The MISERY of Being a FEMALE Kpop Idol

[@BeBossTV]

Be honest, is your dream of becoming a K-pop idol still intact? 👀

[@JoeMama69_]

Yes.... But I don't think anyone will take me because I'm an Indian and my color is dark...Lol (Thank you all for the support and likes. 😘😘)

[@kpopmademepegnantpragnontg6830]

Not really , i just want to ask a female idol how ther are instead of being one..

[@S.Butt29]

Yes but I don't think that I can be one because I am a Muslim I don't like wearing short clothe Edit= I have never got so many like tysm

[@JoeMama69_]

@Sravya Geethika Chandala 😄😭😇

[@aparnabiswal2564]

@@JoeMama69_ OMG same here

[@purplevorld964]

Short clothes+ cold weather+ Performance+ period= *Nightmare*

[@heehee2360]

I can't even imagine.....

[@lol-s7g7z]

+hard dance+ still getting hate for no reason

[@natalielol9742]

+being on diet

[@aflower6955]

+having frequent crisis to deal with

[@engene9655]

+hard dance on high heels + showing herself happy without any pain+ getting hates when they date male idols + sexual abuse + many thing which we can't even imagine 😔 so sad for them

[@sulam000n]

Fans always complain about companies forcing their female idols to diet. But sometimes, the real evil here are fans themselves. You body-shame them, criticize them and make fun of them. They are struggling because of fans like that...

[@sxukablajt6299]

THIIIS

[@ikranx.4578]

Yess

[@ajreyes1262]

I heard companies don't do that anymore, so probably fans is the one to blame here

[@hellivioze3648]

People want to blame the companies but ignore that the only reason that this stuff happens is because of fan perception of idols. They have to be the perfect shape. They have to be the perfect weight. They have to look a certain way. Their performances have to be perfect. Then they wonder why idols get anxiety and mental health problems when it comes to performing and take it out on the company. Maybe look at yourselves first for the industry being the way it is.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

It's not because of their fans actually. It mainly because of their agencies.

[@shaktisikha1615]

Being a idol is very hard But being a female idol is even more harder

[@BeBossTV]

True. Since forever, females have always been more vulnerable to things.

[@shaktisikha1615]

@@BeBossTV I like this video. Next time I wanna see video based on underrated groups of kpop

[@BeBossTV]

@@shaktisikha1615 Great idea!

[@shaktisikha1615]

@@BeBossTV and please include dreamcatcher there

[@BeBossTV]

@@shaktisikha1615 sure, Dream Catcher is probably underrated too!

[@madiisonavery]

Short clothes+ cold weather+Performance+period + being on a diet+hard dance on high heels+showing happiness without any pain+getting hated when dating male idols+sexual abuse= *Nightmare*

[@pavithrashinob2254]

That sounds more than a nightmare!!!!

[@mitvashah2183]

Also fair skin and spotless skin

[@goldenqueen836]

@@aishautube yeah because I always wondered how they dealt with their periods.

[@cheriesammy]

@@aishautube yeah some don't have their period for 2 months cause of the insane dieting and hectic schedule.

[@xraven7514]

Then people say boys suffer more

[@kanishkalingwal5421]

Just imagine how hard their menstrual days for them during the Times of their concerts...dealing with cramps... being in uncomfortable dresses...I can't even imagine

[@sayedrouf6744]

Hey how can u delay that? Also i wanted to ask does peroid occur to females over 30 years old?

[@lucienturcios1009]

@@sayedrouf6744 usually women stop having their periods after 50-60 years old. Also, you usually can delay it with birth control, but it's seriously harmful to someone.

[@gaurikakashyap7467]

@@lucienturcios1009 yes it is very Harmful for girls health

[@nassima2010D]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHvMenyEiambn5o

[@kanishkalingwal5421]

@@sayedrouf6744 pills...Injections... Birth controls...but definitely not good for health...it fks up the reproductive organs and one might even be infertile for life at extreme conditions....

[@wowwww.x-x]

Toxic fans be like- Your too fat loose weight *looses weight * Your too thin get healthier. Like bruh-

[@emotionaldamage9894]

I swear these toxic fans are the real devils

[@wowwww.x-x]

@@emotionaldamage9894 yep

[@simplyachicken]

Yeah so true LMAO

[@eshaleshalleeh]

Bruh

[@ishita2027]

For real

[@aghnashajan5903]

"There's always some standard of beauty that you're not meeting....it's all fucking impossible" - Taylor swift

[@na0l886]

If i was a man then I'd be the Man -Taylor Swift

[@saanvisharma2126]

she is QUEEN. PERIOD.

[@anniesings2373]

She didn't lie. This video makes me wanna hug each and every female idol. They suffer a lot

[@yue1203]

Stan Taylor.

[@lostclown2208]

Istfg I hate these beauty standards

[@samantha-ty1nl]

so don’t y’all dare *ever* call female idols lazy.

[@beenmine]

Jennie has been called lazy.

[@chuuchuutrain4219]

@@beenmine same with lia

[@samantha-ty1nl]

@@beenmine don’t u ever call them lazy ever again.

[@miriscika]

@@beenmine jen actually had a limp on her foot then, thats why she couldnt be very energetic on s tage

[@beenmine]

@@miriscika yeah ik that

[@raygin6581]

"Sexual temptation"??? Call it what it is. Sexual harassment

[@belindaaugustine399]

THIS.

[@juri7507]

yesss it shouldnt be something people are ashamed of, rather something we should talk a lot more openly about so no victim is ashamed or embarrassed to share their story

[@shiny_creations]

THANK YOU! I was about to comment that too! Calling it 'temptation' implies that they might secretly like the harassment or have any say in it at all! Don't give cute names to abuse.

[@saritahenao7351]

That's exactly what I was thinking

[@terrispencer4913]

I was sure like, "this seems more like harassment than temptation"

[@db2663]

I’m proud of those female artists who go through all of this but still stay strong and entertain us, WE LOVE YOU GIRLS☺️☺️

[@rana-sb6gc]

Yes! Everyone woman is beautiful and amazing!!! 🥺💖✨

[@ann__a_ot7600]

“..And entertain us” ?...I cannot help but say that sounds so wrong

[@nassima2010D]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHvMenyEiambn5o

[@marksullivan00]

I agree, women in kpop go through a lot more things in life than men, mostly in general

[@db2663]

@@ann__a_ot7600 oh I’m sorry if that sounded wrong to you, I really didn’t mean it that way, I was just saying that no matter how much they go through they always keep a smile in their faces and keep performing well for us, that’s what I meant

[@Cieliskies]

I actually saw a article about how teddy ( Blackpink’s producer) only wanted female staff around the blackpink members.

[@aishakhan6921]

Wow my respect for him increased.

[@GigiM_winx]

Wow he is good

[@aclown9342]

Yeah he said that he only wanted female staff for BP, I respect that guy he is like an older brother to blackpink

[@beatleses]

I really trust him, idk he just look like a good guy. The way he's talking about blackpink's member and interacted with them in the doc was just heart warming. And it's just pure.

[@blacktothepink10]

Wow 🙏🏻💕

[@wut6251]

Idols: getting sexualized, is in real danger Netizens: i sleep Idols: dates someone, gets tattooes Netizens: *_REAL SH!T?_*

[@hihello7529]

Ikr

[@akanekun67]

Yahh

[@artmusify00]

they're weird af

[@citrine4267]

@Wreckage Brother Stop it. Get some help

[@chickenwings1622]

@@citrine4267 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sumchakungkho4308]

Being a female idol is indeed not easy at all that too In a society where boys are more respected over women

[@rana-sb6gc]

Yes, And just being a female is really hard, imagine being a female idol and having to deal with everything. So just being an idol is not easy. They really need to be respected more and treated better! No matter the gender, but not everyone understands that!

