The Matt Howard Interview *1 year later* | Ep. 92

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The Unplanned Podcast

The Unplanned Podcast

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@anitavargas5839
@anitavargas5839 Ай бұрын
Matt, as a health care professional please, please, PLEASE keep talking about your mental health openly!!! It can really be life changing for some men to hear you speak about it!! So many men suffer in silence! Let’s normalize it and change the stigma!
@UnplannedPodcast
@UnplannedPodcast Ай бұрын
Not going to lie, I was terrified for this episode to go out because of how talking about mental health has gone in the past. Hoping this episode helps someone
@avblank71
@avblank71 Ай бұрын
Matt I felt how real you were opening up on your struggles. You are not perfect, no one is perfect I think you need to keep talking about this. Not only will it help you as you go but with men you are told you are not man enough if you cry or feel vulnerable and you can truly help so many as well as yourself. I think you and Abby need to do a SOLO podcast with just yourselves speaking to just the women by Abby and you talking just to the men. Use your platform to help others. We are here for you both and truly care about you guys even though you don’t know us personally. We feel we know you to a certain point since you have opened your lives up to us and myself I have followed you both since the very beginning. I feel like I’m watching my young dear friends grow up through life. Big hugs and prayers to you both. You are both doing an amazing job as you grow and your chapters change. 🙏💪🤗🥰
@kenzieoswalt5157
@kenzieoswalt5157 Ай бұрын
⁠@@UnplannedPodcastEspecially considering your backlash on your music, I’m sure it was scary to speak on this. It was very brave to talk so openly about your experience. Your vulnerability is powerful!
@bettyjones5375
@bettyjones5375 Ай бұрын
​@@UnplannedPodcastyou and abby talking about depression brought a lot of comfort to me. I'm a single mother so having depression often makes me feel so guilty when I don't always have full capacity to be everything I need to be for my child. I truly felt understood by you and abby
@denissefavelas.9239
@denissefavelas.9239 Ай бұрын
You are both the best, keep pushing though. Your helping so many! Men unfortunately aren’t able to talk a lot because of the shaming.
@leahhjeannette
@leahhjeannette Ай бұрын
Seeing Matt try so hard not to break down absolutely broke my heart. Matt, please don’t stop talking about your mental health openly. It can be life changing for so many men afraid to open up. You are SO strong for speaking out! Love you both. Yall are such a light in this dark world ❤️ Also would like to share that I suffer from ADHD and depression too. It can be so so hard dealing with both.
@melrescuebar7496
@melrescuebar7496 Ай бұрын
Are you freaking kidding me??? Matt Howard crying because of the hate of horrible people breaks my heart into a million pieces. I'm so sorry Matt. Just know that not everyone thinks like that and I thought your song was beautiful. It's beyond obvious how much you love your family. 🩷
@hayleyshull4703
@hayleyshull4703 Ай бұрын
Yes!!!! Literally took the thought out of my head. Much love Matt!! Keep sharing!!
@dcjaded202
@dcjaded202 Ай бұрын
You matter…you owe it to yourself to keep going and be yourself …please always ask for help if you are struggling
@haylee9592
@haylee9592 Ай бұрын
Right!
@candace9236
@candace9236 Ай бұрын
i love that you guys dont look at being "soft hearted" as a bad thing. my son (10) is soft hearted and and my husband always complains "he is to soft for this world" uumm no maybe this world just needs more kind people with huge hearts
@brandymcfarland7730
@brandymcfarland7730 Ай бұрын
AWWWWWW Matt! To see him break when it comes to his family, melts my heart. This man loves them and for someone to say that because he is going through doubts and depression etc that he does not love them! Him opening up about it, in the long run shows how much he really does love them.
