The language of lying - Noah Zandan

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TED-Ed

TED-Ed

9 жыл бұрын

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We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day. And although we’ve spent much of our history coming up with ways to detect these lies by tracking physiological changes in their tellers, these methods have proved unreliable. Is there a more direct approach? Noah Zandan uses some famous examples of lying to illustrate how we might use communications science to analyze the lies themselves.
Lesson by Noah Zandan, animation by The Moving Company Animation Studio.

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@DonPeyote420
@DonPeyote420 8 жыл бұрын
Pay close attention to person's trousers. If they are in fact on fire - then you got yourself a liar.
@jamz3243
@jamz3243 8 жыл бұрын
+PufferBluntman but wait their pants are frozen? What does this mean? sh-should I call a scientist?
@NK-xd4fu
@NK-xd4fu 8 жыл бұрын
Pro Tip: Don't wear pants. I never do anyways :D
@jamz3243
@jamz3243 8 жыл бұрын
Oh I see. The answer is no pants. :O
@kvega30
@kvega30 8 жыл бұрын
lmfao
@firepaw5678
@firepaw5678 8 жыл бұрын
+PufferBluntman Liar, Liar plants for hire!
@AbhishekKumar-ei7mu
@AbhishekKumar-ei7mu 5 жыл бұрын
Actual title: How to lie better.
@BeanMachine360
@BeanMachine360 5 жыл бұрын
No it isnt liar XD
@vitiated1733
@vitiated1733 5 жыл бұрын
True
@21nadyaratnariena59
@21nadyaratnariena59 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking 😂 I realised the fault in my lies through this video.
@sultanhanga
@sultanhanga 4 жыл бұрын
@@BeanMachine360 ik u lying
@BeanMachine360
@BeanMachine360 4 жыл бұрын
@@sultanhanga I dont belive you XD
@Goastyy
@Goastyy 2 жыл бұрын
Biggest lie that we have told to ourselves once: *"I'll just watch one more video then sleep"*
@thepenmaster
@thepenmaster 2 жыл бұрын
That's the lie I am telling myself right now
@angelomartins5709
@angelomartins5709 Жыл бұрын
So true XD lol lmao
@JupiMeow
@JupiMeow Жыл бұрын
Excellent video. When we suspect a lie, I suggest we don't call it out directly, but instead call attention to the person's own role/self in the story, and ask for more details to see if they trip up. Assume good intent, but also trust your gut.
@ayaelbatouldib1645
@ayaelbatouldib1645 11 ай бұрын
I always do the same
@serenesoul2042
@serenesoul2042 3 ай бұрын
Can you give any example?
@thebestteacher7466
@thebestteacher7466 2 ай бұрын
​@@serenesoul2042if you a drink and I drank it and I asked you if this is your which doesn't look like it any more and you say no so I drink it. But later you realise...
@rosbly
@rosbly 7 күн бұрын
@@thebestteacher7466 You might want to call an ambulance my man
@anneliselim602
@anneliselim602 3 жыл бұрын
The most dangerous lie is when the liars don't realise they're lying to themselves.
@icemike1
@icemike1 3 жыл бұрын
If you earnestly believe it then it's true
@rizzi6209
@rizzi6209 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@littlebodybigheart888
@littlebodybigheart888 3 жыл бұрын
hurts different
@DJ-zt2ml
@DJ-zt2ml 3 жыл бұрын
I think the most dangerous lie is the one that hurts people. I read, " lying lips hates those that it hurts." Therefore, if a person tells a lie that hurts an individual, the person is basically saying, he/she hates you.
@aggelosnt6081
@aggelosnt6081 3 жыл бұрын
They're called psychological liers
@rohanakrishna7582
@rohanakrishna7582 4 жыл бұрын
Biggest lie during online school: Message in the chat box: Hi, my mic does not work and my camera is broken.
@lordjellofish2734
@lordjellofish2734 4 жыл бұрын
BAHAHAHAHA MOOD
@kenopsiadraws
@kenopsiadraws 4 жыл бұрын
thats actually true for me on my computer but i do it on my ipad...
@rohanakrishna7582
@rohanakrishna7582 4 жыл бұрын
@Cara Hollis Omg that is so true
@ryansunil4856
@ryansunil4856 3 жыл бұрын
I wish my teachers would believe it but I still don’t turn them on
@somedude6833
@somedude6833 3 жыл бұрын
That was literally me.
@urbanpretzel
@urbanpretzel Жыл бұрын
As a professional liar, this is extremely accurate. I'm learning more about myself while watching this video, and I will use the information shown here to improve my lying game.
@theobamaprism
@theobamaprism Жыл бұрын
How do I know that everything here is the truth?
@clintonted2458
@clintonted2458 Жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@CristinaNunezTV
@CristinaNunezTV 10 ай бұрын
Why the f*ck you lying? Why you always lying? Oh my God! Stop f*cking lying!
@unknowing203
@unknowing203 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@cjbrenner13
@cjbrenner13 8 ай бұрын
Youre a politician, a lawyer, or whatever….but your def the problem and a parasite 😂
@lyovmyshkin7561
@lyovmyshkin7561 2 жыл бұрын
"Above all do not lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lies comes to a point that he will not distinguish the truth within him or around him, so he will lose all respect to himself and to the others, as a result he ceases to love" Fyodor Dostoyevsky
@ihategooglesomuch
@ihategooglesomuch 11 ай бұрын
that sounds like a lie, given the lack of first-person pronouns and convoluted expression of a simple idea.
@lyovmyshkin7561
@lyovmyshkin7561 11 ай бұрын
@@ihategooglesomuch Dostoevsky was a novelist, and in this quote, he was speaking about a character in his novel, a man. If you think that the idea of lying to oneself is simple and if you consider analyzing this profound topic a 'convoluted expression,' then, in my opinion, you have a serious lack of understanding in this matter.
@ihategooglesomuch
@ihategooglesomuch 11 ай бұрын
@@lyovmyshkin7561 /whoosh!/
@lyovmyshkin7561
@lyovmyshkin7561 10 ай бұрын
@@ihategooglesomuch I mean to squeeze out negative takes out of that quote is an ability that only a person with a very hard life can possess. I feel sorry for you.