[@sumchakungkho4308]

@@rana-sb6gc indeed

[@rj058]

@@rana-sb6gc agree

[@nassima2010D]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHvMenyEiambn5o

[@marksullivan00]

thats so messed up, thats probably why female idols get the most hate🤦‍♂️

[@monkss5295]

It's the most horrible thing to perform on their menstruation. Fans should respect their idols and there hardships too rather than say they are being unprofessional, they are also human.

[@smairasharma8527]

Exactly

[@lizasaakadze3922]

Every women is expected to work weather or not they are on their periods. However of course shaming a girl for it and turning it into taboo subject is just plain stupid. Half of the population has it, why are we still ashamed to talk openly about it

[@monkss5295]

@The RedSmasher Yaaa.. Thank you

[@monkss5295]

@The RedSmasher it's okay , that's very sweet of you😊

[@sufiaansari9981]

Men always wear full clothes so the girls should also wear appropriate clothes and don't listen to the criticizers cause they can catch so many disease

[@izzahyasminaiman9502]

things that need to tolerate : 1. Idols are also human. They know pain, tired, feeling, love 2. Fans DO NOT own idols. so, we have NO right to tell what's best for them. That's their company's job 3. No matter if that show has many viewers, idols' HEALTH should ALWAYS comes first. 4. Just because they are female idols, it does not mean, they should be girly at all times. If fans can diss idols, idols can also diss fans (careful with your words)

[@Meenaheel]

Yes you are right

[@Meenaheel]

Well lisa give fans a boyish style

[@mimistate2371]

I dont think it's their company's job to tell them what's best for them cuz most of the time the company is just as bad or worse than fans when it comes to criticizing an idols appearance or personality

[@imalive6583]

FACTS! Keep speaking

[@izzahyasminaiman9502]

@@Meenaheel what's wrong with boyish style?

[@fishnchips1641]

These female idols deserve better. They should be able to wear flats (as in shoes) and wear warm clothes. Like, be humane. This goes against human rights.

[@dannymorgan6053]

Smaller number of group members focusing on voice qualities as well as visuals would mean better talent thus lessening the need for agencies putting the performers in precarious situations with their outfits. That applies to both male and female. If you are truly talented you can force opinions to be recognized!

[@dannymorgan6053]

@Albert YK Chen If they feel forced to do something they don't want to do, then that is against their rights. 1st world human rights is no different the 3rd world human rights, only difference is in the aspect. Mental vs physical but both involve human rights...

[@dannymorgan6053]

@Albert YK Chen You win. Pls accept my humble apology!

[@hectzen23]

@Albert YK Chen What if they don’t want to be sexualised or uncomfortable? They’re human beings, they should be treated like one. A lot of them go into the industry so young, they have no clue what’s going on.

[@hectzen23]

@Albert YK Chen True but I think in most cases, those parents aren't aware or just want their children to be happy. But if they are fully aware, then there should be more cases of parents getting their children to leave those companies for good.

[@riyu3087]

Being a female idol can be one of the most difficult things in world🥵

[@marksullivan00]

well said

[@kadiannblackwood2844]

Ture but we have to give it a try

[@JenelleFajardo]

At the end of the day they are all powerful and we should support female idols a lot.

[@sarithajagajith6568]

Military jobs - Am I a joke to you?

[@riyu3087]

@@sarithajagajith6568 😂 trueee

[@KM-ne1ft]

ALL women\girl idols are strong humans. They deserve more love and respect.

[@marksullivan00]

I agree, women go through so much things in life than men

[@makarandpawar6939]

True

[@toenailvolunteer3454]

@@marksullivan00 sadly not alot of people sees that

[@emotionaldamage9894]

Indeed!

[@purr4829]

Im a boy but you guys have to stop sexual joke and catcalling it not cool

[@SpiritedDancer17]

The period thing is no joke. I was a ballerina and at the start of every new year or new class we were told that periods don’t give us any excuse to miss even one minute of class and that we have to dance as if everything is fine. I have endometriosis and get such extreme cramps that I had to be give prescription medicine to take the edge off the pain. And it’s not just cramps like most people think. Many of us get extremely nauseous, dizzy, get headaches/migraines, have horrible back pain etc. and it always makes us way more self conscious too because we’re always worried that it will show through our clothes. Imagine being on your period and performing while wearing a white tutu.... I’d never been so uncomfortable wearing anything in my life than a white tutu during my period.

[@audreycastaneda6350]

You be spitting straight up facts.

[@BeBossTV]

We could never imagine that. Thanks for sharing your story 💗

[@preshayqureshi8921]

Only girls can understand what u said 🥺

[@MINA-wh2sx]

This may sound werid but I think 🤔 jennie from blackpink gets painful period cramps 😫 cuz when people were calling her lazy she was Probably in pain and that one time she left the stage at concert she looked like she was about Puke and I deal with these problems i can't even leave the house cuz of it

[@preshayqureshi8921]

@@MINA-wh2sx can u tell me which perfomence was that?

[@bodoura4447]

It’s sad that revealing clothes are essential in the industry. Modesty and warm clothes can be stylish too. - don’t know how the comment section resulted into a cultural war since this comment obviously and clearly just states that if idols or performers are cold they should be able to wear long clothes. Moreover, nowadays it seems that very thin and short clothes are considered more attractive which is why I brought up the point “modesty” which is dressing more (in this case according to the weather) and still be attractive. Ain’t got nothing to do with religion. Be respectful. That’s a start for preventing misunderstandings. :)

[@sufiaansari9981]

Yes why do girls wear short clothes to reveal their body to men ??or to show off their body ?Logically men are getting whatthey want 'women in short clothes to lust upon' and women are giving them exactly what they want by wearing short clothes . Men have been a lot vocal about short clothes and when someone is molested its ultimately blamed on the size of cloth . Girls dont let men control and brainwash you . ?Men wear full clothes in almost all circumstances but women attire are just getting shorter day by day and that's concerning. Modest clothing should be provided to these female idols cause they are at a risk of being preyed on by men hope they are safe .

[@VS-uh6rf]

And what's even crazier is that Korea has a huge problem with women owning up to their bodies and if you are not modest, apparently you're trash? (Refer back to what happened to Sulli) But then, these companies are forcing the girls to show skin all the time? Make it make sense :(

[@prachigautam9318]

@@sufiaansari9981 so true

[@stelladialaeme741]

Sooo true 😔

[@gracysingh9983]

@@sufiaansari9981 you are muslim thats why you ate saying this . Tumhara bas chale to u will want all female kpop idols to dance in burkha.

[@pratheeksha.o29]

Am I the only who who likes to see "chubby" female idols, they just look so happy and healthy..I.think its really cute

[@bruhgohateonmelol5544]

Nah ! You're not alone, i don't like seeing people suffer, and i agree they are cute !

[@ikonic5641]

@@tongtong1374 and you're the reason idols have anaroxia

[@lsly4838]

@@tongtong1374 ?

