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[@user-jv4ic8rh4d]

Excuse me, building a man up?? NO!! I am a WM married to a BW. I build her up. As ALL men do ALL THE BUILDING in society. Facts. Women are only along for the ride. It's bc men have a desire to build a family which can only be done with a womb... I mean woman. That is why a man elevates himself. Men get joy and purpose in raising up the next generation. Women don't do that for a man, just participate in it.

[@RemTee-bh7nj]

And I'm so sick of people saying trend a trend sounds like it's something that's happening in the now that is not a f****** trend what is happening now has been happening since the beginning of slavery since the beginning of Christopher sale and his ass over here and finding indigenous blacks here

[@LetsTalkAbout1125]

Seeing Black women happy, makes me happy.

[@kaijazakora6644]

🤣

[@investirenafriquedepuisloccide]

​@@kaijazakora6644why are you mad?

[@timekabolden5309]

I need to see us happy with each other to CREATE MORE BLACK HAPPY PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!

[@JamesBrooks-hj3dz]

​@@timekabolden5309Amen.At least there's one sensible blkwmn in this cringy comment section.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Mina.15]

😂😂😂

[@newone6350]

They make them Black Wives not Baby Mommas

[@fayepatrice1672]

That’s the part everyone is ignoring. They’re life partners pouring into each other.

[@joimonae4090]

and if trump wins this election lets see how these marriages turn out i can see the tic toks now .......

[@newone6350]

@@joimonae4090 kzbin.info/www/bejne/j6vOnpWqnbeHaJo

[@newone6350]

@@joimonae4090 actually the statistics say they divorce less, I posted the study below in my reply

[@joimonae4090]

@@newone6350 black women and white men have small percentage in marriage in general so of course they will equally have small divorce rates DUHHH but like i said ima keep waiting until this election comes and see all that unfolds ill be waiting with my ice tea and lawn chair :) i hope they keep tic tok for that reason specifically

[@FunkyBruja]

Who do you think made black men popular.....BLACK WOMEN!!! Black women were never undesirable. Bm started saying that to make black women feel as though they had no options. It's so good to see black women have moved on to bigger and better relationships.

[@ryannecuthbert7460]

🫰🏽 🫰🏽🫰🏽

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Exactly what I said and now BW are moving on from BM, other women are not that interested any more.

[@Tf_u_talking_about_fool]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@annmariebarrett1671]

I like this comment. It is absolutely true… blk women have never been undesirable, history tells me so.

[@Saraimaz]

And what did bm do? Treated bw like crap. Why haven't we learned the lesson? Don't build men!

[@brandonworkman9196]

I’ve never thought black woman were the least desirable as a white man I’ve always thought black girls were so pretty 😊

[@MAROBI333]

❤

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Plckme

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Slmp

[@brandonworkman9196]

lol finding someone attractive isn’t simping 😂 payin all a bitch bills for love also those woman yall be calling pick mes get picked

[@nailahdawkins]

are*. Present tense! We appreciate the ❤🎉. Thank you, never stop 💯.

[@michaelbellinger1363]

It's 100% the truth. I've dated all races, and I'm a 45-year-old white man. I've never gotten more love than love from black women. Love the episode!

[@haute2death]

The Black Wife effect is not just about changing some clothes and haircut, It's emotional intelligence, a soul change and a raising a higher vibrational level. It's spiritual and the portal that's the closest to GOD and the universe can change anyone.

[@michaelbellinger1363]

@@haute2death I didn’t imply it was simply style changes. It’s an OVERALL concept.

[@FelixMuk]

45 year old 'white' man says it all...

[@CaliforniaGirl-pr4wx]

It's about the cultural style and being equipped to hold a man up. We have experience making a whipped and freshly cut down from a lynch tree man feel like a whole human again. No wife has that capacity more than a black woman.

[@cvzdez]

Thank you for the compliment! We appreciate what good white men have done for the world. We know there are bad apples 🍎 but we should not judge all for the deads of some or the sins of the father for thay of the son Heavy is the 👑 crown!. I know it is never touched on but I feel like sadly all white men get the same cloak of colonizer. But not all are. There are some really nice white men out here. I would say my best bosses was an Italian white man. I have never been disrespect by a white man and blk women I find we interacts gernally in work spaces, universities, if you have gone to an majority whote school, which is actually easier to to in America then people realize. Our interactions are usually respectful. I have never had a white man call me out my name. Now the secular star people tend to be coldish.. But my nost if you don't come for them they don't come for you. I appreciate white men getting critiqued by society and really making the changes. They understand that things have to change when it doesn't make sense, except for the zealots. But there are generally zealots among men no matter the color.

[@averieldeathrider8407]

Facts!! Imma full blooded German white man & my black fiance has treated me like a damn king!! I'm blessed!!

[@Mjfa9923]

That's good...😅

[@HeartBreakHigh]

You certainly are! Thank The Most High everyday!

[@Oisemuzeime]

Do you have a brother 😫🥰🥰🥹

[@averieldeathrider8407]

@Oisemuzeime Unfortunately, my brother passed yrs ago otherwise, I'd tell you him lol.

[@Oisemuzeime]

@@averieldeathrider8407 omg I am so sorry this, sending you and your family loads of love 😇

[@paulfrank7164]

Don't let them lie to u black women never been at the bottom of anything that's what the world wants us to think

[@conshedaashley]

100%

[@chattingman6777]

Your proving the reason. That black women are on the bottom. It's because your reckless with the mouth.

[@bigyella3666]

🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@feliciasmith150]

💯

[@taral5965]

Thank you. The Black men that really hate black women need to be called out and dismissed.

[@EricaYE6]

A Black woman won't let you walk out the door looking any kind of way. Your fit is gonna be on point.

[@nana_untamed]

Yeah and yall be looking so nice and clean

[@kbflawless93]

Facts! You’re not stepping out the house looking crazy with me.

[@LoveAlways333]

Any woman with half a brain knows to treat her husband like a king. Especially Latinas, we cater to our men. However, most black women come from broken homes with masculine moms. Therefore, most black women are barely getting the concept of consequences for being unsubmissive to their husbands because they've lacked masculine containment and will never understand the word "submission" or "respect."

[@styl_propr]

Str8 up!

