The Law Sets the Rules! | Part 1

[@jen-a-purr]

When she said “I let him see her.” I knew it was over for her lol

[@librarygyal0589]

😊😊😊

[@BeLoud13]

Not just what she says, but she has "skank" vibes.

[@flipd2830]

Thats when I grabbed the popcorn, sat back, and reclined my seat. I knew this was going to get interesting.

[@talita.1389]

He can be the father when it's convenient to her, disgusting behavior.

[@amacuro]

It is disgusting behaviour, but we don't know the other side of the story. Humans are usually not crazy and decide to torment other human beings just because. Specially an ex, and the father of their child. There must be some perception of injustice from her side. Which may or may not be justified. We don't know. To ask someone who has been through metaphorical hell to be generous to the source of their misery is a big ask for us humans.

[@amacuro]

Hmm Part 2 just came out and she literally said he put her through hell lol

[@gogokris85]

She’s being very bitter and spiteful. Couldn’t she his infant daughter on Christmas week and she kept the little girl away from the dad. I believe she still doing drugs and sleeping with any and every man she sees. The defendant needs to be fighting for full custody or supervised visitation.

[@talita.1389]

@@amacuro he has the right to see his daughter, despite of what happened between them.

[@amacuro]

Yes absolutly.@@talita.1389

[@jefetters7182]

“IT’S NOT UP TO YOU TO GIVE HER!!!”😂 I love Judge Judy and I love when she stands up for equal parenting to protect the kids.

[@themirrorsofmymind]

She held back for so long that it scared the $hit outta me when she finally blew! 🎧🎧🎧🎧🎧😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨

[@hard-truthsbetter-than-swe6543]

Yas! "you did not have a bad dad, you had a bitter mother" applies here very well!

[@alyssawarnock4847]

I hate how people think dads are second class parents. The mom “I decided to let him” 2 months after the baby was born. That’s bull. Parental alienation.

[@timberlycassie1799]

Me too!😊

[@donnawakefield4188]

1:14

[@overcominglifestrials5316]

When JJ said she’s trying to get a “feel”, the plaintiff may as well just go home. 😂😂😂

[@asabovesobelow7981]

😂 ikr

[@Orcl1100]

“I’m an old family court judge.” “I wanna know who you are.” JJ already knew 10 seconds in

[@katiejon17]

What a horrible woman... using THEIR child as a weapon against him.

[@lisamurphy7918]

Narcissist. She only loves herself. She will always use her children against their father.

[@lawrencegauti9108]

When JJ says I want to know who you are hey you done😂😂😂

[@shitedriver8490]

Horrible human. I pitty her child 😢

[@podsmpsg1]

She was using the kid as leverage.

[@markc7440]

A child is a blessing, not a bargaining chip.

[@guygardner8308]

We hear endless stories about "Bad Dads". But when you come across a stories of a "Good Dad, Bad Mom", no one talks about it. So glad Judge Judy saw through her thin veil.

[@Pevoidzz]

I love how Judge Judy can just rip people apart with simple questions. Judy already knew who she was in the first minute.

[@Blessed_Mom2420]

I have two kids with my boyfriend and no matter what happens between him and I, I would never interfere with their relationship with him. This lady needs a reality check.

[@purplelove3666]

Women need to Stop making babies with men you are not married to, and men need to stop making babies with women they are not married to

[@xoangelicaf0523]

You say that until something happens. There’s some reasons ppl do interfere and I’m ok with it especially domestic violence just bc he abused an adult doesn’t mean he won’t ever abuse the child or even kill the child if it goes that far. I’ve seen it happen plenty times domestic violence turns into homicide of the whole family

[@Blessed_Mom2420]

@@xoangelicaf0523 If it ever did get to that, I would go about doing it the legal way.

[@whosaidthat9265]

@@xoangelicaf0523you went to the extreme of physical harm when that’s not what this is about. The plaintiff, like a lot of mothers, use their kids as pawns and see them as a tool to terrorize the man who no longer wants them. Let’s stay on track here.

[@kaysense6136]

@@xoangelicaf0523 you’re right, and a lot of people don’t know what happens behind closed doors . People can be very deceiving, just because they look decent doesn’t mean they are.

[@drewizkoollikeicecre]

Another woman that doesn’t get that fathers have just as many rights as she does. The way she talks, it’s clear she thinks she owns the child.

[@alex1vid]

Sadly, that isn't always the case and a lot of times women win the case even if they clearly shouldn't be anywhere near the children. They SHOULD have equal rights but in reality...