[@agnescho4329]

SAME

[@aeon5566]

There's a few people that like chubby people. But in general a healthy looking person has a limited amount of fat. So chubby can be perceived as borderline fat/unhealthy. It's basically written in our genes to not want to like that. This is enforced by modern media to certain extremes to be sure. But fat people? Well, I wouldn't promote that. One, you're unhealthy and likely to have all sorts of complications, grievances or struggle with self image (don't think that this is external, especially for women). And a second part is how the outside world treats them. It's naieve to think people "shouldn't do this" because it is what people do and always will do. "Can't we all just get along" never helped anyone in practice. It's idealistic and unrealistic.

[@ジア-n8y]

Being a female idol is not easy...and also male...in conclusion ...kpop industry is very troublesome... only some groups can become famous...and the others who spent years training never get what they deserve!

[@brawlstar5229]

If we take an example of our life....it's like you getting a well known job and recognition and other who also try hard or less compare to other doesn't get the well known recognize job...tho you do get job but not like the other. All our life are just same as the idol. It just that we have different field.

[@marksullivan00]

its not easy for a female idol, cuz they get hated on more than the male idols🤦‍♂️

[@dh.9829]

I honestly don't understand who invented these kpop rules of no dating, half naked on stage like wth? Its so different in the western like why can't it be like that too I know the group who started kpop as kpop were seo taji and the boys, they sang about the government and rebelling and stuff like that What the heck does that have to do with these rules who came up with these seriously

[@brawlstar5229]

@@dh.9829 this all kind of rules are actually made because of people in this world who are very judgemental and useless who want comments or criticize whenever they want. They made the concept and companies work on what people want for. And try to ignore the uninvited problems.

[@theoran7968]

Yea, but it’s about time for the world to admit that it’s harder for women and this is coming from man.

[@chkknn]

This video just proved the qoute: " *BEAUTY IS PAIN* "

[@rozmaidayuomar2804]

This fact deserve more like

[@martinasera825]

Yeah, pretty hurts.

[@segsymoyai]

@Ashwini Desai lol

[@Gresaaa]

Beauty isn't pain though. This is just trying to control someone for their own sexual pleasure...and disguising it as beauty. Disgusting.

[@natasha_escoffier6281]

Yeah but thats just society's beauty standard, you dont have to starve yourself just to be beautiful. Beauty comes in different shapes, shades, everything

[@FarhanMizam]

I love how Mamamoo straight out talk about how cold they were 😂

[@francislouis766]

lol

[@omao4938]

Other idols: *try to hide the fact that they are cold by smiling and acting like everything is fine* Mamamoo: Bitch I’m fucking freezing.

[@asmafarooq.1292]

@@omao4938 this is why I love mamamoo 😂💜💜

[@sylvieonyoutube.]

That's what I hope every single idol should be like sis/bro be honest it's fine we here if u don't talk every1 will think ur fine ur not and it's ok not to be ok

[@Angel67898]

Queens indeed

[@lollipoppop1339]

Male idol: *stops smiling* People: OMG so hot, the duality😍🔥 Female Idol: *stops smiling* People: What a b!tch 🙄

[@muffin-zw9yv]

lmao so true on a more serious note: a lot of k-pop fans are super toxic and contribute to the decrease in kpop idols mental and physical health

[@terrispencer4913]

@@muffin-zw9yv omg how are both these comments so true

[@amraokanovic9629]

Truee I feel sorry for them😐

[@gdeekshitha3520]

Yea true why don't all understand this being female is not so easy and female idol is just out of hell😭😭😭😭

[@lollipoppop1339]

@Jack Marshburn shut up

[@blacktothepink10]

Male idol: stops dancing Audiences: oh he must have some issues but still he is so handsome Female idols: stops dancing Audiences: 👁👄👁 Bish m going to tweet

[@blacktothepink10]

@JIMIN Park disgusting 🤧

[@varsha516]

Yea and the fact that most of them are girls is what makes me sad. Women should be uplifting women but instead we are just being the cause of harm for others

[@babyaskin9881]

@@varsha516 not women support women. It's women support anyone with positive attributes. Women must support good men too

[@mushu6928]

when everyone called Jennie lazy when she seriously damaged her ankle and still wanted to dance for us BLINKS 🥲

[@blacktothepink10]

@@mushu6928 exactly...queen indeed 💓

[@renebae1397]

They have to dance in uncomfortable clothes , they have to sing and dance in period , get hate without any reason , get hates for being chubby , get hates for showing skin , gets hate for there face , gets hate for there body . Being a girl isn't easy they have to do a lot . Respect them .

[@ishak92pratama]

well the one who cause this is other girls most likely. the one criticizing and body shaming. anyway boys usually have harder dance moves, and their moves usually use more energy. boys also have bigger disadvantage if they happen to be short. since height is harder to be manipulated, through surgery. girls being short are more acceptable, some even considered cute.

[@think_about_it_twice9252]

@@ishak92pratama was this really needed. This is about female struggles why bring males struggle in here. Of course males struggle too and this sad but still. And boy group dances aren't alway that much harder and they atleast can perform without worrying their skirt is too short or that they will fall because of heels And what about the fact that girls always have to smile while males are hot. And how often have you seen a big discussion about a male idols height in comparison to a female idols weight.

[@simplyachicken]

@@ishak92pratama Boys have more energy than girls.

[@ishak92pratama]

@@simplyachicken based on what? yes guys, have more strength, not sure about energy though. You are saying that boys have more energy, hence the statement that boys dance usually require more energy are insignificant? how about this, women have a higher pain threshold, hence women dancing in heels causing them ingrown toenails are also insignificant.

[@ishak92pratama]

@@think_about_it_twice9252 how about male idols required to have good abs, for fan service. you know slimming thighs or arm is not harder than making abs. girls can get away with just a slim stomach, guys without abs cant do those fan service. You can say men's dances aren't always that much harder, but on average it is harder. plus they have to sing with all those moves. while girls can sing more easily while doing easier choreography. just stop going with this misery thing on girls. both gender has their fair hardships. And dont forget those career wrecking military service. If a boygroup carrer doesnt go well, they cant postpone those services, and usually their carrer is going down once fans forget about them, or new competitions from other male idols. and then all those years of training time goes down the drain.

[@evanismyanjun3969]

Being an idol is hard but being a female idol is 100X harder. I remeber pristin saying that most female idols have body aches and pains 24/7.

[@Rya-w1t]

misandric.

[@surabhiaivalli9265]

@@Rya-w1t are you ok

[@Rya-w1t]

@@surabhiaivalli9265 Yes.

[@sugarbaby5286]

@@Rya-w1t not u commenting under every comment "misandrist"

[@expired3939]

@@Rya-w1t why is it misandric?

[@taetae2318]

the thing is most of the time female doesn’t even get periods because of the harsh diet and lifestyle

[@thelittleavocado6723]

I think that’s also true, but apparently some are naturally skinny and still get their periods.

[@killuazoldyckhunter]

@@thelittleavocado6723 yeah maybe for some they have no problem, but watch what Ashley Choi had to say about this on the Get Real podcast by Dive Studio; when she was on diet she didn't get periods for 1 year.

[@sophie-yz4rm]

@@killuazoldyckhunter that's a thing? 😳😳 damn how tho

[@killuazoldyckhunter]

@@sophie-yz4rm my guess is poor nutrition, their strict diets don't care about being rich in nutrition. and for our body to function normally we need good nutrition.

[@sophie-yz4rm]

@@killuazoldyckhunter :( that's insane I feel so bad for them thanks for telling me :)

[@leesoo-man2149]

THIS HITS HARD AFTER THE RECENT INCIDENT ABOUT NANCY FROM MOMOLAND. THE WHOLE STORY STILL DISGUISE ME. AS A MULTISTAN, I HAVE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR THOSE WHO SUPPORTED HER. WHETHER IT WAS MERRIES,BLINKS,ARMY,CARAT,NCTZEN,ETC.... THANK YOU.