@thats_odd
@thats_odd 3 ай бұрын
@@lyovmyshkin7561 he was joking lol
@tbhidc6645
@tbhidc6645 4 жыл бұрын
I do this weird thing where I smile when I tell the truth (and the other person thinks I'm lying). Only because I find it funny how they think I'm lying. It's really annoying when they say "You're smiling, which means you're lying"
@notyepdranel961
@notyepdranel961 4 жыл бұрын
They always do that, and they always think they are right. But when the actual answer comes along, I was telling the truth. But they never learn
@v3dreamz
@v3dreamz 4 жыл бұрын
Me haha tbh its funny when they dont believe you . i thought i was the only one with this
@nopity3057
@nopity3057 4 жыл бұрын
For me it was: "You're smiling while asleep so you aren't actually sleeping."
@nopity3057
@nopity3057 4 жыл бұрын
@Rena Linton thx
@fellowcommentscroller.8748
@fellowcommentscroller.8748 4 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@raz0229
@raz0229 4 жыл бұрын
Biggest lie in the universe: _I have read and accept the terms and conditions_
@jaylenterrel7416
@jaylenterrel7416 4 жыл бұрын
LMAO🤣
@katara3616
@katara3616 4 жыл бұрын
Copied
@nekosan3257
@nekosan3257 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty much
@abeastgaming9600
@abeastgaming9600 4 жыл бұрын
Underrated 😂
@sophia-vz5tu
@sophia-vz5tu 4 жыл бұрын
i read half of both 😳
@delusionaldonut1326
@delusionaldonut1326 Жыл бұрын
Okay, ‘I love you’ as an example for casual lies really hit home
@moonbeaststudiosgaming
@moonbeaststudiosgaming Жыл бұрын
My favorite way to learn a lie is to ask someone else to ask the liar the same question, like for example I had a coworker who lied time to time, and she told me she was in the hospital so couldn't come in, but when someone else asked why she didn't come in, she told a completely different story to them because her comfort level was different with them
@wilinnsu7770
@wilinnsu7770 3 жыл бұрын
*turns on mic* to say: sorry teacher my mic is broken teacher: ???
@edgysphere
@edgysphere 3 жыл бұрын
You have chat box for that
@ananyamatale3965
@ananyamatale3965 3 жыл бұрын
Awww an innocent lie...
@AFAanimations
@AFAanimations 3 жыл бұрын
Teacher : hol'Up
@mich497
@mich497 3 жыл бұрын
@@edgysphere you missed the joke
@alibongo281
@alibongo281 3 жыл бұрын
The other day someone in my class put in the chat they couldn’t hear the teacher, the teacher then proceeded to scream into the mic “CaN YOU HEAR ME” I-
@subzeroelectronics3022
@subzeroelectronics3022 3 жыл бұрын
I can say with confidence that this did not just teach me how to lie more effectively.
@WhiteFox508
@WhiteFox508 2 жыл бұрын
not really self reference complicated message has negative words such as "not" i conclude that this is a lie XD
@DastardlyDingleberry
@DastardlyDingleberry 2 жыл бұрын
You're lying lol
@BQQB5
@BQQB5 2 жыл бұрын
Ah yes a honest statement right here, I do not sense anything deceiving about it.
@That_One_Guy...
@That_One_Guy... 2 жыл бұрын
This video definitely taught me how to catch a liar
@miguelbaltazar7606
@miguelbaltazar7606 2 жыл бұрын
I smell lies. Or wait, that’s my lies.
@callyral
@callyral Жыл бұрын
this taught me to be better at knowing when others are lying, how to be better at lying and how to be better at making obvious lies for comedic purposes
@empirity2855
@empirity2855 Жыл бұрын
Everyone: uses these for social relationships Me: AMONG US TACTICS
@IKRAM-de5ky
@IKRAM-de5ky Жыл бұрын
EXACTLYYY AMONG US
@arcade_matt
@arcade_matt 7 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: the video is a lie.
@Gatinbr
@Gatinbr 7 жыл бұрын
noice plot twist mate
@bebe7C9
@bebe7C9 7 жыл бұрын
its actually a lie because politicians reacted differently and the speaker picked those that demonstrate its point
@claraladuelliste5769
@claraladuelliste5769 7 жыл бұрын
plot twist: the video is a cake
@hamzaaall
@hamzaaall 7 жыл бұрын
pot twist I unsubscribed to your channel matt
@mymyrrah
@mymyrrah 7 жыл бұрын
Matt3756 - Arcade Plot twist: Your comment is a lie.
@osce429
@osce429 3 жыл бұрын
Among us players: "Write that down, write that down!"
@h.devanarayanan2926
@h.devanarayanan2926 3 жыл бұрын
Tru
@2stepssane-_-
@2stepssane-_- 3 жыл бұрын
tool for among us players....
@bready7306
@bready7306 3 жыл бұрын
@@2stepssane-_- soo trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@adrianasevilla8984
@adrianasevilla8984 3 жыл бұрын
exactly what i thought while clicking on this
@raxittyagi
@raxittyagi 3 жыл бұрын
Lol i am watching this for among us
@Name-tn1zg
@Name-tn1zg 2 жыл бұрын
This is not only helpful for me to spot a liar but also better for me to make my lies more believable
@dispatched.thought6089
@dispatched.thought6089 Жыл бұрын
What Im sayin.
@LegendoftheGalacticHero
@LegendoftheGalacticHero 2 жыл бұрын
I, person in the spectrum, have been so many times accused of lying while , in my head, I’ve been doing things I think are meant to be done (masking). Makes me wonder if I’ve been lied so much that’s the behaviour I’ve picked up as neurotypical.
@tobyhendricks9951
@tobyhendricks9951 7 жыл бұрын
You think people watch this to spot lies, lol. watching it to make lies unspottable.
@Omgleandruh
@Omgleandruh 7 жыл бұрын
me
@brechtxt8096
@brechtxt8096 7 жыл бұрын
hahhaha same thing bruh
@ritalate
@ritalate 7 жыл бұрын
This video would never make a person a better liar and to suppose that someone would use it to empower their own lying capabilities is not only an egregious error but is a particular offense to a personal sense of moral responsibility.
@tobyhendricks9951
@tobyhendricks9951 7 жыл бұрын
It was a joke.
@niklashansen5432
@niklashansen5432 7 жыл бұрын
+william carroll :D
@nexii1479
@nexii1479 4 жыл бұрын
"10-200 lies a day" I can't imagine that much human interaction as a shut in lol
@theemirofjaffa2266
@theemirofjaffa2266 4 жыл бұрын
You must be living the good life then. Keep away from people.
