The Magic of Motherhood and the Treasure that is Women

[@littlerockymtns]

Something my husband tells me all the time- especially when I doubt my ability as a mother- is “The hand that rules the world is the hand that rocks the cradle.”

[@DisplacedUnderDog]

❤❤ same. As well as quite a few of our friends' husbands as well. Good group of men. Solid brothers from other mothers. 😂❤😂

[@yeralmuzika]

That's so sweet, love that ❤

[@FoodFreedomUSA]

Wise man

[@b.melakail]

Ave Maria Queen of Heaven

[@MC-ze8wj]

I love what you said about how women lost sight of what they are because men lost sight of it. I'm a millenial homeschooling mom of three boys with another boy on the way. I thank God I have a traditional husband, chivalrous and honorable. He is a kind of man you rarely see today. He treats me very well; as described in the Bible as a man should treat his wife. I do my very best to treat him as a wife should treat her husband. Sometimes I see these channels with men asking for a trad. Wife and I have often thought I am able to be me because my husband is who he is. When I met him I was a modern teenager girl, a latchkey kid raised on tv screens and modern culture, lost like any other. To keep with your analogy, he saw a nugget being treated as a doorstop and he picked me up and started treating me right. So now we are going on 15 happy years together and God willing we will have four sons soon.

[@MC-ze8wj]

Edit; to be clear we were both 18 when we met.

[@anibaldtc7228]

Yours is truly an inspiring story. May God bless you and your family for many, many more years

[@thossi09]

A lot of those boys wishing for a "tradwife" don't realise that means they have to be a "tradhusband". And that's where a lot of guys fall short. In a way, it's like wishing for a PhD while also thinking university is a waste of time.

[@virginiacreager4331]

This has me in tears 😭🧡, what a beautiful story.

[@AuthenticallyRaylynn]

Oh my gosh, your story sounds almost identical to mine!!!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷

[@devontygart2047]

"Ladies, quit trying to be a man you're better than that and you'll naught be better than that by becoming what they are, you only become better than that by becoming what they cannot be." This right here stopped me in my tracks and I think it really must be said more. Great video.

[@pld-wc7gf]

Most women are just trying to survive.

[@felobatirmoheb4884]

​@pld-wc7gf Surviving by forgoing marriage and locking themselves in a corporate job that doesn't love them as a husband would, only to end up in their 30s childless?

[@zensleep2321]

@@felobatirmoheb4884women used to marry and have kids and stayed at home. Just to be treated as peace of shit by man who were controlling and cheaters. Ask yourself why women had to fight for rights in the first place. Definitely because man used their power in a wrong way.

[@w.atne.y]

@@felobatirmoheb4884 Surviving by maintaining my independence because my ex-husband of 10 years abandoned me and our home and I won't be put in that position again by any man, ever. Externalizing my financial wellbeing puts me at risk. Maintaining that control (via a corporate job, yes, which has been more secure than my previous marriage!) allows me to focus elsewhere on my femininity and nurturing nature. Yes I have to take care of more around the house - everything really - but at least nobody can take what I've built from me. If a man wants to be in my life, he can prove the reasons he should be. And if that man never comes along, I'll be okay. I'll adopt if I ever want a child.

[@SonOfMorning]

​@@felobatirmoheb4884 For every lonely woman there is a lonely man. A real f up.

[@sovietonion9542]

when you said "some of you rascals go out and keep your mothers awake at night crying over you" something just hit my soul and i just stared at the screen thinking of the love of my mom and how sometimes i hurt her like that.. your videos are amazing man and you are helping me alot become a better person, thank you for this from the deepest part of my heart.

[@sandasturner9529]

I keep my parents awake at night too while I'm home in my laboratory!!! 😄😌😈😈😈😈😈 I love lightning bolts and sparks!! And creating new stuff!

[@sandasturner9529]

But my parents know I'm not evil or a lawbreaker. I have no record, except the streak I have for almost hurting myself multiple times.

[@81wladar]

​@@sandasturner9529why do you think we care?

[@sovietonion9542]

@@81wladarhe was just sharing his experiences on the topic

[@pierogipierogipierogi]

​@@81wladarstfu some of us humans do care

[@madisonclark7550]

I’m a 24 year old single mother who’s been struggling with my value. Thank you so much for saying these things, I needed to hear it. God bless.

[@gloriaa.2442]

You are sooooooooo valuable, especially in the eyes of God! God bless you ❤ if you’re open to it, I would suggest reading the Christian book called “love and responsibility” and “theology of the body” it will give you great insight to your value. “Jesus, grant me grace to see your love for me” Amen!

[@TacticoolVIKINGBeard]

Im a 33 year old father of 4, I'm not a Christian (i am Norse Pagan) however what i believe about women is probably very similar, but the mother is always what keeps the glue on the world and nurtures the health of all and keeps the house a HOME at the end of the day. As a father its my job to protect and provide and take the weight of the world so my wife can focus on the kids and the house. She grounds me when the river of life is overly rough and wants to sweep me away. The love and care she provides for our children and i makes my fight against the world and my family all the much easier and focused. I could not do what i do without her. Someday you will find a man who loves and cherishes you and together you will conquer life. Just provide the balance for him and the love and respect for him and the children and he will stand alone against the world for you. Women in Norse culture had IMMENSE value so i encourage you to never disregard your worth. Never let it get to your head but make sure you never devalue yourself. May Oðínn provide the wisdom on your path and may Tyr show you the courage.

[@TheWorldWithEmilyRose]

Same shoes as you my friend, 24 too! May we find our way in this life, and may we be happy along the way ❤

[@JudgeSteveTallTree]

Well, you ARE damaged goods. You let him hit it raw.

