The Easiest Way To Have Friends With Benefits

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AskToddV

AskToddV

Күн бұрын

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@AskToddV
@AskToddV 4 жыл бұрын
The lessons of game are just as important for KEEPING relationships and having healthy relationships on your terms, as they are for meeting girls in the first place. Here is a quick primer in that area. And for more step-by-step guidance in game, check out the links in the description that I can't seem to post here... lol.
@stineldo
@stineldo 4 жыл бұрын
any release date planned yet?
@jeremyfoot8996
@jeremyfoot8996 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, I have a question you may or may not have answered... I would like to know what is the definition of game, and what is its purpose or purposes. I'm asking this because some channels have already gave a light definition and goal to game but you often give a more realistic, interesting and more comprehensive answer. BTW, learning game from you got me out of depression. Keep up the great work and education you give us. -Jeremy
@JeffreyGillespie
@JeffreyGillespie 4 жыл бұрын
This is so simple and brilliant.
@rko.8027
@rko.8027 4 жыл бұрын
"The less you are willing to offer, the harder it will be to keep it all together" - This is the key takeaway IMO. Women will do almost anything for you when they feel like they have your attention and affection but will act incredibly stubborn if you take any of that away from them. They'll still sleep with you but negotiating becomes far more difficult.
@activatekruger446
@activatekruger446 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t this conflict with the theory that the less you care the more she chases you??
@ambersummer2685
@ambersummer2685 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully I’ll eventually get sick and tired of him and move on. This is literally my first heartbreak and I don’t want to feel this ever again. I thought I finally found someone but I don’t think he’s interested anymore. Thankfully we didn’t have sex and he’s honestly doing the right thing canceling our two dates.
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын
@@activatekruger446 I don't think Todd espouses a theory that says the less you care the more she chases you. The ideal for getting/keeping her chasing would probably be intermittent or moderate amounts of caring and reciprocating, not minimal.
@ambersummer2685
@ambersummer2685 2 жыл бұрын
I love how the opposite advice for women is to leave him when he makes the relationship feel like a relationship like this.
@ArsenElMentalista
@ArsenElMentalista 4 жыл бұрын
When is verbal academy coming out?
@Kingarthurjohn
@Kingarthurjohn 4 жыл бұрын
Todd do some text/sc game now we’re all in quarantine
@rodderoon
@rodderoon 4 жыл бұрын
It's cool to see who's teaching this stuff the right way. Btw ppl- If your local gov issues lockdown, don't go out and game rn, we can keep it in our pants for a bit.
@oasdfo3
@oasdfo3 4 жыл бұрын
Rodrigo De Lima Are u kidding? I have been gaming picking up on nurses! Its so easy in a hospital cuz they need to destress and will talk to anyone. Some will suck you off in the restroom. Its mind boggling how careless nurses are.
@rodderoon
@rodderoon 4 жыл бұрын
@@oasdfo3 lol what? Ok let's assume you're not lying. I hope you're not just creepin' around hospitals to get with nurses that shit sounds super sketch
@lifesabeach8133
@lifesabeach8133 2 жыл бұрын
I hear this guy talking and I see an A hat. Thank the universe, I raised 2 grown sons who have morals and humanity and both are in healthy, real relationships without ever needing to manipulate anyone into some pseudo situationship.
@CertifiedGigaChad
@CertifiedGigaChad 4 жыл бұрын
Can you please explain how your model of Verbal Game can be used to improve text game? I think it can be integrated with your 4 types of text into higher levels of text game. Thank you Todd.
@Lux197live
@Lux197live 4 жыл бұрын
Sympalogy if u get the system, you’ll understand more. Watch his free videos, they’re a compliment to the paid program. All u doing is make her chase you.
@CertifiedGigaChad
@CertifiedGigaChad 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lux197live I think there verbal game academy is a more micro model than the macro model of the system. So it can work better on a text to text basis. But thank you for the recommendation. I hope now that we're all quarantined, Todd will have time to create the VGAcademy videos and release it soon.
