The Hardest Part of Getting Older

[@FKINoop]

What saddens me as I get older is remembering my parents, my relatives and friends who have now passed. They were all good people and I deeply miss them.

[@alanrandall49]

Same thing for me too.

[@BrianBurch-y6b]

😂

[@BrianBurch-y6b]

🎉

[@ceejay9663]

That just means you're a quality, feeling person. Just thank God you have had people in your life worth missing.....

[@frederickrapp5396]

I am now old enough to know that life is really just a series of losses. From the moment we’re born until we take our last breath, we are constantly losing people all around us. Not just to death, but by abandonment, moving to other places, people dumping us, people outgrowing us, etc... Yes, life is really just a succession of loss after loss. Sad, but true.

[@davefreeman1499]

Don't worry about getting old.Many people don't make it that long.I just enjoy every day and i am happy to still be here although i have many health issues.

[@oldtimer86]

I'm 87 and have traveled the world. I take one day at a time

[@patsylvest]

I'm 81. I live the same way. Though world travel is usually thanks to National Geographic. I love technology.

[@Chris-wj8fz]

I am 72 and done everything so am proud not to have a pathetic bucket list to rush through when we get cancer

[@PaulFerguson-t2x]

Sweet Jesus

[@PaulFerguson-t2x]

@@oldtimer86 sweet Jesus

[@Chris-wj8fz]

@@PaulFerguson-t2x jesus wept

[@Contemplate-s8p]

If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation.

[@Silvervwolfee]

THANK YOU!

[@fredbaskerville4636]

I agree. And I will be 90 in January next year .I look after my wife she is blind can’t walk I have been her full time career now 11 years gave up my license last December still ride my 3 wheel bike . And I still do all my jobs here at home. Except cut the lawn . Been in this house 60 years last mount . Paid it off at 8 $ per week for 16 years And had the brains to stay put here life is good you must keep active.

[@Chris-wj8fz]

Oh come on...everything will not be fine 😂

[@patricianoll6693]

Thank you. I needed that.

[@alanrandall49]

​@@fredbaskerville4636... You are a good man Fred and with a great attitude to life. 😊

[@JD-nb4rp]

66 divorced and disabled with osteoarthritis. I live with pain every day. However, I am happy and keep busy doing everything that I am able to. I don't have any close friends. I cherish my independence and not having to answer to anyone. Life is good. I worry more about the country than I do myself.

[@susiem22]

You can call a sports medicine doctor who does prolotherapy. This is a safe treatment for osteoarthritis. You can read about it on the internet. I had it for a joint dysfunction and it cured the problem. Prolotherapy has a high success rate.

[@susiem22]

@@JD-nb4rp You could look into Prolotherapy for the osteoarthritis.

[@robertcampbell9992]

Hitting 68, blessed to be alive !

[@DK-hd9yc]

68 here as well. First time I was struck by my age. Never thought about it before in a deep way. I love life.

[@davidpearn2484]

Same here love it.

[@beva6162]

You're still a young pup!

[@marciastewart1527]

@@robertcampbell9992 I never felt old at 68. I was still doing everything I always including climbing ladders & painting my house. Also did my own yard work.,just keep moving for as long as you can.

[@JustForFun-mt9og]

When you get into your 90s, THEN I might think of you as being "old". I'm still in my prime as I near 73 (at the end of this month).

[@joesphbegley3088]

The hardest part is losing your friends !

[@hsserry5289]

And loneliness! 😮

[@frederickrapp5396]

I lost my best friend last year to suicide.

[@11fireflower]

💯 truth

[@amandabosca1714]

@@frederickrapp5396 That must be so hard. The only bit of relief I can think of is that he is now at peace. Join him in that peace not so much the sorrow.

[@AndrewOkus]

I just realized yesterday that at 67 I've never had a real friend in my life. Oh a lot of " buddies" but not one real friend. Never even had a call. But you know what, fuck them! Who needs parasite trying to control you for their own sick hangups.

[@EdNolan-x8o]

Hardest part for me is younger friends passing away.

[@JustForFun-mt9og]

Also, many younger people avoid you because they think you will be cumbersome because of your age.

