The grass is NOT always greener💯💯

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MAY I HAVE 6:11 OF YOUR TIME⏱⏱??
The grass is NOT greener on the other side and you never know what you have until it's gone.
If you feel like you can't get right then get LEFT💯💯
Share this video it may just HELP the next PERSON🙌🏽🙌🏽
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[@kanika9995]

Anything built on someones tears ,lies ,manipulation never stands . KARMA is universal law.

[@alexandramateo4444]

AMEN!

[@michaelking9818]

No it’s not

[@monteblazilla7776]

It's all fun and games when they got somebody to cheat on who love em but when they gone, they'll regret it for the rest of they're life. Ima walking testimony to that..

[@dougfredricks2017]

Narcissists never change

[@mutechannel13]

I dont think women miss it too much. They have so much validation from other men... Their egos are ultra high

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

I will respectfully disagree.

[@JohnnyWick9733]

I will respectfully agree.

[@alexandramateo4444]

👏👏👏👏👏 The grass aint greener on the other side, its greener on your side when you water and take care of it

[@bonfacemacharia8712]

So true my ex gf dumped me n within a week she had a new bf. I felt terrible sank into depression lost my job it was pathetic. Bt with support of family and friends I recovered and I feel better with each day sometimes I miss her bt I remember all the hell she put me through

[@sherealldavis7189]

same happen to me

[@bguy86]

Happened to me recently . She’s pregnant with the new guy , and still blames me for everything wrong in the relationship , it is what it is . I take it as a learning lesson for my best partner in life .

[@comparecards5688]

@@bguy86mine got dumped from the rebound 😂

[@bguy86]

@@comparecards5688 mine is still married to that guy now , and has two kids by him . I’m long over her

[@stephaniescott5757]

@@comparecards5688lol 😂

[@lordowusu5828]

You are damn right sister

[@nonenone6884]

when people cheat it"s because they think they can do better

[@christines9227]

I’m going through that now, he thinks the grass is greener.

[@tinamkrkmn]

You nailed it. He left me over arguments of distrust bc of HIM. On his phone, went back to a ex, came back to me. Left after 3 arguments, he said he was done. I stood by him through EVERYTHING HE PUT ME THROUGH I forgave EVERYTHING! He left me.. 1 week later. Tells me he moved on. He was tired of the arguments. He's done with arguments. I guess he doesn't realize... Everybody argues. And he'll take that baggage he did to me, to his ex wife, to his other exs straight to the next person and he'll remember I always forgave him... Always put him first... And he's broken and damaged and depressed. It takes a strong person to deal with that shit... I did. . Good luck to him

[@fadiishaq8159]

So what you doing now ?? Women always lose in the end not the men

[@QponHoney]

Honey you are speaking the truth..my ex husband is missing what he had and nope the grass wasn't greener on the other side.

[@melissapena4744]

QponHoney how long did he realize that and wanted to came back to you

[@molaroismorais1955]

New subscriber here, but baby girl, you are special!!!! i really like your vibe.. It's so true!!! THE GRASS IS NEVER GREEN ON THE OTHER SIDE..... IT NEVER HAS, AND IT NEVER WILL... SIMPLE !!! YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW....

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

molarois morais Thank you so much!

[@bguy86]

Last part of this message is A-1 top grade ! This is why relationships actually fail . No communication what so ever ! No one wants to work on a relationship anymore ..... look at the older generation and see your grandparents together for 50 years !! Or longer . Ask them how they stayed together ! It’s through communication and understanding that everyone has a bad day , a fight , a argument , but at the end it’s all about communication and how to resolve the issues instead of running and fleeing into another relationship !

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Brandon Guy I agree!!! My mom and stepdad have been married since I was 4 and I’m 40 now! I’m use to longevity in relationships and being around that. This generation is just different

[@bguy86]

ReddsPositiveChangeJourney yes very different ! I used to sit and ask my grandpa how he stayed together with his wife for so long , he said he learned that everyone has problems and everyone gets angry at one point , no one is perfect , you just have to learn to talk and communicate . Once you mastered communication you’ll have a great life and relationship with someone .

[@austin31697]

carrying baggage to the next relationship to cause the same problems in the next. not only that but man,how can you free yourself up like that? that's got to to be the most insecure ish to ever do. then get with the next person and play victim and never tell the things they did in the relationship. smh. Satan is real.

[@bguy86]

No Love Lost,No Love Found that’s just some people though . Some don’t care about what others think , and some people think they don’t cause issues . This is why it’s important todo self reflect and work on yourself . Because if you don’t . Then the problems will consist from relationship to relationship . If you act immature and don’t take accountability for your own actions , well noting ever will change and you’ll always have problems in relationships . Some people are too immature to see faults and they deny them . I have my own faults and I’ve done things in relationships I regret . But I admit to them , change my ways , and now communicate better .

