The Fastest Way To A Man's Heart (Make Him See You As Marriage Material!)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry about the audio issues in this video, we still thought the content was valuable enough to post. Let us know if you have any comments or questions, we love hearing from you!

[@kalenerdy3160]

Helena Hart I have one hundred questions, however, circumstances. ... the sound is bearable. The points are well-worth deciphering thru the interference . ♡

[@cherryboo65b56]

People! 🙄 It’s fine, if it was about making money NO ONE would be complaining! 😂

[@misskhye]

Hi Helena. How do I stop being clingy to my partner? This keeps being an issue and i don't want things to get any worse :( Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Khye Penaflor - This video should be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r4GUg6aPdtGEiaM

[@luanntexascitizen4345]

@@misskhye , I have a similar attachment style. I've been learning more about "anxious attachment style" and how it starts when we are young. There are techniques to reduce the anxiety about a guy not calling or texting, etc. It helps, and is better on your guy too.

[@jolieinphilly8983]

LOVE it when Adrienne said "if it doesn't work out with you, I've got 99 other men behind me." YES!

[@bigsky8061]

LOL, I am so lucky, my man is 88 and DOES NOT text. I always get phone calls!

[@monicalevyt]

When we pressure the guy we kill the seduction and the mystery that creates value. We are actually in control and dominating when we do not pressure him.

[@TatevikE]

Staying in the FEMININE energy is so hard sometimes, especially when women are living in such masculine roles, so bringing it back to our feminine essence (in this video/convo) has been refreshing and empowering. As you said, we are born into a masculine world, so when some of us take on these challenges, we begin to lose our femininity, and may feel empowered, but not in the right way. Also, our fears put us in such a fight or flight mode emotionally, that as soon as we sense a real or perceived threat of heartache or pain possibly coming, it either paralyzes us into tolerance and low self-esteem, or moves us to pursue, in the masculine energy like you said, to find out the ending of the movie, especially to avoid a long and torturous and painful waste-of-time and heartache.... while really... we are digging ourselves deeper into it. Another thing that I think drives women to pursue and want to get straight to the point is age, especially if they want to have children, with our biological clocks ticking and all... So it’s a nice mixed bag, with so many people and so many different experiences and scenarios, but this video was very empowering in bringing us, or yet as you said, centering us back to the beautiful and powerful energy that is FEMININE... a place where we come into and appreciate and adore our own self and essence.. Lovely. Thank you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your insights! 💖

[@TatevikE]

Helena Hart thank you ♥️♥️♥️

[@cherryboo65b56]

Stop putting “feelings”’ into one man. I’ve made that mistake and it makes you easy to use. Let feelings come after an engagement ring. Just let him be a friend, that’s all.

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

CherryBoo65 Boone that is great advice

[@sulivel]

CherryBoo65 Boone easy to say, there is no remote control to feelings.

[@beebuzz959]

I agree, except I have never been a 12 man woman, just a one. I either like the guy immensely, or am not interested in anyone, and I also have to be true to myself! I say that's great advice from people who are attracted to Joe than one guy at a time, but I also think the person here is not to give up your life for summer that didn't exist yet, for some guy who hasn't made the commitment. You can date just him, or 109 guys, the lesson is the same. But no matter who you are, just one or many, don't sell your worthy short (realize you're valuable enough for this guy to give it all to you and more), and never give up your own life for him either (as in don't do your life because he's suddenly around). Also, dint expect him to know all the answers to what the relationship is, neither of you are profits! Just enjoy it and let it become what it will! Have faith that what's best in this situation will happen. You can't force a star shape into a square hole, even if you really like and love that shape and know you both are it, if it doesn't fit, it just doesn't.

[@msdjones30]

💯💯💯💯

[@CherrellMishelle]

A friend, that’s all? You’re joking right?

[@kylieking8163]

My favourite relationship coaches

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Kylie! ❤️

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Awww! Love it!

[@ruthfulnonsense]

Adrienne’s hair looks beautiful 😍 serious goals!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

That’s exactly what I said before we started recording this video! 💖

[@AdrienneEverheart]

That's so sweet! Thank you so much.

[@ananeixon]

Girls you both helped me so much the last year to transform my life🙂 I am writing a book about women inner healing and my process and I will definitely add you both in the chapter of experts recommendations! I feel like another person! I have never been so aligned with myself and so clear with what I want and the universe is bringing me new masculine man that are so gentleman to me! Feminine energy is definitely the path of healing 🥰thanks for your work girls! I would love to someday meet you in person 😍🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww I’m so happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! We’d love to hear how things continue to go for you. ❤️

[@LOC_Legacies]

yall are so therapy for me in this awesome season of singleness!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! 💕

[@DiaN-do3jm]

i feel like the more a woman pressures a man into something, he doesn't want to do it and vice versa with women and pushy men. if they are able to relax and choose to do something he or she will be willing to enter anything with ease.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for your input, I agree!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I always say, "nothing positive is gained through force." :-)

[@joannamario7759]

Spot on Helena.. You're the best! Your videos always have valuable content😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Joanna! ❤️

[@teresa32613]

Love all your vids, very insightful, nearly year with bf asked me to marry him month ago

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So happy to hear that, congratulations!!!