@TheHardestCombatter
@TheHardestCombatter 4 жыл бұрын
2:41 why I been following Todd for 2+ years
@joshharkess9272
@joshharkess9272 3 жыл бұрын
yeah bet hes turned you into a right creep
@AfroLatinoJG
@AfroLatinoJG 4 жыл бұрын
Has Todd done videos for college/university game??
@edsardpluis1563
@edsardpluis1563 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, could you make a video about how to practice game at home? You know, with all the quarantine stuf going on
@basteagui
@basteagui 4 жыл бұрын
i am assuming you already put lipstick on your hand?
@RobGravelle
@RobGravelle 4 жыл бұрын
First, you need a cutout of Princess Leia or Wonder Woman...
@AskToddV
@AskToddV 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'll be adding content like that soon.
@plancocarlo5726
@plancocarlo5726 3 жыл бұрын
Holy i'm blown away by your intro man!
@slackerengi2401
@slackerengi2401 4 жыл бұрын
I've been wonderimg how you've been with the quarintine
@lonitafa315
@lonitafa315 4 жыл бұрын
Todd, what advice you have for people who have a full time job or are running a business? Could you get better at game with a full time job? When I go out with my wings, I get this feeling that work is a drag and game is all there is to life. Wanted to get your point of view on this. Thank you for sharing.
@arcticape445
@arcticape445 2 жыл бұрын
Any luck?
@heidilehman9009
@heidilehman9009 4 жыл бұрын
I have a friend with benefits-my choice due to religion. It’s been for 2 years now. But I never know when he’s gonna contact me to get together. I don’t do last minute asks. So my question is, how do I get him to initiate asking me to get together ? I’ve heard from another coach that we as the girl should always initiate when getting together as this keeps us in control. But I just don’t know 🤷🏼‍♀️ I mean a girl still likes when the guy initiates as this means he was thinking about me. Ugh please help!!!!
@ryandeffley7652
@ryandeffley7652 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think you realize what a FWB is. It's a casual set up. That's why he's hitting you up randomly. Based on you saying that you like knowing he's "thinking about you" implies you've got serious feelings and aren't actually suited to have a FWB.
@heidilehman9009
@heidilehman9009 2 жыл бұрын
@@ryandeffley7652 I don’t have feelings for him. It was just that we like to have the guy initiate regardless of fwb. If they don’t, it feels like they don’t even like us as even a fwb!
@ryandeffley7652
@ryandeffley7652 2 жыл бұрын
@@heidilehman9009 - Once again...a FWB is casual by nature. It's get together when convenient, sex only, and no dates. If you want to know if he's thinking about you or validation of how much he likes you, then you like him way more than you're admitting. Especially since it's been two years consistently.
@michaelrichey6783
@michaelrichey6783 2 жыл бұрын
He might be an introvert type or can be too shy at times to ask. Even if you ask 1st as long as he shows you a good time and there's no drama stay the course...
@tom4412
@tom4412 Жыл бұрын
@@heidilehman9009Find another guy to Fwb with. But keep your existing guy too. He’ll be seeing other women too
@danieltapia9735
@danieltapia9735 4 жыл бұрын
How can I make a girl qualify herself without going into interview mode?
@Jornjunior18
@Jornjunior18 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Tapia great question, I’d probably say add a little flirt/push in the questions, make them seem humorous or even used a cold read, I’ve found girls love that & then start asking you questions or validating
@kamilsvideo
@kamilsvideo 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jornjunior18 Todd, you forgot to logout
@verslaudela
@verslaudela 4 жыл бұрын
You should do a video on dating during the quarantine!
@agbordaniels
@agbordaniels 4 жыл бұрын
How would you react if she wants an open relationship as well to see other guys
@joshharkess9272
@joshharkess9272 3 жыл бұрын
oh you wouldnt like that would you , oh no cant be having that .