@nadinehert7162
@nadinehert7162 Ай бұрын
You guys absolutely don’t deserve any hate!! I hope people understand that they don’t actually know you and your life and only get to see short moments 🙈 I wish you guys all the best and keep on going and striving for the better 💪🏼🥳
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox Ай бұрын
Matt! Please read this: thank you for opening up it makes those of us going through situational depression feel understood. I’m sorry that you’ve being going through a rough time. I’ve been watching your videos for years and there’s something I’ve been thinking for a while you would make an amazing news reporter! I feel like you’re made for the role- it’s exciting, there are creative elements, there’s meaning talking to people sharing their stories, community, you’re naturally charismatic, nice voice and make people feel comfortable (your guests on the podcast are always at ease). Please consider! Lol I feel like I’m your internet big sister 😂
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox Ай бұрын
I’m sure other people will chime in but I’m convinced you would be an amazing news reporter!
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox
@NatalieDickson-gl1ox Ай бұрын
Also, podcast guest suggestions: Browney (fitness), or Alex Clark
@UnplannedPodcast
@UnplannedPodcast Ай бұрын
I’ve never thought of that before! You're so kind. I'm just thankful I get to interview people on this show. I really enjoy it! It's funny because podcasting didn't even exist when I was a kid
@ciarajean7962
@ciarajean7962 Ай бұрын
I love the connection between you guys… love love love it and actually it feels inspiring!
@ciarajean7962
@ciarajean7962 Ай бұрын
I love the connection between you guys… love love love it and actually it feels inspiring!
@Sarah-Harvey
@Sarah-Harvey Ай бұрын
Aww Matt 😢 As someone who has dealt with depression since losing my 16yr old Son in 2009, it’s heartbreaking to see you in pain. Opening up about it, and even just admitting it to yourself is so brave. I’m sending you so much love, and Abby too because I know how hard it must be for her to see you suffering. You have such a strong bond I know you will get through this together. Keep going, you’ve got this ❤ xx
@af612
@af612 Ай бұрын
Y'all should invite Tyler from teen mom. Tyler he could probably give some really good advice he has struggled with mental health also and have found multiple ways to heal from it. Y'all guys are my absolute favorite podcast. Keep doing what y'all do. Much love & support from Texas.
@UnplannedPodcast
@UnplannedPodcast Ай бұрын
I am so so sorry that you lost your son. I can't even imagine what you've been through. Thanks for your openness on here
@dianacooper-havlik4115
@dianacooper-havlik4115 Ай бұрын
@reesejoyce
@reesejoyce Ай бұрын
Matt, my heart breaks for the way you have been treated this year. You are such a genuine guy and an amazing husband to Abby and an amazing dad to your kids. Thank you for being vulnerable because I know that is hard to do on the internet. I love you guys so much!!❤️❤️❤️
@dreamcrazy37
@dreamcrazy37 Ай бұрын
I too Find it disgusting and never seen anything but good from these 2!
@angiesaunders6015
@angiesaunders6015 Ай бұрын
I think it's great that yall are partnering with St.Jude. My husband had a rare childhood cancer and lost his right kidney at 2yrs old, it came back in his sacrum at 21. He wasn't supposed to live past 13. He was supposed to be sterile after chemo and radiation but he has 3 children and is getting ready to celebrate his 53rd birthday 🎂
@jennyhammond9261
@jennyhammond9261 Ай бұрын
I'm sorry about the hate comments you get. For people that have actually watched even a handful of your videos, it is very evident that Matt loves Abby and his kids and really gives his all for them!
@macyfleischer6501
@macyfleischer6501 Ай бұрын
So much respect for Matt opening up and being so vulnerable. As a sister to a brother who suffers from severe depression, it's not easy to watch someone you love go through something so hard.
@themarieclark
@themarieclark Ай бұрын
A lot of people owe Matt an apology. And I know they won’t come here to say it but I will. I AM SO SORRY, for all the hate you went through and how it affected you. God loves you! 🙏🏻
@morganhoile118
@morganhoile118 Ай бұрын
Hi Matt and Abby, This episode was incredibly insightful and applicable to my current situation. My husband and I are the same as you both, and got married in 2019. He has been suffering from depression for the first time, and it has been very difficult for us to navigate. Trying not to take things personally, while also helping him through. Seeing Matt open up and discuss how it truly feels to be depressed made my husband feel seen in a way he really needed. Thank you guys for starting this podcast, and being so real. So, so appreciative❤
@lex19xx.
