lock doors. At this point, I will tell you that I'm more concerned with what happens when someone decides to try to break in. At that point, I do believe in conceal and carry and I'm a vet, so I'm trained. "nuff said.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
💯 thanks for watching and for the comment
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
AMEN! As an NRA instructor, I remind people to get out on the range often! Thanks for your service! Signed; Navy wife , Navy brat & Army m-I-love
@deborahreneelewis72802 ай бұрын
I am a senior woman, in her 70s who drives a big SUV. I also travel with 4 large dogs one of which is my Service Dog. So one of the dogs is always with me. When I stop for gas I check the area as I am driving in, I check before I get out. I put the phone in my pocket and my purse in the foot well under the back seats that are dropped down for the dogs. I lock the door before I get out. I start pump gas without fooling around and while gas pumps I hop back into car and lock the door. I repeat the same procedure when I get out when done pumping gas. Get immediately back into the car and start the car immediately and deal with receipt and mileage, etc. After I move away. I also, carry a flashlight with a taser. Been doing this for years.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Great tips, thanks for sharing
@Pp4Gd2 ай бұрын
I usually go to Costco to for gas. Sure, there can be a waiting time but that means more people around. They also always have an attendant around and I always smile and wave to the attendant and if they can I’ll have a simple fun conversation with them. I also have a steering wheel club by my seat, not only does it lock the steering wheel but it hurts if you accidental hit yourself. ;).
@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
Those are great thing to do to keep safe. My question is, why the taser? Have you ever had to use it?
@deborahreneelewis72802 ай бұрын
@@Pp4Gd I do as well when I can. However, I live in a rural area & the closest Costco is 4 hours away. I do use Costco though whenever I am near one.
@NanaGramАй бұрын
Leaving the refueling process and locking yourself in a car being refueled is NOT a safe solution at all.
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
I teach a course “Refuse to be a Victim” (NRA gun free course) 1) be aware of your surroundings! 2) TRUST your instincts, women are the worst as we think ‘oh I shouldn’t think that about that guy’.. yes you SHOULD 3) have additional latches on your screen doors, as well as your Rig door 4) walk with confidence looking at people! 5) play the “what IF” game. As you are walking through a parking lot (or store etc) think “What would I do if this happens? “ planning at all times will keep your plans sharp in case you need them. 6) If you have to unhook your toad or puller, HOOK them back as soon as you can. 7) DON’T advertise on facecrack etc where you are, or you are out of town! I could go on.. Take regular safety classes & if you carry…. Get out on the range often!!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips!
@mooredre32212 ай бұрын
where do you teach your course?
@johnnyebelindabewley45362 ай бұрын
My dad taught my sisters and me to fight like a man so that we could defend ourselves
@cameoellis13632 ай бұрын
Where do you teach this course? I'm in southern Illinois.
@victorpolston28852 ай бұрын
This is GREAT advice! I like #5 the best and I naturally do this 100% of the time. It surprises me how many people just don't know how to do this.
@user-qi4ff5in9z2 ай бұрын
I love your doggo. He is the best safety device around, and the best emotional support available.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
💙🐾
@brandyramos93722 ай бұрын
Always be aware of stranger, don't let your guard down. Lock your door.
@jayneubauer34012 ай бұрын
As a military veteran, I had veteran plates on my truck (we have a travel trailer) before I moved to Canada. Now I have different articles on the truck that are Marines related. It serves several purposes, but the largest is that people know to look elsewhere if they are looking for "excitement". I diligently practice most of the things you mentioned - staying alert, know your surroundings, apparently I typically "look intimidating", which is really helpful in avoiding that previously mentioned "excitement". As far as your last point, I sincerely hope that no one will ever know my stance....
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your service ‘jar head’ 😉 Signed: Navy Wife , Navy Brat & Army mom
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for your service 🇺🇸
@sarahann5302 ай бұрын
So that's why all those old farts wear military caps and teeshirts . They are trying to look intimidating
@leonhummel5402 ай бұрын
At this point with the same of our country it doesn’t matter how in shape you are it’s the mental state of the attacker being aware of your surroundings pay attention never leave yourself open to attack! I personally believe concealed carry is the best protection but be well advised and trained with your personal carry options.
@cameronbrewer39662 ай бұрын
Once you get by our German Shepherd, then you'll have to deal with me. Say goodnight Gracie.
@margueritebonniwell48182 ай бұрын
We travel with our 85 lb German Shepherd, Bear. Haven't had any trouble yet!
@tammydonovan19072 ай бұрын
We also have a German shepherd, great protection she barks if someone talks to me. She will sit right in front of me until she deams you safe
@elladopiriak93512 ай бұрын
Stopping at a rest area south of portland, oregon one evening after dark...I was walking to the rest rooms with my German Shepherd...I noticed 3 men standing together near the buildings....they appeared to be perusing the people who were coming and going into the restrooms and parking lot....I will tell you my spider sense kicked in.....I noticed that they watched me coming down the sidewalk...I know that i would be an easy mark...an old fat woman in her seventies....but as I watched them their eyes went to the dog by my side on a leash.....and all three took a partial step back....that was a very strange moment...creepy....
