The Greatest Life Lesson of All--Healing the Illusion of Separateness Abuse Causes

[@adrianfeeger]

OMG I've enjoyed your videos always but now I've seen this one.. well you blew my mind. I didn't realise you were at this level of enlightenment :) and it makes me happy knowing that I gravitated to your videos for a good and greater reason :) it's nice to hear the greater self voice being inflected into yours

[@adrianfeeger]

Ironically I've moved somewhat away from concerning myself with these thoughts and now really centre myself in science and the sensory world. However, your sentiment and general message still resonates. I have however realised that the things we can do as individuals that can improve the world is far more practical and rooted in the way we live our everyday lives. Because of this I became a mature aged student in Psychology and am currently doing honours as well as volunteering for health services and working in gender violence research.

[@FirstTimeInSpace]

Yes Lisa. You have become some kind of guide to me, or with me. To understand what I never was allowed to understand, feel what I felt for so long. Speak the words that strengthen my right to become my own true self. I lost her for a while... quite some time acually. It confused me. It really put my in very bad situations, yet nobody ever said how bad it was. It was a confusing time. First I was pretty mad, angry when I realized that the people around me, who was supposed to help me put me on 50 different kinds of medications to get me ”better” from something I wasn’t even able to articulate back then. When i was 14. It took me 20 years to realize that sound I’d heard all my life was guidning me back to myself, where I am home. That ”BEEP....” you mentioned. But I got back. All on my own. Now when I’m back nobody has any clear answers or can’t even say by their own words WHY this happened. And... that’s ok. I’m figuring it out myself. I acually enjoy it. It’s a bLessing I owe myself. During the past year I’ve listen to tons of your youtube videos. I have no idea how I found you. I didn’t even know what youtube was 2 years ago really. I was.... asleep... As in really asleep. But even in my sleep I heard those beeps.... my heartbeats.... And through a weird way by my own subconscious I was able to do what all doctors by then said was impossible. I left them and they left me and that’s how I got back.... And you are in a weird way my friendly guidning voice when the world gets so quiet... I don’t know how to Thank you for that Lisa. But I wish I could. You are amazing. All of you. Even myself... Love& Light/ Elisa, born again. Stockholm Sweden.

[@BoopBettyBloop]

The sound for this style videos you do is very soothing I love it

[@sherryripepi6024]

Lisa, Thank you for this podcast. I love to learn and listen to others who are on their quest for transcendence on their soul alchemy journey. Aristotle, "The more you know, the more you know, you do not know". Maya Angelou, "When you know more, you will do more". Thank You for Being, You are Enough.

[@gingerphoenix805]

Thank you! I love how your teaching vibrate along side of Abraham’s teachings. My journey of consciousness has now led me to your teachings and healing from codependency. Namaste Lisa thank you dear lady!

[@ayeshhas5641]

I guess you are a woman who has been through pain. you have used that to grow and experience and teach humanity. I am grateful as your fellow human that you have chosen to given to people.

[@k.sm.r1998]

Awww Dear Lisa ,I couldn't take my eyes off from the screen watching you and your husband happy and alive. wish you a lasting love which you are. I have to watch this video one more time just listening to you. Blessing your Gifts of the love & the light you are sending us. You are beautiful Soul & Body. Biiiiiig Hugs all the way from Canada

[@mjackson3418]

Light and love to you.. I've felt like an alien my entire life, destroyed myself to try to get others to approve me and see me while attracting people that don't appreciate me. thank you for opening my eyes.

[@lisaaromano1]

WHOO HOO!!!!!

[@joannawright9439]

M Jackson. Im thankful too!

[@AB.11-z5q]

Your videos have helped me forgive. This may sound strange, but I feel personally blessed by you. I'm in tears just writing this. Forgiving my parents and my abusive ex has put the pieces of my heart back together. A stream of pure compassion flows through me when I think about them, or just about anyone who's ever hurt me. This has to be felt to be known. Thank you, Lisa 💖

[@lisaaromano1]

Wow...this is what enlightenment and ascension feels like dear one...I am so so happy for you!!!!!!! Sending you all of my love xoxoxoxo

[@cindyfarmer1619]

I also has forgiven my family because I understand their life that was lost to emotionally pain that have them trapped. 😳

[@joannawright9439]

Angela B. I know what you mean!