[@StreetpennyLP]

What happened?

[@jenie9977]

@Jenifer Birkas thanks

[@urjahajong5523]

Bruh why I can hear you through the screen-

[@ilovemyself9025]

yeah... this is indeed HORRIBLE!!!

[@taehyungoppa7208]

Ikr. I feel very bad for nancy. I hope she is okay

[@jeongysh0114]

did y’all see how Nancy from momoland was spied on and pictures tooken while she was changing😔 female idols shouldn’t have to go through this.

[@ijustfarted9605]

Wait what? Somebody took pictures well she was changing. People have no respect. Idols are human too, they deserve privacy. It’s not people’s job to go and take pictures of somebody chancing. No respect. Absolutely disgusting

[@minellebitch6651]

Not only female idol

[@ernest8591]

The real problematic issue is a person don’t know who are against them. Btw, there is one KZbin video that expose Nancy undressing.

[@chenmae9747]

@@minellebitch6651 Mostly woman

[@ernest8591]

@Jin Hit Entertaement Officialu The thing is the world is big with different ppl & cultures. No matter how many ppl are against unfair treatment there will always be unfair things happening cuz the world is not perfect to begin with.😔

[@internetfunsibling3242]

I hope they will learn "Billie Elish" fashion

[@joliejarina1696]

Lol I agree

[@pabopot10yearsago93]

i agree

[@Esandeech2]

@Jin Hit Entertaement Officialu you’re saying it like the idols have a say in this lol. They don’t.

[@Mariana-jb4pn]

@@Esandeech2 she’s not saying it like that? She literally never implied that.

[@Esandeech2]

@Jin Hit Entertaement Officialu ok I see. Then I might have read it wrong. Sorry!

[@Shazida925]

Being a female idol is 100 times more difficult than male..... I literally cried after watching this 💜

[@dadmom1279]

That's just factually wrong

[@sasuneuzumaki2186]

@@dadmom1279 Nope not really. Yes male idols do have issues but it can't be compared to what female idols go through . Even Amber said it . There is a clear difference as to how female and male idols are treated

[@ana-ve8qn]

@@dadmom1279 it isn't, male idols go through a lot but FEMALE IDOLS are a whole different situation

[@michelrodrigues5686]

Both live in hell, but their female counterparts suffer more. I know Red Velvet is in a worse sutuation, but BTS members are using inappropriate outfits too. One of the has even one of the shirst open. They should give idols appropriate clothes for severe winter. Man, idols live is just... Gosh.

[@HaniR77ze]

Heechul is probs one of the most caring male idol i can see why everyone is always comfortable around him and he has so many female idol friends momo is one lucky girl

[@sionropheca6473]

yes if u can make all females feel comfortable around u that tells a LOT(and thats how u should behave to a girl)

[@listorin6314]

@@sionropheca6473 i don't understans why would a female fan ask about what to do when they are on their periods to a male idol. Like, how can he help? I am geniunely confused

[@kristin123a]

Heechul is seriously one of my fav idols. He's so funny, clever, talented and seems like a really nice and caring guy.

[@sionropheca6473]

@@listorin6314 he always encourages fans to tell their worries to him whatever it maybe & said "if u guys r comfortable in asking or sharing ur worries it means a lot to us that means u guys r comfortable with us" and thanked them for doing so *(btw he made it gender neutral as well, not all females get periods & not all people who get periods r females)*

[@jayanthibalakrishnanbalakr1452]

What about Jackson?

[@camscams2747]

This is why hating kpop girl groups are stupid, imagine saying that their fame is because men paved the way for them, and not because they're talented and worked hard for it, it's stupid and unnecessary.

[@camscams2747]

@@angelz5811 Yeah, on Twitter, stan twt is toxic, especially a certain group's fanbase, they keep discrediting girl group's achievements and saying some group paved the way for them. Weird behavior.

[@bora2472]

@@camscams2747 out of curiosity, could you mention which fanbase has been doing that?

[@camscams2747]

@@bora2472 If I mention that fanbase, they'll attack me. I don't wanna risk it.

[@bora2472]

@@camscams2747 oh alright that’s ok

[@rotisserie8444]

@@bora2472 army’s.

[@arpitagupta5234]

Korea's obsession with slim bodies is just something else

[@Arkr_12]

Yes

[@orlaspring363]

Yes....also in the U.S. Look at body shaming of actresses and entertainers by Americans.

[@x3no841]

Europe, America, and Asia have this weird obsession with people needing to be as skinny as possible

[@chetm2775]

IKRRRR

[@iheartsoobinn]

@@Rengokuwhatareyoudoing um ok??

[@contntlt7513]

Being a female is tiring as it is but an idol on top of that is just worser..

[@slicerdicer7067]

Stop complaining it’s not hard

[@user-vz1we2xm9s]

@@slicerdicer7067 god you sound so tone deaf. stop being ignorant. you don’t know shit women go through, it’s not a bad thing to acknowledge that they don’t have it easy.

[@dot7431]

@@slicerdicer7067 I bet you're male. Be considerate

[@ArtIsDrawing]

@@slicerdicer7067 shutt upp. female haterr

[@juliacarat]

@@slicerdicer7067 If I start telling you about the struggles of being a woman I will never be do so please educate yourself before speaking and be a bit more considerate

[@manikantasrao7868]

AND people still wonder why Blackpink doesn't attend award shows anymore. A group strong enough to survive without attending award shows sends a strong message to the industry, a message that is required.

[@aishhcream]

🙁 yupp

[@nusratperween9223]

Yes yg gives them really short clothes bcoz of that lisa has been ashamed a lot and once they danced wearing short clothes in -12 degree can u imagine

[@manikantasrao7868]

@@nusratperween9223 The girls seem to be comfortable enough with their bodies to not care about wearing short clothes. But I'm pretty sure the cold bothered them.

[@khizarhayat1387]

Lol here comes the skiver blinks like they will always have excuse well i guess thats what loser do

[@aishhcream]

@@khizarhayat1387 burnnnn anti

[@harundaniel7705]

Periods aren’t just about getting cramps...when I get my period, I’m literally throwing up and having a cold sweat. My siblings have to throw water on my body because of how bad it gets. So I can’t imagine how it would feel to be an idol and go through it. I’m barely surviving as it is, so good on them. They have my full respect.

[@alicia-hd2cs]

I am not saying this will work, or that you haven’t tried it, but cutting out red meat and dairy eliminated my back pain, cramps, and headache. Now all i get is vivid dreams during my period, and some pimples.

