I was listening to this video while going to sleep and was almost asleep when he said "someone right now is going to sleep and they aren't going to wake up," and my eyes shot open lol
@playlistagency3 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@Persona_mint-tang3 жыл бұрын
Same chilling
@oliviagrace22463 жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16❤️
@kursed013 жыл бұрын
@@oliviagrace2246 shut up
@karimarie06383 жыл бұрын
Creepy!!
@kerif3753 жыл бұрын
Glad this is the first time I’ve heard of this guy. That tells me that he didn’t get the fame he wanted so badly from this.
@WhyDoIKeepFuckinUp3 жыл бұрын
He definitely didn’t. I live pretty close to there and never heard about this until now.
@ouiouibien_19793 жыл бұрын
Oh im not the only one here👀🙏.
@ebi78573 жыл бұрын
Damn that Avatar looks beautiful.....!!!🙂🙂🤗
@ouiouibien_19793 жыл бұрын
@@ebi7857 Keri? She does, yes! 😊👍👌
@ebi78573 жыл бұрын
@@ouiouibien_1979 Definitely.....she does...!!!
@masterdementer3 жыл бұрын
It's almost like he wanted someone to take notice and stop him but no one did.
@w0ckhardt3 жыл бұрын
It's so sad
@inroom1083 жыл бұрын
Literally no one, it’s so sad
@rebeca_francois3 жыл бұрын
I feel it just that way... I only can think about how sad this is, I have no words.
@Mohammed-yd4uc3 жыл бұрын
Loneliness neglection feeling unwanted having zero friends no one to communicate and share thoughts with that would drive anyone crazy! I’m proud of myself for surviving years of absolute loneliness to be honest i used to struggle with that but then I decided why I don’t invest that and learn new skills !?
@Darkopolypse983 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised how far people get with just that plan alone
@premiertrainingFL3 ай бұрын
There’s a major deviation from being sick, feeling like your life is meaningless and/or hopeless, and then deciding to murder others because of your own bs. Handle your sh*t, get help, nobody has the right to take anyone else’s life because of the own personal misery.
@janelleabbott22273 ай бұрын
Sadly this happens too often😢😢
@cheesygorditacrunch17082 ай бұрын
Although he never “reached out” he had been repeatedly referencing it and saying he wanted to die and he hated his job and literally had a countdown to the day. I feel like anyone reasonable would have thought to say something. It’s crazy to me how it went on for so long with no reaction
@monkey_man70-12 ай бұрын
I'm not sure how to tell you this, but you don't have 100% control over your actions. People are a product of their environment. The world created this person, so a series of variables in the environment created him. What I'm seeing is that the people around him were not actually listening. They were just going through motions. The internal error he had, needed intervention, but nobody around him saw it. This is a lesson that we all need to learn from.
@premiertrainingFL2 ай бұрын
@@monkey_man70-1 you may not have 100% of control of anything EXCEPT your actions.
@monkey_man70-12 ай бұрын
@@premiertrainingFL but all your actions will always be based on what options you see available to you at the time and based off past risk and reward or experience, in addition, the implication behind every human action is it will generally try to be in their own best interest at minimum. If you had a terrible education, or bad parents, you see less options or a different set of options based on your knowledge and experience. (These are the things we didn't have much control over) The closer to death you are, the more desperate you become, typically taking more and more risk. This can be avoided, but it means the person would have had to dedicate time to learn and grow on their own years before their 'calamity' or 'big problem' showed up in their life. In my experience, I've learned not to expect that from people. Unless the person has been taught to go on that path of growing, I expect they will make more severe mistakes than someone who is continually getting stronger as they grow and age over time. I think, you have control, but most likely not 100 percent over the outcome of a situation, so sometimes your choice will end in an unexpected consequence. It depends on what you're able to see and understand at that moment.
@LoveLokks Жыл бұрын
THESE are reasons why I smile and speak to EVERYONE in my path. I worked at Wal Greens for a few years, years ago, and I smiled and spoke to all my customers including ppl who walked by the store. One day a regular told me to keep smiling because I saved his life. He told me I was the only person who ever smiled genuinely and spoke to him. (He usually scrapped up change for a beer everyday so I can imagine how alot of ppl look down on him) I show love to EVERYONE!!!
@mattdunster Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a wife to me!!
@LoveLokks Жыл бұрын
@Bobby Hill "Dammit Bobby" *Frank's voice* 😂😂😂 im sorry I had to do it lol. But thank you love ❤️
@jaimaasaraswati6820 Жыл бұрын
You're a nice person. I want to smile too but I don't know I just can't. Even when someone smiles at me, I think I'm smiling back but in reality I'm not. There's this girl who always smiles at everyone she comes across, and after few times, I was terrified of seeing her, like what if she smiles? What am I gonna do? It's like my brain freezes when someone smiles at me, Idk what to do. I wrote too much lol
@Jaime_Protein_Cannister Жыл бұрын
Yes then they grow attached to you and kill you when you decide to leave
@6466BowlsofRamen Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kindness Kendisha. Your smiles make the world a brighter place
@mw91162 жыл бұрын
A lot of people are saying he just needed a friend- there’s a local band he worked with for the intro to his cartoon series and in an interview they were cool and wanted to hire Randy as their cinematographer but he was really cold to them… they all knew he was a bit off. one band member was trying to relate to him by admitting he was depressed but instead of finding common ground Randy got mad because that guy was “too handsome to be depressed”. He didn’t want friends, he resonated more with his cartoon characters
@TonySolis992 жыл бұрын
Just like Erik Harris, neither of them were victims. They were just troubled, attention seeking monsters
@mw91162 жыл бұрын
@Ellen Nickelodeon already owned these characters 🥴🥴 all he did was just give everyone and edgier background story- one of the characters was kidnapped and tortured with a nail gun or something I don’t think Cartoon Network needed his help 🤡
@I.See.That.Youre.Mentally.Ill.2 жыл бұрын
This dude is just pathetic all around. Funny you commented that cus before I saw your comment, someone else commented that he needed a friend and I said yeah then he will turn himself into a victim of them too. Then what do ya know, I see this comment. Loser. No wonder no one paid attention to him.
@IP2ALWAYSWINS.2 жыл бұрын
@@LunoPurple13 edgy
@MegaGLITCHGUY2 жыл бұрын
@@LunoPurple13 IP2 ALWAYS WINS
@blackmuzunguu45253 жыл бұрын
The amount references to his parents is so disturbing. He was so desperate for his parent to care. Damn
@donnageorge65063 жыл бұрын
very sad indeed 😥😥😥
@joerogaine30933 жыл бұрын
He wanted his parents to feel all the guilt from what happened. He was sick.
@blackmuzunguu45253 жыл бұрын
@@joerogaine3093 good point
@thedarkdojo51153 жыл бұрын
@@joerogaine3093 Said it before, I'll say it again: The child who doesn't feel love from his village, will burn it down to receive it's warmth....
@ASimpleHeroinUser3 жыл бұрын
It seems like rich parents just give their kids money and materialistic things because they're never there. I guess that's where majority of white people get their depression. Minorites don't have anything so their parents try to be there because that's all the parents have. In just stating an obvious observation from my stand point
@crackhead_chroniclesfp40923 ай бұрын
This is why parents paying attention to their kids, and strangers being kind to other strangers is SO important. Things like this could so easily be avoided if people could take five minutes out of their day to check up on people. He was openly BEGGING for help and still, nobody even batted an eye in his direction. At the end of the day, everyone is human. Everyone reacts to things differently, expresses emotions differently- and it’s our job as a society to help other people, especially when they’re literally crying out for it. It’s a sad sad world we live in, and people don’t seem to understand how just a few words or a smile can change someone’s life. His parents failed him, friends failed him, and then he eventually failed himself- because he was 100% aware of how wrong his plan was but too far gone to even care and it genuinely makes me want to cry. Love and kindness is important, and should be expressed whenever possible.
@chaz44712 ай бұрын
Like being nice to Ted Bundy helped all those girls?
@crackhead_chroniclesfp4092Ай бұрын
@@chaz4471 Ted Bundy was a serial killer and a literal psychopath who raped and kidnapped his victims. This kid was just mentally unstable and had no will to live. Very big difference. I’m not justifying murder, I’m only saying it can be prevented in some cases.
@leahjones962625 күн бұрын
@@crackhead_chroniclesfp4092you think Ted bundy wasnt JUST like this kid at one point?? I think you’re overestimating how easily we can just change people and stop evil.
@Really-o3yКүн бұрын
@@chaz4471I'm pooing right now
@bjones8470 Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how parents can allow themselves to become so disconnected from their children’s lives.
@Denny_Boi Жыл бұрын
For real. What the fuck was up with his family? Complete emotional isolation.
@vr3c Жыл бұрын
His parents are the Villains
@80aj Жыл бұрын
It's easier than you think. Life has a way of just ripping down
@Aonyoutube165 Жыл бұрын
It is so frustrating! His mom literally took him to buy the guns and all it took was for her to watch some of his videos to know what he was doing.
@DigitalBath306 Жыл бұрын
@@Aonyoutube165 americans
@feliciasantiago43453 жыл бұрын
The sad and scary part is that there’s a lot more people like him right now doing the same thing, and we won’t notice until it’s too late, I never even heard of him until today. Sad and disturbing.
@galaxi4073 жыл бұрын
We've not heard of him because it wasn't a school shooting.
@WhyDoIKeepFuckinUp3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know this story until now, either, and he lived not far from me.
@alwaysyouramanda3 жыл бұрын
My friends and I almost visited Isla Vista the night it was shot up. It’s nuts- I had never even heard of it before that night. I’m glad we didn’t go. I think my BFF would have been a target with her bf… her figure… blonde hair. She’s gorgeous
@MeeMee-gz5vp3 жыл бұрын
@shane michaels you must have some very lenient parents. There wasn’t anything I could do that my parents didn’t find out about it, one way or another.
@MeeMee-gz5vp3 жыл бұрын
@@howsitvingoing2048 they were, now that I’m older enough to realize it
@anneefreres32992 жыл бұрын
It's painful to see how many times he clearly told the world he was doing this
@madmoo15912 жыл бұрын
Yet no one believed him.
@madmoo15912 жыл бұрын
@@Starracer22 Trust me, it's not worth it to commit suicide. People care about you, I promise. You just have to try calling them and I swear you'll feel better.
@roxannaramon87562 жыл бұрын
… and none of his fan’s or who ever was watching this prior to him carrying out his plan, reported anything. That’s just as scary , sad, and maybe in their own morbid curiosity, they wanted to see him do this. Regardless, he was crying out for help and someone should have listened and stopped him.
@suprchocolatez11772 жыл бұрын
@@Starracer22 You need to express yourself to someone who clearly will listen to you. Your friends seem to not want to bother themselves with having to listen to your issues or struggles. They may not be doing it intentionally but i can see that you feel isolated. I went through the same thing in highschool. It seemed that opening up about my health problems just made my friends distance themselves from me. I almost went through with taking my own life. But people will only show their true intentions after something significant happens. But that doesnt have to be your case. Please stay strong for your little princess. She needs you and i know its hard trying to pretend like your a super hero but everyone has a point of exhaustion. Things get better if you try to make them. Its all about perspective and surrounding yourself around positivity. Your only human and there is no shame in being tired of life. But there is more to life than what we see through our narrow points of view. I hope you can find some help and i will keep you in my thoughts. ❤
@rr-zb3rh2 жыл бұрын
@@Starracer22 You're telling your 13 year old that kind of shit?
@mss5313 ай бұрын
Drug dealers using 7 phones and still get cought.. this guy literally announced a massacre.. months/weeks/days.. this is why we should take everything serious..