[@santisanti8386]

Wonderful. Just wonderful. You healed my somewhat detuned consciousness today. I was questioning myself too much and now all fell into place. Thank you for your guidance and this beyond words beautiful video.

[@luciaantonelli]

I love you, Lisa...for your wisdom, your dedication to healing the planet, for spreading your own experience of personal healing....with unconditional love. I am so happy now...because of the gifts you bring to this game of life! I love the film of you and Anthony..so beautiful!

[@lisaaromano1]

Namaste Dear One!

[@biljanavojnovic5585]

Thank you Lisa. Just what I needed. Came at the right time. Synchronicity ❤

[@dihsh4321]

I've listened to you for some time now & am just going through another shift this last few months. One of those paradigm shifts where pennies keep dropping & my awareness expands beyond where it has been before. I learned much of the theory of codependancy decades ago but still couldn't recognise it in myself. Whereas before it felt like my blinkers came off, in various stages, it currently feels like I've bought a stronger pair of glasses & the outline to things is so much sharper. I fully get how I've been a magnet for narcissistic people - because they matched the other side 🌗 of the dysfunction in me. It's very liberating & freeing to see, understand & actually allow myself to feel in situations that are less than nurturing. Feel the discomfort & the healthy need to pull away. Not in separation from the whole but towards love, self-nurturing, expansion, service & growth. The work you do is soulful, gentle, healing and very powerful. I am incredibly blessed that I found you on KZbin. Thanking you SO MUCH for sharing your insight. Wishing you all the abundance that life has to offer. Namaste

[@malin943]

just wow Lisa. you make so much sense. thanks for your videos to us ❤

[@creator2149]

This past year has been most difficult time in my life. I ended a 12 year abusive relationship where I was isolated from my family. My mother took sick and died shortly after the abusive relationship ended. So, healing and trying to pull my self out of the overwhelming sadness was not easy. I had tremendous guilt over not being able to see her that much when she was going downhill. Mixed with the pain of realizing my anger for not only being abused and abandoned that way but, dealing with the pain of mourning my mother and both being angry that how I was raised led me to be abused later in life. I love my mother with all my heart. I love all of my family of origin. But, they don't really see. They are supportive but, that feeling of utter aloneness was tough. I believe my mother is just in another dimension but, we don't really die. We are energy in other places. Or something like that. Even though I realize I was set up for abuse, I still love my family of origin. I sometimes feel sorry for my ex abuser because he will never see how his actions and words are so damaging. I loved him. I am a loving person. I gave all I had. Some of my family most likely beleive I am making too much of the past relationship abuse but it is because I see more than just the abuse. I see how it affects all of humanity. Some people don't want to go into that. They don't get it and think you're crazy. So, you are truly left alone to be aware on your own. Where you depended on others opinions before, you learn to depend on your own and trust your own instinct. And, you are forced to keep distance from the remaining family members who aren't serving in your recovery. Anyway, I have learned so much from you.

[@feelflowfree]

I love the visuals!!

[@ChristopherShreeve]

In therapy, I've learned my father was an alcoholic narcissist and my mom was a codependent who emotionally incested with me. I am so freaking depressed right now....

[@bbtobler]

You are anointed... it's as if you are channeling. Thank you. I feel blessed by this video. I was raised Catholic so I get it, and you and I are of similar age. You speak to me! Awakening!!!

[@lisaaromano1]

Whoo hoo!!!!! GOOSEBUMPS...Yay yay yay is all I can say!!!!!

[@nathaliea9675]

Lisa, I loved the playful humor that was incorporated into the filming process!- made it so authentic. Your messages were delivered beautifully and profoundly as always, but also- a shout out to the visuals! :)

[@lisaaromano1]

Thank you...I so appreciate your appreciation!

[@peroladuprat]

thank you so much for this video.you don't have idea how you are helping me with yours videos and books.love and light for you and your family

[@lisaaromano1]

I am so grateful dear one!

