I'm 34 years old. I'm just getting my life together. It's embarrassing. I wish I had this knowledge 10 years ago. Wish me luck as I redeem myself
@SevonFang2 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@nikosensei12582 жыл бұрын
Im 30 and just found this
@JunFan7772 жыл бұрын
I did it at EXACTLY that age. Long story short I went from only having two black plastic trash bags full of dirty clothes to my name, to today remarried to a beautiful wife, have a daughter (my first) I absolutely ADORE, a degree in electrical engineering working for one of the big two resort/theme parks in Orlando, credit good enough to buy a car for the first time on it, and the people around me trusting me and never questioning my word. It was rough. First, I made an agreement with myself that ANYTHING that scared my had to be done as SOON as I possibly could. NO putting off anything, but in particular things that scared me or made me nervous. Second, I resolved myself to NO social life and doing WHATEVER I had to do to achieve my goal. This included working 60 hour weeks as a chef while going to school full time. I stayed up countless nights, one time I stayed up four days straight. I graduated with a 3.9 GPA. Third, I wrote my ultimate goal down, and then broke that down into two smaller steps and continued to break it down till I had literally HUNDREDS of steps. But what that meant was that every day, no matter how little time I had, I could do at least ONE thing on my GIANT list. I made a point that each day I would check off at LEAST ONE step. This wound up being a daily reminder that I WAS making progress every day toward my goal, which in turn FURTHER motivated me as well as keeping me from becoming complacent. That list went EVERYWHERE with me and ANY spare time I had (between sending out apps and starting the main at work, waiting in line ANYWHERE, going to the bathroom) I studied that list and even if I couldn't actually do anything on it at that moment I would plan what the next couple steps I was gonna do would be. At all times I was either actively working toward my goal, or I was planning the next course of action to take. And lastly I told myself everything that happens to you from here on out is on you, good or bad. Period. No bitching. No complaining. No acknowledging any discomfort or pain. If I want it I need to do it. If I don't get it thats MY fault. Sorry for the long response but I thought maybe my story would help you. I am 44 now. I too wish I had done this earlier in my life. But, you could be 72 and NEVER done it. Instead of worrying about the time you "wasted" (you may have NEEDED that time to prepare you for taking control) worry about the time you STILL HAVE and make the most of it. Best of luck.
@cameronbrown66352 жыл бұрын
God speed.
@oJaeRoc2 жыл бұрын
Fucking saammmeee except I've been listening, not acting. I gotta get moving. 34 as well.
@jameswells26593 жыл бұрын
Message to the person who just listened for the past hour - Don't be ashamed if orienting your goals take time, If you feel a temporary boost of motivation from this video that fades away by tomorrow. You're one step closer to being the person you absolutely have the potential to be.
@glendaolsen91583 жыл бұрын
Well said
@transformationwithdi82963 жыл бұрын
Love that comment
@thehuskygirl33463 жыл бұрын
. That thatthat p) First ; we need to accept the truth That truth is that man was created by a Supreme Being.. And accept that you need instructiok
@MultiKatieBee3 жыл бұрын
A good message. Thank you.
@stephenuhe92293 жыл бұрын
Such a heartfelt and beautiful and awesome comment thank you.
@fearbigdaddygaming80772 жыл бұрын
Multi time brain cancer patient here. I’ve listened to this more times than I can count. I still work every day, take care of my son and family… there’s no excuse as to why you can’t push through any obstacle in your way, not because of what I’ve achieved but, so many others. Keep pushing through those obstacles. You’ll get there eventually. Stay positive, stay happy, stay active. Be you. Much love to everyone out there doing the damn thing and not giving up!
@markjirak47942 жыл бұрын
Fight on and keep being a positive role model for your family and youth!!!
@nOOn3nOOn32 жыл бұрын
Odd... listening to this dripped causes brain cancer.
@Madartist24242 жыл бұрын
Thanks, man! Seventeen years ago I was given the choice to either go on children's hospice care or risk it with a surgery that would more than likely kill me. I chose the latter of course and had a tumor the size of tangerine removed from the middle of my brain. It was one of the hardest things I had ever had to do, but I worked through it and it made me a stronger person.
@daaniphyrum2 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@miraclerueiquotes2 жыл бұрын
awesomevery inspiring. Thanks a lot
@colbyd69 Жыл бұрын
28 yr old ex heroine and Xanax homeless drug addict. I’m 4 years clean, one semester away from my masters, just bought a house, have meaningful relationships I lost, and physically a unit. It gets better boys I promise. I’ve read both 12 rules and listened to every Jordan Peterson podcast at least 3 times. Thanks for showing me the light when all I could see is darkness
@gammingfreak5271 Жыл бұрын
Well done man.
@Asksum1 Жыл бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 (Thats a slow hand clap) Because the people who are giving you a resounding round of rawkus applause are overwhelmingly in your future but you hear that in your struggle successfully carrying your cross you have chosen to lift, who looks for the light when stood in your presence @colbyd69 for they blind themselves with covered eyes due to brilliance that gleams showing those who want to see, you shine there paths be it narrow and less trodden. Mate, I see you from downunder , shine on you crazy diamond!!!!
@josephryan5777 Жыл бұрын
You beast
@DavidKohout Жыл бұрын
Proud of you!
@bartoszkrzywinski410011 ай бұрын
Wish you the best, you had true hell in your life and right now you deserve the best!!!
@DynamicMindset-DM3 жыл бұрын
Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can. Never lose your hope. 💯
@wandalbowen81013 жыл бұрын
Hope in the living God
@davelledivine3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for empowering us, just starting to feel like we're partly awakening
@markdemell80563 жыл бұрын
HalleluYAH my friend ,HalleluYAH!
@markdemell80563 жыл бұрын
@@wandalbowen8101 Please try to understand ,YAHUAH {YHWH} is not A GOD ,he is our Elohim,our Father , our Creator . Please dig deeper and look up the etymology of the word GOD, It's eye opening . satan is called the GOD of this world ,YAHUAH never changes ,hence his name is always his name ,no need to wipe it out the the scriptures or give him the title Lord ,did you know that the word lord means BAAL? Think about it ! Be well and understand that I am only trying to help. HalleluYAH ,amein. P.S. I have been at it for a long time and I am a former addict ,I am no better than any one but I have a voice and I feel compelled to share what I know is true .Amein.
@wandalbowen81013 жыл бұрын
Hope in the living Father. Son. and Holy Ghost
@julianbasse3 жыл бұрын
Blessings to all the people who came to this video ! You didn't came here randomly, you are incredible and the universe is gifting you with this knowledge ! Peace ✌️
@warriorprincess21213 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson, has met His creator Jesus Christ. Colossians 1:16-20 16 For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. 17 He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 18 And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy. 19 For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, 20 and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross. God bless you all. 🙏
@tinade57123 жыл бұрын
thank you
@daveshongkongchinachannel3 жыл бұрын
Definitely not by accident - it was the algorithm! Joking aside, you are so right - every second we are living a miracle but because that miracle is all around us all the time, we just don't realise it. Wishing you a wonderful life!
@vilvianamentor6463 жыл бұрын
why are people amazing , just because you say,?????? no--- you are dust, and dust you will come.take this knowledgment! stop lying tu yourself. life is jsut for superior beings, those who can handle the TRUTH
@snap01793 жыл бұрын
Best to you friend, be well
@anythingspossiblemusic3 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas everyone. Have a great 2022
@victoritalauren34373 жыл бұрын
Merry christmas 😊🥰🙏
@thelordismyshepherd99803 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas
@ShawnJonesHellion3 жыл бұрын
pagans worshipping flying invisible glow. in the dark reindeer in the name of christ an buttered toast. you humans arent even real arr you? its like you cant have you 9wn thoughts an need the ones who created atheisim/science/Christianity /satanisim to pull your strings
@johnkelly9373 жыл бұрын
Likewise
@jjp52593 жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas!!
@ashleyjklein99972 жыл бұрын
28 years old and the only one working in a house of 4. Today my family and I are facing eviction and we don't have anywhere to go, but your words, Mr Peterson, is what keeps me from falling apart as I type this. I want to blame someone for the hardship that we have been enduring, I want to blame someone for the bitterness and suffering that life seems to constantly produce, but alas, well fortunately your words have changed my mindset completely. I will take responsibility for it all. I will go back and look at which path/decision may have lead me to this point. It is difficult to see any form of silver lining when all life seems to be is a gloomy cloud of despair and disappointment, but thank you, Mr Peterson. Your words will get me through this, they will guide me and help me get back on my feet because there is no way in hell that I will stay down. A year from now things will be better. A few years from now I will accomplish my goal of being a data scientist and have a great job that I will do my best to be the best. I will ensure that this never happens again. Not ever. Wish me luck, people.
@fariba5865 Жыл бұрын
Good luck, Wish you over come the obstacles on your way and become good data scientist
@maryelizabethwhite8420 Жыл бұрын
I wish you the best. Facing the suffering can make you stronger. You're in my prayers
@ConnieHerzogMN Жыл бұрын
Your post was 9 months ago. How are you doing?
@virginiapalau1153 Жыл бұрын
Good luck!😊
@xxBFFsxForeverxx Жыл бұрын
I’d love to hear an update on this if you’re able!
@HappyHalBallard2 жыл бұрын
You know, I've been listening to this guy for pushing upon three years now, and I realized that at least a couple of times in every lecture, he seems on the verge of cracking up and blowing apart. And I think I finally understand it, and I also think it was in some measure this fact that caused his recent health crisis: He pours so much of himself into this work that he quite literally empties the tank every time he speaks. This man is a national treasure. I love him as a father, and I was blessed with the best of fathers.
@williamakers75272 жыл бұрын
No, it's because he's a highly educated neurotic lunatic with control issues.
@kelz_22472 жыл бұрын
The thing about him that no one understands, is that the weight that’s upon his shoulders, is so heavy, but it’s carried voluntarily, something that at the very least, is noble.
@williamakers75272 жыл бұрын
@@kelz_2247 So now he's Jesus with a cross?
@kelz_22472 жыл бұрын
@@williamakers7527 metaphorically sure
@kennystringer2 жыл бұрын
@@williamakers7527 Bit of a stretch to leap to that interpretation, I didn’t hear anybody say that or anything like that. What he is is a man who will be recognized by history as one of the most brilliant visionaries of his time. His gift is not just his encyclopedic knowledge of history, science, philosophy, sociology, psychology, religion, mythology, etc., etc., it is his unique ability to take abstract ideas from these diverse disciplines and tie them together with wit and penetrating insight into an illustrative story that holds people's attention and interest for literally hours at a time. What he offers is profound truth, clearly delivered with great passion that captivates and inspires people. The concepts and principles he points to are what moves us, not the man himself. He strikes me as having great humility, not seeking to garner praise or adulation. When people share the story of how his work has positively impacted their lives it literally brings him to tears. That is a humble man.
