The most reliable TEST for NARCISSISM

[@jamesredman1263]

Tell them no. Don't cooperate for once. If they freak out, get angry etc. - they are.

[@fuckwtfmonster2720]

@@jamesredman1263 important is rage every 10 minute😂

[@alvindradwikihimawan6412]

YES. 😄😄

[@ClarityCarl]

Hold them accountable for their actions. See how they react.

[@truedepthaquaponics7118]

1000% A true narc will never take responsibility for their actions when wrong is involved

[@PrometheusBoxing]

@@ClarityCarl accountability is like poison to them.

[@thatnerdytrainer5402]

So will emotionally immature people… doesn’t mean they are a narcissist…🤦🏼‍♂️

[@MartinMlBanic]

Great .. Take the method that works and make it ineffective 😂

[@Jess-jt9fb]

I’m calling bullshit on this. Another psychologist used the same question because narcissists aren’t going to look inward enough to know they are unless they’ve been told.

[@Trollika_Devi]

Exactly

[@mikelopez9071]

I feel like a narcissist wouldn't want to be a narcissist because of the negative connotation with it. This test doesn't hold water

[@murphsviews]

What he’s saying might be true, but he did say there are very few reliable tests, so even if this is the best and most reliable test, it may still not work in the majority of cases. It’s just that all other tests work in an even smaller percentage of cases. The test might be “the best of a bad lot”.

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

Yeah, narcissists are always calling others narcissist

[@immers2410]

It only works on grandiose not covert

[@azee6532]

A narcissistic person would never tell you that he or she is a narcissist. That's the whole platform on which their mind games are based.

[@nugget6635]

@@azee6532 What you say is only true if you are in a relationship with a narcissist. However if you ask a stranger who is a narcissist about narcissistic behaviors without calling it "narcissism" they are going to say that those behaviors are the right way to live.

[@katieandnick4113]

You give people way too much credit. I promise you, the vast majority of highly narcissistic people are not conscious of their narcissism. I think it’s more comfortable for people to believe that narcissists know everything they’re doing and why they’re doing it, because that makes it easier to hate them and dehumanize them. If you were to accept that they have the emotional intelligence of 4-6 year olds, you might actually have some compassion for them. God forbid that happens!

[@CesarNostradamus-wj9uq]

Covert women will never and they at the majority by a loooooong Shot these days with the anti social social media human trafficking apps

[@CesarNostradamus-wj9uq]

What do you think the likelihood that the almost all female psychiatry group will take accountability and admit that? Place your bets everyone hahahahahaha

[@doris2755]

@@katieandnick4113 Maybe. The problem is that they do not stop until you are broken into pieces. How could you not hold accountable someone who lies to you, cheats on you, abandons you in the worst moments, escapes my mind.

[@ReceptiveKing93]

Accountability is like kryptonite to narcissists 😂

[@katieandnick4113]

Humans aren’t hardwired for accountability in the way you probably mean. We know, intuitively, that nothing is ever one person’s fault. So of course when you blame someone and say “it’s all your fault!”, they’re going to become defensive. No human being acts independently of all other human beings.

[@ReceptiveKing93]

@@katieandnick4113 they’re gonna have to take accountability or face the consequences at some point. There’s always gonna be someone who’s not gonna let them off the hook.

[@CesarNostradamus-wj9uq]

@@katieandnick4113women are not but of course you knew that and didn’t take accountability

[@adammitchell3462]

That's cool, I'll be sure to ask this question anytime I meet someone new

[@avinashmuraleedhar]

Bro your eyes are soo beautiful 👍hope you will give some to next generation

[@PrettyIndependent1]

Most narcissists will actually gaslight you to think they are the nicest person in the world. And their language is lying. They aren’t going to admit the truth.

[@cherylross393]

Beautiful eyes this man has.Narcissists are so hurtful 💔 they can cut you off at the knees it's very hearbreaking.