[@Star-hk6gc]

I listen to this particular video once a day if I can. I always here something new plus it really gets my mind thinking at a higher level. Yes I have always been a seeker and a thinker of wanting to know more. Not just about human behavior but watching for an hour the behavior of a group of birds.. or whatever. What makes us tick, all of us. ❤️️

[@anAngelisHard2find]

this video is sacred art on every level thank you Lisa

[@mandyriby3644]

Thank you for this pod cast Lisa. You are a true inspiration xx

[@IamKarryanne]

Blessings to you..going to listen to this again. So thankful.

[@lisaaromano1]

I am so grateful you are here xoxox

[@n.h.3769]

I found out about codependency only a few weeks ago, and you have said so much that has truly resonates with me. But I will bow before no god or gods. Im afraid that I've reached the end of learning through you. Thank you so much for your help, take care.

[@ceciliadevinev3230]

Thanks Lisa :) I was literally talking about us being electricity and two cells becoming one yesterday with my bestie (and the absolute MAGIC of that!) This time last year, Source put you in my line of vision and you have helped me profoundly and still do. I'm still working through a lot but the veil has been lifted and there's no turning back. Thank you! I hope you have a wonderful Xmas and New Years with your family and friends xx

[@lisaaromano1]

Cecilia Devine, when I read your post my body filled with goosebumps. Your intention has definitely come through your comment dear one...Thank you for watching and for being open to love your self. When you love your Self--you help the world recover from darkness...xoxoxoxox

[@christinebuckingham7334]

Thank you for all you do and share - love your videos and books.

[@bbtobler]

I'm also discovering a new sense of what unconditional love and forgiveness is. All in the last week.

[@lisaaromano1]

YAY!!!!!!

[@marymclain5932]

Thank you friend.. your teaching is life saving.. and when the student is ready the teacher will apear..Namasta..

[@lisaaromano1]

I am honored...

[@Vitalgrooves]

As always...wise and fabulous...namaste and thank you for all you do...💜☀️✌🏼️

[@lisaaromano1]

As always, Namaste Vitalgrooves xoxoxox

[@cyndilehman1036]

Very powerful and compelling , thank you!

[@lisaaromano1]

Wow...Cyndi...your post gave me goosebumps...seriously...I am honored to be any part of your divine path towards total integration and enlightenment dear one...all my love xoxoxoxo

[@crystaldocieldienve1552]

You truly are a miracle worker! May you be blessed even more than you bless others😊💖✌

[@lisaaromano1]

Namaste Dear One xoxoxo

[@jca201225]

I definitely got some more aha moments! I was crying when I heard her talk about how we can feel unloved due to the lack of being paid attention to in childhood. I am glad to to keep hearing more of what went wrong. :)

[@joannawright9439]

Johnny Allen. Me too!

[@diannec9688]

Thank you for all of this information. I am in the process of recovering and it is a journey and still try to understand how someone could be so fake nd pretend the love and care and they never did. I feel so wounded but know eventually I will be healed.

[@lisaaromano1]

Know that YOU are enough and that you always were dear one...start there--and hold onto that awareness...

[@raisingrealitybylindycowli8160]

So beautifully done Lisa

[@dihsh4321]

And I too love the metaphor of the black box, homing signal. Bing....... bing...... bing God's homing device - like a little whisper deep in my heart, in my soul, "Here I am, here I am. Come & find me, come & find me." Namaste xx

[@nichole8030]

I turned to books growing up to escape. I had SO many questions (mom, why is the sky blue)? If God created man, who created God? (that one got me uninvited to church youth group until I could learn to stop "making a fuss " ).....I was ALWAYS shushed. Thanks for releasing the guilt behind questioning.

[@dlkcoil01]

This is great! I now understand more of what I have been going through for years now and why I have put up with so much. I'm struggling now as to trying to determine what to do now that I'm more of aware of my state. Where do I go from here? I've been married to a person for 29 years who just doesn't see her part in our relationship and the negative drama she constantly creates....(a Narcissistic type; I'm not a doctor at all, so not trying to diagnose her). It's good to put terms to my mental disposition; codependent empath. Relationship has been a constant roller oater ride into hell and back, like a broken record.

[@paulward7546]

lisa, thankyou, you have just explained my born again experience. 1989, and didn't understand it, now I have a damaged brain, but hear your words.

