The Female Gaze Guy Sucks

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[@popupin]

Some women are horrifically attracted to the serial killer vibe and I’m 100% sure that’s what’s going on here

[@stardewposting]

naur don't insult serial killers like that

[@ida6950]

100%! He’s got the Dharmer vibes

[@snegluf]

@@ida6950 we should never compare anyone’s “vibe” to a cannibal who tortured people.

[@Youdontneedtoknowmyname-zw1tr]

@@stardewpostingbro what

[@Youdontneedtoknowmyname-zw1tr]

@@addi1626 he’s doing the vibe extremely well that’s why he looks like a serial killer, and hold up… you like that vibe?

[@demonboss1777]

In case anyone is still confused, the difference between female gays and male gays is that we call them lesbians, hope that cleared everything up 🙏

[@Dogy0909]

Thank you boss

[@harperthegreat]

This isn’t that funny but I’m crying so hard right now

[@FirstLast-fl1co]

male lesbian and female gay

[@mariya_tortilla]

lmfao thank u sm

[@michaelstevenson5044]

yes, thank you

[@bookwyrm8181]

Whoever that girl was that screamed “STOPPP” really has 10/10 comedic timing and deserves everything

[@hallehuckleberry]

I agree

[@Wince_Media]

The girl screaming STOPPPPPP is the one who really deserves all the fame. That was hilarious

[@alexverdana2435]

i know right lmaoooo

[@Wince_Media]

@@alexverdana2435 tell me when she gets the death metal screamo band she deserves

[@labcabincaliforniasblacksunday]

She was the highlight out of all of this

[@ughugh5611]

Lmaoooooooooo i love

[@Remi_Lin]

What’s her tag she’s hilarious

[@keekers8785]

The Kevin gaze is literally the look a guy gives while you’re talking when he has completely stopped listening to just objectify you.

[@shesthebethest]

Exactly

[@desireesmith862]

I thought he was pretending to daydream or get distracted by something he just remembered lol

[@v.xien.]

Or when you reject men and they get all butthurt. Literally weirdo vibes. I guess those women got issues lol

[@DiMagnolia]

ACCURATE.

[@itsallkrystalclear8398]

YES!

[@szonjards3387]

i love how a lot of girls were like "nobody can do it like him" like miss girly im sure you can find TONS of misogynistic, balding people with anger issues

[@blacksesamecandies]

hahaha oh damn.

[@dea9457]

You mean tons of unattractive men 😭

[@alysiamckinney8839]

Literally one of the largest demographics 💀

[@Funeral_Mannequin]

I feel like they were being satire/joking, right? I hope..

[@xfreja]

deadass

[@juliamaria3807]

"cmon chat, please let me have this one racism, I've had a bad day"

[@DiMagnolia]

It’s his comfort racism

[@emilyjohn2034]

@@DiMagnoliaomg your horrible for that one 😂😂

[@AshaSara]

​@@DiMagnoliaemotional support racism

[@janner2006]

He even said "I had a bad day *yesterday*". I didn't know we could reserve the racist card - I thought it would expire by the end of the day

[@the_local_bigamist]

Nothing cures a bad day like using a racial slur, especially combined with watching people react to videos of you merely looking at a camera. Better than trying some meditation or talking to a friend to get cheered up. But what can expect from a racist narcissist who doesn't even understand the basic meaning of the sociological concept he has butchered to create content (the male gaze and the female gaze, which he literally thinks means how men and women look at one another) or that fantastic Edgar Allen Poe comment?

[@emilydickinson5422]

wait, there are people out there who think the male gaze is a LITERAL THING like the way a man gazes at a woman??? I'm gonna cry

[@imsmolandangery4274]

"How i stopped dressing for the male gaze" was a thing, like okay, you are now basing your wardrobe around men. Conservative Christians, school dress codes, and everyone who asked "well, what were you wearing?" are finally happy.

[@drilonkennedy-gorne2049]

Is it not the assumption in media that the spectator, the camera, and the protagonist from who's eyes we watch the woman, are all men?

[@mittarikinz]

@@imsmolandangery4274 I'm pretty sure when people mean they stopped dressing for the male gaze they mean now they base their wardrobe on what _they_ think it's attractive and looks good on them instead of the stereotypical male idea of "hotness"

[@MarkelleRayneeSheree]

I literally thought the female gaze was just in storytelling media like novels and movies and stuff. It's a way of telling a story that appeals to women, especially sexual scenes. I'm so confused as to what people think the female gaze is in this context.

[@Caelinus]

​@@MarkelleRayneeSheree Male Gaze and Female Gaze are pretty much that, though it extends beyond just storytelling. E.G. A beer comercial that highlights an woman who is picked because she is attractive to the average man is appeal to the "Male Gaze" specifically because it is assuming the worldview of a male viewer. (Sounds a little tautological there, but whatever.) It is basically any form of media that "sees" the world in the same way as a man does. A super clear example is all those old Conan Style sword and sorcery movies. The men in them are all massive musclebound units, and the women (even the fighters) are all petite and conventionally beautiful. While both groups are wearing little clothing and are "hot" the way in which they are hot differs. The women look the way men would want their women to look, while the men look like the way men would want to be hot. So in either case the aspirational aspect of its worldview is directed towards the male viewer. Important Disclaimer: Male and Female Gaze or not inherently bad. The problem is not that the male gaze exists. It is always going to exist. The problem is that the male gaze is heavily *favored* over the female, which creates an imbalance in media. This is a big problem for media companies that want to pull more female customers into their fandoms. But yeah, it literally has nothing to do with the physical look of some ones eyes. This guy just happened to have soft, watery and non-threatening eyes. Which is not even a female thing? I know a lot of women with intense and confident physical gazes.

[@jinxieunlucky]

I never understood why people went crazy over him. He looks like a "nice guy" nerd who gets pissed when your d&d character won't sleep with his.

[@babayaga3098]

EXACTLY

[@v.xien.]

On god

[@SD-oi9gr]

Then he speaks and you realise he’s extremely dumb, petty, very insecure and as complex a a cornflake. Now we see why he doesn’t talk much.

[@hannahbunny6650]

he looks like the naked mole rat from kim possible

[@stegothedino]

this is the best description

[@vulpesrocktails918]

The expression doesn't even look sexual or romantic in nature, it just looks like he's either dissociating or having a silent seizure.

[@smeeghead]

LITERALLY. like he is just staring off into space.

[@damienearl8302]

He's barely even lip-syncing to the audio most of the time...or moving his mouth at all, just staring blankly into your soul The live stream reaction portion gave me genuine whiplash because as confusing and simultaneously boring as he is, I genuinely thought he couldn't make more than one expression!