@mannybear4691
@mannybear4691 4 жыл бұрын
Internet is full of lies
@roach931
@roach931 4 жыл бұрын
Lol neither. It's CoronaTime.
@Ugh718
@Ugh718 4 жыл бұрын
I think internet lies count too:)
@LossztYT
@LossztYT 4 жыл бұрын
This aged well
@SierNotsruht
@SierNotsruht Жыл бұрын
This has helped me get better at lying, thank you.
@wyattskinner697
@wyattskinner697 7 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed watching this 5 and half minute video, it really helped!
@marisleong8725
@marisleong8725 4 жыл бұрын
"how was school today?" "it was fine."
@a.westenholz4032
@a.westenholz4032 3 жыл бұрын
Nah- that comes under the can't be bothered to explain "It was fine" reply, since almost every kid probably answers like that whether or not there was any issues.
@Asmaa_311
@Asmaa_311 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah... i hate my school
@user-us5kq2yv3e
@user-us5kq2yv3e 3 жыл бұрын
@@Asmaa_311 Who doesn't?
@Asmaa_311
@Asmaa_311 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-us5kq2yv3e you're right..
@A_Random_Rat
@A_Random_Rat 3 жыл бұрын
Unless you get bullied, it was fine. Even if you failed a test, it was fine.
@pleasedontlookforme8036
@pleasedontlookforme8036 4 жыл бұрын
We've all told this lie: "Sorry miss, I did my homework, but left it at home"
@dragonsoul5368
@dragonsoul5368 4 жыл бұрын
and if the teacher wants it tommorow, u just do it that day and u are good, plus u put last day's data
@ISpillFishy
@ISpillFishy 4 жыл бұрын
I love how we're explaining the process of us lying to our teacher
@evetheeevee2977
@evetheeevee2977 4 жыл бұрын
Not me
@vishnuanand1583
@vishnuanand1583 4 жыл бұрын
But it is frustrating that you actually do your homework and left it at home but the teacher doesn't believe you lol
@zacheysflip859
@zacheysflip859 4 жыл бұрын
DragonSoul龍 you mean wasting hours of your life
@davisrhodesjr.8871
@davisrhodesjr.8871 Жыл бұрын
This seems very accurate to my experience of American culture, as one who was born and raised in the U.S.A. After living and working in Northern Tanzania for 4 years, I would also argue that these 4 signs do not help with detecting lies in Tanzania.
@user-vx8nf1em8v
@user-vx8nf1em8v 2 ай бұрын
lying has become the norm everywhere (as a couple, in family, at work, with friends, etc.). Simply telling the truth as it is is an act of humility
@elirayburn647
@elirayburn647 6 жыл бұрын
10-200 lies a day is a very wide margin
@pleadingblowfish957
@pleadingblowfish957 6 жыл бұрын
Especially for no-lifers like me
@cherrydragon3120
@cherrydragon3120 6 жыл бұрын
Does depend on the people you're with
@thepacificwart8777
@thepacificwart8777 6 жыл бұрын
Bob Bobbington what if the person is mute? And also that person can't learn sign language (because he/she doesn't have any hands)?
@kakokapolei123
@kakokapolei123 6 жыл бұрын
You don't have to listen to lies if you don't talk to people in the first place
@shlokthen
@shlokthen 6 жыл бұрын
I recently started playing a game that is all about lying.....
@herrapan95
@herrapan95 7 жыл бұрын
this means that I talk like a lier even when I am telling the truth
@bribriblitz3460
@bribriblitz3460 7 жыл бұрын
herrapan95 same!
@ericz.6584
@ericz.6584 7 жыл бұрын
Me as well.
@User-xw6kd
@User-xw6kd 7 жыл бұрын
herrapan95 I can relate. This is why even this video fails to do what it says, it doesnt help you confirm someone is lying rather helps you detect probable lies.
@rpresident98
@rpresident98 7 жыл бұрын
You mean you always speak negatively, avoid linking yourself to the situation you are discussing?
@o.t.d_ody_the_dreamer
@o.t.d_ody_the_dreamer 7 жыл бұрын
herrapan95 Which is a good thing, people can't tell when I lie.
@OmegaGummybear
@OmegaGummybear Жыл бұрын
I'm impressed, not only did they teach us how to more likely spot a lie, but they didn't give anyone any way to lie better
@jakepullman4914
@jakepullman4914 8 ай бұрын
Liar.
@nervofficial4091
@nervofficial4091 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I will now use this knowledge to improve my lying when playing deceit!
@elmer4042
@elmer4042 7 жыл бұрын
Now I know how to lie better
@frinky
@frinky 7 жыл бұрын
haha so true
@muhammadadeel5747
@muhammadadeel5747 7 жыл бұрын
Тhe Real ЕD Curе is oоvеr 300 Yеаrs Оld! twitter.com/385c9d4a1ae33a7b8/status/804602507225808896 Тhе lаnguagе of lying â Nооah Zаndan
@johnnoecker8471
@johnnoecker8471 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but now we know how to know you're lying, better. Gotcha
@lawrencesmith4960
@lawrencesmith4960 7 жыл бұрын
John Noecker Still, when you know what they're looking for, it allows you to streamline the process. . no zombie staring... anything more than 5 seconds between words, not good and searching for a telaprompter when there is none also not good ... i would not.....................lie.
@catnium
@catnium 7 жыл бұрын
just like everyone else
@jamesjason8471
@jamesjason8471 7 жыл бұрын
This video was made to make to spot a liar, on the other hand, this video also tells you on how to become a better liar.
@animegurl2403
@animegurl2403 7 жыл бұрын
james jason ikr
@noobnoobyify
@noobnoobyify 7 жыл бұрын
james jason On a third hand, this video was made to make you a bad lier. On a fourth hand, this video gives you false positives of a lier. The video may be a lie.
@kennykuper2422
@kennykuper2422 6 жыл бұрын
james jason SOO your lie in some parts
@hanifrashid5927
@hanifrashid5927 6 жыл бұрын
And on the 8th hand you're an octopus
@xmoreminutes
@xmoreminutes 6 жыл бұрын
james jason that's why I am watching it
@alenmandal2341
@alenmandal2341 2 жыл бұрын
This video is great for other people to detect lies tells by others and their double side. many people will try to not to show these quality while lying but i will never do such things as they do.
@mahsumcakmak1796
@mahsumcakmak1796 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tip, now we are gonna be considering these facts as well before lying.
