The Monster of Self-Guilt: "The Devil is Always in the Details"

[@Oilers1972]

Humanity is lucky we have a man like Jordan Peterson. Thank you for your strength and sacrifice to be a voice of reason. I know it hasn’t been easy on you and it’s come at many costs.

[@iamtimsson]

yus truf

[@SkyDizzle80]

Willink/Peterson 2024

[@ChadBedwell]

Damn Right.

[@ChadBedwell]

I discovered this man about a Year ago and Boy do I LOVE THE MAN, He's only 61 and Hell I'll be 49 in 4 days. He looks much older, Maybe from So much WISDOM it's turned him SILVER Real Quick, But he's doing Great and I'm a HUGE FOLLOWER, I MEAN HOW THE HELL COULDNT YOU BE!!!

[@Oilers1972]

@@ChadBedwell ,👍❤️

[@harmlesscreationsofthegree1248]

I’m stunned at the notion of the lawyer being more worried about representing an innocent client, in the sense that I never thought about it from that angle before. Sometimes the blockages in my own reasoning and understanding of things seem so immense I’m amazed at my own inability to notice them. Brilliant conversation, as always.

[@jamesakabbuchanan8154]

Very real statement. It's so hard to know what nuances contribute to how people think and deal with things in their life. P. S. Read some of your other posts . Good to see their are other thinking people out there.

[@cocolucky1988]

If I am grateful for Jordan sharing his wisdom with us. He has truly made a massive difference in our home and life 🙏🙏

[@peterpensuse4774]

always a pleasure to watch these discussions.

[@ashleygatewood]

There is a difference between feeling guilty when we're actually innocent of the hurt we’ve experienced in the past, and actively decimating relationship bonds in the present to compensate for our pain. We're not always to blame for what happened to us in the past. We are responsible for what we keep doing repeatedly in the present to try and relive a different experience. It never works to heal the soul/mind and only creates distance and more hurt. Dismissive, anxious avoidant attachment styles hold kindness & secure emotional connections in contempt. They will burn relentlessly, the beautiful connections they may have formed with others to keep from being hurt by a phantom in their past that haunts them. ‘Kill the bond first, before it kills me.’ This is exaggerated reaction to vulnerability. They won't stop until the bond is ravaged and they feel freedom from a faux abandonment fear. The entire cycle is in vain. Only then do they sit over the ash heap they've induced experiencing excruciating waves of guilt over their actions. This just needn’t be experienced. One has to arrest one's own behavior in the present to stop this recurring inevitable outcome with those we care for. The classic, ‘I’ll push you away to test your loyalty.’ Yet, it only comes across as cruel. This is unnecessary destruction and negativity. It’s cruelty born from hurt, which is understandable, yes, but not acceptable, beneficial or conducive to healthy relationships. People with healthy attachment behavior will leave. Unless the counterpart makes a reasonable resolution to change their behavior. The good news is, personality type and attachment type aren't the same thing. Whereas personality can't be changed much, attachment type which is malleable can be changed. If the Insecure attachment connects with a Secure attachment, then inner volatility will subside to a significant degree. The insecure has to make a choice to ‘aim up’ and stop willfully wrecking the bond (to prove they won’t be abandoned), then the Secure will stabilize the Insecure attachment style and the volatility will subside. Work on it enough and the insecure behavior will be replaced with secure. It’s a beautiful transformation because it doesn’t depend on another person longterm to establish the behavior. Only in the beginning. It can be internalized so no codependency is underlying it. This is one way to heal the turmoil of distrust and recurring bouts of guilt over self sabotage due to trauma in the past we are innocent of, and present behaviors for which we are responsible. That's the best way I know how to put it, not being academically inclined.

[@bonsaitree5338]

Thank you for this. This perspective helps me define my attachment style as less of a permanent thing but more of a work in progress. I appreciate that.

[@Mike__G]

Francis A Schaeffer wrote about the difference between forensic guilt - guilt in law or fact - and guilt feelings and the difficulty of distinguishing between the two. Sometimes we feel guilty when we’re not and sometimes we don’t feel guilty when we are.

[@Christopher-iu6kq]

Thank you. I was waiting for that title. Or, giving the devil his due.

[@Brien831]

I like Nietzsche’s ideas of the spirit of revenge and tarantula from Thus Spoke Zarathustra.

[@TehKarmalizer]

That’s something I’ve been thinking about different ways. I’m definitely filled with the spirit of revenge, and I don’t see how I can shed it. I am pregnant with it, and I don’t know how to give birth to it.