[@KathleenCernetich]

Elderly people living alone if they can afford to take care of a pet should all have a cat or a dog or a bird something to occupy their time and give them company each day just having a pet will give a person purpose

[@sharroncalundan7794]

Am 75 & have 5 pets. Rescues. Three cats & 2 house rabbits. One cat is 18 1/2, got from shelter last year. Charming old man. Got a 15 year old girl in March. Help local shelter. Worked til 72, RN. Lots of friends, social activities. Volunteer, go to the gym few days a week, help at church for parties. Husband passed 7 1/2 year ago. Will miss him til my last breath. We travel a lot both domestically & internationally. Travel occasionally. Not much fun without him. Downsized to small condo building in same area 6 years ago. Have help for some things. Like to clean & garden. Stay active. Get out & do something each day. Keep up with technology.

[@Paparoxx]

For what it's worth I'll offer this from my own experience. Sometimes the pet is in the way of a new relationship. I have met several ladies who are overly involved in small useless dogs. They are an emotional support, but they build a wall between the pet owner and potential new friends. in some cases special dietary food is prepared every day like for a baby the talk the emotion and the vicarious love given to the pet seems to lock in and there's no room for a new partner. I'm 81 and recently lost a cockatiel that was 31 years old, he was a constant companion. I have not replaced him and at this point I only have house plants for pets. I prefer people.

[@BrianG-x4u]

Totally agree I miss my cat. He was good company

[@KathleenCernetich]

@@BrianG-x4u you can never replace the animal that you lost you will always live with memories but do yourself a favor and go get another pet for the comfort of your absence from losing the animal you had you owe it to yourself it will help you get through a day to give another animal a good home and they will give much love in return

[@BrianG-x4u]

@@KathleenCernetich yes one day someone left a kitten at my front door.

[@PaulFerguson-t2x]

The hardest part of getting old is getting old & the prejudice that comes with it from people who will get old too.

[@youareIndenial981]

Donthatemecus you ain't me.

[@goldenyears101]

So true! Aging is inevitable for all of us, yet the stigma persists. We all deserve respect and appreciation at every age!

[@ja_sweet_tart4539]

If we are lucky as not everyone has the privilege of getting older. 🙂

[@Aussie3225]

So true.

[@glennso47]

@@ja_sweet_tart4539Like young people who get thrown under a bus.

[@barraabus]

Best way to grow old... Just watch yourself every day, and laugh at the antics you get up to. Guarantee the older you get , the more you will laugh.

[@Poncho758]

The hardest thing about getting old is losing your friends and your relatives your coworkers your neighbors. It’s like you don’t know anybody anymore where is used to run it to people you new every day. It takes a while to realize yes I am that old man in the picture. But having good health and enjoying the things that you can do is the most important.

[@youareIndenial981]

Ive loved life. From day 1, and i still do.

[@RussellJamesStevens]

So very true..I am 82,have a good life, traveled the world,and aside from mysterious aches and pains. I press on regardless.

[@goldenyears101]

You're an inspiration! Keep pressing on-your positive attitude is everything. 🌟

[@michaelfitzgerald434]

I am 77 and had a lung transplant 9 years ago. Although I am a bit slower I still weight train at the YMCA 2-3 times a week. I have been married to a truly good woman for 44 years and she makes all the difference. Planning to take the Great River Road along the Mississippi River from Natchez, Miss to Galena, Ill to spend time with my 81 year old brother this Fall. Last week my 5th grandchild, Violet was born. All things considered Life is as Good as it can be! God Bless!!

[@micheldisclafani2343]

At 86 I am profoundly in love with life, past, present and future. Love for life makes us feel like being a child again with all our experience, so that we can see the world better and appreciate its ever changing and ever lasting beauty. Michel Di Sclafani. The hardest part of getting old is an inspiration !!!

[@amandabosca1714]

Yes, it is amazing looking at current world events and having our perspective. Not much is new - unfortunately. I mean, not much is new about the bad stuff but certainly there have also been wonderful steps forward; something like one step back for every two forward.

