The Ladies Confront Sarah About Interrupting the Group Date - The Bachelor

After Sarah crashed the group date -- which she wasn't on -- in order to steal Matt away and have an emotional heart-to-heart conversation, the other ladies in the house wanted to confront her about it. Sarah spent most of the next day in her room, but when she finally comes down the ladies let her know how they feel about her. From 'Week 3,' season 25, episode 3 of The Bachelor' 2021. Watch MONDAY 8|7c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.

[@KK-on3bj]

These girls seem like high school bullies

[@alexafallon1140]

Kit's comment "Your Living Situation is going to be horrible". Made me sick to my stomach.

[@Varaidzo1]

I know so much cruelty for no reason whatsoever

[@goodrose4734]

It was funny not gonna lie😂😂

[@nancys.7198]

It was cruel and unacceptable. They should be ashamed of themselves!

[@TruePathLiving]

She's a spoiled brat . She thinks the world revolves around her but it does not.

[@peanutbutter4435]

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[@gxflores6731]

is someone punching Victoria in the face?? she looks worse every episode

[@atran901]

THE BAGS UNDER HER EYES

[@itsmetess15]

I'm crying laughing this is great

[@teenie36214]

I think it’s a stye lol 😂

[@malanimal]

Lmao

[@zeezee-6]

🤣😆😂🤣😂😂🤣

[@rachelsullivan1433]

I sincerely hope Victoria is a troll bc the idea of someone legitimately being that mean is devastating

[@bellasee1]

Victoria,omg.awful

[@laelonniedenton]

It’s sad but this is definitely her character.

[@laelonniedenton]

It’s sad but this is definitely her character. Why else would she react that way, even for reality TV that’s harsh.

[@haileycamburn2981]

I think she’s an actress. Her job is “queen.”

[@luqrexia]

but you couldn't lie that, sometimes she speak the truth and people just couldn't accept she's actually right

[@justkatierose]

the womens’ response was so disgusting

[@shepherd_x]

Its cause they know what shes up to because they do it too. Whenever girls see another take the victim card out, they bring their fangs out because they know its a show. Its just female nature.

[@דינהפיין-ק9ל]

Also Sarahs..the victom play card

[@erinmorey9334]

It’s like they literally spoke the mean comments from the internet out loud. instead of typing them and hiding behind a screen they had the boldness to say it to her face. That was really horrible!

[@jb0ys89]

When Victoria took a sip of her drink I was like ya keep drinking bitch that’s the only way you have the gall to be so rude

[@thehousespouse]

They didn't really say anything mean. They just told her how it was from their perspective.

[@harrylederman1679]

​@@thehousespouse and that what all the Nazis said ._. When it was so easy to victimise the Jews._.coz It's not their human perspective it's a mob perspective

[@CherryBlossomn1]

Without trying to understand what happened to Sarah, it was absolutely horrible.

[@nyambsdeborah8954]

@@thehousespouse what do you mean? They expressed their point of view. And then proceeded to call her manipulate and toxic. And say they won't accept the apoligie even if she apologized 20 times.

[@davidtargaryen3229]

I lost respect for a majority of these girls tonight. This was horrible and disgusting to watch...

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

the girls in the house: "she hasn't come out of her room. she can't even talk to us. she's so annoying. " also the girls in the house: "how dare she try to come out of her room and apologize to us?" god, these girls are the worst! i get it you're pissed, but grow tf up 😡😤

[@deann4342]

I was so confused when they said that because when Sarah came to talk to them, they were just bashing her

[@themissileminer5494]

Exactly, I knew from early on that no matter what Sarah would do, they were going to hate her regardless. Especially with these closed-minded chicks. Then when Sarah asks what she can do they don't give her an answer like oml

[@luqrexia]

@@themissileminer5494 but sarah knows exactly what she's in for... she shouldn't do it, and she defo not ready for this whole fiasco

[@arsh6027]

Ikr smh there are real bullies in the house and that’s what’s sad

[@peanutbutter4435]

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[@roter13]

This was very hard to watch. Usually, the "drama" on this show is not that intense. She said sorry several times, what more did they want.

[@diljotk6139]

I agree man I felt so bad

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

It was so fucked up. Like she was about to cry and they were still going!!! The lack of empathy is astounding

[@PanamaCityBeachFlorida]

They got her to leave. Sad. Sarah for next bachelorette

[@MaryTheresa1986]

@@PanamaCityBeachFlorida The girls ganged up on her in a calculated attack to get rid of her because Sarah was their strongest competition. It was wrong of Sarah to interrupt the group date, but the women were seriously overreacting. It's not like she blew up a daycare or something.

