The Frameworks That Will Make You Irresistible

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Andrew Bustamante

Andrew Bustamante

Күн бұрын

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@Quick-n-eg쿠이크앤이지
@Quick-n-eg쿠이크앤이지 Ай бұрын
Wisdom comes with maturity. Channels like this help young people to make sense of their psychology, environment, culture, and existence.
@cXms-k8y
@cXms-k8y 28 күн бұрын
define those two with examples I don't think so you are either mature or wise Its a wannabe conudrum
@jt.8144
@jt.8144 26 күн бұрын
While in TIKTOK.. obeserve what they do.
@the4cornersgarden
@the4cornersgarden 20 күн бұрын
Yes I wish I had this available to me growing up.
@the4cornersgarden
@the4cornersgarden 20 күн бұрын
But the most important thing is that they learn themselves more so then their environment becomes you create ur environment from what’s inside.
@feralNYC44
@feralNYC44 17 күн бұрын
Trust is not about good or bad things, it's about predictable outcomes. I like it.
@mitchmvtch
@mitchmvtch 25 күн бұрын
That’s why DMX said you trust a snake to be a snake. Trust people to be who they are!
@Eat-O-NardoDaSnackie
@Eat-O-NardoDaSnackie Ай бұрын
Fascinating, so all these years pizza was exerting influence on me and not persuasion. I think you're another genius sir
@Angen77
@Angen77 Ай бұрын
she says... "he doesn't look like a spy, he looks like a yoga instructor"
@reillynadler296
@reillynadler296 Ай бұрын
That’s the point…
@mistrzYi
@mistrzYi Ай бұрын
@@reillynadler296 hair makes you look trustworthy
@brynna77
@brynna77 20 күн бұрын
@@mistrzYiso baldies are untrustworthy?
@mistrzYi
@mistrzYi 20 күн бұрын
@@brynna77 yes🤣🤣
@dzenis.
@dzenis. 10 күн бұрын
Thatswhy hes perfect spy
@TheReddZoneOfficial
@TheReddZoneOfficial Ай бұрын
It’s insane how I’ve been doing this stuff innately and he has a framework for it. Dope.
@JohnStockton7459
@JohnStockton7459 8 күн бұрын
Sure bud
@markbarnes7203
@markbarnes7203 Ай бұрын
I've been watching you for a while now I love this show, absorbing all I can. I relate to so much of what you're topics are and rebuilding my life from ground zero from a literal shed.
@kriscia_80
@kriscia_80 Ай бұрын
Now i know y our boss in the past spends time with us 1 week team vacation sometimes. They gained our trust and now they influence us to obey them. Fascinating thought!
@ExoticFu
@ExoticFu 15 күн бұрын
This makes sense on a general base, like what they teach you when you lack in specific trait; of second nature for whatever you fancy. Now when you can read a person, place, thing by one look.. that's the one, boom! Either you got it or you don't no matter what they teach behind closed doors.
@andrewcrawford2977
@andrewcrawford2977 28 күн бұрын
I love how Andy circles back to what he’s talking about with how active persuasion becomes passive influence.
@VidhathShetty
@VidhathShetty 29 күн бұрын
This is one of the best videos on persuasion and influence that I have watched. A summary of all the best stuff in such a short span of time. Totally killed it. Hope it doesn't kill my influence in the relationships using this information😅
@andrewromaro12
@andrewromaro12 Ай бұрын
For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden".
@MusiciLoveYouuu
@MusiciLoveYouuu 28 күн бұрын
Why for women?
@jt.8144
@jt.8144 26 күн бұрын
Yet another book to 'copy and paste' behavior from. Disallowing women to find true personality traits. That's the problem today. Everyone wants to be "just like that person" but more often enough it won't work.
@terintiaflavius3349
@terintiaflavius3349 21 күн бұрын
​@@jt.8144THANK YOU! No actual realness anymore
@Mindful-Millenial
@Mindful-Millenial 19 күн бұрын
​@@jt.8144Exactly. People are better off inquiring of themselves and developing their true self. Well said 👏
@JohnStockton7459
@JohnStockton7459 8 күн бұрын
Dont waste your time ladies
@gaBehcuoDsuoitneterP
@gaBehcuoDsuoitneterP Ай бұрын
Getting What You Want: Everyday Spy's Guide To - sounds like the title of a good book and possibly series.