@2Degeneracy2 ай бұрын
Don't deal drugs then ffs
@YourfutureBabyDadyАй бұрын
@@2Degeneracy you either white or just a dumb trash bin
@dead.ahead_private.rodriguez13 күн бұрын
Drugs pose a threat to the economy, this guy was just sore loser and wouldn't do much damage even with the massacre he commited.
@ColdnCruel4445 күн бұрын
Ys, there are a lot false alarms out there, people that are just attention seekers etc. but ya, real crisis types are written of as a joke until this happens. It's truly disturbing how he speaks, like it's normal.
@2Degeneracy5 күн бұрын
@ColdnCruel444 most alarms are false
@user-ul9qq1ef3f2 жыл бұрын
it took me a while after watching this video to realize why this guy resonated so deeply with ember. at first i thought it was just random until i thought about what kind of character ember is. ember gets her power from getting attention from her fans and is powerless when she is ignored. and to this guy who was a narcissist that was clearly dissatisfied with the lack of attention he received from his teachers and parents, it made ember relatable to him.
@CrAzYpotpie2 жыл бұрын
Maybe that's a bad character archetype to have in daily tv cartoons, in netflix animated movies, or Disney productions? Billionaire execs: "Follow the money, fuck the people. Lets give em some characters with shit ideals and extremely hollow and transparent personas for another CASH GRAB!"
@redmanspeaks2 жыл бұрын
@@CrAzYpotpie Bad people: *does crazy shit because they are mentally unstable* People with no brain: “lets cancel the TV shows they watched and not acknowledge that they had a serious mental illness and got no help for it!”
@ZeppeliGaming2 жыл бұрын
@@CrAzYpotpie bruh tf? Are you for real? Cash grab is when something doesn't have a flavor because it's just made to bait people into paying money for the idea that something will be good. Characters like those are actually nicely written, you need to have "evil" characters with bad habits too not only good people with no flaws.
@CrAzYpotpie2 жыл бұрын
@@ZeppeliGaming You are a dupe, plain and simple. Get lost.
@danielgiovanniello72172 жыл бұрын
@@CrAzYpotpie Ember was hardly in the show lmao. She was in a few episodes. Three at most I think. This isn't an issue with the show.
@Choclatekissed2 жыл бұрын
To find out your child, brother was in the backyard deciding if he would kill you, is definitely something unfathomable.
@krinc34642 жыл бұрын
And he's doing that by flipping a coin. Truly terrifying.
@d2theg2782 жыл бұрын
When he said “if it’s heads I’ll do it here” he meant that if it landed on heads he was only gonna kill himself in his house. He wasn’t gonna kill his family.
@RoninYeti2 жыл бұрын
@@krinc3464 Flipping a coin is much easier than deciding for oneself.
@mag11982 жыл бұрын
well looks like he didn't catch them all cause he's not danny phantom
@MobaCry2 жыл бұрын
@@d2theg278 why would you assume that... Why would he needs so much ammunition just to suicide... Of course he planned to kill his family.
@chi21483 жыл бұрын
Just, wow. Haunting. This doc hit me really hard. My little brother looks almost exactly like this dude (yes, he's white) and ironically LOVED Danny Phantom as a kid. As he got older (I'm 6 years older than my baby), his behavior and isolation became a HUGE concern for me. My parents kind of wrote it off and I was like, nah. Once he graduated I got him a job, moved him into my home (I was already married with a 2yo by this point), and just loved him. Had him spend time with us, went to parks, went out to eat, went to the movies... CONSTANTLY. I refused to see my baby isolate and deteriorate. My brother is 22 now and THRIVING. He got over his social anxieties, started smoking weed (he needed it, lol), he manages a CBD store where we live now. So proud of him. Watching this literally makes me feel like this could have been my baby. If someone would've just cared about Randy, if someone would've just given him a different perspective... Just sad.
@viarose37213 жыл бұрын
its amazing that you took care of your brother like that, i hope all people like randy who are struggling in life can find somebody like you < 3
@graysonmorrill31103 жыл бұрын
Your a good woman. I’m happy your brothers doing well!
@ipointyououtwhenyoudumb16873 жыл бұрын
I feel that so much. And with randy no one really look at him that’s what’s really getting to me he didn’t he didn’t have no one in his circle
@Ackermoon133 жыл бұрын
You are Amazing! And I completely agree with you! Love is the only solution
@christopherschulz29363 жыл бұрын
choose not to be a monster
@jonathanbrown37845 ай бұрын
This guys loneliness flat out destroyed his mental health, to the point where he didn’t care for himself or others. Beyond sad
@chaz44712 ай бұрын
He wasn’t lonely. He was a narcissist.
@sues321823 күн бұрын
I am in my 50's and grew up lonely. However, I have NEVER done such horrible acts, nor desired to do so. Being "lonely" is not an excuse for such barbaric acts. (Just sayin') Some people just embrace darkness. Some just ignore their conscience, until it finally deadens. It is probably a path of ignoring their conscience over and over again, when they could still hear it. People should guard their hearts, and steer clear of that dark path.
@KellyMartin090222 күн бұрын
Not anyone's fault but his.
@jonathanbrown378421 күн бұрын
@@KellyMartin0902 when did I say otherwise? Gotta read the comment before you respond…
@jonathanbrown378421 күн бұрын
@@sues3218 when did I say it justified any of that? But nice monologue
@neondystopian3 жыл бұрын
You know what's even more disturbing? He was right. No one cared about him. At least not enough to have a serious conversation with him. His family, his "friends", his KZbin subscribers; no one stopped him.
@craigsayer87103 жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking did his youtube fans think he was chatting shit or just a joke or something else this we will never know
@AlexanderBogdanow3 жыл бұрын
@@craigsayer8710 Most just watched 'cause of the cringe. ;)
@craigsayer87103 жыл бұрын
@@AlexanderBogdanow lol really he made you cringe did he ok
@donnageorge65063 жыл бұрын
i can relate to that, minus the yt.i was never shown love/respect nothing, except beatings/sexual abuse
@TheFakeyCakeMaker3 жыл бұрын
Really? Have you ever tried to confront this kind of behaviour online? You get a ton of backlash "leave him alone" "he's just trying to find himself" "stop being so negative" just go to reddit and you'll see a ton of people like this, loving to say edgy things just to piss people off. Why are people assuming that in real life he was anything but normal and that his parents didn't want to appear "unsupportive" by challenging his behaviour because that's what you're deemed as now if you as much question the slightest thing that anyone does. Everyone bemoaning the fact that this guy didn't get attention and no one cared but very likely people tried to care or show they did and he hated them for it. Just voice one dissenting view online and see the backlash also why his parents would or should know what t shirt one of the columbine killers wore I don't know. The whole thing is bull$hit
@homersimpson38002 жыл бұрын
In Randy's goodbye video to his parents he straight up admits to thinking about killing his Dad for being hard on him. His empathy for others was completely gone at that point and he gave up on his future because he knew he was going to die shortly. Just scary how someone can sink that low, something was missing.
@Corpse7012 жыл бұрын
Yea he thinks he's a cartoon character, clearly his brain wasn't functioning properly.
@billielachatte48412 жыл бұрын
Natural selection right there.
@brandonwhite67702 жыл бұрын
@@billielachatte4841 yo this comment took me out lmao
@dAnCo3002 жыл бұрын
love was missing
@evelynl5732 жыл бұрын
Probably estrogen. I went through psychosis from 12-26 and everyone thought I was schizophrenic.. I left lots of clues and planned to kill myself, most of the things he details is gender dysphoria. He seems to be coping with not wanting to come out as transgender. He does a lot of things I used to do. I spent loads of time not sleeping and that made me psychotic, which is common in people who are trans, because it lowers testosterone. Anyways, I'm 29 now, I've been using hormones for 3 years and I'm fully functioning. I have a good job and a girl friend. Anyways, yeah, not a single dark thought, depression or anxiety anymore, I'm happy. Most people don't want to make the connection because it's a negative one to the things that can happen. Though, in my mind, it seems like he was a girl, and saw the hate that society places on homosexuals and trans people and didn't want to transition. Not that I ever wanted to hurt anyone, just myself, so.. I'm not justifying one bit of the violence associated with Randy. Just saying, things need to change and people need to understand. (Hopefully I'm not overreading into this.. But to me it seems so similar.)
@BlueLizardKing2 жыл бұрын
Almost everything he said starts with "I can't believe they didn't notice", "No one noticed", "You didn't even notice". He was crazy, and he did something terrible, but I think it's extremely obvious where his issues came from.
@willowswhispers5772 жыл бұрын
I think he acted out more for the camera then he did around his family or his coworkers!! A person can have two sides to them that are so far apart from each other that when something does happen it’s total disbelief. It also can be that he did always act so far out always doing something for attention and it’s just never enough or not in the way the person wants the attention. As the story goes you never truly know what goes on behind closed doors.
@Nick-hv8gj2 жыл бұрын
Yeah... his issues came from being a selfish piece of shit. All he ever thought about was himself.
@daishawn28842 жыл бұрын
My theory is his parents neglected him and didn’t care about a single thing he did. Or he was an attention seeker
@alienJIZ19902 жыл бұрын
What is: narcissism
@yonta1232 жыл бұрын
@@daishawn2884 i completely agree on the parent neglect theory. Just look at all his videos. No one is talking through anything with him… on anything… so he turns to youtube to figure it out himself with talking it out… obviously if a kid is that fixated on death and dying early… that early and for so long and LOUDLY… a true caring parent who was involved and not narcissistic sociopaths themselves would be alarmed and immediately seek help. I am absolutely with you on this is at the core …. How he had it in the home … nurture more than nature. He might have been chemically off too…. BUUUUT a good parent would work to get their child help. They just let him do whatever, say whatever. Constant cries for help. At some point it said his father was hard on him so he almost killed him. Well… depends just how hard… if he could never win, and he could only get heard by youtube… and uh… where was the mom in all this? Yeah… Randy’s parents have a huge burden in all this for his developmental neglect and abandonment. He was angry, confused, listless, sad… masked with psychopathic narcissism for sure. That comes from early early childhood trauma. I wonder if his parents never really were around and just left him to do his own thing all the time… and when they were around, hard on him. That would do it. Too much pressure. Life is too hard and lonely with no one to trust… to love. He definitely was not loved unconditionally nor was he cared for and given the proper attention a child needs for healthy development. He was acting out for it… literally no one cared, which stregthened his resolve that everyone was like his core people. What he did was terrible… but i always think of how excruciating that ever loneliness and cruelty of brute abandonment. This is all my two cents… of course. But i say his parents have blood on their hands.
@kevinyankee23 ай бұрын
Dude lived in a nice place. Look at that enormous and beautiful back yard, man. What the hell.
@yellowblanka60583 ай бұрын
Living in a nice place doesn't preclude you from having mental illness.
@2Degeneracy2 ай бұрын
@@yellowblanka6058 Yeah it does. Shut up.
@yellowblanka60582 ай бұрын
@@2Degeneracy Appropriate username.
@utilitymonster82672 ай бұрын
Who would have thought having a big house isn't everything?
@spencerwarry95822 ай бұрын
@@2Degeneracy thats why celebreties never have mental health issues right, gtfo
@learningsk8ter Жыл бұрын
To me, the way he said he can’t believe no one saw his red flags, seemed like a cry for help. He posted everything. He told people directly through the internet. His parents helped him acquire at least one of the guns and neither one asked questions. It feels like he wanted someone to stop him and when no one did it was go time. Not defending his actions at all, just thoughts as I watched.