[@drewizkoollikeicecre]

@@alex1vid Very true, but the judicial system is starting to get it in most places. Usually it’s 70 yr old judges that still have social views from the 40’s and 60’s.

[@purplelove3666]

Humans need to stop mating with other humans because they are the opposite sex, get married first!, vet vet and vet!

[@arnellataylor3310]

​@@alex1vidso true in this country they are mostly on the women's side even when they lie and scheme. There should be equality!

[@squizzerl1478]

​@arnellataylor3310 it's starting to change. For a century, the mother was the best person to have the child because women didn't have to work and the men did so they wouldn't be present to care for the child. Also, the societal differences between then and now are stark. Men were discouraged from being single parents and there was an enormous stigma against that. Luckily we are starting to get to a place now where both people are judged equally since everyone has to work now and there's no easy solution to child rearing. The stigma against men being good, present fathers has also changed which is amazing. It's no where near perfect but it's getting there.

[@benwakefield93]

My Dad cheated on my Mum when I was 18 months old. NEVER has she discouraged me from or stopped me from seeing him. I've seen him every week since childhood. Neither of my parents have ever spoke badly about eachother to me. I have a wonderful Mother and Father. Love your kids more than you hate each other. Manipulative mothers like this disgust me. I don't care how badly he has treated you. Unless he is a danger or neglectful to the child, they are two EQUAL parents. I wish there were more judges like Judge Judy to defend fathers.

[@anndeecosita3586]

My dad also cheated on my mom and later ended up marrying his mistress after the divorce. My mom never prevented him or my paternal side from seeing me. Any negative perceptions I have of my father is because of things I have seen him do not because of anything my mother said about him.

[@gRinchY-op5vr]

My mother never quicked up a fuss when we would visit our father who was living with the woman he left her for, as far as she was concerned as long as he kept up the custody and child maintenance agreement it was all good. Only time an issue took place was when said woman (they aren't together anymore) told him because they had us for a week in the summer they should dock maintenance, my mother reminded my father the current agreement took weeks we wouls visit for holidays into account...his ex still wanted my father to either pay less or see us less.

[@KardiairKing-su1qi]

Judge Judy knew exactly her little tricks🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GriggsC123]

Well she was a "Old family court Judge."

[@michellemorgan3667]

Some women don't like to understand that fathers have rights and the morher doesn't 'own' the child

[@sister_bertrille911]

They also don't understand that the more loving adults there are in a child's life, the better it is for everyone involved, especially the child.

[@shannonbrice8012]

So the child was already seeing her father from mon to thursday, the only reason the mother won't sign the papperwork (imho) is because she didn't want to give up the control of the situation. She uses that child as leverage and most likely with her family as well.

[@dogloverjb6873]

I wish irresponsible people wouldn't have children ...

[@animebrat76]

With how few responsible individuals left on earth… well the human race won’t exist soon if your wish was granted

[@Corefriedrich_]

😂😂😂 @dogloverjb6873 That's too much. It all depends tho.

[@aobetikosikhain6814]

I LOVE judge judy

[@themirrorsofmymind]

How *DRUNK* was he?

[@sneakyonlinegirl]

That’s what I’m wondering. He must’ve had 1000 proof moonshine

[@israelcm7246]

Oh yeah fire works in this one. Bring on part 2.

[@UncleDuTheWatchman]

The proclamation at the end of this clip is powerful and I hope every manipulative mother who uses their child as a weapon against their own father (damaging the child in the process, mind you) heard that statement and takes heed. Best clip ending ever. ""It's not up to you to 'give her' "! Praying for all the upstanding Brothers and innocent children who are being intentionally hurt by the women who think that it is and couldn't care less about the damage they are causing.

[@tonyaa8738]

The father seems like a much more mature parent than the mother. This kid is going to need her dad.

[@AntoniusReginaldus]

I like how Judge Judy had finally had enough of the " I let him" and "I gave her to him" stuff that she absolutely hates. You do not try to minimize a father's place with Judge Judy. You are way far behind if you don't know that yet lol.

[@kuro.hitsuji]

I love how Judgy Judy picks up the tiniest details and is able to figure out who is lying after a series of specific questions. This woman is sharp, I wish I had half her brain

[@erickakjones]

The way the defendant looks at the plaintiff makes me sad... as if he's waiting to hear what painful thing she'll say next.

[@lanafan211]

why is her head so tiny 😭😭😂😂😂

[@Providedbygeoo]

The things he’s done to you have nothing to do with the relationship he needs to have with his daughter. Holding back that relationship that needs to form is only detrimental to the child.

