The Gruesome Story of Ali Abulaban

[@mopes2713]

According to his cousin “He was actually a very insecure person and social media created a fake reality for him to escape to, but it made him feel as if he was better than other people. It created a monster.” 💯 spot on!

[@Paixpeacehippy]

Where can I look at this

[@judithfigueroa4172]

Sounds like he was a narcissist

[@mopes2713]

@@judithfigueroa4172 I also can’t figure out how they were able to afford a high rise apartment in downtown San Diego. They don’t mention anything about Ali being a working professional. I’m guessing Abulaban was independently wealthy a rich kid. But none of the stories explain how he was able to afford to live there.

[@fran791]

It's always the same story: insecure people with a fragile ego who are willing to do anything to protect it, even kill others who love them

[@industrialover]

His cousin also said he was a good person until this, I don't think so.

[@NIGHTOWLmetalcore]

Psychology should be made into a mandatory class in high school. The more you're educated on mental disorders, especially personality disorders, the better you can be at avoiding dangerous people like this. my heart goes out to that beautiful woman and daughter, and their innocent friend 😢

[@alicedenise5722]

I took psychology 101 and I still met crazy people after so 🤷‍♀️ but it kinda helped because I did survive for now..... My psych tutor told me if you ever meet a psychopath your supposed to make them laugh....but I'm not a comedian

[@junglekutz5625]

Psychology doesn't need to be taught. The whole point of things like communication, interaction, emotion and feelings will give healthy insight into who you're talking to, who you're listening to, what's their angle (if they have any), what is their overall intention and last but not least, whether or not they're genune. Some of the things that you'll hear is just random banter.

[@BettyHorrid]

They don't teach the important things in school like mental issues, respect financial advice etc

[@alicedenise5722]

Honestly something such as having enough self respect to allow you to go to the bathroom when necessary isn't even taught in school 🤣🤦‍♀️ when the theory of maslow hierarchy of needs clearly states that we must be able to relieve ourselves aka use our biological needs such as using the bathroom before we can practice and focus on learning.

[@stevenguegens7047]

After viewing programs like this with MY own humble experiences throughout my life a crazy or psycho individual couldn't get near ten paces near me As I am very intuitioned towards people I DON'T mean this to people but I can virtually from the first look at a individual notice if the person is good Or bad with intentions

[@LiftingStress]

When a "husband" murders his partner, that partner should not be buried under his last name, as it disrespects the victim. That should change!

[@Thenextperson]

I always think this also

[@ThePrinceofallsayain]

And the end of that day that shit doesn't matter her spirit looking down at y'all like look at these morons thinking i care about this stuff

[@ThePrinceofallsayain]

Actually she not even here to see whatever the hell you doing anyways

[@ShaunMctIguenctIguemitcheig]

Absolutely right my friend absolutely when do something like that you got no right

[@rsahota5325]

So true, that’s like spitting on there grave

[@frankmageean6027]

Narcissism, jealousy and insecurity can be a lethal combination

[@MS-km4xp]

He was just a psychopath! Also his culture is disfunctional…

[@Shari_Penny]

Then add cocaine, 😩

[@Lee-up4bz]

I can see why his life was spiraling out of control. The drugs. He became possessive, jealous, paranoid and insecure. I've experienced the short end of this.

[@gamebred_13th86]

dang frank seem like you know alot about the topic ? lol

[@swadey2.017]

She cheated, she's dead👍

[@jaelesilaba1404]

Ever since i deleted my instagram ,tiktok and snapchat and dived into reading books ,and enjoying the moments away from my phone i realised social media is the problem ave been at peace so much just a calm life.

[@TeflonTrump]

I agree been deleted my social media since the first week of January and shit has been a blessing 🙏🏼

[@donquixoteuser1206]

You still on KZbin watching this type of stuff tho

[@jaelesilaba1404]

@@donquixoteuser1206 you tube has insightful stuff not B.S things like other social media platforms

[@souldesire5932]

That's very wise of you, it is incredibly toxic. I implore you to seek Jesus Christ, He made your soul and heaven and hell are real. Sin is real, it goes beyond what we view as religion. God bless

[@mainagakere7305]

I want to start doing this but it will be hard deleting my social media accounts. I am really hooked.

[@melissaprice3311]

As a woman whose lived thru it, I cannot emphasize enough to young girls that when a man acts overly protective and jealous much of the time, don’t take it as a compliment. What that really is, is a reflection of himself and he’s the one who cannot be trusted. Once u move in or marry this type you’re in a dangerous position to be abused. Especially if he doesn’t like any of your friends or family. You’re in trouble, and NEVER try to leave him while he’s physically present. That’s when most women get murdered.

[@jacks4009]

@@Light23K this is not ok. Please seek therapy. This is controlling.

[@ammaarahadams1218]

@@Light23K that is so not okay you need help 😅😂

[@cocojordan7219]

@@Light23K h

[@MaryAnneRodis]

@@Light23K this behavior is not normal. Please seek professional help.

[@Tania-fy1en]

@@Light23K I feel bad for your wife. You are already hurting her with this behaviour

[@Eeeelllleee]

If your partner becomes abusive, don’t let them know you’re breaking up or leaving them. It will only provoke them in doing things they’ve been torturing you for. Act normal as if you’re not planning on leaving them, and get the hell out of your shared house. Take care of yourself first.

[@sitisietiey6499]

That’s what I did, when he was in his flight. I took the simcard out from my phone and changed my number. Leaving house and now left my country behind after years but he knew where I am but I’m sure he can’t do anything to take my kids away from me.

[@toomessy]

This! Also, don't tell everyone and anyone about your plans on leaving him either. We all know some people will always be loyal to abusers no matter what. Tell someone you know and you can 100% trust about your plans, and have them help you. You and your child's safety is number one priority right now.

[@toomessy]

@@sitisietiey6499 I'm so happy you left that abusive environment. You're so incredibly strong and brave! I hope you and your kids are doing well today and forward. Please, take care of yourself and have a nice day.

[@Eeeelllleee]

@@sitisietiey6499 thank God you left him while you can. It’s different when you think about your safety and your kids first, it gives you courage you never knew you had until you realized it yourself. Some abusers would tell you you’re nothing without them, when it fact it’s the other way around. They’re manipulative and insecure

[@shadows1531]

@@sitisietiey6499 take care

[@archumaiza1815]

Its not toxic love, its toxic people who misuse the energy of love to hurt someone for selfish reasons. Anna deserved so much better.

[@DroneStrike1776]

This is why people, especially the younger generation shouldn't take social media seriously. It's all a facade. All those people who post the perfect relationship and perfect family with loads of wealth isn't always what it seems.

[@Mr_Banker222]

Not everything you see may appear to be real.. Well said.

[@jessicabecause3717]

Shits been around since xanga. its all a social resume.

[@kimbettencourt9581]

Most people only post the good stuff in ur life but there is always bad that no one see

[@mik55tv22]

It never is

[@am5790]

I believe the root of the problem is greed and unbridled materialism encouraged by society drivers, and the dream of riches without balanced and healthy foundation of virtues. Immorality is encouraged and deemed to be ok.

[@greyciepesh9784]

This has taught me never to admire people’s lives I see on social media.

[@teamexty6748]

It’s all fake

[@fran791]

Why does that even matter tho? In this situation. Of course some couples on social media are going to be messed up, just like in real life

[@I.heartu]

why are you doing that anyways

[@TheUncleSpiderX]

Should have never in the first place

[@greyciepesh9784]

@@TheUncleSpiderX I agree, I was so naive I guess.

[@iismellgood]

"TikTok star" is such a ridiculous thing to say

[@777yeah]

😂😂

[@sleepinginseattle6515]

People have millions of followers on that app tho

[@iismellgood]

@@sleepinginseattle6515 im sure there's also an avocado with a million followers.

[@avantikajayal9830]

@@iismellgood 😂

[@vivek27789]

@@iismellgood 😂🤣👍

[@abusamra47]

The fact he answered her phone two weeks after they started dating and asking her friend why is she calling her is one huge red flag that she should've known to get away from him as possible

[@ThePrinceofallsayain]

Girls literally do that obsessively

[@laur131306]

I'm in favor of "social media influencers" being a thing of the past. I believe it's caused more harm than good. This poor girl 😔

[@MeisterburgerBurgermeister]

Don’t forget to like and subscribe tho.

