The mental battle | Jaime Update #3

This is the third episode in a series of videos following Builder Brother, Jaime Perkins, and his recovery after an accident that claimed a good portion of all of the fingers on his left hand. Now that the physical pain level has dropped significantly, the mental challenges and "what-if's" seem to be all consuming. Jaime also shares some of his other passions, and challenges that have presented themselves recently. This video includes a brief look at one of his fingers, which is finally out of the bandaging... and Jaime explains why the guard of his jointer didn't save this accident from happening.
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[@rushvilledude]

Jamie, thank you for showing a generation what it looks like to take ownership for your own mistake, and that it also does not define you. You are a real man!!

[@Can_non69]

This is such a pathetic attempt to define ppl. Try humanity over your narrow views of what someone should be.

[@MrDavidrex]

Perkins brothers are a testimony to honesty. God bless guys.

[@robertbeirne9813]

Two huge accomplishments: looking to get back to work and cutting the painkillers.

[@coaltarp]

The powermatic statement showed tremendous character, as well. But I can usually spot the great ones. God speed, be blessed.

[@ChrisLoganToronto]

Yes, kick those pain killers asap and you have the right attitude do physio and start retraining yourself. We are all cheering you on!

[@kingks3302]

Richardson, blessed name Sir. GOD Bless!!! The Lord holds your name high. !!!

[@holeshotcustoms]

4 years later I’m still watching the show hats off to you for staying positive and pushing forward

[@rnorwood2815]

I don’t think you did something “Stupid “ I think I would call it “Careless” but you’re definitely not stupid. Accidents do happen despite our best efforts to avoid them. I feel terrible for you but I know you will get through it, you have family support, a positive attitude, and the support of your viewers. Take care and I hope to see you building again soon.

[@aaronlitz3824]

This raw, genuine talk of how you’re feeling and what you’re thinking is important for our public conversation about pain, trauma, healing, support. Thank you for being vulnerable.

[@howifixit6206]

My son was born with one hand. He is 22 now. He does everything just like you will do in its time. God bless you

[@sblack48]

It was a momentary loss of situational awareness. It happens to everyone. 99% of the time it doesn’t make a difference. But if you aren’t lucky... my brother made a you turn without looking on a highway. Dumb. But most of the time you get away with it. He didn’t. Turn off the ass kicking machine. It won’t help you. Going back to work and seeing the guys and taking some abuse is a good plan. If you sit around you will just think about your hand. When it comes time to use the porta potty on the job site go up to one of the guys and look at him seriously and say “can’t do this by myself, gonna need some help” and get someone to video their reaction.

[@johnm5714]

LOL

[@maureenbaillie4619]

I0

[@bigphillyed]

I feel you pain, literally. My left hand was crushed in a freight elevator 15 years ago. And still to this day, it is very difficult to work with my disability. I question the good lord everyday why he just didn't take my fingers instead of leaving them on my hand crushed! Do yourself a favor get off those pain killers as fast as you can. They kept me on them all this time, and now I cannot function or operate without them. Narcotic pain killers have destroyed my life, way more then the actual injury did. Keep your head up, it's gonna be a long road to recovery. But as you move along, you will learn how to accommodate your new found disability. It will take time, but you got it.

[@nathan7627]

That’s rough dude, keep your head high

[@squirrelcovers6340]

The "good lord"😂Gods are Myths. Accidents happen.

[@sharonread7674]

🙏❣

[@whomeverwherever]

This still brings tears. I’ve watched it several times over the years. And having to be alone in the hospital during that time?! He’s much more forgiving about that than I would be. That’s absolute nonsense. I’m glad you had a supportive family that could help with the recovery and those boys are just so sweet. They will no doubt grow up to be fine gentlemen. They have the best dad ever.

[@jamesramirez9814]

You made me cry. I'm a 57 year old man. I just had my great toe and 4th and 5th toes amputated due to diabetes, and am struggling to walk again. I can only see that I will again one day. Also, I started watching you guys' because I want to build my own house. Thanks for sharing.