[@neneyounge]

That's true

[@blah843]

The black women aren't the "least desirable"...it was more like the black women were the most "race loyal"...that's changing.

[@chattingman6777]

Treating the delusional mindset is so hard. Your the most masculine women on earth and men hate masculine women. Sorry brad worshiper the majority of every race date and marry within their race.

[@rasta487]

🎯

[@taral5965]

Facts.. I can’t believe this host said that and who is a black man… see it’s the black men that put down black women

[@leesureleetrippin7079]

Race loyal....???? Never heard of that. Being from the west I have to admit, it sure was a culture shock when we moved to the East Coast. Married to a blk man for 38 yrs. He wanted to move back west. Got much love from his family but the other woman. SMH even the Caucasian women were brutal. IT WAS TIME TO GO. Still together after 44 yrs together. Yes we lived together for five years, then my son came along. 🙏🤗

[@PrettyBones-ho4rq]

About time, black men didn’t appreciate what they had in black women but other men always knew, black women just wasn’t leaving, but now many of us are, about time

[@lm406]

It’s not a trend!!! Black women always elevate their men, it spreading . She was always a winner

[@blackexcellence4166]

Nope .wrong .bw always elevate non-black men. There's a difference.

[@12DreamsFull]

@@blackexcellence4166 Thousands upon thousands of black men have came up on BW only to go to the WW with all his money.

[@lm406]

@@blackexcellence4166 Y’all need elevation?

[@brandonthomas9705]

​@@12DreamsFull What?... Ma'am Statistics doesn't support your claim. Most black men are married to black women. Even the high value ones.

[@juanitawashington106]

​@@blackexcellence4166 Not all

[@jolewis2057]

You are the first black man that i came across that didn't have a negative response. Bravo👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 BTW, I've never heard a black woman say that they're not building up a man. Black women are tired of being taken for granted by our own...

[@VilVi-rv4gc]

How do we take stupid obnoxious ignorant selfish haters for granted ? I never heard a black say hello or thank you

[@majestic8861]

Exactly!🎯💯

[@SnapBack206]

@@VilVi-rv4gcwhat?

[@PrincessYonna1]

⁠@@VilVi-rv4gcbm have the lowest education, talk about stupid and ignorant, that would be yall! Never saying hello or thank you, that would be y’all disrespectful selves!

[@lovelyone98]

​​@@VilVi-rv4gcThen you must have never traveled. I say thank you and hello to all races. A lot of times you all pick ignorant women to date and then put all women in the same basket when things go wrong.

[@shelondasaxton5786]

I am a black woman. Did it with my black husband. He started acting like he look better than me. Started cheating. When I left, all I took was my swag.

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

Do you think whitening is going to stay with you for life successful white don’t even marry black women

[@candyxoxo19]

Wow 😯. I’m so sorry. May God compensate you for your loses and May you heal from marrying a narcissistic man.

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

Thisssss

[@middlesys9180]

That's right Shelonda! Take that magic elsewhere. The light belongs to you and it will shine wherever you stand!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@mik7564]

God bless you, sis! May the Lord love you and bless you.

[@jennyvone]

Wow this reminds me of a time I was at Target and this white guy asked me to help him find an outfit..his sister was with him and said why would you ask a complete stranger when I’m here. He said because she’s a black girl, & she’s knows what will look good! My jaw dropped 😮lol

[@leesureleetrippin7079]

That is just too cute!😊

[@audreywright7788]

I knew this guy years ago was getting married, white guy to his fiance who is also white. He asked me to come with him to pick out his suite for his wedding bless😊

[@KierrasWorld]

😂😂

[@Poeticfloetic]

​@audreywright7788 *Suit. Suite is a set of chairs.

[@georgiabrown7452]

Blessings In Your Relationships-Treating each Other the same way You would love ❤️ to be treated speaks volumes

[@shena9789]

😅Let Me Tell Y'all Something!! The FIRST Thing a Black American Woman is going to Do is? FIX YOU UP!!! From a 27yrs old, 6'2 Educated, 3rd World Immigrant, Off the Boat Pakistani; Over 30yrs Later, to a 6'2 Rich Pakistani Stud. With Hats and All. Over 30 years marriaged; Kids Grandkids, And ALL!! " HOMIE DON'T Play that!!😂😂

[@sherrisolomon8673]

A Pakistani? Wow! Wonder what THOSE discussions between you and him are like regarding the blatant Arab racism towards Afro Pakistani’s and their sounding countries in the Middle East against the rest of the Afro Middle East people.

[@shena9789]

@@sherrisolomon8673 Well, allow me to answer this way. My husband is not from the Middle East. His family Mother and father Originated from India. Before the Separation of India. Yes I am aware of the Mistreatment of AfroArabs or People with Africa Descent Living and may I add working in the Middle East. Not only do some Middle Easterners Mistreat Afros but the Indians, Pakistanis, Afghans, Filipinos, and anyone who ARE NOT One of Them. However, They DON’T PLAY with the Anglo-Saxons like that. Of course he doesn’t like it. There are many of his Country’s Men and Women who go there to Work and They DON’T Treat Them Well either. “Are Treated Very Very Badly.” I trust that answers your Question.🙂 From; The continent, of Southeast Asia.

[@sallyolembo9099]

It’s in all black women. We were taught to fix our men n elevate them. I saw my mom do the same n I’m African.

[@Cat-jn2fz]

kanye had a black girlfriend who was into fashion that taught him about fashion, so kim and her family can thank her.

[@juned1719]

This part 👆🏾

[@angellicbeautyproducts9479]

Black women are the most stylish fashionable and spiritually elevated people on the planet❤

[@therenegade2660]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@angellicbeautyproducts9479]

@@therenegade2660 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 no face no case

[@radedfaded3700]

🤣🤣🤣

[@51Saffron]

My brother's wife is African. They have been married for 25 years, and when they walk out the front door, they are always stylish. My brother was not that way before he met his wife. All three children, now young adults, always look well groomed. She is an amazing wife and mother and we all love her. My brother treats her like a Queen.

[@uchihaitachi4629]

The black husband doesn’t quite hit the same as the black wife IMO

[@Heat_Rush]

That's because black men are always seen with non black women. Black women move in silence and don't put their non black partner on display, because when a black woman steps out it's for love. So this is new and refreshing to a lot of people. Plus, non black women don't really change when being with a black guy other than having more expensive clothes. There is a noticeable difference in white men, because they're usually casual in their clothing.