[@claudejackson5590]

I’m an only child. I’m 69 years old. I’ve never had friends as a child it was hard and being sick didn’t help. But as I got older these things don’t bother me. When I retired I felt lost at first. But after a while I got back on track. I’m living with my daughter and her husband and my granddaughter after I had hip replacement surgery. I still get around I don’t feel alone or sad. Being the only child helped a lot I’m home while my daughter and son-in-law go to work. I enjoy my alone time with myself. Everyone is different no one is the same when you’re in the same situation.😊

[@goldenyears101]

You're so right-everyone's journey is unique, and it's inspiring to see how you've adapted and thrived! Thank you for sharing your story!😊

[@rockyrovere2526]

I’m 72 and I’ll never pursue my passions , and l have many. I live in a care center, not an old people’s home. Been here 9 years and will never get out of here. Why? My family’s dead, l have very little money, healths not that bad and that’s the worst part.l would be content to stare at the ocean and celebrate Christmas for another 15 years but it will never happen. I’m a pretty happy person in the right setting but most of the time life seems to get me 😅 down. Well, I.’m a believer and you never know. Bent your ear enough. Peace and long life to you all. Love, Rocky

[@Donna-cc1kt]

Hardest part of aging is when friends and family pass away. Most exciting part is when we are reunited. Faith, Hope, Love saves us. Works for me!

[@stewartmcmanus3991]

I'm 77, reasonably fit, both mentally and physically. Don't drink (gave it up 3 years ago) or smoke (gave that up 50 years ago) but most of all, don't take medication of ANY kind. Married 55 years, wife not too well so I cook, clean, wash etc, no problem. Took up woodturning, cut myself today through carelessness, won't do that again !!! Read every day, (had a Kindle for years now, books a bit hard on my arthritis), don't watch TV at all or read newspapers. I agree that life is passing like an E Type Jag !!! So I'm aware I could fall off the perch tomorrow, the chap next door did, same age as me but being the pragmatic Yorkshireman I am (even though I've lived in west Australia for 50 years), it never occurs to me I might be next. I maintain a positive outlook at all times, today is great and tomorrow will be better, the glass is half full. Cheer up people, I got some brilliant advice years ago, 90% of whatever you're worrying about won't happen and the other 10% is going to happen whether you worry about it or not, so don't worry about it, deal with it.

[@Journeyman-Fixit]

Thanks Friend, love your logic!

[@C2C19]

@@stewartmcmanus3991 there have been many catastrophes in my life, some of which came true

[@stevendaniel8126]

The absolute daily moments of sadness are the endless memories. I chuckle at the thought that I live with a houseful of ghosts .....😊😊

[@lindaabraham8715]

I am 72, and here are some of my rules for coping: 1. Write a short list of your next activities, late in the evening or early in the morning. Throughout the day, before tackling anything new, know what you will be doing directly after that and have everything set up to do it. Then before starting that new thing, set up for the next. For example, before taking a nap I know exactly what I will do when I wake up. 2. Read autobiographies and biographies. This will give you a greater perspective of what it means to be human, to suffer, and to overcome. 3. Don't drink any alcohol, don't over-medicate, don't overeat. 4. Feel gratitude. Every bad thing comes with good things too if you look for them. 5. Give up trying to solve the world's problems. Don't tell anyone else what to do. Focus on your own business only. If someone is annoying, stay quiet and move on. Life is too short for other people's craziness. 6. Focus on the future, and not the past. However long you have left, you can still build a better you.

[@geminiecricket4798]

Every day above ground is a good day.

[@deborahbizzell1989]

The hardest part is friends moving away,concern about your deteriorating health,and some old friends who stop calling,or communicating.

[@nancynoble1164]

Rheumatoid Arthritis and cancer treatments have curtailed my past activities. I chose to accept things and alter my life style as I need to do so. Although now I’m much slower in daily rhythms, I just go with being more mindful of what I accomplish. I’ve prepare things which I will thank myself later. Having a deep faith keeps me grounded. Since walking is difficult, I safely do physiotherapy exercises while in my comfy chair during TV commercials or when waiting for a kettle to boil or stretch my arms while navigating through a doorway. Doesn’t have to be much just consistent. I remind myself to be grateful for what I can manage and coast along each day until something new crops up. And I do pamper myself with tools from my inner toolbox which help me cope. They don’t necessarily fix the problems but help me feel better and keep me going. Easy? No. But managable. Just keep going! 😊

[@frankmccarthy2624]

I have a mountain cabin, I hunt, hike, fish, shoot, chop my own trees and firewood and I spend at least 3 days a week there. I’m 61. I retired at 52. I love it and I’m happily married, but I don’t mind spending time alone too. You’ve got to have hobbies. I definitely hurt a lot from arthritis but they always say that if you stop moving it gets worse, so I just keep at it. I take a nap most days too. That helps.