[@SuperBoomshack]

Social media is mostly trash; the only thing influencers influence on me is the cringe reflex.

[@scablord9099]

@@SuperBoomshack 👌

[@Foldz880]

Depends what you mean by influencer. I don't like when the content is solely focused on the creator I feel like that is unhealthy but when they are putting work into something they are passionate about like cooking or woodworking or even a video game I think that is healthy and more akin to actual employment

[@jcap8391]

He said he heard them making moaning noises. Plays stupid games win stupid prizes.

[@Gat_Totin_Liberal]

The first red flag was him answering his girlfriend’s (at the time) phone after two weeks of dating and demanding the reason for the call. That type of behavior always leads to abuse. What an insecure, obsessive, controlling pos 🤦‍♂️. Feel bad for the kid and the victim’s families.

[@IsThisThePrizeIveWaitedFor]

Yeah, who does that?? I would be so uncomfortable and turned off

[@keke90001]

Right. Should of left him then

[@clo9626]

Yah. Big time. Wut in da world. Is wrong 4 a husband let alone a bf of just 2 weeks !

[@deestefmorr]

Definitely was the first sign to run

[@miola2083]

This should never happen, unless we've been married for at least 10yrs, with a family.

[@mikeb2309]

“Money/Fame doesnt change you, it makes you more of what you already were”

[@xmisterpilgrimx4869]

Just like alcohol!

[@Aea92]

@@xmisterpilgrimx4869 that is 100% not true

[@Dilly_dallying_kite_monger]

Absolutely agree. Some people are just devil's in human forms

[@xmisterpilgrimx4869]

@@Aea92 Of course it is. People have known that since ancient times, hence the phrase "in vino veritas", meaning "in wine, truth". You're still you when you're drunk. You might be impaired, but it's still you in there.

[@naumanjaved5088]

@@Aea92. check statistics for the amount of crimes done under alcohol influence especially r*pe at parties (not to mention the amount that goes unreported)

[@esthellakomerl8084]

His name was jinnkid?! Those who don't know, jinn is the Arabic word for a spiritual being /ghost /demon.

[@oustaz1]

All jinns aren’t demons.

[@ceciliauribe812]

Exactly… you’re literally inviting entities into your temple! 😳🥺

[@kadijatuB]

@@oustaz1but all demons are Jinn. Why use such name 😢

[@maggiemuthu9818]

Yes...jinn, usually in deep villages home owners keep these fellas 2protect their property, so in the morning they jump in2 their bottle, this is true. It's just like the cartoon

[@adhaskym.a9536]

Jin and tonic. Good mix.

[@AT-nq3sy]

His skits were God awful. Tik Tok is the cancer of society.

[@Initium1000]

I didn’t mind his Oblivion skits BUT yea he could impersonate but he wasn’t that funny.

[@inTruthbyGrace]

God is holy, omnipotent, righteous, good, kind, love, merciful... only the enemies of God call Him "awful"

[@Itsnotapet]

Agreed

[@cleoh666]

Tiktok has good parts, you have to work the algorithm for a bit first to tweak it to your own liking

[@saulsilver5753]

I’ve never seen a platform where people literally think they’re the greatest/funniest thing since sliced bread. It’s also the cringiest of all social media platforms.

[@Nina-kt9fc]

I'm literally only a couple of minutes in and I feel like I've gotta share how upsetting that opening message was. Not that it was included, of course (love The Fear Files) but how it was worded, what he said...it made my blood run cold. My ex, the father of my child, would say overly "romantic" things like that to me often in the beginning of our relationship. In fact, two of my exes said the same kind of stuff, so similar to that it makes me feel ill. Both of them turned out to be incredibly abusive, possessive, jealous, obsessive psychopaths. My child's father is looking at 5 years in prison for what he did to me the last time he abused us. I'm writing this to tell women AND men, if someone is intense like this, but then closed off at times, jealous, questions why you do normal things, always suspicious that you're cheating, anything like that--run. Run before it gets worse. If you've stayed, because TRUST ME, I know how hard it is to leave for so many reasons...never, ever tell your abuser that you're leaving. When you can, and you're not around them, gather up a bag of things you need. Make sure someone you trust, a family member or friend, knows what you are doing and when you plan to do it. Again, do not tell your partner that you're going to leave...EVER. Even if you're fighting and you WANT to say "I'm leaving!!!" Don't. The moment people tell their abusers that they're leaving, or try to leave in font of them, is the most dangerous moment of that relationship. Once you're alone, grab that bag and run. No "romantic" partner is worth your safety, your life. I'm working with a therapist now to try to be able to trust myself. I see the red flags and ignore them because I don't care about myself. Now I have a child, I have to care. I have to protect us. I have to learn what a normal relationship is. I've never had one. There has always been abuse of many forms. I know I'm not alone in this. Sorry this got long. That opening statement he made just really got to me. That gross, sticky sweet, overly "romantic" bullshit they say thinking it'll be hook, line, and sinker...it makes me ill. Please, be safe.

[@Nina-kt9fc]

I feel a bit silly for writing a novel in the comment section but I'm going to keep it up. If even one person sees this and it helps them or someone they know, it's worth it. Honestly, my son and I just got away from our abuser in October, it's still pretty fresh and stories like this are absolutely terrifying...to see where things were heading. And spot on, The Fear Files, about both parties in abusive relationships going to great lengths to hide the abuse. God, the lies I had to tell, the illusion I had to create...always to make HIM look good, and probably to make me look NOT stupid for staying (a lot of people don't understand that staying isn't stupidity, but rather, it's fear). Don't put your hands on other people in a violent way. It doesn't seem that fucking hard. What is wrong with people...

[@Aint_no_senators_son]

I hope you are doing well now. I tell people if you are with someone you want to hit you are with the wrong person. If someone hits you they do not love you. Best of luck to you.

[@Louloubug323]

I’m glad you got away. Please Stay safe.

[@shalom4264]

@ go outside and touch grass

[@jlo1390]

Stay safe... everything you wrote reminds me of what I went through. It was horrific. You never ever really get over the abuse, you learn to cope.

[@wonderwoman849]

Never let fame and failure get to your head. Teach your child to be humble, kind compassionate and down to earth

[@ex7463]

Unfortunately those traits can't be taught, you either have them or you don't.

[@mayramaclachlan2784]

I went to Kadena High School with her….We weren’t friends but did ride the same bus and she had a beautiful presence..you could tell she had a beautiful soul

[@darrickmalloy6909]

They seem to always get snaired into a toxic dude. Men wear masks. And most are very good. But females have this nurture thing thinking they can fix guys. Send them to a professional and get out of there.🤓 respect!

[@ThePrinceofallsayain]

Well if she shad a beautiful presence and you weren't friends means you were the opposite of what she was

[@johnnylay1961]

@@ThePrinceofallsayainyou must be Palestinian defending the psychopath

[@Qurann21]

​@@ThePrinceofallsayainnot necessarily. You could know someone from afar

[@skywalkeri2meleng444]

​@ThePrinceofallsayain that's very bold of you

[@christ3187]

Beware the "perfect relationship" people on social media. It's never what it appears to be. Seeking admiration instead of love leads down this dark path, exposing their true self.

[@Nicole-fb6fr]

This is SO TRUE!!!

[@IrinaGomes0209]

Every time...

[@imveryanxious]

yeah i feel like people who go out of their way to make their lives seem perfect, be it relationships or just daily things, something is seriously wrong… like if you need to prove so hard your life is perfect, it most likely is nowhere near that

[@christ3187]

@@imveryanxious all a facade. They are only looking for followers that believe in their virtue signaling.

[@charlieandreese4046]

Ive seen so many of them but after the murder of shannan watts, i stopped trusting this people. It looks sweet and lovely but theres a camera. So most of it is an act to deceive people.

[@Rose_Ou]

His family said that fame changed him? Really? Fame and money don't change you, they magnify what's already in you. His father must have been a real control freak and his mother a passive victim. You learn all these stuff at home. Monsters are never born, they're always made.

[@kylexlittle]

I actually know this family sadly..