[@labeezly6080]

In your opinion?? It’s a fact love. You stated a fact!

[@HeartBreakHigh]

That’s exactly what I was thinking! 😂

[@user-nf4tm1fc3x]

Yep!

[@Bobisworld]

Exactly… I wasn’t impressed

[@GoToSheol]

They gaslight us when we are appreciated elsewhere is simply hilarious

[@yprimrose]

True. BM have to mature to see our awesomeness that others races see right away.

[@Heat_Rush]

​@@yprimrose Forgot them. We're over it.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Their psychology is so twisted. They tell the world they don’t want BW. Then kick off when BW go where they are loved. BM can’t stand other men having the wonderfullness of a BW, because BM know how amazing BW are, even if they don’t admit. They only want BM to get the advantages of being with a BW, even though they “prefer” non BW.

[@davidmendy9906]

Remember the cool is in our DNA (male or female). All we need is some peace of mind at home. Have fun ! 23:09

[@chattingman6777]

😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆. Pure comdey.

[@MsAsha-mf7tz]

Black women are waking up and seeing that the grass is green 💚 on the other side. And you don't have to accept one sided loyalty and being treated harshly. Congrats to the loving couples. Love to see it.

[@lotusjumpingspider8761]

i love that your said the grass is green and not greener. Much respect queen

[@HeartBreakHigh]

No more tumbleweed grass 😂

[@lebomorake-dj9ro]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@chattingman6777]

Its amazing Keisha you want to blame black men for your problems. You have been picking brad for the longest and get absolutely nothing from it. Now this time is different! 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣. Do you Keisha.

[@samanthayates8812]

​@@chattingman6777who hurt you?

[@lyndamartinez6031]

I think one of the reasons for the Black women/Asian man dynamic is not because they are both undesirable. I think it has more to with the levels of education they both have.

[@labeezly6080]

‼️‼️‼️

[@HeartBreakHigh]

The world knows BW are not the most undesirable. That’s just BM pushing that lie in an attempt to mind control BW in to nit looking elsewhere. You are spot on with the matching education attraction 👍🏾

[@-Secret]

That would make a little bit of more sense, in comparison to women black women have the most education, in comparison to men, Asian men tend to have more education, but I also think that the negative beliefs are also built on dynamics within each community, Asian women avoid Asian men not because they’re physically undesirable, not because they find their own race less then, but because of the treatment they have been receiving. Asian women tend to be traditional wives, but are treated more like servants, and for the ones who don’t choose that life the economy is a bit more difficult to navigate for a female. As for black women, we hear negative things about them, but logical we know it’s due to black men trying to keep attention away from every negative thing that THEY have done, as well as internal hate. Realistically speaking the ones who commit more crimes within the black community are black men, the ones less educated are black men, the ones who neglect their children are black men, the ones who sell and use drugs are black men, (speaking solely within the black community, this isn’t in comparison to other races) and because of their own negative life styles it has negatively affected the women, thus affecting the children. So it only makes sense that there is more to it

[@pasadenaroze4776]

​@@-SecretDon't leave out so called black men don't get the same opportunity as pale men out of pure envy. And so called black men are not the worst fathers according to the CDC pale men are. The lies spread about so called black men NEEDS to stop kuz black men are not the worst ppl on the planet that would your pale men the barbarians

[@carolbowman-thomas1183]

Been married to a black man for 18 yrs and he just stared listening to me. If he listen early we would be so far advantage in finances. Black me don't like to be told what to do.

[@pasadenaroze4776]

That's true..they are not good listeners at all. My children's father has been in jail since 1998 for not listening. SMH so they pay a hard price for it too. And I am a Sista so I know

[@tamiekawilliams3502]

Preach!!!

[@mburst71]

I got a white husband and he don't like listening to wise advice either. Now that our kids are grown he's finally listening and realizing things should have been done differently.

[@virgirma1328_PhD_scholar]

misplaced ego!

[@epd0126]

that sister that spoke nailed it...we elevate and increase everything that we touch...black girl magic!!!

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

elevate what? black women left black men a long time ago to build the ghetto

[@chattingman6777]

The bald head girl with a nose ring. Your basing it on a woman who will never get picked by men. Ok. Have fun with that lets see how it works for you.

[@empowered3206]

Bw are just living their best lives and I am here for it❤

[@jamesmarie]

And Jon B says, "ya'll just got on. I have been on."

[@LilithSpeaks.88]

Freakin awesome!!!

[@bigtatsu]

I'm a Puerto Rican man and I love black women. My girlfriend is a black woman from the US Virgin Islands. The best lover I've ever had.

[@kevinc3342]

So... marry her!!

[@natillefoxy9881]

May your relationship be blessed and may it grow!!!❤

[@Tatianarain]

@@kevinc3342exactly! I paused at “lover”. Black women being reduced to a lover with great sex and a banging body does us so much disservice esp after being fetishised by black men lol. Lame cus we deserve to be wives loved and cherished with utmost affection n respect

[@nicktubara]

She the best eh, she rock hard in bed? Niiice.

[@nicktubara]

​@@LoveNiki47nice name. You look much younger than 47 tho.

[@LetsGoRissa]

I love this for blk women. Am not a blk woman. I am native. But let me say this. When i was in junior high(went to a moslty yt school) i use to get picked on but this teacher Ms. Gary stood up for me and raised my self esteem. I was never the same since. She sadly passed away 8 yrs ago. But i always had good experiences with blk women. They need the love they give

[@ChristinaChrist-3999]

🗣️💕

[@valeriareed7234]

Bless you🖤⚡️💫✨

[@kiki11974]

That’s awesome!!!

[@mishamandudi75]

We, black women, level up ANY man we are with when they actually LISTEN!!!!! If the man is still dusty, it is because he doesn't listen to us! Mesage!!!!

[@whomadeusrace3857]

The difference is that these women, MOST LIKELY are NOT building these men up FINANCIALLY. And A LOT of the times, that's what they're doing in these other relationships. When a Woman is Cherished & treated well, her Soft side has a chance to come out & she GUSHES LOVE ALL OVER that man. Too often Black Women don't have the opportunity to get to this point because she's working too hard, often for the both of them & the kids.