[@harundaniel7705]

@@alicia-hd2cs oh, I’ll try that. Who knows it might work but it is gonna be tough…My family eats a lot of dairy and red meat meals. Thank you 😊

[@harundaniel7705]

@Manju Sharma oh yes. My doctor also recommended me to do that. I’m finding menstrual period pain killers to be really effective as well. They work wonders

[@chelchoi6417]

MAMAMOO is one of the most fearless idols in the industry

[@izzatrosdi4300]

i hate how the double standard is REAL, when a male group does sth wrong, no one attacks them, everyone protects them, but when a girl group does something wrong, or not even wrong, or doesn’t dance 100%, they get attacked, it’s so sad, it hurts knowing that the double standard is real, being an idol is hard, but being a FEMALE IDOL is WAY HARDER, they get slvtshamed on the internet everyday, they get attacked everyday even if they did nothing wrong, when they smile, they get attacked for trying to “be the attention”, when they don’t smile, they get attacked for “being rude”, when they don’t react to other gps’ performances, they are called “rude”, but it’s always fine when a male idol does that, YOU DONT OWN IDOLS. THEY REACT IF THEY WANT. THEY SMILE IF THEY WANT. RESPECT IDOLS ESPECIALLY GIRLGROUPS. and the fact that the ones who always attack female idols are also women😭my respect for FEMALE IDOLS is extremely HIGH, theyre so strong, if i were them, idk if i could survive, i just love girlgroups so much.❤️

[@DhirajV1]

Lmao just tell me which boy group did wrong and got protected. Don't be biased, males also suffer

[@izzatrosdi4300]

@@DhirajV1 yes male idols also suffer, but not as much as females. now whos being biased? no one attacks this certain male idol for not reacting to a performance, but lots & lots of people attacked a female idol for not reacting to a group’s performance. it’s just a performance. bp even got attacked for coming out with a s3x song when there are also bgs who have come out w s3x songs but everyone supports them.

[@navyasingh5759]

@@izzatrosdi4300 You are the one being biased. You cannot and should never be little someones struggle just because u assume it to be. Everyones has their struggles. You are no one, absolutely no one to define someone else's hardwork or struggle.

[@izzatrosdi4300]

@@navyasingh5759 first of all, i did not judge anyone’s struggles, i respect all groups, either it’s bgs or ggs. the point that i was tryna point out in my comment is about how female idols have to face more criticism & it’s true & it’s completely a lie if youre trying to deny it. let me give an EXAMPLE and this IS NOT a hate example. Jennie once did not react to Gidle’s performance & lots & lots of people judged her for not reacting, saying she is not a humble idol or doesn’t care for a group who isn’t in the big 3. but i have never seen anyone attack Jimin for not reacting to a bp’s performance. let me remind u again, i am not hating, i love jimin but this needs to be pointed out as you’re saying i am being biased.

[@navyasingh5759]

@@izzatrosdi4300 Please, Jimin is hated for having a spueky voice, jungkook is attacked for his lips, taehyung is being attacked for being quiet. Criticism will come your way if u are famous. Its inevitable. But I know double standards exist in society. Your explanation can be misinterpreted as comparing ones struggle. But what you are actually trying to say is that DOUBLE-STANDARDS exist in K-pop industry and that is what has to be brought to light to and not how females struggle more than male. You don't know anything about the other person's journey. Your point is correct but apologies if I took it in the wrong sense.

[@csvilrn351]

Being a female is already hard. Couldn't imagine the hardship they went through

[@miyoshiho3069]

*Hyuna was a member of 4minute not 9muses

[@thomasyoong3525]

There are 2 Hyuna but definitely the video it shows it's the Hyuna from 4minute

[@thevipblink8571]

There was a Hyuna in 9muses too haha

[@LehaKortoha_AnimeGreenScreens]

📌This is the comment I was looking for. Gotta be pinned!

[@ablackheartedblinkwholoves3259]

But it showed Hyuna from 4minute tho

[@chenmae9747]

Their was a Hyuna is 9muses too

[@cookiesandcats5765]

I always wonder why girls are the ones that have to be in pain

[@cookiesandcats5765]

@Lia Khan I'm talking about girls for now not boys

[@fawkiouuugg]

@@vulpes3018 stfu

[@Rya-w1t]

Misandric.

[@colladoq4523]

how do know that it only happens to girls if you didn't even experience being a man tho

[@melodyofmusic9575]

@cookiesand cats Ikr! I always wished I would be a man, when every month my periods come to kill me with pain.

[@tushardas5727]

I even can't walk properly during my periods and famale idols dance and sing with short dresses on their periods Lot's of respect to all of them

[@anuskamishra156]

Some idols don't even have periods or have irregular periods because they are underweight....it is very bad for their health 😓😔

[@tushardas5727]

@@anuskamishra156 yeah 😢

[@simplyachicken]

During mine I have to go to training or else my parents would rage. Edit: And it's not a fun time.

[@ayekhaing5863]

@@anuskamishra156 O no

[@ilovemybedhehe]

Im Korean and these are all facts. But when they're on periods they take pregnancy pills too delay the date. I heard that they're mostly on periods when they are having rests after their comebacks. But the thing is even you want to become am idol you'll probably have to go in the top 3 entertainments in Korea. The reason for this is if you become an trainee in an unknown entertainment, it will be really hard to be recognized in public even if you debut. It's really hard to pass the auditions as you heard there are thousands of people wanting to become an idol like you. So you literally have more than hundreds of competitors. You really have 1% of passing the final audition and becoming an trainee. Or else you've gotta have 80% of your talent in your body to pass through the auditions. Even if you had went through all of these, it will be 2% of you getting in the debut group between all the other trainees. Becoming an trainee in an known entertainment is very, very hard, but debuting is way harder. And yes if you quit on becoming an idol while you were on your taining days, how are you going to catch up with school and studying? Korean school is very strict, you've gotta study really hard to stay on good grades. Ok just living in Korea as a kid is just a hard job.. ㅠㅠ i dont have any energy left to explain all the studying and life of being a student in korea. 😅 if your wondering how it is find my long comment in BTS N.O mv.

[@dishuuu112]

Omg yes. I am not from South Korea. But, when I researched about kpop and stuff I did read this info. And, also read that there are many fake companies too and few are so dangerous that they will lure young people into their companies, promising them good future then selling them off for prostitution. (If you remember those Russian girls case that went viral). Foreign idols recieve less salary compared to the Korean members. Just because they aren't korean. Also, if anyone joins a small company there will be budget and financial issues which eventually leads to disbanded groups. So many dreams crushed before beginning, many of them crushed during achieving them and many crushed after knowing the harsh reality. ☹

[@ma3ixul997]

@@dishuuu112 is it the same for boy groups from small companies ? because seems a lot of people think that they aren’t struggled financially

[@chelseaharridass4531]

Its disgusting how they rate you based on your looks but thats how the industry works . If you ain't got looks above average your nothing in society and I truly wish it wasn't like that .

[@alexc9278]

let's hope it will change in the future..

[@saloosh777]

There are a lot of female idols that don’t fit the beauty standard at all like Chaeyeon, Chaeryoung, Soyeon, etc and these girls are legitimately so talented and geniuses in their skills but all K-netz talk about is how “ugly” they look (when they’re not even ugly at all). It honestly makes me furious. Imagine the constant negativity you as an average person receive over there for not being beautiful. I heard plastic surgery clinics over there also come up to you on the streets and point out every flaw and insecurity in your face to urge you to go to their clinic to get something done. It’s beyond disgusting.

[@mohamadhusaini1974]

Heechul is the best male idol when it comes to interaction with female idol

[@kalpeshshah4484]

And jackson too

[@mitraavesta7548]

not much for his groupe mates thought

[@ning8]

i don't think the best would be a good title for him but he's respectable. i said that because of his fetishization for japanese women

[@ttt1986]

Being a kpop idol must be one of the hardest professions in the world.. so many eyes on them every passing minute and having to maintain a perfect life amidst all the difficulties... They should be paid in gold for going through all this..

[@ttt1986]

@@vulpes3018 why do you think so?

[@ttt1986]

@@vulpes3018 yeahh you have a point... I agree

[@surabhiaivalli9265]

@@vulpes3018 but it would still be better if society was a bit more accepting

[@taeslilclown9801]

Kim Taeyeon. that’s it. The amount of hate she received for simply dating was ridiculous

[@expensivegurl1112]

Fr She even apologized for falling in love, seriously these "fans" should understand that we dont own them :'((.