[@InnerView_]

Looking sharp Dr. Peterson.

[@obliooberon3679]

The devil is in the details ! Those details little bits and pieces within , those patterns that express themselves in words ! Words have no meaning on their own without the details , we give them meaning !

[@wn9861]

... I have an element of this ... although it´s worse, because i keep getting attacked ... all the while attacking myself too ... and i have severe anxiety and depression ... and no friends either, stuck in a foreign country ... and now brutallly axed from my job by vindictive bullies ... i ended up in the doctors for help ... back on the drugs for me and dealing with travel anxiety ... truly in chaos out here.

[@iamtimsson]

literally lovingly shut up and get right. literally just do it. it literally feels better than how the dwelling feels. shut up bud you got this turn your ass around you can do this. start laughing at it. mock it. you have nothing left right? nowhere to go? try this or die i really dont care either way.

[@SeleckPlays]

When my life is most chaotic, I find a bit of peace when I focus on the small things I can control. Cultivate a rudimentary habit of controlling the little things around you, and build from there.

[@KJV_1789]

King james Bible. The book of Psalms and Romans until the book of hebrews. (Dont read hebrews until you've gotten the foundation from the previous chapters. ) it's a different time period. And thus doesn't apply 1 on 1 for us today.

[@obliooberon3679]

Just yesterday , toxic shame , the core wound of the soul ! That was not guilt ! Not a crime to feel guilty about ! The loss of innocence, shame ?

[@EricEstesEleutherian]

I'm my harshest critic. For certain. Not a single person lays at my feet the things I blame myself for.

[@iamtimsson]

and you like it be the cause that it feels good to be ashamed. fix your self before you wreck your self real s.

[@belteshazzarbenyakovleib4009]

I have carried a lot of self guilt , I was not innocent and I carried and still carry the guilt of how I betrayed a friend , I do not think I have ever forgiven myself of it , nor have I permitted myself friends , or if infect myself not being the best I can be for a friend , I have cut myself off , I was not in my right mind when I betrayed my friend . I am now , it is something I will probably take to my grave . Devil is in the details , so is the shame .

[@FilmsByDan]

It's my hope that you find a way to forgive yourself. Your guilt was pardoned at the cross where Jesus died for all of our sins. Taking on guilt and shame will not make you a better person. If you want to repent of your wrongs, you just have to surrender them to God and let him love you. He wants you. John 3:16, Romans 3:23-24, 2 Corinthians 7:10

[@liz9284]

Idk if what I’m about to say is helpful or “right”, but it’s what flooded into my brain when I read your comment so I’m taking it as divine inspiration-I hope it’s received in the spirit it was given:) My thoughts are this-you cut yourself off from friends bc of your guilt, presumably to protect yourself from future guilt if a similar situation occurred again, AND to protect ppl from you, since you perceive yourself as a “betrayer”. Without knowing the situation I can’t really say much more about it, but the one thing that really struck me is that, by cutting yourself off from friends and relationships, not only are you denying yourself absolution, and the ability to trust yourself (bc I’m sure you’re not a “betrayer”, betraying someone is an action, it’s not YOU), but you’re also denying others the gift of having a friend who strives for honesty and integrity in that friendship bc you understand how painful it is not to. If it was/is truly that painful for you, and I believe you when you say it is, then commit to honesty and integrity 100% in all your relationships, but have those relationships. Otherwise, you’re betraying yourself, your own worth, and signaling to yourself that you can’t be trusted with others. That’s a terrible thing to tell yourself, and even worse to believe it, bc it doesn’t HAVE to be true. You fear friendships after that experience, and I understand that, but what you should fear even more is withholding yourself and the light you posses from the rest of the world-THAT would be tragic. It’s fine to feel guilty over something done in the past, we all have those stories, but living life without friends you can trust, and who can trust you, solves nothing, the only thing you get from it is punishment you most likely don’t deserve, all while denying others the impact you could have in their lives. I can’t figure out how to be more articulate about this, but I hope it makes sense. So please cut yourself some slack, forgive yourself for past sins, and try again. You owe yourself and others that much. Best of luck, I really hope you can trust yourself enough to put yourself out there :)

[@FilmsByDan]

@@liz9284 well said, especially liked what you said about denying others the joy that could be given. It's not easy to change our beliefs but if you do, you will realize the beauty you have within.