[@Mini-ge9sm]

Funny those were my exact thoughts. Most of these white and Asian men look fairly well established. You naturally will pour into a man when you feel secure and stable. Which is sadly easier to find in white and Asian men.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

100% correct! 🙌🏾

[@snewman25]

TRUTH

[@user-by2dk9ns8s]

Agree 100!

[@debrabusby6581]

True

[@moimoiofeegusi4823]

So happy to see black women loved and celebrated by strong protective men. Bm shout out to the world that we are ugly, masculine, no good etc and they reject us 24/7. They should be quiet when it comes to us finding good men who love us!

[@DifferentDose]

Exactly!!!

[@moimoiofeegusi4823]

@@MewluMoon Because you hate yourself but not as much as you hate the truth which is right in front of your face. The world is watching and the truth is being shown. Before you try to gaslight someone who is clearly smarter than you, wash your buttocks I beg. It is stinking up the place!

[@jhovauni]

#Facts!

[@yprimrose]

Exactly. That is the main reason so many good BW are single and never been married. The older we get the pool of men qualified to treat us right gets even smaller.

[@Heat_Rush]

​@@yprimrose Teach your daughters not to wait until they get older to step out. The younger generation of black girls are already out here with their white, Hispanic, and Asian men.

[@ms.one-town901]

One thing I have to disagree with your comment about the Black Woman not willing to pour into a man. I’ve had family and friends who poured their entire heart and soul into a BM and came out on the losing end. They are the ones who no longer have it in them to pour into anyone anymore. They’ve been damaged, used and abused. They deserve to be loved back into a positive space! ♥️

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

whit men are not marrying black women y’all chasing men that only want to take You to pound town. White men, Latino men, Asian men, altogether married black women at 3%. I have Latino friends who have three and four black baby mamas no marriages. Your friend has bad choices and men.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

I know. BW pour themselves into everybody else and forget themselves!

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

True ❤

[@krazyboutkeekee92]

This is the comment I was looking for... My godmom poured into her husband and 3 kids and he left her for the local diner waitress after 20 years... Black woman are simply tired

[@HeartBreakHigh]

@@krazyboutkeekee92 More like exhausted 😵‍💫. The younger generation are thankfully not going to take the 💩 previous generations of BW took.

[@soniapinkney1342]

Thank you for NOT bashing Black women !! We don’t get the good words or uplifting by many Blk men on soc media .. that’s usually reserved for white women !! Thanks again …❤

[@TChalla007]

How do you feel about black women bashing black men in the NFL draft for being with white women, just curious.

[@Lady-Evonne77]

​@@TChalla007Personally, I could not care less. Find happiness wherever you can. Doesn't matter what color they are. Love is love. Statistically though, they're relationships don't usually last. Black men and White women have the second highest divorce rates while Black women and White men have the 2nd lowest divorce rate. Black men and Black women have the highest divorce rates of everyone while White men and White women have the 3rd highest divorce rates. Asian women and Asian men have the lowest divorce rate. Everyone else falls somewhere in between. Black men are the most divorced men while Black women are most divorced from Black men. The math points to a problem with our Black men. And from what I've witnessed in my 46 years on this planet as a Black woman, I've seen why the math says that. There's a whole lot of factors at work here creating those statistics. Some are due to what others have done to us, especially the men, and some are of their own making. It's complex and a lot of change is needed. There are good Black men. But there seems to be an overabundance of broken ones running around creating broken families, living broken lives, which further contributes to the destruction of our community. Black women are now surpassing Black men in every way that matters. So they're also marrying men that are on their level educationally, financially, socially, and emotionally. And there aren't enough Black men that can fill those roles especially since we outnumber them. So it's either be alone, settle for less, or try something else. That's why you see Black women going elsewhere to find what they want and need. I don't think it really matters to them what race they are. It just matters what these other men add to their lives. Most Black women would prefer to date their own men, but they're not finding what they're looking for with them so here we are🤷🏽‍♀️. I'm sure there will be negative reactions to what I'm saying, mostly from black men avoiding any accountability. I give zero fucks. Stats don't lie. The truth is what it is regardless of how it hurts your feelings. Instead of being angry with the truth, maybe take accountability and try to fix the problems like we've tried to get you to do with us. I said what I said. It is what it is.

[@soniapinkney1342]

@@TChalla007To each his own , but it’s common to see rich black men with ww .. of course I’d like to see bm with bw , give a Blk woman and Blk children a good soft life … but still to each his own … I hope this not just a trend , I love to see Blk women , feel soft , protected and loved … 🥰 Don’t u wish good things for black women too ??

[@TChalla007]

@@soniapinkney1342 80% of black men making over 100K are married to black women. The problem I have is too many of our women talk about not dating corny, square men in our community, but will date the same type from another race.

[@brandonthomas9705]

​@soniapinkney1342 Yall are really starting to sound like some of these white supremacist out here. Ma'am the statistics doesn't support your claim.

[@ShamooStu]

I decided to "date outside my race" because a LOT of Black guys are on the downlow. Married now, he's white, he's great, he appreciates me even if he can't quite figure me out. He my handsome boo.

[@jeromec7595]

You are right unfortunately. And as a gay black man a lot of them brothas date white women

[@Itslewieo]

Homosexuality came from white men,

[@kaijazakora6644]

Is this really true. The Tribal King is really coming soon and Dyno Afos will finally be retored Yes.

[@timekabolden5309]

So... Them other races don't be?!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@KodjoAyisi]

See that’s that bullsh!t already calling the Blackman gay. As usual . Which is why you see bm with white women we can confide in them without being called gay.

[@Leewest76]

It’s true if you build a black man , he will start cheating on you.

[@crosstudio]

of course, because YOU built him. where is the self esteem in that? but if you were there for him when he was building himself then he won't cheat on you, because he has self esteem and doesn't need to look outside his relationship for validation.

[@lynnesperience1872]

@@crosstudioThat’s where principles, CHARACTER and LOYALTY steps in.

[@tinab8466]

I have to agree with the BW elevating the BM and they cheat on them and leave them. I know of instances of this happening that is why I never date WM that were Black male identified. I suggest running not walking from these type of men.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

@@crosstudio Of course? Why of course? There’s is no of course, cheating is somebody’s choice, NOT a matter of course! Moreover, if the BM was capable of building himself, then he’d just get in and do that. The fact that he let a BW build him, is because he’s not capable. BM know their women will build them and make them more attractive to other women and this is why they run off and cheat. It’s their plan and intention from the get go. Bruck BM specifically go for BW.