@adilzade3022
@adilzade3022 2 жыл бұрын
New title: how to be a successful politician.
@daisydu2048
@daisydu2048 2 жыл бұрын
underrated
@Gabrielfromuktrakill
@Gabrielfromuktrakill 2 жыл бұрын
Damn
@yesthepatatolookin3113
@yesthepatatolookin3113 2 жыл бұрын
UNDERRATED
@marleniresendiz7962
@marleniresendiz7962 2 жыл бұрын
straight up
@bensophin
@bensophin 2 жыл бұрын
psychopaths: *INVEST*
@milesmaxine5740
@milesmaxine5740 3 жыл бұрын
*Biggest lie* teacher: have u understand the lesson class? students: *yes maam* !
@ebjtzbwfmjop2412
@ebjtzbwfmjop2412 3 жыл бұрын
Dont we all?😂
@louisleprince4063
@louisleprince4063 3 жыл бұрын
Always and forever hahaha
@smilingrocks1623
@smilingrocks1623 3 жыл бұрын
Lol yes
@mehlanie13
@mehlanie13 2 жыл бұрын
Fact
@0_0idk31
@0_0idk31 2 жыл бұрын
I detected the lie when you said 'maam"😌✨
@L1GHTofc
@L1GHTofc 2 жыл бұрын
I used to watch so many of your videos at school, ur amazing
@simonfrancis9009
@simonfrancis9009 2 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful... Thanks for the vid... Still relevant 7 years later
@kelamulenga9164
@kelamulenga9164 2 жыл бұрын
This is the most watched TED-ed video. Says a whole lot about us humans.
@petervagvolgyi9084
@petervagvolgyi9084 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/fIq5anSaqdNlpqs
@______7224
@______7224 2 жыл бұрын
Also seems like the least useful/interesting one. Especially those politicians' qutoes. There are plenty of similar sentences that were truthful but sound similar to the lies used in this video, it's just how politicans talk.
@Sammy-ls9jk
@Sammy-ls9jk 2 жыл бұрын
says a lot about society
@mrsclee7494
@mrsclee7494 2 жыл бұрын
we dont want liars but we are liars
@juanli4153
@juanli4153 2 жыл бұрын
Oh wait y--
@zahungrysloth
@zahungrysloth 3 жыл бұрын
"sorry i can't come, i'm busy" the struggles of being an introvert...
@muchachitachinita
@muchachitachinita 3 жыл бұрын
Righttttt
@applicableapple3991
@applicableapple3991 3 жыл бұрын
I'm actually busy doing nothing, and that takes a lot of time
@prinshiahirwar5698
@prinshiahirwar5698 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad now. I, once, had to refuse my best friend when she came to invite me to her birthday party just because of this.
@chemicallycalm5878
@chemicallycalm5878 2 жыл бұрын
ah yes, my biggest enemy, my own personality
@mehlanie13
@mehlanie13 2 жыл бұрын
That's exactly me...
@D1xedi
@D1xedi Жыл бұрын
This was really good, I have learned lie detecting and i wanted to learn more and nothing said in this video was in the other stuff that i have learned whitch made this super useful
@facts_by_Godfather
@facts_by_Godfather 8 ай бұрын
Meanwhile me : trying to learn how to lie 💀
@crystoon
@crystoon 3 жыл бұрын
"Sorry my phone died" me, who has said that many times and wasnt lying: O-O
@walliem.3319
@walliem.3319 3 жыл бұрын
rightttt like I have an iphone, and I love apple but their battery life suckssss
@magk2524
@magk2524 3 жыл бұрын
@@walliem.3319 apple fans are weird. why.. They're not worth it. they're made to work for a bit and break. just get something else
@mrwickcat4895
@mrwickcat4895 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@walliem.3319
@walliem.3319 3 жыл бұрын
@@magk2524 ok but imessage gc's and the software design-
@arck4453
@arck4453 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@qstro.
@qstro. 3 жыл бұрын
Biggest lie we ever told ourselves: "I'm gonna go to bed early, and wake up early in the morning" EVeryone: Exactly, does the opposite
@simantinidebnath
@simantinidebnath 3 жыл бұрын
The most relatable lie😅
@theavenger5749
@theavenger5749 3 жыл бұрын
True 😫
@adityapandey4059
@adityapandey4059 3 жыл бұрын
So true...like heck yes but after reading this repenting over it
@parvathy3302
@parvathy3302 3 жыл бұрын
relatable
@Alexis-bg5rf
@Alexis-bg5rf 3 жыл бұрын
But when my friends come over for a sleepover: Go to sleep at time period of midnight to 3 AM. Try to wake up at 6 to 7 AM. Sometimes actually wakes up at 6 to 7 AM. Most of time: Wakes up at 7:30
@pinkchaos.
@pinkchaos. 11 ай бұрын
The biggest flag I’ve seen when catching a liar, is if you bring something up to the person, and they deny it, and you act like you believe them and let it go, and then they act unnaturally upbeat and kinder than they usually are, that’s a big sign they were lying, and think they got away with the lie, and now they’re being overly nice because a: they’re happy they got away with their lie, and B: they’re still trying to trick you into believing their lie. Example: a cheater is being questioned by their spouse. The cheater isn’t usually over affectionate or romantic, but you accused them of cheating, and they came up with an excuse like “I had to work overtime” or “I was out with my buddies” and the girl is like “you’re right, I’m just over reacting” And then suddenly they’re like “it’s ok babe, I understand, you don’t need to worry, let’s cuddle xoxo” And they’re uncharacteristically being romantic and attentive. It may seem sweet, but in reality, if someone who wasn’t cheating were suddenly accused of it, they’d instinctively get mad or at least irritated. To the younger people here, look out for this ✋🏻
@MARIA-px2di
@MARIA-px2di 11 ай бұрын
that´s such a helpful video. I´m really thankful. thanks
@miftahulrespati
@miftahulrespati 2 жыл бұрын
Here's a pro tip: when you tell the truth, tell it like that's a lie. When people realise that you tell the truth, they will assume that it's just how you speak. So, when you tell a lie, people still assume that you speak the truth.
@dareemmanuel6079
@dareemmanuel6079 2 жыл бұрын
Until one day you wake up and don't know which is the truth and which is the lie.
@philliprobinson7724
@philliprobinson7724 2 жыл бұрын
That's very clever deception. Have you been doing it long?