@Veetribe.2 ай бұрын
We also went full-time with our German shepherd,,at 1st I thought why did we choose such a big dog..we're old and we still have young kids..our dog is amazing,,she won't even allow people to approach our children or grandchildren without a firm warming 😉..staying safe requires a line of defense and a backup plan
@barbaralawrence56172 ай бұрын
Awareness, confidence, common sense, and a big dog (rotties for me) are absolute musts.
@mymoneyyourchoice40882 ай бұрын
2A folks. Conceal carry, pepper spray, pocket knife...setup your EDC for your lifestyle.
@williamhibbits88832 ай бұрын
My wife and I have camped in every state except Alaska and Hawaii. We also have camped in Canada. We have been camping for over 50 years and we have never had a serious problem. On a recent trip from Ohio to Florida we stopped for fuel in Elizabeth Town Kentucky at a Five-star gas station/convenient mart in a very good neighborhood. I filled up with fuel and got in our 2021 Thor Compass. I looked in the passenger side mirror and saw a man carrying 2 Jack Russel type dogs unleashed coming toward the camper. He tried to pull open the camper door. It was dead bolted and locked. He looked in the passenger side door and said something we could not understand. He returned to his green Chevy 1/2 ton truck with his 2 unleashed dogs. Keep your doors locked and have a way to protect your family if an intruder gains access to your home on wheels. Be safe and prepared. America is not what she use to be. Now for the rest of the story. We did not confront the man. We continued on I 65 south toward the Sunshine State. After a couple of miles I saw the green Chevy truck with his 4 ways on approaching, he pulled beside us. We could see him and the 2 dogs. He was very close to us. He tried to run us off the road. I slammed on the brakes to avoid hitting the truck however I did not stop. He tried this 3 times and was not able to get us to stop. We were in panic mode. My wife called 911. He was beside us again in his attempt to stop us. He saw me with the phone and sped off. We were able to get a partial plate number. We could see him at a great distance because he had his cargo light on in the rear of the truck bed. 911 told us they would let them know. The green truck with his cargo light on had pulled over at the next exit, waiting for us. We did not know what we would have to endure next. A class C RV had passed us and my wife suggested we stay close to the class C RV which I did. Maybe that is why the green truck did not try to follow us. Warnings to follow: 1. Keep your doors locked. 2. Purchase a dash cam. (We now have one) 3. Security cameras (we have them at home) 4. Have a way to protect yourself if someone gains access to your rv. 5. Do not stop. 6. If you are older you are a target. 7. 911 was no help. This was typed on Sticky Notes. It happened to my wife and I on October 31, 2022 at 7:08 am.
@belindah97902 ай бұрын
Totally terrifying! What was with the dogs? He sounds very mental Thank God, you’re OK
@gabikq822 ай бұрын
Glad you’re ok, how terrifying
@judyross182Ай бұрын
Good storytelling and important details. Thanks for the info.
@chelegerson209327 күн бұрын
@@belindah9790 My first thought was this deranged person would toss the dogs in the RV first to attack the occupants. Sick.
@belindah979027 күн бұрын
@@chelegerson2093 very!!!
@watching-and-judging-you2 ай бұрын
My rules are simple: situational awareness and not being nose deep into your phone. I have a less than lethal Byrna in hopes of de escalation, but also a real pew for the worst case. It also helps that I have a rescue LEO GSD K9. It never hurts to mutter and yell to yourself like a crazy, if you start to get the weird feels.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Yes, thanks for sharing!
@watching-and-judging-you2 ай бұрын
@@GratefulGlamperit also helps to know how to deal with the unfortunate situation like a knife attack, in that the outer facing portion of the forearm is the best tool for deflecting a knife swipe. There are no arteries in this area. Yes you will get cut bad, but won’t bleed out.
@wesleycarlisle30252 ай бұрын
@@GratefulGlamper I'm 58 and heart patient I need more info on self defense ?
@lisaphares22862 ай бұрын
I love that! Crazy acting people do scare all people.
@a.h.34562 ай бұрын
Good advice! Acting crazy in a dangerous situation helped King David!
@rodneylw102 ай бұрын
This may sound weird but I have always been judged by people as "an approachable" person. I have been in two very bad situations in my lifetime- twice attacked but when I was younger and in my home city of FL. My brother, a retired policeman and who lived in Manhattan and Boston, told me that the best thing to do in an unfamiliar environment is be very non expressive and more deadpan and look at no one but look around and assess the space.
@hg2.2 ай бұрын
And note the insulting superficiality of how this was reported on "the news".
@glorianewsom62002 ай бұрын
I'm highly aware of my surroundings even though my husband often is not. My dad raised me to be aware and defensive, always prepared and knowing where my exits are. I appreciate the details in the video and many in the comments. I've not seen mention yet that most key fobs have an alarm/panic button for noise making. Use the alarm to attract helpful attention if intuition alerts you. Of course keys between your fingers folded into a fist can also be a good defense if things get physical. As a child I was attacked by 4 older kids, I tried and it worked: bend your knees and twist at the waist and lift your wings (with elbows and fists out). They all backed away. Move with a purpose; don't lolly-gag. Thanks for sharing valuable information.