[@lizh1988]

I he is disrespectful or abusive to the mother, he will not be very good to the child.

[@shonda79able]

​@lizh1988 that's not true in all cases.

[@shonda79able]

​@lizh1988 also, he wasn't too bad for her to ask him for his car so she can drive around randomly in.

[@Shottas4Twenty]

@@shonda79able9/10 it’s true it but you’re right, he couldn’t have been that bad if he loaned her his car for fun

[@gRinchY-op5vr]

​@lizh1988 she doesn't even detail any of the things he apparently put her through, I think they were just bad together and she doesn't want to share their child. If she's concerned over violent behaviour in the past she should get an order in place to either keep him away or keep his contact supervised, but given she only brought up doubts he was the father because he wanted to see her more often shows she just wants him gone 🙄

[@MarkT1700]

JJ read her like a book!

[@mjremy2605]

I really like it when JJ puts these manipulating women in their places. Many women blackmail the father using the child visitation as a bargaining chip. Disgusting! The father has every right to see his child with zero bargaining. In fact any mother who does this should be denied any custody rights!

[@I.am.Mrs.Mathers]

Those aren’t women, those are succubus’s who care about nothing and no one but themselves!

[@BananaLungs]

He's far too good looking to even be messing with a woman like that...pretty jarring.

[@bjohnson1149]

This young lady has problems other than this court case.

[@thor697]

It's never a good sign when Judge Judy says she is just trying to figure out who you are/who she is dealing with.

[@benzamg32m68]

I don't know what he saw in her.

[@markc7440]

Cute but crazy.

[@crylune]

Thinking with his other head as usual

[@robertmarshalljr3750]

Only Judy can judge me

[@lizhurley4216]

I need this on a shirt

[@backpfeifengesicht980]

@@lizhurley4216I just looked it up, and yes…THEY MAKE THESE!!! Lots of different styles too. Thx for the idea, because I may need to rock one of these! ☺️

[@CB-hq1ho]

Bro must’ve been hammered that night

[@MrMousley]

Judge Judy ''Why didn't he see the child before ?'' Plaintiff ''He was too busy doing things and running around'' and then it turns out that he had tried to see his child before and she had said ''No''. I don't think this case will go well for her !

[@nala7658]

To many people do this. If I split with my husband I would never deprive my child of a father and grandparents (and extended family) that love her.

[@CanadianBisdak]

He kept on looking at her… seems like a good father to me

[@indiacarroll7650]

I love how she doesn't play that when it comes to the kid ! It's not up to her

[@xxo8888]

So she's using their child as revenge and he's a liar. He went from taking care of her and the baby all of 2016 down to 2 months. He wants Mon-Thurs for financial reasons and she'd deny that baby just to hurt him. That baby is a pawn for both and it's sad

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

Where in the world are you getting that he's a liar and using the baby as a pawn?

[@xxo8888]

@@k.robertrichardson6779 uh.. from the video? He literally said he took care of them "all of 2016," then after being grilled by JJ, he whittled it down to 2 months

[@charlieb1976]

​@@xxo8888He said she lived with him for 2 months

[@helterskelter2020]

He didn't "whittle" it down. He said the woman and his baby lived with him for 2 months and the rest of the time she lived in his house while he was deployed. The least he did for her was let her stay rent-free in his house for a few months, maybe 10 maybe less.

[@helterskelter2020]

Given the mother's behavior and attitude, I'm more inclined to believe the defendant than the plaintiff.

[@earth0128]

There should be capacity tests before people make children... poor children 😞

[@jennygiallanza4524]

I totally agree. They must be able to hold a job, pay for the necessities and not live on government assistance. And pass a drug test during the entire pregnancy

[@janelleharrison6209]

I have been saying this for years... It's a sad sad thing these situations 😢

[@templar19]

Plaintiff looks simultaneously 14 and 40.

[@Cooscoop]

How drunk would you have to be to sleep with this bridge troll

[@sergieghalliwell8753]

You can tell JJ was coming in hard. She is playing games with the father and manipulating a situation for vengeance.

[@Sunshine134chick]

4:00 Period Judge Judy let her know it’s not up to you to give her 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@TamaraLynn1111]

I love JJ! ❤️

[@Corefriedrich_]

Hello Darling @tamarabrown6225. How are you doing. Is that you on photo?? Wao

[@Mscldrew]

Mommy thinks a child only has one parent. Everyone who knows anything about JJ knows exactly where this is going. We’re just waiting for it…

[@sybilwhite1259]

Go get her Judge Judy she doesn't seem to realize she can't stop him from seeing his child 🙄

[@eleanoraquitaine2966]

She's using the baby as a pawn to punish him. He should get custody.