[@paulwall2891]

Kit didn’t say anything until the very end and she said the meanest thing out of the girls...

[@adelinechai359]

lol some of these girls are just mean, just imagine how Matt’s going to feel about his choices when he looks back at all of this

[@extraordinaryty9578]

Yeah I really hope he looms back and see's this footage, because Victoria, Kit, the Asian girl, and the girl that looks like a knock off Hannah Brown were being really mean. The girl that is deaf and the black girl were expressing there feelings but they weren't being mean about it. I feel really bad for Sarah after watching that. And now that the show is done filming I hope the other girls realize how ugly they looked in this situation. And apologize to Sarah

[@adelinechai359]

ExtraordinaryTy I agree! There is indeed a difference between not being a pushover by conveying how you feel vs being downright mean. I can’t stand some of their behaviours, literally gives me high school mean girl flashbacks

[@genregurl]

@@extraordinaryty9578 knock off hannah brown. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Richard-lh3te]

I mean he picked a racist so his judgment is off

[@דינהפיין-ק9ל]

When he will also see that sara lied..she didn't want to go home

[@BlackRoseProdzZ]

Kit is such a kid.

[@izzyh15]

Well she is only 21 the youngest contestant they’ve ever had so ya

[@elenajoseph6630]

Claims that no man has been “emotionally mature enough” for her. Then proceeds to literally BULLY Sarah into leaving because she is having a hard time being away from her terminally ill father. Absolute disgusting. No wonder she’s still single. Any actually intelligent and emotionally mature man would be instantly turned off by her

[@nylal493]

She basically is a kid, she’s still in college. Way too young for this. They should only be casting people 25 and up in my opinion, most of these women are too immature

[@elenajoseph6630]

@@nylal493 I say 30 and older because when most of the 25-30 year olds I’ve seen are still too immature for this and are in their prime clubbing years

[@nylal493]

@@elenajoseph6630 that’s true!

[@lainajones8926]

This is horrible the way they ganged up on her I was so mad watching this. Victoria is a disgusting character. I say character because I'm hoping nobody can be that terrible. As for the rest of the girls I guess they won't be interrupting others talks with Matt for the rest of the season sense they thought it was so bad that Sarah did please.

[@speedude0164]

That would be hilarious if they did end up interrupting at some point.

[@lainajones8926]

@@speedude0164 oh it's going to happen they all do it.

[@rachelnuam]

every season has someone interrupting group dates etc and this is the first time I see a group of contestant straight up bully someone for it. Disappointed to see another episode of the bully “winning”

[@taylor9664]

This is exactly what I said! What was the difference if she wasn’t on the group date... people interrupt conversations left and right.

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

It’s literally a common occurrence and I think out of all the people who have ever done it Sarah was the most respectful about doing it and she faced the most backlash

[@gloryg9]

Because they are all gullible. Victoria instigated it from start and kept getting them riled up. I'm convinced she's a hired actress and her sole purpose is to create drama on the show.

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

this happened in Peters season with Alayah!

[@themissileminer5494]

@@ghiwanassereddine3406 Well, Alayah was talking about benefitting from the show regardless of Peter. So I can see how that can be seen as ingenuine. And unlike here a lot of girls were pressured into talking about their opinion on Alayah. Even sane girls thought she was a tad phony on camera/with Peter. That situation was a lot more he said, she said.

[@divatashi]

I really hope Sarah's dad is okay and she isn't mentally traumatised from this. She was already suffering from so much guilt just being there, trying to remember her father's blessings of finding love to push through the fact that he's so terminally ill. And then all of these women didn't even try to find out why she was mentally struggling. Just straight up bullies. Coming from someone who has had a parent die and dealing with this pain, it is very hard to live your normal life knowing the closest person to you could be dead any time soon. Except for Katie, I hope all of these women feel intense shame and guilt for the way they treated her.

[@lucinacosio4353]

Definition of mean girls

[@tomikofelix8794]

What’s the point of being pretty on the outside if you’re ugly on the inside ? A pretty face is nothing if you have an ugly heart. I hope these girls realize tht looks alone won’t get you through life.

[@lindawashington4061]

Love your comment!!!

[@tjc2121]

❤ this! A ugly heart/attitude will shine through and change how people perceive you.