@carlrice36372 ай бұрын
There's 9 millimeters of separation between you being safe or being a victim... Unfortunately, self-defense classes rely on close contact with a perpetrator. Everything else you mentioned will start and end with your total awareness of your surroundings. The only true advantage you have before shtf...
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@SkoolieB2 ай бұрын
We travel in our 40’ Skoolie with a 200lb English Mastiff. Just did. 12,000 mile trip from Alaska to the lower 48 and back. If we don’t have our dog with us I always carry bear spray, not mace. Bear spray is legal to carry crossing back in forth through Canada. The dog just deters 99% of folks. The high, and mentally ill are not deterred all that much. Still, if someone’s got a gun, there isn’t much we can do. We just try to stay aware, and don’t get out, or wait a bit until it feels safer. Or just drive to the next off ramp,rest area, or business. Believe it or not most truck stops are safe, but noisy. As an old trucker we stay at them quite a bit, when we just need 8 hours or so of quick sleep.
@LiveYourSomedayNow2 ай бұрын
Thanks for this important message. Every so often there is an awful tragedy like this and it reminds us that as full time RVers we always have to take precautions.
@nomansland48112 ай бұрын
Situational awareness is the key. Crooks love a victim who is walking around with their head in the clouds oblivious to their surroundings. If you can, be armed and have the confidence and will to defend yourself. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Stay with your traveling companions. Non lethal weapons are crap unless you are some kind of well trained self defense expert. Don’t travel remote areas such as rest stops at night. Be where you need to be by dark.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Great tips, thanks for sharing
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! My dad brought me up with “judged by 12, than to be carried by 6” 💁🏻♀️ Also important to practice & train! Blessings,
@BuckJones19092 ай бұрын
A great refresher video! I watched a video of felons viewing people on a video & when asked they all independently picked the same potential targets! Main lesson don’t give off a vulnerable vibe & don’t display apparent wealth! A small container of Bear Spray Gel (not liquid) has multiple protection qualities. Thank you for exploring this necessary but difficult subject!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@austinboone22652 ай бұрын
I highly recommend the LCP .380. Fits in your front pocket like a phone. I don’t leave my house without it.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Good to know, thanks for the comment
@tomogletree12 ай бұрын
Buy the LCP .380 II the original one has a terrible trigger
@dwaineesch13442 ай бұрын
Great option for states 2A friendly; however, be careful in the antigun states. Research where you can carry before you end up in hot water. Plenty of resources and groups online.
@austinboone22652 ай бұрын
@@dwaineesch1344 , great point sir! Thankfully I have no desire to go to California, New York or New Jersey lol!
@dwaineesch13442 ай бұрын
@@austinboone2265 Maryland, any New England State, there are many more out there. Thankfully, I live in Alabama and have my freedom. I only travel in the South where I can protect myself and my family.
@nicoleadderley9752 ай бұрын
Don't post on Social Media while you are not at home and don't post your travel plans. People surf social media looking for their next victim. Several years ago a neighboring town had 6 houses broken into over Memorial Day Weekend while families were away on holiday. The criminals found the empty homes because of social media posts and every victim had a link to the thieves because they were friends of friends or family members of a friend or some other connection that just trickled down the social media stream. Social Media is all knowing and is not private, no matter how private you try to make it.
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
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@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
💯 we don’t post anything until we are no longer in that area - hence why much of our travel content isn’t “real time”
@CassandraTorque2 ай бұрын
My dog, Pews, motion activated solar lights $ Security Camera’s are my go to! I always park in front of my trailer tongue (because I’ve heard horror stories of campers getting stolen while someone was asleep in it)! Motion activated solar lights alert me when someone is on my campsite at night & of course my dog alerts me too 😂
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@heathgleason41662 ай бұрын
that's why we carry whenever we're on the road. but the name of the game is situational awareness you have to have your head on a swivel its sad but true
@rolandsorensen96282 ай бұрын
You mentioned carrying keys but didn't point out that most vehicles today have remote unlocking key fob that also is equipped with a "panic button" which sets off the car alarm or horn. Whether you are in the RV or vehicle or outside that is a loud and effective way to scare off someone who is looking to assault you. It also alerts others in the area that something is amiss.
@ChrisW2282 ай бұрын
We just discussed this during an all female camping trip. We don’t feel this protects us because “everyone” just ignores car alarms. We made a pact then and there not to do so. If we heard an alarm on that trip, we agreed to all converge on the spot.