@fraserarthur1206 Жыл бұрын
i’m 27, lost everything in my life. my family, friends, shop, relationships, today is the first day of turning me life around. wish me luck
@maggiejones93672 ай бұрын
How are you doing?? ❤
@RyanLucey922 ай бұрын
@@maggiejones9367was just going to ask
@jahvaebushАй бұрын
Good luck
@petrakovacevic5768Ай бұрын
How are you doing? Looking forward to hear from you❤
@vuzeda90Ай бұрын
Good luck man!
@Joel_228_ Жыл бұрын
I don't know who you are or what you're looking for... Thank God you are still here... This life is hard... I'm glad you're still here... This life would be boring as hell without you...
@aaronmoore66736 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. It doesn't matter who from. I came here from Jordan petersons words to someone suffering with suicidal thoughts. I live with the heaviest weight on my chest and it's held me back for so long. I was at my wits end tonight. I thank you for this x 😊
@hankweultjes2739 Жыл бұрын
I'm 70 and have learned a lot about myself recently and still learning. I have chosen a new path in life to try and find my happiness. I've been listening to Mr. Peterson over the last few years which has helped me to wake up for a need to change my life. Your a brilliant man and I don't how you haven't gone insane with the knowledge that you carry. I've watched you also fight your own demons. The only reason that the politicians are after you is that you are a very dangerous man in their eyes because you spread the gospel of truth and reality. People are waking up and listening which makes them afraid. Thank you for being here for us.
@CarlosFuentes-yv6nw Жыл бұрын
🎉
@soulhappyshapewear Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I am 52, and this gives me hope!
@ljalta11 ай бұрын
Indeed, the man needs
@ljalta11 ай бұрын
Indeed the man needs to go underground. He's much like the threat JFK presented to the government...MLK, Malcom X, Jesse Jackson. Incredibly enlightening but so simple. Just simple logic.
@bonnieklapel18252 жыл бұрын
Hey I wish I’d heard of Jordan Peterson at 28, 30, 34, 40, 50 but I’ve been listening for just over a year to a year and a half and I’m turning 61 in 2 1/2 weeks. So don’t worry about being embarrassed. I’m not embarrassed any more and refuse to be embarrassed or ashamed or anything. I’m grateful that I have finally no matter my age because what would really have been a shame is to never have heard of him, or even worse,to never have listen his words of wisdom. And I do know how truly wise his words are. I’ve made many many mistakes, I’ve made many bad choices, I’ve been through traumatic experiences I’d never wish on anyone, ever. However I am still alive and I still have the opportunity every day I wake up and draw a breath and open my eyes. And then do my best and be my best self that I can that day. Some days I can do more then others but it’s about progress, not perfection and life is a journey and to live each day doing better than I have in the past to the best of my ability. For myself. For my children, who are 37 and 40, my young grandchildren, for my parents, my siblings, my friends and extended family and everyone my life might brush against. And I’m a lot stronger and more resilient and still able to keep working on and improving myself because all of us have something we can improve on. We can all be better people and we can all encourage and give moral support to each other. Don’t compare yourself to others because no one else has lived your life or been through whatever you have been through, good and not so good and sometimes painful and maybe even very hard experiences and situations. You can only compare yourself now to yourself who you were and then move forward and grow and realize life isn’t a straight and narrow path but rather a road that will be wide, smooth and easy as well as narrow, rough and winding and up and down and that road will go to the right or the left and sometimes backwards and sometimes in circles and you never know what you will learn or where it will take you and when it will end, just put one foot in front of the other and move and live your life. That’s what I’ve learned and it’s not over until I take my last breath. Life is the dash on our headstones between the day were born and they day we die. My dash isn’t over yet and I’m not going to give up now. I still have much more to do. And so do all of you! So go for it and give your life your best shot and live each day to the best of your ability and look back on each day and see what you have to feel and be grateful for, no matter how small or great it might seem. I believe in all of us. I refuse to give up hope on myself or the rest of the human kind. I’m grateful to be right here listening right now. And for Jordan Peterson doing this podcast and for all of you. Thank you all for being here too, alive and breathing and taking each and every step on your path, and stay true to yourself on your journey. And see ya down the road, maybe someday. You never know what surprises you’ll find or who you will meet or what experiences you’ll have. 🙏😎🌻☮️💟🤗
@djlancer882 жыл бұрын
I read this and it helped. I just put my little family and myself through hell and I'm picking up the rubble. Thank you Bonnie
@waynezahra92132 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻❤️
@JohnJones-pg7pv2 жыл бұрын
Wow! That was intense. I will always think of you. Good luck to you
@trentknight86612 жыл бұрын
Bonnie - I believe what you said is an incredible summation. I also wish and yet I am quite thankful for JP and what he confers with his message(s). Just like another stated in another reply is that I will also think of you as you continue to be guiding your life.
@bonnieklapel18252 жыл бұрын
@@djlancer88 I’m so glad that you found something in what I said to help you. We all have made mistakes, and there’s nothing to be ashamed of in that. The shame would only be if we denied the truth and then continued to doing those things that hurt ourselves and our loved ones. That we can change our lives and do something different and hopefully positive is our path to self redemption and self love and the best gift that we can give to those we love. My best wishes to you and to your family and I hope that they can forgive you for any hurt you may have inadvertently caused them and that they can be open and learn and grow from watching you learn and grow as well. I stayed stuck in blame and resentment towards others in the past who had hurt me and all it did was cause me more pain and suffering and others around me as well instead of doing something positive. I’ve learned, the hard way, that holding onto resentment or past hurts or anything that kept me stuck in that negative mindset and heart set, that is self destructive and it made me a miserable unhappy person and that affected everyone around me. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting either. It just means if I forgive someone then I can move on and move forward and that’s a positive movement and I can use what I’ve learned from it to make better choices and therefore have a better life and make life better for everyone around me. It’s a process though and sometimes I will take a step or two backwards and go drudge those old thoughts and feelings back up because I’m feeling bad about myself and then have realize I’m choosing to continue victimizing myself, using those things from the past ask an excuse to feel sorry for myself. Hopefully you won’t do that as long as I have done that too. Instead continuing to be a victim of whatever my past experiences were, I have to be honest with myself and then choose to not be in that victim role. That means hard work sometimes and being vulnerable and being willing to open myself up to others and letting them see the real me. The real gift comes though in time when you are able to realize how strong you are and you can stand up for yourself and not let others manipulate, use or harm you and you also don’t have to be hard-hearted and cold with 12 foot walls that keep others out but also keep you locked up and lonely and alone. The best thing I can tell you is Don’t Ever Give Up On You, No Matter What Happens To You, No Matter What Anyone Else Says Or Does! You may not feel very strong at times, in fact you may feel weak and overwhelmed, overwhelmed by fear or grief or pain or shame or guilt. However, those too shall pass, in time, and there will be times of joy, peace, love and happiness that will be all the more precious in comparison and all the more valuable and meaningful for having been through the opposite. And you will find that some of what you thought was the most horrendously painful experiences have given you an internal strength and resiliency and the ability to stand up stronger and straighter and know that you have the courage and strength of a lion in the face of whatever life throws at you and it can’t take away who you are in your heart ❤️ no matter what. And if you know in your heart and soul that you are a good person, and that you don’t purposely try to hurt anyone else, that you do your best to be your best and higher self and to help other be their best and higher self, then no one can take that away from inside of you. However it does take time to reach that, and it takes the willingness to look deeply and honestly into your own self with the real and true motive of being a better person for yourself and for those you love and who love you and even those who don’t know or love you, and the motive to help make this world a better place for every living person, every living creature and every thing. And know that it is going to take all of us doing that to make it that kind of world. And it might be the hardest and most thankless thing to do at times. But also know that you are not alone in striving for that. More and more people are turning and striving for that and yet it will be very hard at times and feel very lonely and alone. What keeps me going is that I know I’m not the only one that feels this way and I’m not perfect or am I going to always to do it perfectly but I’m willing to keep on doing my best each day because I don’t want my children and grandchildren and on and on or anyone else’s either to have to live in a world that’s worse than what it is or has been. I want it to be a better world for everyone in the future. I don’t mean better in the technological sense either. I mean better in the ecological sense, the emotional sense, the physical sense and spiritual sense. We are all connected and inter-connected whether we choose to believe that or not. We all have an affect on others and are affected by others too. We are all responsible for what our world is like right this moment no matter what has been in the past. We don’t live in the past. We don’t live in the future. We live in this moment right now and how we show up in this moment right now is going to affect what shows up in the future. I want it to be a better future for myself and for everyone else so I’m responsible for what I do and say right now and I want it to be filled with love and life affirming intention and affection for all.
@claudioduro73512 жыл бұрын
Imagine that you were taking care of yourself like you were someone you actually care for" What a powerfull thought..
@rippleproject13262 жыл бұрын
I suffer from severe depression disorder, this hit me in a way like none other, because i hate my life, i dont care much for it, but i do care a lot for the lives of both my children and my wife and will go to hell and back for them. I guess i needed a father figure to tell me to care for myself the way i care for them.
@philodonoghue30622 жыл бұрын
It’s called self compassion which is not the same as self pity. It’s recognising hurt and that you’re a human being including flaws and foibles. Once you’ve established that honesty about and with yourself, you’ve accepted the attitude and task of responsibilities and purpose.
@nOOn3nOOn32 жыл бұрын
@@philodonoghue3062 no that is self pity. It's why sad Boi lord of the whiners and clowns is advocating this defeatist attitude to spoiled children.
@rjay70192 жыл бұрын
❤️
@motorheadbanger902 жыл бұрын
How???
@hudsond15 Жыл бұрын
1 year and 4 months clean from fentynal addiction that started after my father died. Currently 3 weeks into Jordans lectures and about 60 pages into his book. I am finally taking care of myself, and I’m pursuing my career in technology that I’ve always dreamed of.
@Rak88113 Жыл бұрын
Keep going Hudson Well done 👏🏻🤙🏻
@jenniferbeaupre3060 Жыл бұрын
God bless you! Keep it up!
@bobbychadwick8585 Жыл бұрын
This person is Dead now..
