The HARSH Truth About Dating/Marrying An Ethiopian as A Foreigner|| A&D Podcast Ep1

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Welcome to the newest podcast in town.
Amena from ‪@AmenaandElias‬ and I ‪@QueenDesta‬ will be having amazing conversations on different topics.
engage, support, love, share your opinions as well as what you want us to talk about this upcoming episodes.

[@lekanakala7128]

One thing that needs to be green to take relationship forward is for two of you to have shared values and shared vision.

[@AmenaandElias]

I agree! But what do you do when one person's values or visions changes over time? That is always the difficult question to answer.

[@lekanakala7128]

@@AmenaandElias Then you try to realign it and if not possible separation might be inevitable.

[@QueenDesta]

I fully agree

[@joelitos2000]

​@@AmenaandElias if a person loves you they will make the effort to be good to you

[@eliasyussuf1380]

Loved the podcast and I enjoyed both of your opinions and perceptions on Ethiopian men which is so related to most of the African love relationships ideology and facts in general cause as long as you live or have an African decent will definitely be related one way or another to your experiences with dating or being married to an ethiopian.with that being said love you both my African sisters and I would really suggest you to name your podcast " ignite your soul podcast" which is an inspiration from queen desta's outro on all her KZbin vlogs and it always gives me chill and so much meaning to it ...thanks again and keep going you two ... Elias from Zambia but originally from Ethiopia ❤️

[@QueenDesta]

I'm glad you enjoyed. Thank you for your contribution too

[@Haileambesa]

1.-I recommend you the movie 13 months of sunshine, about the deal of be inlove and also wants the passport 2.- jaja i think I'm more Ethiopian than Mexican even when i grew up all my life in Mexico 🤣 thanks for illuminate my life after 29 years

[@thelordismyshepherd3714]

Great convo, you guys are very respectful and I appreciate that. But about Habesha men being affectionate to their significant other, I guess they treat foreign women differently, because often times they don’t treat their Habesha woman well💔

[@joelitos2000]

Are you a female? How do they treat their women?

[@thelordismyshepherd3714]

@@joelitos2000 yes I am, although there are some exceptional men, but majority of them are disrespectful to their wife. There is no appreciation. They can be abusive financially, emotionally and even physically. But I have to say, for the younger generation I am noticing a shift, which makes me very hopeful.

[@babut4059]

Great show. Please keep it up.

[@QueenDesta]

Thanks, will do!.

[@fikredesta6203]

It has been a very interesting conversation. yes, let's keep doing this👍🏿

[@QueenDesta]

Thank you 🙂

[@Kinglioncrown]

I love Ethiopian women

[@joelitos2000]

Get one, they are very loving

[@yareddejene462]

Love what you did. Keep going. ❤❤

[@QueenDesta]

Thank you, will do

[@mygutfeelingoverlooked199]

I've dated few outstanding Habesha Ladies .. and im happy and very fullfilled with my current Lady... habeshas know how take care there man..

[@digimine7772]

You people seriously hate yourself. Love your own women

[@mygutfeelingoverlooked199]

🤣😀 I date who ever I want LOL. black white spanish asian ... actually once a habesha lady approached me in Canada ... that were my neighbors for 25 years ... and she expressed to me that if i was available she marry me.... we living in 2024. like any other people including habeshas they have preferences. @@digimine7772

[@mygutfeelingoverlooked199]

everyone free like whom they want... why would I hate myself? revelation 7:9-11 john 3;16 Thx God for everything Peace to you! @@digimine7772

[@curtisoular]

Very Cool Convo!😎💯🎉🥳

[@QueenDesta]

Thank you very much

[@laltariku9253]

Queen please talk about dating in Nairobi. It is also very interesting

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

Most important discussion

[@QueenDesta]

Thank you

[@andbeyond9085]

👍👍I liked this video.

[@QueenDesta]

I'm glad you enjoyed it

[@neilevans8196]

I am in the process of an Ethiopian woman. I am in New York City and she is from Ethiopia I am saving to move to Ethiopia. Can African American people find work at employment agencies that will help African Americans with jobs?

[@digimine7772]

No stay and love your own women or to your ancestry land of west Africa and marry a women from their leave us alone

[@missinjera1634]

Desta we'll not come at you dear, open communication seemed banned in our community😂😂

[@QueenDesta]

Thank you

[@lekanakala7128]

Hey @QueenDesta & @Amenateferi , you can use 'Afro Lifestyle' or "My Point of View(My POV)" as the Podcast name.

[@QueenDesta]

In the consideration box

[@Kinglioncrown]

Awesome

[@alexfk9912]

My two favourite people ❤ 💕

[@neilevans8196]

What are some ideas for African Americans to work in Ethiopia?