[@ssmitty8374]

A friend of my lost his fingers in a woodworking accident also and he learned to play his guitar left handed. You can do it too man! Hang in. Stay strong. Keep your faith. You are well on your way to a full recovery. Life may look a little different and you may have to come at things differently but it’s obvious that you have the fighters spirit to get through it. And you have a great family. Maybe eventually you’ll come up with a stubby finger joke you like. You never know. Stay strong.

[@davegordon6943]

Tony Iommi, guitar player for black Sabbath and regarded as one of the best guitar players ever lost fingers in an accident. He also tried playing left handed, failed and restrung his guitar with banjo strings. Also Jerry Garcia, Dr John and Django great guitar players with missing digits. You got this man.

[@russhenry8112]

My father told my twin brother there is no such word as can’t! The word is CAN DO. He was right and you my man is living proof.I am 72 and I agree with your work ethic,pride in accomplishing a task is so rewarding. Never give up and never give in.

[@TNRonin]

I've discovered you guys in the last year. As a stroke survivor I can speak to your situation, plus some. Thank you got the vid. I can with emphasize with you big time.

[@jacobb7639]

When I lost part of a finger, the ER nurse told me "Don't worry, your in good hands." I looked at her and deadpanned, "Is that some kind of sick joke?"

[@dustyandsneezing]

Man I couldn’t imagine what you’re going through. The second you said you played guitar I almost cried. I hope you figure it out how to play the other way around. I’m rooting for you!

[@chrisholland8690]

“If your going through Hell, keep going.” -Winston Churchill Hang in there brother you will come out the other side.

[@jx14aby]

"And never never never give up."

[@pigeonpecker7623]

hardly 'hell' is it lol

[@swatkins9391]

Sorry, Churchill never said that. Here is the real quote and I believe even better than the Churchill version: Someone once asked a man how he was. He replied, “I’m going through hell!” Said his friend: “Well, keep on going. That is no place to stop!” -Author unnamed, 30 October 1943 “Christian Science Sentinel” journal of Boston, Massachusetts.

[@jx14aby]

@@swatkins9391 Thanks for the correction. What Churchill actually said was: "“Never give in. Never give in. Never, never, never, never-in nothing great or small, large or petty-never give in, except to convictions of honour and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy.”

[@jeremymdgt]

Making me cry watching this during my lunch at the jobsite. Thank you, I needed that I think. Car accidents happen even in the highest levels of driving, we are all imperfect creatures taking chances to thrive. Bless you and yours, Jaime!

[@Kristina_Australia]

Looking back on this after 4 years, Jamie you have continued to show what amazing strength and courage you have to regroup and move forward with your personal growth. You didn't sit back and say, well I can't play anymore, you thought about a solution on how to be able to continue to do something that you enjoy (taught yourself left handed). It wasn't a stupid accident, you were careless and made an error, which for you had a terrible outcome, but I'm sure you have learnt, replace safety guards. What beautiful boys you have.

[@ricdenali4213]

Yesterday is gone.. keep moving forward

[@walkeratl]

well said....

[@johnman2283]

From UK London , you guys have been inspirational .... you are strong and will find a better way! God bless

[@edgonzalez186]

This guy is such a boost of positive energy. He's definitely "the good vibes guy".

[@batteriesnotrequiredtoysth7271]

My dad was a carpenter his whole life. While putting down subfloor in the basement at the farm, he put the skill saw down like he normally would. But the guard didn't come down, and the blade still had some spin happening - took off right across the floor and cut right through his one day old cowboy boot! The doctors managed to clean out all the bone fragments, and salvaged his toes - except most of them turned black. A simple procedure he'd done a million times - sometimes things just happen, can't beat yourself up over it. My youngest son got his hand caught in a conveyor belt 5 years ago - a split second slip that he's still dealing with and likely will forever. Thankfully, he still has his hand. I just found your channel, watched the build on the mountain top - love the camaraderie and skills portrayed. Now I have to go binge the rest of your videos!