[@JillLindsey0723]

Being brought up Catholic I understand how I was brainwashed and manipulated by religion. I am also not a "religious" person however I do believe in Jesus Christ and pray to him everyday. I have been blessed in so many ways in spite of my dysfunctional, toxic upbringing and prayer has helped me in more ways than some people could ever begin to understand. Please don't underestimate the power of prayer.

[@thomasmclaughlin3948]

+Courtshannon I think so too.

[@mandygreen9152]

Dear Lisa, i was born to seek truth, i knew already as a little girl of 5 years old that ther was someting rong whit this sociaty,i felt it, now im 52 years old and im blessed that i foud you ,i don't believe in coinsidences i just feel that everyting is conected to it all the universe =love i never could hate i never want to hate, and believe me i went to a lot of pain, narcistic mother and a father whit no backbone, boyfriend that abused me, but i all let it go its there self refection not mine, i want to grow as a human being im curious everyday what the day will give me, i feel blessed! namaste! xoxoxo

[@evonsoulos4218]

Dear Lisa. You are an angel here on earth. Luv always Evon Soulos xxxxxx

[@lisaaromano1]

Namaste precious on...we are all angels dear one xoxoxoxo

[@shiashiu6149]

Such a cute video 😭

[@mawmawlinna]

OMG! You are a true Angel

[@Coloradonow1963]

Thank you.

[@brianharris1813]

God is spirit of pure love and compassion. Comfort and grace. Peace and joy. All caring infinite love and pure light. Justice and all wise and creative intelligence who is freedom for freedom in loving growth for all the creation. The journey with the homing device that loving god put in us. Addictions are a misdirected thirst for God. Looking for the right thing in the wrong places. We came from love and love is our home.

[@luciamixon8119]

Yes. Thank you. Who am I? Indeed.

[@lisaaromano1]

If this video made you think more deeply--that is so cool!!!!!

[@momentsoftruth7712]

You are so right, you used reasoned logic to conclude our Creators infinite wisdom in the incredible design in nature & have perceived his qualities in the things made (Romans 1:20) (Revelation 4:11) our Creator is a spirit being with 4 cardinal qualities, love, wisdom, justice, power...Love being the dominant one. (1st Corinthians 13:4-8a.) (Matt 7:7-11)

[@glaceaugirl]

I love this video thank you so much Lisa! Where do I buy your book?

[@lisaaromano1]

My books are available on Amazon.com and Barnes and Noble

[@annewing1239]

Your videos have given me much helpful information so thank you. This one, I listened carefully, and I am wondering if it is really that the narcissist's agenda is to hurt the other - it seems to me the narcissist's agenda is to be the center of life around him/her - they don't even consider the other person. Do both of these make sense together? This sounded a little like speaking from the victim place.

[@stuarthdoblin]

Wow. Intro video style: compelling and mysterious, just my Dharma, the hard work is unequivocally in the product; something magnificent like "Africa" on your personal "map" has most assuredly merged into it's ideal place. Lisa, you kept me spellbound with words and images for the first 05:21 seconds - Well Done! Then we quietly diverged until @6:28 : 'I don't believe in religion", ooops, we've fallen overboard.... Now onto a new definition of, "religion". Words have positive definitions that are uplifting and supportive of meaning, and negative connotations that are emotionally complex, which means, one word can offer many subtle poetic meanings, highlighting several simultaneously goals at once, that's the definition of "complex", none of these complex 'suggestions' of a word may or can relate to the original intent of the word. Your statement, 'I don't believe in religion", is not the positive uplifting definition of "religion" that i know and enjoy. So let me offer you my positive uplifting definition of "religion", and from today forward, you can consider yourself to be very religious, with an impactful, respectful, and genuinely heartfelt world encapsulating religion. OK

[@lisaaromano1]

Namaste...this was awesome!