[@roxiroxi8770]

victoria is not even pretty sorry

[@ohheychristinax]

The title should be “Grown Women Bully Sarah”

[@speedude0164]

I agree with you on everything but the "grown women" part

[@iknowwhoyouare1732]

Sarah brought a lot of it on herself. No it shouldn’t have dragged on like it did, but she was shady

[@aya-_-3045]

@@iknowwhoyouare1732 even if she was shady, no one deserves to be treated that way. i dont rlly think what she did was that big of a deal. this was an overeaction.

[@marymclaughlin3558]

Go patriots

[@ariannagraves631]

Not gonna lie, what Sarah did was not the way to go about it at all. At the same time, she did not deserve the backlash from the women like that. Yes they all had a right to be upset, but could have talked to her in a different way than this....

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I don’t think what she did was THAT terrible. People do it on the bachelor ALL THE TIME. In fact out of everyone who has interrupted a group date, she has probably handled it with the most respect. She chose the wrong time to do it yes, but she tried to be respectful and apologize for it at least and not once was disrespectful to anyone no matter how malicious they were.

[@larrymarshall8900]

@@Blueeyesinthesky Yeah I felt bad for her to. What she did was wrong but they bullied her out of the mansion she was wrong for interrupting the group date but at the same time she's not a bad person either.

[@malisiaevelynstl]

You can't dictate what people do and say when they're upset. These women are under alot of pressure and what Sarah did added to their anxiety.

[@ariannagraves631]

@@malisiaevelynstl yea that’s also why I said they had a right to be upset cause they did but the pettiness was brutal to watch.

[@swoonve]

@@malisiaevelynstl well then you can argue that what the women did to sarah added to her anxiety as well

[@journeyswithsue]

Tayshia's season was wayyy better. Deep conversations unlike stupid drama like this. Im sorry but this isn't entertaining at all

[@nurainaroselan974]

Hannah ann kinda did the same thing...but she was never been bullied like this..

[@hippyhappy97]

the girls on peters season look like angels compared to this season

[@rachelnuam]

At least one person does this on every season, both bachelor and bachelorette, and no one has ever been bullied like this

[@minhphung8479]

I dont think she did; not the same thi g

[@edabella143]

Ya, after this episode, I don't look at Matt's season the same way. Most of the girls in the house could have confronted her like the way "vibrator girl" (I don't know her name) did instead they were like since she interrupted the group date, once she comes downstairs, we are gonna have her face the music. Sara was not malicious yet she got a thrashing. The blonde girl who said how is this hard for you, didn't know that Sara has a family member who is dying! Anyways, Matt is too good for a good chunk of these girls. It's a good thing Sara pointed that some them are not nice!

[@Vicky-wu3uu]

@@hippyhappy97 that’s ridiculous

[@jaylynadante3177]

They are so MEAN, to Sarah, shouldn’t girls be supporting each other. Not hating on one another😢

[@paigelovette8156]

Stop living in a fantasy land you know girls cant stand eachother.

[@ghgirl4082]

@@paigelovette8156 Exactly when you put a bunch of girls together there's gonna be drama.

[@jb0ys89]

Could NO ONE have stepped in REGARDLESS of the situation and had her back or at least tell everyone it’s not necessary to be so downright mean. This isn’t high school you’re almost 30

[@lauraq8452]

unfortunately a lot of these girls are closer to high school age than 30, the cast is way too young

[@jackalsdole]

It’s fear of the mob. I’m sure some of the girls wanted to but were too afraid to get stomped on by the mob. Katie does step up in the later episode, which made me love her so much. And people commented that she did that as a calculated move.

[@kbar6644]

Whatever editing omitted, here in this clip Victoria and Kit are the biggest bullies here in this situation.

[@dt9538]

i wish they included jessenia because she was super mean in the preview

[@jaf22_2]

Also Anna I think her name is. The other blonde. She is constantly fueling the fire and adding her negative/rude comments at every possible second

[@Mar-mc5tl]

And Serena C.

[@humankaleidoscope4989]

@@Mar-mc5tl thank you. no one talks about her. in the latest episode you can see her trying to separate herself from the drama, and to me it seems like that's because she knows she's involved and she's getting desperate. I feel like here she was projecting on sarah so much, calling her behaviour calculated, manipulative, and toxic, when she has no idea what sarah was thinking or what her intentions were. It was conjecture at its finest, and then she says sarah burned all bridges. I mean wtf take a chill pill. I don't even think sarah handled things in the best way, I just think no one deserves to get ganged up on like that.

[@redzoom7857]

The funny part is Kit dodged the mean girl witch-hunt that got Victoria and Anna kicked out.