[@byrontownsel7274]

She looks like a Bob’s Burgers character.

[@desperono1560]

You shouldn't make fun of someone

[@byrontownsel7274]

@desperono1560 cry

[@reneewilliams752]

She looks wasted

[@annegreenwood3624]

he is the father and has every right to see them some woman can be so selfish it’s not about you it’s about your child judge Judy does such an amazing job

[@arihopkins2756]

I hate when mothers call kids “MY child” the child has TWO parents. I couldn’t fathom makin my childs father feel like she was my “property” What the heck is wrong with people smh.

[@Corefriedrich_]

A Dam point!!! I love you already. We hit the nail at it's head. Would want to be a friend immediately @arihopkins

[@erickanew]

Dang that chic look like she just woke up

[@jdsiv3]

every other word out of this girl's mouth is a lie. She was surely living in his house, he clearly was supporting her and the child and he was on the birth cert until he wanted more control of custody. All the while she is driving around in his car. This lady is a piece of work.

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

Calling her a "lady" is certainly generous of you.

[@earth0128]

Happy Saturday! Go JJ ☺️

[@ronnysharma6767]

JJ drinking game on this. Take a shot every time you hear "yes maam"

[@Juicetheeunuch]

That poor child is just a bargaining chip to the mother. That's how she got to live in his house. That's how she got to use his car. That's how he got to see his child. When he causes "trouble" the chip costs more. A Shame.

[@davlin7685]

So she wouldn't let him see his kid because of the way he treated her but was happy to borrow his car... thats all i needed to know to see were this was going

[@loralubimaia2783]

Judge Judy sees her games

[@lisainger6751]

That poor girl looks unwell.

[@joetheseventeenth]

meth

[@joymcguire]

@@joetheseventeenthI think they just got beat with the "ugly stick"! She obviously had a lot of face piercings.

[@nessae354]

Could be a genetic condition or syndrome that affects physical features. She seems tall and lanky, with disordered teeth, smaller head size, wide set eyes, possible cognitive issues. Could also be from exposure to substances in utero. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@YellowStarrx3]

I lived in Gainesville, Fl, before. That's just how ppl look out there, sadly. Maybe inbreeding?

[@billmoran3219]

When your the plaintiff and JJ starts question you about other issues that may or may not have to do with your case it because she is trying to get a feel of her character. It’s not starting off good for plaintiff .

[@annea.4173]

I've seen a lot of selfish plaintiffs on this show but this girl is definitely in the top five. Ugh.

[@TookieKnows]

What does our failed relationship have to do with parenting? I don’t want you anymore, I want to see my child. Deal with it. Sheesh

[@tylerk3616]

Jeeez her face looks wild 😂

[@jrojo4834]

I feel sorry for the father. She's disgusting.

[@hakunamatata1192]

How did he have a child with her

[@caseyking0917]

One night stand whilst both parties were evidently intoxicated.

[@groowanderer]

Who is it that's telling women the children are only allowed to see dad IF THEY CHOOSE?! That's not how it works at all. If he's in the b.c. then he's the father until proven otherwise. This girl playing games and judy is on it

[@ashton8878]

He impregnated HER???!!

[@EGYPTSCOTT882]

She dropped that baby and let herself go... Girl get yourself together now

[@NH-tb2sm]

The plaintiff is evil. Her child is going to suffer and when they get older they will not talk to her.

[@whitneymason9734]

The child is not a pawn

[@smokeyambiance]

Ladies... we can't use our children as a weapon! We can NOT project our adult issues on an innocent child. This plaintiff's behavior 🤢

[@anndeecosita3586]

I wonder what state she gave birth in that she was able to put him on the birth certificate if he didn’t go to the hospital. My dad wasn’t at the hospital until the day after I was born and my mom filled out my bc including putting his name down but they were married. These people aren’t married.

[@PutterJack]

I never understand women who don't allow the Fathers to see their children who want to be present. Children need both of their parents. My parents relationship was always rocky especially in the 80s and they stuck it out and I'm thankful they did for their children❤

[@justcogitating]

Judge Judy's smile when the plaintiff acknowledged that he didn't have DNA proof... Now she's got her.