[@chattingman6777]

​@@lynnesperience1872your goofy as hell.

[@loriannrichardson7644]

Nah, Kanye is a result of the Black girlfriend effect. He even talked about how his Black girlfriend elevated his style. Look up his history. The Kardashian effect is literally the Black woman effect by way of Kanye.

[@kimberlyj7248]

OMG!!! I Forgot about that!!!

[@vicforia350]

Even Kelis with Pharrell Williams back in the days….

[@kishaw9573]

By way of Ray Jay he started it all...

[@loriannrichardson7644]

@@kishaw9573 Kim wasn't wearing clothes with Ray J. 😂😂😂

[@girlk1598]

He still left the black woman...

[@HoneyBeeCrafts]

The man paralyzed and his Therapist turned wife. I cried, it was so loving. Made me think of my hubby

[@aiihairyou1336]

She wasn't his therapist, she was volunteering at the hospital where he went for therpapy and that's where they met. He got the story wrong.

[@Lady-Evonne77]

I love Cole and Charisma. They're awesome.

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@aiihairyou1336 No, she’s a physical therapist. He incorrectly said she was his nurse.

[@4daluvofnikki]

@@aiihairyou1336 No. Charisma was Cole’s Physical Therapist. That is how they met.

[@ludy41]

😢She is a trained physiotherapist ​@@aiihairyou1336

[@MoeSoNatural]

Great video! One of the reasons that there is a black wife effect is bcuz nonblack men don’t feel it a chin-check or ego threat when their black woman give advice on dressing , swag, how to command a room with simple presence, etc. Non black men don’t use their ego as the fullness of their identity. Why? Because masculinity means way more than their peen. There is a deeper conversation to have about this, whole dissertation !

[@angelacarswell3690]

Interesting.

[@anonymousprivet1227]

🙂 I was typing my dissertation in the comments section then the screen went blank and erased my comment before it loaded. I did not want to start over so I deeply appreciate that you expressed my exact thoughts already.

[@LEEN-ur4gt]

MOST WOMEN WHO SAY THEY WILL NO LONGER BUILD A MAN HAS EXPERIENCED A "MAN" WHO WAS NARCISSISTIC, DIDN'T APPRECIATE ANYTHING SHE DID FOR HIM, AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF HER KINDNESS (WHICH THEY THINK ARE WEAKNESSES). THIS EXPERIENCE WILL CHANGE ANYONE, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE MORE MATURE.

[@easol]

🤎🤎🤎 no lies detected

[@AtheneHolder]

!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@crystalwilkerson5137]

Absolutely! Like the song says " When a Good Girl's Gone she's gone forever, and now you gotta deal with the fact you did me wrong forever!"

[@angelofmery21]

Right. They always leave that part out when attempted to making a so called "point". I watched on KZbin since 2018 Black women getting s@!tted on unmercifully. Even then with their white partners making videos. Then it was a shift. Bw got tired. Now me. I have dated almost everything and currently with a beautiful BM but facts are facts. We constantly get gaslighted and I wouldn't mess with a BM that us unhealed from post traumatic slave syndrome. It's only a certain kind of BM I will deal with. I can't even deal with Black people that think on the extreme. It's crazy how the black race have been so divided. It's embarrassing. Folks don't have to waste their life arguing and proving something. Heal and so whatever it takes to live a happy life without labels and justification

[@treshelljacksonmcclendon4178]

After 14yrs my husband lost his vision due to glaucoma and we are still happily married on the 18th of this month we’ve been married for 26yrs and in a relationship for 31yrs

[@Atari313]

the first thing they do is take them to the barbershop lol

[@Napptrully_Beautiful]

And do.

[@leegaleaglenombo9430]

😂

[@nethansmomma9795]

😂😂I’ve been looking for this comment 😂😂😂

[@Napptrully_Beautiful]

@@nethansmomma9795 ngl I knew it was over when my husband switched barbers.

[@nethansmomma9795]

@@Napptrully_Beautiful God 😂🤣🤣

[@sarahreviewsinasmr]

Why is everyone so jealous of black women😂.

[@daphneytennard3267]

Nobody is showing jealousy...they're showing love❤😊

[@amethyste684]

to all the pretty sweet black women out there, anybody disrespectful / rude to you is 100% envious. Love y’all❤️

[@shaungarrett5291]

There is no one jealous of the most single, least married, most evicted, most debt group. Yall think too highly of yourselves.

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

@@shaungarrett5291You’re the perfect example of a jealous triggered person. 😂

[@shaungarrett5291]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 so stating facts means I'm jealous and triggered?? Carry on...

[@khurr]

Can only applaud this since the internet makes it seem like most black women want or need a 100k man…this can prove that the sisters are out here dealing withregular income earning men.

[@kingsarverjr502]

Only if they're white.

[@demetriusevans4139]

Oh, yeah. If he's White. You'll take any of them.

[@lovelyone98]

@khurr Most sisters are dealing with men making under 100k. Don't believe all that crap you see on the internet.

[@reclaimingminds2811]

​@@lovelyone98Exactly, we are not that shallow but they Focus on those with ratchet behaviour ❤

[@JB-rn1kd]

I am a Ginger Iranian and my first gf was Black, I cant go back.

[@LiterallyTho]

Ginger Iranian? 😍

[@marinamerveille7731]

🤣🤣🤣❤

[@mellajoe]

😂

[@mellajoe]

Love Middle Eastern men

[@daradiant1]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@cr33pykrawlrgrl]

I do the same thing for my man I built him up and get him stuff and make him look good and keep him feeling confident and my man is black and I am a black woman too

[@tashabseay2124]

That's right sis💯🔥🔥

[@user-tm3br2dw1u]

The LIE'S 😅😅😅 if your doing that and you happy and he happy turn the comet just left doesn't even matter blessings to y'all

[@cr33pykrawlrgrl]

@@user-tm3br2dw1u I didn't comment for clout I told the truth so people know that it is possible. Yes we are happy. Our children are happy too. Just because you haven't seen it doesn't make it not true. Hope you find GOD and you can be happy too. GOD bless you

[@CantBELV74]

Thank you sister. These people trippin.