@_caith
@_caith 2 жыл бұрын
my youth was spent telling occasional really obvious and bad lies - which resulted in everyone thinking I can't lie. So when I seriously messed up, and casually feigned ignorance, everyone even mentioned how I can't lie, and I laughed about that with them. XD
@BQQB5
@BQQB5 2 жыл бұрын
That is one of my most favorite things to do, I see you are a person of culture as well
@philliprobinson7724
@philliprobinson7724 2 жыл бұрын
@Talaveras Hi Talaveras. If you isolate yourself you'll be seen as distant, aloof, and untrustworthy. If you want real friends, you'll have to reject tactics that make you an unknown quantity to others. Cheers, P.R.
@YHLGguitargeek
@YHLGguitargeek 8 жыл бұрын
Is it terrible of me that I watched this to learn how to lie better? :o
@filipsamuelsson5575
@filipsamuelsson5575 8 жыл бұрын
nah
@sezzifying
@sezzifying 8 жыл бұрын
+Zach Miles Yes.
@alexanderboleyn2058
@alexanderboleyn2058 8 жыл бұрын
+Zach Miles same lol
@ggezwp8737
@ggezwp8737 8 жыл бұрын
the only thing i learned was the difrent devices used to detect lies XD
@kewl-asian
@kewl-asian 8 жыл бұрын
I think my lying skills just upgraded rather than to actually feel guilty lmao
@risingunity6446
@risingunity6446 Жыл бұрын
thanks to this channel, i have achieved _DECEPTION_ 100
@AP_Creation738
@AP_Creation738 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, this really helped me improve my lying skills👍
@zilvoxidgod
@zilvoxidgod 7 жыл бұрын
Man, some people really suck at lying.
@theqisha9518
@theqisha9518 7 жыл бұрын
Sorry,I guess you are absolutely dandly good at knowing some stereotype.Afterall it is soo true and correct and really custom.
@professorhal8098
@professorhal8098 7 жыл бұрын
*famous people
@octo349
@octo349 7 жыл бұрын
Artyom Metro a
@hemantdubey313
@hemantdubey313 7 жыл бұрын
me😣
@openthedoor759
@openthedoor759 7 жыл бұрын
Nudedragon They Improvise a lot.
@sussynanibaka69
@sussynanibaka69 3 жыл бұрын
“Liars tend to be negative because they feel guilty about lying” Psychopaths and sociopaths: 👀
@icannotcomeupwithanything4609
@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 3 жыл бұрын
@@samaahmed4053 Your more likey to be Sociopath/Psychopath than you are to born with blue eyes.
@samaahmed4053
@samaahmed4053 3 жыл бұрын
@@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 Blue eyes are about 8% of the population while phycos and socios are total 6% so idrk i don't think so
@DragoX7
@DragoX7 3 жыл бұрын
Anxiety and depression can make someone quite negative, a negative opinion doesn't mean they are lying lol
@DragoX7
@DragoX7 3 жыл бұрын
@@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 😳 I have blue eyes
@sussynanibaka69
@sussynanibaka69 3 жыл бұрын
@Kokichi Oma👀
@jimmyhackers8980
@jimmyhackers8980 2 жыл бұрын
this talk simplified, look out for all children, women and men.
@hemant4339
@hemant4339 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for upgrading my lying skills 😁
@jenAp9040
@jenAp9040 4 жыл бұрын
Mom: I don't lie, so you shouldn't either, okay? Restaurant: Free meals for kids 12 and under! Mom: SAY THAT YOU'RE UNDER 12 Me: But I thought... Mom: NOW
@julissaholt1894
@julissaholt1894 4 жыл бұрын
that's how my mom be lowkey
@shrutis
@shrutis 4 жыл бұрын
Being short and having a baby face, I got free dinner till I was 12... It was only for kids under 8. Thanks mom
@nanamacapagal8342
@nanamacapagal8342 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly my dad Me at 14: minding my own business My dad registering at the hotel: he's 11. *RAISE YOUR VOICE SO THAT YOU SOUND 11*
@halcyon.89
@halcyon.89 3 жыл бұрын
Jena Park OR GET SPANKED
@adilshah6664
@adilshah6664 3 жыл бұрын
Yh. My mum always says to me "Never lie because it is a big sin"... When I was 14, my mum told me to say to the bus driver I'm 8 if he ever asked wheres my bus pass
@Intradiction
@Intradiction 6 жыл бұрын
The problem is that when someone tells a difficult truth, or one that seems unlikely, it will sound exactly as if they are lying according to this video. Stuff like using complicated language or not directly referencing yourself can indicate that whoever is saying it is nervous, and they would be nervous if they were telling a lie or telling a difficult truth.
@lynding2873
@lynding2873 6 жыл бұрын
|Innovation| if it's difficult, we will know that.
@gavriloking5637
@gavriloking5637 6 жыл бұрын
the video is pseudo-science, if there were ways to tell lies beyond actually discovering the truth we would surely all do that because learning of the truth through investigation can be quite difficult at times.
@ThePyromania13
@ThePyromania13 6 жыл бұрын
We also use complicated language, like the statements described in this video, in order to reduce uncertainty and prevent misunderstandings or misconstruction.
@onobi8940
@onobi8940 6 жыл бұрын
|Innovation| my brain hurts
@Hngtr68
@Hngtr68 5 жыл бұрын
ThePyromania13 Agree
@jodizellmer994
@jodizellmer994 Жыл бұрын
Over explaining yourself or being defensive, especially when nobody actually accused you of anything is a sign a person is a liar. Also, when you tell the truth your story stays the same because you don't have to remember anything.
@Rogerda7
@Rogerda7 Жыл бұрын
Let me break it up to you: there is no consensus of when a person is lying. You either assume people don’t lie or assume people are always lying. You just never really know a stranger. It may be easier with friends/family because of patterns but even then you can never really be sure. Good book to read about lying is “talking to strangers”
@deathscore1548
@deathscore1548 5 жыл бұрын
Who else said "oof" when reading "I love you" at the beginning of the video?
@ohyeahyeahimasian392
@ohyeahyeahimasian392 5 жыл бұрын
me haha
@lilyjay8530
@lilyjay8530 5 жыл бұрын
Nobody
@yinyang1217
@yinyang1217 5 жыл бұрын
I didnt even see that or i probably forgot
@ysobelle7004
@ysobelle7004 5 жыл бұрын
Oof
@susanhernandezocampo7252
@susanhernandezocampo7252 5 жыл бұрын
Oof
@Radagast-
@Radagast- 3 жыл бұрын
If you keep a liar talking for long enough, then they will contradict themselves, sooner or later. Sooner, probably.