[@hagathachristie]

It was very shark eyes and disengaged. Like... eerily vacant.

[@imjustanotherjess]

I completely agree - he looks like he’s about to faint!

[@cryguy0000]

I KNOW! He looks like me when I look at myself in the mirror, just disappointed

[@Howard_T_Duck]

Gotta love how he immediately decided to insult the blonde lady even though she didn’t insult him, she was just saying that she didn’t understand.

[@prettysparklez1195]

She even said it was a nice gaze 🤦‍♀️

[@kaywee4200]

Right. He's an ass. Straight up.

[@AshaSara]

I thought it was funny how he thought calling her Lindsey Lohan was an insult when she's beautiful and talented

[@the_local_bigamist]

Narcissistic injury. He doesn't understand the concept of male gaze/female gaze as a cultural response, yet uses the term anyway because he thinks it just means "how men and women look at each other". He is also racist, didn't get the awesome Edgar Allen Poe joke and literally spent time live-streaming himself watching people react to his face, like a modern version of the tale of Narcissus except that Narcissus had actual depth to his character whereas this guy is just a narcissistic, racist bellend. The woman was perfectly polite but with all the points mentioned before considered, how could we expect him to be reasonable? Also, I don't understand how this became so popular? These are just videos of him fumbling in front of a camera and then pulling a kind of smirk. Then again, from what I've seen of TikTok, not much creative though seems to go into what is produced (I've never been on there to be fair, and don't plan to either - these commentary videos show me enough to want to stay away).

[@damialabii]

@@AshaSara exactly he even picked out a great picture of her its literally a compliment if anything lol

[@mmiiww]

he has the same humor of a 13 year old boy from the south. down to the "WHAT?! WHAT DID I DO!!?" after an offensive joke.

[@hallehuckleberry]

That’s what I thought too. It was really cringe.

[@jess-so6ee]

made my skin crawl fr

[@candyh4284]

As an autistic kid, it was really a mindfuck that people say this when they know exactly what they did wrong, why it's wrong, and what they should do instead.

[@Momoiro0]

It's giving "gingers have souls" guy

[@whoIikegaf5]

there is no way that the entirety of a tiktok community concluded that the new standard of the female gaze is just some dude who look like somebody tried to draw kurtis connor from memory.

[@heythisanimalcantalk]

LMFAOO

[@bunyumie]

NOT KURTIS 😭😭😭

[@babygurleatsshickennuggits4201]

So true, if I had to describe what our Mayor looks like from memory I'd probably just end up with that.

[@ilawinterburn2111]

Seriously why is he Kurtis from the dollar store if he was racist?

[@m.josena4485]

Deadass garbage bin version of beautiful kurtis conners

[@belle8732]

are they seriously calling this the "female gaze?" the female gaze does not refer to an ACTUAL GAZE

[@nanalewa4462]

😂😂😂

[@nanalewa4462]

😂😂😂

[@NNRiddle]

Right?! And if it would then what, female gaze = looking awkward but being able to switch to confident in an instant? I do not understand where this came from xD

[@graciespaceycakes3714]

Going into this I assumed it was "female gaze" as in "this guy looks kinda nonthreatening and that makes him cute" but 10 minutes in I can't imagine what it could possibly mean aside from "this guy's looking at me like he calls women 'females'"

[@user-oy6hk1gn7l]

tiktok stop bastardizing media analysis and psychology terms challenge

[@shawn-3561]

Not a woman, but if I ever got looked at by Kevin in public, I'd take it as a threat.

[@Downtown_Duchess]

Thank you SO MUCH for bringing his racist jabs towards black women to light! I felt like I was in the freaking twilight zone for a bit on TikTok with people swooning over an entitled butthole that rants and makes fun of genetic features on people that don't find what he does attractive 😅.

[@Ghost666Mafia]

Bro he’s like 22 but looks like he’s in his early 40’s…and then had the audacity to make fun of that woman’s age lol

[@Linkedfairy]

he's 33, his joke didn't even make sense she's 10 years older than he is. But you're right, he looks older than he is.

[@KalCounty]

@@Linkedfairy He comes off as being pretty dim, honestly. Wouldn't surprise me if he actually thought she was double his age.

[@cardiiiiii]

hes 33

[@twixxaddict]

@@Linkedfairy I think i remember some girl who he knew saying he’s 23 or something

[@BurnTheTeddy]

Homeboy is BALDING and thinks he can make fun of anyone

[@tsukkinnie]

Kevin looks like a high school teacher you don’t wanna be left alone with

[@lucymills9994]

he reminds me of my 10th grade english teacher who was married to his former student

[@greenfacere210]

😂

[@koiifsh]

@@lucymills9994 ayo

[@Foggy404]

Kevin looked like a more messed up Trevor Phillips

[@bry.b]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@Wince_Media]

"Kevin looks like the type of guy who would treat you right!" *Kevin's only rebuttal to his haters is by making fun of their appearances*

[@katyrusso1989]

Yeah and like, isn't someone saying you look like Lindsay Lohan a compliment?

[@grungebourne]

as a queer (trans) man, WE DO NOT CLAIM HIM. I do not know how someone could not understand how making fun of someone's ethnic features is inherently wrong and harmful, especially when that person is part of a marginalized group.

[@Nothanie]

As another queer (gay) guy I do not claim him nor understand how he is attractive to some 😭

[@milescox1792]

As the same, saying we don't claim this obvious loser does more harm than good. His identity doesn't matter; this guy sucks, and everyone can agree with that. No need to resort to tribalism.

[@kyliedunn8797]

It's not even that he isn't attractive, it's that he's trying to come across as confident and a "idgaf" attitude when he's obviously incredibly insecure lmao

[@LayZeeChill]

This

[@Candyrock15]

Exactly. He's also not attractive

[@tyleralan1470]

@@Candyrock15 ok that's too far he can't help that like sure his tik toks are cringe but like c'mon don't rip on his appearance its ok to make fun of his behaviour because thats his choice and its objectively cringe but making fun of his looks is different

[@kee5561]

@@tyleralan1470 nah, he deserves it. He made fun of other people’s appearances so it’s only fair to say he looks like an insecure incel that never gets out of the house

[@ramenlover1696]

Yeah he’s also not attractive

[@wideride8320]

He just looks like a stoner who's trying to remember what they were about to tell you without breaking eye contact.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

That's what I thought too. I was like....if you want someone to look at you like this just get an attentive stoner. Get them really high and they will look at you exactly like that the whole time. Lol.

