The MURDER Disguised As BDSM

[@EleanorNeale]

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[@jawaheraljawhari1226]

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[@jawaheraljawhari1226]

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[@Girlsplaybass]

@@jawaheraljawhari1226 you love your mum

[@Bekzee]

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[@sheilahanks3388]

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[@playboicatie]

props to the officer for caring enough to investigate when he was off duty. So many cases get assigned to officers who can’t even be asked to investigate when they ARE on duty

[@Am0ha]

Catie is a very nice name

[@livviaaaa]

is this catie from tiktok????

[@playboicatie]

@@livviaaaa AHDNAHAHAHA HI

[@irislemordan889]

I mean the other officers did nothing at all for the first year and a half, no one even bothered to look under the mattrsss

[@playboicatie]

@@irislemordan889 Yeah that’s my point

[@4m4a4r4]

The fact they didn't search through her literal phone and laptop untill one year later just made my blood boil

[@evsara]

EXACTLY wtf bro ?? it doesn't add up

[@bobbyrayofthefamilysmith24]

Cop's are lazy and don't really care unless the case is easily solved or they can stich up someone. Difficult cases or crimes that don't bring in fine revenues are ignored

[@jok7548]

yes!! thought the exact same. Also a little confused about how her apartment was still the exact same a year later?

[@sydb59123]

They didn't have them. They found them in the reservoir

[@333rror]

@@sydb59123 no they were in the apartment

[@fatimahussain7562]

Elaine was my boyfriends play school teacher, and he told me she was the kindest person he had ever met. He didn’t speak English so Elaine learnt words in Malayalam so she could communicate with him. It just shows how caring she was Edit : :) there’s absolutely no need to tell me you don’t believe me, I’m simply sharing my experience~ I do not care if it doesn’t come across as the truth or not. This video just hit close to home. ^~^ (Ty for the likes btw!)

[@GenXfrom75]

That's absolutely beautiful 🥺💔

[@NabiAbii]

What is his first name !! Because Elaine was my play school teacher!? And she was lovely just very quite

[@fatimahussain7562]

@@NabiAbii his first name is Abhijith, he showed me a picture from school with all the kids in it, but Elaine wasn’t in it unfortunately

[@fatimahussain7562]

@@NabiAbii what’s your name? I’ll ask him!

[@lanatherana157]

What a beautiful soul 💔

[@1991LMR]

The lady who discovered Elaine's bones must have felt really traumatised after she realised they weren't just animal bones 😬

[@Jadeddoxy]

Fr

[@daithvader]

Especially if all the bones her dog was bringing WERE also Elaine’s..

[@makiroll218]

Eeek. I’d be freaked the fuck out

[@amurray6364]

exactly, it sounds like an urban legend, “ladies dog keeps bring her bones, it turns out to be human remains”

[@gabbysappy8121]

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[@ty-so1fp]

Elaine sounded like such a sweetheart when she was younger, I really hate how most of the victims in these videos were always such nice people.

[@yacobeinauan16]

The worst things happen to the nicest people

[@Kat-V]

to be fair, when someone is a victim of a vicious crime, their family will always say nice things about them

[@Dont_at_me]

Yeah I’ve never seen someone die where they’ve said rude things about them

[@divinenb4133]

ACTUALLY NICE???????she had dead people on her laptop

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

so true haikyuu person

[@cookiedough7660]

Every person I’ve met who’s into bdsm can agree that you need 100% consent in order to do things. Most people would never do bdsm with a vulnerable person, consent is important, kids

[@cookiedough7660]

@Shanna Crossman honestly though

[@karinapapo228]

ABSOLUTELY. And Elaine didn't even had a friend within the lifestyle to check out on her... Very sad and tragic really.

[@krisj5561]

@@karinapapo228 making friends in the scene isn't easy for everyone.

[@rosemarie5719]

I personally take part in BDSM and I can confirm that consent is everything. There's absolutely no relationship without consent. The safe word is important, take notes kids.

[@procopiusaugustus6231]

@@rosemarie5719 Not part of the scene myself but know a lot of people who are. What do you think of the concept of “consensual non-consent”?

[@Unknownandbroken]

Bdsm without consent is ABUSE! I remember when I first got in a kink relationship, before one of the scenes my partner asked if I gave consent, I replied “I don’t know, maybe?” My partner refused to move forward until I gave my full consent. I’m so glad she was understanding and didn’t manipulate or pressure me at all,

[@alphabetiris4094]

Its amazing how understanding people are and so baffling that people don't understand that without consent, any sexual relation is abuse

[@maryannuur5334]

@@alphabetiris4094 this was a killer who was trying to hide behind bdsm. He purposely chose that website, then purposely sought after suicidal women. Didn't seem like an innocent kink or play, he entered those chatrooms with the intentions of murdering someone.

[@JustAPeachyDay]

i see alot of people talking about consent in the comments, yes its important, but BDSM also includes- safe words, the stop light method for those who go non verbal, after care, communication and so much more to make sure both parties are safe. im not bashing Eleanor but this wasnt BDSM. this was abuse. as the title states it was a horrific murder disguised as bdsm.

[@neet4neet]

whats the stop light method?

[@JustAPeachyDay]

@@neet4neet so there are many stop light methods the most common one is using green as 'okay' yellow as 'i need a break' and red as 'stop' but people also use a finger method. holding up one finger to say theyre okay, two to say they need a break and 3 to say stop if they are unable to talk or non verbal. theres also pre determined hand signals people use, or like tugging on someone's hair two times etc. its a very vast spectrum that is dependent on the partners preference's but the point is that something like these should always be in place so that everyone is safe

[@neet4neet]

@@JustAPeachyDay thank you !!