[@garyrochussen3430]

Naps are wonderful!!

[@LifeStories93]

Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world !

[@davefreeman1499]

Thank you and same to you my friend.

[@marciastewart1527]

@@LifeStories93 Thank you. I wish you & all that read this the very best!

[@marilynb8136]

Ty. Good to know that I'm not alone

[@Lilo-rw4hf]

In my view the weirdest experience is that the mind is still youthful but the body is getting old and weak. I look into the mirror and ask myself how can this be, 5 minutes ago I was 20 and felt I could do anything. And now I can see all this is coming to an end.

[@robertnicholls8222]

As an only child I never had many friends so losing friends doesn't bother me. I find the hardest part of getting older is that people don't see me as I see myself. In my head I'm still in my 20s or 30s. Despite having a dodgy knee and in my 70s, I go to the gym each day and interact with people of varying ages. We just have to carry on really.

[@stevenwistort9903]

Embrace and adjust. It may take a while. Just relax, take naps, learn what contentment is. Exercise more. Above all, i dont see how people live without the Lord as center. Hes what gives me comfort and peace. Reach out to people, engage. After all the grave awaits, but if you know the Lord, the old saying is, theres a better place. Be blessed.

[@bryanwalker6125]

I am 85 years old. The hardest part for me is the loss of friends and wondering if I am next while coping with dementia.

[@SilverPathways]

A beautiful reminder of the complexities of aging! It may not always be easy, but let’s support each other through the ups and downs. Wishing all of you strength and resilience as we embrace the journey ahead!

[@MarkKost-m1n]

What about DEATH ? That's what gets me . Every day it gets closer . I'm not so sure that I need to be "remembered" as much as to be "remembering". If I forget everything when I kick-off, was it all for nothing ?

[@horstreichel6210]

I am 75 ...as people say...I have lived my life with all the ups and down...some parts of my life I regret, but this is part of life...move on and be happy what the day provide. Being around the world there are no desire left...working in my garden and small farm in a tropical country, taking care of my cats, cooking, baking and building around the house keeps me busy... listen to my body and rest whenever is needed; as now I have all the time in the world and can enjoy life as it's coming

[@ZenTeachingsDaily]

This video beautifully captures the emotional complexities of aging. Thank you for sharing such meaningful insights!

[@pcalger1163]

Living past my best by date far more frightening than death

[@kahvac]

What's the worst that can happen ?

[@scooterboi8761]

Old, alone, in a nursing home in your own filth. I'm a retired 69 y.o. RN...I know what I'm talking about.

[@robertwalker5521]

Remember (or know) that the average life expectancy in your area INCLUDES people who did extremely foolish things : (drugs, crazy driving, accepting dares, cigarettes every waking hour, etc.) If you are none of those, you should add several years to your expected lifetime. So...the phrase : "I am too old to do that" may not apply. GET RID OF IT .

[@crystaldance5731]

I’m 66 years of age I don’t consider myself as old but I’m also not getting any younger I’ve raised my children and have grandchildren which can be exhausting I never feel I’m as smart as they are but I love them very much thanks for the video ❤️😊👍🏻

[@goldenyears101]

You're welcome and thanks for sharing!!

[@kahvac]

You sell yourself very short.......you have wisdom that they will never have !

[@crystaldance5731]

@@kahvac thankyou ❤️😊

[@darleneluna9544]

Hardest part is accepting death is closer, than it's ever been.

[@morriswilburn9858]

I am what today is called an elder orphan. I am in good health now, but fear tends to creep into my mind. Fear that I will end up in a nursing home. The dismal nature of that condition is obvious, but there is another aspect that is not obvious to young people, that I fear even more: if I am put into a nursing home, the state will seize all of my assets. I have designated my church as the beneficiary in my legal “will”, but state law regarding Medicare would over-ride my will in this situation. So my plan is when my health declines, hang on at home as long as I possibly can, and hopefully die there. Until then, I plan to live, not just exist. Go out with friends, listen to music, walk outside every day, etc. Whatever happens will happen. I suspect there are many people my age in my situation.