[@mercymaingi1724]

@@kylexlittle do tell

[@hazelhadley-britt6396]

Some are born. There are serial killers / and killers who have had good childhoods. The parents would have been able to do nothing to change how their kids behaved. They feel nothing.

[@Rose_Ou]

@@hazelhadley-britt6396 you haven't lived with them 24/7 to be able to say that for certain. People who knew my parents considered them saints and a wonderful couple but no one NO ONE knew what was going on behind closed doors. Psychopaths, monsters devoid of feelings. Only my brother and I know the truth so don't tell me that ppl are born evil because they are always without exception made this way.

[@hazelhadley-britt6396]

@@Rose_Ou read your last sentence.

[@ArtyBicardi]

It is crazy how these "influencers" really do tend to believe they're A-List celebrities!

[@aliacampbell7227]

Because A-List celebrities are so useful for humanity. What would the world be without actors or singers?

[@itskindofafunnystory...3237]

@@aliacampbell7227 tik tok random aren't celebrities. They're nobodies.

[@ArtyBicardi]

@@aliacampbell7227 There’s literally lists of A-listers who have donated MILLIONS to help people around the world, what do ticktockers do to make a positive change in humanity?

[@ns2110theonly]

@@ArtyBicardi this! The person who responded to you that A-listers don’t do anything for humanity is prob just a shallow random wannabe “influencer” themselves.

[@cactus1837]

@@itskindofafunnystory...3237 exactly 💯

[@candacedawn357]

I lived in the same apartment building as this couple when the murdered occurred. It was chilling to hear about!

[@IamAYYOKK]

He's Palestinian.

[@MN-br5nb]

No American per the story

[@npcfigureathletedawnirish691]

Just because someone was born here doesn't make them "American "

[@MN-br5nb]

@@npcfigureathletedawnirish691 as if that is a good thing

[@Therezumee92]

@@npcfigureathletedawnirish691 Does it applies for the white people too? 👀

[@nevermindthe]

"He loved her so much he'd go to any lengths to get her" but he didn't care enough to respect her. To him she wasn't equal partner or even a person just a possession. She did the right thing trying to get away its a shame she didn't make it.

[@MS-km4xp]

It wasn't love! It was narcissism and psychopathy!

[@asdffdsafdsa123]

she was a mother of a 5 year old and was out partying with friends all the time. now hes an "abuser" because society feels its wrong to police thotery

[@Veldtian1]

@@asdffdsafdsa123 that is a good point, it's complicated, she should've realized the danger she was in though.

[@vivek27789]

@@Veldtian1 True.. Very True

[@flacohernandez4380]

@@asdffdsafdsa123 Both of them are narcissists

[@richardpeters8178]

As a guy, I’ve seen this happen from the outside to one of my best guy friends & his gf at the time. His gf had an obsessive ex that used to stalk her and show up at her house whenever they were out. Got to the point I had to step in and be a lookout so to speak. To any women dealing with this, get a restraining order, get protection, always be aware of your surroundings, always. To anybody in a relationship and there’s an obsessive ex, don’t take any threats lightly and don’t blow off anything said as “they’re not going to do anything” they will. I love y’all.

[@domoetker3967]

Was his name Ali Achmed?

[@bigfoot135]

😘😘 thank you for the advice 🙏

[@v.v3829]

As a guy, I don’t get how some other guys could be so shameless. Stalking an ex, especially after they’ve moved on w/someone else, is such a beta move. Nothing makes a man look weaker & unattractive than such pathetic acts of desperation. Do these type of men actually think their exes will (all of a sudden) give them another shot if they just standout outside their house & cry & beg? Dude, she’s over you .. move on, you look like the chump of chumps.

[@domoetker3967]

Hello All. ☝ We Guys from Western, Asian (Korean, Vietnam, Pinoys..), Europe, learn to respect Women's. Women's got all the same rights. But in his Countries, women's aren't even allowed to drive Cars. You won't see teen Girls, wear modern clothes, make hair, go shopping and go around. They could be killed, stone to death for that. No Joke. They stay home and served the Males! Then they get married. In those Countries, Females are low! They got nothing to say. When you grow up in that culture, when you see your grandpa, father behave like that, got no problems to slap your mum, then it is normal for you. In those Countries is no chance for divorce. Suicide rate is 300% for women's. Women's suffer by Acid attacks 😨, or get stabbed to death. If you are a good Muslim, got connections and money, they will always be protected. A woman's life is not worth a lot. It is sad, but the Truth. Can you imagine how a Capital City at evening looks like, which got over 15 Million Peoples, and all Men outside in the Street? Go to Egypt. Those are just men who get aroused, too. Imagine a tourist running around dressed sexy in the evening. That's like live porn for them. It's crazy how naive women are and fly to such countries, sometimes alone, to go on vacation. There are so many cases where tourists allegedly jumped from the 4th floor. Simply that way. What does a person have to feel to choose suicide. These men don't know any different. You see yourself in the right. As in this case. He's the victim! He suffers! And probably he would be a free man in his country. I am not a racist. 🙏

[@ourtime5099]

@@v.v3829 “beta” move? No it’s psychopathic. Why are we sitting here using dumbass words to describe psychopaths?

[@mulgokizary8496]

I felt sorry for their daughter. She's might having a childhood trauma knowing that her father killed her own mother.

[@ashhcatchemall]

without a doubt she is.

[@gavroche8620]

Might?

[@dakingltroyproductofdade3579]

No doubt she will have major issues cUz of this smh

[@madenee2612]

@Dexter Buster so, that's still not her fault. Her father was a killer with some issues. Perhaps she'll get therapy and be able to break the cycle. Maybe.

[@idpoundu]

hopefully they just change her name and give her to a loving family so she never has to know. ignorance is bliss.

[@chakichan_uwu]

I'm so glad that his cousin stood up for Anna and their daughter instead of supporting this monster.

[@r8m8s8]

There is no such thing as “toxic love”, something “toxic” is clearly not “love”.

[@jinsline7192]

The most underrated comment!

[@dessy844]

Absolutely .

[@abztractboxingandstuff8384]

Correct. You cannot hurt someone you love in any way, let alone murder them. It’s obsession, not love.

[@lewis7515]

Of course it's clearly not love - that's _why_ it's called, "Toxic love", not, "Love" - to differentiate it from actual love....What do you think you've said here?

[@sci-filover7541]

I don't commit to love, I commit more to caring. Though I don't have anyone to love or care for.

[@mereanawi6194]

Down the road from where I used to live, a woman my age was stabbed to death, by her ex, who also killed her new boyfriend at the scene. It was the classic case of "if I can't have her, nobody can". This was almost 4 years ago and I still think about it.

[@ilovechocolate6997]

May they Rest In Peace🙏🏾. This is so sad

[@OkinInc]

It’s all so horrible. RIP to all victims.

[@alexinara7095]

I recently escaped such a situation last year, I thank God the police and my parents intervened. I'm on my healing journey and so far I'm beginning to find inner peace.

[@pault8470]

My freind was murdered by her ex BUT the cunt told me he was going to do it …I told him to behave himself and if he laid a finger on her he’d be beaten up …obviously not thinking that night he decapitated her I was fucking devastated. He wasn’t angry when he said “ if I can’t have her nobody else can “ matter of fact I laughed at him as he was a very weak man anyway . But the bastard murdered her this is 30yrs ago I,m still heartbroken over her death bless her xx

[@leelunk8235]

MEREANA, NEED A FREE HUG?

[@pri.sci.lla.]

It’s really sad how our society rewards these types of psychopathic attention seekers. So many people have a million followers, that doesn’t make you better than others.

[@rydz656]

Lol her friends got her killed.

[@xeno4746]

🎯🎯 Probably a lot of young teens. And maybe he bought followers. Well, finally he showed his real face. And it is an ugly narcissistic controlling selfish one.

[@UR_AL_SHOOK_UP_21]

Exactly

[@puhbrox]

Although I agree, I think in any monetary based society instead of merit this will be the case and women will continue to be seen as trophies. Had always been that way, even woke subliminal messaging can't change it.

[@pri.sci.lla.]

@@rydz656 not at all. He killed her that’s why he’s in prison.