[@justinbowen3387]

My dad lost half of his hand about 7 years ago and trust me when I say you will be back and better than ever in a bit. It didn’t slow my dad down in the long run! Love the channel and god bless.

[@bertveldhuizen8699]

I just started watching your videos a couple of weeks ago, you anyour brother are great builders! You'll be allright!

[@joemodley7934]

Accidents just happen... car wrecks, pregnancy, slips, falls, putting your hand in a jointer... moving forward afterwards takes work, time and persistence! You got this!!!

[@Referrdia]

brother, my tears go to your positivity. i had an accident 3 weeks ago, (non dominant hand, index finger) and i just cant believe how strong you are. it is brave to say what you say and admit the reality. you are a dying breed. they dont make them like you anymore. all the love to you and your mentality. and i am going to switch hands like you for guitar...

[@piotrgolabek4402]

Great to see you recovering so quick! Keep doing stuff and motivate us to do so! Thanks for that.

[@heatherwhyte9527]

I feel like you can easily have a career as a motivational speaker. Your optimism is truly inspiring and I'm going to watch all of your videos. And buy a t-shirt. Thank you!

[@PerkinsBuilderBrothers]

Wow, thank you!

[@sendit7777]

Good work sir. A good attitude makes for a great life. Misery loves company, but it cant stay where the light is. The best part is your still alive and it wasn't any worse than it is.

[@MickiHarbour]

Praying for you every day, Jamie! Thanks for the updates.

[@larrycoffman4205]

Jaime, once your hand heals you will be able to do allllll kinds of things that you think you will not be able to do. They make some really great work boots that zip up the side. You look very good. Keep moving forward. Still praying for you buddy.

[@jx14aby]

This is why God created Velcro!

[@jasonbishop6934]

Love these updates! Keep up the positive outlook and keep on pushing forward.

[@edgargraciano4707]

Keep on keeping on, can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through. Love what you guys do! Stay strong 💪🏼

[@brentzeller4269]

Jamie, Thank you for the updates and I love your attitude. That is awesome progress for 2 weeks out. Praying for a continued speedy recovery.

[@pwhsbuild]

Thank you for sharing. Keeping you in prayer. In just a moment life can be so tragic yet in a moment life can be so precious. As you realize your hand find your peace in your children's smiles. Have an awesome day and looking forward to updates as you recover!

[@vincekline7299]

Stay strong brotha. I recently severed my ulnar nerve and have lost the feeling in half my hand. I know it doesn’t compare to your injury and I couldn’t imagine. Take it day by day buddy, you are in our thoughts.

[@floopflarp]

4+ years later it's amazing to revisit this video seeing how much you've overcome after this accident. It sucks to have to even go through this in the first place but man I think I've heard in videos you play guitar left handed still and you seem to not skip a beat working on any other projects. You're not only a great warning story for workshop safety but a great example of keeping at it despite the mistakes that debilitate you. I wish I was as strong as you. It's hard to make a mistake as severe as you had and end up admitting to maybe screwing up yourself then adapting so well that you are an ambassador for others who might suffer the similar amputee situations.

[@lopezredone]

Thank you for sharing!!! I appreciate your attitude and motivation.

[@westignor6855]

Hey man, the courage you have demonstrated with these videos has been incredible. Thank you for being open and honest about a very raw & difficult thing. Hang in there and keep taking this thing one day at a time. Those small victories each day really do add up.

[@arcdraw]

Jaime, You are absolutely amazing and inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story.