[@austin31697]

@@bguy86 same . I admit to. dont let pride get in the way. but you know what they say "when you hurt others,your really only hurting yourself". & i agree about the immature thing. my last gf was a witch from hades. I'd call her out on stuff and trying to work through her bs shenanigans, all I needed for her to flip,twist and turn things on me. its funny how these pple want attention and everything to be about them til it's something you mention to them about themselves that's a displeasure to you then they want to get off of them and get on to you. thus causing the situation to never heal. I had enough if that. she eventually walked when I told her I felt like she was on the bs. I accused her if cheating one day and she came home hrs later grabbed her kid and took off w/o 1 damn word to me and didnt text me til the very next night at like 10pm. then tried to fix her words that it was my fault why she left. cause I accused you? but you ran away after I said that and you dont think that it makes me think you did even more?

[@randomrenea3970]

I needed this. ❤✌🏼

[@jsand521]

Eloquently put. Everything that doesn't have a solid and sound foundation does eventually fall/fail. I believe that America is a cesspool of selfishness and short term gratification. And because of that, many people subconsciously know they are entering into a relationship that's doom to fail. IMHAO. Why try to fix anything when you feel there another HIT of short term happiness that's just a click away. Fixing something takes work and we have been brainwashed by people who profit from our short-sightedness to think being smart is to bypass work. Look around. People pretend to be happy but how when things come so easy. It only when put work and get something out of it that you can feel good about yourself feel successful that in life as well as a relationship.

[@diannebarrett571]

Amen, I needed to hear that thank you

[@jacksondoss9256]

Love you my sister, I went through that as well, thank so much for your video SHALOM, SHALOM!

[@tinaellison4704]

That is so true

[@candywillard6452]

You are awesome!!!! My ex and I had no arguments in almost 2 years.. I was blindsided while looking for a house together and he moved on with the cabbage patch doll who is now my ex friend of more than 30 years! Since childhood!!!! They can have each other and stay over there!

[@michaelking9818]

Did him come back ?

[@trust.it.444]

wise words ❤

[@CorzIlla]

This Girl got it on Lock. lots of love to you sister. Going through HELLLLLLLLLL atm Corz

[@carrieshipp7960]

You are soooo right!!!!

[@lovehonesty]

You are so beautiful and your explanations are spot on. Thank you

[@anncummings5405]

You so on point, I love listening to you, it's my first time listening to you.

[@TheRealOfficialWiseOwl]

🔌🔋✔💯. I had to download this video and post it on my facebook and twitter.

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Wise_Owl thank you so much.. you can tag me in it of FB if you would like @Redd D. Hunter ..I appreciate you

[@TheRealOfficialWiseOwl]

@@reddspositivechangejourney6122 i got you plus i also wanted to let you know that you are so attractive 😍😍😍😍😍💘

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Wise_Owl thank you

[@sillybutfom]

Thank you! You really spoke to me

[@jasonm.9776]

This was so freakin awesome.

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Thank you ❤

[@lindawells9328]

True . Be blessed and safe . Miss . Linda ❤🙏🏽❤

[@kita-1116]

Word!

[@deshawndike1447]

My ex still stalking, don't cheat, just leave you will get caught. My ex can't move on I dont answer or respond to anything! not in 2 years. Fucking with your ex when you start a new relationship will end badly. The shock and humiliation when you find out, leaves a hatred in the ❤ Something so rare, can't be duplicated. tipping off with you're ex, doesn't mean the new person going to stay, it's a gamble you take.... and like my ex found out a ex is a ex for a reason. So now you've lost something so precious, you can't move on. I laugh everytime his number pop up on my phone. I don't answer because I enjoy his pain and desperation petty I know, but hey 😏

[@dallaswhite6501]

Word

[@heath6260]

You are so amazing lady!💞

[@nicole4836]

💖💖💖💖💖

[@dawngrey7053]

Yes, Sis.!!!!

[@dutchpunch]

Awesome video. Thank you .

[@antoniok323]

Damn that was my last relationship of a year & she bounce on me cheat. I’m talking she just walk out. i needed to hear this, real 💯. Now she’s reaching back out smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Antonio K yup that’s how it normally works...believe that door was closed for a reason

[@antoniok323]

ReddsPositiveChangeJourney I️ question her for a long time. I️ just can’t see me going back I’ll always have that feeling she’s always doing dirt or the past will come back up. Trust is broken. I️ can’t see her changing she literally walk out I’m closing that door 🚪

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Antonio K exactly that’s how i feel about my ex as well.. 10 years of cheating and me being faithful i have had enough and now to try to come back nahhh i pass i know my happiness is out there and so is yours

[@antoniok323]

ReddsPositiveChangeJourney you’re DOPE as hell ✊🏽💯 Keep making your videos don’t stop making them. i know she’s out there it’s all about timing. Keep up your videos Redd I️ gotta follow you on IG or any other social media

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Antonio K thank you so much i appreciate that..and you can follow on IG @reddspositivechangejourney and Fb @Redd D. Hunter

[@1509tdrive]

Well said!!