@lisaphares22862 ай бұрын
I was doing contract work and drove from Ohio to CA. I took my 65 lb dog with me. Found out earlier that if I felt angry/upset towards someone, in this case hunters going on a popular hiking trail, he would growl and lunge at large men. I did go to the ranger station and report them and found out they could hunt there, but there were no signs to alert people. The rangers gave the spiel, but when I just looked at him, he said yeah I know, he didn’t like that he had to permit it and it did endanger hikers. My dog’s normal personality was all people are friends or potential friends. I had to tell him all people don’t want to pet him when I could see they were afraid of him. He became better known at the apartment I was staying at than me! Had a woman open her window and ask if that was Buddy. When I said yes, she said her husband talks about Buddy, could she and her children pet him. This absolutely made his day. But I knew he would protect me. As a single 140 lb woman, I know I can be a target so I am always alert and paying attention to my surroundings as I don’t want to become a statistic.
@user-qi4ff5in9z2 ай бұрын
I just subscribed bcuz you are doing safety tips. Whether you live on the road or not, safety is key for everyone. When I drove rideshare, there would be no parking at my building, so I had to park three blocks away. I would double park in our lot, and take my stuff upstairs. Then, when walking 3 blocks, at 2-3 am, I had my head on a swivel, and no hand bag or anything ready to be stolen. I had only my keys in one hand and zapper in the other. I knew where the blind spot for the video security was @my building, so I didn’t use that entrance. Hint: public transportation > Never sit or stand at the bus stop or train station with your eyes on your phone. Always stand or sit with your back to the wall, otherwise someone can sneak behind you, get you in a headlock or use a garrot, and strangle you, or drag you to anywhere. Don’t use both ear buds, so you can hear what’s going on around you.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for subscribing and for the comment!
@debragriffith66282 ай бұрын
We always have our air horn beside the door. Wasp spray that sprays about 10-15 ft away, and our more serious things on our side. When my husband is out pumping gas I am watching all around us. Our dog is not huge but very protective. There are plenty of good people out there but now with the open boarder there are thousands that are already breaking the law and have no fear of our laws. It pays to be vigilant!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@theresapalmer-s8p2 ай бұрын
American born kid from Ohio...not someone who crossed the open border. Worry less about them and more about everyone else.
@victorpolston28852 ай бұрын
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@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
YES!
@eviewhite32292 ай бұрын
Age 72, fairly fit, taller woman, not heavy and not skinny, have been told I’m intimidating, walk confidently, try to stay aware of surroundings…make it obvious I’m looking around….when traveling alone. Often drive longer distances in large pickup alone. When I stop for rest break/nap, I text my husband exactly where I am and how long I may be resting…and take pictures of the area. Then text when I’m headed back on the road. Also “often” exercise right to carry.
@JonnieShipbaugh-dc9wk2 ай бұрын
I have recently transitioned into an RV life and I watch and appreciate your videos. They are generally very pertinent and helpful, thank you.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching and best wishes
@margaretkrueger96642 ай бұрын
Thanks for the tips. I am always searching my location for thing that look out of the ordinary and all the way we can exits a situation if need be. My husband is disabled being aware is the most important tip I can give.
@kathyjoslin13612 ай бұрын
Things are definitely much different now. We were lack’s on the door locking at first. It irritates my husband but since the couple in Texas got murdered I am locking our RV door every time I come in. I need to be better at rest stops. Thanks for the info
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@glorianewsom62002 ай бұрын
Yes, even when awake and day light. I've seen people "accidentally" enter the wrong RV. That doesn't happen if locked.
@darlenedavis86902 ай бұрын
I totally agree with people becoming too absorbed in phones and earbuds. If I'm wearing earbuds in public, I only use 1. My earbuds also have a "transparent" mod that allows me to hear what's going on around me. I read an article years ago on being aware of your surroundings at ALL times (especially women who are alone). Always walk with your head up and constantly scan your surroundings. Being aware of who/what's around you can also make you aware if someone else might need your assistance. Also, know where you parked your car. I can't tell you how often I see people wandering around a parking lot looking for their car because they forgot where they parked, and lock all your doors immediately after entering your vehicle.
@markreynolds95702 ай бұрын
We are in our 60s and travel all the time. My answer is that both of us carry. So if My glock 20 didnt end this, my wifes glock 19 would have. Dont be fools. Remember when seconds count, police are only minutes away. You are 911 these days. Your afraid to be de-monitized. So now you've lost your 1st ammendment rights too.
@flyingdutchwoman2 ай бұрын
not allowed to carry in Canada, same with pepper spray. as for this channel being afraid. get stuffed buddy. retired truck driver. as a woman one has to be more alert as a lot of men out there think it is ok to manhandle a female at truck stops. stay alert ladies and trust no one in truck stops. or rest stops.
@sandydemars81002 ай бұрын
Can you have bear spray? The Byrna? In Canada?
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
I teach an NRA course and always remind people to range practice. Regarding Canada, as was mentioned above, WASP spray is legal to carry & use to take out bugs🤷♀️ We personally won’t go to places that doesn’t honor my 2nd rights.
@Elizabeth-rq1vi2 ай бұрын
@@sandydemars8100no. Unless you’re in the bush away from civilization & in bear country you cannot use it on another human. As for a Byrna, apparently it is considered a firearm but apparently is exempt from licensing but and there’s a few buts, it can’t be concealed, can only be used in self defence & some municipalities have their own restrictions. Basically, do your research.