[@chancewoodruff7095]

I'm a young man. And I've felt so insensitive for so long, sir. I'm angry, irrational, I'm distant, and sometimes I feel like I'm seeping into an antisocial psychosis. But you actually made a single tear leak out of my eye today. And that's very rare for me. Thank you, sir. God bless you.

[@dominiqueritchey6795]

Sometimes trees leak when the sap runs with new life. Things are not as hopeless as they appear. Never give up. God cares about you.

[@aggiesart6]

❤

[@nombimsweli8643]

God bless you Chance 🍄

[@inejio8794]

May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you, let His love reach you, Chance💝

[@SabsmomaSabriel]

You sound like my husbnad

[@pcossunshine]

“We do for you because you’re worth doing for” actually made me cry. I’ve always struggled with self worth… my husband is so supportive, but the guilt I feel watching him work so hard is all encompassing. It pushes me to work harder, to strive to be the best version of myself. But the guilt still remains. He always says that he does it because it’s worth it- that I make it all worth it. I’m happy, but I still feel like I don’t deserve it. Being human is strange and complicated.

[@lissa.sahsah]

Well, part of that issue is our men are overworked and underpaid and we see the effects of it. Wives used to protest for their husbands for better wages or treatment, that’s the real reason they want us working because trad house wives used to legit change the economy. Govt didn’t like that.

[@carolinacueva5460]

You are worth it for your husband ❤ Your prayers for him will help to him God Bless you.

[@y04a]

That is so beautiful that he loves you so much! 💕 It sounds like you're returning the love. My fiance treats me better than any man ever has (grew up fatherless) and I completely relate to the emotions you're expressing, but reading your comment helps me see how much meaning maybe I really do bring to his life. We bring it to each other ❤

[@big_petebear8535]

The primary concern for all men on earth (yes even single men like me) is to honor the women of our tribe by holding the line. We don't need thanks but we do need you guys to stay in your lane and not step into the line of fire. We fight so that you will have a safe place for the children.

[@cortinainthecomments]

hi! single black woman in her 30’s here and this is the kind of life lessons i have been missing out on. father passed pretty young and we never got to have these talks. thanks for putting the messages out there.

[@galadrielwoods2332]

💞

[@Vesta0831]

❤❤❤

[@Sew-Ronica]

He drops some real gems.😊

[@rideoutpoppy8252]

Look at it as it’s your dad talking to you. It’s never too late. He’s still here ❤️

[@kaeamar]

!!

[@hunter702lv]

So excited for my wife to be a mother in August. First baby over here

[@landz2154]

Congratulations!!! ❤

[@landz2154]

Congratulations!!❤

[@heiketheangel546]

All the best for y‘all ❤

[@hunter702lv]

Thanks guys!

[@MH-hm5cv]

Congrats! But your wife is already a mom! The baby just isn't out of her womb yet.

[@virginiacreager4331]

I’m a third generation feminist and hearing you say women are a treasure, mothers are a treasure has tears running down my face 😭🧡. I believe that’s true feminism and I wish our society and the world believed that as well. That’s not treating women “equal” by expecting them to leave their infants to jump right back into their careers. I’m a post partum doula and watching what women go through physically emotionally and spiritually to deny their healing bodies and detach from their babies is absolutely soul wrenching. But what’s worse is seeing the pain of the babies. The crying and distress of these infants has my heart in pieces every time. It’s a cruel and ruthless system that is completely toxic to mama, child and the whole family.

[@kenandrieling5885]

You need to drop the feminist title

[@jessica-jr1uc]

So true the only thing you never get back is time. I wish women would realize what they’re doing by chasing a “title” or “career” children need their moms as much as moms need those moments with their babies

[@LifeLongMETALHead83]

Society will never think this way because feminism is destroying that image. Women, and mothers are a treasure, feminists are not.

[@jessica-jr1uc]

@Hedgina-z2y Amen 🙏🏼 the Proverbs 31 woman in Scripture can be seen doing many other things than “just mothering”

[@LookUpYourRedemptionDrawsNigh]

😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔

[@vcello6450]

I've never been offended by anything you've said Dwayne. I'm a woman, and not traditional per se, but I always appreciate your wisdom. I think your views are pretty fair and balanced.

[@izzy9441]

Amen!

[@LMFAO5001]

I respect that you watched all the way through I don’t agree with Dwayne on everything either but the wisdom is there. As long as you are a good person to the people around you the rest don’t matter.

[@HowellQ]

@@LMFAO5001 I don't agree with all his points either (as a man) but that doesn't mean I'm not going to listen to his points of view.

[@citiestoash]

You’re better off than most. Many people think you can only get along with somebody if you have views that directly mirror your own. Which ofc isn’t true. It’s narcissistic to think that way really. I don’t have always agree with Dewayne. But that’s okay. I don’t have to. Nor would he have to agree with all mine should we be sitting down having a cigar. Still think this man is incredible and I’d love to have that cigar with him regardless haha

[@Trippy814official]

People dance around the subject of Trans and lady boys but he summed it up pretty well I've always thought of it that way. I agree with everything this man says I'd vote him into presidency 😂

[@PierceTheWoodey101]

The way the treat mothers in the US is wild. My parents are from Ghana. Our tribe is matriarchal. The way we treat our mother and grandmothers are so different than the US. Mothers are the backbone and a treasure and acknowledged as such.

[@bufficliff8978]

That's how it used to be in the US.

[@Whoisthatns]

Matriarchy is that way of nature

[@debbyrene]

I was at the laundromat the other day. I had my arms full of laundry. This man was in front of me and he intentionally let the door close in front of me. I thought, that man is messed up! Out of respect and consideration, I open doors for others and would never let a door close on someone, including that guy.