[@FTMothman]

The fact that I’ve done this… it doesn’t help that weed made me stop masking for a while cause I forgot how…

[@GriffinAAN]

That is exactly what I was thinking too!

[@nesamdoom]

Perfect, nothing is going on.

[@jungtothehuimang]

Yeah it's not really giving "sexy" as much as it's giving "too many special brownies"

[@maki1659]

"She's not looking at the jawline.. she's not invited to the harem either" WHERE AND WHAT 💀💀💀💀

[@maggie3842]

I think the majority of people on TikTok constantly throw terms around without knowing what they actually mean. They misuse “female gaze”, “POV”, “gaslighting”, “queerbaiting” and many more. I’m glad I don’t have that app bc I imagine that to be infuriating

[@andieallison6792]

It's so baffling because like they grew up with the internet at their disposal like do they not know how Google works

[@011mph]

This has to be the an example of mass hysteria because no way did all those women actually convince themselves he was the epitome of attraction 😭

[@murdermyinsanity]

Sometimes it's fun to hype up a conventionally unattractive person. Sometimes you can be unattractive but there genuinely is some quality about how you carry yourself that makes you attractive. The fun gets sucked out of it when the target turns out to suck but it's totally a thing I understand. I've gotten comments about my partner of 11 years being super unattractive in pictures but then they meet him in person and they're like oh I get it. Appeal is mysterious.

[@doodles1331]

@@murdermyinsanity this is so cute and wholesome (((':

[@011mph]

@@murdermyinsanity lmaooo

[@annieliina]

@@murdermyinsanity i don't like to judge a book by its cover but to me he looks on the outside exactly like he turned out to be on the inside (also what am i saying i judge every actual book by its cover)

[@thatssoari3533]

@@murdermyinsanity there’s no fun about it. firstly,​ all i know is he has made videos sexualizing beating and raping women, so that’s all i have to know. secondly, im going to touch on a subject jarvis slightly mad run the video. it’s 100% “fun” to you because your white. the black woman subject is really more nuanced, white women set the beauty standards for both women and men worldwide, and that’s a fact. they have set the “female gaze”, and it’s weird, because it’s not something no other race, not just black people, appeal to. especially because the “gaze” fits white, skinny men with brown fully hair. something that isn’t seen as features apart of other races. a man, especially one with a platform like jarvis, using his voice to defend black woman is just nice to see. it’s because most black men die to internalized racism say the most disgusting shit about black women simply to uplift white women.

[@gothgirlglittercrust7118]

how does Kevin balance looking 40 years old and also acting like a middle schooler? truly an enigma

[@lugoorstar]

Enigma male

[@MylesNotYards]

@@lugoorstar fuck that’s good

[@CoryMck]

Ugly inside ugly outside

[@mashaa.7509]

@@lugoorstar im gonna throw up from laughter

[@perplexed1783]

@Lugoor Star Finally the trilogy of garbage people has been completed, Alpha, Sigma and Enigma Males!

[@ItsAdeline]

the blatant racism when he was making fun of those black women's facial features. pisses me off when people think they can make fun of random people just because they got validation from a couple people online.

[@LeoP2008]

Kevin, to me, is the equivalent of "What if the Dream face reveal was a whole person." He's not ugly but also not hot. He's....Kevin. And that's okay. *HOWEVER,* his personality tips the scales into "gross" territory very easily. No one outright called him Ugly but his thin-skin heard "I'M BEING ATTACKED NY UGLY PEOPLE!! I KNOW I'M HOT CAUSE PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET TOLD ME SO!!"

[@LeoP2008]

@@homerj.simpson2514 Kevin, why did you make a burner account to defend yourself when all of us forgot about you 4 months ago?

[@lelepoopoo]

Love how he tries to mock that woman for being double his age when he LOOKS double his age

[@hay.joy.2001]

Right?? Like I keep seeing that his age is 22. BRUH IM 22 and I’m still young enough that I sometimes get mistaken for someone in high school. AND HES BALDING LMAO

[@kaywee4200]

Right lmfaooooo

[@markdotinc8371]

​​​@@hay.joy.2001 he's TWENTY TWO??? STAAAAAHHHP

[@hay.joy.2001]

@@markdotinc8371 yup!!! I swear my dad looks younger than him and my dad is 43 💀

[@Mirrored33]

@@hay.joy.2001My dad is literally 50+ and looks 25 years younger than he does…. His face is lowkey disturbing

[@r0b1ee]

Applying a term from film criticism to real people was the first mistake

[@alaytheaherr]

literally cannot facepalm hard enough

[@tacticalmisandrist]

Especially applying it to a man creating it lol the female gaze comes from women, women cultivate the female gaze, not the other way around. He can try and perform for it, but he’s definitely not going to be the person to invent it EDIT: AND DEF NOT WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT (specifically black) WOMEN LIKE HE DID!! He’s just another egotistical man gassed up by women praising him

[@bouirbouir5033]

yeah reminds me of the shit that went on with kit connor :/

[@villi1077]

THANK YOU

[@perplexed1783]

@bouirbouir I accidentally read "kit cooner" as kurtis conner 😭

[@mantis-manthegreat]

Kevin making fun of women: White woman: *looks like famous actress* Black women: *i will mock your black features*

[@M2ofEMMM]

I wanna scream whenever people don't understand that the male gaze is specifically a term to critique misogynistic filmmaking. The distinction matters because now we have people who think that real life women need to be criticized for "appealing to the male gaze," i.e. choosing to look hot to attract men, which is literally not a problem.

[@cloudyskye13]

wait ok so, every black woman he automatically makes fun of their appearance (mostly black features),when he’s making fun of a white woman, he compares her to a celebrity…..ok

[@Imxel21]

This guy is a weirdo. But the people who really hype him up tend to be palm coloured

[@kookykiddo]

yuppp I did not like that. And he said “whattt what did I do 🥺” weaponized ignorance with his new 3M followers.

[@dracohatesu9894]

i love white men /s

[@perplexed1783]

The audacity of him to do that with that hairline is astounding

[@futuristicgirl14]

@@dracohatesu9894white men usually love other white men

[@emmalarente4773]

The worst thing about actual concepts being talked about on tik tok is that no one actually understands and then uses the terms in the wrong way

[@cravenmoorehead291]

Truth

[@bmaze944]

Yes, it's insane. The woman trying to explain how Kevin fits the female gaze was complete nonsense

[@kai_fatallysapphic]

This is like when Tumblr thought color theory was the same thing as what emotion you feel when you look at a color, well it's not! -me, a frustrated artist

[@dimsufferer9951]

Like no one knowing what the hell “POV” means

[@DeathnoteBB]

@@kai_fatallysapphic Yeah except at least Tumblr is basically invisible to the rest of the internet. Tiktok is like the face of it now, so if anything gets popular, everyone knows about it. Leading to mass misinformation

[@AnxiousGary]

If someone told me I looked like I was about to get addicted to absinthe and write poems about ravens I would be so flattered.