[@teresa32613]

Helena Hart thank you

[@sunshinejewel2952]

I understand the vibe you guys are talking about my problem is that I can control it for a little bit but I’m having trouble keeping it consistent

[@kalenerdy3160]

Love it on the boundaries and warnings. (Somebody has a bass player in the neighborhood? )

[@cindycinn2724]

The way you treat him will speak volumes to him and his friends family and pets

[@SoulGPS]

Best video EVER on the subject! Thank you, beautiful Ladies. You are doing an amazing job spreading this information. And it is soooo true... Once you "get it" viscerally, it is actually really fun and easy!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes!! You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💕

[@SleeplessinOC]

I think I’m doomed. I have no life , NO friends , broke , dead end job .What man is going to value me when I can’t show I have no life outside of him ? He will see right through me. It’s not that I don’t want friends but it’s almost as hard making friends as it is to meet a halfway decent man. The recurring theme and advice is always have a full life outside the man and act like you love your life. Hard to do that when you have no friends and no money to even do things on your own if you would be willing . I would do some things on my own , like travel and other recreational stuff but that’s an impossibility when I’m busy just trying to scrape by each month with no end in sight . Plus, I’m not that attractive physically the way Helena and Adrienne are so imagine the difficulty I have if even attractive ladies like them already have problems with the men that they do already attract and I’m sure they attract much more appealing men to begin with. I put down my profile after getting only interest from men ten or more years older , who look so much older than their age and who I gag (not trying to be mean here) just looking at , let alone kissing or anything more. I would not and do not object to quantum dating but finding even ONE man I am mildly attracted to who is attracted back to me has proven to me that all the ones I want are 1)taken 2) or available but not interested back . What I need is a miracle at this point .

[@Kareena1988]

what u need to so is: professional life..look for a better job...you attract what u r ..so if u dont have friends...it says how limited ur beliefs are...even me with my introverted tendecies has found at least some people...look for a hobby..I have badminton and found people...1) Have a better job b) have hobbies where u r with people c) stop with the excuses d) be ok with your situation...dont hate it because the universe will give u more of it e) be internally positive..people like charisma..f) no one is perfect..after happy times finally my people told me about their problems and I saw the truth aout them..but opening needs time..g) be aware whats happening outside and global h) have structure in life and plan to go out when u finally meet people..most people find their other half through friends....If you believe it it will become true..stop with the excuses..you wanna guy or you wanna give up? Also: be authentic..doesnt matter if u find a guy and are fake...that will kill you internally.

[@luanntexascitizen4345]

You can press the RESET button today. Every day get out of your comfort zone. Go to a store you've never been before, go jogging at a different street. Just get in the habit of making new experiences until eventually something really grabs your interest and it becomes a hobby, or a new career. You have to get out more!! And if you're broke, see if moving to a new area would help your finances. I moved 2,000 miles to buy a house in the country I could afford. It's going great! Be bold.

[@leniyemsvictorero2360]

You are beautiful for being a woman your inner work will shine through you Love yourself and believe it

[@ngbadure]

Isn't being in your feminine energy being in your feeling, like you are in love and you just want to love? If so how can it be genuine to lean back when you just feeling love

[@bryanmccallum4614]

I watched your video and it makes sense. I've been signal for 9 years and having trouble trusting womem!

[@sshuteandrew]

You’re both beautiful with great advice- keep up the great work! 💗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Stacey! ❤️

[@ananeixon]

Being in your femm energy I guess is a process now to learn right? I would say most of the time I am there but time to time I catch myself still doing or saying things coming from my masculine. I guess this takes a bit time until you really master it like a queen...but it is really exciting and I see the results every single day😌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I'm glad you're seeing results from this, Ana! Yes, it definitely takes practice at first - but in time it will start to feel like second nature.

[@sheniquebethel6289]

would love to thank you guys for sharing to woman from all over the world. woman really need empowering. feminism energy is really working for me lol. it's driving him crazy to the point he's sending the mad emojis cause am not the one pursuing him now. he really wanna know wats up. thanks a million

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome, I'm so glad to hear this is working for you!

[@cherryboo65b56]

Also, always say you’re going out with friends, not girlfriends. Do they really deserve to know who you’re going out with?

[@sshuteandrew]

CherryBoo65 Boone Yes, I think it’s very interesting women will say girlfriends to refer to their female friends but guys don’t refer to their friends “boyfriends??!”