[@sundown6748]

Just think, he’s probably some weak loser watching red pill videos 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BugsyB1979]

He probably didn't want to offend you if you were a crazy feminist!

[@krbyp8092]

​@@BugsyB1979 it has nothing to do with the lady being a feminist. It's about being a decent human being. Bet that dude also shuts the door on elderly & disabled people. What a sore loser.

[@Refiningforge]

Intentionally?

[@debbyrene]

Well, I wouldn't lie to you. It just so happened yesterday, the same man, but he was with a woman this time whom I believe was his wife was in the Laundromat. He started an argument with her in Spanish and she argued back. They got louder and louder and as he was talking over everything she said. Then he started throwing things around. This is not a joke! It really happened right there in the middle of the laundromat!! I have never seen such a thing! You would think 2 grown adults could contain themselves until they got home.

[@PatDaddy13]

I’m a man that recently got divorced and this is something I needed to hear. I put a little too much blame on her for walking away but I let those things blind me of the mistakes I made. I still don’t think she should have but I need to put that aside and I need to be better. Thanks Dwayne.

[@kaia7328]

I'm asking genuinely out of curiosity, no disrespect at all but why is it that men only listen to other men yet their wives may have been telling them the same thing for years but they don't listen or even try to understand? Is it an ego thing? I'm genuinely trying to understand cause I'm sure your wife may be expressed discontentment with your behavior which later made her leave. Not saying she may have not had her own faults but I wanna know why only when another man explains it do you understand? Again no intended disrespect

[@whitney9844]

Im sorry for your divorce. Im sure its been difficult. God bless you sir.

[@LauraSnow-in3nx]

Hey, we all make mistakes. I’m remarried now for 10 years and I’m very much in love with him, but I was married once to somebody and even though he physically abused me and put me in the hospital a couple of times I can still honestly say that I made mistakes and that relationship too. It wasn’t just him.

[@iamz_mbie]

@@kaia7328 probably because they were raised up to treat women like a different species like the dude in this video. he’s so resentful toward the whole trans thing yet doesn’t at all see how he’s contributing to the cause

[@ediblecrayons2382]

@@iamz_mbie People don't realize that actually respecting women and caring for them is managing to see them as women, not men. Back when I was a hardcore modern feminist, I was so stressed, trying to one up men, repressing my inner femininity, trying to be independent, and getting upset at every little thing. People think that men convinced me to be this way, but honestly, most men around me think it's ridiculous. Know that I recognize that men and women are different, but both deserve equal amounts of respect, I haven't been happier and more at peace. Hope this helps you understand! And no, you don't have to feel forced to become traditional, that is your choice xoxo

[@camcma1733]

Hearing this makes me realize i was born into the wrong culture 😊. It feels so unnatural for me as a woman to "hustle and grind" but I'm told I'm a failure if I don't focus on a career. Rebelling against that has saved my life ❤

[@Mrs.WordSmith.GEN_8zero]

AMEN 🎉 You’re NOT the ONLY one to be made to FEEL that way ❤️‍🩹! Regan era born millennial homeschooling /stay at home mom here & I was Raised in an “ in tact” home vs a broken one, but still, the INFLUENCE of the 1960’s & 1970’s feminist movement managed to metasticize ALL of the generation of woman that Raised me. The passive aggressive but contradictory message of “ one day if /when you get married” mindset but also don’t think about dating for the purpose of marriage … instead focus on your education to get your career so you don’t have to RELY on any man 🫣👀😳 So which is it LADIES of my family?? Marriage either IS MEANINGFUL OR Men ARE not to be trusted & UNREALIABLE ??? Confusing message so when I came of age I had to DECIDE HOW I was going to think & VIEW the relationship design GOD had blueprinted. Going on 15 years now come September 🎉❤ & such desire of love for my hubby instead of duty /obligation that was modeled out before my eyes growing up

[@jenniferibarra7737]

I understand I feel like a damn bum but I don’t have enough money yet to get married to my Christian Boyfiend let alone start a family yet and now I have to grind and save up but I pray once I have kids I won’t need to work no more

[@ZZealot-y3u]

Well in your culture you are expected to work and suffer taking care of everybody including your own men. The black manosphere is a whole other level of hatred and dysfunction I truly hope the rest of the men of the world refuse to pick up their message. They consider their women the enemy...I haven't noticed this level of rage in other manosphere but the black

[@fox__in_socks4609]

I wish I could do this but I feel like I cornered myself by working hard in school. Now I'm the breadwinner for our family and of 5 and would love to slow down and focus on my kids, but my family depends on my income and benefits. I will be telling my daughters that it's ok to not be Ms. Career Woman when you become a mom. In fact, it's HARD to play that role when your kids are little.

[@Aniexo_]

lol and I get that as a childfree woman. You’re not the only one

[@6JoyBoy9]

Your wife gotta be VERY lucky to have such a wise & thought filled husband 😭

[@minfuji]

You said "I have regrets in the way I have raised my children". With the context you said that, I believe a lot more sons and daughters are in dire need to hear those words from their parents. I am not saying all those (including yours) wher raised in a wrong way. But hearing the words, "I regret my actions" could have a strong healing affect.

[@The_Dapper_Millennial]

This is one of the best monologues I’ve ever listened to.