@MID6932
@MID6932 Ай бұрын
Andrew you've been on point with many subjects 👏
@timh6845
@timh6845 Ай бұрын
Being predictable is a good way to build trust.
@SolReaver
@SolReaver Ай бұрын
Being predictable is also a good way to lose a woman’s interest and even break up with you because of it.
@TheWorkshop190
@TheWorkshop190 29 күн бұрын
being predictable is boring.
@luddity
@luddity 22 күн бұрын
@@SolReaver That may be the excuse but it's really her unresolved issues driving her to self-sabotage. Women looking to start a family usually want someone they can count on.
@SolReaver
@SolReaver 21 күн бұрын
@@luddity I’ve never met a woman who doesn’t want someone they can count on. However, I don’t think that you’re aware of the fact that 80% of the women in the USA are under at least one form of medication for a mental/emotional disorder. Which is kinda scary for a man to consider, even though a woman may say that she wants a family & be attractive enough for a man to fall for her charms but according to the statistics, chances are she may not be mentally/emotionally healthy enough to be a good mother.
@bigpoppa5732
@bigpoppa5732 Ай бұрын
Andrew, thanks for sharing Lucy with us.We missed her, while you were on assignment.🖖🖖
@juxhinshehu9637
@juxhinshehu9637 6 күн бұрын
The guy gives lesson just about anything. From war to politics and now seduction. If you talk confidently you can say basically anything and people listen carefully. Well there 's a lesson I learned
@Cortesevasive
@Cortesevasive 5 күн бұрын
its cIa spy
@gfg5622
@gfg5622 Ай бұрын
Anytime your using some one you will lose something in the process Law of nature So don’t use ppl
@ShyamkrishnanNair
@ShyamkrishnanNair 28 күн бұрын
Magnetic presence achieved - Habit10x principles aligned with these frameworks.
@RaulCedeno-p8w
@RaulCedeno-p8w 5 күн бұрын
Hmmm interesting new guy who I won’t avoid lol. Time to go view more of his content, thought provoking.
@horseshoemountainprojects8144
@horseshoemountainprojects8144 Ай бұрын
I love that mug!
@bryO59
@bryO59 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@narrenmagie
@narrenmagie 17 күн бұрын
8:42 ... "Trust [...] just means a predictable outcome". I disagree. Just as with persuasion and influence (0:37), there are subtle but significant differences with trust and predictability.
@ElmerShox
@ElmerShox 24 күн бұрын
Small channel here, let’s connect everyone! Love your video, thank you for providing examples about these processes. ❤ Thanks ANDREW you have done your research WELL! keep sharing the BLESSINGS to EVERYONE!
@liatresanos3769
@liatresanos3769 Ай бұрын
Once I fell inlove with a person because of this. He just kept on appearing, coming for a massage, he was not beautiful not ugly, very normal but with good social skills, not rich not poor, friendly, we talked, he was there when I needed something and even though I felt no attraction at the beginning, he was kind of THERE... like, this made him trustworthy at the end. Even if a little weird detail happened at the very beginning of we knowing each other: I was giving him the massage which he had booked and he kind of said to himself, like if he was thinking out loud, "I don't know but...I don't think you are dangerous..." and I heard it but didn't say anything, pretended not to have noticed, but yes noticed and to tell the truth I was a bit disgusted and thought "Why... why should I be? No, dude I am NOT dangerous and I deserve an explanation!"... but for years I didn't say anything. Later on when things turned sour because he started playing around and being unreliable as soon as he noticed I was inlove, I threw this incident to his face. I told him I remember you said this that day and so I thought someone had told you I am dangerous and this is why you had said it. Of course he answered that I was crazy and argumented that he could not work for any organization because "Look at the way I look! I look completely normal I am no superman no good physique!" and he really emphasized on the physique and why that justified he not being a part of any intelligence group. Yes, I could have been wrong but the phrase "I don't tink you are dangerous..." in that thoughtful tone of voice is not a very normal thing to say to someone on a first encounter, it never happened to me. I told this to a friend later on and he said ignore him, he is just a psychopath profile guy, he says dumb shit to play games... Anyway, that period was a very dark one for me, uf, I am so glad I will never go back to such a dark period, now everything is just moving forward since many years. And what I have learned from this is that even though a person seems trustworthy because of apparent reliability there can still be surprises at the end.
@Misslucyli
@Misslucyli Ай бұрын
What a story
@ancientwisdom108
@ancientwisdom108 Ай бұрын
There's always a hint at the very beginning.