[@roryohalloran849]

You are the Man. You’re helping me to face my fears and keep going. Thanks

[@robertsimpson772]

When I cut my hand and lost my index finger I used to joke around with people and tell them my finger was growing back when they asked me about it, you should've seen the look on their faces. This was a life altering accident. You will face new challenges everyday. I lost my index finger and the use of my ring finger on my right hand 16 years ago and of course I'm right handed. I love doing carpentry enough to find different ways to overcome my situation and you will too. You are in my prayers buddy. Keep your head up.

[@jasonthomas6072]

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Things are always hardest in the beginning but as we adjust we adapt and overcome. God bless you brother

[@mike090909able]

Just wanted to say you do amazing, one day at a time and you accomplishing it. Well done. We all happy and glad to see you back up and running

[@mydogsmells1733]

My stepfather lost the fingers on his right hand at the age of 18 in a printing press accident. Thankfully he did not lose his thumb and and has a stub for a pointer finger. He switched to using left hand and, instead of playing football, he became a phenomenal golfer. The injury never slowed him down. He's told me on numerous occasions that he thanks God for not having lost his thumb. My point to this is that he adapted and overcame his injury just like you will do. You have faith, family, and friends who will help see you through this bump in the timeline of your life.

[@talbertadams6586]

Thanks so much for sharing this with us. With the attitude you have, there is no doubt in my mind that you will be back. Keep working, you'll make it.

[@TheBucklandgrp]

You are such a resourceful person, I think you'll be an inspiration to many!

[@andyfortin9209]

I love your positivity and drive to find ways to do what you love. Keep your head up brother wishing you the best with your recovery!

[@nimblybimbly4002]

Thanks for sharing your story.

[@richtapper476]

Jaime, Thanks for sharing your story, you have a great mind set and you will do fine! You're already setting goals to reach and that's half the battle just getting starting with your recover. Stay strong and keep moving forward.

[@lynjermey6423]

Watching this 3 years later, it is amazing just how far you have come through this. Watching you doing everything that you did before, and being so mentally strong with everything that happened, and everything that you have over come. Well done Jaime, you have achieved so much.

[@garyowens8201]

I lost a finger on a jointer in 2015 myself. I’ve been working around/with equipment and heavy machinery since I was 10-11 years old. The day of my accident I was building a bed for my grandson. I’ve replayed that event thousands of times in my head and I still don’t know for sure how it happened. I had to have surgery and then mine got infected with MRSA. That was a huge set back in healing but it finally did. Mine was also a Powermatic and it took me 2 years before I would even look at that machine again. I’m fine with it now but the initial time I used it, it was hard to push that piece of wood through that thing. You’ve got a great attitude so you’ll work through it too. Just takes time to make the adjustments. For me those adjustments were more mental than physical. All the best on your healing and getting back to the things you love.

[@bigdogoutdoors4985]

We love you brother! Thanks for sharing.

[@antonygreenup]

Wow, this is so powerful. Thanks Jamie for your honesty and integrity. Keep well sir

[@disciplinefunds]

Jaime, I’ve been building my own house for the last few years and your videos have been unbelievably helpful. I’m so sorry about what you’re going through. But man, I gotta say, you’re a huge inspiration. You’ve had such a great perspective and mentality about all of this. I’m looking forward to watching you become an even better builder after this. Take care!!

[@zenmastasleepguru522]

Thank you for sharing your story Jamie you are an inspiration, so hearty brotha what a soldier. Best wishes to you and you’re future !

[@skrappy197]

Good to hear how your doing. It will get better with time! Wishing you the best!

[@moeomoth9936]

YOu got the stuff Jaime. You're going to come out on top. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, experiences and strong character.

[@ABH313]

dude youre very strong, so proud of you. really gives me hope. thanks so much.

[@sericcreativeworks1865]

Thank you so much for these updates, you're an incredibly strong person and you're strength and attitude are exactly what is needed for others who have to deal with life changes like this. I also work in the trades and have seen first hand and through the grapevine that these things happen to those you would least expect. Stay strong, I'm sending my love, whatever it's worth.