[@Truthdosentexist69]

When I was young death never crossed my mind. In midlife I wasn't comfortable thinking about it. Now that I'm considered "old" it doesn't bother me. The time I have left is in God's hands.

[@isolda980]

Yes.

[@kahvac]

It's going to be much longer than you thought...plan for it !

[@goldenyears101]

Wishing you continued comfort and grace in the moments ahead. 🙏

[@isolda980]

@@goldenyears101 And to you as well.

[@vincentgiambrone8487]

I’m 75 time gone to fast peaks and valleys my life has been I’m happy to open my eyes in the morning just don’t waste time do other things like he said I’m alone not lonely

[@patrickbodine1300]

Watching the world going to Hell. Nobody comes to visit.

[@Advicefortheelderly]

I love this video. So great teaching

[@goldenyears101]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@deem5517]

Well into my 70's I was still travelling with my little dog and loved planning for our trip to Mexico for 2 or 3 weeks each winter. Now that I've reached 80 plus, trip insurance is beyond my means and my little Percy is now 13, and the vet doesn't recommend that he travel. So instead of planning for the future I'm planning for the END. For 12 years Percy and I volunteered for St. John's Ambulance Therapy Dog Program. Unfortunately Percy developed Cushing's Syndrome, which affects his stress levels and he has lost his ability to comfort those that need it. So a large volunteer activity is also lost. I was an avid knitter and volunteered with a knitting group to make thing to sell in our local hospital gift shop. My fingers started cramp up and knitting became unbearable. Another volunteer activity and group lost. I find that throughout my life I've been able to cope with changes that each phase has brought, but hitting 80 has been has/is a real challenge that I'm not handling well.

[@NBZW]

I can only speak for myself in this area, life is what YOU make it, good or bad. Have seen the world thanks to the US Navy, held a good job for 40 years, visited every state but Texas, been blessed with good health, what few true friends I’ve had have all passed and I wouldn’t change a single thing even if I could. I’m not a religious person but I know God has had his hand on my shoulder for near 91 years. Ignore the ones that criticize the elderly and live your own life as best you are able.

[@shahnejad313]

I just turned 67 years old. I am dreading retirement. Not having a routine job and a sennse of daily purpose would be very hard for me. I feel like I am not alon. Finding a new friend is very hard for me. I live with my wife. She is four years older than me. She is gething frail. I wish there was an online community of older people to share our frustration with all the changes happening to us. This is good video. It is place for me to ramble on my frustrations. I feel the pain of dealing with financial uncertainties.

[@goldenyears101]

It's completely normal to feel anxious about retirement and the changes it brings. You're definitely not alone in this, and I'm glad you found this space to express yourself. Have you considered joining online groups or forums for retirees? Like on Reddit? They can be a great way to connect with others going through similar transitions. Wishing you and your wife comfort during this time! 🌻

[@dannylee1987]

It's no fun getting old 😓

[@sparkydogsparky2992]

Bette Davis once said, "Growing old ain't for sissies." Words to live by. (G)

[@timhill444]

65 in Jan. 2 replaced shoulders, ra, osteo , disabled. Every day is hard especially as the day grows. I walk a lil, do stretching. This really helps

[@peperosado9750]

I am old & have limitations, but i enjoy life, family & friends. I also think more on the here-after. Treat others as i like to be treated.

[@diannegoode9010]

Sadly at 68 financial constrains still prevent me from travelling

[@mattdonna9677]

At 67 I would gladly trade the financial constraints for my Leukemia.

[@robertgarrett3002]

Traveling is for the young. Look in any airport.

[@stevebreeden582]

Sorry you feel that way. Do you want to travel because you weren’t able to when you were younger? Or because you’re bored? I’m curious why older people feel the need. I’m 68 too and I hope I never have to travel again.

[@frederickrapp5396]

I hear you. Travel is just so darn expensive.

[@rolandlickert2904]

Hitting 75 and do have a younger wife (53 years old) keeps me alive and have friends see them sometime 4 dogs which keep me fit.