@mansooralsalhi3060
@mansooralsalhi3060 4 жыл бұрын
Todd when can we assume the date of verbal game being released
@stilleaftea7586
@stilleaftea7586 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in a relatively fresh (a few months) relationship but finding myself giving a little bit more power away than I want to. It seems that sometimes I'm able to maintain greater value but is there any things I can look out for that can keep my value higher and where it's her more invested in the relationship?
@arcticape445
@arcticape445 2 жыл бұрын
Did you figure this out?
@charlesluberisse4737
@charlesluberisse4737 4 жыл бұрын
What would be pros and cons to look out for in a two set without a wingman. Is there a skeleton like OPEN-C to how you choose the girl that’s more on.
@omatunto6992
@omatunto6992 4 жыл бұрын
Hey todd, I've had this interesting situation now couple times when I've gone out and met with a girl I've been talking to. We go to a bar and the girl says she has only one hour of time because she has plans elsewhere for the night, and ruins the plan I have a to couple places to visit etc. Should I rush things or first hand make sure she has more time?
@michaelkariuki5350
@michaelkariuki5350 2 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@omatunto6992
@omatunto6992 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelkariuki5350 It was two years ago cant remember anymore
@Gangstarelli23
@Gangstarelli23 4 жыл бұрын
Always value what do you think about mark manson book models
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 жыл бұрын
Every time when I m confused , I can saw your videos lol , wtf is going on bro
@austinh3848
@austinh3848 2 жыл бұрын
Shit. I knew I was too clingy.
@oasdfo3
@oasdfo3 4 жыл бұрын
I heard RSD is imploding, tons of accusations and infighting, alot of employees nor being paid.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 жыл бұрын
Be busy at regular times ,keep your own businesses then how to pull her next week lol
@Enric0W
@Enric0W 4 жыл бұрын
Sup Todd, what are your opinion on going for 5s and 6s to gather game knowledge and confidence? Talking about girls who are already into you and will make things way easier.
@mikegodor616
@mikegodor616 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, any tips for getting over a rough breakup? If anyone would have good advice, I feel it would be you
@Sealwithwificonnection
@Sealwithwificonnection 4 жыл бұрын
Letting yourself grieve the relationship and letting go of those feelings is huuuuge. You can sort out your game and overall self-esteem later, but you have to let yourself feel what your body wants to feel because otherwise that's gonna build up in you and make you bitter, unproductive, etc. In other words, cry it all out, scream it all out and don't judge yourself. And obviously use all of your spare time now to improve yourself and do hobbies. Slowly but surely you'll build yourself back up. Hope this helps
@tayebzied9868
@tayebzied9868 3 жыл бұрын
thanks
@lorainejustice
@lorainejustice 2 жыл бұрын
If you're gonna sleep with multiple let them know, this is how people spread shit💀
@JoseMartinez-hk6qs
@JoseMartinez-hk6qs 4 жыл бұрын
Todd speaks like a politician introducing new legislation to the senate.
@activatekruger446
@activatekruger446 2 жыл бұрын
What’s up with the lip smacking??
@Sealwithwificonnection
@Sealwithwificonnection 4 жыл бұрын
Todd, how can we keep our girls hooked throughout the whole corona thing? Have a gf and would like to know any dos and donts to keep it excting and positive. Thanks!
@maximillian.a.m
@maximillian.a.m 3 жыл бұрын
Todd's a goddamn savage 🤣
@joshharkess9272
@joshharkess9272 3 жыл бұрын
yes hes a savage alright and so are you ,
@xaviergamble7416
@xaviergamble7416 3 жыл бұрын
If it doesn’t work it doesn’t work because I just have it and just do an act how I want to treat if it doesn’t work out for me because I try stuff like that nothing the sex part is it doesn’t work out for me especially when they’re getting more busy and as we have all our aspirations change and plus I don’t call it making rules I called being organized that is my experience and my experience in a bunch of Jesus you are beneficial weather in our vinegar in there were moments because I actually could’ve happened so potential relationship with a woman been more than a friend
@GJ-ol5ev
@GJ-ol5ev 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Todd, what’s your advice for how to maintain a FWB situation? I’ve hooked up with a girl this week, we spoke about meeting up again soon. What’s the best way to act to keep her coming back?