[@lvlylj1]

Yes, lol, my ex will proudly declare himself a narcissist. He often says outloud things like, for example if he has to wait in line, "I'm more important than you" and truly believes it. He has no clue how ridiculous he sounds and wonders why he has such a hard time getting along with literally everyone. Btw, your eyes are stunning!

[@ghostsheet777]

My cousin used to say that to me as a kid 😂

[@Lenoxygen]

What's stopping then from lying? Not much.

[@swirlycube9293]

I am not a narcissist. I hope everyone is doing great!

[@katieandnick4113]

We are all narcissists.

[@mollyh9356]

Sir, your eyes are incredible

[@laurie663]

What if they don’t know what a narcissist is?

[@barbarabagatin8962]

All narcissists know what is narcissism. Trust me. But since they are not successful they will deny to be narcissist, that's why I don't agree with this test. They will cheat ad usual claiming they are the "Best people on Earth" to exploit others, if they have not yet succeed. Only when goals are achieved, then some of them will coming out. Narcissists are constantly afraid to lose control, they are calculating machine, they always know what is the best for them. They are addicted to everything external: people, substances, etc. They won't ever say that if they are not sure to be successful people.

[@DianeMatlock]

THEY KNOW, THEY JUST DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW.🤔🧐🫣😏

[@suziecreamcheese211]

I thought you were going to say, a mirror.

[@carlosgiovanardi8197]

Great!! **** Narcissism is a word that became fashion, and it seems that we use it everytime to accuse everybody that do not behave as we want!

[@CesarNostradamus-wj9uq]

Go to the Northeast you will be swimming in them or the west coast.

[@ChristopherDonnerArtist]

Works pretty well actually. For men at least.

[@laurabarber6697]

I thought it was yawn in front of them. No compassion= they won't yawn also!

[@barbarabagatin8962]

Truth

[@ZackWilliams_TheProducer]

So if you're sitting on a train full of people and you yawn, you expect everyone there who isn't a narcissist to yawn with you? Completely delusional thinking, maybe you are the narcissist. I suspect a majority of people complaining about narcissists have as bigger or bigger personality issues than narcissists do.

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

Thats Psychopathy is it unable to understand others understand emotions ? Or was it Sociopathy, Unable to empathise … i get them confused. But not narcissists

[@KhoaNgo-sr4zq]

Someone with adhd can not get it .

[@iamlove113]

My narcissist blows this theory out the water. He will morph into the most compassionate, humble and considerate human in .005 seconds.

[@more444store6]

I def am not a narcissist. I think that is right what you said though, because they know they are. There are several on KZbin who are self-proclaimed narcissists. They don't even argue that they are not.

[@servantofgod1724]

Braindead

[@psychacks]

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[@billyin4c514]

I'm a narcissist, but I think it's because I have alot of repressed anger and sadness and so I get caught in these cycles where I'm completely absorbed by my own turmoil, then things become all about me. I think that if one is not in a good mood it's difficult being magnanimous. So I'm not as bad as others, but it's still not good.

[@EliseRoss-di1ee]

I was under the impression for my psychologist that they don't even ask that question to themselves.

[@robm8067]

Uh nope. Most know they are or at least know their is something different about them but won’t admit it.

[@leonesdelmundo4884]

I love my image, my pictures, and myself as an independent and critical thinker. I will put myself first as I deemed it as my responsibility to do since I was a kid. I am the architect of my life, and only God is above me. I have a personal spiritual belief and respect for life as a whole, and by no means do I think of myself as being better or above others. I have no issue giving no for an answer. On the other hand, I admire mature, consistent, reliable, loyal, compassionate people, and I aim to be like them, so self-assured and authentic. Am I a narcissist?

[@doktanico]

This, to me, is such a powerful self conception. I read this as a determination to walk boldly and carefully in the world. Your stance, to me, resists the fear of being big without ignoring the hazards. I admire that.

[@annemelia2332]

Many people wouldn't know what narcissism is so that is not the best question to ask.