[@lurji]

bdsm is abuse; if the sex is so rough and traumatizing it needs "aftercare" then its not sex its abuse

[@JustAPeachyDay]

@@lurji aftercare should be given in all sex, vanilla sex included. aftercare isnt mending injuries its as simple as 'did you have fun' and 'lemme get you a glass of water' 'are you hungry' or even cleaning the person up in regards to fluids. aftercare can be given to both partied involved a top or a bottom. its just the ralxing period after the activity. you practice aftercare in every part of your life, after a work out you relax and hydrate. after a stressful day at work you wind down with a nap or watching tv, why should it not be practiced after sex. the one point i agree wittth you is thatt if the sexual act is so traumatising then it is abuse. but thats why BDSM partners specifically have the methods i mentioned before such as the stop light method and safe words, aswell as a length conversation before hand with what theyre comfortable with, to make sure its not a traumatising experience. therefor not abuse. i studied criminology in college and actually wrote about cases that involve 'bdsm'. in almost all of them it wasnt about control during intercourse. these people are sexual sociopatths who hidde their crimes under the guise of BDSM. tthe dont want to control their partner during sex, tthey want to control their partners in everything they do, they know they want to kill them befdorhand. they pray on less expierienced people (in most cases) so these people dont know the community and whats okay and what isnt. what makes this easier is the stigmatisation around this kind of thing, therefore causing a lack of awareness that you, yourself, have displayed regarding aftercare and methods to make sure everyone is comfortable and safe.

[@sarasaleh2744]

this case doesnt quite sit right with me. her entire personal, intimate sexual life has been broadcasted to the entire world, airing out her dirty laundry. i know it does wake important questions about bdsm and consent, but imagine if she knew that after her death. i mean, a million people has seen this video alone. i cant imagine the embarrassment. some things are just meant to be kept private. poor woman, what a tragic story. rest in peace

[@lynncrf]

My thoughts exactly. Sadly it was necessary to convict him, but it's horrendous all the same.

[@TheSystem.Co9]

Well I doubt she’s embarrassed or even knows so there’s that it also was needed to get her justice and give her family closer even if it opened a new door.

[@rsukut5866]

Ehh, maybe I'm the one in the wrong here, but no matter how embarrassing, if sharing the story and details of my murder could potentially help even ONE other person think twice about that one encounter that seems off, or save just ONE human from injury or worse, then share it. I don't personally care about the embarrassment in this situation, doubt it would sting quite as much post-mortem, anyway.

[@Uliulihoku]

Yeah right, like why did the therapists leak what she was talking about?!

[@jordanengel6278]

The therapist didn’t “leak” what she was talking about. She had notes and since Elaine was murdered, anything Elaine said to her therapist could be crucial to the investigation and clearly it was because those fantasies played a part

[@BruceWayne-is5im]

Thank you for the consistency and coverage of a wide range of cases.

[@bumblebeeznutz9506]

No problem, Bruce Wayne.. It's not as if you run with said information, dress up as a giant BAT, and solve cases yourself! Ha! Right? Ooohhh.. You DO. Don't ya? Hey, to each his own.

[@BruceWayne-is5im]

@@bumblebeeznutz9506 sometimes I regret my decision to choose this name for my accounts and email as a young adolescent but comments like yours remind me why I did it 😂🤣

[@bumblebeeznutz9506]

@@BruceWayne-is5im hey, I'm 40, and just threw a hissy fit Game stop sold the "Shattered Glass" Starscream out from under me! So, all I can say is keep remembering that adolescence in you.. TTTHHAAT didn't sound right! Remember the part of you that is still a child at heart. I'm going through a rough time right now, and it's the things like this that keep me smiling. Thanks for the laugh, Mate!

[@BruceWayne-is5im]

@@bumblebeeznutz9506 nananana no problem homie

[@ashendrachathury3403]

@Ya Girl you have to keep in mind that the information of cases overseas can sometimes be hard to source and proof-check, since you don’t have direct access to their news channels, magazines etc. i’m sure Eleanor is doing her best to still cover those cases, though! :)

[@xxIXLaurenXIxx]

I love the way Eleanor’s headrest/pillow on the back of her chair gives her cat ears, I can’t unsee it, cute ☺️

[@wandafulll]

I watched this video without my glasses on an genuinely thought she had some cute cat ears on! Only realised when she moved her head 😂

[@xxqueenxiexx1314]

Didn't even realize that until rn😭

[@xxIXLaurenXIxx]

@@xxqueenxiexx1314 ikr I was like wait has she got cat ears on, I was so distracted 😂😂

[@maryjaneme2675]

Now I can't unsee it either!! Thanks for that 😁 lol

[@charmainer9030]

Same I love it! 😂♥️

[@Triaanx28]

Poor Elaine. My heart breaks for her. My mom lost her battle of depression, bipolar disorder and schizophrenia when she was 36 to suicide, I was 12. I feel for Elaine. Seeing my mom go through that, trying so hard to just get better and wanting to be okay… ugh. I know suicide wasn’t the case for Elaine but that’s such a hard life to live. Thinking of you tonight Mom and Elaine ❤️

[@amyy29]