@tanishasakthivel7974
@tanishasakthivel7974 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@genthefrog18
@genthefrog18 3 жыл бұрын
hah, that's where you're wrong, I use a method where I check possible combinations of words that won't trip me and psychologically makes sense in their head to the point where I need 5 seconds to process the next line of words(random facts, this is why my name is gen because I tend to use how other people think and use it against them hehe >:) simplified: overthinking things without anxiety
@yespapa8102
@yespapa8102 3 жыл бұрын
@@genthefrog18 I am very smart
@yespapa8102
@yespapa8102 3 жыл бұрын
If they are skilled enough they might be able to avoid that, or they can just say your asking to much questions and make you look bad
@Radagast-
@Radagast- 3 жыл бұрын
@@yespapa8102 The object isn't to interrogate. Besides, you might not know you're talking to a liar, so bombarding them with questions isn't what you'd be doing. The fact remains that nobody's capable of sustaining a lie for any length of time... they will say something completely contradictory to an earlier statement, because it's impossible to construct a wholly fictitious universe on the spur of the moment. That's why liars keep their relationships superficial.
@pratisthamukherjee4641
@pratisthamukherjee4641 Жыл бұрын
Your contents are very fascinating, and also the narrator's voice kinda sounds like dream
@joshb2093
@joshb2093 Жыл бұрын
“We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day” that was the first lie I heard today..
@Keurlock
@Keurlock 5 жыл бұрын
So if I had took in all this information correctly, liars... 1. Decrease their use of personal pronouns 2. Expresses a simple idea yet makes the explanation sound more complex and long. 3. Acts more negative
@thatmobiledude2679
@thatmobiledude2679 5 жыл бұрын
Keurlock pretty much on spot now do the opposite of those things and no one will catch you.
@Keurlock
@Keurlock 5 жыл бұрын
@@thatmobiledude2679 Oh I'm not here to lie... I'm here to catch them 😎
@TheSast
@TheSast 4 жыл бұрын
@@Keurlock LIE DETECTED: SIMPLE EXPLANATION
@HuslWusl
@HuslWusl 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know about the first thing but I'm so introverted and rational that I don't form longer sentences when I'm lying and I'm acting negative or positive depending on my mood and how interesting the topic is. I don't like lying and I try my best to not tell any lies whatsoever, but I'd say I'm still pretty good at it. (Examples for long sentences of me just displaying my thoughts; so no lying)
@TheSast
@TheSast 4 жыл бұрын
@@HuslWusl thats the same for me but apparently now everyone belives thar "im fine" or "sorry i fell down the stairs and so i missed the bus" are lies >:(
@Peridox69420
@Peridox69420 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t trust people with anime profile pictures.
@chanbricks4461
@chanbricks4461 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats you created a paradox.
@lindsey7544
@lindsey7544 4 жыл бұрын
@@chanbricks4461 Yup !
@SeekerHeir
@SeekerHeir 4 жыл бұрын
Too bad *MY PROFILE IS NOT ANIME* XD
@kagomehigurashi6450
@kagomehigurashi6450 4 жыл бұрын
No bts profile pic
@lerambo499
@lerambo499 4 жыл бұрын
Shut up weeb
@user-dd2nr2pt8l
@user-dd2nr2pt8l 2 жыл бұрын
Not me watching this before Amber’s testimony lol
@YourArtistNeighbour
@YourArtistNeighbour 8 ай бұрын
People with trust issues : I take this as an absolute win.
@dragonsoul5368
@dragonsoul5368 4 жыл бұрын
my dad was always telling me that he who understands lies, understands how to lie too edit: this comment is by far the most liked i ever had ... well i dont know.. i guess thank you xd
@decidueyefan3844
@decidueyefan3844 4 жыл бұрын
No wonder how I can see straight through any of my friends’ lies
@dragonsoul5368
@dragonsoul5368 4 жыл бұрын
@@decidueyefan3844 ikr, i could easily tell when they are lying, telling an extreme story or sth, and this is that many times i got them busted and i had proof for their lies but i never did that, well i rly think that the skill to identifie lies is more about protecting urself from those lies than identifying and reporting publicly the liars, well it satisfies me that there is another person out there identifying his friends' lies xD
@dragonsoul5368
@dragonsoul5368 4 жыл бұрын
@Technical ASHD 😂😂😂fun facr, its the first time i reach so many likes at a comment
@awlns725
@awlns725 4 жыл бұрын
So that's why people always catch me off guard with their "interesting stories".
@buttered_cheeto_mix8483
@buttered_cheeto_mix8483 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah about you being adopted (sorry)
@lindsey7544
@lindsey7544 5 жыл бұрын
My teacher is bad at spotting liars Me: Lies to teacher Teacher: Okay! :D You can go. Me: Doesn't lie Teacher: Johanna, we all know you're lying. I forgot I even commented this
@skylovermc2146
@skylovermc2146 4 жыл бұрын
Johanna's Stuff 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@4th4nm.32
@4th4nm.32 4 жыл бұрын
Johanna's Stuff My teacher, right there.
@vvv____
@vvv____ 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@nishthedr
@nishthedr 4 жыл бұрын
Ye
@shrutis
@shrutis 4 жыл бұрын
my real life is so messed up, people always think i'm lying
@stevensavoie856
@stevensavoie856 7 ай бұрын
On the last denial example, there was also a non-contraction, "I have not" rather than the usual "I haven't".
@CelticVampireQueen
@CelticVampireQueen Ай бұрын
Thank you for making my lies more believable!
@silvergrace8702
@silvergrace8702 2 жыл бұрын
in other words you can make a lie look more believable by: - using first person pronouns - simple phrasing - positive language
@shivambhanushali3086
@shivambhanushali3086 Жыл бұрын
So... building a complex, realistic narrative, but in simple words, using first person pronouns, and without negative words. Got it.
@ws8080
@ws8080 Жыл бұрын
And the irony is that every politician says such things every election, and after they are in office the lie becomes obvious. And yet everyone keeps voting them in.
@kkimes
@kkimes Жыл бұрын
Yep, and Trump has it down to a science. That's what years of practice will do for you.
@jodizellmer994
@jodizellmer994 Жыл бұрын
Or by making sure your emotions fit the lie your trying to make people believe.