[@Haraia1999]

Horrible child. Too use a child as an weapon is disgusting. I agree, he doesnt owe her nothing.

[@quantumeyes8546]

At the 3:00 I started to feel disgusted and nauseous.

[@dmlafayette8469]

The defendant should be in movies. He’s handsome!

[@alyshiakroll15]

I feel bad for that child. Shes a selfish narcissist that uses that baby as a pawn to get her way. Gross

[@andrewacres9675]

She looks exactly like Bette Davis in Of Human Bondage.

[@JJPrizeDistributionComittee]

"I'm just trying to figure out who you are" Worst thing JJ could possibly say to you. At that point it's game over, because she never says that when she has a good impression.

[@broeheemed32]

She immediately put his name on the birth certificate so she could....... collect taxpayer-funded "benefits". I'm sure she's doing the same thing with her other illegitimate baby. One day she's going to do this to the wrong man.

[@queenbee3647]

Moms, you dont own your kids. Dads, dont become dads with train wrecks like this young woman. Do better people.

[@This_handle_is_tak3n]

What the hell is she talking about she “decided to let him see her”?Does that mean he can take the Babie then “decide” if you see her or not or is that a kidnapping? This lady is out of her mind.

[@sunbeam9222]

Her vocabulary screams control freak. " I allow him" " I give her. " I let him" wtf 😳

[@manuelsoares9698]

Waiting for Part 2. Please, I beg you JJ, roast this stupid girl regarding father's rights to their child. Unless he is dangerous and poses a threat to himself or others, she has no business denying him the right to see his child...

[@docfmb1]

sounds like the kid would be better off with him, she seems like a liar.

[@vannem2688]

I wish my kids dads would be part of their lives. I have always let them know where I was and just doesn’t want to I guess. It’s sad. I can’t see a mom keep the dad from the kids. Unless it was a reason…

[@Tranquility32]

Hi. Just wanting to say I’m sorry your children’s father is not involved with them. I think one day he might regret it, missing all this precious time. Anyway, take care & wish you and your family all the best.

[@Corefriedrich_]

@vennem Quiet touching. You deserve more. Wishing you all the best. I love your good heart. I can be a responsible father

[@vannem2688]

I met an awesome guy that stepped up to the plate and his family is nothing less. They love my kids like they deserve to be loved. Thank you both. I just wish the bio dads would do the same.

[@Corefriedrich_]

@@vannem2688 I have always learnt the Art of family. You don't neglect anything. I am currently divorced with a beautiful daughter but very much responsible not minding my tight scheduled Job. I don't like nonsense

[@Corefriedrich_]

@@vannem2688 what's your name on messenger or fb. So I can have real time to know you

[@geffeternal741]

Plaintiff just admitted in public court she's a Hoo-haa! 😮😅😂😂😂

[@BrianErwin]

she wants to redefine living in his house. you slept over some days and had clothes there, we don't care if your mail went somewhere else

[@101candlelight6]

My child? I let him get her? She’s some piece of work.

[@delltee6385]

I’m a minute in and I already know this will turn south when she said honestly but naively “I decided to let him see her..”

[@smartwatchonpluto]

"I let him get her" 😂 🤡 there needs to be better laws for this bs, to protect the kid from the mom or dad

[@broeheemed32]

What a homely woman. Dude, what were you thinking? Must have been the only "wet spot" available on a Friday night.

[@Mommaoz2022]

What did he see In her

[@frickpoo6644]

JJ should have asked if she lived in his trailer. She doesn't understand the term "house "

[@onetimes1]

She looks like Tweety. 🐥

[@LiLsCo0tZ]

she looks like an anime character with her eyes so spaced apart

[@joywebster2678]

The hair greas3pe is lovely

[@Lisamariee161]

My sons father and I hate each other and do not get along at all but I would never use my child to hurt his dad!!! As soon as she said she didn't let him see her because of the things he did to her I knew she was a disgusting human!

[@aartadventure]

Its so obvious from just looking at their face. The plaintiff is desperate for cash and lying and living in a universe where she conceived a child on her own (she also has the look of being a drug user and/or mentally unstable). The defendant looks honest and desperate to be able to help their child, and shocked by the lies she is telling. The poor guy.

[@Corefriedrich_]

Honestly, you been truthful. I am well to do. I have a beautiful daughter, not married, but I take responsibility not minding the odds. @aartadventure❤

[@ElsaFriost]

There is something about this woman that I do not like at all!

[@norma5044]

Blessed Mom...as well it should be. Morally and by the law. 💕