[@stephanieczekanski3175]

Jamie- I've been watching your story and watching you heal. When you do something for so long things become routine and sometimes you just forget. I think about that every time I have a close call on the job. It could have happened to any of us. Thank you for continuing to teach and lead the next generation of carpenters through this hardship. We need more men like you. You are an inspiration and I'm so glad you've healed up enough to be back at work. We are so excited to continue learning from you. Many blessings to you and your family ❤

[@Cooper1]

I just watched again. I continue to be amazed and inspired by your resilience, adaptability, attitude, & perseverance. I'm a big Jamie fan!

[@TheMyEighties]

Jamie, the way you manage your injury and your mental state is encouraging for many people who have such sever injuries. I have seen in following videos your recovery and the way you work as if you don't have any limitation (despite the fact that you have) - this is is an amazing inspiration for other people. The way you always use your sense of humor even in the worst moments. You don't give up, and you look positively forward into the future. I'm happy to realize that now things are better. You are a strong man, physically and mentally.

[@lb7wade518]

Glad to see you in good spirits!! Hope you continue your recovery to be an even better carpenter!! Love the channel!! Sometimes things hapoen for a reason! You may not know that reason just yet!! Your plan is in Gods hands!!

[@sharpsharpy7327]

Jaime, Thank you for making the power to share this. You have gotten thru everything in your life to date.............you will get thru this as well. You have the heart of a warrior. Best, Sharpy

[@juvexsempre69]

Just saw this vid.Great attitude,know where you're coming from.Seeing your latest vids and witnessing your great recovery is heartwarming.All the best to you and family.

[@Jw-awesome]

Thank you for sharing this. Very inspirational.

[@adsa3449]

Wishing you a speedy recovery man, all the best to you and your family.

[@naphza1]

As difficult as this video is to record, it’s admirable that you chose to explain what your experience felt like and your recovery. As a old guy (74) who used to play guitar, but can no longer due to arthritis. I feel for you. Thank you for your courage.

[@randyreading8317]

I have no doubt, after watching this that you will be making the best of your situation. You have a great attitude about your recovery this will serve you well ! Best of luck !

[@adamd7078]

Praying for you my friend. God bless you during this terrible time.

[@timroberts8735]

As an aspiring carpenter this channel has been unbelievably helpful in many ways. I’m on my third year of helping a contractor who builds custom homes in northern Minnesota so I find myself watching a lot of things I can relate to and learn from. Keep your head up! Prayers for you and your family

[@silys5253]

You are awesome! Sharing your story makes the world a better place

[@jimspence3393]

Been watching Perkins videos for the last year and didn’t know how you got injured. Lost the use of my entire left side due to a stroke for awhile but got the majority back… I have about 15% of the use of my left hand and zero % feeling from the wrist to my fingers. Like you I was a guitarist and I loved diy everything. Loved your attitude and positive spirit after your accident….. I was the same! Things change but life goes on! Good for you!

[@brians5539]

I’ve had no use at all of my right hand now for seven years and I still struggle with basic tasks. Although I will say if you think building things gives you satisfaction, I can’t even begin to tell you the satisfaction I’ve felt from building things and doing tasks with only one hand that my family considers impossible is unbelievably awesome. I think you’re doing great Jaime, way beyond where I was at that point.

[@Christ_on_the_River]

Thank you for bravely sharing your journey and showing what it means to be an overcomer

[@gsh319]

Hang tough Jaime, can’t imagine how difficult it will be to adjust but after watching you guys for a while now, it’s been long obvious you have what it takes. Prayers are with ya from up on Long Island.

[@markmurray4867]

Stay strong mate, going back to work is the best answer. You’re surrounded by people who will support you and get you mentally back up there. God bless from Australia

[@luisnieves7183]

Jimmy you and your brother are both made of steel!I can't wait to see you back working again!With all that knowledge,you will still do some great projects!I am very happy to see you!!!