@halliard11172 ай бұрын
Dont be fools goes both ways. There are too many legal cases where the victim lost using that same argument. State, federal, county laws vary. We all have to consider our risk tolerance. If going to jail or years in court battles using your retirement to pay the legal fees is an acceptable risk, that is your tolerance.
@flynurse4kids2 ай бұрын
We had a huge discussion after this occurred and came to the conclusion that surrendering whatever the perp wants is most likely the best strategy unless you can get the upper hand. I think often the first reaction is to fight but at what cost. Very sad and horrifying.
@berthogendoorn21332 ай бұрын
When we RV, we always head to Provincial Park Campgrounds in Canada with lots of trails for hiking, water for Kayaking and we spent alt least 1-1/2 to 2 hours a day doing these outdoor events, we do not really call them exercises as they are really rewarding activities. As such we also carry bear spray for those out back park hikes in the BC mountains so that in it's self would be a good deterrent to any violent attacks. I for one am always in the moment, no headphones or ear buds as I am enjoying nature.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
👍 Bear spray is great personal protection, thanks for sharing.
@Powerstroke982 ай бұрын
You need to remember, many of your subscribers that RV are Canadians, and basically any weapon cannot be carried/used, which is unfortunate, at least to give you some confidence in 'having' safety! Nonetheless, I'll tell you a short story, where on a solo hunting trip several years back, I got myself a Motel room for the night, and was awoken to some noise outside. There was a young fellow (I say young as he apparently was 19 years old) trying to break a side window out of a vehicle opposite of the room I was in. He wasn't able to, so he went to a second vehicle, did the same..again, no luck, although he did keep trying. After a while he left, walking behind the opposite side of Motel rooms between the parking lot. About 15 minutes later, the alarm goes off on my pickup truck, so I stuck my head out the door and asked what he was doing...his answer, he's trying to get into 'his' truck...so I quickly slid on my jeans and t-shirt, and headed outside. After getting out the door the guy was coming right at me! Now, I'm in my early 70's, and now very angry...so I put him in a head-lock, and I could tell after a short while my energy level being angry was cutting off his breathing...so I let off somewhat, and he came to life again, trying to fight me. I had bare feet, but we ended up in the gravel parking lot, but again I got the better of him, back in a head-lock again, to where we fell down, and I held him until the police arrived, as the owners had heard the scuffle. He tried telling me he just wanted something to drive to town...nonetheless, my hand was bleeding, my feet where bleeding and the woman owning the Motel came to my room and cleaned up the best she could. That was the one and only fight I've had in my life, and he had no weapons (thankfully) so as you say, staying in relatively good shape, you can hold your own if you try. When the adrenalin kicks in, one can truly not realize what they are capable of honestly. Thank you for this, as like you we have a Class A diesel pusher, and tow our Honda CRV. One thing that came to mind, when you mentioned about being able to leave quickly...we have to take the key out of our CRV, and put the transmission in Park, so leaving would be tough, if we had to quickly. Perhaps a manual transmission vehicle wouldn't have that issue, but we do as I'm sure do others. No idea if there are ideas on this issue, but I'd sure love to hear them! We're Snowbirds, so we do travel and use Rest Area's, so a big thanks for tackling this issue, as it's much appreciated!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@stevehunt97032 ай бұрын
Note to Canadians if you go to any good sporting goods store and by the orange flare gun in an orange floating box you will find this great in your boat or RV. A flare in the face would scare most attackers away. Note a 12 gauge shotgun shell is the same size as the flare shell. In Canada of course you have no right to defend your self and can be charged if you do as the criminals rights are just so much more important than honest people's but if you have to fire a flare gun to defend yourself or family you at least get to be judged by a Jury, which is better than dead. Alternatively move to the US. I love Canada but having to be defence less is just not on. In the past we have had to call 911 a number of times and they just dont come so you really are on your own.
@sush20432 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly about towing our CRV and waiting while the diesel warms up before we'd be able to start driving.
@manfredfritz60682 ай бұрын
Don't stop at rest stops -- we only stop at big truck stops
@Veetribe.2 ай бұрын
That's exactly what I was going to say..we only stopped there in a emergency
@davemoulton29712 ай бұрын
You can be a target anywhere. Even in big truck stops!
@reneedickerson44892 ай бұрын
Don't forget your golf 😉 clubs. I'm praying for the Weaver family and all those in need.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@hatterascaljones67882 ай бұрын
I often camp alone. I have a giant pair of men’s boots that I keep outside my camper door. I also sleep with my car keys under my pillow so I can set off the car alarm in an emergency.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Great tips. Thanks for sharing
@vanssolo12 ай бұрын
I think that so many people use the boot thing that it is a dead giveaway that there is a single woman inside.
@krissapayne86892 ай бұрын
Thank you for the car keys tip! I never thought of that. They will now be within arms reach when I’m asleep!