@lex19xx. Ай бұрын
48:05 not everyone thinks that Matt. It’s abundantly clear how much you love your family. Everyone is allowed to have bad days. You could have everything in the world and still have those feelings and that is OK.
@neysta2136
@neysta2136 Ай бұрын
So nice to see that you guys are continuing with the podcasts, so many people seem to start one and then shut it down. Long term listener here guys!
@gina8546
@gina8546 Ай бұрын
Matt, I'm 62 and I have struggled with depression my entire life. Anxiety and panic as well. I wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy. Thank you for your honesty..
@nadyanadya2883
@nadyanadya2883 Ай бұрын
Matt, you're the best dad on the net! Never listen to those comments that say otherwise, however, I haven't even seen them. Wish your worries went away
@hayleyshull4703
@hayleyshull4703 Ай бұрын
Matt, that was so so so sweet of you to bring up Susie and talk about her life because it mattered. No matter how short. My dear friends just lost their baby girl, Marloe Rain, to childhood cancer. Absolutely life shaking. Sending so much love and prayers to all the families that have gone through this, are going through this and will go through this. Raise awareness about childhood cancer. They say it is rare and because of that it receives 2 percent of funding for research and the families. It needs to be just as important as breast cancer. Go GOLD for child cancer awareness!!!!!
@UnplannedPodcast
@UnplannedPodcast Ай бұрын
I am soooooo so sorry hear that. I can't even imagine. We really love what St. Jude is doing to find a cure for childhood cancer
@sarahmarie7107
@sarahmarie7107 Ай бұрын
My son had a brain tumor. He had surgery at LeBonher hospital but our surgeon is from St Jude. He is literally an angel on earth he removed our on brain tumor. My son Jake did loose vision in one eye due to the tumor. But thankfully he is now health happy and just perfect. He had his 3 month post op mri last month and no regrowth! St Jude has amazing doctors ❤
@dianacooper-havlik4115
@dianacooper-havlik4115 Ай бұрын
🥰
@Michelle-xh3ir
@Michelle-xh3ir Ай бұрын
Matt, you’re wonderful. Sometimes life gets hard. Keep talking about your feelings. It helps. Thank you for showing that you’re a human.
@toshaealy7153
@toshaealy7153 Ай бұрын
Matt and Abby. You both deserved better and as someone who is a mother and struggles with depression i just want you to know that I absolutely loved you song. It meant a lot to me to have another parent that feels that way too
@nikkinaicker544
@nikkinaicker544 Ай бұрын
Oh my heart. 47:35 -48:40 It's 8:39am, I have been up since 5am, brushed my teeth, prayed, read, spent time with the love of my life and my fur baby, bug after 3.5hrs I'm back in bed looking for a way to shut everything off. Your honesty and resilience are inspirational. Adhd and other mental health incidents can tear you apart but your honesty and loyalty to your family is outstanding and motivating. Abby, Aug, Matt, Griff... don't stop, you're doing what needed to be done for centuries. Keep sharing, let the hate wash off your back and keep moving. Proud of you ❤❤❤
@chelupas20
@chelupas20 Ай бұрын
Matt thank you for opening up about situational depression. I am currently dealing with it as well. It’s SO terrible, but please know you are understood & seen. I have an amazing amazing husband, a wonderful doggo, great friends, but the last few years have dealt us some really hard hands & it’s been awful for me mentally. So thank you for sharing because it made me feel less alone. Great podcast as always guys 🩷
@Beverley-s8i
@Beverley-s8i Ай бұрын
I lost my son because of his mental health. Matt please never ever let anyone make you feel bad because you talk openly about your mental health. My son never thought he would find anyone that would be able to "put up" with his mental health issues (his words). But Abby listening to you in this episode truly touched my heart. I only wish my son could have felt he could talk about what he was going through. Maybe he would still be here today ❤️❤️
@sarahaleshire1465
@sarahaleshire1465 13 сағат бұрын