[@pelagiajones7963]

Thank you🙏 I’m not quite 60 yet and all of the things you mention i am on the throne of. Yes it is scary but to know I’m not alone in getting old yes. Like i told my young self and abide to is “Stay strong” things come and go but always believe in yourself. I really cant wait to rack up more year numbers❤

[@goldenyears101]

You got this!

[@Eduardo-m2i]

As I get older, I find myself not associating with old friends as much as when I was younger. We all have families, now and they take up leisure time. I am not complaining just explaining. I am also not as flexible and mobile as I used to be. I used to be more athletic. Golf and racquetball were my favorites. My wife and I travel more when we have time. Our kids also used to take up a lot of our leisure time but not as much anymore.

[@YvonneGittens-u5f]

Having God in your life gives you purpose we should not live in the past, we cannot liv bon the future that's leaves us with the only solution living in the present and loving and doing for others. Is the best medication for the aging also be thankful instead of complaing

[@angelareminiscenza6233]

Horrible getting old! The older I get, the more I wish I wasn’t around! Imagine having someone changing your diaper, I think I had a great life, ready to go any time! Thank you!!!!

[@goldenyears101]

I'm truly sorry you're feeling this way. Aging can be tough, but that doesn't mean you lose your worth or dignity. Surround yourself with love, and consider speaking with someone you trust. There are many ways to rediscover joy and purpose in every stage of life, if you're open to it. You’ve made it this far, and your journey still matters. Wishing you peace and strength!!. 🌸

[@JimErvin-d2i]

I'm finding great positives and some great negatives with aging. For instance I now have more money in the bank than I've ever had, own my own single family detached home and own many valuable collectibles, including a vintage car .And my doctor gave me the big okay for driving. On the negative side, I feet cut off and separated from all my relatives due, I believe. But I don't want to depress everyone with my story.

[@davelorenz3285]

I was going to list the problems with getting older but I forgot what they were.😂

[@tomf429]

The worst thing about growing old is no longer being able to dream about what I want to do when I get old. Now, I’m either already doing it or I waited too long.

[@WeeScottishLass39]

I am 85, play tennis, ride my bike, do water aerobics and yoga, book club, writers’ group and member of University of the Third age. Life is still made for living.

[@DavidFortney-tx3gc]

I'm 77 in fairly good health except for some arthritis and back and leg pain. I have few friends and a hobby. But financially is very thin though I am trying to get it under control. Traveling is out of the question both financially and physically. I try to walk as much as possible and when the weather is nice to meet other people to talk although too many people in my age group like to talk about the bad parts instead of what is good in their lives. Beings all of my immediate family has passed away and never had children it can be lonely at times. I have tried keeping a positive attitude in my life. My parents who never had nothing, never had a car or owned a house did in still me to never ever give up. No matter what life has for me I will never give up!!

[@bronx7886]

Why does something as hard as getting old always come when one is at one’s weakest?

[@robertpolnicky7702]

With me the hardest part of getting g older was people putting it in my face that I'm getting older. And I can do pretty much everything I could do when I was younger. Icanbuild muscle faster now. My aunt was97 when she died. Trumps a lot older too. I'm not worrying about it.

[@BrianG-x4u]

I miss working as a Tech with the phone co. I traveled to a lot of businesses. You meet new people every day and learn a lot.. now im bored.

[@bobwhite2]

There is nothing hard about it, it’s about the same without the physical strength of youth, and add wisdom from experience. It all evens out.

[@BILLWilliamdexter]

If you are going to listen to people about how to live your life it is going to make you struggle with their terms.. Live your own life that you know makes happy and free from the pressure and other things that makes life unpleasant. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...

[@goldenyears101]

Great advice! Living authentically and finding happiness on your own terms is key. Thanks for the reminder that our own perspective is what truly matters!

[@CandleOfWisdom]

I hope everyone can overcome it and enjoy every beautiful moment of old age!

[@THORR-mh9px]

Thanks for posting....I agree!

[@goldenyears101]

Thanks for watching!