@miggy2002 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Very stupid parents
@Sleepybrielle Жыл бұрын
I honestly agree //:
@pandorahunter Жыл бұрын
We can feel bad for them even though we don't agree with them. He begged for help, no one cared just like he said, and he made horrific choices. He wasn't insane he knew right from wrong he did have mental illness however that doesn't excuse his behavior in any way. Be well
@pinkpugginz Жыл бұрын
@@pandorahunterhe was insane he thought ember was real and talking to him in his head
@pandorahunter Жыл бұрын
@@pinkpugginz no, he was mentally ill, he planned and knew what he as doing was wrong, by law he is not insane.
@greggotknowledge24922 жыл бұрын
This is truly terrifying, but i’m glad videos like these exist because it let’s you realize the warning signs people give off.
@smoke85382 жыл бұрын
Only God could have saved him but he sadly wasn't able to as I could see.
@tomyshaw1742 жыл бұрын
Bro I'm just wondering why are all the weirdos mentally unstable ppl in america
@JoyT012 жыл бұрын
True!!!
@tomyshaw1742 жыл бұрын
@@JoyT01 yep
@Man929-r1c2 жыл бұрын
@@smoke8538 see what?
@shay22183 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed my 20’s but I think I am enjoying my 30’s better. I feel like I finally know myself. I wonder sometimes what 45 year old me would think. There is life after 30, its ok. 💜
@lasmujeresnotienenpollAs3 жыл бұрын
For (SOME) men, especially younger ones, I think it's commonly difficult to see "light at the end of the tunnel" if they never had a girlfriend or romantic connection.. (not with an imaginary gf or celebrity/fictional character etc.)
@crystalm24603 жыл бұрын
I just turned 30 on June 11th. I've been having a really hard time w it emotionally. As women, we feel or are taught that youth is beauty and beauty is everything. I have such a fear of aging . Thank you for this comment, it makes me feel a little better
@chrismcree93663 жыл бұрын
@@crystalm2460 I felt the same at 30 now at 54 I realize how young I really was
@truth40043 жыл бұрын
30 really is still a baby imo.
@truth40043 жыл бұрын
@@lasmujeresnotienenpollAs Well if they were normal instead of wacked out they'd have one. There's girl that don't have BFs too. We don't nut out.
@JerseyJester26 күн бұрын
"i've got the two guns, but I'm waiting on getting eyeliner"...... well this line hit me kinda weird. He acquired the weapons, was so happy about it, but struggled to acquire makeup?
@onepleaseburger_cheese26 күн бұрын
you’re rather invested in this huh
@narutouchiha54643 жыл бұрын
I feel like this guy lost his mind when he did not receive attention from being ‘odd’. You can tell because he constantly states how no one reacted to him being dramatic, which would then lead him to do bigger things
@DWeirich763 жыл бұрын
It's too bad he didn't make it to 2021 where any gender identity goes.
@Monkforilla3 жыл бұрын
Right? He would fit right in nowadays 🤦
@Greatwhite223 жыл бұрын
Do you not think that someone should of noticed though?
@sandygutier2713 жыл бұрын
@@Greatwhite22 exactly!!. The parents??
@ggnombe38323 жыл бұрын
@@Monkforilla I mean apart from his apparent hatred for homosexuals and black people.
@DeucePollock2 жыл бұрын
As a Dad watching this hurts my heart so. I hope my kids never feel so disconnected from me or everybody else. Just one real friend could have changed his life so much
@GORILLA_PIMP2 жыл бұрын
I've rarely heard anyone speak highly of their parents At best they have nothing bad to say about them And ive interacted with all types of people all over the world
@shermymchurty11662 жыл бұрын
I think the fact that you recognize this makes me think you are a good dad and obviously care about your kids. Just keep supporting them no matter what and let them be them ♥️
@ohokay46632 жыл бұрын
A very kind hope I think. I also hope that your children never have to experience this kind of disconnection, just remember that it's important to start a dialogue with them.
@Ancientofdayswarrior2 жыл бұрын
You're the dad. It's up to you to make sure this doesn't happen. Read your kids the bible every night. Dont let the public schools brainwash them.
@ohokay46632 жыл бұрын
@@Ancientofdayswarrior ...yyyeah no I've got about 5 ex catholic friends with severe mental issues that would like to argue against the bible theory of parenting. Like religion can very much bring a sense of meaning, community and joy, but they have to WANT that for themselves.
@IrishTechnicalThinker3 жыл бұрын
In hindsight, this was so important he recorded everything because we can learn so much for his spiral into absolute madness. He was so desperate for friendship, he replaced real friends for imaginary ones.
@Lordfakekick3 жыл бұрын
No cap u can tell this dude got sum serious issues
@dcul88123 жыл бұрын
His spiral started long before these recordings
@donniev81813 жыл бұрын
That and the media couldn't spin the story because of these recordings.
@jasonshapiro99323 жыл бұрын
It’s quite simple. He never got laid. If he would’ve, this doesn’t happen.
@dr_popcorn3 жыл бұрын
@@Lordfakekick Anyone who does something he did has serious issues. No rational human being kills innocent people.
@alessandrolamonaca4721Ай бұрын
This is honestly both spine-chilling yet bewildering at the same time. It’s one of the most BIZARRE cases I’ve ever seen.
@marielfalk45373 жыл бұрын
As a parent myself I cannot imagine how any of this escaped his parents' attention. The Columbine shooters both had parents who had been trying to straighten their sons out. They had been to counselors, worked with local authorities. What did Randy's parents do? I really want to know because their son was BEGGING for their help. So tragic.
@SYKO6662 жыл бұрын
All he wanted was for someone to notice he wasn't feeing right..it screams out that his parents didnt giv a fuck. Im not taking the RANDY VICTIM rout here, but you can see he gave them enough chances to say "COME HERE SON, WHATS WRONG " N THE MOTHER/FATHER BOUGHT HIM 2 PUMP ACTION SHOTTYS. YOU CAN HERE HIS MOTHER FILMING HIM WHEN HE'S SHOOTING THE GUNS ON HIS BACK GARDEN
@kschneider86492 жыл бұрын
Seriously!!! They never even watched the videos he was posting on the internet?! The fuck...
@ohnaw2232 жыл бұрын
The columbine thing was just the students being suttborn with their efforts. Its insane that its true that Dylan and Eric killed hundreds more indurectly. because of them, a spawn of kids inspired by them came to life. Its horrifying.
@kimpedersen57082 жыл бұрын
they gave him a gun. because thats EXACTLY what you get your clearly struggling and depressed kid. parents need to do better.
@ohnoimatrap8562 жыл бұрын
@@SYKO666 I'm gonna start a war here, but Americas gun laws really enables broken people like him to do things like this, massacres outside of America rarely get as big as this, since most don't have easy access to weapons.
@ixilancerixi31953 жыл бұрын
I think the reason he didn’t shoot Kristan was because one of the Columbine shooters did the same thing, if I remember correctly. I believe one of them had let a student live, and since Randy was so obsessed with the Columbine shooters, it sounds to me like he was just following in their footsteps with that action as well as the many others that were covered in this video.
@eleaftha20083 жыл бұрын
If this is true, then it makes sense why he let her live
@ChaosHusky3 жыл бұрын
That and the eye contact, notably missing from the other three victims (Kris is still a victim, after all) i certainly think you may well be right there!
@missm15483 жыл бұрын
He also probably wanted someone to tell the story.
@h.celine93033 жыл бұрын
It's useful that you happened by. I want you to witness the fate of the town of Nipton, to memorize every detail. And then, when you move on? I want you to teach everyone you meet the lesson that Caesar's Legion taught here, especially any NCR troops you run across.
@brysonsnider94263 жыл бұрын
i think it may also be because of the obscene amounts of benadryl he had taken maybe causing him to hallucinate but that theory seems plausible as well
@Green_Gold4 ай бұрын
At the end of a May 11 video, Stair asks "What's going to happen in the future after this to prevent this from happening again. And the answers is, you can't prevent it. You can only endure it." Creepy as fuck. And so far, he's been right. Chilling
@tucker0624 Жыл бұрын
The scariest part was he was so self aware. He really expressed his motives and knew that what he was doing was wrong but still went through with it. In the last video he was so aware about everything he has done, will do and will become.
@Mark-uh4zd Жыл бұрын
And not shocking, he identified as the T in the alphabet soup people. Mental illness at its finest
@bryant7542 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the self awareness is the affliction.
@babble2leeza Жыл бұрын
Psychopath
@DoSe420 Жыл бұрын
He always knew what he was going to do. His rage was about being ignored
@destinydiaz-hall2298 Жыл бұрын
Exactly Nn
@ivyhallquist3159 Жыл бұрын
Randy was surprisingly articulate with his emotions. He definitely would have made progress in therapy, which unfortunately never happened.
@nico118118 Жыл бұрын
That’s America for you
@TraciDoering-hw8hu Жыл бұрын
My guess is he was a Malignant Borderline , Borderline co-morbid with Anti-Social Personality Disorder. I respectfully disagree. He sounded like a loose cannon to me. Remember, he's filming himself and speaking through the camera, not to a person. Additionally, taking into account the mini-biography here, the one factor of him showing his emotions is not the measure if he would have been responsive to therapy. He obviously hid his intentions and ideations with death and murder to EVERYONE, outside his need to brag through masking these thoughts and plans. That's my take. The guy was long-gone , a freak and sicko with no moral compass or empathy to submit to therapy. And, for those who think I am harsh in being disgusted with him, I have had plenty experiences with sick, wicked, cruel bastards. Consider, the Personality Disorders I named here are SANE, NOT INSANE. They are responsible for their actions and CHOOSE their actions. Also note, that personality disorders are NOT mental illnesses. They are not chemical imbalances. The Bible has a word for these people, reprobate, beyond help, because they have too long persisted in their wickedness. Being overly compassionate for these scumbags - male or female, only encourages a lack of wisdom and cementing wicked behaviors. That is my opinion after much thought and study of certain kinds, besides having had direct experience with them.
@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii Жыл бұрын
Ummm, have you taken a look into the life of the Parkland shooter? Got tons of therapy, he STILL committed a crime! STILL! What about the Dark Knight Rises shooting in Aurora, CO 2012? Those therapists failed those victims, because they refused to think the shooter had murderous tendencies, when he CLEARLY SHOWED THAT to them!
@lt8400 Жыл бұрын
@@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii wow 2 cases!! Lets stop using modern medicine because it doesnt always work! Lets stop modern construction because some buildings fall! Im getting tired of yanks on the internet
@laurenrussell3584 Жыл бұрын
You are insane for thinking that. No amount of therapy can help someone on a murderous spree. Therapy is not a cure for emotionally disturbed people like this guy.
@yolotheking38813 жыл бұрын
i think one of the worst parts is that he isnt out of his mind, he’s mentally there and some what together, he openly hates his plan but doesn’t care knowing he’s wrong
@CAST1LLO3 жыл бұрын
Of course he’s out of his mind.
@dt990223 жыл бұрын
@@CAST1LLO I think they're more talking about how insanely self-aware he is about all of this. I don't see a lot of people calling out their own signs and red flags, questioning why no one noticed. You usually only see this from other people, reacting after the fact.
@destroya33033 жыл бұрын
Dude was nuts and thought he was talking to cartoon ghosts
@georgecavanaugh87573 жыл бұрын
He’s not out of his mind? Ehhhhhhh…
@Founderschannel1233 жыл бұрын
@@CAST1LLO i meant i cant clearly say his out of his mind because he lost two of his friends from accidents and in love with a cartoon girl and never enjoyed life
@lovkarts5 ай бұрын
the fact that we get to see him slowly deteriorating is so sad, he was screming for people to notice him, but no one did.
@chaz44712 ай бұрын
He may have been screaming but he wasn’t talking to his parents.