@glorianewsom62002 ай бұрын
Good ideas. I also have started keeping a dog dish and dog leash outside my door, even though I don't have pets.
@glorianewsom62002 ай бұрын
@@vanssolo1no, boots are not a dead give away, but glad you already know of that trick.
@daleadoherty70002 ай бұрын
Buy a Byrna. Not lethal weapon or carry a gun. You can't assume you are always safe. Crime is EVERYWHERE.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
We’ve heard of that, definitely a consideration
@richardrosene97382 ай бұрын
We never leave home without them. They are legal in every state. No permits or licenses are needed.
@keithtrumble70292 ай бұрын
First time I saw it was in a RV magazine, haven't left home without it since. I also have Bad Guy Repellent
@MelissaPeper2 ай бұрын
Yes, I've got mine.
@johndowns56152 ай бұрын
Byrna is an excellent option
@martykong35922 ай бұрын
: ( THANKS for sharing this tragic event... , my condolences to the widow : ( I think awareness is key and have tried to teach to daughters and Grandson. Be prepared as best you can. ALL the BEST and safe travels to ALL ! ! !
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@smokey68852 ай бұрын
Add an outside cameras, so you can see what’s going on around you before you step out the door. Most vehicle key fobs have a panic button on them, they make a lot of noise, headlights flashing, which attracts attention. The last thing A perpetrator wants. Pay attention to what’s going on around you.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Good tips, thanks for sharing
@victorpolston28852 ай бұрын
I love the 360 camera viewing of our RV! I cannot agree enough with this statement about an outside camera for monitoring.
@bobtomes49772 ай бұрын
You have been viewing many experiences DON'T Stop, the People look more than is Told.KEEP UP THE HARD WORK.❤
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@davemacpherson47522 ай бұрын
I hear of tragedies and near tragedies. I want people, they don’t listen, they’re extremely naive, stubborn and rarely listen. People who isolate themselves and isolate themselves in the backcountry are asking for trouble and it’s sad.
@Freedomfreak2 ай бұрын
Always be aware of your surroundings, get training and utilize your 2A…You must meet force with a higher force to end a encounter, we all hope and pray we never have to encounter this but if we do be prepared.
@Lacysontheloose2 ай бұрын
Situational awareness is key …. Gotta pay attention to where you are and ask around, folks will often tell you if you should or should not stop somewhere. Broken glass, needles, trash and so on will tell you what’s happened there. Don’t be afraid, be aware. Great video Charity!!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@rsgrsg136125 күн бұрын
I have a 47-state carry permit with the way people are today. You just never know. When I'm driving, I also keep a big can of auto brake cleaner next to me in the seat.if I use a rest area bathroom I take it with me.
@GratefulGlamper25 күн бұрын
That is a good idea! You never know what might happen on the road!
@kevinclark13482 ай бұрын
Once we are in the RV for the night, I ensure the steps are retracted in and the doors are locked. Second, as you stated situational awareness, looking around your surroundings all of the time where ever your at. Also my wife and I both are certified to carry, train, train, train is key. Ours are with in reach at all times unless guests are over, then put in the safe. Never let a stranger in, talk through the doors or an upper window if need be. Thanks for the video, good tips. Be safe everyone.
@arbonneladyTN2 ай бұрын
👏🏼YES!!! TRAIN train train!!!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment and for watching
@Veetribe.2 ай бұрын
Our first yr of full-time rvers..was 2020..we had to drive through areas where they're was riots..my husband is a retired semi driver..friends told us to arm your self, bear spray in the truck and rv..a dog..and having a siren on your key chain..pepper spray..it's very effective
@dawngrey2592 ай бұрын
Pepper gel is a better option as you are less likely to be affected by it also.
@NormanMorris-n4r2 ай бұрын
just watched your safety vlog from 4 years ago, what a change you have both made, keep up the good work.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@donnabumeter38172 ай бұрын
Sadly, this couple live only about 30 minutes from us, in Missouri, and in the same community our kids have lived for 20 years. While we do not know them, our hearts break for the wife and family. We, too, are RVers in our 70's and try to always be aware of our surroundings when we stop at Rest Areas to walk the dogs and at fuel stations. This is a practice we have used for many, many years and taught our children every day of their adolescent to adult lives. We still remind them of this any time they are out. We travel with two dogs and almost never leave the RV without them or each other when we stop at Rest Areas. At fuel stations I always keep my eye on my husband and the surroundings. We live in a very scary world but, it is not going to keep us from enjoying our travels. Happy Glamping and may God Bless and keep us all safe.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@shannonhudson86252 ай бұрын
I live in Lincoln County, NE and am always on guard at the rest areas. There have been 2 murders at the I-80 rest stop thats in our county. GBR
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Super sad….but yes, GBR
@steveheun36962 ай бұрын
Also heard a statistic that there is a truck stop or 2 in that area notorious for human trafficking. Who would suspect that in Midwest?