[@odingamubutu3187]

I have been alone since in my 20s and love every moment of it. The best time is when I close the door of my home and shut the world behind me every evening. I guess we are not all the same. I am personally fortunate for being able to enjoy life alone

[@Tom-i1u]

as we age we effortlessly build a time machine inside our memories and histories. we can travel from our earliest moments to the present minute - quietly inside our head - it's inspiring to travel 76 years in seconds jumping what 'Data' (ref picard) might refer to as a time-space continuum. so when someone sez "that old man just stares into space!" you realize that space is pleasantly occupied.

[@gwwayner]

Getting old is like the Sword of Damocles hanging over your head, waiting for the next horrible health issue (or death) to hit you. No wonder old men are grumpy; you wake up in the morning feeling like you have been run over by a truck. You go to the bathroom and you can't piss. Sex only means gender. Old friends move away or die. Yeah, you don't need a shrink to find out why you are depressed lol. All you can do is make the best of it and observe this crazy world with each new day.

[@williammarriott6131]

As a fact, it is the loose of you close friends and family. As you parents, aunts and uncles, close friends ( let alone your spouse) leave us you will find all your memories, good and bad, seem like they never happened because you have no one to recharge them with.

[@NisarAhmad-dj9xm]

I am almost 70 and since retirement, I have been visiting countries including South East Asia for the past 5 years. I am slowing down now and for a year or so, I been living comfortably in a subarb in Thailand. Since I am divorced, I date beautiful girls frequently and that joy of meeting young ladies has made me feel young again. I cook at home and I never miss my 7 miles daily walk. My 4 kids are grown up and I am ok if they don't communicate with me that often. I never did drugs and do not drink or smoke. Everyone is different but in my view one must remain pragmatic and accept the reality of life. we are born and will die like everything else. Change in every aspect of life as we age is imminent and one must be open to adapt accordingly. I wake-up at 5 am, eat break fast, take shower and get out on my daily walk. I return home by 2 pm and feel ready to watch KZbin, Netflix, tiktok and specially stand-up comedies. It's a great routine when I think about the alternatives.

[@jasmineshakim5743]

Yes agree

[@mikebarnes2746]

Thank you you have helped me after listening to your wisdom I subscribed

[@goldenyears101]

Welcome aboard!

[@johnlogan8218]

I lived past the expiration date so I don't worry about much. I wish everyone could of had a life as good as me.

[@davidarkinstall6675]

69 lost my 28 year old son who lived with me I'm now alone feel like I'm in the waiting room to be next

[@mikemiller659]

I turned 69 in Aug. I live alone what family I had locally left the state. so it's me and my best friend Elvira..my 11 year old dog. I am sorry about your son. U know you will meet up again. m in oakland

[@glennso47]

The second thing you lose when you get older is your memory. I forget what the first thing was!

[@geminiecricket4798]

@@glennso47 😁

[@MarkKost-m1n]

That's great ! Humor is such a blessing,thanks.

[@nksanbornski6687]

72 next month. So far, so good.

[@cjsamtab7]

Past 55, the most common experience is that you will find your advice to friends and young relatives, are falling on deaf ears. This means you need to find a way to get by without feeling relevant; turn towards your own needs and interests.

[@bellesterbeatty3571]

After 32 years with a malignant narcissis, everyday is a joy.

[@avathapliyal4300]

Youth is so misleading.Youare overcome by the feeing of immortality. However,age tells you otherwise.But all is not lost.. One can make even old age tolerable, if one makes the effort. It's not easy but can be done . I'm going turn 70 and i still have the zeal for living .By accepting the situation, keeping one's interests alive,one can be reasonably happy.One can't ask for more ,can one?. .My interest in gardening, reading,love for music and dance have rescued me from degeneration.Make peace with life and life will be kind to you, i hope.

[@DK-hd9yc]

Like “make peace with life.”

[@StevePappas-fl1ee]

I kind of like slowing down. It gives you move time to appreciate the things you used to barely notice.....

[@paulgore1237]

I'm 61 and in the last couple of years, 6 friends and my mum have passed away.