[@littlepony8571]

Paul was forgiven of the worst of sins and wrongs. Out of that he carried the glorious banner of forgiveness leading others as he turned his life into the example of His gentle mercy. As though he never did these things, is the Power. It's why He came to earth and He knows your heart. He understands you and hears your stress and inner turmoil. Your conscience is rare and of God

[@AcesDman7]

Each of us goes down those paths we feel ashamed of. We must forgive ourselves so we can and strive to do good again. God bless. 👍🙏

[@steffenritter7497]

Unfortunately, most of us are put in the position of making judgments all the time. I was in combat in Vietnam, and later, I was a police officer. In both instances, I had to make judgments, and some of them were snap judgments, which had eternal consequences. Especially in war, a soldier is put into a position where he has to make many such decisions. When I was a police officer, a call went out for assistance from an officer who was under fire at a gas station located near an interstate highway. By the time I arrived, I found the officer bleeding on the ground, but alive, and the offender laying dead on the station driveway. As it turned out, the officer had been shot twice, but he had emptied his 18-round magazine into the offender. I gave assistance to the wounded officer, and later, had to testify in his defense because he was charged with two counts of manslaughter. Thankfully, he was acquitted. Knowing him, though, he carried the guilt over killing another person over the rest of his life. He felt guilty over killing another person, for the rest of the time I knew him. Thanks for the video, Dr. Peterson!

[@kramer26]

Shot twice and felt the need to fully unload into the other person, you know, just to make sure they're toast... I don't pretend to even guess to understand the situation, but aren't police especially trained to handle such situations with necessary, but minimal, force? The acquittal doesn't surprise me, just look at the number of people who are killed by police when a more subtle approach would suffice. That just goes to show how messed up the US legal system is, inherited from our own, just as messed up and unjust "justice" system...

[@littlepony8571]

All this guilt. Some sort of rebound effect from those guilt tripping you. Ignore it. Remember this is Ontario and old money headgames

[@4DIVID7]

Mos Def said d some things on my mind to sort out I thought 'bout the wild circumstance we born out Remember myself at your age, and I was just like you If that was now, I don't know what I would do My ears is closest to me, so what I say to you is goin' for me Son, we both still growin' indeed But where you at, I was, and where you been, I left Utilize my experience to guide your step Some people get love, but don't command respect It's somethin' that you can't buy with a check Or a Roley or Lex, or icy links that hang from your neck If it's real, who need to deal with the special effects?

[@PlaneswalkerShiba]

This video helped me a little think about how Ingot to where I am. I transitioned to Male and now im back to female, but I always blame myself.

[@metamatik]

The world would be a better place if every man had a father like Jordan Peterson

[@sameerck5955]

Not a better place. It might be heaven...

[@kramer26]

No greater moral conundrum than in the English legal system. A great deal many judges and magistrates need to take a long hard look at themselves when it comes to moral standing, and question whether they really are entitled to hold that position.

[@iamtimsson]

nah bud... it is the way it is and it has been the way it is and has been and will be what it has been, what it is, and what it will be. either get on board and smile through it or realize it is absurd and laugh at it or something. nothing is different under the sun it was made this way to be this way.

[@JillTriola]

Amen.

[@kramer26]

@@iamtimsson I'll have what you're having if I'll end up as mind fucked as your comment... 🤣🤣🤣

[@lui9742]

This was helpful

[@junevandermark952]

Theologians are professionals at making followers feel guilt. From the book “Twisted Scriptures,” by Mary Alice Chrnalogar, published in 1997. Tricks to Keep You Controlled A Guilt-Edged Sword The key for gaining maximum control over someone’s conscience is to influence the person to study and accept certain beliefs. Then, if the person fails to follow those beliefs, a powerful feeling of guilt will be the result. Leaders get you to believe that they don’t interpret the Bible but just “teach what is in the Bible”-making the Bible synonymous with their interpretations.

[@littlepony8571]

100 percent. Add the worldliness into theology as a weapon itself to subjugate free thinkers away from pure scripture in its true context

[@macmac1022]

And they are dishonest as politicians when it comes to simple moral questions. Atheists and agnostics can answer these questions with ease while christians are less then 18% for answering them and muslims are less then 6%. People of all kinds please state if your christian or muslim, atheists, agnostics or any combination of those and then if willing participate in the test. As well, looking for 5 good moral theist questions for atheists/agnostics. #1 You see a child drowning in a shallow pool and notice a person just watching that is able to save the child with no risk to themselves but is not, is that persons non action moral? #2 If you go to save the child, the man tells you to stop as he was told it was for the greater good, but he does not know what that is, do you continue to save the child? #3 Is it an act of justice to punish innocent people for the crimes of others? #4 If you were able to stop it and knew a person was about to grape a child would you stop it? #5 Would you consider a parent who put their kids in a room with a poison fruit and told the kids not to eat it but then also put the best con artist in the room with the children knowing the con artist will get the kids to eat the fruit and the parent does nothing to stop it a good parent?