@elizabethfaulkner18912 ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing the awareness of this tragedy. By heart goes out to the Weaver family. I donated a small amount to their go fund me. If everyone posting here would do the same maybe that would help them get to their financial goal. Will not bring Mr. weaver back but will show them there are still good people in this world.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@marjamesquire81412 ай бұрын
Our RV is only for vacationing and weekend excursions. But when we are on our RV trips, we hike non stop even if the campsite is not in the woods. We will just do laps around wherever the site is, and bring our rollerblades & badminton set. I also keep a yoga mat to do core work. I don’t find my RV trips to be lazy. And if we are in a city with a rink, we will even go ice skating. Then again, i take figure skating and hockey classes when home, and go to our local gym a few times a week. We fight hard to not be sedentary!
@martyh47772 ай бұрын
We use plant fitness black card program to work out when in proximity to any fitness facility across the US. Depending on the state regulations and if needed, we open or concealed carry, but also have other devices for defense.
@charliecarter3763Ай бұрын
I must say, when I am out I am carrying. 2 years ago, I was off grid with my 5 year old when I was approached by a man claiming to be part of the ranger patrol. He got so close to me that we were sharing air. I declared at that time, I was carrying and would not miss the shot that close. He left pretty quickly. There are scary people out there and everyone must be prepared to protect themselves.
@Mark_Lawler2 ай бұрын
I have the popular fuel card that RVers use and I cannot tell you how many times I have been approached at a major fuel stop while fueling or even at a rest stop (yes, I have stopped at that same rest stop). Sometimes it is a trucker curious about my RV, but other times it is a random person who asks to use my points for showers and such. Living in Los Angeles as long as I did I learned to have everything locked at all times, walk around with a different set of keys laced between my fingers, act like my head is on a swivel, if one person is trying to talk with me being on the lookout for a partner who may try to come up alongside or behind me, and carry myself like I am amped up and may be looking for a fight myself. Most people try to avoid crazy so that's the persona I project. Sad that I cannot have a quality convo with a trucker who means well, I am using the fuel pumps they rely on to make a living, but I am just trying to avoid being a target. Oh, and the wife has had extensive krav maga training. I pitty the fool that tries anything on her. Thanks for the video. Best...
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing and for watching
@TeacherTonya742 ай бұрын
Thank you for reminding all of us to be safe, RV'er or not! You be safe too!~
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@sandymanning87442 ай бұрын
Thank you Charity for your helpful tips. Praying for the Weavers family.💕🙏💕
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
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@kathyschaefer24552 ай бұрын
I lock my doors as soon as I am getting in. I drove solo over the road truck driver for 14 years and was 42 when I started driving. Before cell phones. I learned to always pay attention to everything around me when walking. So many are looking a their phones while walking. Not a good idea. After dark I never walk close to other vehicles and look all around you.
@djroberts102 ай бұрын
Martial art is a great way to learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones. I studied tae kwon do years ago with a sensei who taught the Korean military. He taught us to walk away and only use what he taught us if you have no other choice. In some cases you might take some firearm training and learn gun laws. Man’s best friend is another option you might want to consider. There are a lot of things that should be consider when it comes to you and your family’s security. Money can be replaced lives cannot be replaced. I have noticed that high end coaches have a safe room door on the bedroom, that can be closed and secured. That would be something to consider when ordering a new coach. My dad taught firearms in the military. He always said to me “ never point a loaded gun at anyone unless you intend to use it and never let anyone point a loaded gun at you “. Hopefully you will never have to deal with either of those situations. Stay safe and safe travels
@sahmof72 ай бұрын
Wow. We live 45 minutes from this and didn't hear about it. Thank you for sharing. Very tragic.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Very sad indeed. Thanks for watching
@lightgodess242 ай бұрын
Thank you for your channel and being honest even about the hard topics. I have been considering going full time with my kids and nobody else makes level headed videos on this topic.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the kind words and for watching
@bwskimo522 ай бұрын
Had to laugh again, Charity! I am one of those over 55. I am a single, 71 year old, 5'2" 120 lb woman who usually travels alone, except for my 75 lb yellow lab, Boux! (I'm from Louisiana, rhymes with roux, lol) And, my safety is a concern. I am very careful about where I stop and try to always be vigilant of my surroundings. Good work. Enjoy your videos, especially the diy's and organizational videos!
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching, safe travels
@outofsightadventures44452 ай бұрын
We put ring doorbell, cameras throughout and all the way around the RV. In this way, we can constantly monitor the RV while we are in or away from our camper. These cameras can record or be viewed live with communication abilities to deter or fool possible intruders. They are also motion censored to where we can be alerted before anyone is actually close enough to break in and gives time to scare off intruder or call authorities. Just having a recognizable camera at our front door acts as a deterrent to possible theft or malicious act.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Very much so! We have the blink cameras all around our RV for the same reason. Thanks for watching
@meridethhendry57332 ай бұрын
We are both 75 and never go without our two big dogs. They are both cream puffs. However their bark is huge and they can be, and are, very threatening to strangers who come into their territory.