I’m so sorry 💓 hope ur ok

[@amberrose5919]

sending peace and love💗💗

[@alan9783]

sending love 💗

[@shakeyraware1563]

I’m sorry baby how are you today just checking up on u

[@Triaanx28]

@@shakeyraware1563 Thank you! it’s been 13 years since so I’m doing well, still some hard days ❤️

[@heathermcmanigill5427]

literally as someone with borderline this is one of my biggest fears. having my diagnosis and being murdered and have it being assumed it was a suicide

[@TheSystem.Co9]

That’s what my ex and the father of my baby tried to do just last year after taking advantage of my mental illnesses specifically my DID and paranoia personality disorder and took my meds & therapist away isolated me brainwashed me convinced me my family hated me got on drugs and drinking all the time was sexually mentally emotionally psychologically financially abusive to me and was in to necrophilia specifically with my dead body and was very racist open about it too towards me watched me almost die 4 times told my mom to leave when I was overdosing on fent he had given me told my mom that I told him to shoot me on Xmas day when I never had this conversation with him and then would flirt with others in front of me who were 18-26 years old I was 22-23 when with him and he was 35 now 36 and uhm I left finally when he made extremely pedophilic comments about my daughter and was extremely angry I chose to not abort her and was sexually abusing me because I didn’t want to… this was the second time I’ve fallen in to this issue minus the pregnancy and drugs but instead the selling of me for cigarettes and alcohol and making me do extremely degrading and traumatizing things then told my mom I was trying to run away with 40 different men and my mom should come get me and she did come get me and I never told her about any of it with either till this year so I said all of that to say the fear is rational and don’t let anyone tell you it’s not don’t let anyone gaslight you in to doubting yourself because deep down your mind knows when it’s not safe and I would hate to see anything that I’ve been through or close to happen to another vulnerable person because it’s the worst thing to feel you don’t have control over yourself at all I wish you all the best things in the world and to have no more trauma added to your life

[@jznna]

@@TheSystem.Co9 i hope you're safe now

[@12mychemicalromance3]

The men who were obsessed with the shiny thing in the water are literally my favourite types of humans. It’s a total magpie brain moment.

[@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224]

To be fair I’m a big kid and I would be the same, even though I’m female lol

[@bellaknightR597]

@@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224 same, if I see something shiny, I have to investigate it

[@alfiekendall510]

Eleanor, this channel has made me consider criminal psychology for college! Thank you for opening up the possibility of a job which includes this

[@cartaarmadilhadofelipesmit586]

That's so cool!!

[@cartaarmadilhadofelipesmit586]

That's so cool!!

[@samanthastanton5440]

Follow your dreams!

[@Avie-A]

True crime makes me want to be a criminal lawyer! I just put in an application to universities to start my dream career!

[@sydney6264]

SAME im want to study criminalogy and law

[@murderkitten]

It crosses the line when one party continues past the safe word.

[@thebluewolf2472]

@@tarrynkoko602 sorry, I dont understand what you mean?

[@tarrynkoko602]

@@thebluewolf2472 sorry didn't even realised I commented Must of rolled on my phone haha Anyway you sound like a lovely friend

[@thebluewolf2472]

@@tarrynkoko602 I hope so, but I dont have many friends now since I cut out some toxic friends (transphobes and homophobes). It took me a long time to realise that they weren't gonna change no matter how much I tried. I still love one of them deeply, and would help her in desperate times, but I just wish she would grow up and learn to be a better person. We are in our early 20s now, she should have outgrown all that highschool drama crap when I did. Its hard for me to make friends due to my ADHD and explosive moods (anger is the worst), and when I do manage to make friends I cling on because I am scared of being abandoned, which pushes some people away. I've learnt to be less needy and clingy, but I can't always help it. I do believe I am a genuinely kind person, but we all have our issues.

[@thebluewolf2472]

@@tarrynkoko602 gotta love those accidental comments 😅 hahaha

[@baishalisingh7097]

@@thebluewolf2472 it's okay. You will find people who will understand you. Just be safe. Not having too many people around is okay, have 1 friend than too many toxic people around yourself. And I believe you are kind person.

[@iPetable]

People who take advantage of the kink community like the person who committed this murder gives the whole thing a bad name. Kink is consensual. Kink is safe. Kink is sane. Safe, sane, consensual, SSC, is like the first tenant of BDSM.

[@georgieroberts8697]

@@justthetip355 “sane” as in both parties are in the right frame of mind

[@MissSeaSea]

@@justthetip355 that’s exactly why it’s for a specific group of people. You either get it or you don’t and that’s perfectly alright. Everyone has their preferences. But consent is the number one most important component, always!

[@Author.Noelle.Alexandria]

There is also RACK-Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. You can take safety measures to mitigate risk, but there will often still be some risk, and we can consent.

[@Author.Noelle.Alexandria]

@@justthetip355 Pain is literally in your head. When you get used to something like waxing your legs, for instance, it’s because your brain has learned that that action won’t harm you, and so stops interpreting those nerve signals as pain. You know how you can flick your temple when you have a headache, and that can help it feel better, but someone else flicking your temple hurts? When you do it, your brain knows you aren’t at risk of harming yourself. I enjoy getting spanked until I bruise. It’s a mind-trip hold out longer than the one holding the flogger, and knowing I have the power to stop it all if I want. You don’t have to like it for it to be okay.