@lttv36123 жыл бұрын
Respect to every outcast that didn’t let themselves become a scared douche bag that feels the need to bring others down with them
@m0t0b333 жыл бұрын
This may come off as Hallmark levels of cheesy, but if something happened and you made it out alive (emotional or physical trauma), you're stronger for it, and also, there must be a reason why you're still around, why not stick around and see what that reason is?
@rangerlovee33243 жыл бұрын
thanks I will take that complement
@slickone7773 жыл бұрын
2 sifferent types of outcasts.. Ones who last through the storm and unfortunately people like this who fall off the ledge.. I pray for us all
@Omnihilo_3 жыл бұрын
@@m0t0b33 That last point has been one of the few things keeping me from killing myself for years now lol.
@rangerlovee33243 жыл бұрын
@@Omnihilo_ ngl my cats are what keep me alive. people can take care for themselves but i have animals that depend on me... i couldn't leave them
@esrjhgbweouringrsg2 жыл бұрын
This guy was completely self-aware about how absurd it was is that his parents didn't see the signs and how insane it was that this was over a fucking cartoon.
@vvictvr2 жыл бұрын
@Wise&Knowledgable - Infinite Past Lives no
@beardsntools2 жыл бұрын
Lol he was so desperately wanting attention, but nobody cared. Unfortunately it was when somebody should had taken him seriously and report him long before it happened
@maxmustermann15332 жыл бұрын
He was so not self aware that he slowly turned into a killer and didnt stop it.. he was a depressed piece of shit and took his anger out on others.. self aware
@ieda182 жыл бұрын
I'm insane over cartoons but I'm not out there killing ppl. Im also lonely and depressed, and yet that is no reason to kill ppl
@aleksisuuronen59692 жыл бұрын
It obviously is not about a cartoon. That's just part to fill the fear of death and loneliness. It's about the loneliness, cynicism and how angry he was, especially about that he was leaving warning signs Everywhere and nobody interfered to pay any attention. Dude was uploading to yt and not so suddle way says he's going to do something with a gun and not even a call to cops is made. It's pretty easy to see that the guy was seriously depressed and having existential crisis and had really bad support system in his life so the imagination became the support system and yeah it wasn't enough. But saying that he did it because of a cartoon is pretty much just proving his point of how nobody cares. He tells everything on a camera why he thinks what he thinks and you get from it that it all was because of a cartoon.. what 😅
@vidhoard Жыл бұрын
This is the most thought provoking crime case footage I've ever seen. So many chances to stop him. No one seemed to notice him at all.
@jasonhounsell3297 Жыл бұрын
Why would you? I see mental illness, abnormal behaviours or self destructive behaviours all the time, it’s part of life. Not many people go through life without encountering negative thoughts. How can anyone be expected to know the outcomes? That’s why it’s important people are taught to be stronger and not to try and make the world softer. If someone took this kid aside and taught him how to be a man, how to be stronger then he wouldn’t have acted like such a coward.
@lemonguts69 Жыл бұрын
his friends and loved ones had the responsibility to check in on him when they saw the signs. especially his family
@jakenguyen1150 Жыл бұрын
@@jasonhounsell3297 well, I just want to say that I am really glad there weren't that many people like you around me when I had serious problems with my mental health. If mental illness and self destructive thoughts can be prevent simply by "being taken aside and taught how to be a man by someone", this world would be a much better place full of sunshine and rainbow . You sir, yes you, please don't ever work as a psychiatrist. Calling a person with mental issues a "coward" and giving them stupid advice like "just be strong lol, just be a man lol" sure are effective.
@jasonhounsell3297 Жыл бұрын
@@jakenguyen1150 You didn’t understand what I was saying at all. I’m not saying someone was a coward for having mental health issues. I’m calling them a coward for killing themselves and in this case other people too. Life’s hard at times, and it’s harder if you don’t learn how to be tougher. You can strawman and misunderstand what I’m saying if you like however it’s not productive and I don’t buy the narrative that everyone should be sensitive and cuddle each other. It doesn’t solve anything. There is a reason sportsmen push each other hard, yell at each other, motivate each other to do better. When was the last time you seen a bodybuilder needing a cuddle to get the last reps out? I’m not lacking empathy or compassion, I just don’t like how pampered and soft people are being raised today. Men especially, let’s be real, the weak men who allow themselves to be victims suffer mental health issues at a far higher rate than a man who is confident and assertive. Why is this the case with men and not women? Why if a boy is bullied and fails to stand up for himself he is likely going to develop anxiety in adulthood where as the boy who fought back even if lost has a lesser chance? These are deep topics, ones you know nothing about most likely. So I appreciate your opinion on me, although you offered no view point of your own, very brave of you. Have a good day.
@RedxRiot Жыл бұрын
@@jasonhounsell3297 I don’t think teaching this guy “how to be a man” would’ve helped him, some people are just born with a predisposition for violence and unfortunately he happened to be one of them with extra steps involved. You can’t save everyone, that’s just life.
@StephanieMurray-pl4gs5 ай бұрын
This is so sad💙 This is why it's important to communicate with your children! They always need us❤
@chaz44712 ай бұрын
He’s a narcissist and it would not have helped
@surrenderdorthy10 күн бұрын
@@chaz4471it would’ve helped him and a lot of other people who went down the same pathway. if he had been talked to and pushed out of this lifestyle he was falling into then he would’ve been a different person
@florida9952 жыл бұрын
Man, he literally told everybody for years that he was going to die and kill people. People truly didn’t give a crap about this kid, even his parents.
@britneynguyen96482 жыл бұрын
@@kristoffer8609 no, the lesson to take from this is seeing early signs of mental illness!! the fact that he gave signs, verbally spoke about his intentions and even made videos about everything in between and after just shows that it was deeper than him being confused about his gender. even if he did all those terrible things for attention, all he wanted was someone to notice and care about him which i think, everyone has the right to feel.
@ALotOfCancer2 жыл бұрын
@@kristoffer8609 How about I come to your house with some “protection” Kristoffer?
@kristoffer86092 жыл бұрын
@@ALotOfCancer Are you trying to threaten me?
@kristoffer86092 жыл бұрын
@@britneynguyen9648 Yes everyone should have seen the early signs. As early as when he was talking about being "gender confused".
@I.See.That.Youre.Mentally.Ill.2 жыл бұрын
When you're talking about it for years, eventually people are gonna just brush it off like oh here we go again with him talking shit. He was pretty pathetic, let's be real.
@Erika-pl1pr3 жыл бұрын
Randy: *is homophobic* Also Randy: *draws himself as a girl in love with another girl* Edit: I regret writing this comment, really hate seeing the replys everyday but I'll leave it up
@alwaysyouramanda3 жыл бұрын
This guy is not alone 🥺 I wonder how many parents are to blame for people like this.
@2k9kidz543 жыл бұрын
Common for people uncomfortable with their own sexuality
@miketrujillo36773 жыл бұрын
@@2k9kidz54 its cuz of theyre parents
@TypicalHibiscus3 жыл бұрын
no, andrew was a trans woman, she stated that in her suicide note
@JSB-2Z-2K3 жыл бұрын
Actually many people hate men with men gays but don't care about lesbian women
@reedr16592 жыл бұрын
Columbine grad '02. I was a freshman when the shooting happened. We finished the year at Chatfield Senior High. Can't remember exactly how that worked out. I think it was half days in the afternoon with Chatfield students attending in the morning. I don't remember having finals, but that was more than 20 years ago. Columbine was an event that changed me forever. I'm shocked and saddened anybody would look at that event and want to emulate it. I wouldn't say watching this is re-traumatizing. I made peace with the past long ago.
@TheMarcyFran2 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine. It's amazing you've made peace with that. Hope you know you're incredibly strong and resilient.
@reedr16592 жыл бұрын
@jason christopher it's certainly given me a unique perspective on some things. I learned that this terrible event doesn't define me and it's important to live in the present, not the past. You have to find things which make life worth living. Everything can change in an instant so make the most of it. I kiss my wife and tell her "I love you" every single day before I leave for work.
@masterghotihook57932 жыл бұрын
All of you students became victims that day, and It's nice to know you've been able to move on from something as horrendous as it was.
@crystalcrawford5532 жыл бұрын
Highlands Ranch '01 here. I remember some asshole senior called in a bomb threat as a senior prank right after the shooting. We had to wear name tags around our necks for awhile. What a crazy traumatic year
@setsers12 жыл бұрын
My Condolences
@quinnchilds9145 ай бұрын
His fans were just as sick as he is. Everyone that followed him should be closely monitored and examined.
@horrorcastles3 ай бұрын
yep. there’s tiktok accounts with people looking up to him and praising him in the comments, so many sick freaks out there.
@2Degeneracy2 ай бұрын
That isn't how the law works.
@Ariusa2 жыл бұрын
It's actually very sad, I think he clearly knew he needed help and felt out of control and this is why he was giving all of these hints. I think deep inside he was hoping someone would actually stop him.
@ariannahauser49712 жыл бұрын
i think its really fucked and what this person did was horrific and obviously inexcusable but , they were obviously dealing with a lot of stuff and it went unaddressed. untreated mental illness and trauma and issues with identity can really screw someone up in horrible ways if not looked atter
@justcallmeeastia79472 жыл бұрын
I can get why it's hard to ask help sometimes, wish he could've given himself more time to connect with other people and at the very least see some reason to hold on to his life a little longer, I'll take this as an example as of why we should learn to speak our minds more
@Buckets502 жыл бұрын
He was desperate to get noticed and felt invisible that’s very clear. I think that is what motivated him. He probably would have been momentarily satisfied had his parents or someone else questioned him about the shotgun or any of his other behaviors. I think this action may have been inevitable tho. He idolized on of the columbine kids and wanted to be infamous like them. He thought his fans would want his posters…
@pundertalefan43912 жыл бұрын
The situation is sad, but nothing excuses killing innocent people.
@debsam772 жыл бұрын
And this is why mental health is so important. I hope no one gets mad at me but this kid was crying for help.
@TripNWithRed3 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely horrifying. To be so public with his plan and not one person came forward to question his intentions. In regards to the lethal amount of Benadryl in his system, maybe he took it in hopes of killing himself or knocking himself out to stop him from following through with his plan? He kept posting about his intentions and then about no one trying to stop him.
@yaz.76453 жыл бұрын
fr. those tweets he was posting about his plan, you’d think one person at leasttt would come forward and question him.
@notsurewhy32633 жыл бұрын
i think he likely took lethal amount of dph to make sure he would not survive, and/or also to make him drowsy or calm to carry the killing out. idk if they are saying that it was all absorbed by the time he died but i guarantee in order to do this the dph in his system was most definitely barely absorbed yet.
@glenrichard78633 жыл бұрын
It's kinda like the "not my job" mentality - if it doesn't affect us directly then someone else will deal with it but no one does cuz it's not their problem
@adampowell83193 жыл бұрын
!...wen I was 18 years old me n friends took anywhere from 300 mgs-600mgs of dph at a time and that was with tolerance and it was strong enough to hallucinate at 600mgs!so that would be around 250 ml....so yeah 370 ml of dph would possibly b lethal... but positively 100% Gaurantee he wouldn't have been able to stay away or even walk if it had absorbed into his system let alone methodically shooting n killing three people!!
@kathymcmahon65823 жыл бұрын
SOMEONE wants SOMEONE ELSE to do SOMETHING about it!!!
@xoXDonnieXox3 жыл бұрын
He obviously left her alive to tell the story. He's a narcissist. It wasnt empathy from looking in her eyes. It was him realizing he had more opportunity to push his narrative
@shtrdVo1cano3 жыл бұрын
It's bizarre, the narcissism. Makes you wonder where the line, or gray area is, where someone crosses over to the real dark side.