[@blissful9249]

Who ??

[@LemonMatcha]

@@blissful9249 Kim Taeyeon

[@aileens2960]

@@expensivegurl1112 yeah, they're humans too and also have a life...

[@anhphi100]

destined hpful the leader of the group SNSD/Girls‘ Generation

[@Crucial178]

From GD to SUGA , everyone said the same lines , " WHEN THERE ARE PPL WHO LOVE THERE ARE PPL WHO HATE " "ONCE U ENTER THIS SOCIETY U SHOULD BE READY TO FACE ANYTHING " " IF U ARE READY TO ACCEPT THE SUCCESS U SHOULD ALSO BE READY TO ACCEPT THE FAILURE " ! U KNETZ AND KPOP HATERS LET THE IDOLS BREATH ESPECIALLY FEMALE 🤧 😤 🤬!

[@theholidayproject1934]

"They have to keep on smiling because that's what celebirties do" :(

[@bplisaoo8591]

Now I know why YG doesn't let BP go to awards shows during winters 😂.

[@aflower6955]

At least they care for the girls. YGE is the best k-pop company if you want to be an idol with the best health.

[@siri7thclass938]

True if they they give them warm clothes

[@siri7thclass938]

Yg is soo good They take care of them

[@jayasingh3263]

I don't think so.....😂😂 These r excuse for not being in most of the award shows .....cuz they don't consider them as K-pop rather YG is focusing on making a hype for BP in America 😂

[@jayasingh3263]

@@manmeetkaur178 Not at all...... their main aim should be to please their fans bt YG is trying to make them popular in America , after all what's the reason for signing up with an American music label.......😂😂😂

[@Thebananamoster]

As a girl group stan I get sensitive when a person criticizes any female idol because ofc I don't know how they are in person but I am sure they are broken. Most of my fave are one of the most hated female idols like Taeyeon, Jennie, Yeri, Nayeon, Irene, Mamamoo, Jooe, Nancy, I get angry and sad seeing hate comments on them I can't imagine how those female idols must have felt.

[@leeea605]

wait! what if they have to perforn during their periods in a -10 temparature with thin clothes and high heels??!!! OMG i can't image the struggle 😭

[@user-zx3hj7zr9m]

id be dead already....

[@AnnSpecter]

And what can be worse is when the time you're about to perform, then your period came- (Or when you're in the middle of the performance and your period came)Gosh, that would be embarrassing, and it is gonna be very painful when you're in the cold weather. I really felt bad for the female idols.

[@lonelycat7816]

@@AnnSpecter they wear tampons.if they are near

[@kyungsoosmainhoe7305]

the saddest thing is that it's not just men who make female idols' lives difficult. yes, men have and continue to violate the idols' safety, privacy and boundaries, and that should be called out, but i don't think we pay nearly enough attention to how women too often are the source of other women's hardships. it's often female fans who make fatphobic comments and body shame idols and female managers have a horrible record of forcing the idols they're supposed to be looking after to starve/ over-exercise while fat-shaming them. Female staff too often are complicit in wrecking these women's (and young girls) self-esteem, mental health and physical health. the worst part is that most of the time they're not doing it with evil intentions the way men do. It's trauma that they've experienced and internalised from men, and are projecting onto other women because that's the standard for them.

[@creekpeektvu1238]

FR

[@Jauhelihakeitto]

Fr, kpop fangirls (mostly of bgs) is one of the worst types of humans ive seen

[@semolinalibra]

Women internalise this FROM men

[@ning8]

This really reminds me of the male gaze vs. female gaze discussion

[@Barbruhhhh]

I feel like even in dating it is the girl who receives more hate as compared to their male counterpart

[@aishhcream]

🙁🙁 yeah

[@sailorsaturn4423]

^^^^^^

[@nikemaraje5]

usually from the male idol's fans

[@ning8]

omg let's talk about it. my personal opinion of why women get more hate than the man when they announce their relationship is because of slutshaming and male superiority

[@anikapettke8098]

people bringing male idols up again... ofc its hard for them too but this video is about FEMALE idols who have it even more harder. just like in real life. woman do had it/have it harder. it wont hurt you to stop talking about your faves for a minute and acknowledge the hardworking woman in the kpop industry.

[@foreveryoung9206]

And the fact female idols also get more hate for doing the same things as male idols, for example ca or something like that

[@II-pe2pv]

whats a ca

[@Tea-gs7zz]

@@II-pe2pv cultural appropriation

[@ava-tf1ni]

The fact that people got mad at Wendy for being “too skinny”, even though they were the same ones who constantly fat shamed her for years, really pissed me off. She, and all the idols featured in this video, is a human being, not a fucking plastic doll made to be perfect. She literally tortured herself to try to please those disgusting people, by doing exactly what they wanted her to do. Lose weight. And all she got from it was more criticism. It really angers me how many stuck up people in act as if idols owe them (as consumers) perfect, flawless appearances, even though they do nothing but judge and criticize them. It’s things like this that really make me hate humanity.

[@aprils1888]

I have a weird feeling someone on stan twitter, will be mad about this video, cuz their fav male idols' troubles weren't acknowledged.... just sayin'

[@veeryah8554]

Then tell them to make theirs for their male faves

[@tiashanath8522]

That is NOT true. Please don't judge them as not everyone does that everytime. You are being judgemental about this

[@gravityarts_lhf3234]

Your Name there’s nothing judgemental about this comment. It’s true that whenever there’s a video based on female idol struggles there will be mean comments saying that male idols go though stuff too and that this doesn’t matter

[@deydeydey_1729]

they will

[@simplyachicken]

@@tiashanath8522 It can happen, it has happened several times already.

[@HaniR77ze]

The way that female idols have to wear really short skirts doesnt sit right to me u can see theyre uncomfortable like use joy from red velvet as an example in almost every performance and im not even joking she has to wear short skirts its like the stylist hates her and seulgi on the other hand gets styled so well she outshines the other members i luv all the girls but this stylist 🙂

[@KobayashiAkki]

Not to mention Joy is the tallest from RV and always has the shortest outfits. Like why??? That must be so uncomfortable and so impractical.

[@christiekang4878]

Red Velvet is known for having the worst stylists. Not ugly clothes in particular but they get dressed into unfitting clothes that do not match their body type and are just too tight. Not all of them have the same body type yet the stylists dress without considering the type of body shape each member has. Especially Joy and Yeri, they put them into ill-fitting clothes making their body look like they are going to burst. (I’m not fat shaming them at all, just pointing out how clothes that don’t fit you can be uncomfortable and unflattering).

[@o.m9514]

Female idols are stronger than they look. And I admire them.

[@belledelphine3396]

Being a female is hard. Being an idol is hard. Therefore being a female idol is a harder combination.

[@chavanreshma9296]

Honestly, being a woman is the hardest thing in the world 😌

[@lumini3172]

Depends on the individual and situation, really. I know men who are more hated on than some women and vice versa. It doesn’t make either okay but still...

[@ongakira]

@@lumini3172 ok ??

[@lumini3172]

Ccbeautylol ok ??

[@ongakira]

@@lumini3172 why did you bring up men struggles in a women struggles vid

[@lumini3172]

Ccbeautylol Because this person made a claim that implies _all_ women have it harder than _all_ men, when in reality it depends entirely on the circumstances, situation, place, etc. I’m for equality, not victimizing and demeaning women.