[@misshanekom5578]

It boggles my mind that Victoria can call Sarah a "calculating little bitch" when she literally poisoned Matt's mind against Marylynn just the previous episode because she saw that he had bought her a plant. If that wasn't the most calculated, manipulative move. And now she's just gotten away with it and thinks she literally is the queen of the house. Disgusting behaviour.

[@jeteaze]

Yeah. It's hard to understand why someone would act that way until you've dealt with people like this or have studied them. I've had abusive relationships in the past and I have learned that people that are manipulative and lack empathy tend to think or be paranoid that other people are being manipulative as well. Since they do it, they assume other people are doing it as well. Since they themselves lack empathy, they tend to not understand that others have empathy and care about strangers. Abusers also tend to TELL you why you did something or what you are thinking instead of ASKING WHY you did something. They make assumptions and go off of their assumptions rather than reality. They don't trust other people so they don't give people a chance to explain themselves or if they do... they don't believe them and they think they are lying to manipulate to get what they want. Also, Victoria seems to be suffering from paranoia as well... maybe paranoid schizophrenia and she shows a lot of signs of not being able to tell the difference between reality and assumptions. I've known some people with paranoia and she definitely has some red flags for the mental health disorder. Victoria seems to maybe never developed the ability to put herself in someone else's shoes. This usually comes around the first grade - fourth grade for most children depending on how fast they develop. Victoria seems to never mentally developed those skills at all and maybe potentially has a mental deficiency and maybe she was very neglected as a child or she is just possible has an under-functioning brain in that area. It's been a year or two since I have studied neurology and child development so I have forgotten some of the terms... sorry. She also seems to have attachment disorders so that is maybe why she doesn't seem to be able to have a healthy connection with people and why she feels the need to control situations in order to feel safe. Who knows... maybe Sarah is being manipulative... but I don't think there is enough information for Victoria to say that about her. She could have been egged on by producers to interrupt the date. Who knows?

[@carolinechase7992]

If anything Victoria is the one who is taking roses away and time away from the other girls. She’s clearly not going to marry Matt and is only there for entertainment purposes.

[@vivianbarths6022]

like that episode pissed me the f up..and Marylynn isn't good with confrontation so she didn't even know how to defend herself...i think Victoria is just there for shock value. Matt clearly doesn't like her, but the show will tell him to keep her for drama

[@PanamaCityBeachFlorida]

Victorias no prize.

[@kingcobra384]

You have to put some responsibility on Matt also though, automatically assumed Victoria was telling the truth before hearing Marylynn's side of things

[@lifeofkathleenii]

here is a great example of you never know what someone is going through😃

[@דינהפיין-ק9ל]

Yes she wants matt all for her self.. its nothing about home..she is a real sneak and a big lier.

[@nonahk8630]

I can't believe what I just watched, they are all so mean. There was not even one woman standing up for Sarah How immature no wonder they had to bring in new women.

[@kingforaday6121]

Oh Victoria HONEY if only the bags under your eyes were designer.

[@eleanorhenderson2278]

This is so messed up....really really hope Sarah is okay

[@arriatta_d681]

what an excellent example of gaslighting. Disgusting

[@laleluilu]

Apart from all the bullying happening minutes prior, but when a person you seemed to have been friendly with over the past days asks you to speak with her after she was ganged up on and you decline her wish not looking at her and walking the other way.... WOW that was the cherry on top of that tasteless high school bullying circle. MJ I lost all respect for you. Sarah is not innocent, but the Bachelor wouldn't be the Bachelor without stealing time her and there for your own benefit. But to put someone down in that manner... appalling. I sincerely hope every girl in that sit down is ashamed of herself watching the show last night.

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I know, no one is talking about how downright merciless MJ was

[@Kloves818]

She said to let her cool down instead of speaking to Sarah while she was upset.. I'm not sure how that makes her heartless?

[@laleluilu]

@@Kloves818 Wouldn’t you stop for 2 sec, look your friend in the eye and let her know that you need 5 min and then let’s meet upstairs? The way she ran away head down - it did feel heartless, or they aren’t as close as Sarah thought. But honestly, was Sarah’s behaviour of the day really justifying being that upset and hostile even after the apologised? The girls look like foolish high schoolers to not have settled this in the circle.

[@M.e.g.a.n.]