[@GBU61]

None of this applies to me as a man in his 60s. I retired at 53 and really never have looked back. My life is what I make of it, no one tells me what to do nor do I have any obligations I wish i didn’t. If I am being honest with myself there is nothing I regret or miss. I live in the present but respect the past. I have friends and family in my life, plenty of female companionship and enough money to live how I want. I live overseas and that really helped me change my life and force me to avoid all the pitfalls most people worry about. I suppose the only thing is I am not taken as seriously with younger people than I thought I would. But I counter that with the wisdom that comes with aging. These issues mentioned in the video, i don’t see it 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@southernexposure123]

75 retired, widowed. For 8 or so years my physical decline aggravated me while I aged. One day I decided I'm no longer getting old. I AM old. Now it's all OK. lol

[@geminiecricket4798]

@@southernexposure123 well put…”not getting old. I am old”.

[@ggeorge4144]

I have no interest in understanding or being in touch with the youth of today. I lived most of my dreams beginning at 42 when I began to engage in my lifelong desires. I became a professional pilot and flight instructor. I also became an aerobatic pilot. I was always good at sports. I am a professional guitarist and spent many years backing up female vocalists. I had many other adventures too numerous to mention here. Now at 82 I still play the guitar. No more sports and more flying. The only thing I live for is to take care of my wife who is in the beginning stages of dementia. She needs me and I intend to carry out my wedding vows. I have already accepted the inevitable fate of death. It does not bother me in the least, it seems like a nice long nap.

[@sevenstarsofthedipper1047]

I took care of my wife as she died of cancer. She is the only person I have seen die. I am thankful that I was retired and in pretty good health and able to be there for her. I am 70 but look about 20 years younger. I accept that I probably won’t get to die at home like she did. And, I accept that I won’t have the love of my life to care for me as I die as she did. But, I try to enjoy each day and have a very good relationship with our son and his family. I lived alone for 11 years before I married. I know how to be alone now. I am not despondent.

[@thomtorrez7618]

The hardest part of getting older is you begin to turn invisible.

[@bellanniepickles]

I kinda like that part! 😊😮

[@mikemiller659]

@@bellanniepickles me too

[@KiranGupta-fe1xc]

It's all in the mind,not everyone get a chance to live long ,so enjoy every moment

[@GoldenTimelines]

I don’t know who you are or where you come from, and maybe we have never met and never will, but I still want to send you my best wishes.

[@JoyceHamilton-m5k]

I live alone. Which is something I like. But most of my friends have passed. I don’t drive anymore. Which makes me lonely.

[@sallyclay1974]

I'm retired , on a fixed income, in Danbury, CT. I've lost some family members, in the past 15 yrs. My ex husband, sister to Lewy Body Dementia, My elderly mother m and a male close friend. Its part of life, I know. I have a sister in Austin, TX, a brother in Brinnon, Wash, and a daughter in L.A. It's been like this for yrs but Its starting to wear,.on me. I havea section 8 , voucher, and im on the list for a one bedrm, but there's a shortage, and I'm still looking. This is the same all over. I have a 2008 Mazda 3, that is rusting out, so this yr, I will be getting rid of the car, and going UberThat will be my biggest challenge. Not driving anymore..

[@peterhenry986]

This life is but a preparation for eternity… getting older now but waiting for maranatha! ❤️🙏 John 14:1-6

[@mehdielatrassi7416]

Women lead happier life than men in their old age because most of the time they stay socially active.

[@odingamubutu3187]

Your passion at 20 is different from your passion at 60. Thus, enjoy every stage of your life

[@roseymalino9855]

Misleading title -- partS. Expected a singular specific item. This is just a generalization about living.

[@garyjenkins2500]

Im 74! I live alone so im seeking a small part time job. More for being socially involved!

[@jc4evur661]

Try volunteer work...I'll bet your local hospital has opportunities.

[@JeanetteParmantie-jq5xy]

Also if the person has a handicap.

[@stevenweiss2148]

Caring for your children is nice..if you can find them.

[@geminiecricket4798]

@@stevenweiss2148 pets are more loyal and loving !

[@jimfesta8981]

Financial insecurity can be a difficult part of getting older for many people. Not being able to work anymore because of your age can be a real hardship.

[@RobertSkene-qw3ob]

The hardest part of getting older is the realization that you ARE !! Getting Older. 😂🇨🇦

[@Joe-ey7cu]

The hardest part is losing a spouse and carrying on alone having no children. Believe it or not, playing video games like the GTA or MAFIA franchises help to stay sharp and curb loneliness. You can travel without leaving the house.