[@DrAbKaN]

Partners come and go… nothing is more precious than your home peace with FAMILY…..

[@cstatum1]

My ex, who is in prison on a 15yr domestic violence sentence, and my dad, who was also an abusive alcoholic have the same dark, scary eyes as him. As soon as I saw his eyes, I could picture them being jet black with pure rage. I guarantee you he terrified her on a regular basis. Men like him are so good at putting on this fake facade and have this charisma about them. Please don't be fooled. Always pay attention to the eyes because they can never completely hide the monster behind them.

[@haleyboo5617]

I'm happy you are safe now. my ex almost killed me now hes in prison. woman like us need to stick together and help others in need of help from domestic abuse and violence

[@Alexandria87]

My child's father has dark eyes too he would have the exact same jet black look in his eyes too whenever he would get angry and abusive with me. It was haunting.

[@rakingtheleavespowpow591]

.............So you basically chose a man that was exactly like your abusive father..... HA!, how ironic....

[@cstatum1]

@Raking the leaves POW POW We met in the 7th grade and were best friends for years before we started dating. I never saw any signs he was like that until I became pregnant, and he got on drugs. I tried to save him for years and get my best friend back, but end the end, I had to finally accept that person was gone. I guess his true traits didn't start coming out until he was older and magnified by the drugs.

[@lovingpurrs8388]

And neither you or mommy were forced..you guys are responsible for kids abuse by you all sexual heats with unknown men

[@thaterinb245]

Y’all the real MVP for including your own captions!!!!!! I wear hearing aids and could scream this is so exciting. Feels nice to be thought of beforehand ☺️

[@aterriblefate5699]

I was with my abusive ex for several years. He alienated me from my friends and family, we could only hang out with his circle. If he left the house he took my car keys because he didn't want me going anywhere. When he impregnated me against my will, beat me so my body had a miscarriage, then blamed me for losing the child, I finally had enough. I hid my keys claiming they got lost before another weekend of him doing whatever he pleased with whomever. As soon as he left the house I called my childhood best friend in tears and explained to her everything that happened. She arrived half an hour later with her husband and a pick up truck. They helped me pack in a few hours, I grabbed my dog and never looked back. No person that loves you will abuse you. Don't tolerate it, leave. You deserve to be loved.

[@anitaknight3915]

I commend you on your strength & bravery to exit that abusive relationship. I hope life is treating you well and that you remember how loveable and worthy you are of being in a healthy loving relationship.

[@kavyag4024]

I am still scared of my abusive ex even after years of leaving him that he might show up for revenge or something

[@alfredspic481]

@@kavyag4024 Haha

[@evapektas3832]

I am happy for you that you left him...

[@Nise_R]

Thank God you and your dog escaped. Love hearing these kinds of stories. Have a blessed and peaceful life. 💕

[@therealdachshunddjangosmom]

PLEASE for the love of god, leave as soon as your SO starts to hurt you. They will not stop, you cannot change or help them. Just make sure YOU are safe! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!! ❤ from Austria 🇦🇹

[@laurabustos6560]

The moment he says he doesn't want anyone else to "have" you or won't let anyone else "have" you... People are not possessions.

[@lionheartmerrill1069]

Exactly, "If I can't have her, no one else will"=Psycho

[@jubilee.x6440]

I use to work with a guy that lived off social media using his girlfriend as “couple goals ” . And they were HUGE. Especially him, little did anyone know that we (his manger and I) were always begging her to leave him. He would choke her. Throw her outside their home, he would just be awful. Yet people looked up to him. It was bizarre.

[@promi9526]

Damn I really wanna know who. 👀

[@SSam2012]

One f my friend facing same she leaves that man but not ready for divorce I think she want to patch up with him again that man is beast and use drugs abuse her but she stil has soft corner for him brainless people

[@pedrogallegos9545]

Mind your business.. FEMINISM is TOXICITY ☢️ itself..

[@moodrider]

@@pedrogallegos9545 so its ok for men to kill women?

[@pedrogallegos9545]

@@moodrider Did I say That???? OBVIOUSLY she's there because she's dumb enough to keep on being with him.. Call the cops.. LET them handle it....

[@mary._.yamborghini]

it's crazy how inflated these influencers' egos can get. Literally never heard of these people until I stumbled onto this video. This story isn't unique. Apparently a lot of people with a "big" following online think they're invincible, honestly just sad

[@Gameboy-Unboxings]

Cause they make too much fucking money, it's BS.

[@dessy844]

I know right? Everyone is a model on Instagram too lol, showing off their everything, 😂 this story making it to national news in the USA, I think he already has problems with narcissism and insecurity, the cocaine he took altered his personality into a monster.

[@intimiderp7934]

@Free Palestine 🇵🇸 Christ said whoever hates his brother has committed murder in his heart, God's law is way above our own, His glory unparalleled, it's not just that we need the law inscribed upon a tablet of stone or written in the constitution of a nation but rather we need God's law written upon our heart, God says He will give us a new heart and restore a right Spirit within us, the only requirement is that we repent of our sins and put our trust in Jesus to save us, just want you to consider that Christ was who He claimed to be, that He called Himself the Ben Enosh (the one who comes on the clouds) that He was God incarnate and that He died for our sake but defeated death by rising again, trust in Him today and you'll be saved.

[@caseymanuel7199]

This guy is horrible. I was in a domestic violence relationship and I’m so glad I’m here and I’m so sad she didn’t make it out. It’s just so heartbreaking. If you are reading this (male or female) and are being abused by your partner please leave they will not change, it’s not going to get better, and they don’t really love you. No one who loves you could abuse you. Most importantly… it isn’t your fault it is the abusers fault. When you decide to leave DONT tell your abuser you are leaving… most people in abusive relationships are killed when they say they are leaving so just act normal let them go to work or go out with friends and then get out and take only what you need.

[@jenrutherford6690]

This man's abusive behavior had nothing to do with love.

[@charmainemossallam8410]

right. it was all about control.

[@suzimonkey345]

Exactly!!

[@neiltappenden1008]

Cocaine fuelling his personality problems isn't going to solve anything

[@fran791]

@@charmainemossallam8410 yess, all about control and his ego

[@patriciacurtis349]

these types of people don't know what love is. or any emotion that has to do with other people.

[@UmarIbnCarlos7]

My heart goes out to the victim's and family. I hope that child grows up without this holding her back in life. That she's taken care of with love and turns this traumatic period in her life into a positive.

[@rosewater3]

What an outrageously repulsive case! Ali is a vile narcissist that didn't deserve her! It makes me sick thinking about all the atrocious cruelties Ana endured 🤢🥀💔 My heart goes out to her family and friends. May Ana rest in peace 🕊️ ✌️💙✨

[@TheFaro2011]

I think we can say he was sociopathic

[@Steve50663]

She didn’t want him no matter what he did she didn’t want him romantically stop avoiding that . She wasn’t so innocent. She rejected him no matter what he did

[@natemcdonough5385]

Man, I feel the worst for the young daughter. She will grow up with no parents.

[@mrtrollnator123]

I feel bad as well...

[@Princeerockstarr]

Wow. It’s crazy how to the public eye, he appeared to be this goofy, friendly, easy going guy who didn’t take life too seriously. But once I saw those clips of him being belligerent with his wife and calling her a bitch countless times it was like an entire different person. Goes to show that social media only shows the side of people that they want us to see. Those were his true colors .

[@fran791]

@@fritzsmith3296 super spot on, study people and observe them and trust nobody because as a woman: it's the ones you love who are more likely to end up killing you

[@andreaking5266]

This is really sad but it takes two and remember, there is two sides to every story no one knows everything that goes on behind closed doors!

[@goldsbym]

These type of people are so obvious to spot. 1. Extreme selfish 2. Everything revolves around what they want. 3. ADD... ATTENTION DESPERATION DISORDER. They are extremely desperate for Attention all the time. 4. They are extremely controlling. They have to completely control everything. They are selfish, insecure. Controlling, desperate for Attention, and they think they are entitled above others. When you find a person that has these personality traits, get as far away as possible. Do not get involved with this type of person. You cannot fix this personality. Run.

[@crieverytim]

Um, he called her a bitch numerous times.... on social media. So...