[@chocolateangel8743]

@cr33pykrawlgrl I noticed that you said, "man' instead of "husband." Do you see the difference?

[@onamiilove777]

Why the blk men look like they turning into old white men, with golf shirts. But on the real, the blk women effect on the white man is epic per them. It's more than appearance it deeper than skin. The passion, the security, education , the strong femininity they draw out and the mutual financial goals is amazing ❤❤❤

[@timekabolden5309]

🤣😭😭😭😆😆😆🤣😭😆

[@blackexcellence4166]

The overwhelming majority of y'all are single.

[@Michael22352]

We work harder than them so of course we gonna be older and its not just black men even black women are aging faster something is off with our genetics its like its under attack, and I wouldn't put it past these wytes to do some unscrupulous shyt

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

💀🤣

[@sarahcarr7343]

And the other race men LOL its not just white men but to keep it real latino men usually have style beforehand like my hubby he dressed nice and looked cool before he met me the only change is his confidence and he's happier

[@zahararay5611]

I didn’t even know this was a thing, but it makes sense. I’m a black women and 30 yrs ago, Canada, in high school’ my first boyfriend was Greek. He was cute but had this massive euro fro and bifocals that made his blue eyes pop, and not in a good way 😂 and his clothes…no words. After about 6 months of being together, I introduced him to gel and moose, cologne , suggested progressive glasses, and became his personal stylist. It was fun. His friends and Family obviously gave me all the credit in his transformation. He turned into a Greek God. I didn’t anticipate all the girls that would come for my man though. The down side of the ‘effect’ but It was definitely magic. I’m so happy with this positive black women promotion ❤

[@DauphinPourpre]

Note, y'all, I'm a BW that was married to a WM when I was younger. As I improved myself, physically, education, career. That WM became emotionally & mentally abusive because he wasn't capable of upping his game. I left him, worked on myself, & put energy into my career. When I was ready, I met the right man for me (yes, he's ⚪). We leveled up & gave each other the love that we always needed. It's visible inside & out. Side note, he's divorced, I actually received a thank you from his ex-wife for loving & supporting her teen sons unconditionally. I was shocked.

[@user-kw9ny8tk5k]

He basically started acting like some bm.

[@dgw2490]

Bottom line is that the love and respect is reciprocated. My son is dating a white girl, but she has taken him out of the hood. He loves snowboarding and hiking. He's doing stuff that he didn't normally do. The same with the black woman. White men are having these amazing experiences with black women, not to mention the love, respect, good conversation, fun, excitement, sassiness, good cooking, and good lovin'! I love it!

[@b.taylor8758]

Tell em bout that black woman effect! 🕺🏽✨

[@FelixMuk]

Tell 'em about the B-side too!

[@MAROBI333]

Right? I love this so much. Black women are so dope. ❤

[@bigtatsu]

Being with a black woman feels like being near the creator. All I'm going to say.

[@b.taylor8758]

@@bigtatsu Preach

[@MAROBI333]

@@bigtatsu beautiful

[@piscesillustrations]

@10:54 but it was a Black woman (One of his ex girlfriends) who elevated Kanye's style and taught him about fashion before he ever got with Kim. So I guess Kim is the product of the Black woman effect as well.

[@user-nf4tm1fc3x]

Yep

[@kiga928]

Black people are the blueprint for EVERYTHING and we start pretty much EVERYTHING. This situation reminds me of Kylie and Tyga. He said she wouldn't have done the wigs and selling makeup if it wasn't for him putting it in her head and I wholeheartedly believe it

[@michaelsmith8947]

Yep and we are also known for the most ratchet things in world as well. 😂

[@tyb4839]

Let's not claim everything unless you're going to specify the good things.

[@universelegion3470]

what a dumb take

[@djholidaytv414]

@@michaelsmith8947 As black men we gotta stay focus on US and TAP in with SELF. Sisters who want or bless with seeking love elsewhere then let them do them. WE got much better things to achieve. A great recurring and remembrance story will be told from this

[@djlivvy46]

I wonder why bm are so interested in wigs and makeup? 🤔

[@IndigoWisdom1]

That Million Dollar Baby song is the epitome of the "black friend effect". 😅

[@gigithebarberbeauty7146]

😂😂😂

[@Ncognito579]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kuldoxy5637]

BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THE LEAST ATTRACTIVE TO OTHER MEN BUT TO BLACK MEN. Loving this trends and I'm here for it!🥰👏🏿

[@deniseyeaisaidit]

It wasn’t his personal opinion . He’s quoting stats

[@globalcitizen1138]

Stupid stats and he dared repeat them.

[@frederickvalencia4976]

I am Mexican, and my wife is black. Lol, in our relationship, she is the one that changed 🤣. She dresses with more of a latin flare and also she change her cooking. But this happen slowly, especially with kids. Lol I love it and her family obviously can see she loves me. 😊 I belive it happens to all couples is just more obvious with mixed couples but when you date some one of the same race you may pick up a thing or two from your partner.

[@JosephineMaryo]

I love it 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tw4943]

Black people LOVE Mexican people. Like DEEP DEEP

[@amethyste684]

blacks + mexicans ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

My husband is white, and now I make beef stroganoff. 😂

[@justinarazo8857]

I been married to a Mexican from Leon, GTO for 11 years .. his brother dates black women and they call her a chamuca 😅 But what u say otherwise is true.

[@deshia1471]

Sometimes I have to remind myself that black women are trendsetters and other women try to emulate us. I love the black woman effect but the spin offs not so much. Not because I care about who black men are with but because I feel like we can't have anything without other women trying to do the same thing....but not as well

[@highlovevibration]

I agree, gotta copy everything..never original

[@Heat_Rush]

This, and the crazy part is WHITE MEN started this trend, not us. The fact that other women have to do it themselves is very telling. But, no, nobody lets black women have the spotlight.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Yup.

[@shelbysittig1047]

Like what? I don’t need hair extensions. I never grew up around black women to say I stole anything or emulate anything black. I guess I’m one of the few white women that have stayed confident in my own skin to not demand the need for someone else’s trends that are here today and gone tomorrow. 🤔

[@highlovevibration]

@shelbysittig1047 white women wear hair extensions, I modeled as a teen, saw it all the time..