[@littlepony8571]

Good book, Twisted Scriptures. Much more needs to be said, particularly around blaming victims of spiritual abuse for 'letting them' inroad the deepest parts of one's heart and then twisting the knife. Sickos. As are all who 'walk on by' after reaping the benefits of this depraved enabling system.

[@junevandermark952]

@@Joshua-Adam I'm an Atheist and I feel guilt ... but I don't feel guilt because of what I believe is a non-existent god. I feel guilt because I take responsibility for having caused harm to other humans, which I believe was a result of my own self-centered behavior. If Jordan felt guilt, my guess is, it would be because he was worried that he had offended "God" ... hadn't "repented enough TO "GOD" and worried what "GOD" was going to do to him to make him suffer for his evil behavior. “I act as if God exists, and I’m terrified he might.” ~ Jordan Peterson

[@obliooberon3679]

St. Augustine and the Catholic Church , the doctrine of original sin is the most successful commercial venture ever perpetrated upon mankind and the western world !

[@Laocoon283]

I hate myself because everyone around taught me that I'm less than

[@JohnMamis-j9y]

Hey, I hope youre a bit better now, but I really struggle with the same thing. I want you to know that youre no lesser then anybody, nobody knows how difficult your life is or why you made the decitions you made except you. Try and get assertiveness training from a professional maybe, its what helps me and a friend of mine whos struggling with the same stuff is also trying it. No matter what anybody thinks, including yourself, you deserve to get better, you also deserve happiness and true fulfilment, not just guilt or fear. I dont really know you but it sounds like you had to be resilient for a long time, living with this idea of yourself, acknoledge that❤

[@obliooberon3679]

I never learned to hate ! The beast did not kill because it loved! It did save my life but did not do me any favors !

[@adnan7698]

Bro really quoted Saul

[@Hera4]

What interview is this from?

[@rajatpatel8846]

bro really quoted saul goodman

[@FranciscoJimenez-mj4mq]

Porque salgan las cosas mal, no implicas q asumas la culpa. Just because things go wrong doesn't mean you take the blame.

[@iamtimsson]

ty for spanish and english. what is q tho? que?

[@FranciscoJimenez-mj4mq]

My english IS bad, im prefer write on spanish, but dude if person workt yo traslate for buried. I decided write on Two lenguish.

[@aasja7739]

Your paying your back Freddie.

[@iamtimsson]

it is only debted for the authority says so.

[@wildolive7758]

In a world where millions of voices compete to capture and captivate our attention, and more often than not, Dr Peterson voice has become almost like a super hero of reason and sanity for the cloudy and confused minds. Thank you so much sir!

[@iamtimsson]

we are cloudy and confused, assumed? hmm interesting

[@HALEdigitalARTS]

Ha. Love the suit in the thumbnail. It would be great for conflicting eyewitness reports.

[@iamtimsson]

ahaha we're in hell just released a vid about jp being metro ahahaha. so silly.

[@haileymarie4444]

It was a custom suit made for him, one in a series of 12 custom suits. It’s called the “heaven and hell” suit. The blue half has an interior that is cloud patterned with light, the the exterior is made of lambs wool, the red side interior has flames and the exterior orange color is made of goat hair. The details are incredible! 🔥☁️

[@Shawn-q3x]

The True Origin of Christ: Colossians 1 is the true origin of Jesus. Not Genesis 1 or John 1; these chapters explain the creation of the earth and the heavens. Jesus was made in the image of God and he is “the firstborn of every creature/creation.” In order to be a creature or creation, you must have a Creator. Col 1:18 further states that Jesus is the “firstborn from the dead,” meaning that Jesus was given life. Jesus is the only creation that God made by His own hands, making him the only begotten Son of God (begotten means “to give rise to, bring about, or create”). After God created Jesus, Jesus then created all things that are in heaven and on earth; this made God, the Father of Jesus, pleased that all fullness would dwell in His Son (Col 1:19). Jesus has the Spirit of God, which makes him eternal. Those who have the same spirit will live eternally with Jesus and the Father.