@Nimu13 Жыл бұрын
@@bobbychadwick8585how? that's awful
@DennisHabecker-bf8zw Жыл бұрын
Congratulations man. JP is amazing I'm in recovery myself right now
@tj7094 Жыл бұрын
Jordan's words always cut to the center of my being. It hasn't been quite 24 hours since my mother passed but I'm here at 3am unable to sleep. Listening to him speak brings me to tears. I truly hope this man knows how much he's needed. Bless you Jordan, I really don't even have the words to say how meaningful you are to me.
@chasityawesome Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. She is all around you, and if you ask for signs she will show you. -A book called "The Light Between Us" might be life changing for you right now, if you find it on Audible it's so very worth it.
@tj7094 Жыл бұрын
@@chasityawesome by Laura Lynne Jackson? I’ve found two books with that title.
@khaledelhamalawy1792 Жыл бұрын
May her soul rest in peace. Keep it up. Make her proud of you by being proud of your self.
@christopheralbano7862 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing well, I'm sure she wouldn't want you to torment yourself and I hope you can mourn her with the fond memories and not just fixate on her passing and the painful memories. I wish you and yours all the best. I am very grateful I still have my parents and I tell them I love them frequently but with Dr. Peterson's guiding wisdom I hope to fortify myself to the point I can be the one relied upon by my family when the day comes.
@BroskiAndGod Жыл бұрын
God Bless you Bro! Keep fighting! RIP Mom.
@blankakonarkova5504 Жыл бұрын
Anyone else feels terribly, emotional, hopeful and uplifted at the same time whilst listening to Jordan's words?
@biasilva6005 Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@samuelosmyth6340 Жыл бұрын
Very much so.... He makes me own my mistakes and think for the future 🍀
@frezzi5541 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who doesn't want to have debilitating regret, because they know how painful even minor regrets are, I would think. He's a timeless philosopher, we're fortunate enough to share our time with here. Also I think he studied psychology. I get the feeling he wouldn't have any less to offer us if he did something else.
@mr.anderson7631 Жыл бұрын
Goals are the only way foward for me, I love JP
@Leosartstudio20143 жыл бұрын
“The purpose of thinking is to let your thoughts die instead of you” that was powerful
@dennisking30263 жыл бұрын
Yeah that nailed it.
@karlinnaidoo36302 жыл бұрын
@@dennisking3026 you know where it comes from?
@reudigerrudiger64522 жыл бұрын
@@karlinnaidoo3630 not from him, it was an other great mind, Alfred North Whitehead
@josephbochicco81092 жыл бұрын
Another way of saying, "If all your thinking has led you to a place you don't like,(pause) have another thought. For you are only a thought away of a place you'd rather be." Yet another way of saying, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."
@Burning_Babylon2 жыл бұрын
It's actually sophistry despite him being on point. There's things that just seem smart untill you marinate on what he actually said
@vanessamay70502 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely brilliant. “ you don’t get what you want because you don’t try.” The reason people don’t get what they want is because they don’t know what it is.
@caniesrockers84402 жыл бұрын
Everything fell apart, and kept on falling. Dr Peterson kept me alive ,listening to Him kept me going..his lectures are like Meditations for me. Although i have been Overreacting,reacting stupidly and making things worse, i know my pride and ego is in the way, but it was all i had to hang on to. And i guess there is room for improvement, much improvement, i keep on being sure, i,ve tried my best, so there is no reason to feel guilty. I stumbled and went face to face with myself. Its the 3ed time in my live, i had to get myself out of the deep to something better, i do know myself a bit, and i am happy with me, i just need love. That is what i needed and still do. I miss someone i can tell my victories to, and my dives into the unnown dark side of me. Cause i am still convinced that doing good, helping other people should be the basis of all actions, i dont have anything to prove, But i must fight to stay me. This man is so clear in his teachings, much respect. He is very important to the world. Especially the world we live in today. Peace and love to this man.
@dariusshiel46422 жыл бұрын
That is so true
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you enjoy Jordan Peterson content. In case you want to check Jordan Peterson talking about Carl Jung and the Hero archetype here's the link, thank you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, you might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@LMorganReynolds Жыл бұрын
71 year's young, and my first meaningful therapy. Thanks Dr Peterson ❤
@teamuncle Жыл бұрын
69 yrs and at 31 mins in. Such truth. Mum was a Reynolds too. Thanks Dr Peterson
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
*"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you have power over instead of craving control over what you don't." - Steve Maraboli*
@simplyengineering23503 жыл бұрын
Real change happens when you turn your will over to the ways of right and good. To God.
@thelittlelenora3 жыл бұрын
God you say? Yes, how quaint.
@nitahudson3433 жыл бұрын
Amazing quote. Perfect timing for me. A great reminder to all of us who feel like things are out of control.
@markstamm72053 жыл бұрын
@@thelittlelenora your quaint life is totally without real meaning and as your well aware it will end in certain death and destruction without God lady. Are you not aware that you are a prisoner on death row? Only through God may you escape. You should try finding him, you wont regret it. Seek and you shall find
@janetwhite77863 жыл бұрын
@@thelittlelenora Sad, your jadedness.
@GT380man3 жыл бұрын
This lecture sounds casual & meandering but it’s the product of thousands of hours of thought & self talk. It’s as meaningful to a 61 year old as to a 25 year old, Pick up the greatest burden you can possibly carry & move towards a better day & place. There’s no higher purpose.
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see You are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, You might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@dennisortiz-morales92143 жыл бұрын
Everything Jordan says is what my mother taught me growing up. So much so that it's helped me understand pure compassion to which many people today confuse with selfishness.
@guidofester54513 жыл бұрын
Can you elaborate on that a little more. I just spent 1/2 an hour reading about the differences in compassion and empathy and I still don’t fully understand the differences, I get them confused. I have discovered that there are people that do not deserve my compassion and empathy. It took me a long time to figure that one out. I try to be careful of the people I surround myself with. My mother worked in a seniors long term care facility for all of her career. When I tell people that my mother is a retired nurse I don’t always try to explain the difference in watching new born babies entering the world or older people’s last days as they leave this world. My mom has strong compassion and empathy traits but, working in that field for decades takes a toll on a person. I don’t understand the selfish comment. I don’t see the connection.
@guidofester54513 жыл бұрын
I recently discovered that I am a nice guy and that nice guys always finish last. Nice guys do nice things for others and think that they expect nothing in return BUT, they do expect a certain response. Over time when they don’t get this positive response, instead they get no response and/or a negative response they can become toxic. I was born a nice guy and my father raised me to be a people pleaser. I am slowly learning to be a good guy and lose the nice guy tendencies. It is difficult to learn new skills when you are doing it alone.
@vilvianamentor6463 жыл бұрын
you lost part of your life in these bullshit ytb videos, i make you gain them back: Proverbs 4:23-27 Be very careful about what you think. Your thoughts run your life. Don't use your mouth to tell lies. Don't ever say things that are not true.
@artifundio13 жыл бұрын
@@guidofester5451 I have been looking to understand that too for a loong time. For me the key was to tie all up with boundaries and vulnerability. To be free you need to be vulnerable; to be vulnerable you need to have clear boundaries; to have boundaries you need to have compassion for yourself, then you can have compassion for others. Empathy is a tool that makes you vulnerable if you don't have boundaries, and powerful when you do have. To be free is to now your limits so well that you don't have to think about them, but first you really have to think about them!!
@guidofester54513 жыл бұрын
@@artifundio1 That’s pretty deep, l like it. I found it best to surround myself with good people, that way I don’t have to be concerned about giving too much.
@AETR-wg6xm Жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and I THANK God for this man. I recently quit smoking and drinking after seeing myself in the mirror with a belly and thought this isn’t the body I want for myself… the future I want for myself. This year I will graduate college as an architect yet I don’t feel fulfilled… it’s time to make sacrifices. Jordan is an amazing man that lets me see clearly the potential I have… he gives us the words we wanted and needed to hear this whole time. It’s time to challenge ourselves and improve. God bless Jordan Peterson! A true role model of this age and I’m glad I’m alive at the same time this man is. It’s time to clean our rooms gentlemen… God bless.
@tmony15823 жыл бұрын
Letting go of toxic relationships and everyone’s standards/judgements and becoming independent and moving towards goals that I actually wanted was one of the hardest/longest lasting mental trials I’ve ever been through. But also the most refining and character building things possible. I’m noticeably farther than where I started now and it’s all thanks to this guy
@maxatlas72133 жыл бұрын
Have a nice day tomorrow
@GT380man3 жыл бұрын
Me too. Though I didn’t appreciate my highest calling until quite recently. Now, I’m super charged by the objective. I’ll stop when my heart ceases to beat.
@nicky91483 жыл бұрын
Yes! Discarding the ex-narc from my life was the hardest, traumatic, most painful thing I have done in my life thus far..but also the most challenging, rewarding, & spiritually uplifting as well! My eyes are wide open & the Universe is accepting of me...as I tread ever so wisely...
@nebedro51873 жыл бұрын
I’m on this path right now and it’s going to be a battle. But it’s a battle I want to win, and it’s a battle I won’t let myself lose no matter what. Setting something to aim for and disregarding everything that’s holding me back from that; is a kind of power I didn’t think I had within me. This man is showing me my inner warrior, I am NOT going to be a gardener in a war. Godspeed brothers. I wish everyone the most success on their own journeys. Even though I don’t know anyone in this comment section, I’m rooting for all of us.
To me, it is people like you who are the true ascended masters. Who are detached from their ego and who dedicate their lives to the betterment of the collective, with nothing asked in return...as long as your work makes an impact. You naturally attract respect and admiration through your well intended work. God bless.
@DrBrothBaist3 жыл бұрын
2 yrs ago I was in active addiction, yrs and yrs of it, 12 rules to life and hrs and hrs of Dr Jordan Petersons college lectures....well something clicked, I was doing that while attending my treatment for the dozenth time. My perception changed, my attitude changed, my aim changed. 2 yrs later I'm sober and using my time laid off from work for the winter to train and fight muaythai and bjj. Soon I will start trade school for carpentry and I'm actively pursuing my dreams, goals, and that which I seen valuable. If you really listen and implement the actions and system of being this man lays out it will change your life...it did mine.
@deborahedelman26593 жыл бұрын
All the best to you my friend!!
@Master_djchops-sse2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you.
@brandonknable78902 жыл бұрын
Proud of you my friend
@EnzoV19932 жыл бұрын
Every time I'm in doubt I listen to Jordan. I went from not knowing what kind of father I'd be and not knowing what job I want to do. Now I'm enjoying being a father, doing the job I never knew was possible for me. Jordan keeps me grounded and dreaming at the same time. Dream a little bit bigger but also get a little closer to knowing who you really are.