@khalbrogos
@khalbrogos Жыл бұрын
When you speak, speak clearly, concisely, and confidently. No matter the content of what you're saying, it's an effective rule of thumb.
@getpriyanka
@getpriyanka 3 жыл бұрын
Mom : I don't lie Also mom when someone's call comes : Tell them I am not at home
@Hamza-vm9oj
@Hamza-vm9oj 3 жыл бұрын
She's not lying since it was an order not a statement, and only statements can be true or false. But u r lying when u say mum's not home. YOU LIAR
@oracle372
@oracle372 3 жыл бұрын
Priyanka Shukla Inspired from Diary Of A Wimpy Kid
@Vxhruta
@Vxhruta 3 жыл бұрын
Mote like she asked u to lie lmao
@Vxhruta
@Vxhruta 3 жыл бұрын
More**
@jscythe
@jscythe 3 жыл бұрын
@@Hamza-vm9oj LMAOOO NICE
@willam9421
@willam9421 Жыл бұрын
When I was younger ( 6 - 18 years old ) I would lie a LOT. Now that I'm much older ( 36 years old ) I realize that my memory isn't what it used to be and I'm too lazy to lie. I just speak the truth.... Which tends to be more harmful than lying most of the time. 🤔 Well, I am who I am. 🙂
@AcediaIX
@AcediaIX 2 жыл бұрын
I dunno why but I have this weird skill to be horrible at lying and at the same time, I can immediately notice if someone is lying
@tatsukani
@tatsukani 4 жыл бұрын
When liars see this, they'll get better at lying.
@amarisrosalette3694
@amarisrosalette3694 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I'll get better (˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵)
@zetrian_3679
@zetrian_3679 3 жыл бұрын
@@amarisrosalette3694 same
@godfather-gh2vq
@godfather-gh2vq 3 жыл бұрын
everyone is liar.
@amarisrosalette3694
@amarisrosalette3694 3 жыл бұрын
@@godfather-gh2vq *l i e s*
@thichinhphan4010
@thichinhphan4010 3 жыл бұрын
The ones that are good liars don't see themselves lying. They twist the truths in their favor, not just simply lying like a child making an excuse.
@fuzzypineapple5118
@fuzzypineapple5118 4 жыл бұрын
2:36 So that man, woke up late, ran to work, but it was raining, he slipped, lightning struck and fire started, he had to avoid the fire, was physically abused, had a concussion, bit by a dog, train derailed, and a U.F.O. came down to Earth. Employees:....
@ltuyettrinh2
@ltuyettrinh2 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure if he even made it to his workplace
@zeroxxwrld
@zeroxxwrld 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣this comment deserves more attention
@Habira03
@Habira03 4 жыл бұрын
Dead Zer0 , ur right!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏
@fluffyfelix539
@fluffyfelix539 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@annamartin1369
@annamartin1369 4 жыл бұрын
FuzzyPineapple seems legit
@darklugia8161
@darklugia8161 2 жыл бұрын
So to make your lies sound more truthful: 1. Self reference more 2. No negative language 3. Complex explanations 4. Simple phrasing
@trdrudedude6099
@trdrudedude6099 3 ай бұрын
I can confidently proclaim that the above informative material provided by the Creator would and could never be used to improve lie quality by anyone
@gasterfire6256
@gasterfire6256 4 жыл бұрын
Tip: If you feel like somebody is lying with a story tell them to repeat the story with the same details but Backwards It is suppressingly very difficult for them to get the story right
@mcfreezyyaboi8389
@mcfreezyyaboi8389 4 жыл бұрын
That's like cops trying to get me to say the ABC backwards.. I cant even do that sober
@cautarepvp2079
@cautarepvp2079 4 жыл бұрын
lol you cant say anything like that backwards. No way hahah
@R-BURQUENO
@R-BURQUENO 4 жыл бұрын
It would be just as difficult for me even if I WAS telling the Truth!🤷
@lindsey7544
@lindsey7544 4 жыл бұрын
@@R-BURQUENO IKR!
@hy2707
@hy2707 4 жыл бұрын
hahaha very funny lol hahaha
@MidnightBloomDev
@MidnightBloomDev 4 жыл бұрын
This video is simple but uses words extensively. Doesn't use "I" and is quite negative. TLDR: this video is a lie
@fellowcommentscroller.8748
@fellowcommentscroller.8748 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂facts.
@wellfolks9096
@wellfolks9096 4 жыл бұрын
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@fellowcommentscroller.8748
@fellowcommentscroller.8748 4 жыл бұрын
@@wellfolks9096 💀you just messed up my brain functions ,but somehow I know what you mean
@multikioske8044
@multikioske8044 4 жыл бұрын
Great now im retarted
@TheEckoEcho
@TheEckoEcho 4 жыл бұрын
I phone is dead
@billyandrew
@billyandrew Жыл бұрын
Posted seven years ago and it has not stood the test of time, as recent studies, conducted under scientific conditions, have blown it out of the water. Interrogators and body language 'experts' have been wrong all along. I always found the subject amusing. Now I find it hilarious. 😂😂😂
@yumiko1065
@yumiko1065 3 жыл бұрын
"I forgot my assignment at home." I'll never forget this line.
@harsh9558
@harsh9558 3 жыл бұрын
U know because of people like this I had suffered once. I had forgotten my note book at home and it was first month of school and the thought I was lieing.(it was around 3rd month then she would have understood iam a good student and iam saying truth).
@yumiko1065
@yumiko1065 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah man, felt that too. People should also be considerate especially if you have good records.
@alanmaclaren4118
@alanmaclaren4118 3 жыл бұрын
@CREATIVE BROs r/Ihadastroke
@danim8501
@danim8501 3 жыл бұрын
I once said that excuse to my teacher While i was doing online school from home- yeah, the i realised it makes no sense LMAO
@yumiko1065
@yumiko1065 3 жыл бұрын
Ella, you're done. Hahaha
@theqisha9518
@theqisha9518 7 жыл бұрын
I got no time to subscribe because I have a meeting.
@MikeSerota
@MikeSerota 7 жыл бұрын
Was that a lie?
@theqisha9518
@theqisha9518 7 жыл бұрын
Mike Serota Umm,I was actually IS meeting with my CEO company in africa---I mean at afghanistan.
