The Harsh Reality You're Ignoring | Jordan Peterson Motivation

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@AaA-u5p9j 18 күн бұрын

Dear sir Thamk you n appreciate it for your motivation speech,

@PatrickGraven 5 ай бұрын

Look within and you'll find the answers to a lot of things. Self control makes the person. A person without discipline is someone full of reactions, rather than a person of good actions. No person is free who cannot control themselves.

@stayhappylittlemermaid 5 ай бұрын

You can't fall if you don't climb. But there's no joy in living your whole life on the ground.

@LFC_since1970 5 ай бұрын

Sorry… I don’t agree. I think it is entirely possible to fail without climbing…

@oz8533 5 ай бұрын

Definitely true, however the comment says "fall" not fail

@allamericantreeservice3754 5 ай бұрын

@@oz8533 true observation.

@HelgeJacob 5 ай бұрын

True

@HelgeJacob 5 ай бұрын

@@LFC_since1970you vant gall If you dont climb. Well there ist a figure of speech k Pocking on ya backdoor Germany hast sueropt thinkers and etotets. Und jetzt steht auf und wirkt Wunder!!!

@martyolson9433 5 ай бұрын

I keep rewinding this constantly.

@ConservativeSatanist666 5 ай бұрын

I listen to this while I was picking up trash in the town.. there were times I had to stop because I almost cried. Good stuff!

@martyolson9433 5 ай бұрын

He makes me cry at times....many times....

@allamericantreeservice3754 5 ай бұрын

@@martyolson9433me as well. Truth is painful sometimes

@blackangellucyfire 4 ай бұрын

How so many people hate this man is beyond me.

@danfinoia7930 3 ай бұрын

Amen. I think it's because he tells the honest, often ugly truths about life. A lot of people don't like being reminded of (or aren't being honest about) the problems in their own lives that they are not addressing, and feel attacked by his tough love approach.

@edwardbrito4010 3 күн бұрын

Truth is hated in a world full of lies. Optimism in a cynical world. Work ethic & compassion in a consumeristic & slothful world.

@IseeDejo 5 ай бұрын

I believe i need to play this once in two weeks, every 2 weeks till I'm full of his wisdom and in aliance with his VALID theories.......I love how he kept bringing up God.

@MaryPalen-o6s 5 ай бұрын

I really am trying to move forward. After 34 years of marriage I found myself divorced. 'He' was having an affair and I, no one, that knew him would have ever imagined he would do this. I am trying hard to move on and be happy. I am reminded once a month, I allowed him to give me the 'settlement'$$ over the course of 10 years in bite size chunks. He married the other woman and they are happy.i just feel stuck in the past, knowing that I must let it go.

@JohnDoe-zz7on 4 ай бұрын

So you move on and continue on and maybe find another or take on life solo. Nothing wrong either way but have to keep moving forward.

@gavinBroncos.7.25.23 4 ай бұрын

@@JohnDoe-zz7onbrother, this is not the way to give advice. If it was easy as you’re making it out to be, the person wouldn’t have said they’re struggling to move forward. These situations require micro steps, micro routines that build up in increments over time.

@JohnDoe-zz7on 4 ай бұрын

@@gavinBroncos.7.25.23 Lets assess the situation. Maybe I'm over simply things. Her husband cheated on her after 34 years of marriage, which is a long time in general and to be with someone. Then the ex husband got remarried to the lady he was cheating with and now they live happily ever after.... Micro steps???? Better take a lot of micro steps fast. Life is way too short to be down and out for even a short time especially in this situation. Everybody struggles. Whole dam life is one big struggle after another, then you die. Best you make the most of your time cuz you never when the music is going to stop.

@niceattitude4280 3 ай бұрын

@@MaryPalen-o6s It's hard and no one can really help with advice in this situation. There is a very high probability that we will be left behind by others at some point in our lives. Probably more than once. Every time it happens, we have to put in a lot of work and time, if at all possible, to get over it. It hurts me that life is so painful sometimes. Sooner or later reality will wake us up mercilessly. And then there's that other something we've always loved: that enthusiasm for our individual favorite part of the world that's within our reach. The sooner we find it, the less painful and lasting the experience will be. Hopefully you will find the strength to achieve this goal and let the pain go. I wish you all the best.

@kevingruenofficial 5 ай бұрын

I'm usually not into these kinds of compilation video things. But this is actually a very thoughtful distillation of Jordan Peterson's most golden useful philosophies.