[@ruck27]

Everyone should watch this video

[@moniquemyers2770]

Thank you so much for being a warm caring voice for all of us women and mothers! What a loving kind father and husband you must be. ❤🕊💙 🇺🇸

[@debluetailfly]

I can agree with everthing you say except for holding a door open for a man. I spent many years as a truck driver. Most everyone at truckstops held the door for each other, in spite of an OKC police detective describing truckstops as a 'den of rattlesnakes'. He based his view on a few, rather than most. Acts of courtesy and friendliness are appreciated by most, even people who have a lot of problems in their life.

[@jewellcarpenter6764]

But it is a den of rattlesnakes...

[@michaelgarrity6090]

As a man, I hold doors open for other men and other men have held doors for me. I think that's just being good and decent to other people. It would be rude if I just let a door slam in the face of a man or anyone walking behind me. I think if its at all possible, we need to be kind to our fellow human beings. Especially today when its a yime that far too many people seem to enjoy being nasty to others. I fight against that carrying on as best I can.

[@ruck27]

As a Canadian, we just always hold the door open for whomever.

[@thomasprieto2073]

I agree but I’d like to think he didn’t mean how that statement came across. I think he meant to say he doesn’t hold the door open for a man for the same reason that he holds the door open for women(because they’re treasure and therefore must be respected).

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

@thomasprieto2073 you are correct, sir. That is exactly how I meant it. I haven’t corrected anybody on this statement because I felt like it was obvious enough that it didn’t need to be addressed. I think enough people have watched my videos that they should understand that I am not impolite or courteous.

[@nienor1510]

Thanks Dwayne. I'm a mother of 3 little boys and my husband always treasures me . I think it takes a good man to let a woman live up to her potential. I never wanted kids until I met my husband and being around a real man who saw potential in me really changed my life so much for the better. I was really lost before I met him. Sometimes I still struggle to understand what he sees in me, so this video really hit home about how men see women. Thanks so much again, it's a wonderful and much needed message.

[@hollyolague9272]

I've been married to a lump on a log for 13 yrs. We (I) went through over a decade of infertility, then had a miracle baby at 25 wks. He's now 2 yrs old and is my greatest joy and gift. I didn't grow up with a dad and am on the brink of divorce. My eyes are welling up, taking in all of your comforting and direct words of love. Thank you. YOU are a treasure. Women absolutely need and crave hearing a man say everything you've said. 😭 I thank The Lord for coming across this video. 🙏

[@CharlieGeorge_]

Raw, beautiful words. I grew up with an abusive, nasty father but a strong, loving mother. He's been out my life for well over a decade and even though I've known a good, honourable step dad for as many years I feel myself struggling to stabilise and become a good man myself. As hard as it is for me, I owe so much to my mother, to this day, for escaping my dad and giving me a chance of finding myself.

[@eileenhavern77]

You will be ok Charlie 😊

[@CrozierCrow]

I've been through the same thing and through my late teens and early 20s was terrified that I'd turn out the same way, cried over it, couldn't bear the thought that I as a person with my own mind could go down similar paths from what I witnessed. Logically I hated it, but further down I could feel it. Took me a lot more years of knowing people to know it's something I would never do. The fact you're thinking about it clearly, and that you've counted your blessings shows me you have nothing to worry about. The world will love you if you struggle through adversity and still smile at the world with open arms. I don't need to have faith, I know you're gonna be alright.

[@GA-if6qf]

No need to apologize for speaking truth and wisdom, Dwayne. I am a single female who did not marry and have children--always thought I would be a wife and mother; but life has a way of not going as planned. My parents were wonderful people who loved and respected each other and who loved and raised my brother and I as best they could, often through sacrifice. I miss both of them and hardly a day goes by that I don't wish I could spend time with them, ask for advice, etc. I feel sadness for the many, many fractured families in our culture. Keep speaking to that need.... ❤

[@sandasturner9529]

​​@@canyonsand real talk, although I'd have to give it some thought, ya know, think up a game plan about how Imma be able to support (or help support) extra people if ya catch my drift. Ya know prepare to be more, "responsible".

[@shatakshipandey8014]

Hope you get to experience your dreams.

[@cowgirl4Christ63]

My Momma gave birth to me in 1963...she was a 32 yr old unwed Mother....I'm thankful every day that she went through those tough times and had me. She left us 4 yrs ago and I miss her so much. ⚘

[@ZagelMedia]

Sorry for your loss. I hope you are doin' okay ♥

[@SophieKopf]

God bless you! ❤

[@winterwoodcottage3657]

Wow, as a woman I loved hearing this. But also as a woman I feel the same way about my husband. His roll in providing for and protection in this crazy age is a huge burden on him. I’m proud of my husband.

[@jillianminton8506]

What’s he protecting ya from ?

[@winterwoodcottage3657]

@@jillianminton8506 The list of ways he loves , honors, cherishes, provides for and protects our family is to numerous to put here. But I can assure you that women who live alone can be targets for a lot of sickos. His presence is enough to deter many.

[@louisebennett7608]

​@jillianminton8506 a man offers security. Do you not see the chaos and dangers in this world? When I lived alone I used to sleep with a knife under my pillow "just in case". I haven't had to do that since living with my partner. I feel safe. I imagine this is what she's meaning by protection.

[@TheListener22]

@@louisebennett7608 I'm sorry that you felt the need to sleep with a knife under your pillow, but I'm happy you found someone that makes you feel safe. I can only hope that I am able to give my future wife the same sense of security.

[@iamz_mbie]

@@louisebennett7608 men offer a _false_ sense of security. the world wouldn’t be tipsy turvy right now if society was built on stable ground in the first place

[@thebellfamily5206]

It felt nice to hear that Women was the first Gift from God and Jesus was the second.. thanks for that.