[@dustinboyce25]

Thank you for sharing your journey and the learnings about what lead to your accident. I have been following the channel for quite some time now, but just recently stumbled into the videos about your story

[@guismth]

Dude! You are a blessing! I had commented about losing my thumb and being a guitar player in a previous vid of your journey through this. Without knowing YOU are a guitar player!! I love your determination! The riffs, shapes, chords, theory is still in your head my man. Youll get this, keep fighting!!

[@stevetheeuroguy6756]

It's good that you are doing these videos. You will be able to look back at them and remember what mindset you were. A reminder of what you have overcome.

[@danielbregar5423]

This is my first time seeing and hearing about your accident. I haven't been on your channel in awhile and when I saw what happened to you I was in total shock. Stay strong! The road ahead will be bumpy but you are one tough guy. Wishing you the best possible recovery!

[@mattschoular8844]

Thanks for the update. Hang in there. You'll be stronger for it...

[@jeffkerr7038]

Jaime, you are doing so well right now. Your spirit is shining through! 🙏

[@jofasable]

Hello Jaime, I work also at the building, when ever I get a bad cut or injury I walk it off every evening after work until the pain is long gone, maybe 10 12 mile. Walking circulates the blood and helps free the mind. Best wishes from Ireland, you are very positive young man.

[@ravenstarver1360]

You walk almost a half marathon every night after work? 4 to 5 hours?

[@jimanderson4495]

Thanks for honesty. Trucking on. Good outlook on life. Love the channel. I know this happened 2+ yrs ago, but I just joined the channel.

[@vintageMIDI]

Excellent, Jamie. Thank you!

[@kyags4980]

I compliment you for sharing your struggles and also showing people that life moves on and you rock that shit! A true inspiration to all

[@gallitofer]

Brother I admire you and respect you so much

[@markb.1259]

You are Awesome Jamie! Love your positive attitude! Thank you for this update video. I'm confident you'll continue to get better and come up with adapted ways to do tasks every day. I had been wondering about the jointer cutter guard and why it wasn't over the cutter. Thank you for sharing that with us. Keep the smile on... you look great!!

[@andyrice859]

Your positive attitude and your family and friends will get you through this. Best of luck !

[@JR-ii4lq]

You're a legend, and by sharing your journey you're helping others with theirs.

[@Roboticwurm]

I appreciate you being brave enough to show us the stitches. Somehow that really brings the reality home for me. You're tough.

[@CBDguitar]

It's nice to see that you are looking forward to so many things. Didn't know you guys are also musicians. Learning to play guitar lefty is a really good goal. Very nice acoustics by the way! Jaime your great attitude is contagious! Stay strong like you are and we can't wait to see and hear the incredible things you do!

[@jimpodgorski9514]

I had a similar event, be aware of PTSD, share your thoughts and emotions with your loved ones.You have a ways to go ( we can see the pain on your face) to be on the other side of this. Take it from me, with a loving family its all good.

[@T.E.P..]

Can't believe how long ago this is already .... and Jaime is open and talkative about it. I remember when Erik was in his truck telling us about the accident and it worried me how Jaime would recover. Jaime has a strong spirit and wonderful humor about obstacles. HEY, maybe use KEEPS on your fingers now and they grow back. Always inspiring Jaime. I like your view of yourself and how much you like to accomplish things. Hello from Monday March 7, 2022. Great to know you.

[@dejahleger9279]

Be easy on yourself, mentally and physically. Accidents are accidents because we don’t plan them. You’re not dumb, you’re not weak, you’re not stupid. You take responsibility, you are making huge strides, and you’re moving forward. Give yourself grace and be gentle with yourself.

[@jeremiahcoles2378]

My old boss lost 2 1/2 fingers in a table saw accident after 30 years in the trade. It took him about a year before he felt somewhat normal. Remain positive and patient. If you are a man of faith then trust in the Lord and His goodness to bring you through this. God bless. I'll keep praying for you all the way up in Canada.