[@murphsviews]

Yeah I didn’t realise what I was dealing with until less than two years ago but I grew up in a very narcissistic family and I can pretty much guarantee that if you asked the ones in my family whether they were or not they wouldn’t be saying yes.

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Even covert narcissists?

[@gloriastroedecke2717]

Yes, I thought the same thing.

[@rickymartin859]

Just questioning yourself "am I a narcissist" shows you care enough to look inside yourself.

[@jamesredman1263]

He said for overt.

[@hevnervals]

Probably not. There are no perfect ways to uncover narcissism

[@anothenymously7054]

"I try not to be a narcissist" that's closer to the truth because I want to try not to and recognize the tendencies

[@DivineLogos]

Ask if they notice themselves deteriorating physically with age and how they feel about that. Narcs will almost always say that they don't experience that. If someone is 60 thats not really believable.

[@Don-jh3fz]

I don't agree. Most are unaware that they are.

[@Slayerofzulmak]

This video IS the test.

[@KatharinaKaschka]

Is it really this simple? Would be a great solution and convenient shortcut. Maybe talkshow hosts should ask certain guests that question, or even interview themselves, moreso if they are "nice". That would be hilarious... I don't think it's this simple and we would always get honest answers.

[@alexwelts2553]

I won't survive another encounter with one.

[@investertiger3777]

I'm a Narcisist and that would not work on me, I would be surprised that you even had to ask.

[@chrismontoya4266]

You ever try IFS therapy and EMDR?

[@fayrowalmighty707]

Are you a covert narcissist or an overt narcissist???

[@Icannotlose]

Well you just admitted it here so…

[@lovetolearn881]

You are covert then

[@modeob88]

what is a narcissits in first place? we arent all?

[@lupaswolfshead9971]

narcs is the get out of accountability card for female nature im getting sick of this psychobabble smokescreen bs.

[@katieandnick4113]

In a species that wants to continue to exist, females are simply more valuable than males. The sooner you accept this, the happier you’ll be.

[@Milah92513]

Yeah no my husband would never admit outside that's he's a narcissist never ever

[@lovetolearn881]

100% they wont tell you this if they are playing a game on you but will tell you if you arent tge one they are gaming because they love to brag.

[@Covarrubias2k]

is there a test similar to this one but for Borderline personality?

[@JesusSaves9098]

To whoever is reading this Jesus loves you and he’s coming soon! All you need to do to be saved is believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins was buried and came back to life on the 3rd day confess with your mouth Jesus is Lord and you’ll be saved! God bless

[@investertiger3777]

Jesus did not save the Native Americans.

[@seanguzy9601]

Collier!

[@theexistenshield]

this makes no sense, if they are good at lying and social appearances, how to know if they tell the truth and why would they? why would they have a thoughtful concept of what a narcissist is?

[@VibeShiftChroniclesGA]

I tested and i was told do you compare me with a Hitler?

[@GypsyNomad912]

Id consider myself as a controlled psychopath..

[@mellad299]

I don’t see how this is logic?

[@muhktarnuru8777]

I think people who claim to be empaths are narcisist. Empaths, never aknolledge it.

[@katieandnick4113]

All humans are natural empaths, meaning we are inherently deeply empathic. We disconnect from our empathy as a result of experience, environment, relationships, etc., but it doesn’t go away. It becomes repressed. It’s almost as if most people have forgotten we are pack animals.

[@goofywill90]

And what about the cover variety?

[@AlyRigsVids]

Really Dang I Never Knew That, Woahhh, Shi I Learn Rhings Every Day

[@LittleMew133]

Well then, do you have any of the 5 forms of NPD?

[@LittleMew133]

I'm guessing a mixture of covert and communal?

[@flatrounds]

Citations?

[@XeLYoutube]

respect my useless grandiosity. even if i egoisticly share how useless is my grandiosity even if im aware enough to notice it. another good way is ask them to write about themselves. i do it about 1500 hour per years. i get to know god very well. i mean as a joke of narcisist thinkign theri are god internal object everything. im never tired to talk with god.