[@HalfWarrior]

My mother has been a blessing to me since I was born; I’m 57 now; having experienced/suffered a stroke that left me half paralyzed (at 52 years old); my mom checks in on me almost daily and always offers something to comfort me regardless of anything. I am grateful and blessed to have a wonderful mother. Great video Dewayne!

[@stephenwhittier6439]

Thanks, Dewayne, I am 76 years old on my third wife and I treat her like a queen that she is. My mom was my aunt. I am very thankful for the women in my life!

[@yassj9132]

I had no choice but to become the mother, father, the husband, the brother. Every men in my life, starting with my father failed me. Now in days, as a mother of three, a nurse, a member of the military, I find myself feeling hopeless, I attempted to be the wife, the feminine, and I ended up having to pick myself off the floor and becoming the men I needed. I don’t think there will ever be any men I can respect. I carry to much resentment, pain, and fear that a men would hurt me again. So I take the role of both. My children are now 23 /18/ 3 my two oldest joined the military and I am beyond thankful for them. They are amazing humans, so I feel accomplished and think I did a good job with whatever I was given. But I understand your message. Thanks for your wise words.

[@danatwigg4660]

I think you are an amazing woman. The truth is, it is very womanly, to take it all on, take the male duties, and make sure the kids are alright. Congratulations. I don’t know what men are going to do. Lots of them, want women to be more like men, because it’s easier for them.

[@laraegieske2465]

@@danatwigg4660thank you for this. That encouraged me to no give up.

[@lissa.sahsah]

You have to pick a better partner.

[@lynnettecherry5754]

Well, my heroes have always been cowboys, and they still are it seems... My husband died with the co vid in 2020, and my horse died in January this year. I had them both for about 25 years. I miss them both everyday. Life is heartbreaking sometimes. My husband use to buy me birthday cards and mother's day cards and sign them, "with love, Fatty Boy." Fatty was my horse. My heart hurts.

[@elainesgroi1709]

I am so sorry for your losses. They both "carry" us in different ways. Wishing you healing and "the peace that transcends all thought".

[@y04a]

Sending you love ❤️ They will always be with you in Spirit. I'm sorry for your losses.

[@lynnettecherry5754]

@y04a Thank you. The passing of time softens the pain. Sometimes, now when I think of them, I smile or laugh out loud instead of crying. I think it is a long road back to feeling normal again. 🎭

[@y04a]

@@lynnettecherry5754 I'm happy to hear you savour the good memories. I'm sure there are plenty!! Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all 💗 I hope if and when grief visits me I will remember this.

[@annex6]

My father was a stern Southern man. Wasn't a preacher. He was a brick layer, who knarled his hands up in the Chicago cold to make sure I had food, shelter, and clothing. A hard man. Not a tender man. He loves us. But dreams, existentialism, careers, all that stuff doesn't supercede surviving. He grew up poor with 10 brothers and sisters, and a dad who likes to drink and hobo in trains. It's taken me half of my adult life to understand the cut of man I've been dealing with. He's mellowed out, I'm still growing up. Mom has always been there as the buffer. After watching me get cut out of a car at an intersection. After running off to the Navy, and worrying her to death learning how to fly helicopters. She is a Saint. Nothing less.

[@duckz134]

I'm a woman and I loved this video. It made me feel special and valued. Thank you 🥰

[@shelleyroper588]

AMEN! You earned a new subscriber today! As a REAL WOMAN and MOTHER, we need you men to stand up for us, so we can stay in our feminine roles! God bless you and your family! God bless your wife! She sounds like a Saint and God's gift to you for being such an amazing man. ❤ God bless her and your children and grandchildren and all of your generations to come. 🙏

[@bobbijoREV3.10]

AMEN !!!! 🤍

[@bettyluu408]

1:46 AM stumbled on your video and listened because of your soothing fatherly voice. I don’t know you but your words resonate with my heart. I am a homemaker with a child with a medical condition. Left corporate job to stay home and sacrifice my career. All I get is shame and looked down upon like a leech on society. Sometimes the worst pain is from inside the family with all the disrespect, condescension, and ridicule. Women who chose to love their families and children are not respected. This world only values money and the rat race, keeping up with the Joneses. I keep going for my son and my family. I don’t encourage nor discourage this lifestyle. Humans are cruel and there’s only so much one can do.

[@LookUpYourRedemptionDrawsNigh]

Omg I'm so sorry. I totally understand your pain. Ive gotten more support from friends and online than bio family

[@lucymccoy9990]

Thank-you Dwayne from an "old fashioned" woman. Your kind words put a tear in my eye😢. Our world desperately needs more men like you. God Bless!

[@bobbijoREV3.10]

Amen🤍😁

[@SophieKopf]

I am listening to this with my baby sleeping next to me. THANK YOU! I am smiling and tearing up at everything that you say. Thank you!

[@imnotgreekiswear]

I don't know what's more heart melting, the wisdom from this video, or the amazing, supportive, open minded community you have built. I have been watching your stuff for probably 2 years now, and the community you have gathered here is just immaculate. Just proves that if you are who you truly are, and always speak your mind freely your going to get the people that relate to what you think and what you truly believe in. As a young man I express my greatest appreciations for you being here when I was in a desperate need for advice.

[@MaddisynYoung-f9y]

This breaks my heart, I really wish someone like you would have been my father. No man in my life has ever treated me like a treasure. Nor has my own mother ever been tender or loving. So I grew cold. I’ve been training to join the army, playing a man’s role. I’ve convinced myself that I am unloveable so I have to be strong to protect myself and my little sister. All this training, marching, and shooting but deep down all I want is a loving husband, several “little rascals”, and a cute little farmhouse with some animals.