[@crieverytim]

His true colors were all over social media

[@andivlogs]

Social media isn't real life. I've known people who project glamorous lifestyles and perfect relationships online, but have very different scenarios in real life, hence the need to constantly prove it and get external validation. Too much consumption can create a false sense of reality. I feel so sorry for the loss of both victims' families. May Anna and Rayburn rest in peace. Great narration by the way!

[@88Doug]

He mimic murdere and crimals to make money.

[@jenniferyule8786]

How insightful, mind blowing thoughts you are having that NO ONE else has said over and over and over

[@Ransah79]

Why do people get so obsessed with others? I hear some women say “I want my man to be obsessed with me” no you don’t! That sounds so narcissistic and dangerous. Nothing great about obsession. A healthy dose of love and care should be enough for everyone. This is so sad!

[@lettuce1305]

Because that's the mindset of women who is obsessed with herself.

[@vminhope3040]

For real, I’m the opposite, like leave me alone 😂 I like you but don’t text me all the time. I’m usually at work. And never use my phone for most of the day till I get home. I have it on silent too. I don’t even answer my mom. She knows I hate being called and texted unless it’s really important. I deleted most social media. Nobody knows about me lol I’m just vibing alone most of the time. I just don’t feel the need to post stuff for likes and attention/ validation.

[@mrtrollnator123]

​@@vminhope3040👑

[@QwertyQwerty-eq7th]

​@@lettuce1305you the out of sight out of mind kinda person I'm sure there are a lot of men that like that in a women.. There are lots of women who like the attention as well..hope you find someone with similar mindsets, which is quite easy to find

[@noelirobles]

@@vminhope3040 that’s good . Lol I only have tik tok and instagram but I don’t really post my life . Just pictures of me haha

[@jonathand.c.1357]

The fact that they blame social media but not the cocaine abuse blows my mind.

[@Bukuri09]

It's in the eyes .... His eyes look just like my ex's eyes... He also was saying romantic things, like this guy in the beginning.. say i am his angel, the only one he trusts... He only can trust me and i am always there for him... He hates everyone else.... And would after that curse at me and say things worse than anyone can imagine ... We broke up so many times but he always came back aggressively possessively... He didn't let me move on and made it clear that even if I get married, even if I have children and even if he gets married I will never be free and he will always have control over me and my life... So I thought that's going to be my life.... 2017.. came the day i decided it would be enough and left and he let me leave. So since he let me leave I believed I made it and he understood. When I came back to pick up my stuff he raped me .. the last year's of my life were filled with court appointment's and terror.... Ladies never let a Man disrespect and abuse you, not even once. Leave

[@omeimakh6758]

I’m sorry you had to go through this. Sending you love and healing🙏💛

[@Roses_777]

Omg honey... stay strong. I pray you heal and thrive in life🌸🌸🌸💗🌸

[@exoismystrength9833]

I personally know a victim. She was very smart about it, considering how her abusive husband had literally brought her down to a remote, rural but beautiful town. She got out of it by counter-manipulating him into trusting her. It was super exhaustive and depressing. I hope nobody ever goes through this.

[@kanikagaral7637]

She was lucky. And she played her carda right. Gald for her.

[@neffy2398]

Regardless of what she did, no one has the right to take another life. That’s on God not some pathetic little man

[@exoismystrength9833]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene Why are you unloading on me? Is this how you justify murder? I would say her actions were very wrong but the guy literally murdered her. I'm assuming you would also murder your partner if they decided to cheat? (Hey, hey, that's against the Quran) Her behaviour helps us understand his conduct, but please do not rationalise it. And the victim I know did not cheat, I'm sorry. She was duped.

[@exoismystrength9833]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene lol okay then

[@singhpunam4080]

@@exoismystrength9833 kzbin.info/www/bejne/anKcpKGajMeCgJY

[@daisylyn2336]

If your partner shows a sign of abusive behavior,dont ignore it. All the red flags are there, the last straw was him pushing her and loading a gun infront of their kid. Dont let yourself be abused girls, your life is more important than your marriage.

[@fofao681]

And boys.as you know man are abused and killed too by females in relationships

[@ducatidarren3516]

I can say; the Instagram people whom have a large following that I have met in real life have been some of the most misguided mentally unstable people ever.

[@icequeen9417]

If you are going to leave an abusive relationship dont tell them what u are going to do, plan it secretly make sure you have some savings and move as far way as you can , then proceed with the divorce.. takes alot of planning but it will be worth it.

[@savithrivenugopal]

Sound advice!

[@maureensamson4863]

Yes .... it's perfectly good advice .... been there, done that . All the best to anyone who is in this situation !

[@norsidahyangyahaya6820]

@@maureensamson4863 been there done that too

[@scablord9099]

Social media influencers are all so cringey, I don't know why anyone follows those kind of people

[@truenokill]

And I despise that they USE their children who can't consent

[@daveatkins3568]

It’s so weird. Right. Watch other people live so you don’t have to

[@YoDawg-mq2iw]

I was thinking the same, surprised to see others agree.

[@oxyht]

I just save things rather than following anybody.

[@jessy7796]

i don’t understand why people are so against them. especially the ones who use their platform to spread awareness about important issues.

[@oldsoulbiz3526]

A little tidbit about his "JinnKid" name (See his eyes at 6:21): Jinn in Arabic refers to an intelligent life form that's usually refer to as "devils" or "demons" or "evil spirits" in English. The thing is, jinns aren't necessarily evil. Just like humans, there are good and there are bad ones. With that said, most of the time when people talk about jinns, it's usually in a negative manner. So that's already a red flag to me.

[@richardsanchez9190]

I was gonna comment on that. Foreshadowing

[@grigorig1055]

In Islam, Jinns are the unseen beings who are around us. In other words they are Ghosts/spirit. Sometimes they can enter a human, possessed the individual. They came in both genders. They also are Muslim and non-Muslim. Just like humans they have bad ones and good ones. For this crazed dude to name himself that is just ironic. Was he possessed by a Jinn to have committed this crime ? I’d say he was possessed by stupidity.

[@VK-qo1gm]

Thx for the name explanation

[@vintagefiasco2271]

He had a demonic spirit .....they have many names, but they are ALL evil, there's no such thing as a good demon. In Japan they believe that but if it's a demon at all, it hates you trust me. There's angels, demons, fallen angels and nephilim which is the product of a fallen angel and a human woman. I don't understand how any form of a demon can be a good one, this is real life not an anime

[@grigorig1055]

@@vintagefiasco2271 We’re not talking about demons. Jinns are spiritual beings.

[@solomonyasharahla8603]

This is elite narrating. Always bone chilling.

[@garyshissler4243]

I've never heard of Jinnkid ,but it's clear he totally unraveled on camera and millions of "Subscribers "Watched this?? Says something about the world we live in.... Sad& Tragic!!😪🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@wwzsdfy]

I like the content but it’s so weird how you keep describing how “gorgeous, stunning, beautiful…etc” she was a human being who didn’t deserve to die.

[@Juuk-D]

Why is it weird???? OFC she is a human being and didnt deserve to die wtf? No one disagrees with you here bud?

[@LokiPii]

@@Juuk-D Language can be subconsciously objectifying, is what they're saying. This video ignored the things that would humanize her, such as she was a entrepreneur from Okinawa or that she was a incredibly devoted mother with talents and interests. Instead it often reduces her to 'the pretty victim'.

[@sadlad2005]

Rip Anna and Rayburn sincere condolences to the family, her daughter and friends. Just how would you like the beautiful murdered lady described... If it was your sister or best friend she would have automatically been described as beautiful I'm sure. Its not that the person HAS to be beautiful, people can be beautiful inside as well as outside. So don't get hung up on the word itself look at it in broader terms. BTW excellent quality of the upload.

[@anonymouse6703]

@@LokiPii I see what you're saying and I agree that's the case with a lot of these types of stories I've seen - however anyone with eyes can clearly see she was absolutely stunning and in this particular case I think it would be kind of odd if her beauty wasn't acknowledged :)

[@Storm78727]

I agree

[@Lynnae9706]

If you ever kick ANYONE out of your home, the locks should be changed immediately.