[@waewae]

HAHA ME TOO!!

[@ahobbit1273]

I mean, Poe was talented. This man is not.

[@Puriantartica]

Kevin's stare is the look men give me while they're mentally undressing you, it's so creepy and unnerving to receive that look/stare in real life. I swear it's these kids who are not experienced who think that is the female gaze

[@phoebel5526]

this is just people not understanding what the 'female gaze' is and thinking they're quirky by liking a guy who isn't conventionally attractive

[@TsukiiTsukii]

This is so true

[@Ayyoura]

THISSS THIS IS LITERALLY IT

[@inuandkagome4eva]

He doesn't even do what they're raving about tbh... when he spaces out and gets "confident", everyone says omg hes tongue tied and fantasizing about me. No he looks like a huge douchebag.. and does not look like hes lucky to have you... he looks like "omg gurl yer bewbies r so huge.. i get bonar now".

[@monbub]

thanks you said it for me also the fact that he looks like a serial killer

[@alyssamendoza7708]

100%

[@ItsVanesaZ]

"40? she's like double my age" meanwhile Kevin is the one who looks like he's about to enter his mid-life crisis like be serious

[@keropi193]

Serious does he think its a flex that he's half her age and already looks so close to being a pensioner?

[@nessaasdfghjkl5015]

He’s not even half her age he’s literally 33 😭 that could be his sister

[@Tee256]

right! like sir your hairline left us about 5 years ago

[@n.e8091]

Its also crazy how the chat instantly started calling her karen for... being an older woman?

[@josiahmycousin]

@@nessaasdfghjkl5015 oof. He cant do math either😬

[@starja4477]

Things I like about Kevin: He looks like the tragic hero in a classic Russian novel. Things I do not like about Kevin: Pretty much everything else I'm seeing here

[@The0neWomanShow]

The woman who said Kevin has the “female gaze” should have her internet access revoked

[@nintenboi7482]

I love how Kevin thinks he can makes fun of people's appearances while he's over here looking like one of the burglars from Home Alone

[@be4md]

LMAOOOOOO

[@Chefgrlangel]

Omg 😹😹😹

[@ria_x_rose]

I knew he was familiar 💀💀💀💀💀

[@scullzchannel4354]

😂😂😂😂

[@elimiller7445]

he looks like the pringles guy

[@NovaCee]

His gaze gives me “I’ll lock you up in my basement” and “I’ll remove your organs”

[@wonderlucky1912]

Yes I agree with you. this Kevin guy gives me creepy vibes, I am honestly so confused on why some people are infatuated with him.

[@socialgutbrain7774]

Yup. Even a Kubrick Stare is more expressive.

[@kitkatskye]

it's giving Dahmer tbh

[@Saga_Anserum]

he looks like a homunculus made out of dust, grease, and a toothbrush

[@timeforlaurynsopinion5138]

i've gotten creepy vibes from him from the start and seeing these videos is letting me know that i can trust my intuition

[@endlessjes]

i would call that "predator eyes," not "female gaze" or anything else

[@bandersnatchbeauty9692]

"If you get it, you get it". I don't get it. Dude's a little creep. I don't want anyone to look at me like that... "She's lived double my life". Tell that to your hairline, bruh, if you can catch up with it.

[@ravynwillis4237]

Jarvis getting legitimately upset at the degradation of black women is exceedingly closer to capturing the female gaze than Kevin and his pathetic attempt to seem humble and approachable. I thought the Kevin thing was overblown on tiktok, but man those lives really sent me over the edge

[@jewels3400]

I feel like I have seen 100 creepy dudes do those same looks on TikTok. EVERY TIME me and everyone I heard/known thinks it's creepy. Its a shallow way to look like a you are trying to look "sexy." But somehow when this guy does it people are saying it's sexy. I feel like it's this weird mental thing where the supposed context or labels change how you feel, not the actual content. Also, it's weird that this is the female gaze. It isn't exploitative or demeaning in any way. You just look at a camera and bite your lip. Sure, people find it weird, but finding it weird isn't what they are talking about correct? When you look at the male gaze in media it is explicitly demeaning. Only hiring hot "chicks" because they are hotter, making your looks your value. Writing in those woman without any character or nuance. Making them be primarily a secondary position that needs saving, or is treated like an object or trophy. Like a possession. Or practically enforcing that successful woman HAVE to be good looking. That is what the male gaze was. It's gotten better sure, I hope. All of that was only possible in the first place was because men were, and still are, in power. The female gaze, what is it? Looking at people? Huh... After watching more of this video, I'm not even going to continue. Both "gazes" are not even close to be comparable. This topic will die soon, probably...

[@elliot-sowdon]

@@jewels3400 Basically the appealing to the female gaze usually means being approachable, non threatening, and cute.

[@BiggerinRealLife]

YAS

[@miad6160]

This

[@MeadInTheHorn]

Agreed!

[@noms3253]

Kevin is literally a stereotypical nice guy. Acts all nice and once you don't give him what he wants, he switches up on you to protect his thin skin

[@nadiashanel5015]

The stereotypical nice guys are the worstttt omg

[@talkingtreefrombugaboocree4847]

Bingo

[@land_shark_maw1048]

‘Hello my fair maiden how may I say suck on them nips” that’s probably how he talk

[@electricay]

He looks like two types of people who both call themselves gentlemen

[@papercut5238]

literally exactly what i was thinking

[@gothbimbo9470]

1:56 difference is Male gaze- objectification Female gaze- treating women like human beings. Being desired as a person not an object.

[@caitlintheroux5804]

I too love when my husband stares at me as though he has suddenly had a stroke.