[@phild8602]

I'm lovin' seeing these sistas happy and being loved as they deserve.

[@righteousindignation5104]

Black people are the Salt Of the Earth (duh) we add flava to everything ❤🤘🏾✌🏾

[@HoneyBeeCrafts]

I’m so happy for all these people finding amazing partners on both the wife AND husband sides. There’s beauty in all races in my opinion. It’s all about finding the good one.

[@ewm4266]

You really made made me cry by your statement that when we build bm, they end up cheating on us, it really hit home

[@alona724]

LOL As a black woman who dated an Asian guy I can honestly say it had NOTHING to do with us looking at demographics and then saying hey let’s link up… it was just totally random… probably wouldn’t have happened except for the internet. I think the internet is linking people together that wouldn’t have already been in each other’s circles

[@rahra2483]

The thing is the black wives are elevating their man's aesthetic. The men they're with probably already weren't scrubs, that's the difference.

[@LahleePalooza53]

This is Beautiful...remarried to a Puerto Rican his whole style changed everyone noticed ❤ It is known that as a people men or women we are more compassionate, supportive, and confident. We are crisis managers we can go into chaos and calm the storm or we can bring it!😅...That's the Love and strength our parents instilled in us!

[@deborahgardner7862]

The lady that looks Asian, her Asian man poured into her, made her happy, gave her confidence, she wanted to change, he didn’t badger her to change, it’s a big difference.

[@donettahuggins2635]

Why are we surprised that the descendants of our ancestors that nursed and raised America won’t upgrade anything they touch 🥰🤣🤣I’m loving this trend

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

there are going to be a lot of more black baby mothers with this trend whiten men don’t marry black women they’re already millions of black single mothers made by other races of men

[@kyndread71]

10:05 -- That black queen turned him into her very own Travis Kelce.

[@user-zk4en8lv2r]

lol travis's ex girlfriends turned him into Travis Kelce.

[@amarisimpson1506]

He too is the result of the BW effect. He couldnt even get a TS without us.

[@candyxoxo19]

Well thanks bc for years black women have only heard negativity. There are so many single black lady teachers where I work who are amazing. I hope people of all genders build marriages where they can succeed and be happy.

[@user-nf4tm1fc3x]

​@@amarisimpson1506That's right 💯

[@varroz6926]

The crazy part is that WE'VE ALWAYS BEEN THIS BEAUTIFUL INSIDE & OUT !!! 👸🏽🤞🏽❤️ I've said it more than once 👉🏽All you have to do is LOVE, PROTECT, AND TREAT US GOOD ! 🤞🏽🙏🏽❤️ THANK YOU TO EVERYONE FINALLY GIVING US OUR PROPS !!! 🙌🏽💯💯💯💯

[@Liyahblu]

There is a difference between building and carrying the whole relationship on your back.

[@GenXfrom75]

Find someone, any race, that makes you want to be the best version of yourself! ❤❤❤

[@universelegion3470]

if only more people had this mindset

[@Heat_Rush]

Black conversation.

[@GenXfrom75]

@@Heat_Rush no. It’s just a conversation.

[@shelbysittig1047]

Yes! This!

[@raquelr8775]

Wow I am amazed, but not surprised. I always tell my non-black male friends/family they need to date/marry black women. My experiences with black women THEY ARE THE BEST.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

That black husband effect 😂 she actually looked better before.

[@kehindegbadamosi1552]

lol

[@Mini-ge9sm]

I was thinking the same!!😢

[@HeartBreakHigh]

I know, I thought the same. There is no comparison between the two effects. The blk husband effect ain’t working 😂

[@dguthrie1]

Y’all are pathetic

[@grammynomineesbts1086]

BW and AM are not deciding to link up because of being the least desired. If you wanted to make that statement, just say it and own it. Why do people always make this kind of backhanded statements as if it's funny?

[@TVwriter23]

Actually that was one of the talking points of BWAM/AMBW

[@christopherhancock1723]

This is for real. I had a black girlfriend for a while. Before her I just wore boots and jeans, but she got me wearing Jordans for some reason and polo shirts. I don't know why, but she liked me wearing that stuff so I just rolled with it.

[@Jewelzbabiii]

"for some reason" 😂😂😂 idk why that tickled me

[@haute2death]

The Black Wife effect is not just about changing some clothes and haircut, It's emotional intelligence, a soul change and a raising a higher vibrational level. It's spiritual and the portal that's the closest to GOD and the universe can change anyone one.

[@cemeciam.4019]

Yeahhh, she was dressing you as an urban black guy in a white man’s body. Jordans anddd Polo Shirts? Sis, knew what she was doing. Lol, these TikTok trends be ridiculous. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@PrincessYonna1]

Lmao 🤣

[@timekabolden5309]

🆗🙄👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣​@@cemeciam.4019

[@kjackson032]

Soooo funny as a black woman married to my Italian Irish husband of 24 yrs…. I get it lol

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

i’m sorry to hear that you must be going through hell. Are the children successful? I don’t see how Iwite man knows how to raise black children.

[@tonychesssnutsss1404]

I’m sorry to hear that you must be going through hell

[@shantenafreeman8908]

🎼That old Black Magic has me in it's spell. Don't hate. Folks have been trying to tear down Women of color from the beginning. Now. Let us do Our Thang 😜

[@I_AM6868]

So glad you highlighted that this is about more than just a makeover. No guy is making you his wife just because you helped him get a fresh line up.

[@yellowhearttarot6229]

I love the positivity and the love shown. It’s very hard being a woman period! But as a black women we face so much adversity from our own ! Finally our magic is being noticed

[@bribricotin659]

It's true! I went to Church Gala in Orlando FL at the Rosen Hotel and just by how the white man were dressed you knew who married a black women and who didn't. I mean its crazy to say but it's the truth.

[@ChristiGo]

Asian Men and Black Women Are Not the Least Desirable; but Hey, If that Makes You Feel Better About Yourself Go Right On Ahead Believing A LIE👸🏽🙏🏽

[@12DreamsFull]

Gurl you betta Preach!!! I don't know why BM are always trying to convince us that we are the ugliest most unwanted women in the world when our crossover divorce rate is not the not the most horrendous as theirs is.