Thank you Matt so much for opening up about your struggles. I was having kind of a rough day but you gave me hope. The way you described depression made me feel seen and gave me comfort that I’m not alone and it’s not all in my head. I’m so sorry you had to experience this but I’m so happy you are feeling better. I hope you continue to see and be the light. Blessings! 🙏
@Pitaseror12
@Pitaseror12 Ай бұрын
Love that you opened up Matt. I know it isn’t easy. Please keep sharing your story. I will pray 🙏 for you guys. My husband has suffered from depression and anxiety severely so I know how challenging it can be , also as a spouse it’s hard to watch and feel like you can’t do anything to change it or help them feel better. Me and my husband have a 2 year old boy and he loves him so much regardless of his symptoms. He’s had days when he didn’t want to live anymore, and it’s also hard on a marriage. But keep seeking help if you need it and share your story. After many years and after seeing my husband go to therapy and try different medications, I’m finally seeing glimpses of joy in him. Also bc after so much prayer. I truly started seeing this smile in him that wasn’t there before. Even if you have a family and people you love, you can still go through depression. That doesn’t mean you don’t love your family. Thank you Matt and how brave you are for being vulnerable and sharing. Abby is also in my prayers bc I know how tough it can feel for a spouse❤
@bayleighshea1191
@bayleighshea1191 Ай бұрын
Thank you Matt for wanting to help the percentage that they have not found help for. My son Sylvan is 7 and he has a DMG, brain cancer that is not removable right now and he is an absolute light in this world he would make this world a more beautiful place if we can keep him for a very long time. Thank you guys for what you’re doing.
@dianacooper-havlik4115
@dianacooper-havlik4115 Ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@lynnesawri2805
@lynnesawri2805 Ай бұрын
As a grieving momma whom lost my amazing son to depression I can’t express enough to you, Matt how important it is for you to share, talk about and always put your mental health at the forefront don’t ever suffer in silence out of embarrassment, feeling weak because you’re a man etc… You are an amazing person don’t let the cruelness of people and the world define you.
@aubriannecarpitcher-lz1ej
@aubriannecarpitcher-lz1ej Ай бұрын
i am so sorry you are going through depression and anxiety Matt it's not something anyone asks for and it can be very difficult. I am with you .
@princessjen281
@princessjen281 Ай бұрын
You guys have had a rough year. The trolls have been horrible. Please keep talking about mental health, it's so important. Mom of 3 & I understand having difficult days pushing myself out of bed. You guys are a ray of sunshine, keep being your authentic selves 💕.
@kenziesimmons8962
@kenziesimmons8962 Ай бұрын
I feel like Matt & Abby are my best friends I'll never get to meet! We have so much in common, they're so funny, and we are both in the same stages of life. ❤️ I pray for so many blessings to your family !
@alexahardy2828
@alexahardy2828 Ай бұрын
Anyone who actually watches your content and not just a clip out of context knows how deeply you love your wife and kids. Im so sorry anyone assumed this and that it was okay to comment it. How incredibly painful. You have helped people by making these videos.
@kalysa
@kalysa Ай бұрын
Matt, you’re such a young man and father and you’ve handled so much criticism with grace over the years. Saying prayers for your mental health! ❤
@hannah13131
@hannah13131 Ай бұрын
Hi Matt and Abby. Thankyou so much for opening up about mental health struggles. It’s something many people can relate to, and I think it’s especially important for men to be able to talk about it. It makes me sad that opening up about it through your music led to many negative comments. Just remember that there are so many silent viewers like me who support you. I’ve been following y’all for quite some time and I really appreciate this. Much love from the Netherlands.
@helenryles2187
@helenryles2187 Ай бұрын
Depression does not ever impact how much love we feel for those around us. 💛 ADHD is so closely linked with depression and anxiety, especially as we get older and our responsibilities grow. It’s so easy for our emotional battery to get down to zero during tough periods. It’s time, patience and love that recharges it.