@jmcfootball96
@jmcfootball96 Ай бұрын
Tf are u on about
@ginaking5514
@ginaking5514 26 күн бұрын
The details you shared about this were fantastic. Hold on to this
@STING-AH
@STING-AH 25 күн бұрын
Bro wrote a novel
@noahbbbell
@noahbbbell Ай бұрын
Aaaand now i kind of understand my influence.
@jakestyles002
@jakestyles002 Ай бұрын
This video has a flashing suggestion, "ship for a flat rate"... Andrew, you should check on that.
@OK-otic
@OK-otic 28 күн бұрын
Shockingly, this lesson conjured so many mixed feelings in me. Mostly anxiety touched with a little bit of sadness. Am I touched in the head? 😅
@a.meeeezy9576
@a.meeeezy9576 13 күн бұрын
I love how he mentions soccer before football lol... Real recognize real
@WillAyy_R
@WillAyy_R Ай бұрын
Andrew, man, I bet you would a fun guy to play ultimate Frisbee with
@ExoticFu
@ExoticFu 13 күн бұрын
@@WillAyy_R i laughed. so on point, the ultimate Frisbee partner 💯
@henrykombe7335
@henrykombe7335 16 күн бұрын
makes a lot of sense
@georgemurungi7641
@georgemurungi7641 Ай бұрын
Very logical. Its just a science.
@cXms-k8y
@cXms-k8y 28 күн бұрын
Its behaviour Science is method to understand reality Not reality itself
@kiwanas1430
@kiwanas1430 Ай бұрын
Andrew has an important mission, give him until June and you’ll see what I meant.
@Rochelle1109
@Rochelle1109 Ай бұрын
Please explain
@Home_Run_Kid72
@Home_Run_Kid72 25 күн бұрын
That's the most vague prediction ever.. I also believe there will be an extraordinary thing that happens in 2025.. That way I'm never wrong and I can get internet points too 😂😂😂
@ABeautifulHeartBeat
@ABeautifulHeartBeat Ай бұрын
You Persuade To Gain Influence
@mrjeff9169
@mrjeff9169 11 күн бұрын
Truth
@volume2517
@volume2517 21 күн бұрын
Where's the irresistible part? I don't trust anyone i don't like. In your face, Andrew!
@adrianb8908
@adrianb8908 Ай бұрын
This is assuming people are logical , which they are not , we are emotional animals backed up by reasons , justifications. what about the influence of the unconscious maybe we like or trust someone because they unconsciously remind us of someone a parent or teacher for example. we can also like someone until we get to know them just as an example. It can work both ways, also it's not black and white when we are dealing with humans there are so many variables not all humans fear changes people fear bad changes few people would mind the change of winning the lottery . As humans we don't always fear changes we fear the perception of bad changes. Again nothing is black and white other than we tend to avoid pain and move towards pleasures but even that is subjective. Pain can be pleasure and to much pleasure can bring pain to much certainty can crave uncertainty. Familiarity creates predictions and we tend to trust things we think are predictable. Trust is only as good as the last agreement followed through.
@TheWorkshop190
@TheWorkshop190 29 күн бұрын
No. Men are logical, women are emotional.
@adrianb8908
@adrianb8908 29 күн бұрын
​@@TheWorkshop190No read thinking fast and slow. Men are more logical but still emotional justified by logic.
@grantwlms
@grantwlms 23 күн бұрын
It sounds like you're describing trust as a lack of uncertainty
@OemuScho
@OemuScho Ай бұрын
This is so worthfull informations
@josemarte4383
@josemarte4383 Ай бұрын
Thanks bud I wish I only wish my Spanish expertise could help and make me useful!..
@STACEYWEISHAAR
@STACEYWEISHAAR Ай бұрын
SO HOW COME I KNOW SO MUCH
@abbey1999
@abbey1999 Ай бұрын
Chinese woman have mastered this.. ask UK Jeremy Chunt and Mitch McConnell from US. They don’t marry a normal bloke
@n.vaneeleber6733
@n.vaneeleber6733 Ай бұрын
What do you mean they don't marry a normal bloke?
@abbey1999
@abbey1999 Ай бұрын
@ a white guy who is an average Joe
@urbnfusionteam3200
@urbnfusionteam3200 9 күн бұрын
If something new we want to avoid it? New can be very exciting. Why avoid it? How does it applies to ALL people?