@kburkes42452 ай бұрын
I'm a car traveler, but I hardly ever stop at interstate rest stops. They just don't feel safe to me. I would rather stop at a convenience store with lots of other people around. The more people that are around, the safer you are. Of course, you have to pick your locations carefully too, but I usually scout my route before I get on the road.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Great tips, thanks for sharing and for watching
@sldrock2 ай бұрын
Thanks for all the safety reminders. Something that's much needed.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Always!
@MrRMB12 ай бұрын
These are excellent tips! Situational awareness is first. In addition, I carry a Byrna loaded with teargas and we both carry stun/flashlights. I don't care if I never have to use them.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
100%
@MarcyR-c2v2 ай бұрын
I just commented on another channel she was just sitting in her van editing and all of a sudden she looked up and a guy was actually walking into the van, she screamed get out, what are you doing? He looked at her but then he did leave! I'm just starting to hear about more of weird things happening, more people are just doing weird stuff. Thank you so much for your information ❤
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@AKMORRISON532 ай бұрын
Be aware. I carry. Trust no stranger. Try not being out after dark. Keep doors locked. Use motion lights.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Good tips!
@Josejojo19692 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this important video, there’s not only Retired full-time RVs on the road and then campgrounds and in rest stops there are people that work on the road that live in their RV, like remote workers, travel, nurses, truck, drivers, and other people have chosen their careers and living in an RV, I think this message needs to get out into the public express she throughout the RV community
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment and for watching
@PattisArtInnaVan27 күн бұрын
A few other safety tips that I have not seen mentioned. Always BACK into your parking spot so that you do not have to maneuver your rig should you need to make a quick getaway. Also, always keep your keys in the same spot so that you can reach for them automatically without having to go on a search and rescue for them. And lastly - privacy curtains. Dash cams, front and back that record movement outside and send a notice to your phone. Motion sensor lights on the outside of your rig. Travel safe!
@richardhall5221Ай бұрын
For older or more frail rv'ers I would recommend having a 20 gauge shotgun (Younger or in better shape, 12 gauge), loaded with Winchester #4 buckshot. Less recoil, and that load does not "over penetrate". Meaning it minimizes the risk to other people that may be near by. This method is ONLY recommended if someone actually gains entry inside your rv while you are in there.
@patrickmclean86172 ай бұрын
Extremely bright flashlights can be useful for self protection. They sell flashlights on their highest setting that are brighter than both highbeams on a vehicle combined. Flashing that in someone's face generally will make them recoil in pain and be disabled until they can see again.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@dwaineesch13442 ай бұрын
maglight, heavy and metal
@elizabetha20562 ай бұрын
Thank You! We needed to hear this.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@kimdowdy4026Ай бұрын
I just watched and I’m horrified of what happened. I diligently listened to all your safety tips. I have a practice that I think your viewers could incorporate in ways to stay safe. I start looking for gas stations when my tank is down to a quarter. Two reasons: finding a station before I run out in case they are widespread AND if I do find a remote station I give myself the option of not stopping if it looks sketchy. I tow so as a woman, I’m VERY aware of where I exit my vehicle. Even if it’s a well populated area. But on the road I’ve learned to give myself options.
@GratefulGlamperАй бұрын
Great tip, thanks for sharing
@AndreaHarrington2 ай бұрын
Another great video. My husband tells me to be aware all the time. Yes I’m 65 and do need to exercise.
@thecadman68Ай бұрын
If you don’t want to “carry”, you can still carry mace. There are much fewer restrictions to worry about state to state, it’s very affective but non-lethal and is much cheaper than a firearm.
@suzannewise80452 ай бұрын
I always overnight at a campground, just feel safer than overnighting at a parking lot.
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
💯
@sissinoklahoma20572 ай бұрын
We made the mistake of not knowing, even though we checked reviews, that a campground we were going to stay overnight in was a Party Spot. Nothing before dark gave indication. Then, a full caravan of 20-somethings showed up with tents, pop-ups, campers, etc, and started throwing down immediately. Camp Host was "gone for the evening" supposedly. We didn't settle in, just wanted to sleep, so we cranked up and left by midnight when the bonfires (6 of them on the lakeside) started having fireworks added. Made damn sure I got my money back, but my point of this story is just to be vigilant. Campgrounds don't guarantee safety. Be vigilant and aware at all times.
@dustinjohnson14102 ай бұрын
I don't understand staying at a rest area. They are busy, loud, and dangerous. I don't think it is a secret that you are at a greater risk at rest areas and truck stops.
@laurakilmer86522 ай бұрын
This is a great video that everyone that camps any should watch. thanks
@GratefulGlamper2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@Cmesich2 ай бұрын
Perhaps someone has already mentioned this, but if your phone battery is running out and you don't have a means of charging it, change your voicemail, starting with "Help" and state where you are and your situation so someone can try to get help to you!
@carlstanoyevic3070Ай бұрын
Fifty years of driving truck you must be aware in a rest area watch for truck drivers don’t be afraid to ask one of them for help most are willing to help even be a look out for you remember safety in numbers. So sorry for this tragedy.🙏🏻