[@tmarcel1594]

Wait a minute!! I think you guys could have talked about your respective country, Kenya & Sudan. I bet you have a better understanding of the men of your country than Ethiopian men. But again, if you are just looking for a piece to fill in your vlog, that is understandable

[@QueenDesta]

We only have experience with Ethiopian men, never mind, in the future we will consider other countries

[@tmarcel1594]

@@QueenDestaOnly Ethiopian men!! Lol, Queen Desta!

[@AmenaandElias]

@@tmarcel1594 My Ethiopian husband of 7 years confirmed that what we said is true… what part specifically do you disagree on? I will bring it to him and see what he says.

[@tmarcel1594]

@@AmenaandElias Amena, I did not disagree with any of the things you said, though I have my reservation about some of the things. But again, that is just POV. My statement was made wondering if you could talk about men in Sudan & Kenya, whom you seem to have a better understanding of.Queen Desta explained that she never had experience with men in Kenya, or something along that line. If your answer is similar, then you are forgiven :-)

[@AmenaandElias]

@@tmarcel1594 I can talk about Sudanese men but understand the whole community will come for my neck 😂🤣

[@noahsirak4979]

What about something simple... like the "let's talk" podcast?

[@QueenDesta]

That has been taken already

[@mosessolomon6889]

How have you been Amena??

[@AmenaandElias]

I've been good thank you!!

[@QueenDesta]

Amena for you

[@addpuppets9326]

title, 'we're in love'

[@QueenDesta]

Lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@mimitek6140]

Like anywhere in the world there are good and bad people, there are Ethiopian womanisers and there are those who can be trusted. I don’t think they are different to other African men.

[@senda9782]

You moved back to Kenya 🇰🇪 ?

[@QueenDesta]

Not yet

[@coolnassa1420]

I’m from Kenya,I love Ethiopian culture and Ethiopian women,I try to search in Facebook but and dating sight but it’s very hard the can’t answer you quiet often specially if they know I’m not Ethiopian,very sad but never give up…:

[@howtotieatie5845]

You never give up selfhater. Love your Kenyan women.

[@QueenDesta]

Come to Ethiopia or consider where you are accepted too

[@dynapharmRwanda.69]

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[@QueenDesta]

Yes bot

[@DWEthiopia]

A guy and a girl can be friends if they both agree they both don't find each other attractive and both sides truly believe that.

[@AmenaandElias]

Yes I agree... But How can you be sure that both sides truly believe that? You can only control yourself.

[@DWEthiopia]

@@AmenaandElias That's true. You can never know for certain.

[@QueenDesta]

Mmh, interesting

[@addpuppets9326]

what about men who chew Chat/Qat . . . when dealing with addiction, I know many Ethiopian men are struggling to quit chewing chat. They won't even say a word about it until married . It's a nasty habit to rid off. So Desta if you . . . I mean when you're kissing a habesha carefully inspect his teeth. If his gums are greenish like a sheep which grazed grass, it's a big no no. Such grazers suffer from libido and have lower sperm count. I must say Amena is kinda lucky thou. . . 'cause Elias is far away from home and can't find Qat in the US. Desta . . . the clock is ticking . . . tic toc tic toc. . . make up your mind whom to marry. a kenyan or habesha? either way hurry up or you end up marrying a senior citizen.

[@AmenaandElias]

LOL you are hilarious!

[@QueenDesta]

@@AmenaandElias i was coming here to laugh too 😆

[@missinjera1634]

Who told you most Ethiopian mens are chat chewers ha?

[@addpuppets9326]

@@missinjera1634 I didn't say 'most' I said many. there is a difference

[@addpuppets9326]

Cousin! What?!

[@AmenaandElias]

Yes it's very common! lol

[@QueenDesta]

It happens

[@yohanneskassa4280]

Black American slang is the most attractive and beautiful .

[@yohan7782]

Naa it's not

[@QueenDesta]

I'm glad I'm not alone

[@pagola]

That's not black American slang

[@tmarcel1594]

Can a man and a woman be friends? My answer to this is, if she is extremely ugly, yeah, I will consider making her my friend :-)

[@QueenDesta]

Lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@joelitos2000]

Funny

[@sponsponm1]

Amena isn't even ethiopian she's sudanese

[@user-oq6ci6oq5l]

She's married to an Ethiopian

[@yareddejene462]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKraeoWVj6t_qtU I think you will enjoy and get some insight from this standup comedy by Chris Rock about platonic friendships. Sorry for his selection of words. 😂

[@QueenDesta]

Yes bot

[@babatundeoloye8127]

Hi Queeen Desta, I’m visiting Ethiopia soon in a couple of months and need some tips…can I send a message through to your email/Instagram pls

[@QueenDesta]

Yes you can [e-mail]