[@keithjohnsonYT]

I am no good, if I’m not allowed to be bad. (For his song and dance, Jordan is innocent of the things he is accused, but he still might be the devil.) The good mother fails, and the poor dumb mother is like a gun loaded with divorce, waiting for her friends to pull the trigger… Its no wonder I’m so easily dismissed..idiosyncrasy, bears false witness. The courts wanted to finalize the divorce on my birthday..I think it’s the nicest thing anyone ever did for me. “Earth is my witness.” - Buddha I’m not allowed to be.🤷‍♂️ I suppose the plan, is that I quit living, and go shopping instead? (Who’s paying for this?) Christ doesn’t pay for your sins, like your mommy pays for a pizza!

[@lglge611]

How to "please" your inner judge? What to do to alleviate that sense of guilt?

[@iamtimsson]

literally, bud? honestly as stupid and dismissive as it sounds, it is not. you gotta literally just stop. when you feel guilt, attempt to asses your position. are you truly causing harm with intent? if no, do not engage with the illusion. love you bud you can do this you are such a great person. if you cant hear that then know how hard it js to be human and look at you doing it. you ARE doing it. you are great. you even seeking to do good is MORE than enough. good job kiddo. you got this. cry when you can. laugh when you cant or something idk about that part lol

[@burtlangoustine1]

I'd say you can't judge the future, or feel guilt for it. So by looking forwards and acting toward goals diminishes these 'players' on your energy. The perfect reset is Wim Hoff breathing, total peace and free. No nagging internal struggles, all peace, all the real you again. Try it now just search wim hoff guided breathing and in ten mins you'll be rosey.

[@ChrisKrolak]

People love to hear things aren't their fault. That''s a winner for therapists and for people selling services that deal with that kind of thing.

[@iamtimsson]

interesting and a difficult point. still bs lol.

[@TehKarmalizer]

Love to hear it or not, some things we choose, and some things we don’t.

[@andrewkalwitz]

The guy who doesn't want to be a judge is probably the guy we could trust to judge fairly.

[@kramer26]

...something about "the best person for the job is the one who least wants it."

[@iamtimsson]

this is npc nonsense.

[@andrewkalwitz]

@@iamtimsson what do ppl mean by that? Do you think some of us aren't real human beings?

[@redtobertshateshandles]

Going through this right now. My brothers widow has dementia. For 30 years I thought she was wilfully dumb and annoying, and I avoided her. I've screwed up.

[@iamtimsson]

GO TELL THEM. TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM. BE PATIENT WITH THEM. DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO BE THERE FOR THEM. ASK THEM EVERY TIME YOU REMEMBER IF YOU CAN DO ANYTHING AT ALL FOR THEM. SMALL THINGS ARE BIG THINGS. This is how to be if you mean what you say. You do not need to expend your self, be FILLED and find how to be filled in doing so. you are redeemed before you realized. you cannot be at fault. you cannot be perfect. you are loved and you are not forgiven for you cannot do wrong! you are unable! go do what you can every step! you got this kiddo!!

[@bleachdiet559]

Jordan _take responsibility man up and support women_ Petersimp knows all about self-guilt

[@iamtimsson]

bro do you even hear jp?

[@Justlivin00]

Either a bot or just a fool who knows nothing of which it speaks

[@shannonisblessed2024]

I convict myself Like this more than I should & it's caused my self esteem & self worth to be Soo low & feel stuck at Rock bottom. My biggest barrier has been being stuck in the Corrupt US Court system & NOT having the know how to free myself & finding Someone to Help instead of just being greedy has been a challenge.

[@wn9861]

... it is so difficult ... i´ve been in the legal world more times in the last 5 years, than the previous 20 ... it´s overwhelming ... and takes lots of energy to articulate such processes ... now i find myself jobless and stuck in a foreign country ...

[@iamtimsson]

stop fighting mb? idk. they gonna do what they gonna do. you only gonna stress you out. find your happy place and go there until you find you are in your happy place. i pray to hate and dying that your officers and judges and violators live a longsuffering, dead, heartless, loveless, desparing, unending issue of life.

[@shannonisblessed2024]

@@wn9861 I Can't relate to being stuck in another country but I have been put in the Court System more times than I'd Like on Some Bs or Someone else causing me problems instead of them being accountable. During this time I think I have found the most corrupt individuals possible & it's NOT been ANYTHING I'd wish upon Someone else. I hope things get better for YOU soon.

[@wn9861]

@@shannonisblessed2024 ... i hear you ... i seem to keep landing in impossible situations ... with shallow people ... between a rock and a hard place ... the stress adds to the difficulty of routine ... and havoc on sleep or appetite.