[@beee0330]

Not-So-Fun-But-Yet-Interesting-Fact: high heels were originally designed to be worn only sitting down. The fact that its use spread to a point where women are forced not only to WALK in it daily, but PERFORM using it is... horrible, to say at least. It is dangerous, leads to many many posture problems and can result in so many injuries. I feel so sorry for them. :(

[@veIveteenrabbit]

@@vulpes3018 actually some are, sure idols have the choice to say no but does the company listen? occasionally. some idols are forced to wear short and uncomfortable clothes or clothes that show a little too much chest.

[@veIveteenrabbit]

@@vulpes3018 as a long time kpop fan i know a couple of the facts, you should research.

[@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736]

@@veIveteenrabbit you mean forced, like slavery?

[@veIveteenrabbit]

@@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736 no, forced as in pushed out of their comfort zone just so the male gaze and give them more profit

[@nikemaraje5]

​@@vulpes3018 are you slow ? of course they are forced

[@bangtaegurl348]

I am happy that yg allows BP to wear shoes when they perform.

[@dcrlingwonyoung]

U mean flats?

[@MusicChanneI1738]

@@dcrlingwonyoung shoes, flats, etc doesn’t make much of a difference lmao

[@dcrlingwonyoung]

@@MusicChanneI1738 yea but flats are more comfortable

[@yashita790]

True!

[@goldenqueen836]

I agree yes sometimes they do wear heels, but I do believe majority of the time they're wearing flats.

[@stinkytoes9997]

I'm not a kpop fan or anything but this seems genuinely sad and frustrating.

[@B3rry_strawberry]

It really is.

[@kimi7359]

You used the wrong Hyuna...

[@joohoneybun]

thank god i wasn't the only one who noticed. the lack of comments about this made me think i was the wrong one lol.

[@rocioibarra8636]

I was actually looking for this comment. 🤣

[@raphaellecoulombe1951]

I was like: « 9 muses? Wut? Wasn’t she in 4Minute? » And I was like: « no one is talking about it? 👀 »

[@jeiidedchen]

Exactly. You'd think a channel that profits off making kpop content would know who HyunA is lmao. I would understand a lesser known idol, but not Hyuna who's been huge in kpop for over a decade now im-

[@aftwr_mayuh]

I feel so bad for these girls. As a girl group stan, I can confirm that this does happen a lot. I hope these girls would be treated better...

[@LeeCupcake676]

Same here

[@saskia9720]

A lot of the problems women idols face could be made better by a better stylist team. If they were allowed to wear pants, cover up more skin, and wear suitable shoes, then they would hopefully feel more comfortbale and maybe even be less objectified. Women don't need to look sexy in order to be appreciated. Let them wear comfy clothes and show off their talents without having to care about looking "perfect".

[@shhd2105]

Also looking sexy doesnt mean wearing as little clothes as possibly they can still be attractive will wearing more clothes especially in the cold

[@simplyachicken]

@@shhd2105 True.

[@moonanx]

it's not just the stylists though, a lot of ppl get mad at stylists but most of the time their outfits have to be approved by the company. so a stylist could've many times tried to dress an idol more warmly but due to companies being strict on their groups images and standards, they most likely send the stylists back to the drawing room to fit their liking.

[@Umeshukitsune]

If they started doing that then their management would fear they were losing out to groups who wore less appropriate clothes =/ the industry needs to care more about their idol's health over money.

[@vanshikavijay4959]

I think yg in terms of these yg is way more better than other companies. Teddy the producer of blackpink always make sure that there are female staffs around them(I once read an article about it) . Also I have never seen blackpink or other yg groups being very exhausted because of overworking atleast yg give them rest instead of giving them constant comebacks . And I have never seen blackpink wearing uncomfortable clothes except for one time but after that never. Also I have never seen yg artists doing diets they always eat whatever they want. I feel like yg is the best company it's just that people don't understand that because they don't know the whole thing. They just believe some random rumours. If I get a chance to choose a company to debut from I would obviously choose yg like I want fair payment of my hard work

[@l.1915]

So true

[@ishita2027]

Frr I am a new blink so I don’t really know much about yg and their history, they might have done some things in the past but with their new ceo I think they are improving And it’s really saddening how some people think that Yg miss treats it’s artist but in reality it’s just miss *management* (they don’t really know how to correctly promote their artists) idk how much true this statement is... Also YG is the only company which fairly pays their artists

[@l.1915]

@@ishita2027 It's true, YG did some things in past, but now I think YG is fairest, and all the rules are for their safety as they don't want the same thing to happen to their 3rd gen arstis wich happened with YG's 2nd gen

[@brianna058]

@@l.1915 he's not the best with management or treating them right. solos, promos, etc but he does treat them like humans.

[@vanshikavijay4959]

@@brianna058 I agree like look at jyp it literally don't let it's artists rest for example twice. They literally have constant comebacks . Like man let them rest

[@kpopbopk516]

Severe dieting causes lack of energy & even in that condition 8 - 10 hrs of dance practice is pure labour! Even after this some are super famous & some aren't even noticed.

[@trixiealice8946]

the Period parts makes boys realize that girls period is not a joke

[@-bluehues-386]

💔Sometimes female idols dont even have to 'date' to get backlash, a male idol can publicly say they admire her, even if its just for talent then boom, her anti circle increases dramatically. Ive noticed many people hating on twice have pfp of boygroups who have crushed on/dated the members, most people bashing iu are army etc. Their jealousy makes them hate on the innocent women who did nothing wrong. Its disgusting!

[@illumiseven7571]

What why are you bringing army out of sudden please check your comment and the mistake you typed

[@expensivegurl1112]

@@illumiseven7571 if u havent known, Jungkook sees IU as his ideal type. They probably didnt mean to generalize every army but some of those obsessed fans did attack IU because of what Jungkook said. I remember back then IU got so much hate on the comment section of her really personal song "pallete" because of this :'((.

[@illumiseven7571]

@@expensivegurl1112 Oh i dont know this but mostly army support her not hate her

[@naruswifu4387]

Imagine having to perform in cold weather, while in your period, wearing revealing clothes and high heels, and on a diet, then going backstage just to meet your male manager who proceeds to $exually harass you and after all of this you'd check on the fans comments just to find them criticizing your dancing or singing...I'd literally have a heart attack and die💔 those ladies have hearts of metal ngl💔💔

[@corneliusvonsixx2015]

Why like, why! Can't they give them like attractive and and comftable clothes? Like what's wrong with the stylists? What's wrong with them? Like, if you think deeply sexism is the only one guilty about it! And the stupid people making these rules!

[@lakshmimaurya4631]

I can never forget jang ja Yeon's death, her condition was soo miserable,her last letter and the revelation of what she went through shattered my soul😭 I dropped my plan of becoming an idol because all the struggle doesn't seem worth it..no offense

[@mahisharma1408]

What happened to her?

[@acey2481]

@@mahisharma1408 You should research it to get the full, complete story. But she got forced into prostitution and when she tried to get out of it, the 'higher-ups' blackmailed her and forced her to continue. Eventually she got sick of it and committed suicide.

[@mahisharma1408]

@@acey2481 oh my! It's so sad K-pop world is literally unfair to women... I am tearing up now...

[@lakshmimaurya4631]

@@mahisharma1408 That's the sad reality but people are only interested in what they see on stage

[@mahisharma1408]

@@lakshmimaurya4631 yeah that's the only reason I find K-pop bad.. Otherwise it's good I guess....