@DanielDomoleczny
@DanielDomoleczny 3 күн бұрын
I see his mouth moving but his voice sounds just like Joe Rogan.
@kevinsutube1p528
@kevinsutube1p528 25 күн бұрын
Bullshit on the 1st one of avoiding someone when you first meet em when you like that person
@stephenwilson9872
@stephenwilson9872 Ай бұрын
Want to go on a date
@Misslucyli
@Misslucyli Ай бұрын
When
@atomsmovie
@atomsmovie 11 күн бұрын
💧🍄💧
@frankmason1472
@frankmason1472 5 күн бұрын
As a PSYOP practitioner, I can 100% tell you this guy knows NOTHING about what he’s talking about.
@zhenyaka13
@zhenyaka13 27 күн бұрын
A former CIA asset is just out in spotlight…
@Angen77
@Angen77 Ай бұрын
you did what ? to who ? for how many cookies ?
@shoncurtis767
@shoncurtis767 20 сағат бұрын
For all the men out there, I would strongly suggest u invest on your mental health because... whew
@wandizzle
@wandizzle 28 күн бұрын
Wtf is he talking about
@volume2517
@volume2517 21 күн бұрын
😂😂 Right?!
@johnnylove2073
@johnnylove2073 10 күн бұрын
Russian nesting doll subframeworks. What's not to understand?
@leyali524
@leyali524 4 күн бұрын
Exactly a whole bunch of none sense. He is making simple common sense stuff complicated and ppl are falling for it smh
@annascott3542
@annascott3542 11 күн бұрын
Click bait title.
@ABeautifulHeartBeat
@ABeautifulHeartBeat Ай бұрын
Lmao Influence is what you have once you persuade
@JeliOra
@JeliOra Ай бұрын
What's funny? Its true
@stephenwilson9872
@stephenwilson9872 Ай бұрын
I will show you irrisistable
@stephenwilson9872
@stephenwilson9872 Ай бұрын
Not like me and you. On a date.
@LilacLove007
@LilacLove007 9 күн бұрын
Boring blathering banal click bait. Trust is GOOD. Knowing a bad persons behavior does not make them a good or loving person. Can I now predict that your future videos will be dry click bait?
@stephenwilson9872
@stephenwilson9872 Ай бұрын
I do women. Not men
@ogm2111
@ogm2111 Ай бұрын
😂
@Xpistos510
@Xpistos510 Ай бұрын
No you don’t. You fantasize about men on your couch.
@KO-im6sm
@KO-im6sm 5 күн бұрын
The way he explains this is very confusing. Be clear in your message.
@robdechamber3973
@robdechamber3973 29 күн бұрын
Blablablablabla....This is bullshit.....you can spend all the time you want with people and share things, that won't make you irresistible ! This guy is selling you dreams...like most KZbinrs. He is good to tell stories, and hypnotize you with its narrative, that's all...
@SLIMMIKETV
@SLIMMIKETV 27 күн бұрын
you lack “game”. that’s why it went over your head
@robdechamber3973
@robdechamber3973 27 күн бұрын
@@SLIMMIKETV you are so smart...
@Tactical_Hedge3409
@Tactical_Hedge3409 12 күн бұрын
Dude. Way too much technical blah blah. Get to the point, do details after. Either that or title is clickbait
@leyali524
@leyali524 4 күн бұрын
What? He is talking about knowing someone and calling it trusting someone. Those are two completely different things. Who falls for this nonsense.
@paulgoodwin4844
@paulgoodwin4844 Ай бұрын
Andrew, what you’re talking about you have no actual concept or understanding on. This is all speculation and isn’t factual. You don’t know yourself and how to get what you want out of relationships and life.
@SLIMMIKETV
@SLIMMIKETV 27 күн бұрын
you gets no hoes 😂
@734gman-vs5uf
@734gman-vs5uf 14 күн бұрын
Whys yt keep shoving a cia liar down my throat?
@Hyphieldtrismegistus
@Hyphieldtrismegistus 21 күн бұрын
His hand gestures made me stop watching
@omkarjoshi-wn6bf
@omkarjoshi-wn6bf 3 күн бұрын
Clickbaiy
@THEGREATESTHUMANTOEVERLIVE
@THEGREATESTHUMANTOEVERLIVE Ай бұрын
any books on that to make me my gf
@gfg5622
@gfg5622 Ай бұрын
Anytime your using some one you will lose something in the process Law of nature So don’t use ppl
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