[@monyet82]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene how can you listen to a man that is self centered, abusive, possesive, doing drugs, and paranoid.

[@carlyh6913]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene you're deluded

[@JonNobleNobelOne]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene damn dude, that’s pretty rough. But here in America, women are allowed to do whatever they want just like men. You should move in with the taliban if you think Anna didn’t have the right to do what she did.

[@officialshay8009]

@@FulltimeDuddooScene I mean I can't even disagree with this u are right but she still didn't deserve to die bc of it

[@FulltimeDuddooScene]

@@officialshay8009 neither did Ali deserve all this... So yeah...p.s last I checked cheating spouses were stoned to death. In cases like these where the house and children are stolen much worse... Hence the Hadith that (concept) more women will enter into the hellfire for being ungrateful to their husbands...

[@dr.shifamajidhashia]

People who are toxic and abusive rarely show that to the whole world. Its the reality for many people in relationships. Abusers are sometimes the most charistmatic and innocent looking people you'll ever encounter. The only answer to anger and abuse in a relationship is breakup with no contact. No amount of love and care will heal a horrible man like this.

[@ecstaticfreak]

Authority, power and wealth do not change a man, they only reveal him.

[@julezgeorge6948]

As does alcohol

[@zainabstewartstewart9585]

Exactly!they say in Islam give a man power and see how he treats people!

[@ecstaticfreak]

@Zainabstewart Stewart As far as I know, its a quote from Ali AS

[@cauha12]

Money cant buy inner peace!

[@affan3095]

@@zainabstewartstewart9585 there's no such power given ok!!! Why bringing religion..

[@mehemmelamina4502]

This is a pure example of the power of social media, it gives wings to the wrong people, too much attention, too much appreciation, bigger ego then this, from a loser to an unstoppable star with no real talent to a killer

[@feetfunguz9240]

He was talented at acting, nothing special but he was famous off of it for a reason. I’d call it wasted talent. Still a pos

[@mehemmelamina4502]

The bar for talent has become so low that everyone has become talented for copying someone, we all can do that if we put our mind into it, go check tiktok, everyone has become a dancer, singer, or worst, influencer, and everyone is getting an overwhelming amount of attention, some deserve bcs they do have talent, most don’t, this is an example of that, bottom line, we should be aware of who we call talented , just so that we don’t make a monster out of them

[@johnnyfavorite1194]

Social Media plays second fiddle to the fans who make these internet celebrities the famous people they are for no apparent reason.

[@cauha12]

Well said+

[@peacelove7437]

Social media celebrities are the walmart of celebrities. Most actors go to acting school to work on their craft, getting educated. Anyone from the streets can be famous now because of social media. Sad....

[@Ryan-pg7uo]

“San Diego is often called one of Americas fines cities” Proceeds to show footage of San Francisco.

[@silvinasi]

Even a generic beach somewhere would have been better than the bloody Golden Gate 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@greenjupiter]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@greenjupiter]

@@silvinasi 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ishmaellion6721]

Close enough they both start with San

[@sunnyboknow]

Lol

[@leelee3995]

Overall, this was a spot on and concise narration. Great work on highlighting the most critical aspects of this case

[@LB-tm1oj]

This story breaks my heart. Too many women are dead because of men like this and the lack of action around them

[@inabel.24]

Same.

[@voiceofreason1829]

Poor women... How many guys are dead cuz of girls yikes

[@iamcommonman]

Too many men died because of cheating women..

[@LB-tm1oj]

@@iamcommonman yes as you and a bunch of other weirdos have brought up. As if any of them deserved to lose their lives because of his bruised ego

[@nomudnolotus4410]

He killed a man too.

[@anonymouse6703]

I've had 2 relationships like this and I'm realizing how lucky I am that neither one of them escalated to violence. I feel so bad for anyone who falls in love with a partner that ends up trying to own your every move and blink of an eye. I think it's a combo of deep insecurity and narcissism that makes a person flip out like that. Now the little girl is without her beautiful mother and I hope his cell mate treats him exactly the same way.

[@adriana27100]

Same here…. Very scary to know I could have been murdered… lesson learnt! Be safe out there! 💕💕💕

[@shoazdon7000]

I mean this with sincerity get some therapy and some help. If it happens once you can pass it off but the fact you got into two relationships like that is not normal. You might have some unresolved stuff or something. I don’t mean this in a condescending way either like this story right here is just mad

[@anonymouse6703]

@@shoazdon7000 Yes I agree; at that time, I didn't know how to stand up for myself and I was afraid to be alone. That was over 10 years ago and now I'm totally fine being by myself and I don't let anyone mess with me. Those relationships taught me how to grow up real quick and I only hope others learn how to find strength within themselves to get out of toxic relationships.

[@thugmonk9837]

@@anonymouse6703 2 relationships? What are the chances of that? Are you sure there isn't something about you that's attracting narcissists? Not trying to be mean but I hear like attracts like a lot of the time

[@anonymouse6703]

@@thugmonk9837 Oh brother, what an ignorant thing to say. I've heard a lot of things too but that doesn't mean I go around making sweeping judgements about someone based on a snippet of information on the internet.

[@salahuddinmuhammad3251]

This is so sad to hear and I was horrified hearing that she did not change the locks when he moved out. What a horrible thing. Social media makes people feel like giants, Untouchable. He had deep-seated problems since childhood, I'm sure.

[@joerodriguez6587]

Deep seeded

[@ivyvulaj8804]

Inbred, i bet his parents were cousins!

[@m3d00sa]

I was thinking exactly the same as you!!! Why on earth did she not change the locks immediately after he left, knowing that he had a key?

[@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj]

Most likely suffered from childhood abandonment That's what possessive people mostly suffer from

[@Hartleymolly]

Never let them know your leaving, plan it, and then disappear, this case is so sad 😢

[@DaisyReynaFilm]

She had so much potential to live her life on her own without someone being abusive towards her and jealous. Rest In Peace to her and her friend.

[@tristan583]

Lil , she signed up for it

[@kyriacarica5862]

“He was a star” Meanwhile, I saw this video and was in shock because I didn’t know “oblivion skit guy from two years ago” had done this and I’d forgotten he existed. I am sure a lot of people did, too. I didn’t even know his name. He’s not a star. He’s not famous. He’s an insecure loser who will spend the rest of his pathetic life in jail because he couldn’t handle his wife becoming her own person. Zero sympathy.

[@theearlynovamber8295]

I lost my beautiful cousin to domestic violence. She was a week away from graduating San Diego state university and her ex shot her then killed himself.. I still don’t forgive him and I don’t think I will ever.. it’s been over 10 years.. she was only 22 when her life ended.. this guy is pathetic and I hope he never has a good nights sleep for the rest of his horrible life.. I pray for peace for her family and friends, and her daughter. She lost her mom and her dad in one day.. ❤️

[@Njoumanoura]

Rip angel 😭 im sry for ur loss.

[@neosky9]

🙏

[@debrajones9325]

Sorry for your loss... But.? Didn't you say he killed himself.? Then why say you hope he never has a good night sleep for the rest of his life? And you will never forgive him? Is he dead or alive. Just asking. Sorry.

[@theearlynovamber8295]

@@debrajones9325 no worries, I know it’s kinda confusing cause I was talking about my loss, and the guy in the video as well.. I was taking about the murderer in the video, I hope he never has a good night sleep in prison. And I’ll never forgive the guy who murdered my cousin.

[@theearlynovamber8295]

@@Njoumanoura thank you ❤️

[@TheBambster1]

gosh, this is terrible. This exact reason is why I make sure to lock both locks on my door. That deadbolt lock could’ve maybe saved them both from him entering. Who knows though, he could’ve waited around for them as well. Such a crazy situation.

[@geeksworkshop]

I'm not sure anything legal would have stopped this guy, he was clearly a narcissist with other issues.