@MarkRockwell-fw4qj11 ай бұрын
He words are very inspirational words
@ASHUTOSHMISHRA-du9cc2 жыл бұрын
As a Hindu from India... I must tell u people that I have read Bhagwat Geeta and I feel Dr Peterson captures the essence of that... Dr Peterson is surely at an advanced stage in the path of Enlightenment! Western Civilization is really blessed to have him in this woke popular culture!
@zbigniewbielejewski75012 жыл бұрын
Dude,he is not in woke bs.
@BleedForTheWorld2 жыл бұрын
What is woke? Is it woke to be gay or be a black person?
@carolyntorres81712 жыл бұрын
@@BleedForTheWorld because I wondered, too… quoted from online Google source: “Definition in oxford dictionary says ‘Alert to injustice in society, especially racism.’”
@BleedForTheWorld2 жыл бұрын
@@carolyntorres8171 is it any wonder how the far right likes Jordan Peterson when they're the first to not like black and gay people?
@RodrigoLopez-fd4kq2 жыл бұрын
@@zbigniewbielejewski7501 i think that the message was lost in the translation. i believe he tried to say that Is a light in this dark times controlled by the "woke culture"
@thechancellor-3 жыл бұрын
To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
@FriendlyNeighborhoodUnclePete3 жыл бұрын
To the person who wrote this comment above, Thank You. I hope you get 10x back what you put into your post.
@rodneyhulme36493 жыл бұрын
May God bless you and your family and friends
@nothingbutthetruth32273 жыл бұрын
I love what you wrote. Did you know all of that is in the Bible? Much of what Jordan says is too. I finally found the TRUTH in the Bible. It has every answer to every question and every solution to every problem. 🙏
@maxwelljacobfreedom3 жыл бұрын
If you're a liberal reading this God wants to talk to you
@rodneyhulme36493 жыл бұрын
@@maxwelljacobfreedom why a liberal..the liberal party is running Australia and letting us be controlled by the new world order
@YY-ei1gm3 жыл бұрын
Greatest philosopher of our time. What a gift he is to us.
@walkingphilosopher3 жыл бұрын
True. And if he is not the greatest living philosopher, he is ALMOST CERTAINLY at the top 5.
@terrancewilliamson61943 жыл бұрын
Great man, he's helped me with a lot of things
@mrbikeman3 жыл бұрын
@Maxine McKenzie your pessimism is palpable. Yuck.
@AG-io5wr3 жыл бұрын
He does clinical psychology.
@mrbikeman3 жыл бұрын
@Maxine McKenzie FailFish
@francisjaytimosa9838 Жыл бұрын
Going back to this after a year. I just realized my life has improved drastically financially, mentally, spiritually, and a bit physically. Listening to Jordan Peterson's lectures was like planting a seed. You'll just look back and see how your life has changed and grew from what it was before.
@MargetMints Жыл бұрын
Exactly like a seed. Just listening to them, trying to do as he says, even if you "fail" a few times. Makes your life so much better 😊 I'm very happy you changed your life!!! Congratulations 🎉!!!
@euphoriaorphan Жыл бұрын
Yes! I am coming back a year later and my life is so different now, in a better way 😊
@iBRiDGE3803 жыл бұрын
Imagine you cared for yourself as if you actually cared. Literally filled with light this video is.
@Tony-mu5lc3 жыл бұрын
I come from France, been living in Uk for 7 years. We are the 25th of December and I’m spending Christmas alone... (Mix between Choices and circumstances..) went for a running in the country side and have listened this video the whole time. Jordan Peterson made my Christmas Day. Bless you
@CH-mv3fu3 жыл бұрын
Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus. You were only alone physically. Enjoy your solitude and talk it out loud.
@tulipalll2 жыл бұрын
@@CH-mv3fu ❤
@NewCandy12 жыл бұрын
@@tulipalll Did you send yourself a heart?
@anniebaker47142 жыл бұрын
Alone is how we all feel. This time on this temp Earth is like the beginning of the sequel. We’ve been programmed to worry about what we are missing instead of the beauty in what’s in front of us. I hope 5 months after Christmas, you feel fulfilled in Christ’s love.
@abdishakurhussein68982 жыл бұрын
Jag try
@solorina13542 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that I found peterson so early in my life. I'm a 19 yr old female and he's taught me so much, being a father for when I didn't have one and teaching me life lessons that I wasn't taught. God has truly blessed me with this man that I luckily came by so early in life.
@tzvibendaniel20452 жыл бұрын
You are indeed blessed and you have the right outlook on life. You are going to do great things!
@solorina13542 жыл бұрын
@@tzvibendaniel2045 Thank you so much! :)
@abstractlij2 жыл бұрын
Same, I’m only 20. The wisdom and knowledge that JP shares will certainly impact our lives for the better, and it’s amazing that we’re taking it in while we’re still young. People Like Jordan Peterson and David Goggins do more for us than they can imagine.
@Boi26012 жыл бұрын
Same here 🎉21
@dominicmathiang71462 жыл бұрын
L ok o pp m pp LP oom lol popl pp pp on
@johnmckenzie9885 Жыл бұрын
28 years old. We are here because we all want whats best for our lives. It's now up to us.
@rysbul64563 жыл бұрын
If you’re reading this. Never give up. Miles to go before we sleep. We are gonna grind our way to success. Let’s do this.
@simplyengineering23503 жыл бұрын
dont lose your soul in the process of success tho.
@jbau49853 жыл бұрын
And promises to keep, and promises to keep.
@chrisbova96863 жыл бұрын
The powers that be are devaluing human life by the day. We are now all native americans, 150 years ago.
@sirbader12 жыл бұрын
@@chrisbova9686 the time to fight has come
@rjreddenbaker43512 жыл бұрын
Wow. How many others had to pause the video about every three minutes just to absorb what you just heard? Thank you for sharing your heart, Dr Peterson.
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you enjoy Jordan Peterson content. In case you want to check Jordan Peterson talking about Carl Jung and the Hero archetype here's the link, thank you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see You are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, You might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@privateequityguy3 жыл бұрын
Believe in yourself. You are braver than you think and more talented than you know, and capable of more than you can imagine. *Keep putting in the work...*
@Lishkabro3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻💯
@privateequityguy3 жыл бұрын
@@Lishkabro Good!
@vilvianamentor6463 жыл бұрын
those lying words,,, its the illusion to the weaks, cause weaks cant handle the truth.
@privateequityguy3 жыл бұрын
@@vilvianamentor646 Take it easy
@leebennett18212 жыл бұрын
@@vilvianamentor646 What is Truth? Don't mistake a Personal truth for Reality!
@Red.OG. Жыл бұрын
I got out of a rehab program 3 days ago, I was always a J.Peterson fan, now I listen to him everyday, I am 35yrs old, Peterson has helped me so much. Thank you sir.
@christopheryerton72253 жыл бұрын
I have recently become aware of Dr. Peterson and his countless hypothesis on man's mental understanding of self in contrast of his fellow man. What I find is how refreshing his explanation's are easily found and understood. In relation to others, how we should love and encourage those around us, but too do it selflessly. All these ideas are described in detail in the HOLY BIBLE!!! I PRAY Dr. Peterson continue his journey with Christ, Amen
@tomwaite73322 жыл бұрын
I'm sitting on my driveway listing to this video and 3 of my neibours are listening in on this video its been 45 min and they're just listening in ... they normally go out for a smoke and back in , not today 🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦 I think I'm going to make this a thing , spread the word . Thankyou Jordan Peterson God bless 🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦
@bloodmoney882 жыл бұрын
listing lazily to the left? You got some moves guy.
@rantsandraves85152 жыл бұрын
Perfect Tom Waite
@TheGuiltsOfUs2 жыл бұрын
????
@milana20202 жыл бұрын
Lol in a car or speaker ???
@OziBlokeTimG Жыл бұрын
I think Jordan could be an Ozzie 🇦🇺💥
@PedroSnRx2 жыл бұрын
It's never too late people, I failed high school the first time, knuckled down & passed it at the second attempt, then went into the world of work, joined the healthcare system midway through the pandemic, fell in love with it, enrolled in college part time for 2 years while managing full time work, passed college & applied to university to do paramedic science, I got in, I start tomorrow & I'm 28 now, it's never too late! We can all achieve what we want to do guys! Best of luck & go make your dreams happen! 👏🙏🙌👌👍♥️
@Wildbert Жыл бұрын
Paramdic=Hero Thx for beeing there to save others
@PedroSnRx Жыл бұрын
@@Wildbert thank you so much :)
@nathanpeacock997811 ай бұрын
I started college at age 18 and earned an associates degree from my community college at age 56. I now have 126 college credits and I'm 71. Knowledge is knowing that we don't know anything. Never stop learning.
@PedroSnRx11 ай бұрын
@@nathanpeacock9978 that's absolutely incredible, well done to you good sir! 🫡😁
@Zcyth92 жыл бұрын
as a non-religious 16 year old male who lives in Scandinavia i wanna say that Dr.Peterson has helped me a lot. After pondering on the purpose of life for a few years i think i have found it. Life is what you make it, if your goal is to try and please your god so be but for me the ultimate goal is to be a better person than the day before.
@dr.johnkupper20492 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson is a special man with an extraordinary mind. His ability to communicate is changing my life. Thank you Jordan 🙏
@sloanmagnum50092 жыл бұрын
Right! He him self and what and how he says things is pleasing to my ears and mind. I dont just want to listen to what he says, I also want to listen to he him self.
@danielessex21622 жыл бұрын
@@sloanmagnum5009 that's called confirmation bias. That's why it sounds pleasing. Jordan when he used to teach actually mentioned that very problem. He also described how said problem was why religious people believe so deeply and why faith and not evidence is what they need because confirmation bias makes them believe faith is evidence.
@sloanmagnum50092 жыл бұрын
@@danielessex2162 no, you're. Mistaken.
@danielessex21622 жыл бұрын
@@sloanmagnum5009 No I am not I used to follow him on KZbin he did and entire series of mythology and directly showed what I said. So no I am not mistaken.
@danielessex21622 жыл бұрын
@@sloanmagnum5009 oh yeah also forgot on the account of faith. I am definitely not wrong. Even by the biblical standards faith is defined as belief with no supporting evidence and in spite of evidence to the contrary of the belief you have faith in. ie if I show you evidence that you are wrong faith is what allows you to ignore my evidence to declare your belief is still valid..... Because you have to believe it is. Confirmation bias helps with that.
@bettymunroe53472 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤. You have recently inspired me to quit drinking alcohol . It's been 3 weeks of sobriety now . Also quitting smoking cigarettes, on day 3 right now . I feel really ill right now but I will get better soon . 🙏 Starting into my 3 1/2 months . Every day is a new day for opportunities.