[@lovingfaith5092]

Well, he had to put that in there so he could humble bw and make the world think we aren't really desired by other races of men. But it's done out of desperation. They love to tell the world how undesirable bw are.

[@Mjfa9923]

Exactly

[@Mini-ge9sm]

Funny the Asian dude and black woman was hella good looking couple!! ❤❤❤

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

It was the first time hearing that 😂

[@EricaYE6]

5:55 Asian men are gorgeous. 😍🥰😘

[@janyahyahudah7894]

That black man that spoke was so on point ! I never realized. With all the changes I assist my husband with. If he say one thing about me I’m livid 😂😂😂😂

[@swvolleyball9137]

There’s a difference between “building” a style standard in a man who already has his own and “building up” a man who is simply leaching your money, energy and self esteem. I built my husbands style library and we BOTH brought the $$$ to elevate our lives. Previous boyfriends I stupidly tried to build insisted that I build on my dime and he used that style to get lots of side chicks. There is a difference.

[@soniapinkney1342]

Thank you for not bashing black women !! We are great , God made us for men ! ❤🙏🏽🔥

[@lanalou2749]

The Asian husband effect!! On the whole, meeting a guy who empowers you and brings out your Queen is the most awesome experience a woman can have!! ❤🎉

[@Lulu-wv1nt]

BW being loved right and being wives❤

[@CrystalHickerson]

I used to be married to a white man and I have dated other white men as well and when I was with them I felt like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders from dating a black man. With a black man, all of this negativity on a daily basis and some of it of course is warranted. We know what goes on with black people in general but it was so much and then you try to do for them and make them feel loved and appreciated and wanted and it's always just about them. Everything is about them and then they still cheat. They still treat you like crap. Talk about you. It's just horrible but with a white man or another race they usually don't have a lot of these issues. So already out of the gate you're starting with someone who is more positive. Someone who doesn't have that negative energy for obvious reasons and you can just be together and it's amazing! Disclaimer -not all black men.

[@user-ep6dn8mk4p]

When the relationship isn't oil and water this is good things happen

[@NurseNessey]

Speaking from an interracial relationship experience, we don’t build them up, they literally step up to the plate. We may throw in some ideas, but they definitely put in more than average effort to keep us. I don’t know at first I thought it was weird but that’s how valuable we are to them. They actually show you that I am willing to do everything in my power to keep this happiness.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Yeah, it’s not a construction job, it’s a mutual relationship.

[@Blue-jq9wu]

That’s true and it’s also in a black relationship when the man is real , I believe all races this is true it take 2 people who are there for each other , I Love Love this. Ew Black and White Effect 🔥🔥🔥and the Song and the men got Swag GQ Style that really make that change hard core love it

[@NurseNessey]

@@Blue-jq9wu that’s not the norm in black relationships unfortunately. You find the women always building up the man and him leaving for his preference once he’s done when he should have just went to his preference to begin with.

[@nolasway878]

Elevation is not just about looks and finances.

[@creative_panda_system2852]

I love the paralyzed couples dynamic. They are sooooo sweet. He does have limited mobility but they work together and she cares for him to the fullest and he cares for her so much I have been following him for soooo long they are amazing together. The black wife affect is amazing and they pour into each other, not just pouring into the man one sided. They are elevating each other is what they are not seeing. I poured into my ex-husband for 20 years and he stopped pouring into himself and the family.

[@johnhash87]

I've dated one black woman who is mixed black/white and had 1 beautiful daughter with her. She was my longest relationship and treated me pretty good. We split up on good terms and co-parent pretty well together. I would definitely date another black woman if I ever hit it off with one.

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Bi-racials are not blk. They are bi-racial. One is not blk, unless both parents are blk.

[@nethansmomma9795]

Ok 😊

[@HeartBreakHigh]

Why is there a delete people’s comment Olympics with BM in particular? 🤨

[@juanacastillo1772]

I'm black carib and my longest relationship is with an Irish man and we have a beautiful family unfortunately he moved back to Ireland but we come together twice a year and talk on the phone everyday. I encourage him to get a side piece🤣 but he refuses, so he tells me 😂😜

[@HeartBreakHigh]

@@juanacastillo1772 Wait, let me get this right. You had a relationship (were you married?) created a family with this man. Then after a while, he just decided to chip off back to Ireland 🇮🇪 and apparently live a life of celibacy, despite you encouraging him to get with another woman???? He then comes and visits you and his kids twice a year and you talk everyday on the phone? 🤨

[@gabriellesummers1426]

I'm a women and it was a black women who taught me how to take care of my hair. It was dry breaking and frizzy. She was like baby girl you look stressed and she was just a shopper like me. Now that was a good 20 years ago and I have not looked back since

[@H3MINGWAY]

That song DEFINITELY got THC in it lol.

[@sybilbonds9347]

I come from A loving 2 parent home. I'am a African -American women, I can relate on being there for someone, I took care of my Dad 12 yrs. I definitely commented this black gentleman, on his, kindness, realness, and honestly.

[@mstann8153]

I date my black men they always treat me me good and also give me a lots of respect

[@DeborahReeder-tn4je]

Tiege, you seem to have a non judgemental open personality. Just a gem. I pray you meet the women of your dreams, you deserve it!

[@reclaimingminds2811]

You present this with such openess, non-judgement and love! What a great man you are! ❤❤

[@melaniejackson9568]

All It TAKES IS LOVE RESPECT AND LOTS OF CONFORDENCE......

[@kathie1499]

REAL TALK. The BLACK WIFE AFFECT IS RESL💯💯. I’ve been happily married 44 yrs. I def just redid my husband’s wardrobe again. All new shirts ties, belts pants shoes, under garments, socks, robes, slippers, lotions, colognes. He’s set for a while. I’ve always picked out all of his clothes. Well he does pick some too🤣🤣. He always gets compliments from both men/women. We know what we like to see our men in & vice versa. The BLACK WIFE EFFECT IS A RESL THING!! Like Asian ect. Your style changes with your partner. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@joannesincere6859]

At first I was going to keep on scrolling... I thought this was going to be about tearing us down! Thank you for your kind words and gentle nature its nice to have a blackman tell us what we're doing is ok! That we deserve to be happy! That we will elevate everything around you if you pour into us! 💜

[@joannasantos9890]

Loved this…so refreshing that there was no bashing! I think I’m gonna have to visit you again 😍