[@pablosalaices4459]

When Kevin was trying to “roast” the 43 year old women by saying she’s lived “double his life” he’s only digging himself by admitting that he’s a 22 year old thats severely balding 💀

[@aidey833]

RIGHTT buy some minoxidil my love

[@c0smicchelsea]

😭😭I’d didn’t even think about that. That’s hilarious 😂

[@Chiomaaaaa]

and people were saying he’s 33 in the livestream comments

[@pablosalaices4459]

@@Chiomaaaaa yeah I think he’s that age which would make this whole ordeal even more sad. Bro is a fully grown acting like a teenager

[@Chiomaaaaa]

@@pablosalaices4459 and he thinks he can say that woman was twice his age and people would believe him💀

[@mrspreminger]

isn’t the female gaze supposed to be a feminist media analysis term? i’m so confused, does the female gaze mean a guy makes a face women think is attractive? i’m a woman attracted to men and i would consider myself a feminist, but i have no idea what they’re talking about.

[@Kyarrix]

Me too, same thing same situation and this guy is creepy. It makes little sense.

[@Moomoo000]

Same with the whole “men written by women” like isn’t that for movie/show characters?? Why are we using this stuff for real people

[@cravenmoorehead291]

I feel like in this aspect it just more means like what women want vs what men think women will want, like how some girls don’t actually like a ton of muscle on a guy, but a lot of dudes just assume that all women think that’s hot. You know what I mean?

[@starvingdelusions]

You're right, it is a media analysis term. The 'male gaze' was theorised by Laura Mulvey and its basically where the camera is/acts as a heterosexual man and women are likely to be objectified. The 'female gaze' is simply the opposite (Mulvey didn't talk about this however)

[@cravenmoorehead291]

But I really do understand what you’re talking about, it took me awhile to figure out what that meant but I just think about it like that now

[@spamsam8560]

5:36 Hearing Jarvis say "I'm having Kevin's baby!" Makes me laugh so hard omg-

[@yitraboom]

I love how they were like "look at the jaw movement" but his "jaw movement" was him doing that thing frogs do when they croak

[@ursulap.6722]

As a Black woman, seeing all the other Black women utterly confused about this guy appealing to other women really brightened my day :D

[@byeolbitch]

I feel so bad for Jarvis that I had to skip most of the vid cause he grosses me out

[@Candyrock15]

Hahaha I'm thinking it has to be more than a coincidence that mostly black women were put off by him. I'm a black woman too and be grosses me out

[@WickedMarkio]

right?? i dont see what is great about him i dont see it

[@JeanPaulBeaubier]

not black (asian); showed my sister this kevin guy the other day and she said people probably like him because 'white girls will like any white guy who just sort of has nice eyes' lol

[@flutterg1035]

Oh I especially feel this, I don't live near many black people where I am right now. Sometimes it hurts cause it feels so isolating. Though I also just don't have any friends here in general which makes it worse. But it feels good to know I'm not crazy for feeling like I'm being treated differently as a black woman.

[@justenoughforacoffee]

Him getting banned while you were recording is legitimately the best thing ever

[@auliamate]

EPIC W

[@socialgutbrain7774]

It was an omen I think

[@WonderfulArgos]

Why was he banned?

[@genericname2747]

Jarvis banned him

[@ewe2630]

@@WonderfulArgos there was some drama around him because he watched a girl self harm. Then he admitted to having mutilation(?) Kink so i think thats why he fleed social media

[@CaptainTom_EW]

Kevin looks like the weird uncle no one wants to have babysitting their kids

[@hay.joy.2001]

THIS LMFAOOO

[@RR0TTENGR4VE]

Ive never seen jarvis get so mad😭 11:03

[@salem-01]

Me neither, and honestly he’s rightfully angry. He is pissed off and so am I

[@MarissaMacMarissa]

He really thinks he’s flexing on that 43 year old lady for being “half her age” and he already has a receding hairline

[@bitchslapthesun]

GET ‘EM 🔥🔥🔥

[@merrylyn1957]

AND HE"S NOT EVEN HALF HER AGE, HE'S 33! Receding hairline and bad at basic math smh

[@jenniferparker7588]

Dude looks like he's older than that already lol.

[@jasminelaramay5699]

i was literally thinking the same thing omfg

[@perplexed1783]

His ego is big but not as big as his forehead

[@kayleighfree1279]

Dude is OBSESSED with himself. He took it AND RAN WITH IT and now it's his whole personality.

[@L0STNER0]

Right? When I saw his "tutorial" vid, I just know that he thinks highly of himself before the trend. And when people blindly succumbed to this madness, it inflated his ego. 🤮

[@the_ethereal_memoirs]

And so very childish, let's not forget that

[@dackattac]

which is so weird to me because his whole schtick is pretending to be shy and unsure of himself??

[@lucastea9533]

i never liked him. saw the vid and thought “ew wtf how do people think this is a female gaze”😂😂. thought i was crazy

[@davidgarrett4980]

Hes just an insecure person on the internet who can't handle criticism

[@hangersteak]

as a women, kevin makes me feel more like a lesbian rather than bisexual

[@imsmolandangery4274]

Male gaze was specifically a Film theory concept (the audience is assumed to be male so top gun volley ball scene is homo erotic but women sensually playing in swim wear is straight, there are other aspects about how men and even objects are depicted) but the internet is allergic to using words correctly

[@laurenhatter6824]

I’m surprised that the messy room, bad facial hair, and hand rubbing his own neck in embarrassment didn’t give anyone else the ick right off the bat

[@mechanomics2649]

I've never heard of the neck rubbing being a problem before.

[@Pollyjpocket]

And the receding hair line 💀

[@jen8771]

@@Pollyjpocket LMAOOO 💀

[@youraveragewhiteguy7296]

This guy makes me insanely uncomfortable ngl. Like i wouldn't want to be in a room with him, even if there were 100 other people

[@docsnake]

That room is an *instant* turn off.

[@saltypretzel4959]

This dude screams "nice guy" energy. I'm sure the people fangirling over him is a nice ego-boost, but he can't expect everyone to have the same opinion. Edit: I’m not sure if people know that “nice guy” is not actually meant as a compliment. You can look up “nice guy” stories and find plenty of disturbing behavior from guys not getting their way.

[@kaemincha]

100%

[@specter3660]

If you’re talking about Kevin, I personally find him more creepy than a « nice guy ».

[@Tink00]

I got creepy vibes, which were 100% confirmed by him consequently body shaming (black) women

[@Nojnoj]

@T N hey sorry, but I'm a little confused. I might be wrong, but to me it seemed more like he was just making fun of people in general and jarvis' two examples just happened to be black.

[@saltypretzel4959]

@@specter3660 Yes, I was talking about Kevin.

[@alanais95]

I personally have never understood why someone looking at you like they're trying to undress you is supposed to be sexy or attractive. I don't understand it, it makes me feel creeped out. If other people like it that's cool but I just don't, I see the same thing in all those story apps promoting werewolves love stories and the like.

