The INTJ In Love: Navigating Emotional Complexities

[@thepickles8833]

The harsh contrast between our independent alone time and desire a deeper connection with a significant other requiring an enormous amount of time with another person leads me to believe we INTJs are romantically doomed...

[@GunmetalRaven]

I don't know... As an INFP who enjoys her turtle time, I managed to find someone who tolerates me hiding for hours/days at a time. Everyone has different love languages. Maybe find someone who needs their space too or someone you can vibe silently with.

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

As an INFP, this gives me hope. It's hard to find people who understand our need for alone time @@GunmetalRaven

[@bonedietywitch946]

We arent romantically doomed. People tend to be more uncomfortable with autonomy and healthy space than they are with toxic relationships. Its their distorted sense of reality.

[@Jimfrenchde]

I tested as an INTJ-T, I am the most disorganized person in the world

[@wertfasd]

If you did your test in the 16personalities... then that explains it.

[@MicrophoneSmith]

I’m positive I’m an Intj (because of the 8 different personality test I’ve taken)*also a telltale sign of Intj*. My living space is wildly unorganized but I need my plans organized and day organized or I literally can’t move forward and will get stuck in a Ni-Fi loop. So in that sense organization can show up in different ways.

[@Darkxfin]

i used to be pretty unorganised but when i finally found my system and now everything has it place but i have always known where everything is even when stuff was all over the place

[@DanielByers-qf9qi]

But are you disorganized internally also, or just externally (physically)?

[@gogarith]

I haven't done 8 tests or anything, but enneagram fits, mbti seems to fit. I'm comfy here. Am I disorganized to the untrained eye? Heavily. Do I still know where everything is in this "organized chaos"? Also yes.

[@ofc_its_sidd]

As an INTJ myself when I found out she likes me I've taken so many compatibility checks about her personality in comparison to mine and I don't regret giving a thought about her and getting her into my head , It's rare for me to like someone or have connection but she's the first person I love

[@sofilove...20]

I'm so lonely broh...I lost my 🦆...I need duck for forever...

[@umairarain6688]

As an intj how can i find my soul mate

[@enigmacanine]

Learn to dance. Enfps love dancing.

[@gogarith]

Well, my boy....That's the fun part. You probably won't. But! Be rest assured the money saved on dates will be worth it, occasionally.

[@FPT84]

ENFP it! 🎉

[@FPT84]

Are you male or female?

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

get an INFJ or INFP