Sara is by far the most emotionally intelligent one that was there. Someone should have defended her. I was surprised even Abigail was catty... She seemed nice, but I lost all respect for her after this. I was bullied all through school but this was the worst bullying I have ever seen. Sara was experiencing jealousy and that is perfectly normal. She handled her jealousy with kindness and self awareness. The other girls handled their jealousy with hatred and showed the world what they’re like on the inside. Disgusting.

[@inprincipio221]

Omgosh yes! I was surprised by Abigail's behaviour too. Maybe she was trying to blend in with the cool aka toxic crowd. Although she wasn't as mean as some of the others, I did lose respect for her after her comments.

[@brandyirisable]

I was dissapointed in Abigail too.

[@dem4623]

Someone who would go to a tv show Bachelor than be with ur terminally ill dad doesn’t make sense to me 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@paulashelton8216]

This is absolutely disgusting. For the producers to allow this to happen is even more disgusting. These women are BULLIES. I’m disappointed.

[@user-emilyyyy]

They literally just feel threatened by her because is one of the most beautiful women there

[@Vicky-wu3uu]

that’s unnecessary

[@jzhvaeduh]

I mean they are almost all beautiful. maybe they're angry that it was their group date and she interjected with no concern for their time?

[@CherryBlossomn1]

No, Rachael and Sarah are the most beautiful amongst the group and maybe a few others. The rest are ok at best. They definitely did feel threatened, especially with how much time she already had with Matt. Sarah was sweet and the most genuine person there, i was rooting for her to go all the way.

[@jaf22_2]

VibranCELE Okay, so be upset with her but they didn’t need to say things like “you’re living situation here is going to be horrible.” There is a difference between respectful expressing frustration and ganging up on someone just to try and hurt them (which is what was clearly happening). I didn’t agreeing with her interrupting but you can tell some of them are just mean girls

[@jzhvaeduh]

@@jaf22_2 I agree some were just mean. She kinda brought it on herself. She should have never been on the bachelor with her father sick at home. But saying she's the most beautiful is just a straight up lie and has nothing to do with the situation...

[@rebeccaasiyo9820]

Victoria spits venom every time she speaks,she's heartless and Mean

[@Tia-bd3ps]

It's no wonder all of these girls are on the bachelor to find "love," no sane guy in real life would want to marry something like that. Sarah and Katie are the only standup women on the show. The rest are insecure little bullies who have some growing up to do.

[@davisfan5660]

Rachel is stand up too even tho she’s quiet

[@ghgirl4082]

@@davisfan5660 She's probably afraid of Victoria and her minons.

[@sarahk2355]

this was hard to watch.

[@TheFoofights]

i do think it was calculated from her side and she did in fact want him to make her stay but I’m shocked none of the girls interrupted the straight up BULLYING what the hell

[@citychic000]

I feel so bad for Sarah, and I'm happy to see the KIND comments on this video. What irks me the most is that on bachelor podcasts and in other social media comments, there are a lot of people agreeing with the bullies and saying things like, "oh my god, that was f*cking AMAZING to watch LOL." Well... in my opinion, that says a lot about you if you think that it was "hilarious" to watch. These are GROWN WOMEN, are they incapable of feeling any empathy? How about pausing for a moment and thinking, "Okay, she's legit crying, she's obviously going through something so maybe everyone should cool it." No one defended her WHILE it was actually happening. I don't know, it's just discouraging to see how many mean girls there still are in this world. Don't be like them. It's not a good look.

[@milliemartin6490]

Very well said, I completely agree. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@jordypawpaw2710]

Omg this just looks Peter's season 2.0 the women vs alayah drama just reminds me of this video. So brutal that Sarah got attacked by these Vultures 🙄🙄

[@humankaleidoscope4989]

lol they really are like vultures. and you're right the alayah situation really parallels this one.

[@souleymanediop7233]

I felt so bad, she literally did nothing wrong. Poor Sarah, I hope she finds love.

[@havanna_talea]

Do I think the girls are coming at Sarah the wrong way... yes I do. They do have the right to be mad though. If that was another girl interrupting her time and group date she would have been the same way. They should have just addressed her a little different.

[@luqrexia]

She did the wrong thing for interrupting the whole group thing, she should've and could've wait for the whole thing to be over

[@Justme9864.]

Omg somebody give this girl a hug.

[@arim6972]

Some of these women look like completely different people without make up....damn

[@ladykat16]

😂😂

[@ladykat16]

The power of make up

[@atran901]

This is what happens when jealousy gets the best of grown women lmao

[@ylvany1]

Grown is in understatement! 🤢

[@דינהפיין-ק9ל]

Sara is not jealousy at all🤣

[@eldadelva6618]

Those girl are so mean

[@kassadeejarrett432]

This was absolutely disgusting and I wish Matt could have seen that conversation and said goodbye to most of the girls who are grown-ass women degrading another individual.