[@handler65]

look up zayn in 1 direction

[@huxleyleigh4856]

He genuinely looks like he's staring into space, like he just fell asleep with his eyes open. The other guys who try to imitate him have way more life

[@heebyjeeby420]

"The male gaze" and "the female gaze" refers to filmmaking techniques and other art-- the male gaze shows women whose bodies are pointed towards the camera in a way that would not be their natural posture, who are shot in sections of their bodies rather than focusing on their faces. It's about presenting the female body through the eyes of the spectator, the audience, who is presumed to be a man who is attracted to these women. The "female gaze" would be the opposite of that, a theoretical portrayal of women through the eyes of a female spectator. Language is fluid and I don't think it always only has to refer to cinematography, but a dude filming intentionally awkward thirst traps for women is not "the female gaze." That makes no sense. The male gaze is not just what men are attracted to, and the female gaze is not just what women are attracted to.

[@amitjose3739]

I think qoves studio has detailed videos with a concrete scientific perspective on male and female gaze. The logic behind it lies in evolutionary psychology.

[@bluealtas9976]

Exactly!! Why a lot of people just dont investigate about terms?

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

I agree about the term but disagree about what this guy did not being the female gaze. In film the actress & crew are told to act/move/ shoot them in them through the male gaze" which is supposed to be what men find most attractive. Here he is acting/moving/shooting himself in the "female gaze" in a way supposed to be more attractive to most women. Of course the 2 are not equal & most of thr discussions around the male gaze is negative. It often focuses in the predatory aspect & reducing a woman down to eye candy, where as this guy adds more depth to the focus character through his female gaze lense. However I I think he does a good job at highlighting the differences between what a lot of alpha males think women find attractive, compared to what a lot of women actually find attractive... Now the same could be said for the female gaze too, with diffeeent archytypes & tropes appealing to different men but I'm not gonna rehash old ground & this comment is probably already long enough!

[@amitjose3739]

@@NotAnotherKuromi i dont think either male or female gaze has predatory aspects. Its just the way people percieve it. Its weird that male gaze has become a synonym for creeping while science based channels explain them easily with the help of evolutionary psychology. Its no wonder that feminists are crying all over the video even though it has a neutral to positive stance on both male and female gaze.

[@arthurcarnegie9144]

I think you did a great job explaining these terms.

[@Acandrael]

Jarvis who very rarely ever gets upset or angry on camera saying 'oh fuck off' in that tone made me sit up straight. defending that woman who did absolutely nothing wrong against a racist bully was maybe bare minimum but still really nice to hear amongst all the shitty things on the internet today.

[@chelseakitkatz]

Yup. We need more people getting angry about the right things.

[@bluecollarmenproductions]

I’d agree but he gets upset all the time

[@Toxic_Femininity]

@@bluecollarmenproductionswhaaaat?

[@southernheretic]

i was thinking the same thing! definitely caught my attention

[@OHGEEBEE]

female gaze = hozier's album covers. can't explain it in detail but that's the closest thing i can think of

[@princy_is_sketchy3610]

No keep that OUT of my gaze

[@catraropac5059]

Dude looked like he was in the middle of an awkward conversation, spaced out, then snapped back to reality

[@caithenry8429]

That's what I thought as well! Like he glitched for a moment and it completely went over my head that it was supposed to be sexy

[@thaloblue]

He looks like those hyper awkward guys that “space out” looking at your ass. And then genuinely try to bs you that they just accidentally zoned out there.

[@felixhenson9926]

that's the point. The implication is that he started thinking lewd things for a moment

[@Jacob-Sophia]

That’s literally what I thought. I guess I’m the epitome of attraction when I space out in public and stare out into space.

[@ethanbard3067]

Oh there goes gravity

[@HundWasser]

I've never seen someone who can look at you while looking entirely past you

[@lucienbw]

This actually makes me feel sick. Like this guy being empowered to this level is scary

[@Hazelstar99]

The fact that the definition of the female gaze is about what female creatives can bring to their work separate from the male eye, but it's been turned into 'this man has cracked the woman code and now all women find him hot' speaks numbers

[@aristat]

I think this all starts with, like, people taking male gaze (= misogyny produces movies that turn women into something to be consumed by The Male Gaze) and turned it into ✨ Male Gaze ✨ = woman sexy in movie, so then, when creatives and thinkers actually try to come up with a term for works that seek to portray the subjects as all human and not as a set of Men and their Playthings, naming it The Female Gaze in opposition to the original male gaze, the crowds immediately latch onto the easiest definition which is "When Man attractive to Woman"

[@Sir-Taco]

@@aristat what please simplify for me if you could

[@taranullius9221]

​@@Sir-Taco People have misunderstood more complex film concepts/feminist critique of film (movies are made by men for men, the inherent misogyny in our culture results in a diminished and stylised representation of women as objects or an accessory to men)...so in this instance that's been boiled down to "this is what men find hot" conversely they've wrongly assumed the female gaze is the opposite and "this is what women find hot" and that's just not what those terms mean.

[@taranullius9221]

​@@Sir-Taco I'm no expert on this but Maggie Mae Fish gave an example that resonated with me in Silence of the Lambs. Normally in film you'd see a woman as beautiful as Foster walking into that room she'd be the object 'cos she's a beautiful women, let's move the camera up and down her while the men (all the police officers in the funeral parlor) leer at her and the men in the room would be in on it as would the audience, there's no judgement of that and no empathy for her. Instead, we see her entering through the door from her perspective. For once it isn't Jodie Foster being stared at...the camera is her looking at the men all gawking at her and it diminishes them. You can see that they're either leering at her like pigs or are uncomfortable "why womz in FBI?". It doesn't glamourise her objectification or her strangeness or her opposition to the male and even more importantly it doesn't glamourise them. We saw what it was like from her perspective to be diminished by a bunch of creeps and sexist jerks and the end view was that they were in the wrong for that. It impacted me heavily at the time I was still a kid and I didn't know why but that's what it was. For once they were made to look bad for doing what most films do all the time to women. Enable misogyny and male primacy.

[@berugitv3562]

this is just like the word slay

[@mishakeable]

“She’s 43? She lived double my life” And you are already bald, so… She’s done better.

[@x10sam]

I'm a 33 year old woman and I genuinely thought this dude was between 35 and 40 until he said he was in his early 20s.