[@MissSeaSea]

@@justthetip355 is totally normal when it’s not a part of tour life or who you are. But that’s why I love it when ppl cover cases like this. We’ve all got a little masochist in us that manifests in one way or another 😁 namaste

[@neonrose89yearsago23]

The fact that the father jokingly wrote if she was alive , knowing whats about to come breaks my heart

[@ivyyuuki1805]

That text must haunt him , i imagine theres not a day that goes past that he doesnt ponder on that

[@ms.annthropic6341]

Personally I thought that was kind of an odd joke to make since she had a history of suicidal behaviour. But obviously the dad knew her best and what would and wouldn’t bother her so I shouldn’t judge, it just struck as being a bit touchy. 😬

[@tinykatmus]

@@ms.annthropic6341 You know I have problems with my mental health too and sometimes don't answer everything - texts, calls, emails, my family worried alot bcoz of this, even if they know that's the part of my illness So they can write that kind of messages just to make sure they don't need to call police or something like this So it seemed like her father tried his best to show he NEED the answer from her, nothing more

[@mollyhunt4565]

This happened about 5 minutes down the road from where I live and honestly the amount of kink shaming etc that went along with it was insane. It was almost like the community had forgotten Elaine was a victim. So happy you covered it so well though thank you xx

[@iconic_glory5952]

That's so sad, I feel really bad for her..... Her private life was all over media......

[@yacobeinauan9533]

People have the right to find something weird. Nobody is gonna change the way they feel about something just for other strangers their ease. As long as they’re respectful i don’t see the issue.

[@annieromero145]

This is a really interesting case, but I have something to say. Realistically, who would disclose their kinks and fetishes to their own relatives? Especially BDSM. Of course she didn’t want her family to know about that, because it’s not something that you casually mention. And how would police just assume that her family would be aware of her kinks?

[@shart8008]

ikr? i dont think i would like to know ANYTHING what my relatives are into

[@amethyst5538]

Thankyou. I would DIE inside if my family discovered what I liked behind closed doors and I am not into BDSM.

[@nikkiandkevin]

Exactly what I was thinking, maybe ask her friends at a push, but definitely not her family 😬

[@haileysamaras5242]

Im quite open with my mother! My mom and i have a great relationship enough to where we can talk about our kinks (within boundaries). My mom and i had a conversation just the other day over how theres studies that prove that kinks may be genetic and how they can form from your environment! You never know the kind of relationship someone has with their family!

[@DeN-nc7rx]

@@haileysamaras5242 youre a very rare case for sure though

[@samih5916]

I can't imagine what Elaine went through and it's so sad that she lost people close to her.

[@Webbywebbb]

You know it gets bad when Eleanor says: “That was until…”

[@AlizzaBliss]

Eleanor is the queen of cliffhangers lol She always makes me pterodactyl-screech when she says "And thats the end of part 1."

[@rattenkobel1663]

That’s why I always wait to watch anything until part two (or even tree) is up

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

@@rattenkobel1663 SAME!

[@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224]

@@rattenkobel1663 A fellow Mike fan I see lol

[@Boe-Temeraire]

On her long term therapist dying I really feel for her. I had a child psychologist from the ages of 10 to 18 overseeing my ADHD treatment and although I haven’t seen him in 7 years I’d STILL be devastated if I heard he’d died. You get so attached to these people who are trying to ensure you’re health and treatments are going well.

[@erinmcgee1160]

I know it's a silly example but it reminds me of the episode of Monk when his long-time psychiatrist passes away (sadly because the actor died in real life) and it makes you think how crushing it would be to lose such a confidante.

[@sydneyhanamore]

I love how Eleanor can’t stop giggling while describing the men trying to get the shiny thing because it’s just so something a guy would do 😂

[@robinmcinarnay7827]

I love her giggling out of sheer embarrassment from having to address the sexual components of this case bc it is all too relatable, like an instant, involuntary immaturity some of us tend to regress towards when broaching such a subject.

[@neet4neet]

just dudes being dudes

[@jkruuvlayla]

@KEENG LOUIE ?

[@laceysux]

@@neet4neet homies being homies

[@nicolemeyr2834]

@@robinmcinarnay7827 its okay to giggle, but calling this Lady mad and then proceeding to San Holger mich she wanna hug her because her life was so rough Makel no f Ing sense

[@samanthastanton5440]

This doesn't pertain to the video, but if Eleanor could share this story. A girl named Jennifer Caridad has been missing from Sunnyside, WA since August. She was last seen with her ex boyfriend Aurelio Escobar. Her ex went on a crime spree through Washington state and into Oregon that ended in a shoot out with police in Medford, Oregon. During this crime spree he stole Jennifer's parents car. The car was later recovered close to a lake in Yakima, WA with a significant amount of blood in the back seat. Jennifer's clothes and some belonging were also found at said lake. Jennifer Caridad has been missing since August and the police have given up on finding her.

[@uuuuuuuuuui6534]

omg yes!!! i live near and it’s always been on my mind! it would be so cool if she did

[@samanthastanton5440]

@@uuuuuuuuuui6534 I graduated with Jennifer. We weren't really friends but this has effected so many people in the community and I just want to help get the word out her family deserves closure

[@girlypopv]

Comment on a Kendall Rae video. She makes videos about missing persons, maybe she can help share this story!

[@samanthastanton5440]

@@girlypopv thank you for the suggestion! I'm definitely going to have to!

[@hyacinthangel690]

😪

[@saoirseharry5160]

You can tell how uncommon it is for these kinds of things to happen in Ireland even just based on how much effort the police put in, and how they individually cared deeply about things that would seem very small.