[@coldascream9756]

Female idols are the strength of this industry they inspire lots of people around the world including myself. Do respect and love them❤️

[@WoozyCool]

No offense but their stylists should try to make them look fashionable, while also covering up the skin during cold weathers. Like, get them tight thick outfits with great colors and designs, it will be a treat to the eyes, while also not letting them freeze to death. Fashion doesn't have to be painful. We literally have TONS of fashionable pieces in different materials and fittings, for these reasons. So that we can keep up the aesthetic sense WITH comfort. Not while sacrificing comfort. It's so shallow of those stylists to not acknowledge the variety of options and just keep going for revealing stuff despite the cold weather.

[@xWhackoJacko]

Fame is lowkey sad. I think that's part of why people get so invested in these groups, or specific people within them. They want to see the sacrifice pay off. The issues definitely appear worse for the female idols though. I mean TWICE alone had Mina take a break due to anxiety; and now Jeongyoung too. And Jihyo def got a lot of shit for her weight. The companies shouldn't be waiting for them to break before they consider their mental and physical health. Seems like bad strategy even if we're only talking business. People don't want to see 8 of 9 members of TWICE. They want to see ALL the members of TWICE. Not taking measures to ensure the girls aren't going insane from the workload, the general pressure an idol must feel every day, the toxic bullshit on the internet (kpop fans are...really bad. like, really really bad), etc; shouldn't be an after thought. Should be at the forefront.

[@kookiepastelle]

We are the new generation. We have many idols that are now breaking these barriers of beauty standards and perfect image like hwasa , jessi , AleXa and so much more. It’s also up to the FANDOM to start treating idols with more respect and end these stupid double standards , this generation of Kpop stans can change this toxic industry , we’re so powerful already , HAVE YOU SEEN THE BLM FANCAM THING ?? We’ve got this !! Let’s all help our idols because they’ve been through so much already !!!

[@harshitajoshi9358]

Imagine being in a girl group facing all hardships and Getting hate I dont know what is the problem with these people If any Idol is Fat They start Giving hate And If any Idol is Skinny they start saying she is skinny Like People will never stop Hating BUT U Beautiful People who read thid Please Support all the group who exist😄 And I want to Thank we boss to make this kind vdo so more and more people can understand that being an female idol is not easy Please make more part in this topic 😃

[@patriciabrown380]

Omg the birth control to delay their periods is honestly kinda horrifying.

[@louka3891]

So many beautiful women treated as expendable objects and going through extreme measures for the sake and happiness of mentally unstable fans.

[@muggle4835]

Being a female in any industry is hard

[@blm_jjokkomi]

During Solar's (Mamamoo) episode of Boss in the Mirror she and Wheein talked about their extreme dieting and said that they'd go 3 days without eating, that Solar was once hospitalized and that Wheein has collapsed a couple times after taking slimming pills on an empty stomach. The scary thing is that they did not seem concerned by it as they were still extreme dieting for 'Aya' as they spoke...and by the way their song producer was eating a pizza 🍕 Its so disturbing to me how in kpop that very dangerous behaviour is considered healthier that putting on weight. It's just f**** up 💔

[@mobistar1809]

& how everyone use to tell female's are just weak!!!!!!!😓💜🖤💗 My support towards female idols is increased I can understand their pain as am a girl....😓

[@juanchoresultay2704]

who tf says a female is ever weak ??! Ain’t at all, its part of being human ! You also need rest and its not a gender thing! We don’t need to be tough all the time but we need to be kind and emotionally strong 😭

[@alinsofan501]

the true unsung heroes of the k-pop industry. fighting and hopefully soon things will change for the better. if we keep singnalling them and talk about them, something has to give and change eventually.

[@aureliajoseph2654]

I think being a female I doll is so hard than male I doll And now I don't want to be a I doll 😭😭😭 but I still like K-pop

[@o.m9514]

I doll. That's quite cool actually.

[@hoepurbo3332]

Eye dolll 👁👄👁

[@rj058]

@@hoepurbo3332 I-😂😂

[@nassima2010D]

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[@aureliajoseph2654]

Oh sorry

[@hobiwater7118]

And the most hateded kpop idol is a female....

[@pokemon8289]

Yeah it's jennie. I don't know why they hate her.

[@hobiwater7118]

@@pokemon8289 yeah same i don't get why they hate her

[@yo0o0o0o0]

And the most disliked kpop MVs are from GGs too. Not surprised at all😒

[@hobiwater7118]

@@yo0o0o0o0 oh yeah

[@pandupras47]

sorry for saying this but IMO because most kpop fans are female and from my perspective as a male most female are hating each other

[@florbit_9]

It's sad to see that most of the hate that female idols get come from female fans themselves. You rarely see male fans hating on female idols while worshipping male idols. I hope people like this work on their internalized misogyny before having the audacity to complain about women being oppressed in this industry or in society overall.

[@iyrinsultana4325]

Being a female is already hard so being a female idol is absolutely harder .

[@kimheechulfan7030]

am i the only one who thinks that kim heechul is one of many male idols who take care and acts like a gentlemen to female idols and celebrities. Even though he may tease and flirt with them he never makes them feel uncomfortable.

[@Jewwie_18]

I am so very proud of all these female idols going through all of these things . It truly is a hard task . God bless all these female idols and trainees

[@koolkaylie3954]

When I got into k-pop, I dreamed about being a k-pop idol. But after watching this video, I think this is really hard to be one. Now I've lost all the courage of being a k-pop idol. This video really showed me what female idols have been through. The most scary part for me was the weight-loss one because a lot of people say that I'm over weighted. Now, I've even stopped thinking of being a k-pop idol.

[@orlaspring363]

You didn't lose courage by seeing the hardship and deciding against it. It's an inhumane system, even for the male idols (but especially for the women). I wish you the best.

[@vlrivera6543]

Reasons why I am a GG stan: The perseverance they have to continue despite all the aughts they have to confront and the things they have to do against their will I just love female kpop idols, they are amazing, they are so brave and courageous, I admire them, only god knows how many things they have to face only to achieve their dreams, yet the sad part is that they risk as many things and maybe more than male idols, yet they get all the cr*p, hate and insults from everyone, even other women, meanwhile the male idols may also get hate but they are also highly praised, from the statistics I've watched 80% of the kpop fans prefer BGs over GGs, and there is nothing bad in that, the only thing that may be wrong is that you hate on those idols you don't support, I am a GG stan, for some reasons I absolutely love female idols, idk why, I just do they are my absolute faves, but that does not mean Im gonna hate on male idols, I support them, in a way that I don't hate on them or diss them, I just, listen to their songs or watch their MVs or presentations every once in a while, yet I'm not their fan, and I think that's ok, people have asked me, why do you support them if you don't like them?, and I've answered them, The same reason why you shouldn't throw hate to female idols, they have risked a lot, they've worked really hard, and god knows how many difficulties they may have to surpass yet, they deserve respect.

[@littleinfinite4908]

The most stressful day of the month is when you are worried that they are about to happen. And the happiest day is when it's the last day of it

[@milky._.sharing2313]

For the outfit things I really appreciate RBW’s work they give freedom to Mamamoo to participate in their outfit creation and decide which clothes to wear in music shows Like moonbyul doesn’t want to reveal herself too much so she always wears pants .She seldom wears skirts . And Hwasa ,she choose the outfit which she wanted.Which she thinks is suitable for her. One of the example is 2018Mama ,she received lots of hate and criticism becuz of this outfit but this outfit is what she wanted to wear and felt comfortable with it. She was showing her CONFIDENCE.