@niceattitude4280 4 ай бұрын

It really doesn't need the music and the echoes behind his voice. They should have just let him speak without this histrionic over-dramatization.

@makis9363 3 ай бұрын

True Dat..

@Mr.Circumstance 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for all of your support for

@covert_warrior 4 күн бұрын

Omg that's what my therapist says. Small steps mean a lot

@sallym3994 4 ай бұрын

I've been there, similar to what he said family can push back on changes one wants to make and changes in ourselves. I'm married with kids and I am trying to have myself and family try to be better than we are in doing more things that matter more to have more skills in life, etc. But, trying to have us read more, work on better things in life, etc they dont want to. They are happy how they are and its been a struggle just trying to make it better. I know they enjoy some things that are time wasters, but it would be good to work on skills to learn and do at least a little everyday and they could still do the things they like, but add these new things too. But, I was told I dont do anything with the family because ive had my headphones on listening to learning a language. So, I have my headphones in to much. I didnt want to disturb them with the language so I put headphones in and mostly when they were watching a movie and playing video games. I had even taken my kids to the park twice that weekend to play basket ball with them as they are learning basketball as i went and bought a basketball so we could practice. Something, i thought the kids could enjoy outdoors and some activity and fun. I took them by myself. I was told by my husband I dont watch shows everynight like we have in the past, cause im doing something else like book work, listening on my phone or writing something. After his talk with me about not being there much during the weekend casue i was listening too much on headphones and went outside to the backyard i made sure i watched a movie with him and he was all happy and content agian as doing what we usually have been for years, even though I didnt necessarily feel like a movie that night. I probably would have read more snd listened to my Spanish learning app. Or worked on my next art class onlkne, but I was doing art the night before so anything apparently I do for myself is a no if its not for thr kids or him. I stress a lot, all the time, and my health is not good. I don't like to watch shows much or movies, epscially last couple years. Before kids it was like all we ever did and didnt have the money to so much, and money is kind of tight on money again, but we're introverts My husband doesnt want to really go to parades, but will now kids are a little older as he thinks he better or he will be in trouble or kids upset at him. He doesnt do it to be with the family, more of a chore to him. The fourth of July he doesnt want to even get closer to see the fireworks, but out so far its not as good to see them so far away. I feel its the experience for the kids and he makes it seem great being sonfar away. We went to a hotel and stayed two nights and he was content watching tv and on his phone playing games when my oldest son asked if we could go donsomething and he flipped saying saying this was relaxing and fun, we dont have to be doing soemthing all the time. I was bored as well and told him but of course we had nothing to do but stay bored. So, he kept soing what he usually does at home at the hotel. Kind of pointless to go to the hotel. I've taken them to the park lately and of course I take care of all the household chores, making meals, and watching kids all week while their out of school. Yet, I was told by my husband and one kid that i wasnt there and was moping about last two days and I wasn't as talkative as usual. I feel that im trying to change and work on a language. I dont feel the need to talk as much, and apparently, I can't change for the better. My kids do support me trying to work online, but my husband doesnt as much and he didnt want to even read something I asked him to read that I wrote. He always takes the things and talks we have as a family and talks just as the spouses discussions and he always feels im targeting him to its his fault and goes to the money card. Im trying to figure out a solution but its me always trying to figure it out anyways because he just listens and doesnt say much. He wont give much help on fixing something. He is more content coming home to play video games on his phone all night and he doesnt have any tasks at home for his personal life and he doesnt have any plans of doing anything else as he feels content. He says whatever you plan on or what I'm doing right now is all im planning when I ask him about his plans for the day. Our kids want him to play more, but he will when it comes to playing video games witth them and one time he took us up on coming to the park becuase I asked him if he would join us and he did because he said to me I better or youll be upset with me. I told him its up to you and he went but the mood was a negative vibe and made it ruined when my kids and I trying to enjoy being at the park he is all moody and upset cause he was at the park with his family. Hebdoes work a good job, but he seems to be stuck doing what he always has for the last 30 years. So, like Dr. Peterson said thetr can be lots of push back from families. I deal with it all the time and its a struggle and very tiring. I just plan on trying to make it work and try to add what i want to do here and there daily when i can early in the mroning before everyones day starts and after he goes to work and before kids get up. Like they say choose wisely. So true.

@Jesper-bl2ns 4 ай бұрын

I know exactly what you mean. Your husbond probably just wanted a family and never thought about anything else. He probably never think about life and how to live. At some point you need to make a decision when the kids are grown up or you will suffocate by boredom. It might cause chaos but life is too short.