[@lilypaigeham]

@@x10sam EARLY FUCKING 20S???? IVE SEEN 50 60 YEAR OLDS THAT LOOK BETTER

[@BrinIoca]

Ikr women age SOOOO much better than men, especially racist men who make shitty tt live streams

[@astralsheepu7379]

Literally 😭 making fun of her age when he’s in his early 20s looking and acting like a 46 year old accountant that keeps getting reported to HR

[@mentallyillwoman]

@@astralsheepu7379 LMFAAOOOO

[@emilychaika]

Bro makes me want to instinctively cover my drink when he’s on camera

[@toryslapper69]

I think if you get a load of stans and then whittle away the ones who might criticise you for being petty or making fun of somebody's appearance you'll end up with a pretty hardcore fanbase who'll probably double down to defend whatever you do. You can farm those suckers for a lot of money & views long after the mainstream has moved on

[@beam.2742]

he is just another Nice Guy that gets mad when people don't react to him the way he wants

[@tasha385]

the perfect definition of a “nice guy”

[@dog8068]

hes not even fake nice he seems pretty mean on those streams to be honest

[@amani98001]

@@dog8068 fr, just insulting girls who literally didn't do anything

[@droomzy]

@@amani98001 girls: *have an opinion* Kevin: *races to Google images to attempt to halfass a roast about their looks* the chat: "oh Kevinnnnn 😭😭😭😭😭😭" bro was acting 15 to defend himself

[@moniqtl]

@@dog8068 fr and almost everyone on his stream or in his chat is still supporting and meatriding him it's really disappointing and stupid.

[@blakdeth]

It just looks like the thousand yard stare. He didn't just catch a glimpse of an attractive woman, he realizes he left the oven on, faucet running, and his door unlocked.

[@nospoonfulofmayonnaiseforme]

Pfft 💀

[@internetjuice681]

I kinda thought it looked like a mugshor

[@CosmicGardener]

I feel the same. The blank stare is so creepy. Like there's bad intent behind that and not in hot way. I feel like most people are gonna have more positive micro expressions flicker on their face. You might see someone you are interested in and get an excited smile on your face. Additionally micro expressions are very hard to intentionally do, like they happen unconsciously.

[@lid2966]

All of that yes 😂

[@a-goblin]

dude goes from lipsynching to watching advent orange drop on the POW camp

[@samanthageorge6447]

the way he just screamed WHAT DID I DO?!? grace me the ick so badly

[@onethingafteranother]

Back in the 90s in the UK we were taught if someone makes you uncomfortable, it's called the no feeling, and you should move away, or get help. I absolutely get strong 'no feeling' vibes...

[@Songmorning]

For real. Impressive how he figured out the exact look to tap into your amygdala, primal fear, "run NOW" gut reaction.

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

All I have to say is that if THAT is the look y'all find attractive, just date STONERS, the half closed eyes and relaxed grin is their norm. Date really high dudes.

[@lanceelliott2504]

The only good part!

[@KristenZianourry2015]

Thats an insult to stoners 😭 please they look like shaggy not this creepy white guy 😭

[@BaeKun]

I like stoners but not Kevin

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

@@BaeKun agreed, and doubt Kevin is one, doesn't seem like chill is part of his life

[@m.josena4485]

@@SoManyRandomRamblings he does seem very high strung

[@hurricanecatrina9548]

as a lesbian this man has perplexed me for weeks. I genuinely couldn’t tell if all the straights were gaslighting me😂

[@Saga_Anserum]

I probably like men and I also don't get it.

[@shirin9452]

I think they may have been gaslighting themselves but as a pan girlie I’m not limited to this so I may just be wrong?

[@genericname8727]

I’ve seen it suggested that some women saw him as a stand in for their partners. If your partner looked at you like that, it might be appealing. If a stranger does it, it’s creepy. I’ve also heard that it might be attractive because it’s fiction where people know they won’t face negative consequences from the look. Kind of like how people romanticise a lot of abusive tropes in romance fiction. So a guy in fiction looking at you like this might make you feel desired in a fun way, whereas a guy irl looking at you like this might make you feel desired in a more predatory way. I’ve also heard some women just have weird taste and we're all different. So I guess some women genuinely would find this look attractive irl. Idk. I personally don’t really get it either and part of me thinks a lot of women were just pretending to like him because that was the trend lol.

[@parkerisles]

I’m straight and have seen less conventionally attractive men (and women) as attractive usually because of their personalities. This man has a trash personality and the videos he posted did not depict anything redeemable about himself. I feel like some of the people who find him attractive are those who obsess over serial killers or people trying to boost the confidence of someone they think appears modest.

[@shirin9452]

@@genericname8727 I also have a theory that women probably tried really hard to find the attractiveness in him, and when you concentrate on the good things, it kind of becomes all you see. I’m demi so it doesn’t work for me, but even I could agree that the slight femininity of his features and sanpaku eyes might be seen as attractive.

[@mattea1578]

Kevin was always creepy and Jarvis stays the most attractive internet man

[@lasonas]

“Something women have been trying to explain for a long time” we’ve explained what the female gaze is, we all know what it is, Kurtis Conner has been a public figure for a while already

[@neatoburrito7693]

Kevin getting banned on TikTok while you're in the middle of filming about him is really just too delicious

[@reallynow7718]

HE GOT BANNED!!!??? HAHAHAHAHHAA

[@ixedtea5302]

HE WAS BANNED LMAOKK

[@misr1326]

Damn really??

[@brandonlicata259]

why did he get banned??

[@sophialeejhonson]

Why did he got banned?

[@ameliaq.7481]

Even the girl who said he has sanpaku eyes wasn't making fun of his appearance, she was just pointing out what women were reacting to. His eye shape is often known as having "bedroom eyes" because people find them seductive. The fact that he was almost shaking with anger while reacting to those women makes him seem unstable.

[@ganymedeanoutlaw]

Ah, that helps me see how anybody was seeing those tiktoks as sexy, though it still doesn't come off to me as bedroom eyes. On him, it feels halfway to a Kubrick stare.

[@mx.unfunny]

Bedroom eyes are definitely different than what he’s giving. He looks like he’s high 24/7 💀💀

[@ameliaq.7481]

@@ganymedeanoutlaw 😂 "Kubrick stare". I agree. He set off my fight or flight response. But for the women who found him attractive, I think the heavy-lidded look was what did it.