[@radvlogs6411]

Y’all notice how my girl Bri was silent? A true Queen

[@Navysingh43]

Yes I think she wants to hug Sarah low key

[@superdisney5535]

Jessenia, Magi, Mari, and Rachael were also silent

[@ghgirl4082]

@@superdisney5535 Katie looked uncomfortable with how they were treating Sarah.

[@lilianab4756]

Yeah, but no one defended her!😢

[@thatgirl9532]

@@lilianab4756 Katie has defended her maybe not in front of everyone but she’s been Sarah’s friend would always check on her

[@maureenlynden2477]

Jealous school girls should just except Sarah trying to make things right with them, but making her feel real small, Matt needs to get rid of Victoria ASAP

[@ujuokeke1906]

Where do they get this girls from

[@ladida2184]

I think they put out fliers saying "Were you a high school bully and currently have the mental maturity of a 13 year old? Well then you might be perfect for this show!"

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Hell

[@ujuokeke1906]

@@pixiestxNyomouf they're really from hell.

[@LavenderDream102]

America

[@Recubs0608]

I hope someone step up to defend her. I know Sarah is a grown woman but I think someone needs to step up for her. Unfortunately, no one said something for her

[@nikking4836]

Victoria, Anna, Kit, MJ, and Serena C. are toxic af. A bunch of bullies, truly

[@ericasauceda7347]

Wow! Can’t imagine what Matt is thinking watching this back. How embarrassing. I felt so bad for Sarah.

[@samanthasau4086]

SERIOUSLY THESE SO CALLED LADIES (little girls) are bullying Sarah! Not a single one of them are willing to ask her what’s going on with her and why.

[@winonayuan1334]

Katie did

[@truthwisdom1824]

Jealousy is a gross emotion that gives birth to another grosser emotion called hatred. Perhaps, if we understand that it will help to resolve situations like this.

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

Sarah felt jealous and hurt from the group date so felt the need to speak to Matt after past traumas, girls get super mad at her for doing that because they’re jealous of her connection with Matt and how she’s had more time with him and has shown more interest in her then anyone else, so they gang up and bully her off the show in the most cruel and hateful manor. Sounds about right 🤔

[@truthwisdom1824]

Daryn _world True.👌👍

[@kaylaasmr]

yeah Sarah did make mistakes and she didn’t handle it the best way, but the way some of the girls talked to her and handled it shows what type of people they are. I felt bad for her during this because if that were me I would feel so attacked. It’s pretty ironic that Victoria says “it’s not the Sarah show.” Everything that comes out of Victoria’s mouth is bs and unnecessary. She is so fake she acted liked Sarah friend before and then says all this bs with a smark on her face. Kit and Victoria can go.

[@vivianthong5656]

I really hope Victoria leaves this show with no friends or romances from Bachelor Nation at ALL

[@victactoee]

Wow... this is heartbreaking to watch. Sarah has said and done everything in her power to let the ladies know how sorry she is. And she didn't even do anything that bad! You would think she murdered a person! Group dates have gotten interrupted so many times in past seasons, and I've never seen such a vicious reaction like this. Sarah did NOT deserve that. I can't imagine being so mean to someone, who is making a heartfelt, painful apology in front of an entire group of women.

[@laurenfoster6278]

Let’s be logical. The only people that were rude to Sarah were Kit and Victoria. The other women spoke their mind and frustrations to Sarah directly. They didn’t know that Sarah’s Dad was sick. So to them it look calculated. They can’t see what we see. And to me Bri has been more consistently by Sarah’s side than Katie. She didn’t need a grand scene in order to show that. I felt bad for Sarah but sis didn’t have to be on the show. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@zeizaroberts9219]

Exactly! Everyone is saying the women (as a collective) were so awful to Sarah. With the exception of Kit and Victoria they weren’t. Sarah did not explain the situation fully, so from their POV it just seemed as though she was being selfish and manipulative.