@linmochi18503 жыл бұрын
i just Remember Spree when i saw this
@khylindkemper22943 жыл бұрын
This is much more then just narcisssm. Are you serious 😂😂😂 THIS IS BORDER LINE PERSONALITY, also showing high signs of sociopathic behavior. Do you know the difference?? Narcissist are NOT this honest, and don’t actually talk about things like murder and death. They’re mentally manipulative to get what they want out of total control. Hes sociopathic as fuckkk they also don’t show signs of empathy, NP isn’t the only disorder with lack of empathy. Hes not a phycopath cause he would most likely still be charming in a way. Hes a sociopath with borderline personality Please learn the difference . Also just because you have phycopath, sociopath, doesn’t mean your a serial killer. It just means you lack the ability to sympathize, lack of awareness of others etc. This man is simply just phycotic.
@linmochi18503 жыл бұрын
@@khylindkemper2294 holy shit bro are you a therapist or something?
@Miss_Wallace3 жыл бұрын
@@khylindkemper2294 Can you please tell me why you say ' Borderline Personality Disorder'?
@Ching-rf1zi4 ай бұрын
Very terrified. I’ve never known what was hanppening/happened with Randy Stair. Someone I know acts, thinks, and talks just like him down to the facial expressions and cartoon obsession. He’s completely obsessed with him and I have no clue what to do. We’ve tried therapy and psychiatry and NOTHING. Help
@johnboykingatorhole40042 жыл бұрын
After years of being in law enforcement, it is quit possible he left the one young lady alive to be a live witness that could tell his story and keep his actions alive for his fans and fame.
@GoddessNyx9112 жыл бұрын
Agreed. 100%
@omfug85932 жыл бұрын
Like in the natural born killers movie
@stay_eeek2 жыл бұрын
This gavr me goosebumps, it didnt cross my mind about that
@logan93052 жыл бұрын
It's inline with narcism, that's for sure
@stevenwheat36212 жыл бұрын
But then again, her story on what happened is different than what the camera shows.. And for that reason, I wouldn't believe shit she says
@ceciliap53362 жыл бұрын
can you honestly even IMAGINE the horror his family felt watching him flip the coin and knowing that they very well could have been murdered if it just so happened to be heads instead of tails on the last one? wow. absolutely insane
@daphney1192 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. It easily could have been them instead
@brandoncliff56532 жыл бұрын
Now you may be correct but if you listen to him after the coin flip. He says now more than just him are going to die. but when its tails he says now more than he just needs to die. Idk i noticed it and it seems he was flipping based on suicide or mas murder
@diydunder33772 жыл бұрын
Can you honestly IMAGINE if this guy was never bullied in school and he grew up to be more or less normal? Oh man the tragedy.
@YumiSumire2 жыл бұрын
i don't think he was going to kill his family, maybe just his dad.
@attentionaddicts2 жыл бұрын
@@diydunder3377 he wasn't bullied, he was ignored. Everything was about getting attention.
@lauraslanesvanlifetravels2 жыл бұрын
I love how they paint everyone who is lonely or has a hard time making friends as becoming like this...I've had that trouble but I've never EVER thought about harming anyone...life is hard and not everyone is accepted into the "popular" crowds...only made me stronger, not crazy
@trappyy2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if the following is true. People likely to commit mass shootings or events similar to this are psychopaths, clearly have mental health issues and some predisposition to evil - as such they're far more likely to lack the social skills to make friends. However they make up a very small percentage of introverts in general. In short - not all lonely people who struggle socially are capable of this, BUT all people capable of this are going to be lonely people who struggle socially.
@Latesnightesongrailed2 жыл бұрын
I pretty sure everyone suffers from this at one point in their life and yes most don’t turn into a complete psychopath thank god
@copescale95992 жыл бұрын
@@Latesnightesongrailed not everyone i have never felt the urge to wear women's clothing, it would be wrong it would feel wrong and something i would never want.
@sheills_19962 жыл бұрын
🙌
@Latesnightesongrailed2 жыл бұрын
@@copescale9599 i wasn’t talking about the cross dressing 💀
@willtofstad8703Ай бұрын
It is scary to think that many people have and will continue to go down the same hole. Very sad, I can't believe anyone could do something like this. Makes you realize the importance of telling loved ones when you see small concerning stuff like this.
@dominantdaddy69392 жыл бұрын
I watched this front to back. The kid was disturbed. Zero doubt about that. Not condoning in any way. However, this is a clear case of someone crying out to be stopped and helped. He wanted people to see his plans, understand, and step in to stop him. Nobody did. Not a soul. Pay attention to the people around you. You never know. A kind word could save lives
@Somelady4642 жыл бұрын
Well said. Also, it’s not as well known as other symptoms that major depression can cause delusions and hallucinations. He really needed help
@redastley58722 жыл бұрын
there was a band he was in the members tried to befriend him and be friendly to him but he dismissed all of them coldly it was clear he did not want any friends. He liked his fictional cartoon characters more. Honestly the dude was a lost cause imo.
@loganlongdixk99662 жыл бұрын
shouldnt need to say kind words to people for them to not kill people lol
@kingmini50982 жыл бұрын
Even if they were to try, that’ll probably make em want to do it more seeing as he finally got attention when he finally did dumb shit
@uribheidi2 жыл бұрын
Oh please. If he was really wanting to be stopped he would have flat out told someone what he was actually planning to do. Who in the world would derive anything from his nonsense? He really expected his parents to recognize the t shirt Eric Harris wore? Give me a break. He knew they wouldn't. He just wanted to place the blame for his behavior on others because he was a coward and a narcissist. I can't believe people are actually sympathizing with this piece of shit.
@pbnjams2 жыл бұрын
it shakes me to the core that his parents didn’t notice.. or, if they did, how they still thought he was stable enough to have a gun. Edit: somehow this became my most liked and replied comment? Thanks, I guess???? If you have thoughts of extreme violence against a person/persons/place and have a want of acting on them, get help.
@mr3x2x2 жыл бұрын
Every single time they're on some kind of medication. Go figure.
@-redacted25542 жыл бұрын
Fr its so obvious these kids are dangerous you gotta deliberately ignore shit
@diydunder33772 жыл бұрын
it shakes me to the core that this kid was probably persistently bullied by a ton of peers in his age group, but somehow you go right to the parents. Idiot.
@alia39192 жыл бұрын
Or the teachers! Like he was writing about death in all the assignments he turned in and they didn't question it? He cried for help to so many people so many times and no one questioned a dang thing
@pbnjams2 жыл бұрын
@@diydunder3377 ? I doubt the bullies would’ve spoken up if they thought he needed help though. I’m not saying it’s the parents fault. I’m saying that there must have been signs that weren’t noticed or, at worst, ignored.
@Harpeia3 жыл бұрын
This case is sociologically important and should be referred to in all future parental guidance books. A lot can be learned about the development of a human mind and behaviour in this day and age through it.
@benjaminmiller23463 жыл бұрын
Laymen terms this guy in the video lacked love as a child and teenager. I'm sure the dad doesn't miss him.
@carolineduliat3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised that no one noticed the signals. I'm only learning about this case today accidentally. It was so heartbreaking to see that people don't know this is a tale signs of self destruction. May it be a reminder to all of us.
@usernotfound2323 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree
@lukebeakum13163 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminmiller2346 what even causes someone to be a killer,?
@tambrody26843 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminmiller2346 that’s pretty fucked but you definitely could be right lmao
@MichiganGhostHunters5 ай бұрын
The third coin flip gave me the coldest of chills
@222supersilver Жыл бұрын
No matter how much time passes, this case is still one of the most disturbing but preventable tragedies I've ever seen.
@michaelkennedy8303 Жыл бұрын
Practically any tragedy is preventable with hindsight. Unfortunately a narcissistic kid obsessed with a cartoon , expecting everyone around him pick up on things he wasn't saying aloud then being personally offended when they didn't... I don't find it preventing it was ever overly likely.
@louisl9741 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelkennedy8303the signs he gave were pretty obvious, especially the stuff he posted on KZbin
@michaelkennedy8303 Жыл бұрын
@@louisl9741 apparently not, since, you know, nobody noticed any signs
@Davidparty3 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelkennedy8303 Well, he was telling what he was gonna do publicly
@sosa0 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelkennedy8303 nah this was absolutely preventable.
@SlingandStoneVideos Жыл бұрын
The impact of constantly showing your children you love them is so incredibly important. It truly defines the person
@at2818 Жыл бұрын
you can constantly tell and show your kids you love them while also not being a pushover. WTF? @JuiceLayah
@blueblaze5160 Жыл бұрын
@JuiceLayah There’s a difference between love and “you’re the best at everything you do!” The phrase “tough love” still has love in it. I understand the concept you’re trying to get across, but there are better ways to communicate it.
@useyourdelusion6807 Жыл бұрын
@JuiceLayahworst comment ever. 😂
@brutallyhonest123 Жыл бұрын
@useyourdelusion6807 his mom bought him the shotgun. Sometimes "no" is how you love someone
@KoraOSRS Жыл бұрын
@kevinspencer643 Sounds like your parents didn't tell you they love you very often, if at all. Being "hard" isn't cool or good. Loving your fking kid openly doesn't make your kid a wimp. Many, many people out there have parents who showered them in love and yet who are tougher and more successful than you could ever dream to be. You're sad, and your point just makes you sound toxic. Please refrain from reproducing if you actually plan to go out of your way to cap how much you love your kids for the sole purpose of "not making them wimps". Chances are they will grow up resentful towards you, and like they don't have a real connection with you, which as their parent, is detrimental on so many levels to their psyche, their mental health, and their overall personality. Fking love your kids with no limit man, stop trying to act like an alpha and grow up
@Pieruh3 жыл бұрын
It's sad how loneliness can affect someone's psyche. I'm not saying randy was in the right or that he didn't know better but I think he's life would have been completely different if he had a supportive family and friends
@j.m63343 жыл бұрын
yeah true i thought that too, its just so sad to watch someone slowly throw themselves into a deep hole :( thats why its always good to help someone that has a lot of issues bc not only are you saving them but your also saving a ton of other ppl they prob would have killed if they didnt get the help they needed
@plantdaddy77383 жыл бұрын
He did have friends. He was just a shitty one. When this first happened I went through his Instagram. He had a few friends. Just a terrible dude who should of got help or had better parents with more awareness.
@CadenIsCaden3 жыл бұрын
The thing I just don't understand at all is that there were actual people LIKING his tweets, but didn't hesitate to think that there OBVIOUSLY WAS something wrong with him, like maybe actually take a few minutes to maybe help Randy turn his LIFE around...? Seriously it fucking kills me how humans on this earth are so stupid wtf?
@Pieruh3 жыл бұрын
@@CadenIsCaden either that or they just didn't care
@leilaonline27873 жыл бұрын
This has nothing to do with LONLINESS. This is about ignoring clear signs of mental degradation. And the fact that you, yourself are making it about "no friends" IS THE PROBLEM. They leave their kids locked in a room with screens and he has NO DIRECTION and wasn't pushed in any direction. White families tend to see their weird family members as "eccentric" or "nerdy". I think it comes from a need to fit in to that perfect suburban family, so the craziness gets ignored. These people have children and then ignore them. They pay more attention to the family pet, than they do their own teenaged kids. Look at Jeffrey Dahmer. All of his weirdness was simply overlooked and categorized as being "Off". He had a head in a box, that smelled bad in his room. Victims were stumbling out of his apartment. Gary Ridgeway... killed 45 women. His co-workers joked about how he looked EXACTLY like the killer and was interviewed twice. No one called the police on him and he even hung out with cops in bars. I think white privilege is why these men are allowed to become killers.