@theresefournier32692 жыл бұрын
Betty!? That is YAHsome! ♥️🔥💐💯
@donovanhodgkinson97032 жыл бұрын
keep at it..really good work my friend!!..bottle that great feeling of being strong and achievements and sip from it every day..💖👍👊🙏💝
@darktividar76322 жыл бұрын
3 months on, how is your journey into getting rid of those vices? God speed to you and your recovery
@bettymunroe53472 жыл бұрын
@@darktividar7632 my journey is going great 3 &1/2 months in . I feel great 👍. Thanks for asking !
@connieshroyer55872 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. Prayers for continued strength. I know it's not easy.
@rippleproject13262 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson is the father we all wish we had.
@craigfrankey142 жыл бұрын
I'm 38 and I'm just starting all over again because of a failed relationship where I invested everything into someone's success and forgotten myself in the name of good and love but I'm glad I have clarity because I've failed myself very badly to the point where the wrong paths are now obvious.
@NinfriendosMuatra2 жыл бұрын
Good luck man. You can do this.
@sanderdijkstra12262 жыл бұрын
How about we hop on a zoom call togehter and talk about this. Maby we can help and learn from eachother.
@hazitrades50822 жыл бұрын
you got this man, the world is eternally yours 🌹 ❤️
@Obiamajoyisrmd2 жыл бұрын
Your my twin forreal.
@gayanngodfrey2824 Жыл бұрын
Still young
@TeamSLIDEWAYS2 жыл бұрын
I don't even know how to say how bad my lifes been.... but this man he... he literally saved my life more then once and im so sad I can't shake his hand and thank him in person, for him to hear and see how genuine I am because nothing else could convey how much I appreciate what he has directly done for me..
@mrs.b58422 жыл бұрын
But it was all within yourself all along. When the student is ready the teacher appears. Jp has reflected something in you. Give yourself some credit for seeking and being an open heart
@Imtussel2 жыл бұрын
He would much rather you create new rock bottoms for yourself as you climb. So that when you fall (which is inevitable because catastrophe just lurks around the corner for all of us and life is full of tragedy), you don’t fall as far. You’ve brought yourself up so much, that you don’t fall back to where you were when you got started. Jordan would rather this help you, than to receive a “thank you”. He would be thrilled knowing he helped you alone, and doesn’t expect a thank you. Be grateful, and try to spread his care and message as a thank you!
@oliviern-d46882 жыл бұрын
me too sir... me too...
@rarebird_822 жыл бұрын
Same ✌🏻🙂
@mateowolfenbarger51092 жыл бұрын
Your tribute is how I feel. At the very least, he's inspired you and your words (along with his) have helped make this world a tiny bit better (bigger than you think actually). So carry on and forgive my atrocious punctuation. I'm just writing how I feel and I'd imagine you understand that. I'm happy to hear that you sound like your in a much better place 🥲💚
@verapozza30792 жыл бұрын
Wow, I’m 17 years old, I have little education . I’m educating my self. I work full time to help my Mom with her bakery and this video is everything I needed to hear right now! Thank you
@deanwheeler3809 Жыл бұрын
You still have time on your hands, use it wisely and don’t waste it
@sarahbuckley56389 ай бұрын
Be thankful that you’re still so young, and have plenty of time 🙏
@connieschwarz60237 ай бұрын
WOW!!! That’s incredible! And you’re watching Jordon Peterson ! If you choose to not hold on it could it would seem like an abomination to your God given intelligence . Focus on God and his goodness! And that you’re doing this alone? It’s very painful to me but stronger than that Awe Struck! You should find any organization to help you with this! You deserve it!
@DanielRivera-pl7rmАй бұрын
May you grow in ways that will inspire you with God's blessings. Hold fast to the hand of God. Your blessing is coming. If it hasn't happened yet. Give yourself a hand for your heart of gold .by helping your mom is in our nature but in God's eyes he sees your heart.
@DemetriPanici3 жыл бұрын
*”You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.” - Marcus Aurelius*
@TheLastPierrot3 жыл бұрын
"thats kinda gay" -me
@vacant81843 жыл бұрын
@@TheLastPierrot "That's means you don't have a dick"
@TheLastPierrot3 жыл бұрын
@@vacant8184 *that
@christopherrussell633 жыл бұрын
It's impractical
@WEALTHYMINDPINOY2 жыл бұрын
It might even be time to sacrifice what you love best, so that you can become who you might become, instead of staying who you are. - Jordan Peterson ❤❤
@myangelwings452 жыл бұрын
I hope one day Jordan reads these comments. Thank you. I love your passion for humanity. There is a God and He is smiling down on you for standing up and standing out. For being the man He created you to be. You touch people at their core. You have done your part in opening people’s minds. The rest is up to God. I see you Jordan.
@freedomseeker86072 жыл бұрын
Sir Jordan Peterson is the dad most of us needed. He is so articulate, so knowledgeable and has so much wisdom
@tanyaandtheark3 жыл бұрын
Listening to Dr Peterson has motivated me to make so many positive changes in my life, I'll be forever grateful especially because I go through periods where I'm extremely motivated then all of a sudden I feel lost again but listening to Dr Peterson brings me back every single time.
@edwardwhite97933 жыл бұрын
Hi Tanya, it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Edward by name, it would be nice getting to know you,if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
@ricabel3212 жыл бұрын
Get lost!
@jengman812 жыл бұрын
He is a voice of reason and hope in a world of chaos
@factbeaglesarebest2 жыл бұрын
@@ricabel321 sure the reply by “Edward” is seemingly creepy and off putting but you missed pretty much the entirety of what Peterson talks about in this video… Maybe edwards “aim” is simply to connect to people. He could be in a country or state or region where he’s not finding fufilling relationships… Whatever, point being he may genuinely just be trying to connect to people who’s topicss he resonates with. Part of positive psychology is the aim of just viewing best intentions in people. Do service. BE of service to other people. See the best, reinforce it. Make the world a better place. Want meaning? Stop being a f****g a***h***e every second of your life. Have some accountability if your life. I’m
@kevinsullivan6172 жыл бұрын
i keep having same issue with myself!! i yo on this 6 month run motivated ambitious working out everyday reading everyday working torwards my self improvement and then the next I cant find that same drive and fall back down that ladder… These videos are a hugeee help as well as some others trying to recreate that lightning in a bottle!
@jennyeckley4710 Жыл бұрын
37 years old, and i finally feel like im on the right road. Jordan peterson has helped me more than i could ever put into words
@TheKrazyKs2 жыл бұрын
''The World shifts itself around your aim!'' All .. so utterly brilliantly said. Thank you, as ever.
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you enjoy Jordan Peterson content. In case you want to check Jordan Peterson talking about Carl Jung and the Hero archetype here's the link, thank you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, you might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@cordengle43662 жыл бұрын
This kept me on a treadmill for an hour when I typically only stay on for 20min lol. This is amazing knowledge. I'm hopeful it helps heal me and this lost soul feeling that has consumed my life. Thank you Mr. Jordan Peterson
@CookbookAdventures2 жыл бұрын
Your not the only one that feels like that. I'm going through the same feeling. Been like this for a few years now. Still trying to figure it out.
@whisperedwords57992 жыл бұрын
Jesus is the son of God who died for your sins, resurrected, and will return!
@claytonthrasher55332 жыл бұрын
@@whisperedwords5799 amen amen
@foreignwarren73612 жыл бұрын
@@CookbookAdventures get a hobby
@janiecepoush19042 жыл бұрын
LIFE’s Meaning Changes, when you KNOW that GOD is Real! An Eternal Perspective, Changes Everything! Hebrews 11:1 - …” the EVIDENCE of things NOT SEEN.” 🙏🏻💛🕊🍃
@leahr90383 жыл бұрын
It's like he's just rambling about everything about life but it's all extremely useful
@beebarfthebard2 жыл бұрын
I love how he talks. If feels like I'm talking. It feels real.
@renekonradsen80642 жыл бұрын
I have cptsd. And learned more from jordan peterson in 4 month, than my whole life from teachers, doctors, and just people who work in the system. If people there work with people with traumas was more like jordan peterson, much more people would have a better life. The world need more of this man ❤️
@theresefournier32692 жыл бұрын
That is for sure! ♥️🔥
@renekonradsen80642 жыл бұрын
@Annie Edison i am so happy to hear that you are getting better and it has been 4 years since you was on mental hospital🙏 i hope you will never get back to that place, and you will get Even better with time. 🙏
@evieraine713510 ай бұрын
I can completely agree
@Sunnahiman3 жыл бұрын
I am African American 66yr young woman who retired from a psychiatric care facility from 1972 until 2010. I have worked with many psychiatrist/ psychologist and many other professionals. My sister is familiar with your work and I told her how powerful and a amazing human being you're. I know that all you're saying is facts. You're such a great gift to the world if they would listen and apply your infinite insight, wisdom and guidance. I know that you're a man of great wisdom and a man of principles who express importance of family, love, horner and respect. You even acknowledge the reality of death. I know truth and logical thinking. I have never heard of such insightful information that you teach. I learned my job by training and I learned it well enough to motivate those who suffer from emotional challenges. I used kindness and sincerity as a way to get my patients through difficult times during hospitalization. Learning from you will give me more insight and understanding during my life journey to help my family during these stressful times. No one is exempt from problems but their is always a new beginning to learn and understand ourselves to improve into a better human being. Blessings too you and your family.
@MOAB-UT3 жыл бұрын
I bet you helped many people in 38 years. Your professional life had meaning. Thank you- on behalf of all the lives you touched. Happy New Year.
@Sunnahiman3 жыл бұрын
@@MOAB-UT Thank you blessings to you and of humanity.
@MOAB-UT3 жыл бұрын
@@Sunnahiman Cheers!
@anthonysthellhammerg43882 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson talks a good talk and I’m sure means well at every aspect he talks about, But that’s where he ends and you have gone way way way farther, You Ms Jones have been in the trenches of hell ,where the metal meets the meat ,I personally couldn’t have done all those years without going insane myself or hacking some of the patents to bits , Im not just saying this but you truly are an angel on earth, thank you
@jdm25632 жыл бұрын
I’m 69 and Jordan is reminding me, once again, I can continue to grow and become better and more engaged, not less, as I age chronologically, there are no limits in my life, only my decisions
@kelcameron61212 жыл бұрын
Yass get it, never to late we are ever evolving, ageing has benefits youth doesn't not granted time is not one of the benefits but wisdom and experience triumphs no doubt
@germanbarragan5293 жыл бұрын
It's so sad that people hate on this man when all he does is spit truths in the most eloquent of ways.