[@Laur24]

It’s very common in Ireland, our guards are extremely incompetent. In elaines case it was lucky that there was good ones involved

[@gvtterslag]

Are we talking about Sexual Violence and Murder here? It's as common in Ireland as anywhere else in Western Europe I would think. As u/Lauren Thompson said the Gardaí Síochana are mostly just incompetent. And in my and many other people's opinion the law is too lenient with sexual assault and rape.

[@lynncrf]

I don't think the guards are that incompetent. They do their best and they solved this. The issue IMO is our awful judges and sentencing guidelines. People who harm children getting probation etc.

[@svtcarat6235]

Mental health is so very important... Like it's ridiculously important

[@Athena-ft1lv]

Cute pfp lol

[@hillmidget1326]

It is so so important we could all do with some work in that part of our lives, anyone and everyone will only benefit from looking after then mental health :)

[@valeriaguillen2614]

The way you go so deep into the victim's past is so humane and makes their deaths so much more sad and real... you're super respectful, the only true crime youtuber who doesn't feel icky to me tbh. No glorification of the killers whatsoever, it's amazing

[@ash-wg2gr]

If you like Eleanor you should check out Hailey Elizabeth!!!!!!

[@frogofalltime]

@@ash-wg2gr and also bella fiori!!

[@ash-wg2gr]

@@frogofalltime LOVE HER TOO

[@amandawilliams3158]

Can we just talk about healthy and vibrant Eleanor looks!! Like she is GLOWING ✨

[@robinmcinarnay7827]

Can we just talk about the dog, Millie, bringing back a frickin personal snack from each walk!?! The freaking horrors of that is something so creepy idk if I could ever get over or even look at that dog in the same way without being reminded and then wondering, are they thinking about eating me?!!

[@candiedpandie]

The secomd the video started I was just in love with her eyelashes! She is also very glowy ^-^

[@amandawilliams3158]

@@candiedpandie I was mesmerized by those lashes too! They’re so flattering.

[@TheMakendi]

She’s also oddly happy / giddy telling this story, quite unsettling

[@amandawilliams3158]

@@TheMakendi Eleanor is a bubbly person. I don’t find it unsettling, at all.

[@amyhleigh]

Cases where the victim has such bad mental health are so morbidly hard to listen to. The fact that sometimes it just doesn’t get better. Sometimes you just suffer then die. It’s depressing to think about

[@greenlee5030]

Off topic but I love your profile picture!!

[@manda-om9ls]

Everytime eleanor says “And that’s-“ i get scared she’s ab to end the video i’m like noooo

[@erents1]

I love Eleanor’s voice and accent, so much that I don’t skip the ads. She is an awesome story teller too, enjoying these creepy stories.

[@mountainmama8932]

We can skip adds?

[@littleshopofeldritchhorror6224]

I think the only ones I skip are the ones over 5mins lol

[@autumncoerver6645]

Hey Eleanor! This may be an odd request but would you want to cover the case of my cousin? His case is very fresh as he was arrested in the end of 2020. He killed 3 women and one man that we know of-two of them being considered missing persons until the truth came out and one of the missing girls was actually a case from 2005 that had gone cold. His first murder was in Germany and the rest in the US so they are calling him an international serial killer. His name is Harold David Haulman and he had victims in Germany, Michigan and Pennsylvania. The victims we know of, anyway. The whole family thinks there are more. This is a cousin I was very close to.

[@RubyRedS1ippers]

I’m so sorry oml hope ur family is doing ok x

[@konan2206]

I hope you're doing well

[@autumncoerver6645]

I am. I recently spoke to his daughter, she’s about 15 now. Her mom is sort of in the picture but my cousin had sole custody and now his parents do. Thankfully she already had a positive relationship established with a therapist before allllll this happened so she is coping fairly well. When given the opportunity to say goodbye to her dad before he went to prison for the rest of his natural life (2 life sentences, no parole) she asked if she HAD to. Her grandparents told her no and she chose not to. She has spent the last two years learning how to draw and she’s really good! My aunt is really struggling though. She keeps thinking that she must’ve done something to cause my cousin to become who he is. That it’s somehow her fault. That breaks my heart.

[@konan2206]

@@autumncoerver6645 that's awful for your aunt. But good on the daughter! It must be awful on any normal family that produces a killer. I wish you all peace

[@christinaheck3062]

I just looked up the case and didn't even know about it. I'm from Luzerne county pa and grew up close to Luzerne county jail. I also haven't watched the news in years but I was active on Facebook back then. So idk how I missed this. Crazy thing is that he used meetme to find girls in Pennsylvania, and I have used meetme since it became MeetMe. I wonder if I had a message from him 🤔 I know I definitely got asked about bdsm multiple times from guys. It blows my mind that I could have potentially been a victim if I decided to be curious about that lifestyle. 😮 it's definitely crossed my mind from time to time.

[@victoriamartinez9235]

As someone who’s brought up kinks to their therapist, sometimes its for context, sometimes its to explain the way you wanna feel with certain people or like a kind of connection you want, it really depends. But there’s definitely a purpose to talking about kinks with therapists. Kinks can really tell a lot about your inner wants and your mental state so its definitely valid to talk about it

[@indigorend2967]

This queen really deserves 2 million subscribers so lets please get her there soon! update: WE GOT HER THERE, 2 million subs!, THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR SUBSCRIBING TO THIS QUEEN. SHE DESERVES IT I AM SO HAPPY! Have an amazing day everybody!!!