[@Steve-ry1cz]

I've lost faith in everyone nowadays. With trust issues and other problems compiling, it got to the point that dying alone is much better than dying with such people

[@MsGlamourish]

exactly my thought too, i’m finding that being single might not be all that bad

[@anasamira2738]

I agree, even if many times I feel loneliness due to the fact of being single

[@ep4423]

Yep I'm single years and nobody wlll ever convince me relationships are cosy and warm

[@Kpop-eye-f7t]

Interesting

[@Maderlololohio]

I was happiest when single. Studying and working. I thought marriage and kids would encrease the happiness. Wrong. The kids are ok ofc but the marriage itself is so hard on both the hubby and I even though we are open about it all w each other we still both feel imprisoned at times etc. But now we also got quite attached. I am also open w the kids about being honest that being single and remaining childless is also a valid and interesting option and life choice.

[@danpaul4975]

True of most people to boast a life of sunshine and rainbows all over social media to make their friends/strangers envious and jealous because behind closed doors they're fiercely insecure. Or, as in this case, in a severely toxic relationship. I've had a couple of girls over the years crying to me that their partners were violent despite their Facebook/insta painting a different picture

[@juanitarichards1074]

The shame of being in an abusive relationship is not something victims advertise,. You are privileged if they even confide in you.

[@Briannafrancis-e9g]

I was just thinking “wow how many murderers were famous on Tik tok or KZbin? “ Yep narcissistic people who crave attention

[@Dreamtime-Walker]

Just Because You Bring Someone to America Doesn’t Mean They Owe You Their Life.

[@smartphonereviewa]

It kind of does if you a grateful person and if u ungrateful you gotta die lol im asumming

[@LifeisaHorrorMovie]

@@smartphonereviewa No.

[@Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii]

@@smartphonereviewa what kind of ass backwards logic is that?

[@smartphonereviewa]

@@Wajiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii lol he saved her from poverty and gave her a good life im saying he should have killed her but he did in my culture we dont kill woman this guy is a arab lol what you expect. if my girl cheated on me id give her a beating stil not kill her.

[@smartphonereviewa]

@@LifeisaHorrorMovie yes yes 😝😝😝

[@saafiiiraa]

This video made me realize I prefer the true crime stories that tell the victim's side. Anna was just a sidekick in this portrayal, when in reality it's her loss of life we mourn, not some dime-a-dozen dweeb on the interwebs. 👎

[@ajordan1976]

Thank you

[@debrajones9325]

Well said. I didn't look at it like that. Now I do.. I prefer the true crime stories too. She was the victim and again he is the "star" of the vid....?

[@Millyalston12]

Rewatch the video bc he definitely focused on her for a good portion of the video plus he was focusing on their relationship

[@saafiiiraa]

@@Millyalston12 The title promotes the perp, and I don't think he deserves mentioning. If you look at the videos released after this one, they're naming the victim and not the perp in the title. I like that, because again, those are the people we miss and cry for - not some lowlife the world had been better off without. 😬

[@stephenireland3816]

I’ve known narcissists my life entire life and he fits all the classic traits perfectly. When he heard them laughing, that would’ve triggered a catastrophic narcissistic injury. Narcissists are incredibly fragile and insecure beneath their fake confident exterior. Too insecure to trust they have to control by any means possible. Narcissistic personality disorder(NPD) is pretty much incurable with around 5% of population having NPD All relationships with narcissists end badly with much emotional abuse. My mother had NPD and I was drawn to naturalistic women and they were drawn to me as good narcissistic supply. I wish I knew what I know today because it would’ve saved me a lot of heartache. No contact is the best way to deal with a narcissist. Save yourself!

[@pamelasm85]

100% They are THE most fragile therapy clients, if they ever even come in (usually court-ordered if at all)

[@stephenireland3816]

pamela My old flat mate went to court ordered counselling. I just imagined him believing he was smarter than the counsellor and attempting to control the whole session. My late narcissists mother ran her own counselling service. She was a child therapist and marriage counsellor. Paying a narcissist for life advice is actually very sad and tragic. The scars have faded but they will always be with me.

[@carmenburgos1616]

First of all Narccisitic people can be extrovert or introvert , the term Narccisit has been mis used entirely due to the nature of cell phones and the Yu tube Go pro cam algorithm life .. .. The very nature of ha being a Yu tube is narcissistic !! YOU TUBE MEANS YOUR VISION … If yoy look closely , 97 % of all that is in Yu tube is about each persons life .. Ots like look at me !! Watch carefully and you’ll see its all about every person channel ..

[@typeonegative122]

*Huge hugs* 💙💜💜💜💜💛

[@stephenireland3816]

typeonegative122 Thx😊

[@tntn4541]

I can see why he would be suspicious of her being around other men wanting to know where she is at all times. Still he shouldn't have been abusive, oppressive and a danger to his family. That's what got their marriage to deteriorate.

[@nathanmageau8287]

Narcissism to the point of loss of touch with reality. Dude really possessed every quality I hate in a person.

[@cauha12]

Thats what happens when you get SO brainwashed to the point were his self worth came from social media not from himself. Delusional.

[@sh3rocks01]

I still can’t believe I used to be a fan of his Skyrim videos. Goes to show that ANYONE can be different than what they are online.

[@Aywusgod]

It's FREAKY. I remember thinking they seemed like such a cool couple as well

[@iAmNothingness]

Well NO SH!T SHERLOCK HOLMES!

[@Je.Suis.Harlene]

I feel the same!!!

[@cauha12]

Dont believe everything you hear or see, real eyes realize real lies! Anyone can pretend on social media

[@jmhh3264]

Holy shit it was the Skyrim guy! God damnit I loved those videos. I don't keep up with internet people and I had no idea. What a terrible person he turned out to be. Anna had some great videos too, I never would have known she was going through that, she should never have had to go through any of these terrible things.

[@heidihajny9840]

So sad that she never was able to leave him and live the rest of her life the way she always dreamt of for her and her little girl 💜💜💜 And so sad that her friend was at the wrong place at the wrong time... My prayers goes to the two beautiful souls that got riped away way to soon, to the little little girl that lost her mother and for the famelies of the two victims 💜 🌺 🙏 🌺 💜

[@zuzannchenausberlin5492]

She was able to leave him the minute he was answering calls that were meant for HER. Huge red flag and I’m sorry so many people don’t see that 😔

[@PVRGE7]

Fortunately, he's right where he belongs...Sad that his only daughter has to suffer with no parents at all. I pray she grows up to be a successful woman. She won't understand much right now, but when she does it's going to be painful for her and i pray for her mental health. This man ruined his whole life for no reason. He was manipulative and a narcissist and jealous af. Never seen that side of him until after everything happened. Dude seemed like a dope content creator and was on his way to doing big things. I was vouching for him until he did what he did and actually saw live videos of him arguing with his girl. Immediately i was disgusted. I guess life moves on. He's going to rot in there. Good for him. Well deserved to be honest

[@victoriastone2975]

This is very well made and sensitively handled. Well done. It’s all such a waste and is just tragic! Take care all 🇬🇧

[@Vonninator]

His excuse was as bad as his acting and his disturbed belief that he was entitled to anything. Poor child left with no mother and an embarrassing mess of a father.

[@MG-fp8ud]

Nailed it

[@fabiasoha1684]

Where and with whom does his daughter live now? Did they ever mention about it?

[@lisasangria1086]

Social media is clearly not for everyone. He thought he was a "somebody".

[@bigal2417]

He was , a small minded murderer.

[@cauha12]

And when his perfect "social image" got disturbed he like a little kid didn't know how to control his temper

[@Meowthis]

Respect to the families affected. May their innocent souls be in peace 💜 I must note one irony. His name is JinnMan/boy whatever , and Jinns are spirits known to enter your body. When do they enter and change your perceptions / actions / influence? The best times are with drugs and a l c o h o l. Also, referred to as Spirits

[@michellemcbee5168]

Him doing the comedy skits was so pathetic. He was insecure, and he was so jealous and overbearing. Women please leave any man that abuses you--- physically, mentally, sexualy,verbally or in any way makes you feel bad about yourself. Life is way to short and way to precious to be abused! Love doesn't hurt!

[@pr3ttibrwnnikki]

She did leave and still got killed smh

[@michellemcbee5168]

@@pr3ttibrwnnikki I know and that is terrible however she should have left The very FIRST time he abused her . Breaks the bond and obsession before it turns into years.

[@Gameboy-Unboxings]

The people watching/following them were pathetic too.