@sallym3994 4 ай бұрын

@@Jesper-bl2ns I agree with you. Thank you for your advice and suggestions. You're right I will suffocate from boredom if I stay after kids grow up and leave to live their life. Thank you, it's good to feel understood and supported. I'm not supported by my family either, because they don't believe I can earn money, don't understand my changes, etc. I'm tired of being put down and told I can't do that and life is fine how it is, even when I know their wrong its difficult because I need to believe in myself and they make me feel doubt in myself. I want to change for the better and having experiences instead of watching movies, videogames, etc. I want to live and I had given up hope here and there because it's such a struggle, even more when they see me trying to change. I appreciate your kind words and support. It means a lot to me. Thanks.

@namastetyson 10 күн бұрын

@@sallym3994 Bless you ❤️🙏🏽 Continue in the road to change, it’s for you. You are the one that wants to do it so make sure you do it for you! You deserve it. Well done for not giving up despite the struggles you are facing with your husband/family….. it’s really hard though and I really do understand. Keep on keeping on because you have the rest of your life ahead of you when the children have ‘flown the nest’. Make a stand and prepare for the day you can set yourself free. With love, understanding and best wishes ❤️🙏🏽

@bumpercoach 5 ай бұрын

20:38 to 27:07 to 29:40

@xHappyxcamperx 5 ай бұрын

...one man builds his house up, poisoning the poor, well paid, & puffed up, while another builds his house on a solid foundation, one that never shifts like sand. Keep your sickly, that you breed, & your pocket book, we know how all this will end. "O' brother, where the f*** are you? Have the crosshairs not been left by your mark, having scalped the lofty heads of those without wings to fly now, being that your support plucks them off, for a hefty price?"

@GiovanniPinzari-jf7hr 5 ай бұрын

Your not wrong ... its good advice... Limited in the culture you live in . In southern italy its not applicable ...we are doomed ...unless you close in your minimal self ...and find peace ...or become a brigant ....and fight till the last draw...its no joke man .

@jaffarmbuga9012 5 ай бұрын

You're doomed and how is that?

@bumpercoach 5 ай бұрын

27:00

@QuranAjd 5 ай бұрын

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@iam2038 5 ай бұрын

Having a hard time hearing the message with the constant music in the background.

@Alpyski 5 ай бұрын

for context this is also the man that unironically argues with Elmo on twitter

@ThatGuyCorry 2 ай бұрын

For context, Sesame Street teaches kids improperly about how life actually works…Telling your children that life is great and you can be whatever you want to be is false! Society puts things in place so that certain people cannot be whatever they want! He is not arguing with a puppet, he is arguing with what the puppeteer(society leaders)is putting into the heads of children! Just because one wants to be something does not mean that they can, hence the fact that we have yet to have a female president…Telling your daughter that you can be the president of the United States gives false hope and false hope kills dreams! He argues truth and facts, he argues that one’s opinion is not another’s facts!

@johnmartin3735 5 ай бұрын

HE IS HILARIOUS WELLLLLL YOU GOTTA LIVE RIGHT ....... But THAT MIGHT BE SO PAINFUL YOU MIGHT FAIL AND IF YOU FAIL YOUR IN DARKNESS BUT ...... IN THE DARKNESS YOU FIND LIGHT RIGHT ..... SO THIS IS A GOOD THING BUT IF ITS GOOD WERES EVIL RIGHT .... LOOK WITHIN BUT WITHIN IS EVIL SO THE DARKNESS WILL COME TO THE LIGHT .... BUT BECAREFUL TOO MUCH LIGHT BURNS ...... ( u can't win vs him)

@Brofessor17 4 ай бұрын

I’m sorry you’re so angry

@marktourtellotte1336 5 ай бұрын

Deeply saddened by Jordan schilling for Netanyahu the murderer.

@abduljalilmahama5682 5 ай бұрын

My man laughed so badly when prof described porn addicts

@JoeBlackheart 5 ай бұрын

Go save Palestine cause your so well informed or should I say programed

@JonathanMancilla-p3y 5 ай бұрын

Why don’t you go save Palestine since you are so informed.

@thomaszinecker1785 5 ай бұрын

He only said that as a Canadian to get more American subs, BUT in his little bubble up north failed to know just how many Americans are awake to the narratives and BS wars, AMERICAN gov use Israel as a money laundering scheme as well as an foreign outpost of the Middle East.