[@margaretramsingh4865]

What I appreciate about you is how my 14 and 16 year old girls love all of the wisdom in your videos. Thank you for the example and for appreciating the women in your life. What a blessing you and momma are.

[@AmericanImperium1776]

I wish Mama a Happy Mother's Day! My family went out to eat to celebrate.

[@outdoordauber]

"But, you're the type of people who get offended all the time at anything and if you don't have something directly in front of ya to get offended at, you'll make something up. So, I'm just gonna let you know in advance I don't care. Ok? Let's just make it easy, I don't care." 😁❤ Love the honesty, Dewayne!! Preach it, Brother! And I'd have no issue showing this entire video to my 18 yr old daughter and 13 yr old son.

[@LivingInWonder7]

This one almost had me cryin.. close to home for me, ya know. Lord's using you to stir hearts, Dewayne. Holy Spirit's movin.

[@jellyrollfan93]

Wow am I glad this was recommended to me! My husband and I are expecting our first baby girl this October and it’s sent me into a tailspin! We both come from feminist/matriarchal households. Mine is still abusive so I took a step back. (Personality disorder with my mom.) The deeper that I’ve gotten into my faith, the more I realize that God’s design is perfect. We sure aren’t. I don’t have to force my daughter into dresses, but rather teach her self-respect so she can laugh in the face of any boy that doesn’t treat her like her dad will, an angel. Subscribed! Keep it up.

[@brooke.1991]

This is one of my favorite videos so far & I’ve seen almost all of them. My 12 year old son watches your videos after homeschool each day. I think he’s going to be a better man one day because of it. There’s nothing in this video that is even remotely inappropriate or incorrect. Thank you for using your platform to spread truth and wisdom. We need more of that in this world. God bless you and your family. I hope your wife has a special day. She is a treasure.

[@TheFabFarmer]

Well said! I am a mother of 4 and I take great pride and care in raising my children. I do believe taking the mother from the home is what is wrong with society. A mother is not meant to work outside of the home…her focus should be on her family. It’s either a career or motherhood…you cannot do both well and whole-heartedly. Women are responsible for choosing the next generation, we have a very important role and I believe women need to step up and demand their rightful roles back!

[@myme8208]

The career or motherhood never was a thing until few hundred years ago. Alot of women were Queens and mothers, were scientists and mothers, just like a father was. The problem is the weak men who leave women when they have children. My mother was a stay at home mom and some still didn't want to have any relationship when we grew up and some girls I grew up with their mothers worked and they married at 18 or 20 and have healthy relationships with their mothers. Women being hyper focused on their children's lives when those children are teens or young adults is the result of mothers whose world rotates around the children's lives and I hated seeing that from my mom. At some point in life those kids will leave and it's that constant need they got that shakled us children to them even as adults. I hope you do realize that and find something you love to do when your children get to school. Nothing is wrong with that either.

[@Rikanoelle]

You have no idea how needed your words were for me this morning. Thank you Dwayne. This Mama’s hurting heart is hurting less now after listening to you. Thank you.

[@jerryziegner]

You sir are what embodies what a true gentleman should be.

[@laraegieske2465]

I don’t hear this from my husband. Im spent, and needed to hear some positive. Im so close to giving up. Thank you for the encouragement. I needed it.

[@CastleStrongGaming]

"Dwayne's feeling scratchy today" made me laugh harder than I expected lol. Thank you my brother in Christ always for your incredible wisdom ❤

[@ruck27]

I enjoy Dewaynes scratchy subjects

[@TrickNTricky]

Good to be here Dewayne, god bless you and your family.

[@bohemianbutterflyd3008]

AS a mother you brought tears to my eyes❤️🥰

[@bruceperry4770]

I’ve always believed women are special and to be appreciated greatly. Your words are right on today. Couldn’t say it better. Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers!

[@aubriellerivera6098]

I am so blessed by your message. You see women and motherhood and recognize all the dirty details and all the hardships- you see the value and the vulnerability of women and respect them highly. Men have been so ignorant to all of these things and have lost sight. I myself, through the stress of raising four kids and the chaos of the world around me, have begun to lose sight of these things myself. You have taken a bold stand in position of a man protecting women. You’ve lifted my spirits and motivated me to remember the values that I’m called by God to bring to my kids and my home and I’m going to go back to those roots before I slip away too far. Thank you for taking the time to speak these things!

[@Ian-vh2vv]

Live pretty far from where I grew up and drove 12 hours on Friday to spend the weekend with my mom. Drivin back another 12 tomorrow (had to push mothers day a day ahead hahaha). Tells you everything you need to know about how much respect ive got for her. Dad walked out when the 4 of us kids were young and She sacrificed so much for our family for years and is the best role model, the embodiment of how to be a parent, and has the most character of anyone ive ever met in my life. If you're readin this give your momma a call and tell her ya love her

[@Thankful305]

Wow!! This comment is incredible! Your mom is very blessed for you to drive that far just for her special day ❤

[@jacmac5058]

I just broke in my praying knees, and your message came up next. May God continue to bless you, and may you continue to share the true message. You my unknown friend, are a blessing in our lives.

[@lvnnlvnlife3290]

I had a wonderful mom, I had a wonderful husband and your words spoke to my heart. I lost that sweet man last year but I know he felt the same as you do. He had a wonderful mom too. I always appreciate when a man opens a door for me. Never looked at like why are you doing that I can do it. This world we live in has lost so much of the values that we grew up with. I have 6 children and I hope I have raised them to understand being their mother has been a gift and I hope they learn to appreciate what motherhood means. I did not work outside the home , my mom did not. I had a wonderful husband who appreciated me and never took for granted what a hard job it was. Thank you for these words you have spoke from your heart and they are true words. So many people have lost their way. Thank you for not being afraid to speak your mine. This mother really appreciated hearing it.