@gw55153 жыл бұрын
You cannot do great things without gathering opposition. The hatred is apart of the greatness.
@vilvianamentor6463 жыл бұрын
your problem is you consider be the owner of the truth, and you know nothing...if you like it, eat it...
@guidofester54513 жыл бұрын
He has a small group of haters that are very loud. Focus on the positive.
@germanbarragan5293 жыл бұрын
@@vilvianamentor646 if you want to start an existential metaphysical debate about what the truth is and how it fluctuates depending on what definitions you consider to be in the core of reality that is nice and all, but what I meant with the truths here are the afirmations and processes of thought that he makes that happen to be so blatantly relatable to people who are honest to themselves. Existence is so undefined and knowledge is something so bast and potentially infinite that you could always claim that noone, doesn't matter how learnt they are, knows anything. That's an epistemological problem and has nothing to do with a practical sociological/psychological debate such as the one taking part in the video.
@vilvianamentor6463 жыл бұрын
@@germanbarragan529 you are dust and dust you will turn
@jazzed2b2 жыл бұрын
This guy is unbelievably gifted to speak truth that pierces the heart
@teslacybertruck750 Жыл бұрын
I got goosebumps, he is truly a Master one of a kind. What an honor to be in the same era with this man.
@andrewmcallister99352 жыл бұрын
I was able to almost banish my depression, leave my toxic family/job (my father was my employer and owned every aspect of my life) quit drinking, start my own business and improve my life tenfold all because of this man.
@nothingbutthetruth32273 жыл бұрын
He’s absolutely amazing! He breaks the mind down so perfectly that anyone can understand it’s works. I love that he speaks Bible passages. I searched for truth for thirty years and then I found what couldn’t be disputed, even by science. The Bible. We do have a Father, who loves us more than we will ever know. He sent His son to pay for our mistakes on a cross so we could be with Him in Heaven. Give your life to Jesus and ask Him to show you He is real, then stand back and watch. I don’t question any more. Btw, I forgot to say Jesus saved me from myself, addiction, depression and suicide and He turned my life around. Now I’m done. 🙏
@sherigraham38733 жыл бұрын
I can feel your beautiful spirit through your words! I'm so glad you found the heart of truth and the peace that it brings. JP is also a great inspiration and speaks truth without fear of naysayers. Love that man!
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@julianuga2 жыл бұрын
I was raised to be weak. Strong and determined to follow my goals but weak under duress. I was taught to panic and crumble when the pressure built. It was when I crawled out of the hole of depression and started hearing what people like Jordan, Neil DeGrasse Tyson and Jocko had to say that I finally realized I need to dry my tears and become an animal. Think critically and logically under pressure and demand a higher level of excellence from myself. I'm a stronger man today because people like Jordan have offered a perspective to be a complete badass first and worry about others' opinions when it actually concerns something of weight.
@amberoye84302 жыл бұрын
I am listening to this again after I made the sacrifice of self destructive self medication. It brings tears to my eyes just as it did before I chose to be better. I'm increasingly grateful I happened to find this humans messages.
@clintoniflagler81773 жыл бұрын
I love the obvious fingerprints of God's touch in our lives, it's so apparent when he constantly answers our every day needs! A constant confirmation of his love for even the smallest and lowliest of hearts, I surrender all to you Lord as much as I possibly can!
@susibrooks86202 жыл бұрын
“...winning the argument doesn’t fix the problem..” Selah! Thank you for putting into words what tears could not say.
@Prime.Consciousness2 жыл бұрын
It takes a person who has truly experienced depression and suffering to arrive at these conclusions. This speech is real. It's heart felt, it resonates. It's the difference between a returning soldier describing what war is like, compared to somebody who's never been to war. The power of this speech lies in the undercurrent that underpins the words. A man you can take seriously. You know he's been there. To borrow a religious term, a man for such a time as this. If only religious preachers, had this level of dedication to the deep meaning behind the words, instead of a dedication to the doctrine of their religion. A dedication to reality, instead of a dedication to ideology... The world might be a different place.
@robynhefferan95612 жыл бұрын
So true about that humble goal - as I recovered from addiction, I had to really accept how weak and vulnerable I was. I remember making a daily list - put the bin out, wash clothes. Small, priorities and focused on getting through the day and being there for family.
@LindaHutchings2 жыл бұрын
Accomplishing the small list really is super important on every level.. not just so that those things get done and they are the stuff of life the basics.. but they also build self-esteem along the way.. to the same measure that not doing them compromises self-esteem
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you enjoy Jordan Peterson content. In case you want to check Jordan Peterson talking about Carl Jung and the Hero archetype here's the link, thank you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see you are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, you might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@iyaakasha90293 жыл бұрын
"The purpose of thinking is to let your thoughts die instead of you"....and, the issue is not what you believe but what you do. God. So true.
@malikapollard36182 жыл бұрын
Ive heard many times if you work hard enough, you can achieve anything. I heard that as a kid and I'm still hearing it now. What society forgot to mention is that hard work won't persuade or sway people who want to take advantage of you. If you grow up poor you better have a talent or intellect that will take you places. If you don't you might still get lucky through hard work and ethical people which are few and far between. The entire system in society consisting of banks, institutes, schools, merchants, utility suppliers etc are actively working in tandem to keep you down or kick you down lower. What they also forgot to mention is that the examples of people who went from rags to riches had to pay a steep price that might not be worth it for you eventually. The truth is you can get anything you want depending on what you're willing to do for it. And for young adults out there... its almost never hard work they want from you. Its a piece of you. Your soul. Your freedom. Your body. Your ideas. Your morals. And if you go along with it, you will be owned. Is what you want worth everything you are and want to be?
@TheRudolfp2 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening. You should read Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus to go deep on what you said.
@mime37632 жыл бұрын
Wow, thanks. AHA, MOMENT...FOR ME!!!! 😵💫🤯😯😮😦🧐😳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🤗😘🥰🙃🥲☺️😊😏😌😉🤭😐😑😔🤔🤔🤔🤔🧐🤨 THESE ARE MY TRAUMATIZING EARLY SEEDS SOWN FROM MY OWN UNHEALED, CHILDHOOD SOUL TIES, OF DEATH DEALING BLOWS THAT MADE ME BECOME ( SEE MYSELF THROUGH THEIR EYES) AS A WORTHLESS, UNDERSERVED, VALUELESS, SEEMINGLY HOPELESS, HELPLESS, LIVING-DEAD-LIVING, DEAD, BROKE, BUSTED AND DISGUSTING Being at my Core BEING. SPIRIT AND SOUL CELLULAR SELF ( THE SILENT DEATH SEEDS PLANTED ( KILLING MY GOOD GOD BEING, LIFE, NOW) CLUELESSLY HAPPENING/GOING ON BENEATH THE SURFACE OF THE " BEAUTIFUL ICEBERG" ) ALL THIS TIME. I NEVER HAD NOT ONE -IODA- ABOUT, WHAT WAS GOING ON WITH ME, BEING HERE??????!!!!!! WHAT EVER, ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH DID I DO, SO WRONG!!!!!????? 👀👀👀😟😦🤔🤔🤔🤔🤨🤨🤨🤨🙁☹️🙄😳😳🧐🧐🤐😕😐😱🥺😩😫. ANSWER:. YOU, YOU DID, -YOU!!!!! AND YOU- BEING, DOING YOU, SHOWING UP HERE, YOU ( MORE OF, UNWANTED, US) ....IS ALLLLLLLLL, WRONG!!!!. IMMEDIATE, PURE, PAIN AND GREAT SUFFERING FOR YOU!!!!! OUT!!!!! "GO STRAIGHT, IMMEDIATELY TO HELL!!!!" PEROIDT. NOT GOOD, AT ALL. NO, GOOD!!!!! BADDDD.!!!!! AND SO IT WAS, AND IT WAS SO. ( OLD, EARLY CHILDHOOD BELIEFS OF "WHO I AM". BASED ON THEIR PERCEPTIONS, AND BEING THE INNOCENT BELOVED CHILD, HOW DARE I QUESTION OR SECOND GUESS " MY GREATEST LOVES OF ALL, #1, 1ST, LOVE ABOVE MY OWN SELF!!!! I SEE, NOW, AND SO DOWN THE RABBIT WHOLE, I JUST GO, GONER. 100% NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. UNTIL, TODAY. THE POWER OF NOW. (THE DAY " THE COLOR PURPLE" CAME OUT, I' VE BEEN TRAILING OPRAH WINFREY AND ALL OF HER CAMP SINCE 1986 TIL PRESENT) TRYNA FIGURE OUT,. ... 🤨🤨🤨🤨🧐🤔🤔🤔🤔😐🙃🤯🤯😳😦😮😵💫🥴🤕🤕🤕🤕 "WHAT YOU TALKIN BOUT, OKRA??????!!!!!". ALL THIS "DIVINE, MAKE THE CONNECTION" TO BACK TO THE CORE BEING, THE TRUTH OF "WHO YOU REALLY ARE" BUSINESS!!!!! 😫😩🥺😱😐😕🤐🧐😳🙄☹️🙁🤨🤔🤔😦😦😟👀👀🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔😳🙄😵😵💫🥵. TALK ABOUT, HIDDEN TRUTH!!!!!! MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE, 57 YRS. LATER, NOW, AND THE LIGHT IS JUST NOW BEGINNING TO START TO MAKE A LITTLE SENSE OF ME, " PURELY, CHASING AFTER MY OWN TAIL".."MY REMEMBERING, RETURNING BACK HOME TO: "ME, I AM , MY H/SELF!!!!!!!!" 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫🤨😟😦🙁☹️🧐🧐🧐🤐🤐🤐😕😐😱😱🥺😩😩😩😫😫😫🥶🙄😳😳😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔. 😫😫😫😫😫😩😩😩😩🥺🥺🥺🥺😐😐😐😐🤨🤨🤨🤨😕🤐🧐☹️😵💫😳🙄🥶 YEAH, I AM ETERNALLY AND HIGHLY GRATEFUL, YET SIMULTANEOUSLY, SPEECHLESS AND TIRED.!!!. 🥶🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🧐🤬😰😨😧😦😮😯🤯🤯🤯🤯😢😥😓😞😮💨😫😩🥱😴😪🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🥴🥴🥴😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫. IRON SHARPENS IRON, MUCH LOVE AND LIGHT TO YOU AND YOURS, NAMASTE!!!!!!!🥰😘🤗🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@PerrySkyePhoenix2 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@byronabel99432 жыл бұрын
I listen to this guy when I work almost everyday and it's changing my mentality to a disciplined person, thank you Jordan B Peterson.