[@ejpla3591]

So then you're saying that narcissists know they're narcissists? Am l understanding you correctly?

[@Sabiqoon-w8y]

Linger on pale blue eyes

[@alexwelts2553]

Gnarcicism?

[@clauaome25]

but the great majority of narcissists don't know they are one

[@Lilalalalalallllla]

...😑

[@ParisTNT]

Wow

[@ABC-jq7ve]

LOL this is so funny haha

[@SureYoureRight]

You’re a narcissist too huh😂

[@TheOrignalTRockz]

Oh, and No. this only works with very few narcissists. Covert ones by default always will deny it, as they are always the victims. Many narcissists are not aware of it. So, no. You’re even a below average psychologist who happened to stumble across KZbin and gather an audience. Feel sorry for those who fall for your biased advice.

[@KatharinaKaschka]

Plus, in indivduals with lack of education and thus lack of consciousness, or educated and intelligent people with lack of consciousness and genuine self-reflection nonetheless, there will be no sense or acknowledgment.

[@seanguzy9601]

Send them a snap photo of another narscissts reply on social media, they will say " thats none of MY buisness " Than right away! Ask them what they did today. Lmao You will notice the " MY " and him willing to right away talk bout his day lol. Its a clear sign of caring of only ones self.

[@commies.are.not.people]

Modern women?

[@PharmacyTechLabs]

I don't think I fit the description of a Narcissist. But I do have a very high sense of myself and sometimes have a sense of entailment because I feel like I've been through a lot, and I deserve only success and good things. Sometimes, I look down on people and view them as pigs and think their stupid and make shitty choices. I'm also kind of a loner.

[@dealwithit7150]

You fit the discription of a awful human being. Congrats

[@PharmacyTechLabs]

@Deal with It Haha! At least, I'm honest. You think people are easy to deal with.

[@Guruji_Josiah]

Love how honest u are lol I relayed so much, ur not a narcissist u just have common sense

[@billyin4c514]

Well what you have to consider is whether you're a very productive person or not. Because that may be just pin up anger or emotion. It's very easy to look outwards at other people and find fault with them. What you may find is that you have a bunch of emotional trauma or some other issues that you need to work out and maybe you're not as effective at remedying the problems that exist in your life as you would like to think. Now obviously I'm hypothesizing you know how effective you are at doing things that are positive and healthy and constructive for yourself but that was just a theory.

[@PharmacyTechLabs]

@@billyin4c514 I'm extreamly productive, I work in sales so I have to be. Looking down at people really has todo with the poor choices they make and expect you to make along with them. To be almost 40 years old never married no children is the most amazing thing! I'm able to live such a nice and amazing life. Travel, nice resturants, sleep in on Sundays etc.

[@shinelil1]

Nonsense.

[@sergesharp3574]

It's not a test, it's a trick, for naive narcs I gotta be honest here, I'm not a narcissist and not a saint either xD Reliable test - vanity to the max and speak only about themselves

[@tysonlovell3898]

Covert narcs on the other hand….

[@manuelkanakaris64]

Well guess im one 😂

[@TestTest-cd9yr]

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[@AddictedToreality]

Why do your eyelids look like you smoke weed?

[@JM-kq4le]

BS

[@tiffanymurphy4722]

Interesting, we can also tell a narcissist by how well the groom their eyebrowns.

[@count_of_darkness5541]

Yooo-hooo, I am xD

[@idesel]

😂😂😂

[@yagamilight8140]

🚮 advice

[@joeshmoe7899]

Psyhacks is young. Give him some slack.

[@FirstLast-cd6vv]

I don't think the beard really suits him.

[@Unknown-jl4qd]

Bullshit

[@NarcissistHex-nf9eq]

@@Unknown-jl4qd I'm a diagnosed, self aware narcissist and believe me, it took me a long time to simply accept the diagnosis and then get therapy. I think this video is weird but I don't know everything, I have my own KZbin channel, Narcissistic Hex here and I can provide some great insight into NPD.