[@alanamaharaj]

Literally 8-9 girls verbally beat up on her and the rest sat there being bystanders and saying nothing. How awful. What are we, in the stone age where we have no awareness of bullying and it's effects? These girls were all so heartless. If Matt doesn't choose Katie, he either ends up with a bully or a bystander. Good riddance for him

[@annasteig2923]

Good insight

[@oliviarasmussen7925]

None of them handled that well. Imagine if Matt went back and watched the footage

[@Varaidzo1]

I'm sure he's seeing this now along with the rest of us

[@valentinaivanova7271]

I didn't like Sarah interrupting Katie's date. But I don't understand how this effects other women. Why are they pissed? Has Sarah conversation taken 4 hours? It looked like 10 minutes only

[@MsKimmy81]

I am absolutely DISGUSTED with @BachelorNation Producers for not stepping in during this situation. This was outright bullying, threatening and despicable behaviour, from a group of girls, on one individual. Sarah was clearly apologetic, rattled and incredibly vulnerable and nobody stood up for her, or put an end to some shocking behaviour. We got to see the true colours of many of these "women" and I found that disturbing to say the least. To threaten a woman and tell her that you are going to make her time there "horrible", is not acceptable. And for the rest of the girls who sat there with a mouth full of teeth and did nothing, you're just as guilty and should feel ashamed. Truly unimpressed with the Producers for not calling out this attack and expressing that bullying will not be tolerated, just speaks volumes. (Anna, Serena C, MJ, Kaili, Victoria *the worst of the lot* and Kit *not far behind her Queen* - typical "mean girls" from high school. I hope Matt sees through them all). Disappointing that this is still being allowed in 2021, with mental health being at the forefront of everyone's minds.

[@jamiefooddreamer6381]

100% agree. Like I wad shocked looking at this clip. 15 women going against 2 woman is BULLYING !! This not High School for crying out loud !! Their hating a woman for 1 man !!! Like that is pathetic !!!

[@moviesinthehouse6750]

I literally couldn't believe that this happened. When Victoria said, "Why would you think that we would want to make amends with you" I was shocked. I thought that ABC had really upped their casting process, since I was beginning to really like these girls. But I am extremely shocked and dissapointed by the rudeness.

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

i was hoping that she would find the strength to stay

[@heyitsnayaa6736]

Victoria 😂😂omggggg girl 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️she’s not even cute ,Sara prettier.

[@juliannesmommy6694]

I can't believe people aren't standing up for her.

[@clararose9375]

i sympathize with sarah as it must feel awful to have everyone in the house against you. it is interesting if you listen to the words sarah is saying though as it doesn't really add up and even abigail, who is so sweet, said, if you don't want to be here, why are you taking time? even she seemed annoyed and sarah was like, 'i don't want to leave!' then a minute later she says 'i was going to leave yesterday!' i appreciate sarah trying to apologize, but she also is talking in circles a little. the girls are yes, annoyed and angry, but they are also simply holding her accountable for her actions, and that is not the same thing as bullying. sure victoria was extra rude as usual and kit at the end, but i also respect them and the girls who spoke up for being honest. sarah's actions were totally self serving (which btw, is fine - she doesn't need to apologize for doing what she wants or even stealing him - like this is the bachelor) and to say the girls are bullying her when they are just calling it like it is is very dramatic like it's not that serious lol

[@bisolaojo6185]

You are the most sensible person in the comment section 👊🏽

[@Vicky-wu3uu]

finally someone with rationale

[@bro-ss2eu]

If you had a problem with what she did fine. But being rude and name calling was complete bullying. The black girl and Abigail did not bully her they spoke their feelings like respectable women. But kit Victoria and Serena c. Are actually shit

[@BrandonTownsend]

They should've just accepted her apology and moved on instead of attacking her. That wasn't right.

[@harryjoy9747]

Queen Victoria without the make-up 😲

[@KoujiAlex]

Wow, I was a huge Kit fan, but I'm quite dissapointed on her after what she said on 3:31 . It was very harsh and uncalled for.

[@gabyhincapiemendoza8391]

Bri, Katie, Lauren and Serena P are the only ones who have my respect. That was so rude 😒

[@annmarieb987]

Such mean girls, no wonder they are all single 😉

[@patienceowens7896]

I can understand that the women were upset,but they took it too far especially when Sarah seems like a sweetheart. Sarah didn’t deserve that.

[@Mimi-yp5yg]

The 3 that really seemed to cross the line from giving constructive criticism to being just unnecessarily rude and mean were Victoria, Kit, and Serena C (especially since they made those comments in front of the group ). If those 3 didn’t speak during this conversation, it wouldn’t have come across as bullying IMO. The other women who spoke up were not pleased with Sarah’s actions but seemed way more respectful in their delivery (well maybe not Anna and MJ) Clearly, Sarah was going through a tough time and in the big scheme of things, what she did wasn’t that big of a deal, but the ladies who did share their criticism in a respectful way did have a right to do so - it was the other 3 women who really just made this conversation uncomfortable and dramatic to watch.