@Green_Gold4 ай бұрын
Craziest part of those Supermarket videos is how cheap the prices are on the signage
@applescruff19693 ай бұрын
"Weis: Even bullets can't cut these deals!" Lol.
@tjhookit3 жыл бұрын
When he was ranting about how people act like they care but they don't, and people don't pay attention..........I wanted to ask him who HE has cared about or paid any attention to......other than his fictional ladies, and himself.
@plantdaddy77383 жыл бұрын
FACTS. Finally some sense in these comments.
@jacobwebb42523 жыл бұрын
His thoughts never when that deep he just wanted attention for himself
@JWSoul3 жыл бұрын
Clever
@Mortanux3 жыл бұрын
Well he actually says so in two accounts, first he recalls his teacher as a good person and bice, these are not words you attach to someone you don't care or have any positive feeling towards. He also at a point recalls how he wold be most worried for his dads life prioritizing it above all. Its clear he had cares and feelings along side with his problems and doubts, but as his feelings or actions towards other became less and less reciprocated he started questioning the value of them, shifting is focus on louder attempts at attention. And this is not something kids do, its a rule of thumb in human behaviour, in an office if there is a meeting and all opinions are being considered but yours, you will start ignoring others opinions and voicing yours louder until acknowledged.
@itsamiyah95673 жыл бұрын
@@biophonism Excatly
@Itsssadaaam10 ай бұрын
It’s really creepy that the people he shot were somewhere doing something completely unaware that this guy is out here flipping a coin with their life on the line
@notacoolguy58458 ай бұрын
Easy way to pick between two options
@clankthetank42868 ай бұрын
Easy way to pass off blame when you don't want to do something. "that's fate" he said.@@notacoolguy5845
@devnjohnson7 ай бұрын
Fr dude
@koraary7 ай бұрын
@@notacoolguy5845what the hell
@rustyshackleford72657 ай бұрын
And some people want them using women's locker rooms. The world is full of evil
@ManahsRoom2 жыл бұрын
Imagine how different things might have been if his parents had gotten him grief counseling after his friend passed away in the car accident; what a tragedy all around.
@oscargreat2 жыл бұрын
Nothing works without God. Psychotherapy is a fraud, invented by chews.
@gunnercade77282 жыл бұрын
Grief counseling doesn’t do shit
@hyperbee22762 жыл бұрын
@@gunnercade7728 everyone's different buddy relax
@tossicamckinnon2 жыл бұрын
Um
@beagledog20012 жыл бұрын
I'm not saying, necessarily, that this is what your indicating, but losing his friend in a terrible car accident is no reason no excuse for killing people.
@LyndaBell_732 ай бұрын
It almost made me cry to watch this because I'm so sorry that nobody saw all the warnings. He was literally crying out! We have to pray for our families every day and night.
@SnacckyChanT3 жыл бұрын
he even mentioned how his parents never noticed the warning signs and ignored it or people didnt notice. he wanted someone to stop him in a way and thats hauntingly sad in itself. he was although narcasstic still, that one girl got really lucky. rip to others
@mollieroark92333 жыл бұрын
he wanted them to notice yet he never reached out. so that is how the problem began in himself. we’re all guilty of not noticing. because we all have problems of our own that others don’t notice. i’ve struggled with depression and ptsd related SH since 5th grade to currently and ppl don’t rly notice ! that’s normal and they’re not to blame. sometimes it sucks that no one reaches out but it’s reality ! life f$cking sucks but we have to have empathy for eachother and overcome our issues optimistically and not harm others in our process of dealing with our own $hit. yk ?
@useliteski33813 жыл бұрын
his parents failed the world. pay attention to your kids, parents.
@alwaysyouramanda3 жыл бұрын
I don’t want to have kids mainly for the reason that we don’t get to raise them- not those of us in the working class. Both parents need to work 50-60 hours just to pay the rent and bills- these are children of the state. Like “hitlers children” back in the day. Our culture promotes it. I remember when “teen mom” came out, it influenced my mom and my little sister-!! I was always told that I’d be kicked out if I got pregnant. She got pregnant at 19 during season 2..?
@stillstymied3 жыл бұрын
They probably did notice, but didn't say anything to him.
@SnacckyChanT3 жыл бұрын
@@stillstymied thats even more messed up, parents saw it but chose not to do anything. Neglectful. they are just as much to blame as he is. If they were busy yeah but to not even bother to ask how he is and why he chose to buy a gun or his behavior. Seems he craved attention and im wondering how his childhood was like
@suzuneinukami3 жыл бұрын
When your role models are the columbine shooters there’s really no way it’ll end any other way than this. This guy was clearly deeply disturbed, to say the least.
@anubs17863 жыл бұрын
Attention seeking, narcissist, pseudo-psychopath, homophobic... what else can i say that describe this guy ?..
@anubs17863 жыл бұрын
self-centered/selfish, he took the life of innocents that owned him nothing. Really fucked up.
@hdofu3 жыл бұрын
I guess owning the My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic notebook was some sort of sarcastic gesture.
@marcellinechoisne56273 жыл бұрын
@@anubs1786 i m a mom and a granma...where was the parents!? if your kid is going so far, you feel it, you see something is wrong! i had the exemple with my son when he was teenager..changing is normal...having an internet life, ok...but i saw him acting bizarrely..being agressive with me.. a day i enter the "sacred" room.. and i saw vodka bottles, ! we had an argument, and that crushed my heart..but after that,he came back in the good way, slowly...
@MichelleCWeber3 жыл бұрын
He had dry mouth in the video. Some psych meds give you cotton mouth.
@daniellepelletier28223 жыл бұрын
This guy obviously needed help. He was crying out and everyone ignored. You can clearly see here his morbid fixation on death and psychological issues... people like this need therapy...
@realdjtoddthunder13233 жыл бұрын
It's not others fault for his problems
@opgaquatics56093 жыл бұрын
@@realdjtoddthunder1323 sometimes you need someone to help you up when you fall.
@R3DD3LUX3 жыл бұрын
@@realdjtoddthunder1323 not anyone fault , but doing these kinds of things and people Just brushing it off makes u feel like nothing
@TSMSnation3 жыл бұрын
@@realdjtoddthunder1323 we are in this together, or not at all.
@coryanderson71513 жыл бұрын
We as parents and grandparents know our kids and grandkids well.this behavior can be seen over time. Some just sweep stuff under the rug and say not my kid.Its our responsibility to stop or report this stuff or accept the responseability one of our retarts blew a gasket and it's on us
@perrydezeeuw963 ай бұрын
The fact he's homophobic while identifying as a trans gay woman is craaazy 😂
@sandorclegane36582 ай бұрын
It's called projection. He hated himself.
@Guruji-pj1dx24 күн бұрын
If he thought he was a woman then it makes sense
@MichelleNorman-r1q10 күн бұрын
Amen!!!!
@WhyPhi3 жыл бұрын
The “hidden demons” were not hidden AT ALL! He literally told everyone and had a countdown.
@allanpanzer98652 жыл бұрын
yep
@laurenward2562 жыл бұрын
And nobody did anything, it's so awful
@coffeemakerbottomcracked2 жыл бұрын
Stupid fans did nothing
@batmeme93492 жыл бұрын
@@laurenward256 Would you even do anything? I doubt you will
@xx_amongus_xx69872 жыл бұрын
@@batmeme9349 What does that have to do with what he said? It's a fact, the stupid fans did nothing
@IamMagsB3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe his parents didn't even notice this red flags. And no one reported these videos to the police?? Wtf!
@sandibales98313 жыл бұрын
It wasn’t just him that was weird that night my ex Brian Hayes was one of victims but what was strange is the night he was going to work he took a shower and then he shaved his head which in 20 years I’ve never seen him do that it was very weird night. What are the last thing he said is I’m not going anywhere
@autumnt.allgood88953 жыл бұрын
Parents should always check in on their kids in their rooms if they spend so much time in there. Stay in contact with one another. I can't believe the people on the internet didn't inform the police, store manager or his parents. It's awful that his co workers had to die. He could of killed himself at home & not destory three people & their families lives. He was selfish & crazy.
@marcopoloplanner88433 жыл бұрын
Can't believe a guy can get 2 guns so easily and everyone is so ok about it to not even notice it
@beebutler63443 жыл бұрын
@@marcopoloplanner8843 I live in Texas, and most people I know have at LEAST two guns, with many more owning what should honestly be considered an arsenal. Down here, it's not much of a big deal to anyone, which is why, although watching this was terrifying and infuriating, I was almost surprised that he only bought two. He mentions his mom might've been surprised and a little upset that he bought the second, since it was an almost identical gun, and might've said not to buy any more, but other than that, it's not uncommon and practically normalized here. That said, I own zero, will never purchase one, and I consider it a massive red flag every time I encounter someone, going out of my way not to get involved with people who buy them or regularly go shooting (another thing that's normal here... not hunting, SHOOTING. They go to the gun range for hours and fire off as many as they can from as many guns as they bring). This should've been a red flag, but down here the 2nd amendment has been reinterpreted as a requirement, and people buy and fire guns like normal people buy and consume food.
@chrissearer18963 жыл бұрын
Yeah. YT ignored millions of same kind of flags. See: Justin Hess/Woolie killed Mother and innocent bystander in Marietta, GA.
@ArizonaAkinTv3 жыл бұрын
Damn this kid wasn’t crying for help, he was screaming and sobbing for it. Jesus. I’m not defending his actions at ALL, but it sure does seem like these parents should’ve caught
@sarahmccarthy44623 жыл бұрын
He wouldn't go for any help
@carlosandleon3 жыл бұрын
He's ignoring all the help. He sealed his own fate all on his own.
@cheritabarbuto88513 жыл бұрын
WHERE was dad & mom?
@kino_613 жыл бұрын
I don't defend his actions but I can feel his pain, I had a similar childhood and my parents noticed that I needed attention only when I hanged myself the first time (and I obviously failed). When I tried to attract attention I was always treated like a dead weight. (I hanged myself for other reasons that are more significative than seeking attention, but if I was loved "correctly" I don't think I would've tried to commit suicide)
@aboodi15323 жыл бұрын
@@kino_61 im sorry you had to go through it :(
@Thefreethinkershow18 күн бұрын
Stories like this leave you with an unsettling truth: sometimes the darkest obsessions and intentions are hiding in plain sight, yet remain invisible to those closest. It’s terrifying to consider how someone can fall so deeply into their own world, a world driven by isolation, fixations, and a craving for attention, that reality itself slips away. Randy's story is both a cautionary tale and a tragic reminder of how vital it is to recognize the warning signs in others. Perhaps, as disturbing as it is, his life serves as a mirror reflecting the loneliness and unaddressed mental health struggles that can lurk beneath seemingly normal lives.
@kimberlyhovis58642 жыл бұрын
This man was obviously suffering from delusions and possibly depression and narcissistic personality disorder. It's a shame that he never got the help that he needed and was never reported. It might have saved lives.
@vorpal222 жыл бұрын
Definitely seems like he had narcissistic personality disorder, which can cause delusions. As for depression, possibly... I have had suicidal ideation from the age of 10 - 40 and do not have narcissistic tendencies or depression. I'm 44 now, and my suicidal ideation was cured when my best friend committed suicide three and a half years ago. Unlike Randy, my friend's death made me realize that I actually wanted to live instead of the other way around.
@user-yz3et4lq9y2 жыл бұрын
Vorpal; glad you made it to the other side amigo, I'm glad you turned & did something so positive with the suicide of your friend, instead of taking the easy route & following him into the grave. I'm sure he would be proud of you for choosing life as well, dude. Keep on fighting the good fight!
@heresjohnny6022 жыл бұрын
Not every narcasstic expression is narcasstic personality disorder....if you don't know the difference between personality traits and disorders please be silent. You only spread misinformation otherwise.