[@agostodandrea3589]

@@ganymedeanoutlaweyes like that are only attractive when the rest of the eye shape is attractive like Maddie from euphoria. His eyes are too round and have too much upper lid for a man. He also just looks creepy so. Plenty of studies on “senpaku eyes” if u look them up

[@cassie2572]

@@ganymedeanoutlawthis is what I thought it was suppose to be at first bahahahhaa. Some kind of serial killer stare

[@Jennaros1ty]

It's giving "where's my hug?" Type of energy from the guy 8 lockers down

[@crazysydnee]

tbh I feel like Jarvis and Eddy Burback have mastered the "female gaze" pretty well without even trying to

[@kaegerator]

jarvis they're called lesbians, not "female gays"

[@FTMothman]

😭

[@imkayokay]

bruh 💀

[@starvingdelusions]

Lmaoooooo😭😭

[@lawrencelopez9839]

or just... gay

[@Kiki-wm5or]

this is good

[@Bee-hs7nj]

Okay the bar might be in hell, but seeing Jarvis get genuinely upset that Kevin was making racist jokes towards the black woman near the end when he hardly ever gets heated over anything makes me happy. Hardly anyone except other black women are ever on the black woman's side, so I appreciate him making a point about it.

[@mjangelvortex]

Agreed. It felt cathartic to see that.

[@shwilson2029]

Couldn't agree more.

[@Nuancednudibranch]

Same. Which makes me realize just how disappointing humans and society are. It’s bittersweet. Nice to see it done but only illuminates just how infrequently it’s typically done. 🥲

[@user-kl2cx7ob4n]

bar is definitely in hell baby cause (and i say this with love) jarvis is c//nish 😭 but yeah agree it’s nice to hear nonetheless

[@Oliviaandtrina]

I actually loved it too, which is so sad that the bar is that low that basic disdain for racism is commendable. But it really was nice to see Jarvis that heated about it sticking up for woc and women in general

[@ayangyi]

i'm so baffled by what on earth made so many women attracted to this man. like, his videos made me uncomfortable at best, repulsed at worst. i convinced myself that i just don't understand it since i'm a lesbian, but it seems like i am not the only one utterly perplexed by this situation

[@furballscave4431]

sometimes i forget people are real

[@cassie2572]

Since the first time I saw this guy he gave me the heebie jeebies. Not only does he look like a 45 year old man but his eyes say “I’m gonna follow you into a dark alley after this party” imo. He goes from pretending to be a nervous awkward guy at a party to looking at the camera like he’s thinking about how he’s going to assault you later and the switch up is so creepy makes my skin crawl I don’t get why everyone is all over it 😭

[@annechovey1252]

He looks like he’d roofied my drink 😭

[@lacytaylor1501]

Remember that tiktok was just full of serial killer fangirls, that's probably who's going crazy for this.

[@anna_banana414]

LITERALLY SAME. the first video i saw of him there were idk a few, maybe a 100 comments about him being hit and all that and i thought they were jokes, like yk typical tiktok “SLAAYYY HAVE MY BABIES” comments about unconventionally attractive people yk. but then 4 or 5 more vids on my fyp and i began to question this “joke”….. then the whole “female gaze” thing started and it really hit me that they were serious. okay then….

[@sarahbarabe4990]

Same. He has murderer eyes

[@shr3yas]

YES!!!

[@asteria1141]

He had the stalker look. The literal definition of a nice guy

[@desireesmith862]

Yeah, when I first saw it I thought he just started heavily dissociating after lip syncing for a moment. I was confused.

[@asteria1141]

@@desireesmith862 I stared back for a solid two minutes and still didn't see it, you know? I was not sure what to make of it

[@angel-zq6or]

"Nice guy"

[@asteria1141]

@@angel-zq6or yes! With big air quotations

[@winonarose7488]

@@angel-zq6or nice guy ™️

[@simulacrxm]

Honestly I feel like an episode of a sitcom where this random guy named Kevin gets all the female attention and the male protagonists are all confused

[@pixystixwhore]

i will never feel insecure after seeing tik tok thirst after a guy like kevin

[@mtlewis973]

misunderstanding “the female gaze” and thinking it’s talking about actual eye contact is the most gen z thing ever. absolutely fantastic.

[@gaymiens]

it’s truly peak comedy

[@elfsongtavern]

I think the female gaze has been more discussed in recent years. I would not blame it on Gen Z either, as it is a topic that made its way from academia into less academic settings, which I find great! A lot of Gen Z is not done with high school, expecting them to be up on academic topics is a bit unfair. I remember being in high school, hearing any academic topic, and thinking it meant something completely different than what it does. *I could be wrong, but I am pretty sure the woman at 3:50 is not Gen Z.

[@Adanmacreates]

It's not gen z, is just the general public, which happens to be a lot of young people on tik tok. If someone never learned about the male gaze, they're just going to make something up lol

[@mtlewis973]

@@elfsongtavern i don’t say it as a bad thing at all, it’s a completely harmless misunderstanding that is only possible through things like tiktok where a trend gets a name and that’s it. i mean there’s several examples, like “quiet quitting” to mean the long-established idea of “work-to-rule”. it’s an observation i’m not criticising anybody :)

[@mojoforthewin3069]

turning the concept of ‘the female gaze’ into ‘when a guy looks at you sexy’ really just illustrates how low the bar for discourse is. gen z needs hardcore feminism and we need it now

[@xlizzieeeee]

i feel like i’m being gaslit every time people drool over this dude

[@springdaydimple1006]

Saw a few of his videos. I still don’t get it at all.😭 Like Idk a better example would be anyone else but him. 😅

[@Getout634]

Fr I never got it 😭

[@XxEpicSwag69xX]

right? At first I thought it was a joke

[@Shayluv]

DUDE THIS! I don’t understand how anyone finds him attractive lol. He’s a good lookin dude, yea. But it’s not the “I wanna fuck him” attractiveness LOL. This is wild to me that so many people are drooling over him

[@GoshOhGosh]

Wait. I love him. What is this video?

[@FW2012.]

The ‘racially motivated?’ at 7:39 💀💀 dpmo

[@nanashi420]

I think these women are just attracted to the thousand yard stare and social anxiety.

[@marthag6708]

It's never good to put someone in that high of a pedestal for doing absolutely nothing to get there.

[@LoveK1]

I even think it’s bad to exalt people who are actually doing good, big things because it ruins everyone. It gets to everyone’s head and they really lose touch.

[@mechanomics2649]

@@LoveK1 This is where I'm at. It's never a good idea to put people on a pedestal no matter who they are. It rarely ends in anything good.

[@amani98001]

I AGREEEE!!! He has such a big ego and starts throwing shit at people even though they are stating the obvious.

[@HeoBaby24]

The fact I genuinely like his content Because I saw him for skits not the female face gaze

[@drmether9150]

Tell that to half the people on TikTok