@TinaDales
@TinaDales Ай бұрын
Talking about your depression was HUGE! BIG well done, the world needs more guys like you! 🙌🥰
@Naturefixx19
@Naturefixx19 Ай бұрын
I'm glad you talked about your mental health, it's so similar to my situation, always being chipper and positive then barely recognizing myself this year. You don't understand it til you go through it. When I listened to your song "still not enough" I cried because I related completely
@Kendall--
@Kendall-- Ай бұрын
Ugh when Matt opened up it totally broke my heart. Matt please do not listen to those trolls. Abby and your family and friends are only ones you should listen to. Your followers love you and love Abby and we just want you to know that we are here for you also as y'all are for us. Thank you so much for opening up it has helped someone out there, including me. Your song/songs/music is fantastic and we are proud of you and thank you again so much for opening up ❤
@HeatherHS07
@HeatherHS07 Ай бұрын
Stay strong, you guys!! People are going to say what they want. Keep being the amazing people you are!!
@GenericBeans
@GenericBeans Ай бұрын
Matt thank you for sharing, it is so important. I think you are a wonderful man who is learning everyday, like every single one of us. Thank you
@oliviafinnegan2957
@oliviafinnegan2957 Ай бұрын
Love you both and your positivity and conversation around mental health! Please don’t stop what you’re doing! Sending love ❤️
@MegaTelenovela
@MegaTelenovela Ай бұрын
Wow Matt I didn't expect you to make me cry! 😢😭❤ Thank you for being vulnerable
@morganwilson496
@morganwilson496 Ай бұрын
I totally relate with Matt. I am the golden retriever of my marriage and I promise once you are on the other side of depression there is a light!! And also I can SO relate to feeling like an avenger listening to music while your snowboarding!!!! It feels amazing!
@ChristinaPettit-c7u
@ChristinaPettit-c7u Ай бұрын
Matt, thank you for sharing your mental health journey. Even now, in 2024, talking about mental health can be a taboo subject. You and Abby are inspirational people, and your music is a joy to listen to. Please do not stop doing something you love because a few selfish people hide behind a computer writing awful comments. You have so many people who love and support you. Griffin and Auggie will be so proud of you ❤
@madisynpannier707
@madisynpannier707 Ай бұрын
I really appreciate Matt’s vulnerability in this video. I know mental health in general is hard to talk about, but especially with men speaking up about their feelings I know it’s difficult.
@nicoleschummertaylor
@nicoleschummertaylor Ай бұрын
I’ve been following since your college days and this is *THE* most authentic and relatable piece of content I’ve seen from Matt👏🏻👏🏻. It felt like we got to see part of the truest version of you, not just a happy/ high energy performance. Proud of you and want to learn more about this journey, when it’s right for you!
@gennysedits
@gennysedits Ай бұрын
I literally watch all y’all podcast while doing school work. I love y’all so much
@Lubelle90
@Lubelle90 Ай бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable, Matt. Please know that the beautiful song you released did resonate with at least one person and I am so sorry your vulnerable words were twisted against you.
@reganmcdowell1796
@reganmcdowell1796 Ай бұрын
This is so beautiful of a story. Speaking as someone with mental health problems especially postpartum this hit me hard. It’s so sad and beautiful to see Matt sad because he has the “golden retriever” energy. I’ll be honest I don’t like all your content that y’all do make but seeing this has me at a totally different viewpoint of you Matt. Overall I think y’all are a great couple and make a difference in people’s lives especially after seeing this video or where you can be depressed and people think you hate your family that is awful. I had postpartum depression and I felt like people were judging me so here’s to more love for y’all and you got this!! ❤❤
@jenniferantonio6389
@jenniferantonio6389 Ай бұрын
I've always told my kids from a young age that whatever they choose to do with their friends, understand all of the possible consequences. They are adults now and I'm very proud to say that they were all good teens.
@juliee785
@juliee785 Ай бұрын
Thank you Matt for sharing. Love you both!!! 💛
@katythriftyunder35homeowne57
@katythriftyunder35homeowne57 Ай бұрын
❤ Showing up here in the comments to support Matt in sharing his journey.