@KamiliumAMVs
@KamiliumAMVs 7 жыл бұрын
But you got time to comment xD
@placido593
@placido593 7 жыл бұрын
+Free Cats another lie
@MikeSerota
@MikeSerota 7 жыл бұрын
It doesn't really matter to me. I just thought you were being funny I guess. (free cats)
@guineapigs3050
@guineapigs3050 Жыл бұрын
Never let the truth get in the way with a good story
@DoFliesCallUsWalks
@DoFliesCallUsWalks 3 ай бұрын
Thanks, today I learnt how to lie without being detected.
@wyfy6141
@wyfy6141 7 жыл бұрын
Um, no I didn't watch this video just to know how to get away with lying
@miguelsalgado9940
@miguelsalgado9940 7 жыл бұрын
It comes natural for a woman to know the art of lying
@PBCSandMarci
@PBCSandMarci 7 жыл бұрын
I totally believe you
@a3ftwbf4isgr86
@a3ftwbf4isgr86 7 жыл бұрын
LeahTheMint 0 I mean I dont know...It kinda sounds like you are...but this is the internet no-one lies here right?
@deletingchannel1703
@deletingchannel1703 7 жыл бұрын
a3ftw bf4isgr8 nope ALOT of people lie on the internet
@Julzchomovitch00
@Julzchomovitch00 7 жыл бұрын
you need to fix your sarcasm detector
@EricMwizerwa
@EricMwizerwa 7 жыл бұрын
Easiest way to tell a lie is to believe it yourself
@blazetail3605
@blazetail3605 6 жыл бұрын
Eric Mwizerwa But would it be a lie if you believed it??
@khaosklub
@khaosklub 6 жыл бұрын
yes, it is still a lie
@safirouhi1651
@safirouhi1651 6 жыл бұрын
I also am a practitioner of cognitive dissonance
@krismine99
@krismine99 6 жыл бұрын
It does make it much easier if you question a potential unknown motive being the reason behind your lies. Example: I am limping because my leg hurts, but what if I have some unconscious desire for attention that is causing me to limp and feel pain. Therefore my leg mustn’t really hurt for I am only limping because of an unconscious motivation.
@girlactic1743
@girlactic1743 6 жыл бұрын
someone could say donald trump is a good president and believe it but its still a lie
@Apralhad
@Apralhad 9 ай бұрын
We can lie to others but we can't lie to ourselves one or other way we end up hurting ourselves i learnt this in a hard way 🙏
@BadassName17
@BadassName17 5 ай бұрын
Dude, I lie a lot and I’m fine as can be.
@user-hm8wc8le7s
@user-hm8wc8le7s Жыл бұрын
Thanks, now we can lie more efficiently and effectively..
@elenaillustrates3231
@elenaillustrates3231 5 жыл бұрын
"i love you." damn that one hurts
@dtarmizi4967
@dtarmizi4967 4 жыл бұрын
Translation: I love you because i can use you for my own gain.
@SirEriol
@SirEriol 4 жыл бұрын
I'm definetly not cheating on you.
@federica1930
@federica1930 4 жыл бұрын
"I lie saying I love you because if I say the truth you would suffer and I would lose you"
@MoarteaLunii
@MoarteaLunii 4 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@leofera1137
@leofera1137 7 жыл бұрын
just watching this to become a better liar
@ogelle5708
@ogelle5708 7 жыл бұрын
Hello Kitty lol
@babydevil5019
@babydevil5019 6 жыл бұрын
ドルミン yup me too
@Mars-nm8ek
@Mars-nm8ek 5 жыл бұрын
Arthur Fleck same
@raymeownd
@raymeownd 5 жыл бұрын
ayyyy same
@bethelyanz7572
@bethelyanz7572 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@christiaancoetzee1696
@christiaancoetzee1696 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man this really helped a lot…
@hukbalahapps
@hukbalahapps 7 ай бұрын
hi! this helped me a lot i have someone I know that is a pathological liar.
@sho3003
@sho3003 3 жыл бұрын
Me, who shows those signs WHILE TELLING THE TRUTH: **CONFUSED SCREAMING*
@saishriya8244
@saishriya8244 2 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one who does this-
@alyomaly5213
@alyomaly5213 2 жыл бұрын
Yes..this is me. If lying I'm convincing. I'm honest then no one believes
@cozyflurry
@cozyflurry 2 жыл бұрын
xD
@nathangravitt5982
@nathangravitt5982 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I give as many details as I can to prove that my story is accurate. When I’ve lied, I tried to keep it as short and simple as possible to avoid messing up. I thought everyone knew that. 🤔
@videopiratemahir
@videopiratemahir 2 жыл бұрын
Yupp
@verward
@verward 8 жыл бұрын
so now you know what it means when your so says: "love is occurring here..." instead of " I love you".
@PhenomenalMFT
@PhenomenalMFT 8 жыл бұрын
Ha!
@Warma99
@Warma99 8 жыл бұрын
+Ward Huyskes Was funny.
@thebookofjoy
@thebookofjoy 8 жыл бұрын
+Ward Huyskes hahahahahahah
@KnotApps
@KnotApps 8 жыл бұрын
+Ward Huyskes 'I'm busy.' would be 'Due to preoccupation by unforeseeable activities it isn't possible to keep any promises about doing activities other than the one currently progressing'
@lauraa009
@lauraa009 Жыл бұрын
lifehack: be awkward all the time and people won't be able to tell the difference between you lying and telling the truth.
@ws8080
@ws8080 Жыл бұрын
I think these tips only work in an argument or when caught in bad behavior. Otherwise, they tend to be very positive - but vague - and don't ever tell you bad news. They like to tell you how well the business is doing right before you get your layoff notice in the mail. But yes my spouse uses his techniques pointed out here whenever she is caught or losing an argument. She uses a string of interruptions, and deflections similar to pointed out here. And then wonders why I think she is lying... or more accurately know she is lying. I should have known better when I saw how she lied to her parents ever time caught doing the opposite of what she stated.
@anotherbadinfluence3007
@anotherbadinfluence3007 4 жыл бұрын
When they said "I love you" in the list of lies, I felt that.
@minhbui6943
@minhbui6943 3 жыл бұрын
Same O_O
@weliveinasociety1154
@weliveinasociety1154 2 жыл бұрын
Cringe
@CupidGTag
@CupidGTag 2 жыл бұрын
i tried to overlook it because i am in a relationship, have been for nearly 10 months
@electricz3045
@electricz3045 2 жыл бұрын
@@CupidGTag I don't lie. I really love ya dude 😎
@CupidGTag
@CupidGTag 2 жыл бұрын
@@electricz3045 thanks bro :handshake:
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