[@AdrienneEverheart]

Can you elaborate more here? I'm confused?

[@sshuteandrew]

Feminine Energy Love & Dating Hey 🙂 I meant when a girl is going out on a Friday night with a friend who is a girl- often a girl will tell a guy she is seeing that she is going out with a “girlfriend.” It’s almost a reassurance that it’s not another guy that she’s seeing. A guy on the other hand would just say he’s going out with a friend- which leaves the gender unclear. We actually give the guy more info than needed. That’s what I meant :)

[@DiaN-do3jm]

seriously! transparency is that too much to ask for?

[@missrejuvenated5338]

CherryBoo65 Boone bl

[@shannonr5122]

Omg it feels like you are in my living room right now

[@catec3102]

What exactly do you mean by being in your "feminine energy?" I assume it means let him always take the lead, and don't try to chase or control the outcome. Is there more to it!? Thanks for your videos. They are very helpful!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome! Great question, these videos will give you more information and tools on feminine energy: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoKQqWedgNebf6s, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bnSZYqukad-KY5Y and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZelqIuDqcaka8U.

[@MeMe-no4wr]

I don't understand....if the woman is the prize....why do we spend our life trying to get a man to do this and that? This is all new....back in the day.....things were so different. The man saw the women he want...he presude her, married her. And they lived happily ever after. Even the male animal persudes the female. What's going on.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

That’s a great question. We’re hoping to help women realize how valuable and powerful they truly are, in case they’ve forgotten (I’ve found that it’s something that can be easy to forget, especially if you have strong feelings for a man).

[@thenoeticjustice]

Back in the day, women used to walk by the man they chose and “drop” their handkerchief. It was a way to invite the man to talk to her. #FoodForThought :)

[@leniyemsvictorero2360]

Back in the days it was different. Respect and values where priority back them. Now a days we have lost them that is why we need to go back to basics and relearn what was forgotten

[@kalenerdy3160]

I! Good points. The sound is ricken frustrating, something is messing w/ your clarity?

[@bellabriggs1393]

Adrienne I hate talking on the phone , I like text or in person ... what do I do ?

[@realworld2737]

Very useful video....loved it :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@AdrienneEverheart]

We appreciate you watching.

[@manomana5999]

I love you ladies! Just have one question, I live with guy 1year and half, and he provides a lot, but i dont know if he wants a marriage (I cant ask because he had one short marriage). It is hard to act like I have others men interesting in me because he is always around me but he never said that he wants more then where we are now. How can I find it where is it going? Thank you!

[@manomana5999]

@@johna8541 Mh...and on the end who needs to initiate the marriage if seriously men are against it? Woman?

[@lalili1358]

From what I researched, in living situations the man starts to view the girfriend like a roommate with the added benefit of sex. They wont take you seriously or view you as marriage material. If you want to be considered for marriage, it's better to live seperately. If you dated more than 5 years, he probably wont proposed marriage. You might ask marriage related question to see what he thinks.

[@poojachauhan8055]

helena mam first of all love frim india, mam i am in big trouble, i have kind of pushed my man little bit, bcz of my lack in feminine energy and silly mistakes, now i need really help to know how i can make him to forget all that shit i did and again fall in love with me for even more than before he was ,plz mam make a video on wht to do if u pushed him away

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This video should be helpful for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/r4GUg6aPdtGEiaM

[@sanazbayat5435]

Hi there. Thanks for your great work. it is a long time I have sent you two emails but no reply yet 😞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You're welcome! Legally I can't reply to personal questions over email unless someone is in my coaching program and under that disclaimer. I do answer questions every week in The Goddess Club, you can learn more about that here if you're interested: feminineenchantment.com/ You can also ask your questions here and get support from other women who may be going through something similar: facebook.com/groups/goddesscommunity/

[@Nik513m]

Good wisdom

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am Seriousely needed Real Loveing Matrue Woman I Am Saprat I Need Really girl Friend .. Now 😍😍❤❤

[@shannonr5122]

What happened when he made those calls daily and then out of nowhere stopped doing all of it? Advice for that?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Shannon, this video might shed some light on your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/havckGSIqsiCZqs

[@kalenerdy3160]

Is Remi, pretty lady (Russian accent) How to give a goodblowjob, etc a part of your same commitment connection?

[@melissabarrett3088]

❤❤

[@kylieking8163]

The audio isn't that good

[@DiaN-do3jm]

i thought it was through a man's stomach? haha jk lame joke. wonderful content as always

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@sunshinejewel2952]

It still is! lol

[@msdjones30]

Ooh stubborn. Especially Mr.Capricorn. the😈

[@charmerhue]

Great

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@mephistofleece]

The sound is off

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I figured out what was happening with the sound so it shouldn’t be a problem for future videos.

[@sarahdouglas8350]

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