@heresjohnny6022 жыл бұрын
@@vorpal22 Any normal human gets depressed or has narcasstic moments of expression, to lie and pretend otherwise means you're either delusional or deeply narcasstic yourself.
@vorpal222 жыл бұрын
@@heresjohnny602 LOL that's adorable that you think I care about your unfounded conclusion. Guess how many fucks I give?
@retpal23023 жыл бұрын
Seemed like his parents didn't notice much about him.
@splifstar853 жыл бұрын
From his perspective, perhaps.. How it was in reality, none of us know 🤷♂️
@moonshine5883 жыл бұрын
They were probably just sick of his shit at that point. I imagine he was quite the attention seeker
@retpal23023 жыл бұрын
@@moonshine588 Could be but if you remember even his coworkers never saw it coming. Mentally ill but he sure planned and excuted methodically. A severe case of narcissism for sure. Obviously he struggled with his inner demons but I would think his parents would have known something was off.
@sunsuz983 жыл бұрын
Seems like his parents never should have had off spring.
@KikiW893 жыл бұрын
He didn't even noticed much About himself
@subliminalclown Жыл бұрын
The fact that he decided other people's fate on a coin toss... Oh my god.
@vermili0n Жыл бұрын
I wonder if his family was told about the coin toss. Imagine knowing you and you’re entires families fate came down to a 50/50 chance at the toss of a coin? Creepy af
@romikasmith1478 Жыл бұрын
FINALLY!! Someone states the obvious. How Selfish.
@rookiesru7271 Жыл бұрын
That's real Anton Chigurh of him to do that.
@cheefqueef6494 Жыл бұрын
@@rookiesru7271 What business is it of yours...friendo?
@hudsonm1328 Жыл бұрын
Harvey dent 😐
@craigbannister77984 ай бұрын
The flip of a coin determined whether his family died or his work colleagues... absolutely mental!
@oAgL2143 жыл бұрын
I can tell right away by the way he expressed, he was deeply disturbed. His desperation to be noticed, recognized as who he felt he was, is mortifying.
@stormbreak70033 жыл бұрын
Not only that but from what i seen from this video. He always blamed someone else for his actions and never took accountability.
@oAgL2143 жыл бұрын
@@stormbreak7003 yes!
@amasad49153 жыл бұрын
He seems like he has antisocial disorder
@cesarebachelli3 жыл бұрын
@@amasad4915 or maybe parents need to nurture selflessness in their kids. The narcissistic culture of "me, me, me", or "pay attention to me" breeds this type of behavior. It is hard to make or maintain friendship when you force your friends' role as people who have to care just about you. Friendship is a mutual thing. But you'll see narcissist just want their friends to do what they only like, or listen to his opinion and story, while cutting or ignoring when others are talking.
@joshuadowdle96913 жыл бұрын
Only 9 seconds in, I'm already rolling my eyes.
@thedarkdojo51153 жыл бұрын
African Proverb: The child not feeling love by his village, will burn it down to receive it's warmth....
@nebulaorganz3 жыл бұрын
This is deep as shit
@patrickchoolburra15243 жыл бұрын
man powerful won't forget this
@MudFlapShoes3 жыл бұрын
all apologies.
@thedarkdojo51153 жыл бұрын
@@MudFlapShoes No likes on this dumb comment, and I can see why.... Edit: Go back to your own echo chamber, instead of making sh!t stains on other's posts...
@enrique94953 жыл бұрын
@@MudFlapShoes I think you looked to hard into the comment and just complicated the meaning for yourself.
@mackenzieh18493 жыл бұрын
I live in the town this happened in. I still remember waking up and finding out about it. It is so unsettling to see videos of the store I've been in a hundred times in this video. I remember looking up his YT after it happened. If anyone wanted to know, Weis did a complete redesign of the interior due to the damage he did to it. People avoided it for weeks after it reopened, but then came to an agreement that we should not punish the store or employees, or allow him to get his way. The first few times I went in after this it was horrible knowing what had happened there.
@mentok30273 жыл бұрын
Even creepier that his obsession/muse was a cartoon bearing your name.
@thatsarock3 жыл бұрын
Same thing..I lived in the city where the Batman shooting happened.. Still went to see movies there.. Tho they shut down that theater for a while
@tiffanystarr18233 жыл бұрын
I still feel weird going in there
@allimatics3D3 жыл бұрын
Same. I live in the same neighborhood where the shooting happened. I just moved there a year before this happened and when my parents and I found out about the shooting we were shocked. I remember when the store reopened my mom went to shop there instead of Walmart for a bit to help the store and support the business. I was scared to go with her a few times though because I was scared that another shooting would happen-
@thatsarock3 жыл бұрын
@@allimatics3D that usually is not how it works.. Don't be scared to shop there.
@rok0431Ай бұрын
You have a video about a little girl who wanted to kill her little brother and foster parents. They were afraid of her and asked for help. Lots of conversations, love and understanding...and today she is a wonderful woman who helps victims. This boy was screaming for help. so sad!
@dawnemile49743 жыл бұрын
Although Randy speaks clear sentences, his priorities were clearly those of a person with a severe mental health problem.
@TheRationalist.3 жыл бұрын
He desperately needed therapy and medication. The guy seemed insane sadly. Detached from reality.
@gaming1zanagi-19993 жыл бұрын
Yep I would say he might have necromania aka obsessed with death
@GG-jn9fx3 жыл бұрын
It was very clear in his tone too. Maybe it was the clips used for the video but he seemed very intense.
@thebrokenmystic8793 жыл бұрын
@@GG-jn9fx The truth is love is free, it cost nothing to be kind to someone and some people choose not to. Like the quote I heard in some book I read “light the candle in yourself then light it on others one by one.”
@thebrokenmystic8793 жыл бұрын
@@GG-jn9fx in*
@terranman47022 жыл бұрын
"The warning signs where all there!!" Yeah Randy, they where. And your words make clear, you where aware enough to seek help yourself.
@Corpse7012 жыл бұрын
I feel like he was saying this as a I gave you so many hints and you still didn't figure it out type of thing. I feel like he knew something was wrong but didn't care.
@rexman9712 жыл бұрын
@@Corpse701 Probably fed up with life so he took a few more with him.
@Ariatank2 жыл бұрын
The thing is with mental health is that it can make someone scared or not want to go into it first/by themselves. Mental health is a very tricky thing and people often ask for help in roundabout ways.
@plxqued2 жыл бұрын
were
@Passion850312 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@chaneykane382811 ай бұрын
I’ve watched a lot of documentaries on killers like this. A running theme I see is that they have fears and feelings we all have (fear of death, aging, rejection, the repetition of working, ect.) but the way they perceive and try to solve these problems is always irrational. I think that’s the real disconnect with these people.
@KennethSimpson-q3h8 ай бұрын
Well that can be said about anyone, not to the extent of killing BUT drug use, self harm.... It's a running theme that people run from fear PERIOD
@antohanx8 ай бұрын
these people
@Daniel-Choe7 ай бұрын
The biggest running theme is that all of them have parents who fail them more than anything.
@approximate16657 ай бұрын
@@Daniel-Choe something that is not included in this video here, is that Randy's mom DID reach out to him one time after his aunt showed a post he made on his Facebook that was disconcerting to her. Randy brushed it off and said everything was fine, and then proceeded to block his whole family on his social media and from then on out, only made social media accounts with his Andrew name. His mom reached out, he rejected it, and then he still whines and moaned and complained that no one cared about him. I used to be like him in this regard, minus the ghost girl stuff and the shooting obsession. I have since then worked very hard to not be this way any longer. With these types of people, yes they do need some form of therapy, but it doesn't matter how much you reach out to them, it simply will never be enough for them
@RustyCroley7 ай бұрын
That's a very observate thought.
@rosespam-u6wАй бұрын
he's homophobic but he thinks his ghost GIRL self would have a ghost GIRLFRIEND?
@枒28 күн бұрын
He’s in a delusional state of psychosis, of course his logic doesn’t make sense!
@emmylouwho-zp6sp Жыл бұрын
When you said with how much Benadryl he had taken he might have blurred vision. I immediately wondered if that's why he didn't shoot the surviving coworker. If she was frozen in fear and didn't scream or anything he might not have seen her. Even though she thought he was staring at her he might have been looking up to see if anyone would come running to see what was going on. That her being frozen in fear might have saved her life.
@WRLDofHRT Жыл бұрын
I had the same thought…
@makasnakas97 Жыл бұрын
Its a physiological thing, that direct locked in eye contact with her made him not pull the trigger(search it up). She didn’t mean too, it just happened and it saved her life, he literally saw the fear in her eyes and couldn’t do it, and he didn’t like that she could see right through him. The reason why he shoot the rest of the co workers from behind or afar. 5:53
@hyperion2551 Жыл бұрын
it was definitely because he couldn’t bring himself to do it
@shelbykutil9743 Жыл бұрын
@pazuzu Yeah well he’s quite literally just speculating, just like the commenter. We can’t possibly know the exact reason for not killing her.
@salteadog33 Жыл бұрын
Interesting theory. I thought it was in line with his feeling of “I’m all powerful, I control who lives & dies”. She was looking away from him, but in other cases killers have spared people looking right at them. “Mercy” isn’t always a kind thing. He was playing a game. He was hunting and spared one deer out of them all.
@irishgurl30783 жыл бұрын
It’s so unsettling watching clips of him. He’s clearly losing it in those videos. How no one noticed or cared is beyond me. Also, His mother and his boss bought him guns?! Wtf?!
@vegasjill213 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm sure his mom and dad we not in the room with him while he was making these crazy ass messed up videos. Do you reckon he sat at the dinner table and told his parents he wanted/ felt like he was female??? Do you think he pranced around the house in women's clothes? Kids these days hold many secrets from their parents. How many times have you seen it where a teenager is missing or something like that and the parents swear up and down in no uncertain terms that their child does NOT do illicit drugs, yet when the truth comes out or the case is solved that it comes out that the child/teenager was heavily into drugs. So the parents had no idea...but THAT is the innocent side the teen will show to the parents, and they will believe it. . It's really not that easy these times to be a parent.
@irishgurl30783 жыл бұрын
@@vegasjill21 I know it’s not easy being a parent and I wasn’t just talking about his parents not seeing something was wrong.
@lisae36633 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes, they just don’t want to see it.
@nikapolskaya83243 жыл бұрын
This is America- parents and kids shopping for guns on a week-ends. Family week-ends routine: disneyland trip, wendys stop for a bite, shopping for kalashnikovs with kids...yeeeaahhh!!! So normal IN A SICK WORLD!!!!!!!
@WobblesandBean3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to America.
@RoachDoggJr_17 ай бұрын
The scariest part is that NOBODY STOPPED HIM. HE WASNT HIDING ANYTHING AND NOOBOODY! REACTED!!! HE RECORDED EVERYYTHIING!!! this all could have been stopped... what a cruel world
@ItstheFREEDOM6 ай бұрын
We only know the youtubers side of the story, and Explore With us side. Who knows? Maybe the "viewers" knew, and where just as sick and twisted about reality as he was.
@Shiny1016 ай бұрын
@ItstheFREEDOM Yeah, I high doubt many Eagle Scouts were subscribed to this freak.
@richardtraver76275 ай бұрын
This happened in my home town. His father was the manager in the Dallas location (about 10-12miles away) where they lived. Randy worked in the tunkhannock location. From what was discovered he uploaded all the audio tapes with a single background photo but never specifically mention exact names/details that could be directly linked to what was to happen . It was the day before or day after this horrific event happened the video files were uploaded with the matching audio files and it was Erie to watch it all . Sickening people I’ll never forget this evening/day in our small little town
@sethc7584 ай бұрын
@MichaelShepard-z3uto be fair he would've identified as a girl scout so.. lol
@jeffreypierce14403 ай бұрын
He was normal in this woke culture clown world. It's a masochistic cult gone mainstream.