@13musicisme
@13musicisme Ай бұрын
We have 2 dogs and 4 children, it’s possible! But I totally get it. We had our dogs before we started having children which makes a big difference. There is no way we would have gotten dogs if we had children first. Love you guys ❤
@annie5593
@annie5593 Ай бұрын
Seeing the internet choose to constantly misunderstand you two and villainize you is so heartbreaking. Just know you have a lot of people who care for yall from afar and are rooting for you. And big kudos to you Matt for sharing your mental health journey. It’s so important💛
@itsme_anniedee
@itsme_anniedee Ай бұрын
Matt, thank you for opening up. We see you. And youre not alone
@emmieann2037
@emmieann2037 Ай бұрын
As soon as Matt voice broke.... The tears 😭😭😭 my husband really struggles with his mental but also physical health. To others, he is a "lazy piece of crap" but to me, he is an amazing human being that has been sick. End the stigmatism!
@kianakipp5816
@kianakipp5816 Ай бұрын
I have supported you guys since the beginning and been around for all these amazing accomplishments and hardships. As a therapist I am so happy to hear you opening up about your stories and persevering through this all. I also do art as a secondary business and would love to commission a hand painted family motto sign for you guys. Much love to you all! ❤
@haylee9592
@haylee9592 Ай бұрын
Not me watching him talking about being depressed and literally feeling like crying. As a mom with severe ppd. I get it Matt. It’s okay, keep talking about it and you’ll be okay.
@dreamcrazy37
@dreamcrazy37 Ай бұрын
Matt is describing depression to a tee. I’d never admitted or even believed I was depressed until it hit me one day and wow, I didn’t leave the house for 13 weeks. I ended up on Wellbutrin, and I always refused antidepressants my entire life. That was 7 years ago, and still on them today. They definitely helped. I had alot of self hatred and anxiety around people. I hope you are getting some help outside family as and really recommend that med.
@labab1048
@labab1048 Ай бұрын
That’s very healthy acknowledgment Matt, let it out, don’t push it down
@sarahmulqueen6079
@sarahmulqueen6079 Ай бұрын
54:42 while this can be good, it can work in the moment. If you dont deal with whats actually causing you to feel depressed, it is a short-term fix meaning it will come back and sometimes it comes back worse than before. Packing up and moving when things start not going right can be a symptom of depression
@marvaSunshine
@marvaSunshine Ай бұрын
Hi Matt. For several moths I had an anxiety disorder. You know what. I have finally figured this out! It’s the corticosteroid nasal spray that made me sick (prolonged use). Unbelievable, turns out many people have this effect. I stopped taking it and I’m myself again. I’m so happy, that creepy anxiety and different pains in my body all left. Please revise any medicines you are taking, google each regarding “anxiety”, you might be surprised. Moreover on webmd they have a really good article on what vitamins you might be missing, what blood tests show markers of anxiety, etc. it is named “Understanding Generalized Anxiety Disorder”. Have a happy holiday season ❤
@dcjaded202
@dcjaded202 Ай бұрын
I really admire the open communication you both have with eachother…please don’t lose that…it’s so important in a relationship/marriage….no jinx ❤
@Lisa-oc9gz
@Lisa-oc9gz 18 күн бұрын
Oh I just love love love this podcast. Thank you guys for being so true and open and funny. Please never forget that for every hate-comment you get there‘s probably hundreds of people that feel seen and understood because of you!
@lauracooke3906
@lauracooke3906 Ай бұрын
47 minutes; I was depressed when you released that song it helped me
@beccalwoodward
@beccalwoodward Ай бұрын
I agree wholeheartedly with Abby's comedy movie opinions!
@TheKasperCrew
@TheKasperCrew Ай бұрын
Thanks for opening up Matt!! You’re amazing and I hate you’re going through that! It’s going to be a hill sooo far away someday!!