[@banyana6515]

Amem🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@crys444_]

This was good. Thank you!

[@markhowell2479]

💯

[@lukeskywalker313]

Well spoken

[@congobrazza4481]

Thank you I needed to hear that. Love you from Congo 🥰🥰🥰

[@truthhurts6327]

Thanks queen ❤️💯

[@perrydavis9155]

Facts preach 💯💯💯💯

[@seanmcglory9749]

This is a great, thank you.

[@justingardner4658]

Is it cheating if they dumped you and disappeared for a month. Came back saying “ I tried talking to someone else but thought of you” and we tried again. However I couldn’t believe she’s was able to do that. I never fully got over that and it bubbled to an argument one night and she ended it without even trying to work on it. Blocked me etc .. I loved her and every time she left me I worked on myself and learned about myself, but in the end I just struggled with that trying to meet someone else in a short period of time regardless if she came back. She’d leave and come back trying to convince me she loved me but I had less trust each time inside even though the outer was wanting to believe her act. Long story short it ended on an argument that was stupid and I’m now the villain because I called her out on just how hard she was trying during the break of a month while she acted like it was literally nothing. I know someday she’s gonna realize I loved her more than anyone ever did and she’s gonna live with that regret.

[@mrsmcdougald86]

Tru shit 💯

[@gazaqueenbee4561]

Thanks bro. Needed this. My ex gf did the same thing. Shit hurts 😪but I guess i learned

[@lukeskywalker313]

But I don't think my ex's coming back She did exactly what you just said I meant I'm no angel but I love her She even sent me a song by Frankie Beverly and maze I can't get over you Yes she is in a rebound relationship That's what happens when women showed other nigga the plays to the playbook That's how easy she made it for him because she didn't make it easy for me like that I earn my stripes With her I went from being the best thing that ever happened to her to being dumped

[@maddawgkingpin6679]

I agree 💯 but this goes for so much more than cheating me and my wife just separated from a 20 year marriage due to a communication break down it is so important so important talk listen take the hard hits just keep going if it real the limits are infinite at that point

[@peggystangroom5682]

Love what you said my husband if 22 years left me for another mom I asked him if he was was happy as he thought he was going to be but 6 months later he married him I know he dont love her and he has never told me he has his stupid stupid man

[@musiclist5566]

Exactly especially in this dating arena not smart.

[@808Bear]

Great truthful video Redds. Women have to realise the devaluation of their vagina as they get older, her sexual market value is always depreciating while men will always earn money. I am conflicted because I would have loved to of heard an anti feminist slant but i am happy that I didn't hear one.

[@loveshades84]

just my opinion Both men and women cheat. I’ve been cheated on by a few men and thought I’d never find my life partner, but fortunately I did. All my exes are not doing so well, although I have no ill feeling towards them. In today’s time, money and resources are available to both men and women. Women are making much more and are in higher places of authority in the secular field. With that being said, her value is not tied up so much in her sexual reproduction and the playing field is leveling itself out. Especially in older times, were older men valued, despite their age, due to their financial prosperity. Now women who are also being acknowledged for this. Considering that women also have access to power and money, the need for an older man dwindles as she’s able to date whomever she wants and it most cases, it will be an equally young and attractive man. As women who are well-off grow older, they will more likely be attracted to younger and vibrant men and will be able to get them as most people in today’s time can be bought with a price. Older and financial unsuccessful men will be in the same boat as their peers.

[@ricardocamara1602]

You said sister I was cheated on by my wife of 26 years and she now is seeing first hand that grass is not greener

[@jaywreckx7140]

We call this basic LOGIC..... Welcome to the real

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

Jay Wreckx I have been with the Real💯💯💯

[@necroknight0056]

Does this work for short relationships? I want my ex to realize she had the best because I was the best and she didnt want to stick around because I was a good guy and shes used to assholes. I still love her. Think about her everyday. Its been its been 2 months since we’ve last talked and 4 months since she walked out. We dated 4 months. I feel like I gotta let her go in order for her to realize she fucked up...staying strong!

[@necroknight0056]

We also never cheated on each other and we left on good terms. I hope she comes back some day. 💕

[@reddspositivechangejourney6122]

NecroKnight00 yes it goes for short relationships as well, that person will find out that the grass isn’t greener. But when they come back, think long and hard before taking them back.

[@MI-tk8yq]

My ex did me so wrong left me cheated n I guess she is still with the rebound. Idk. I was ghosted. I lost my mom. My ex was the only family I had left. I feel sad I am not lonely it's just sad

[@Rugz-smoke]

I’m not even going to try

[@justpeaceful9841]

Nice video.... everything is well said.I would like to get your email... need your help.

[@rumbidzaijaricha7451]

As humans I don’t think we were designed to be monogamous… the one doesn’t exist and just like animals we should be allowed to move from a situation that no longer serves us n makes us happy. Rather it’s vilified and seen as a bad thing… imagine spending the rest of your life with just one person … that’s torture

[@MarcKlark]

Take my number down.