@AsToldByUfa6 ай бұрын
Everyone has wanted attention in one way or another but its no reason to end someone s life. Pathetic
@Mazeoftorment3 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when parents don't do their job, they ignored him and bought him guns... wtf
@Fx_Explains3 жыл бұрын
we really don't know if they really ignored him.
@donk18903 жыл бұрын
Welcome to America baby where we value gun laws more than mental health!
@pr1nc0263 жыл бұрын
Your pfp just does it
@TheHellmo3 жыл бұрын
@@Fx_Explains more like ignored signs of red flags
@Grinch5563 жыл бұрын
@@donk1890 if his parents payed attention to his warning signs he’d never have gotten those guns. Especially if he ended up in a psych ward. You cannot get a gun with a mental health record
@sparkyshore3543 Жыл бұрын
The fact that not a single person watching his videos took him seriously and called the police is absolutely mind-boggling and inexcusable.
@twbroei9203 Жыл бұрын
@TRUMP-2O24one with a not so sickening mind. understands its wrong in every way. Thats a moral instinct not a yes no quote. If you ask me they should follow these people instead of people who just live there life.
@jessicafletcher8065 Жыл бұрын
Even if they did the police probably wouldn't take it seriously, just going off previous things like this where the police just thought it was someone ranting to get attention, but yeah, you're right why the heck didn't his parents or people he knew do anything, if I knew someone like that and saw those videos, I would have told someone.
@sparkyshore3543 Жыл бұрын
@@jessicafletcher8065 it's the police's job to take things like this seriously. You get in a lot more trouble for underreacting than overreacting.
@jessicafletcher8065 Жыл бұрын
@sparkyshore3543 Oh, i agree with you 100%. I think sometimes the police are just so lax sometimes, that things, like that, pass them by because they can't be bothered to look into it properly, and then people get hurt.
@dipper5835 Жыл бұрын
@@jessicafletcher8065Trust me, in the last few years they are taking every call relating to shootings seriously now. No matter how absurd or a reach, it has became a serious issue increasing every year
@babystone426 ай бұрын
Him sparing one person could've also been in reference to the Columbine shooting - Dylan Klebold spared one person, and Eric Harris spared another by telling him to go home. Like they each wanted to feel like they controlled life and death. I live in Colorado, so we watched a doc in high school about the shooting.
@mrawesomecoolguy5 ай бұрын
It definitely was a reference to that. Good catch, I hadn't remembered that detail until now.
@gemmahampton56613 ай бұрын
As was said, he was a self proclaimed narcissist, racist and homophobe. Only thought of himself when other people died and was upset that he didn't get enough attention off fans and other people. Seems like he just wanted to hurt everyone through killing them and making them feel guilty for not noticing signs that let's face it only obsessed people like him would notice. The cartoon character didn't bring it out in him, he was narcissistic, had an inflated sense of self and extremely manipulative in these videos. This was his way of getting famous!
@astaroth_angelАй бұрын
yeah, randy was obsessed with columbine to the point that she (they identified as a girl near the end of their life) literally adopted extremist beliefs that the columbine shooters held. very sad.
@Beepy-by6sgАй бұрын
@@astaroth_angel that's terrible. But he was clearly a guy and anyone saying that they themselves are the opposite sex regardless of how they came to that conclusion is just wrong. It's confusion.
@BugalooTheDestroyer6 күн бұрын
@@astaroth_angelhe.
@Dainja4 ай бұрын
The craziest part to me is there's so many mass shootings in this country that this is the first time I'm hearing about this one. 🤯
@kibblesnbits31742 жыл бұрын
You know I was getting scared for a minute because some of the stuff he was saying in the beginning I’d exactly what my mind wanders to. Being suicidal, heavily depressed since elementary school, thinking life was meaningless because we could die any second. In fact I was positive (and still struggle with it) that I was gonna die by my own hands so i at least had control. The difference though is even tho no one noticed the signs, I got myself help. I went to a psych ward, I went to a rehab, I have therapy and medication. I never once thought that because I was suffering others deserved it too. I still had empathy and all that. I think this dude lacked emotions for other people which is why deciding to kill them was so exciting. And someone said earlier that he saw his own warning signs and didn’t do anything to help himself and I agree. I think he truly wanted this. I saw red flags for myself and did the right thing so I didn’t hurt myself anymore and, god forbid, become a danger to anyone else
@Shaybella012 жыл бұрын
If no one has told you how BIG of a move you made, let me say it now. What you have done to get yourself the help you felt you needed is HUGE! Although I don’t know you, it’s good to hear one speak on their struggles and overcome them. I commend you and must say that I am proud of you for overcoming your situation while dealing with it positively as possible. ❤️ i’m sending a big hug your way and I hope that you receive it and send one back my way. -Shay
@stephaniefaris79822 жыл бұрын
God bless u!
@Nick-hv8gj2 жыл бұрын
Well done, man. Seriously... that took a lot of strength and some high caliber character. You deserve to be happy and I hope you find a way to get there.
@jackattack75352 жыл бұрын
good for you!! great message and i’m sure everyone is proud of you :)
@youngrasshopper2582 жыл бұрын
You deserve to be very happy and you are such a strong person
@yourfavoriteuser437 ай бұрын
The amount of times this could’ve been prevented is INSANE
@Psalm-yg6yi7 ай бұрын
Maybe not. He was seriously messed up
@Ambs5197 ай бұрын
It really is there was so so many times someone could of saved it 😭
@DEPORTER_SUPPORTER7 ай бұрын
Imagine being driven and attracted to cartoon characters like this guy.
@samypons90236 ай бұрын
@@DEPORTER_SUPPORTER it is the most normal thing with that guy
@leons78146 ай бұрын
He created friends,characters he wanted..
@t0xictak0z17 Жыл бұрын
It just amazes me how self awares he is, he knows that its probably stupid to be doing all of this because of a cartoon character, yet proceeds with his plan
@Asterlyte Жыл бұрын
Because he wanted someone to notice and give him some love
@erinmontgomery4983 Жыл бұрын
@@Asterlytethis!!!
@GTKJNow Жыл бұрын
He will not be with his cartoon character. Too bad his parents did not teach him murders are cast into the everlasting lake of fire and BRIMSTONE (it really stinks too)!
@JamesBrown-oe7zd Жыл бұрын
BECAUSE HE WAS A GHOST GIRL DUH
@taylorfranek5389 Жыл бұрын
He needed a male presence and to feel love from a woman not his mother. It's an amazing thing love and touch of a woman.
@adams546Ай бұрын
There are two types of people, and if someone has this both categories, they are dangerous to the society: 1. Those who despise themselves, they reject self-acceptance 2. Those who despise the world, they reject sense of normalcy in society This guy had both. A criminal act was to be expected. If you happen to know this type of people, stay away as soon as possible.
@ItWatchesWithoutEyes3 жыл бұрын
At first he came off as cringey and your typical misunderstood loser with a hint of gender issues, but by around half way in I found myself heavily intrigued by his level of self-awareness, yet lack-there-of.
@nickpastorinoartist3 жыл бұрын
So, why is he a 'loser' and why are you a 'winner'?
@luisitocomunista5463 жыл бұрын
@@nickpastorinoartist One didn’t shoot up a grocery store and another did
@KamenSoL3 жыл бұрын
@@nickpastorinoartist uhh did you watch the video? That’s why he’s a ‘loser’
@fyecofi3 жыл бұрын
@@nickpastorinoartist w h a t Well the only point I'd like to make is the op is not a mass murderer 🤠
@8888-x4t3 жыл бұрын
@@nickpastorinoartist bro chill, this guy was a scumbag murderer. The guy who commented is obviously ahead of this guy and probably even you. Grow up
@chadlikespasta31423 жыл бұрын
One thing I noticed is that at one point, he talks about how "the most random" things will make him cry, yet stuff that you're supposed to cry at doesn't. He cites the numerous times hes cried hard at the song Let It Go from frozen. Which is really fascinating that he gives that specific example, because I really think thats a giant clue to his narcissism and self obsession, and in turn a severe lack of empathy to other people than himself. The song is about Elsa 1. Being isolated from the world around her and 2. Being able to finally "let go" of the things trapping and holding her back and be herself. Which randy would probably find extremely relateable in his view. It reminds him of himself and his own journy, and so it makes sense he'd get emotional, because his mind can warp it to relate to him. And yet, as he said, normal things people would cry at (tragedies and suffering of others for example) leaves him unaffected, because he cant empathize with people outside of himself.
@janet2183 жыл бұрын
You are so right. I never would have thought that
@Tomohawk-e1n3 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way, but I'm not a narcissist, just got a touch of alexythimia (think that's the spelling)
@ari3lz3pp3 жыл бұрын
That part got me too but you put the words to it. My mother is a narcissist, he has a lot of similar habits it seems and sadly in her childhood people didn't care much either, she was almost killed by her sister. Just relating the unsteady childhood that relates to cluster-B. Leading to worse behavior....seems to snowball if no one can help stop it. The weird thing that's not that narcissistic is he reached out for help subtly but he did it, he talks about this, narcissists don't usually think they need help. Idk if you can have bi-polar AND sociopathy or something....
@lubyricabt96393 жыл бұрын
U are right exactly what i heard from him, my mind just instantly thought 'an attention seeker'.
@charlie293213 жыл бұрын
This is why you have to give your children love and attention.
@eddiemay82113 жыл бұрын
@WhyDoesMyMomDrink it's the like of attention and as I do he's probably bipolar,has PTSD anxiety and,has allot of issues as I do and feels he's nobody that could ever understand where he is coming from and could never understand unless you have dealt with it, little things to adults are defastanting to others and a sufferer from all the above some things are hard to understand and with my condition everyday is a challenge, but I have all the symptoms to be able to be a sociopath,a sycophant and a serial killer,yet I control my and would never hurt anymore unless I was defending myself and would feel bad if I hurt someone just to defend me
@Saltymedpac80083 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Alot of these days people will bitch you out without explaining or hear you out. And whats worst is that they treat you like shit because they give you stuff. I find that being there dmfor someone is more valuable than anything else.
@imagicarolinavlogs3 жыл бұрын
True.
@AddMoreQuarters3 жыл бұрын
@@eddiemay8211 oh please stfu. "He probably had bi polar." Always an excuse but in the end it doesn't matter. He was still a piece of sh-t and a threat. Threats are soemthing you don't sympathize for unless you're a moron.
@tycoco95713 жыл бұрын
@@eddiemay8211 I get that. I don't want this to come off bad but do you take medication for what you have?
@jackyblue67same102 ай бұрын
Will never understand why nobody took him serious & stopped him .
@esmeraldaquiroz29973 жыл бұрын
Sounds like his parents weren’t involved or cared to check in on their son. He has mental health written all over him. Back in the day, mental health was not taken seriously, if he would have gotten resources for help, this could have been prevented.
@WildSkyGalaxy3 жыл бұрын
Ikr.. i also think that this is the case. Same goes for his teachers, any teacher should be alarmed if elementary kids wrote something related to death :(
@AddMoreQuarters3 жыл бұрын
Nope.
@kdn.3 жыл бұрын
@@AddMoreQuarters god just stfu already many actions could have been taken to prevent this. After all this all started from his obsession with a cartoon. He showed many signs and no one noticed a thing which further pushed his desire in being noticed. This doesn’t give him a right to kill or even harm others but everyone has their own side to the story. His poor mental health was from his childhood and the loss of his friends which is completely understandable as a sufferer from losing someone close it is heart breaking.