@kaailyntaylor
@kaailyntaylor Ай бұрын
Awh Matt, I honestly connect with you so much.. I've also been so depressed this last year, I feel your pain.. I was also diagnosed with adhd this year and I'm on antidepressants. I hope things are looking up for you ❤
@Mindy12836
@Mindy12836 Ай бұрын
Matt, even if it feels like the internet has turned against you, remember there are so many of us who relate and are glad you are sharing! I’m sorry there’s so much hate compared to those of us who are silent but supportive. Also Abby, you are not alone hating those kinds of movies! I can’t stand them either.
@susalkasarahi
@susalkasarahi Ай бұрын
Regarding love languages, I find it so interesting that for men it’s words of affirmation and women (especially moms) it’s acts of service. It’s the same for my husband and I. Although before becoming a mom I would say my main one was quality time
@valerita981
@valerita981 Ай бұрын
Matt, i am a silence listener and follower but i literally cried when you cried. Lord knows you are gentle, loving, caring and everything that abby says a Howard is. I am sorry that this world continues to fail you because it does to all of us but you, in the public eye just trying to share something fun, quirky or just share something about your life and how people just hurt you with their words. The true followers can see how much you love abby and your kiddos. My husband has the same personality as you and is OKAY. We are fun, we are different not to follow the status quo. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are a great man. We love you matt, Thank you for this episode.
@AnnistonPayne-nu7hr
@AnnistonPayne-nu7hr 10 күн бұрын
Matt please don’t let the hate from people on the internet bring your mental health down. Those people are crazy to think you don’t love your wife and children and if music helps you get your emotions out then continue to do it. Don’t give the haters another thought. Love how yall ending the videos on crazy circumstances! Abby your a great wife for being so fun and supportive. Hoping a life of happiness for your sweet family. As a newly wed in the same age range as yall it can feel as if my relationship with my husband is growing and changing as I watch yours do the same. I Enjoy the videos and hope yall keep it up for many years to come! Such a joy seeing how real yall are!
@christinag1217
@christinag1217 Ай бұрын
I guarantee Matt it happens more than you think! I’m not embarrassed but it had happened to me before! 😂😂 I know it sucks to be the person that it happens to, but after awhile we just got to say it’s life and it happens! ❤ your guys podcasts!
@67mialee
@67mialee Ай бұрын
Dang Matt I’ve never seen this side of you 😭 no one deserves that response to simply sharing your hardships ❤ thank you for sharing it was a beautiful look into your soul🫶🏼
@marvaSunshine
@marvaSunshine Ай бұрын
Two weeks after severe Covid case I had a mild concussion at the end of August… and people visiting from overseas, and my kids with me 24/7, and two birthday parties scheduled the same week, etc. it was a disaster - I was so anxious about all the aches and new sensations in my head because of the bad concussion experiences of my friends and relatives, and every two hours I forced myself to lay day because otherwise lightheadedness got to an extreme. It was scary and so hard. the cure - sleep, rest, relax and be happy - was so difficult to come closer to. It took me a month and a half to feel like a normal person 🙃 now it all gone. I’m so happy and wish you a prompt recovery 🙏
@MRoush1967
@MRoush1967 Ай бұрын
One thing I do not like about social media is, we see 2 minute videos up to a 1.5 hour of your lives. People think they actually know you, but we DO NOT. And people will insinuate things they have no idea about in your home life. And those insinuations can REALLY hurt. Especially when people make such assumptions as has been made in the past! I see you guys as a loving family throughout your videos. I absolutely love all of your channels on multiple social media platforms. ❤️
@jeannieoesch
@jeannieoesch Ай бұрын
Hugs and prayers for you Matt 💙The people who comment with negativity clearly don’t know you and your love for your family.
@KaiBertness
@KaiBertness Ай бұрын
Matt I think you’re awesome! I was so mad when everyone hated on you for that video, because they obviously don’t get it. I’ve struggled with anxiety my whole life and currently am struggling with depression after having my two daughters. Anyway, I love you guys and I really do understand how it is.