[@VLT.]

True crime has taken over my life. And I’m not mad at it. You’re great Eleanor!!😩

[@britmorris7937]

Eleanor tell us you’re uncomfortable without telling us you’re uncomfortable 😂🤣 it was the tripping on words and “I don’t know I just don’t know” part for me 🤣

[@saturnhawk6115]

nah. that bitch was into it

[@f0reatrat]

you’re not apart of the BSDM community if you or your partner aren’t consenting at anytime. Or if boundaries are pushed. It’s hard to say no, body language and emotions are also signs of a non-consenting person.

[@silllykitten329]

I can relate to a lot of small details in this video. When her father texted her “are you alive” jokingly… I hadn’t heard from my best friend in a week or two. We were going through one of those distance phases. I messaged her “hey you alive lmao?” I went to her fb. Her mother posted she had passed away. Fuck, it’s a terrible feeling.

[@aarshiasingh692]

dog walkers, joggers, and hunters: "is that a mannequin?"

[@pinkbubblesnake]

"I really hope thats a mannequin" 😬

[@jaypegasi3769]

@@pinkbubblesnake "please let that be a mannequin"

[@kallamarsspouse]

And of course, hikers

[@chelsea-t]

It's never a mannequin!

[@andyareyouok]

I know how much strength Elaine must have possessed just to keep going. It’s heartbreaking that she fought so hard just to be murdered.

[@andyareyouok]

Also I’d like to highly recommend CBT to anyone suffering with their mental health. 💘

[@charliejess2516]

“It’s just a giggle worthy topic initttt” you’re so cute STOP it

[@baishalisingh7097]

Mental health is so very important. People generally fail to understand what depression is like, so it makes it harder to get along. I think Elaine never really got her comfort zone with anyone she knew. Whoever she trusted, she kept losing them with time.

[@iwish.iwasacat]

i’m so glad this topic is talked about. my ex r/ped me and he says it was “consensual non consent” when i never said i was comfortable doing that. i appreciate you for bringing this to light

[@concord7493]

That "contract" is a HUGE red flag. Can't be terminated early for any reason? Yeah no, If someone doesn't want to continue in kink for any reason, it ends right then and there. The number one most important thing in kink is enthusiastic, continuous consent.

[@kevinfromaccounting]

I'm so glad you've chosen to cover this case Eleanor. I'm from Ireland and this case is one that has always really bothered and upset me. I could never figure out, especially considering how much we talk about gaslighting and consent and such in social media, that more channels haven't drawn attention to it and to what happened to Elaine. She was clearly a victim of abuse and suffered from mental health issues and only through pure coincidental circumstances was this discovered to be a murder and not a suicide. The man almost got away with his crime and continues to try appeal against the use of the evidence in the case to overthrow his conviction. Thank you for bringing attention to Elaine and to the tragedy that was her murder.

[@CashelOConnolly]

I’m from Dublin ,you know as well as I do the Conservative media doesn’t talk about murders where sex is involved. Ireland is the 21st century but the media especially R.T.E is in the 19th century 🙄❤️🇮🇪

[@FlamingBasketballClub]

@@CashelOConnolly You meant mainstream media? 😂

[@CashelOConnolly]

@@FlamingBasketballClub well yes I suppose all mainstream media is conservative

[@FlamingBasketballClub]

@@CashelOConnolly depending on what country the individual is in maybe 🤔

[@CashelOConnolly]

@@FlamingBasketballClub well as this case is from Ireland and so am i. I am talking about the Irish media

[@anteaters-R-us]

Im surprised you havent covered this case before but glad you did. This case always stuck with me because ellaine is so relateable and wanted to be accepted and loved so much. Truly heartbreaking what this monster did

[@aliceepalermo5047]

I am amazed and so appreciative of the fact that police didn’t rule her disappearance a suicide from the get go. I’m so glad that they kept their eye on the case and actually kept investigating. We see it all the time in cases where the police decide it’s a suicide despite soooo much evidence to the contrary. I’m glad that Elaine’s case has been solved.

[@wendychavez5348]

I'm an occasional explorer into the BDSM world; my partner was a regular participant before we started our relationship (he actually makes up most of my experience). When we were still friends, mostly online, he asked me once, "Are you owned?" I wasn't sure what he meant so I joked about sexual slavery, and he said that was exactly what he was talking about. He's very respectful, and has told me that being a dom is a lot of responsibility because he has to be aware of the sub's well being as well as his own. We both wish more people considered that aspect of things; I've been abused before without even realizing it.

[@katie8872]

Hey Eleanor, I really appreciated the knowledge you spoke of in regards to the medication side effects Elaine was on. I too am on such medications and for me ,as I was listening to that part I felt you could have been talking about me. Thankyou for educating your listeners about heavy medications and their side effects such as feeling flat and emotionally numb. I love your kindness and respect you show and your ability to keep an open mind. I think your great . Much love Kate 💕💕

[@emilyanderson9209]

sending lots of love to you! i also felt like this part was very notable and very well spoken and shared by eleanor 🤍

[@saraisversion]

Who else loves how respectful she is?

[@loisreese2692]

The answer is: EVERYONE

[@Jadeddoxy]

@@loisreese2692 yes

[@addison4492]

this channel is literally the most interesting and educating channel on this app. this is why im majoring in criminal psychology.