[@lizi5013]

I wish nothing but the best for Sarah. I hope and pray her dad is doing well.

[@TheGoodShepard]

You should be ashamed of yourself as a show. To allow a 24 year old to get bullied by an entire house while her father is dying. How is this good television?

[@lilypoon1175]

Omg the group think is terrible

[@nonahk8630]

Tbh if I had to put up with these women every day I would 100% leave too.

[@dancequeen1080]

As a woman, I have to say, scenes like this make me TERRIFIED of other women...this is why i keep to myself and only chat up with guys...yikes.

[@Directioner05Farah]

I think Victoria needs psychological help bc she’s crazy

[@peanutbutter4435]

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[@juliekirk5365]

MJ I CANT BELIEVE YOUR LIES!! Telling Sarah you were quote Worried about her !!

[@dianac.1598]

Victoria loves this. She fuels off putting others down. Its horrible. She was actually happy to tell this girl off and put her down. That is so awful and just speaks volumes to the type of person she is.

[@lusandangema127]

Didn't Victoria complain to Matt that Marylynn was bullying her and she got sent home but now she's doing the exact same thinh to Sarah... She needs to do some serious introspection

[@spookyyyash]

I agree that Sarah didn’t take peoples feelings into consideration and what she did was wrong BUT this was just honestly so unbelievable like they’re adults... it’s really sad to see contestants get treated like this regardless /:

[@MrJedijay91]

Damn. I watched this when it aired, but it’s even harder to watch the second time around. What I find so disturbing about this is that at a certain point, you’d think that the girls would start to feel uncomfortable with how much they were piling it on to Sarah. If the girls had any empathy, even if Sarah was in the wrong, they would start to feel guilty after the fifth or sixth mean or demeaning comment/statement towards her. Us women really have to stop being so cruel to each other 😢

[@HiBye-um7lt]

Either everyone here is a mean girl or no one had the courage to say anything against the blatant bullying

[@malaikabuendia3437]

these girls r so rude and have no empathy like i cannot believe they responded like this

[@peaceofyoshi]

"This isn't 'The Sarah Show' " well this also isn't the Victoria show but look where we are.

[@hannahpeterson430]

I hope all of these mean girls go home..all of them bullying her is so disrespectful and hard to watch.

[@holyayele485]

“An enemy of my enemy is a friend”. This is the first time the girls sided with Victoria. She looks happy to finally have “friends” in the house.

[@taylorbattles293]

Wow. I don’t care if they didn’t know what was going on with sarahs family back home- this is absolutely disgusting. The fact that the blonde girl told her her living situation is going to be horrible because she interrupted for one convo....... why do they keep casting these young catty girls. Will not be watching this season anymore. And Victoria- WTF. just why.

[@laurelgrace900]

1:48 same energy as “you shouldn’t be depressed look at everything you have, your life is so great, it could be much worse”

[@thandilelose1658]

Wow I'm disgusted and I can't believe producers aren't calling these women out. This is bullying.

[@julbee4777]

I take comfort in knowing that Matt will hear all of these mean comments when the show airs.

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

I would love for him to speak on it

[@Nia-hy1uy]

Can’t even watch it again because it made me sick the first time, just wanted to say they are all disgusting. It didn’t matter Sarah’s home situation the girls don’t need to know her whole life to treat her with human decency. Praying for her and her family honestly I wouldn’t have wanted to stay either

[@breannanorthrup5498]

Honestly everything the girls said makes up until the point of calling her manipulative and toxic was not bullying. It was shit everyone was thinking. They just should not ganged up on her like that.

[@kristenmartelock7146]

Whether Sarah made a poor decision or not, it does not give these girls the right to go after and throw stones back at her. I seriously feel awful for Sarah in this. I hope she knows that the girls that were ganging up on her showed their true characters(not good ones) when handling a setback, while Sarah at least had the intention of apologizing and owning up to her mistake.

[@ghiwanassereddine3406]

kit 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

i think they had some valid points, but other points were just nonsense assumptions that she's toxic, calculating, manipulative, etc., i think she's really having a difficult time in this abnormal dating situation & they didn't acknowledge it & refused to accept her apology

[@samclaros8729]

Oh my gosh! They literally threatened her. They basically told her that they were going to make her life hell