@eshow_time
@eshow_time Ай бұрын
I’m soooo sorry Matt you went through that that’s horrible and we’re here for you remember you have sooo many people who love and support you and that broke my heart you talking about that because nobody should ever have to go through that hope you are feeling better now. Love you
@alim7688
@alim7688 Ай бұрын
Aww. Matt this made me see a whole side of u. I can relate so much ❤I’m so sorry
@jazzli1036
@jazzli1036 Ай бұрын
If you are ever ready, I would love your song Matt about your depression to come back! I really loved it. ❤
@adriennehart7453
@adriennehart7453 Ай бұрын
Wow that was hard to watch Matt get emotional cause I know he’s not normally an emotional guy. It just shows how difficult all this online bullying can be. I feel like it’s so obvious how normal Matt and Abby are and we’re both raised by great parents and are now great parents themselves. I will never understand the amount of hate they get online.
@jestina-jocelynmponda7210
@jestina-jocelynmponda7210 Ай бұрын
We love you Matt! Thank you for sharing
@chloejones_21
@chloejones_21 Ай бұрын
Ugh we love you Matt, people are cruel & the true followers know your true intentions and love you have for your family ❤️
@Missjose2023
@Missjose2023 Ай бұрын
♥️ I love you guys, and I love your podcast so so much ♥️
@eman_odat
@eman_odat Ай бұрын
Hello Matt and Abby! This is Eman from Jordan. This episode made me cry as I have a baby boy with half a heart! 😭😭
@paige3770
@paige3770 Ай бұрын
Matt you are amazing dad and husband your music is amazing I love you guys
@danibamb5914
@danibamb5914 Ай бұрын
Those who’ve been depressed appreciated that song Matt. ❤
@jstbarnett
@jstbarnett Ай бұрын
Matt, pray for the people who say ugly things. It's hard to do but it's a good thing to do. They must be so sad and unhappy. Keep up the podcast. Loved your new house tour and would like to see more on the Matt & Abby channel. (Like you're not busy enough. Ha!) Abby needs a cooking channel. I still do the roasted vegetables and sausage she did when y'all were in Hawaii.
@staceyburnett733
@staceyburnett733 Ай бұрын
Don’t overthink it play it by ear for the kids and drinking it’s really a step by step you’ll know how to handle it
@AnthonyHologounis96
@AnthonyHologounis96 Ай бұрын
I love your guys podcast both did great 1 year interviews with each other
@ritahnabunjekamya
@ritahnabunjekamya Ай бұрын
Sending love and light to you, Matt.. ❤❤ None of the online bullies even know you.
@Anitagrace6548
@Anitagrace6548 Ай бұрын
I did notice some comments related to the "you hate your wife and kids" topic in your videos and I'm kinda proud to say, I threw some replies here n there trying to explain how depression works and that not loving your family was nowhere near what was really happening. I find your song inspiring and I'm deeply sad that so many people keep misunderstanding you guys... Hang in there, I'm happy that Matt is doing better!
@angelicarosas5758
@angelicarosas5758 Ай бұрын
*Abby's tone of voice* Somebody please give that man a hug! 📣 You're right Matt, depression is terrible. And it's impossible to imagine how bad it is unless you've been through it. 🤍🤍🤍🤍 You're moving through life better than you think you are.
@kaylab7999
@kaylab7999 Ай бұрын
You guys never fail to make me laugh 😂
@bonniepaora8664
@bonniepaora8664 Ай бұрын
Dw Matt, there are very few people who can honestly say they haven't had an accident as an adult, and if they can, their life isn't over yet so there's still plenty of time. Happens to the best of us. I dont even want to talk about how many times I've been there 😂
@Anna08371
@Anna08371 Ай бұрын
Please keep talking about your mental health (at least with your friends and family.) The internet is cruel and I hope you and Abby will be okay with all of the backlash
@Ssssadnesss
@Ssssadnesss Ай бұрын
I'm a new subscriber. I just have to say. I love the chemistry between you too. I'm a Cryer n a listener/responser.. Abby. You make me feel more comfortable w myself.
@briamateo
@briamateo Ай бұрын
Matt you are a dope human! I relate to you a lot! Don’t let anyone steal your sparkle
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