[@shannonisblessed2024]

@@iamtimsson I get frustrated since I haven't done wrong to Nobody & still facing punishment that's the hard part. What's even harder is getting Anyone to see the Truth for what it is instead of the unlogical circumstances that has occurred.

[@Sunburst6520]

Psalms 10:4 "The wicked through the pride(: a function of self-worth, a way of acting that will not lower itself to perform a healthy relationship and standard of love.) of their countenance will not seek God he is not in all their thoughts." So that in all their thoughts there is no remembering of the things he has done for them nor an imagination for the things he can do for them. See Hebrews 11:1 and 6, Read the King James Bible and pray for wisdom.

[@iamtimsson]

your jesus follows a satan god.

[@argon1611]

... does the Hallow app also specify how many times the Bible has been changed - regardless of the warnings against doing so? ... I'm so sick of misinformation i can throw up.

[@lglge611]

How many?

[@5teeleDuke]

That's why I read only the King James bible. I denounced my Christianity and just focus on my personal relationship with god and Jesus. @@moomoocowsly

[@iamtimsson]

so sick of disinformation reads the bible ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaga fuggginggg lololoolllolololollolo ahahahahahahahahahahaghaagagahaggahahaaghahahahagagahaha ahahahahhaahahhaahahahhahahaha

[@thatomofolo452]

Exactly 💯

[@karolinawalter]

Not might be I am innocent cause I will never take responsibility for someone’s bs I know I’m rare that the world needs cause my own mother has hate and envy and jealousy towards me and cause I did better as a parent I got shamed, discriminated against and the purgury in court regarding me there is a price to pay for destroying one’s life with a lie

[@iamtimsson]

buddie... how did you do better as a parent if you ostracized your mother as your mother ostracized you? i am in this boat with you fiddling these thoughts the same. we did no better. we can still be good..

[@karolinawalter]

@@iamtimsson I’d love to tell ya but this world taught me to keep my mouth shut cause I’ve helped so many and wonder why they stuck can’t use my methods without permission from the Holy Spirit cause I was divinely guided and I’m living proof energy don’t lie it’s a mouth that does and I took an oath as a child as well cause many have lefter me in the cold many times and you couldn’t handle the true hell of this world without breaking down like a child the truth will set you free but that doesn’t mean it’s not going to piss you off along the way like in my situation for some not all peace is thicker then blood but what could you expect from an rare breed like me is simply cut from a fabric they no longer make people hate me cause they ain’t me……..

[@FlowLikeWater429]

next interview by Jordan Peterson with a veteran Judge

[@iamtimsson]

lel we will get to enjoy the triumphs as they come

[@alf73]

nice

[@iamtimsson]

nice

[@Blake4625kHz]

Nice

[@Jtlxpe]

I am so tired of that stupid hallow ad. I listen to a lot of jp and hear it non stop. Im all done

[@Laocoon283]

So cry

[@y0udefeated738]

What an awful advert.

[@Mike_Lennox]

As a boy, Jordan was relentlessly guilty of triggering his horrendously emotionally damaged father's internal power struggles and incomplete developmental tasks with his own father. Mikhaila said "I am so full of guilt, I cannot take any more!" Mikhaila is guilty of being a human being with homeostatic and developmental needs. Those needs are completely contrary to Jordan and Tammy's perceptual filters created by the unconscious likes vs. dislikes of their parents. Jordan says that emotional intelligence does not exist because it is just agreeableness. Emotional intelligence is the ability to translate emotional communication into cause and effect. Emotional intelligence is synonymous with being a competent parent. Jordan and Tammy's relentless misinterpretations and contradictions of the adjustment and self-regulation that Mikhaila needed to stabilize caused her to accumulate emotional incompletions and a long list of autoimmune diseases.

[@littlepony8571]

Hmmmmm. Not so sure about that.

[@Dioguin3]

you are wrong in so many levels that I have no idea where to begin, nor the time, to develop the response.

[@Mike_Lennox]

@@Dioguin3 having gone through it many times using various methods, I am aware that trauma is the stifling of an experience and response that was attacked or denied existence by traumatized parents.

[@Mike_Lennox]

@@Blake4625kHz Children born into an incompetence hierarchy and matrix are socialized to identify with voices, attitudes, and social agreements and to dissociate from their actual experience.

[@Mike_Lennox]

@@Blake4625kHz I am describing the environment you are immersed in and do not distinguish.

[@shevchenkoyev]

[@kivinity]

😔

[@iamtimsson]

😔