@dzllz
@dzllz 4 жыл бұрын
Corona game, anyone?
@matthoffman8162
@matthoffman8162 10 ай бұрын
She always catch feels, and then brings the drama…oof
@strwbrrybunny388
@strwbrrybunny388 4 жыл бұрын
This dood lookin hecka funny XD
@Gnomesmusher
@Gnomesmusher 2 жыл бұрын
Eh, the whole thing about not telling a woman that you're seeing that you're having sex with others is straight out lying. Just because you aren't saying that you're NOT having sex with others doesn't mean it's not lying. It's lying by omission. This is just going to create a relationship where the woman is constantly questioning you. She's going to be constantly paranoid and you'll have to constantly reassure her by actually having to say that you're not seeing others or having sex. If you're upfront about it from the beginning, then they know you're more upfront about what you're doing. Just man up and be upfront about that stuff.
@ambersummer2685
@ambersummer2685 2 жыл бұрын
And women are most likely looking for a potential partner. If it walks and quacks like a duck, it’s going to be assumed to be a duck.
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 жыл бұрын
How to control her and dont let her fly
@sriniwasn1276
@sriniwasn1276 3 жыл бұрын
You can't control. If she wanna fly. She will
@muzwot9603
@muzwot9603 4 жыл бұрын
COVID-19 spells game over for PUA in 2020
@oasdfo3
@oasdfo3 4 жыл бұрын
IT IS game over for RSD organization. Nicholas Kho owes everyone money, they’re going after him and Owen Cook.
@muzwot9603
@muzwot9603 4 жыл бұрын
@@oasdfo3 I've learned a lot from Todd, so I wasn't revelling in the fact trust me, it's depressing not being able to get out and form new relationships and with no real end in sight (it's going to be paranoia for months even when things do get back to some semblance of nomality). I feel sorry for guys like Todd who put so much work in this and are taking it all to another level RE intelligent psych, the introvert over the inauthentic hyperactive 'approach'/natural way of being. I think Todd ought to (in the interim) give advice on online dating sites/communications in anticipation for the eventual mass home exodus.
@oasdfo3
@oasdfo3 4 жыл бұрын
Muz Wot I heard RSD is screwing everyone. Todd’s organization is different in that he didn’t invest as much into the business structure. Todd is more agile and can change. RSD cannot.
@muzwot9603
@muzwot9603 4 жыл бұрын
@@oasdfo3 I hear you loud and clear my friend, and just to reiterate- I cetainly wasn't out to have a pop at Todd and the great work he does in, and for the community. As a matter of fact I now feel a little badly making my initial post and am strongly considering deleting it here as it may be detrimental and come across being unfair, I just have a manner about me where I say what I see, and that oftentimes this comes across as if I have some sort of undue bias or agenda, when almost without exception I certainly do not.
@FirstDream7
@FirstDream7 4 жыл бұрын
Subscription? done ✅
@marselshtylla
@marselshtylla 4 жыл бұрын
i watched a hentai video how to attack corona virus jokes aside been watching todd since the gold era of pua btw i miss the alex infields pulling shy girls he pulled some anime stuff irl with the hottest shy girls. like for real you and alex need to re upload these old videos
@PretentiousStuff
@PretentiousStuff 4 жыл бұрын
That swallowing is a major turn off
@IamRanJos
@IamRanJos 3 жыл бұрын
This was not intended for you or anyone to get turned on anyways brah
@auroraramos3049
@auroraramos3049 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 clown coach
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