[@cassandramyth3160]

that master genius. ..is....God

[@venusallegrayerkovich592]

Hi Lisa. you and your husband are so loving. I adore you both. xxxxx I am single. just finally gone no contact with x covert narcissist sociopath meth addict partner of 12 years. was pure hell. I know I need to heal myself to attract healthy partner. I'm trying my hardest. yet keeping calm in the knowing that patience is a virtue. I don't fully understand some of this video. I do believe that I was below the Viele of consciousness. but now I have educated myself on you tube I now know what I was dealing with. yes my childhood was horrible violent unstable. I suffered with invisibility. yet felt every firm of abuse. how is it that you can feel invisible yet I was so integrated in my family torture. how do you know what you deserve in life if all you were taught was that I had to people please . I am diligent on trying not to people please. sometimes I look around at my family and it's so confusing. I'm still invisible to them. I stay on my own mostly. I have beautiful Empath girlfriends. I call family and you guys here. my Adult Autistic son with epilepsy takes all my time constant care. . my life is very purposed on johnny and of course my 13 year old son. I am secure in moving forward keeping narcs from my life . it seems quite a lot emotionally. I just try to keep calm. I need to start meditating. the sexual abuse messed me up. I didn't realize how much I never looked at it. but now observing myself I believe it plays a lot of the role of pain inside me confusion and balance is a continuem. thank you Lisa I hope I made sense. hard to get feelings out sometime. I must start Journaling I just don't know how to start. I always write stuff but it doesn't really hit home for me. it's like I'm just writing. I got lots to learn.

[@lisaaromano1]

I totally hear you dear one...and yes...you need to process your emotions and allow them to flow out of your crown chakra so they know longer have any control over you. The old pain is creating your attracting point for more pain.

[@puresoul1368]

You often sound to me like one who is involved deeply with God, thats kind of disappointing to me because I love your approaches on how you handle each. subject. Your material feels God influenced and for me it took Gods leading to locate this information after a long search. I believe in God as a totality and I think uf you realy looked deep inside of you, you would acknowledge that for you getting where you are it has to have involved someone beyond you. I acknowledge God myself for getting where I am understanding an evil thats on the earth that has crept in and its destroying humankind. For me that has to be God. Anyway we all have our own convictions about our beliefs irrespective of what has happened to us.

[@gonzalescarrie69]

I would like to share with you the understanding that I have nust recently ha e become aware of...how we use the word "hell". It is such a hard habit to break and when you start paying attention and then ask yourself "what does that mean?"...lol ei..."hell yeah" "damn it" "I'll be damned" Personally I was dumb founded beyond belief when I realized what was coming out of my mouth. Especially the HELL YEAH!!! Lol...smh. THAT IS CRAZY TO ME! Just wanted to share

[@RavenMadd9]

where do I find your book?.......I need help ....

[@lisaaromano1]

Amazon amazon.com/author/lisaaromano

[@garimaheath]

Maybe I did construct the affair my husband had with my expectations from the past...yes I wake up in this nightmare.

[@el0vE123]

💙your smile is beautiful. Jesus loves you.✝️

[@lisaaromano1]

Thank you Dear One! xoxo

[@beatemback5598]

Nice

[@sue4341]

Hi Lisa I don't understand how the video goes with what you where talking about here. Also why do you use the word Namaste which is of Indian culture ? Are you practicing an Indian religion?

[@lisaaromano1]

Namaste means 'I see you, I honor you, I respect you'...It's so much easier to say, 'Namaste'. I don't practice any religion.

[@sue4341]

Ok got it.

[@oberonstar6278]

l finally say this l am capible of my own enlighntment, and l wish every one great self awanress to be equal amazing truly awasome,,,,,,,,l can be on the stage and full own it. and then l can drop it and sit and fully be there for some one else.... really and then another and another this is my future or more clearly one aspect of my future.

[@bartonicus]

You so funny, today. But no less insightful. ;)

[@oberonstar6278]

l foccing my awareness that l was at acause and thus no blame deep baby deep no wher to go , all here in a timeless temple of myslef. l hav never been a vicim that is my own fales iullusion, THE AIR IS FULL OF MINUTE PRANA PARTICAL S.. SDO L SPEAK TO THE AIR L BREATH AND L SAY THANK YOU

[@oberonstar6278]

the reality of 7 year ago. the illusionof time. lam agel;ess of a boy a man and a mys tic

[@oberonstar6278]

l know what you know.

[@oberonstar6278]

you can make some one want to awaken . l disagree tithe you your whole singnature is all about awakening the collective. and how is this done through the personal little gems that we each have and getting them the others to persoanlly know there uniqunes and value and worth, is shall be my foccus, as it is yours.........

[@oberonstar6278]

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[@chasebaldwin7801]

Thank you.