@CyTolliver3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. Dr. Peterson is a gift to the world...his message couldn't be more necessary than right now
@williamyoung94012 жыл бұрын
It's good...but leave God out of it...
@CyTolliver2 жыл бұрын
@@williamyoung9401 uh, ok. You got something against GOD bro?
@XRPaladin2 жыл бұрын
My Wife took her own like 18 months ago and Jordans guidance over the last 5 years has been life changing. There is no possible way I would have survived without him.
@dustinarmstrong97132 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Stay strong brother much love.
@Pointyarrow762 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss.
@glowiedetector2 жыл бұрын
may she rest in peace, i pray that life goes well for you. i promise that you have what it takes. stay strong!
@hugerleesooper1286 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@mikrokozm9 Жыл бұрын
There are ways. He may be the twig you hang onto for dear life until you get better grounding, more confidence, then are brave enough to swing out & grab a branch...or fall to the earth. He's here to make ad revenue. He knows there's a market of heartache out there. A lot of so-called messed up people. It may not BE a bad thing he's selling. I watched this video and got some really good things out of it. And if he was a cult leader, his cult members would come to his defense. But helpful is helpful. And where it goes from here is up to you. It is what it is.
@voyd15073 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson - a beautiful person from the inside out! Thank you.
@vincentceccola67282 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson has changed my life, I wish that my own dad watched him and all of his wisdom. My moral compass is all I have, I am thankful for all of his words and wisdom. It saved my life!
@furerorban14882 жыл бұрын
Peterson the Nazi orbanuskisser: "my message to Hungarians: what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian race and culture".
@CherubChick12212 жыл бұрын
Thank God, because there is no one else like you. Ever. In all Eternity. If only all Souls knew that.
@furerorban14882 жыл бұрын
@@CherubChick1221 Peterson Nazi orbanuskisser: "my message to Hungarians: what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian race and culture".
@pregnantowl Жыл бұрын
You are going to be a dad with all this wisdom :)
@vincentceccola6728 Жыл бұрын
@@furerorban1488 you should seek mental help. I wish you the best..
@that_won_cat3 жыл бұрын
You're a generous and special individual, Jordan my friend. I'm grateful for your offerings and all you give to us kindred, potentially heightened very average, spirits that seek the very guidance in life that you offer to us. And to no cost. I'm forever grateful, kind sir. Namaste🙏🏼
@pedrinhofeliz42173 жыл бұрын
Lllllllllllllll vbhghh
@brendamccann67643 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@jaysaviod95813 жыл бұрын
Dude do you even know the meaning of namaste? The word is not used in the context which have used!
@deshengriview2 жыл бұрын
Yo chill down don't take life so seriously..
@moegreen30192 жыл бұрын
@@brendamccann6764 Ok.
@ryanhague38922 жыл бұрын
Am I ever happy I found this "talk".. and LISTENDED to the very end. Everytime I listen to JP I learn and gain confidence and think about gratitude. I really truly appreciate this gentleman.
@skikakaleee2 жыл бұрын
Hey there, I see You are a fan of Jordan Peterson just like me. I made a video where he talks about Carl Jung and Hero archetype, You might wanna check it out,>kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHnVY2dqpKyXoK8
@fancyshmancy3 жыл бұрын
Hey Jordan! I'm orienting myself properly for the 1st time in my adult life. Thanks for all the help
@TheLastPierrot3 жыл бұрын
Clean your room kid!!!!
@JordanBPeterson3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@TakaraoftheElves2 жыл бұрын
Last summer, at 29 years old, I finally identified a purpose for my life that will be good for not only me, but for the people that I care about. I want to get married, have children, and take care of my family. As the eldest/only daughter of a single mother, I understand very well the sacrifices and suffering which will likely be required. The new life and new era that this will bring into my aging family will be worth it. 🌷 I can't wait to someday become a mom, and watch the man I love become a dad.
@warrenarnold2 жыл бұрын
@@TakaraoftheElves Same, i want to be a dad. I want to be a dad so bad. Where you at Green?
@TakaraoftheElves2 жыл бұрын
@@warrenarnold I wish you all the luck in the world! 🙂
@badassgourmet40022 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jordan Peterson for helping me heal from PTSD. I wish I would of had a man like you in my life from the start. You are a gift from God for so many 💕
@katsuno59162 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when you feel down, listening to something like this really helps
@furerorban14882 жыл бұрын
Peterson Nazi orbanuskisser: "my message to Hungarians: what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian race and culture".
@glacier_10_years_ago2 жыл бұрын
it's good to listen to it when you're happy, sad, hopeful, showering and going to sleep, this man has helped me realize that every step i take should be toward a goal and that's how i will find happiness
@odafeelueni64082 жыл бұрын
O8
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@GamerSnow32 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe people try to cancel this man. The amount this man has helped me is absolutely unmeasurable, for someone I’ve never met or spoken to to impact me in such a way is unreal. This man is truly one of the most amazing people this world has even created. I can genuinely say that he is one of the only reasons I’m still alive today.
@michaelcarrero10912 жыл бұрын
They want to cancel him because they don’t want people to get better and to prosper. They want slaves.
@abelsamrawi2 жыл бұрын
Very true he pulled me out of a very dark place
@OfficialFrenchGovernment2 жыл бұрын
He saved me from my PTSD
@Linnie217 Жыл бұрын
There are a lot of people out there who want to cancel anything that helps people or makes people happy. They want to cancel this man who has more intelligence than anybody in any political party. The people who want him cancelled are nothing but EVIL. The devil walks .... just look around...ask God to help us win the battle.
@khadijab2303 Жыл бұрын
That is sad because he is exceptionally good and inspiring. His lessons sound like coming from the heart and not just lectures
@dabela22792 жыл бұрын
A huge thank you to all of you at Motivation Madness . With these videos you are saving lives, helping people recreate themselves...start from scratch into a better version of themselves. God bless you all
@mamiewondimu62612 жыл бұрын
Whoever made this speech and whoever uploaded the video, I would like to say THANK YOU from bottom of my heart.
@bcot90872 жыл бұрын
Happy new year everyone. You, you reading this, you are amazing, you are an abundant form of pure love and energy
@JohnDoe-zz7on3 жыл бұрын
Ive always considered myself as a decent parent, however, listening to the professor, Im a better parent and a better person for it. Nowadays, i dont worry to much how my kids are going to turn out to a certain point in regards to their upbringing. Thank you Mr Petersen for all that you do and say.
@TakaraoftheElves2 жыл бұрын
Listening to Jordan Peterson finally convinced me (29 F) to strive for marriage and children. I used to avoid these things because I was afraid of their cost/the necessary suffering required to attain them. Now, I understand the power, peace, and confidence gained from walking into suffering with your head up and eyes open, trusting that the price will be worth the adventure. 🌹
@kari87542 жыл бұрын
@@TakaraoftheElves Beautifully said and enlightening!
@autorka10012 жыл бұрын
(Edited August 7, 2022 for clarity) I discovered Dr. Peterson around 2017. He's the father I never had. He saved me from going down the mass-murderer route in early 2020. I had considered causing chaos because I wanted to create a ripple in my community & throughout the country. I wanted to show people how disgusting the human condition was, again. As if they hadn’t seen an act of terrorism before. I wanted to be an inspiration for other menaces & I wanted the people I took out to be part of the joint statistic, right under my name, under “victims”. I have empathy, but I was suppressing it with self-harm, blaming my mental illness & allowing myself to dehumanize people, erasing their faces & names & imagining the event I was going to be the center of in vivid detail to prepare. I tried to make myself enjoy it. I “indulged” in gore & deliberately deprived myself of sleep, abusing alcohol I stole from my parents. I was determined & drafting a plan. Great timing of his videos, specifically his Biblical lectures appearing in my KZbin feed, broke me out of that nihilistic, misanthropic spiral. I'm recovering from my abusive childhood (mostly emotional abuse; mother stopped hitting me after the age of 12, because I began to laugh when beaten) & I've got a year of high school left. Only recently have I finally realized I have a personality out of my depression (self-discovery is coming along pretty well as of August). There's so much progress it makes my head spin. It's difficult to put effort into changing myself. I keep thinking: "I've done it, I've done it already & it was easy", ignoring the resistance I feel when I think of learning to drive, meeting new people, or committing to a club. That’s really what I need to do, though I'm terrified. "Split yourself into two people, & treat yourself like someone you have respect for & that you want the best for" This is what I've been getting very good at since the beginning of 2022. I heard this advice from him before a couple of years ago & thought it was impossible. I now fill the roles of both a child & their mentor. I needed an external protector & I’ve perfected taking care of myself without relying on my childhood delusions. Granted, I've finally corrected my chemical imbalance with a secondary anti-depressant (bupropion) & my depression has gone from all-consuming suicidal catatonia lasting months to a week-long depressive episode every other month or so. I think it's all excellent timing, though had I been surrounded by competent adults I would've been better long ago, at least by the age of 14. I've been in therapy since I was 9. One of the only things that makes me angry to the point of having homicidal thoughts is remembering how many adults chose not to get their hands dirty despite seeing my declining state & ignoring my very quiet, rare cries for help. I keep thinking they deserve to die. I'm (still) working on it, though homicidal ideation isn’t so much of an issue anymore. I’m only struggling to find purpose & pull myself together before I turn 18. I just want to thank Dr. Peterson & shake his hand because he was there for me when nobody else was. Just a kind of "thanks for being what my dad should've been" or "I appreciate you deeply & though I'm sure you know it many love you a lot, including me". I'm unsure. I think I may just cry upon meeting him which is why I'm hesitant to see him in person at an event. Crying can be burdensome. Added note: I am female; I was dressing as a man & cut my hair when I was planning my onslaught. This has to do with motive. I wasn’t going to kill children or men, I was going specifically for women. Directly before this mania (used loosely), I had experienced abuse at the hands of a group of female nurses who were meant to care for me at my most vulnerable. I experienced ROGD & was considering mutilating myself to “pass” as a man in public. I couldn’t look down at myself in the shower. It was quite bad. I think I’ll make a video about my experience eventually, I just don’t know where to post it. Definitely not on this channel. But this is an extremely important detail of my past.