[@MonsterTech]

And don’t forget vice versa too 👍🏽

[@mistertrueromance]

@@michellemcbee5168 she didn't leave immediately because she needed him once she no longer needed him she went Chad hunting in a new state 💀

[@Iwatcccchhhhonly]

This wont happen if only the police and the whole system took this seriously. The girl reported this and asked for a restraining order. The apartment complex should’ve been more tight and strict. This is a lesson to all the women out there who is in abusive relationship to be more vigilant… and if you want to end the relationship make sure to run away. Run as far as you can. Disappear. Make sure your partner wont find you. Do it for yourself and for your loved ones. Always assume that your abusive partner may kill you. Always think ahead. Save yourself. Thats why i seldom follow people on social media. The platforms are making monsters. Influencer should be a negative word for this generation.

[@fjaic6084]

Oh please, why do people always have to blame the police. When the police comes early people will say they are encroaching their personal life, when its too late comments like this show up. Which is which? You are responsible for your own decisions in life.

[@Iwatcccchhhhonly]

Sorry but i really cant argue with stupid people. Thanks for the comment anyway. Have a good one mate. ❤️

[@fjaic6084]

Me too

[@Nazey09]

This right here, he was on drugs and his mind was done. I have seen people change and lose their mind completely on drugs. But people are calling this a mental disorder, no, he was on drugs and changed his chemical balance in his brain, he choose this life. This sh•t makes you hallucinate like hell. Once he is completely sober and reality hits in then ask him how he feels.

[@fjaic6084]

@Disappointment bruh you cant expect the police to stop every crime from happening. Its the citizen that should be aware of whats happening to their surroundings. For example in this case, when she noticed that her ex got a key to their apartment. And knowing the hes gone crazy Theirs a lot of options she could have done, she could have asked the super to change the knobs of her door, change, ask the security in her building to call her when every visitor comes. Move to another place. Theres probably more ways this crime could have been prevented if the victim took actions to protect herself. blame the police? Smh

[@eurofree]

The audacity! As he talks about her being an immigrant & him a US citizen, bringing her to this Country ! As if his own parents are not immigrants from Palestine .Hope u rot in jail for taking away the mother of your child.

[@janetblake6361]

Damn rip Anna and the homie 😢hope the daughter has a strong support system On her side

[@hannahriley8085]

I wish it was taught in schools to teenagers about what is acceptable and normal in a relationship and what isn't and why it isn't ect with a list of Red flags to look out for! I'm sure it'd prevent so much heartache and maybe domestic violence and murders like this. When we're young in our first relationships we don't usually have a flipping clue what is normal and what is nightmare material and the precursors to a controlling relationships

[@tammiepage6489]

Look to be honest if you know they did teach that stuff guess what no it’s not gonna stop it I don’t know why do you think of 80 certain things I was going to stop it no you think everybody’s raise that way or raised to be abusive and not always sometimes yes they’ve seen things growing up and all that somebody turned out that way but sometimes there’s cases where people regroup and go to families good homes and talk right from wrong and they don’t turn out that way there’s been cases of it do you research those cases of things like that happening you can’t predict how somebody’s gonna turn out and yes when I was at school they sit there and talked about abusive relationships at all as of yeah they did extra teach that what does that stop in to the kids and there’s no cause I’ve known some people that has been abusive to their spouses that I went to school with and they told us that so yeah that’s not always true I mean you could think that you want but it’s BS even with a teacher know sometimes it don’t help you you know right from wrong I still do it you can’t predict awesome he’s gonna turn out

[@hannahriley8085]

@@tammiepage6489 wow ! I don't know why my comment has incensed you so much but its just a observation speaking from personal experience. Pick your fights lady ! Oh and your punctuation could do with going back to school lmfao

[@Nursegirlalexandra]

I agree !! It would definitely make a difference of people saw the early signs of abuse

[@Just_abigheadnoob]

Stop acting like women don’t deliberately ignore red flags such education would do fuck all everyone is aware most dont care

[@a.a.r.5046]

Yeah no. That’s taught at home.

[@thts.my_voic]

Its too bad Anna didn't leave him the first time he answered her phone, when her friend called. He was a creep from the start. I hope he rots in Prison, and has a long and healthy life.

[@eliza1826]

Well she did cheat on him

[@vivek27789]

@@eliza1826 🤔

[@kikibyde]

​@@eliza1826 Does that give him the right to kill her. Ha

[@eliza1826]

@@kikibyde it’s funny because a Mexican famous tik tok got caught doing the same thing but NO news about them whatsoever. Interesting

[@jen5971]

It‘s not love. He loved to control her, but he did not love her as a person.

[@FulltimeDuddooScene]

neither do I. He bought her in the US, spent on her only to throw him out of his own house then cheated on him in that same fucking house...I remember when slut, whore and adultery actually meant something a decade ago... now it's dicks, out, pussy out, 3 sometimes, gay sex. lesbian three some, trans sex...eating ass, teenagers having a 100 sex partners before entering their twenties... everyone fucking around like donkeys... humans nowadays are worse than animals... Ali murdered his wife in cold blood.. that's wrong... but abrahamic law shows no mercy to adulterers and traitors either... The only crime here was how quickly he ended the both of them...

[@sirintornstantripop788]

Why does it seem like people are so much more unstable these days? Is it social media doing it to them?

[@stephenl5416]

I'm a man who was abused by his gf. She would constantly hit me and often times when I wasn't expecting it and I swear there were times I thought about ending her. Guy or Gal, it isn't worth it. Know your worth and leave before someone REALLY can't go back in time and change a potentially fatal mistake.

[@weirdguy9209]

You're his friend?

[@navalgupta2289]

You a good man! You deserve someone way better! I’m glad you’re okay my g! Stay strong 💪🏽 proud of you to speak up about it

[@weirdguy9209]

@@navalgupta2289 😂

[@weirdguy9209]

@@starks2544 What do you mean? This isn't a chance for you to mock people who have endured such abuse... even though his credibility is limited, you still don't laugh at that.

[@mana30572]

"I thought about murdering her, then i decided maybe we should just break up"

[@foxibot]

He looks cruel and off, and has a dark unhinged look in his eyes. While the guy she was friends with seemed very normal and kind and had a compassionate aura to him. I am sure she was exhausted with the crazy and controlling behavior and I don’t believe they were kissing either. I’m also sooooo not surprised he was insecure, because they make the worst kind of partner, their insecurities make them jealous and crazy, and destroy the relationship. While a reasonably confident person doesn’t behave in same like unhinged manner. Because they aren’t threatened by the person and want the best for them and don’t mind them getting attention. Because they are secure in themselves and their relationship.

[@MeimeiLovesmusic]

He does not look cruel and off!! You are stereotyping his dark features, and saying this only after the fact.

[@MeimeiLovesmusic]

Blame it on the cocain, not his looks.

[@foxibot]

@@MeimeiLovesmusic that explains it, if he was on cocaine he would have a crazy look in his eyes. Cocaine doesn’t help the already mentally disturbed and enraged.

[@stevenguegens7047]

YES and jealousy is a very EVIL I've met individuals in our SOCIETY who are exactly like that and THEY are NOT nice PEOPLE

[@foxibot]

@@stevenguegens7047 👍🏼

[@BOC-kr2il]

Not all are like this, but Tik Tok & Instagram seem to be magnets for narcissists & wildly jealous types

[@nyc-night-eagles5014]

"You are what you think you are" said someone wise. He proved it.

[@Hisunworthyservant]

He has ALL the typical traits of the typical narcissist!

[@Juuk-D]

Sociopath

[@catitude7117]

Huge narcisstic sociopath

[@thaistomp]

@@catitude7117 They get the finest girls though, lol.

[@catitude7117]

@@thaistomp yup with their lies and fake charm lol

[@slavazoid8179]

@@catitude7117 reminds me of myselfn

[@leluefran]

This narcissist was obsessed with himself and only himself, not with her. He saw his beautiful wife as an extension of himself, an extended part of his ego that had no purpose other than to serve his needs, his image, and his greed for attention and status. Imho an important distinction, because his dehumanization of his wife was evident long before the murders. If the police and judiciary were trained in the signs of COERCIVE CONTROL, these murders/femicides would be preventable (as was also the case with Gabby Petito, for example).