[@ashthebibliophage]

The way I gasped when Eleanor said her dad text “are you alive?” 😭

[@jaypegasi3769]

Parents know things istg

[@AiMA346]

The park is pronounced as "Shang-gan-ah" just if anyones curious😂❤ i still remember every part of this investigation. My family knew Elaine when she worked in my old primary school. The sweetest woman you could ever meet. 💗 She was also found in the Dublin Mountains- Killakee (Kill-a-key)- not in the park.

[@Martina010]

The pronunciation made me giggle too 🤭 I love Eleanor's accent 😍. I remember this investigation too. I think everyone in Ireland was heartbroken for Elaine and her family. RIP 💚

[@annikavirtanen5025]

I love how active Eleanor has been lately❣️Thank you for all the effort you put into these videos

[@andreasmarrero-sanchez4815]

Dont know if you’ll ever see this but Eleanor, you’re the reason I don’t cry myself to sleep most of the time. Ily!!! Thank u for bringing light to the cases you cover❤️

[@yam9434]

That’s sad!

[@222CHELSEA24]

You can get through anything! Don’t give up!!

[@mellm.s.3675]

I hope she sees this! Stay strong ❤️

[@victoriabagwell8426]

That's the sweetest comment.

[@ZoeMC369]

Stay strong sis 💪

[@EmmieJayneA]

“And that is where I’m going to finish part one of this case” “OH WHAT?!” Thanks for that cliff hanger Eleanor! 😩

[@whitneylewis4998]

I know riiiiiiiiiight!! It's midnight for me right now, how can I sleep with that rattling round my head now. *Google search* hahahahaha

[@sheepkind]

GOD I FEEL IT

[@archiesmith5028]

It’s more annoying then anything

[@scarlett5746]

Your channel has caused me to go to college and study forensic and criminal investigation, i wanted to be an architect 3 years ago until i started watching your videos, i think i have watched every single true crime video you have uploaded 😆 so thank you fr helping me find my passion

[@gothbattyy]

Thank you for not demonizing BPD (borderline personality disorder) as someone who suffers with BPD. Long time subscriber and huge fan, wonderful to see that there are good non judgmental people out there. Key basic of BDSM: Safe, Sane, Consensual. So as a kinky person with BPD and mental health struggles I really appreciate representation without demonizing it. Thank you Eleanor! ❤️🥺

[@littlewillow2274]

I find it funny how people like you complain how you're so judged, yet are the reason you are judged. Take a look in the mirror.

[@fishled]

@@littlewillow2274 this person has said nothing deserving of negative judgement. how bout you just don't be an ass

[@littlewillow2274]

@@fishled Oh please, these kinds of people a lot of the time bring the judgement on themselves. I'm pretty sure I was talking to this person, not you, so how about you stop kissing ass and step to the side.

[@clay9909]

@@littlewillow2274 what are you talking about sienna?

[@littlewillow2274]

@@clay9909 About the fact that these people are the reason why others judge them.

[@estamcdougall2144]

the way that dog had brought her back human remains for QUITE A WHILE gives me chills

[@bellaknightR597]

Ikr it's like the dog was saying "there's body over there, come look"

[@carolinelaughton6842]

I recommend this case ages ago to Mollie Westbrook, before I was familiar with you Eleanor. Didn't get a response so it put me off recommending to anyone else. I'm so pleased you covered this. Its so heartbreaking, sad and definitely worth sharing with others. I hope it helps people recognise the warning signs of this situation. Much love.

[@GenXfrom75]

No! Keep requesting! I requested Aundria Bowman to many creatures! Finally, two covered her case! Rachel Shannon and Sherrilyn Dale!

[@katrinabradley8995]

That opening card is so awesome. I love the new way she is opening the stories now. The “teaser” openings she has been doing make the story so intriguing. But more than anything I truly appreciate the disclosure and the heads up for triggers.

[@loisreese2692]

Eleanor, you are so sweet and respectful! My favourite lines: "I just want to give her a hug." "Mad, bit mad..."

[@mellocitrus]

eleanor looks so ethereal in these lashes omfg i love her

[@ashleydolan1964]

2 videos in a row, Eleanor you are too good to us ❤🙏🏻

[@snailsarecool]

my new greatest fear: dying and my photo and all my weird fetishes being posted in a video

[@morrigonghoulsli4873]

I just now noticed Eleanor has nearly 2 Million subs! When did this happen? I've been watching regularly for years now but never look at the sub count. Seeing how she's grown and has become such a beautiful and successful woman is amazing. Congratulations, Eleanor. You definitely deserve it.

[@JustAnotherBuckyLover]

Your opening question: Yes. It's the moment anyone involved in things stops consenting enthusiastically, with full awareness of the risks and how to minimise them as necessary. That's it, period. BDSM is all about consent being king/queen/monarch... everyone involved has to enthusiastically agree to all parts of it, and (IMO) a safeword is an absolute necessity. Even if you want to play with consensual non-consent, you STILL set a safeword so that even if you've agreed that no really means yes, if someone safewords, it's an immediate hard stop, right there. If you can't respect consent, then you shouldn't be having any kind of sex with someone, let alone jumping into kink.