[@MarleyKlay]

I’m so sorry for your loss, God bless you ❤❤

[@lvnnlvnlife3290]

@@MarleyKlay ❤

[@Thankful305]

Couldn’t agree more Dewayne! I had a man who used me as that door stop. Never once considered I’m still the same value as I was before I married him. Thank you!!

[@KCtheSUNSHINE]

I'm divorced. I'm almost crying. Thank you for speaking truth. Many of us ladies feel seen and validated by your words.

[@evelynmueller6523]

Thank you for your blunt honestly. Not enough people these days express it. Great talking points. And thank you for being scratchy, the world needs to hear it once in a while. Like you said we are as a society unbalanced. It makes my head spin. Wishing Mama a Happy Mothers Day! And to all the other Moms out there, thank you and Happy Mother's Day!!

[@ded_dogboy]

I implore you to watch the whole video: How Conservatives Created (And Cancelled) Gender by Alexander Aliva

[@1028PixelProductions]

I had discovered your channel years ago, but never took the time to listen to all of your content till just the last few weeks. Your wisdom and world views have helped me through an extremely difficult time in my life and have already shaped me into a better person. Thank you for everything.

[@beefandchicken]

As a Mother of 2, I approve this entire message. 👍❤️💙

[@LemonC3ll]

"Just smashing into one wall after another" underrated. So many silent. I do understood your opinion on womanhood. I wish you peace Dewayne.

[@louisebennett7608]

You've brought me to tears with your definition of a woman as a gift/treasure. I've never seen myself like that before. My partner is lovely and has always complemented me but none of the reasons for his kindness and love clicked before now. Thank you. I hope to be the woman my man needs me to be.

[@Cross_Trekking_Piper]

God Bless you, Dwayne! You’re a National Treasure to the ones that truly understand the meaning and significance behind your videos. I’ve been watching for years, commenting when I felt the need; here I just want to give thanks. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and viewpoints. You’ve helped me understand more about myself and life than most other people I’ve come across on this earth, and for that I thank you. Take Care

[@DeniseJames-cb1qv]

Thanks for being YOU!! Heartfelt message!! Happy Mother's Day to the Mothers in your life!!

[@eileenredmond3582]

Thank you Dwayne. As a woman and a mother and grandmother we need a real man like you!

[@themefree5135]

I appreciated this video. I just saw it randomly in my feed and it held a message I needed to hear a lot right now, it was an intense day being a mom and it's only 2 in the afternoon. Thank you.

[@AlleyCat-1]

Thank you Dwayne for saying this. It's sad so many men have forgotten that we weren't put on this earth to be kicked around like a dog, walked over or abused (verbally, mentally or emotionally). You described my husband (the knuckle head, etc.) to a T. He's been mostly the bread winner (which he seems to resents) while I worked on & off, but raised our 4 kid's & one of his kid's. He needs ALL the attention. 30 yrs, feeling special important or what have you was never a thing. My mom & I never got along for the majority of my life. But I've always tried to do my best at making her day special. Failed some. For me, tomorrow is just another day. Hopefully it'll be as beautiful as today was. Then I came be outside working after seeing my folk's. Happy Mother's day to Momma & to Memaw. I hope they both get pampered on their special day. 🙏🥰

[@jasonbullard2159]

Absolutely spot on message Brother! Woman and Mothers are treasures! Best line in the entire video because it’s so true. Blessings to you wife, your Mom and all the Mothers out there! We need you!

[@arrayahvlogs]

Dewayne, I think the Holy Spirit really does work through you to speak to us. Your videos have brought me so much wisdom. Thank you for sharing your advice and experience with us.

[@ladybethia5457]

Wow! Beautifully spoken and thank you so much, Sir, for this encouragement! As a lady, I was very blessed hearing this. God bless you!🙏🏻

[@DianeDavis-k5j]

What a beautiful video, Dwayne, Set to the music of a meadowlark. Thank you for the beautiful gift.

[@danyellesibert6724]

I lost my father last year and my grandpa is long gone. I appreciate your videos reminding me of the words I often heard that I don’t get to hear anymore. Honestly, truly it keeps me strong hearing another good man telling me this. Thank you!

[@niqitabalakireff8861]

It’s sad to see how dewayne now approaches his teachings out of anger and some sort of self protection against haters rather than good old man’s advice, as it was in the beginning. I’ve been following you since the 10k and I appreciate you and your wisdom. I learned a lot and am still learning. I just don’t wanna learn how not to do, I wanna learn how TO do, looking at your example. Ima 23 yo man, I hope that my generation people doesn’t misinterpret that. Thank you and all the blessings your way!

[@Matthew-00]

A lot of people on the internet are extremely cruel and hateful, especially to people like Dewayne who speak directly from the heart; they hate that because they have no heart or wisdom to speak from themselves. They are misguided and lost, and we should pity them. I understand that you might think his teachings are 'out of anger' but I can assure you that the reality is the opposite. This entire video is overflowing with righteous anger purely out of love for the women in his life, and that's something our society desperately needs. If you learn anything from this video, it should be that.

[@kupewataaka6917]

I believe in telling you what not to do, you are being told, what to do. Kind of like a parent or a Grand Pa, sometimes they reprimand you.