@theresasantiago59042 жыл бұрын
Good for you! My heart hurts reading about such immense pain at such a young age. Keep up the great work, you’ll be surprised at just how special you are under all those veils of trauma & pain. It’s time to release it and embrace that you are a child of the most High And are a valuable contributor to the human race. Do you wanna know how I know that? If it weren’t true you would not have been born. No such thing as an accident or a mistake, some of us enter this world into homes of love and light, Others, with strong light, go into fear and darkness but all of us, every single one of us are here to nurture and grow that divine spark that animates to your body. Because that my dear one is who you truly are. One day you will be that beacon of light for somebody!! The negative ego can be replaced with a positive ego and you are on a good track to do that, I’m proud of you!
@michemash88602 жыл бұрын
@Autorka I resonate with your incredibly truthful, shockingly deep post. I can’t help but be curious, are you in the USA? Regardless, And at the risk of repelling a response from you…would you be willing to (anonymously or otherwise) tell your story potentially to appear as a part of published form?
@autorka10012 жыл бұрын
@@michemash8860 I do reside in the US. As for talking about my experience, I'm alright with doing so anonymously, if you're willing to accept the material of course.
@TeeTirado2 жыл бұрын
what would be the worst thing that would happen if you met him and cried? I cried many times during his videos! JBP cries in many interviews.
@autorka10012 жыл бұрын
@@TeeTirado You're right, haha. I guess I'm worried I won't be able to get through my statement. It's also burdensome & heavy to have someone crying in your presence, especially when you're directly involved, or the subject of their attention/emotional display.
@naomidorsch64746 ай бұрын
I’m 73 and still working on being a better person and relishing the joy that pops into my life from time to time. Dr. Peterson validates the choices I try to make each day. Listening to him has helped me so much in learning to turn away from the darkness in me.
@colmpennie42393 жыл бұрын
I legit listen to you every single day. Even if I've heard the content before 100 times I never skip it. Because everytime it hits Even harder. Thank you so much ❤ And you are speaking from the heart. No lies, no hidden agenda, it flows so beautiful and even if you don't understand it you can hear the truth in it. Hope that makes sense haha
@MotivationMadness3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoy it!
@cammo7773 жыл бұрын
You just described the Bible imo 😁
@webber9773 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Makes sense. In fact beautifully put 👍
@stephenoverfield93092 жыл бұрын
Progress/results always happen with repetition. I find myself, when listening to speeches like this several times, I hear something I have heard before in a different way. That particular statement hood more meaning because before it wasn’t happening in the current state. Listening iver and over will help imbed this principles in your daily walk!
@Aprang976302 жыл бұрын
@@MotivationMadness hi dear, please add persian subtitle i enjoy it ❤
@vincec.2022 жыл бұрын
I've gone from having all the cards stacked against me and having literally NOTHING to start with, to ending up having more than I could ever need more times than most people would have the stomach...or more accurately, the HEART for. The older and wiser I become, the clearer I see what matters most. I promise anyone reading this that there's two things, that if you have them, you can lose everything else and still find strength to start over clawing your way back up out of the bottom of the pit. 1.) LOVE. 2.) An ongoing dialog and relationship with GOD, or whatever higher power you feel in your heart you should show gratitude to. Without BOTH, life isn't ever going to be something you can truly say you enjoyed or found worth the pain in the end. ❤️
@vincec.2022 жыл бұрын
@@janiecepoush1904 That's where I'll disagree with you Janiece. The "Self love" movement is catalyst for the breakdown of society. "You can't love someone else until you love yourself first" are the words that the darkness has whispered in the ears of SO MANY...AND THEY ARE LISTENING. Does that sound like something Christ would say??? ABSOLUTELY NOT. The TRUTH is that until we can love another person without expectations of personal benefit or on conditions...IN SPITE OF their defects, and BECAUSE OF what they bring yo your table, we have no business looking in the mirror and loving what we see. There's a whole lot of things we have backwards in this world. It's been just over a year since I died. I was clinically dead for what people on earth would conceive as 17 minutes. Though it's impossible to put into words and explain how time is an illusion, and I couldn't ever narrow down what reliving my life all over again from both my perspective and every other person's in my life felt like in terms of time, I can tell you that the God I met loves us on a level that we are incapable of ever being worthy of, and it's IN SPITE of all we are and it's BECAUSE OF who we are. All the good and the bad, and when that infinite, unconditional, ultimate love that's free of judgement and without any condition enveloped me, it was only comforting between God and myself. I was allowed to take all the live I was given in this lifetime with me. That was mine to keep. I then had to stand in the heart of every person I ever hurt in this life, and stripped raw of my ego, excuses, justifications, and any similance of what I previously believed, I felt their unfiltered pain like fire that burned in pain and shame many times over. In the end, I was given BACK all the Love I GAVE in this life, and when that pain was taken from that love, my entire being was the sum of that equation. Nothing more. Nothing less. I was the love I gave and recieved in this life, offset by the pain I caused. So many people go through this life afraid to die. So unnecessarily afraid. They've been told there's a judgmental, vengeful God waiting to judge them at the gates of heaven. I can tell you it's not at all the case. WE are to judge OURSELVES, and there's no hiding secrets. Not to God or any other soul. I was naked in front of the universe, God, every person I ever loved, and my every shameful act was on display. None of us get out of this. The God I met would much rather we worship each other. TO love each other as we would want to be loved. Without judgement and IN SPITE OF our mistakes. We have "the church" to thank for all the fear and shame. Did you know that before the King James Bible was released to the public that the Catholic Church removed more testimony than they left in, and added...with not basis of truth...just as much? It's true. How else can they profit from the entire population of the world, afterall? So many people...dying ashamed and afraid because they think they weren't perfect enough for a God who loves them so much he created them from a piece of his own being and sent us here with the sole purpose of learning to love each other as close to the way he loves as as we possibly can, and giving each of us an individual purpose that can only be found through the REAL meaning of life: To learn how to Love each other and to understand that there is no one thing in this life more precious or valuable than the people in our lives that love us that way. In spite of our selves. Not because of how we can benefit them. More and more people throw away people that are the biggest blessing God will ever give them in this life every day for "self love". Christ was sent here to spread the same message. It was MEN that perverted that message. We're always welcome "back home". The question will be if we can stand to live with ourselves there when everything is out in the open. All I can say is that I'm grateful that I gave far more love in this life than I gave pain or indifference. Returning to a place where everyone is willing to sacrifice their greatest blessings...the people that truly love them...for self gratification or money or image or power or some selfish want or convenience is the worst mistake I ever made. Not only am I not afraid to die, I welcome it.
@stevethyng82752 жыл бұрын
That was an epic, thought provoking comment, thank you!
@sunonymous12 жыл бұрын
This. THANK YOU. And I’m not here to pick at your wording like others…simply because God IS LOVE. ♥️
@janiecepoush19042 жыл бұрын
I removed my post. A lifetime of learning deserves better Consideration. Simply: You Mis-Understood! I have Practiced “Loving OTHERS Above GOD, & Loving Others Above Myself, First.” NOT GOOD!!! To Lose yourself, in another’s needs, wants, requirements…Before Learning to Follow the Divine Order of the First 2 Commandments, is “Choosing an Alternate GOD!” GOD BLESS! 🙏🏻💛🕊🍃
@kevinsullivan6172 жыл бұрын
I pray that i can make the same turn around !
@feliciawilliamsbutler21423 жыл бұрын
This is SO real life. The speaker has a very transparent view of many types of people. I can relate. Loved the revelation from beginning to end.
@edwardwhite97933 жыл бұрын
Hello Felicia , it’s nice meeting you here.. I’m Edward by name, it would be nice getting to know you,if that’s ok with you? My mom once said good friends are never too much to have. if you don’t mind, can we be friends??
@ryanmarksfishlord654 Жыл бұрын
I need to change, I finally have found my greater goal and listening to this has truly put into perspective how much I WILL sacrifice to achieve my goal. I will sacrifice every thing that is stopping my progress and overcome any outside obstacle. I love every thing you do Jordan from the bottom of my heart don’t let anything stop you from motivating young men like me just like how I won’t let myself get in my own way any longer. I will come back to this post and anyone who sees this I only wish greatness and happiness to you and your loved ones.
@ryanmarksfishlord654 Жыл бұрын
Update I’m actually doing a lot better just started going to the gym and today, although a bit lost got a really good workout in and finished off with 20 minutes of jogging/running, not much but I feel good. Finally I was listening to Jordan peterson talk in the car rides and I’ve finally got a goal for the future that looks bright I’m very excited to come back here in the future. :)
@ryanmarksfishlord654 Жыл бұрын
Yah fucker your getting weird again still doing good, but something is bugging me and idk what it is, maybe because I stopped going to the gym for a second idk I’m very happy with my body finally… but I guess I need continued motivation to be the best I can be. I’ll definitely come back here to get myself out of any funk and realize how silly I’m being, sorry but this is my diary now lmao good luck to anyone on their journey stay strong :)
@michaelfoster85303 жыл бұрын
Jordan, you talked about so many things that were quoted in the Gospel of Thomas. Every person on earth needs to read that Gospel. Not just read it but live it. Jesus didn't want us to read and memorize scriptures, he wanted us to live it and bring it to life. Thank you for everything that you do.
@maryjanebrant2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dr. Peterson. This is a wonderful and encouraging talk. Take good care of yourself; the world needs your messages.
@ricabel3212 жыл бұрын
Please give him some advice on how to dress.
@maryjanebrant2 жыл бұрын
@@ricabel321 well, I don't care about that because he's direct, brilliant, and kind and he helps so many of us including me and I'm in the field.
@ricabel3212 жыл бұрын
@@maryjanebrant Yeah RIGHT!!!! So brilliant - he's spending 1/2 his time in therapy in the Nuthouse!
@fearbigdaddygaming80772 жыл бұрын
@@ricabel321 there’s no reason to be hateful. If you don’t like it don’t watch. Move on.
@ricabel3212 жыл бұрын
@@fearbigdaddygaming8077 No... and if you can't handle a little of the opposite view then maybe you should move on. No?
@BrendaJimenez-ih6pq2 жыл бұрын
Never is too late to start!! I am 37 and I started uni last year!! Been with two malevolent people, two kids and low self respect!! My salvation was to listen to God and put boundaries and go for what I want!! Now my ex trying to get into my life and do what he do best, hurt people, now I have a purpose thanks to the Lord and my highest self that could not take more evilness! I believe that I have a monster inside that can hurt other but I am trying to control it. But I still ask God that my heart don’t go cold because of the betrayal, lies, and hurts. I send love and self care to people who are going, still going and keep going through this journey call life!! God bless you all Amen 🙏
@Sikklee232 жыл бұрын
Don't be embarrassed just be changed. We all find something to regret down deep in time...its what makes you human. Seek the beauty that is there and keep your head up ...look back to learn not to wallow.