[@mustlearnmore4884]

God bless you, Mr. Noel. You inspire me to be a better man, and I'm sure your wise words inspire many others as well. Thank you, and I wish Mrs. Noel a very happy Mothers Day 🙏🏼❤️‍🔥✝️💪🏼

[@tomharnum6897]

This one is very resonant with me for sure. We share similar life experiences apparently. I heard something a while back that sums it up. "We often get wise too late and old too soon." Some are blessed to begin to get wise a little faster. It's usually brought on by some tough life experiences. I too had a career in law enforcement. Sadly, my children and wife had to experience what you described. Sort fuse but not abusive. As you said those words I know you were trying to make listeners understand your comment. I heard it once and felt it deeply. I made the hard decision to leave that career a little early but I'm at peace with it knowing that my family (specifically my grandchildren) will hopefully get to see a gentler more patient version of me. You keep up the great work sharing the knowledge you have gained, possibly, earlier than some people have.

[@chilloften]

Thanks for spreading a good word today. Mothers are a chunk of gold. I loved my babies so much I just cannot describe it, and it was so fun to raise them up and show them this life & this earth. Two best things that ever happened.

[@virginiacreager4331]

It truly is the best and the hardest!! 🥹🧡

[@donaldlambert229]

Amen Dwayne! Tomorrow will be the 19th mothers day without her. She was truly amazing mother and women and nurse. Keep speaking the truth. Wishing your wife a wonderful Mothers day. God Bless

[@dxradioman6351]

Totally agree. Happy Monther's Day everyone! Wish my Mom was alive to tell her how much I love her and appreciate what she did for me. Hope someday I'll get to do that.

[@jewellcarpenter6764]

Not if your mom says u f***** up, in the wrong context...

[@michelalvarez637]

Wow, thank you. This is so sweet. Thank you for treasuring us women. I'm not a mother and not sure yet if I'll have the honor but this message needs to be said. God bless you and your family. ♥️

[@kev3860]

Great video Dewayne..I'm a 5th generation Ky mountain man myself. You hit the nail on the head on this topic. It's a disgrace toward men and even worse toward women..Women are the glue that holds the family together.. They nurture the family and the man provides protection and provides.One dosen't work without the other. Just my 2 cents..I'm 53 and I'll hold the door open for women and certain people.Ive noticed more and more that if you have manners it surprises most people.But I will not change my ways.I will not hold the door for men at or around my age unless they are disabled either.Ive never felt the need too.Just the way I was brought up.

[@melissasalazar2519]

This! Thank you for speaking the truth and making this video! May God continue to bless you and protect you and your family!! Amen!

[@chelly7383]

Thank you 🙏 May mama and everyone on mother's day have a great day. Thanks for honoring 🎖 US Mothers It's sad that there are lots of men do not love women and knowing that they are born from the womb of a women 😢 Thank you my respect to you. I've always have liked your telling stories to me. ❤ I grow up not knowing the love because my own father wasn't a good man, but I still loved him and accepted his wrong doing because we must honor our father and mother. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️ Love from Phoenix Arizona

[@matthewaamot2961]

I was thinking of you folks as i came up 25 and then 90 this morning and passed Sheridan. Great video, Sir!! I wish you all the best this season!!!!

[@LalaleePEACE]

Never offended. Please continue speaking your heart 🙏

[@LivingtheKingdomLife]

Thank you for this video Dwayne! This is such practical wisdom that is much needed for today. ❤

[@carolsouthern3617]

I love “scratchy”! Beautifully said, Dwayne. You make me want to be a better woman☺️

[@143todaylife8]

Thank you so much, sir. I needed to see and hear this. My mother is the queen of my heart ❤️

[@FireCreekForge]

Just starting into the video, but love hearing the meadow lark in the background.

[@minkqua]

NAILED IT!!!! I wish the women in my life would have understood this while we were together. I truly treasured each one of them.

[@Early8Q]

I am a regular here. I did not want to watch this just because of the climate we are in today. But I have not missed one, so with a little extra time on my hands I got to it a week late. It is one of the best videos you have posted, really. And with every “scratchy” comment it just got better; there was nothing scratchy about it from my old male’s perspective. Hold fast man, and woman!

[@teachingthejoyofmusic]

My husband and I BOTH appreciate your wise message(s)! You are creating a legacy of truth and wisdom which will be of immeasurable worth for future husbands/fathers and wives/mothers! What you provide is urgently needed at this critical moment in time. Thank you so much for what you are doing!

[@danielvarela2539]

I like the look Dwayne! Thanks for all your videos they help me grow 🤟🏽❤️

[@Amin_Almonte]

I really appreciate how you make your videos. They're the perfect companion for enjoying a cigar alone in the office while reflecting on life experiences. Keep up the great work!

[@kimberlymehraban7335]

Dwayne, you are a treasure! Thank you for this. This will be my first mother's day without my Momma and my Grandma. Its been a rough year. Luckily I have my sweet teenage sons who are growing into real, good men, to help me through.

[@craigtittsworth9440]

AMEN, & AMEN. What a message brother ! Thank you for always sharing your heart AND for the reminder of the specialness of our mothers. Make tomorrow special for your wife ( and daughters) love ya and as always look forward to the next video.

[@alexhall7990]

Very impactful. Thanks Dwayne

[@deonettevoges5492]

LEGEND VIDEO! This is from a mom of 4 under 6. Moms need to hear this. Fantastic!

[@markit8103]

Thank you! Words of wisdom.

[@rachaelbuckingham4204]

Thank You Dwayne for making me feel like the treasure I am. The Treasure/golden nugget I’ve never felt I am but strived to be, hoped to be. From this day forward as a mother and divorcee I am going to shine. I watch all your content and love your words of wisdom, you’re realistic approach and raw reality and truth, and this is the first time of commenting. So from Hereford, UK Thank You again for your openness and speaking what many in todays pc community won’t. And to Momma ⭐️

[@txjewishdogmom]

Agree with you completely! ❤❤❤