[@larissamobley1609]

As someone who struggles with borderline personality disorder and suicidal illness, I definitely feel for this sweet, caring woman and what she struggled to accomplish in her life. 💕💔

[@rachelstarkey1685]

Me to ... i was diganosed in 2011 with border line personallty disorder and ...bi polar 13 16 took over doses and in 20 took 4 5 ods always suffered from addictions diffrent ones over year s .... so feel you in my thoughts and hope new year 2022 is a good one for you .... v peace out from rachel v

[@larissamobley1609]

@@rachelstarkey1685 Ty, you too! =) There isn't enough recognition or support for BPD. Most people who hear that abbreviation thinks I'm referring to Bipolar Disorder... No, I am not.

[@luluvalencia1881]

I love watching Eleanor because she has such a wide variety of cases that are always so interesting

[@Bmoore295]

I want to send a clip of "that's why you've got a phone, to take it out with ya" in Eleanor's amazing voice to my father. The man forgets his phone at the worst times!!

[@shannonrosenbaum7306]

Haha 😂 I know the feeling! I don’t even know why my Dad has a phone! He never has it on him and never answers! His family could all be dead and he wouldn’t know for days!

[@Bmoore295]

@@shannonrosenbaum7306 I was in the emergency room for over 4 hours, and waiting on a bed to open for admission for around 8 hours, before anyone could reach him. That was two weeks ago. Lol.

[@shannonrosenbaum7306]

@@Bmoore295 omg I’m so sorry to hear that you were in the emergency room! Don’t worry though, you aren’t alone! If that would have been me, I would have been in the same position as you! Get it together dads! Lol

[@wolfiee6087]

The “solved true crime case” gives me so much happiness 🥰

[@loisreese2692]

I hear you. Unsolved cases hurt my heart.

[@rosemarie5719]

Eleanor looks and sounds so happy and healthy. Like- she sounds so much more energetic. Hope you're doing well, Eleanor

[@quilaviper]

So relieved that one of these cases had good police work done throughout the investigation for once. I like hearing that there's still SOME cops that take these things very seriously

[@shaunapapa8564]

I absolutely adore you Eleanor!!! I have heard this case before but somehow the way you cover cases makes it seem new with all the details you add.

[@TisYerWan]

I am so grateful you covered this case. I remember where I was in life when the trial was going on... Poor Elaine, we were all so upset at what happened to her ❤ the whole country were hooked during the trial. We just wanted the horrid person responsible to suffer the consequences of their actions. Not many have covered this case so thank you .

[@cupidang3l]

I love getting notifications that Eleanor uploaded just as I’m about to try and find something to watch

[@koigacha7650]

13:40 I get why she felt terrified to have those feelings again. I can relate. After being suicidal for years on end and then being able to experience happiness and not have those thoughts feel amazing and so when those thoughts start coming back you get scared because you know how it feels to be suicidal and you don’t want that for yourself.

[@k1melise]

Really enjoyed seeing your personality shine through in the editing of this one! 😄

[@aniyah444]

Thank you for your hard work and inclusivity with a different range of stories. I really appreciate it and I’m sure many others do!! Sending the best of love :)

[@VeryClaireThompson]

I’ve been very involved with BDSM since I was discovering sex. BDSM is something you partake in if you are into the characters of it. Movies like 365 Days or the entire Fifty Shades series is inaccurate. Don’t do BDSM if you are unsure about anything it includes.

[@Author.Noelle.Alexandria]

I fucking HATE those books/movies. I’ve had arguments with people who think them being published means they’re accurate. They’re not. They’re rape. There is no free will. Neither Ana nor Laura were free to leave. At best, this is Stockholm syndrome, yet held up as “but she cured him with her vagina.” EL James and her husband blocked me on Twitter over an argument over iPhones. They insisted Washington State didn’t yet have iPhones in 2013, and I insisted there were absolutely iPhones in Washington State. Her husband said she knows better since she is a published author, and I told him I know better as an actual resident of Vancouver, Washington.

[@hannahcollings6358]

No hate but how on earth do you learn about it without dipping your toe in. Like if you aren't a 100% expert and therefore "unsure about anythin" how do you learn?

[@heydemonssitsme_marianna8303]

@@hannahcollings6358 by doing research and trying it with people who do know about it or you trust with your all

[@VeryClaireThompson]

@@hannahcollings6358 I see your point, but I was more saying “do your research” I’m sorry if it came off any different haha.

[@hannahcollings6358]

@@VeryClaireThompson oh I see!

[@spiltkilk]

I love your content eleanor, your one of the very few people who respect the victims and take the cases seriously

[@mariposita1436]

I find it really heartwarming that, in this terribly awful story, the community all seemed to do the right thing to get this woman justice. We hear so many stories of cases being mishandled and evidence being ignored, but everyone in this story (the man on the bridge, the men who found the handcuffs, the woman with the dog, the cop who went back to search the waters) did the right thing and went the extra mile to help get justice for this woman whose case was LITERALLY CLOSED already.

[@naysha4993]

I really came home from work intending to cry myself to sleep when I remembered I still hadn’t finished this video or part 2. Your videos bring me reprieve on days I just want to give up and I can’t thank you enough for that Eleanor. Seriously, thank you so much love♥️🤍 I hope you’re having a day as beautiful as yourself wherever you are and can’t wait for your next videos!

[@daniellereibert]

Sending love 💕

[@emilygrimes7098]

Living so close to all these places and being there soo many times and never ever hearing about Elaine’s case is kind of shocking for me to hear,I feel like i never realize how such horrible things can happen so close to home

[@lydiacc]

As always, I appreciate so much the level of research you do to really let us get an idea and appreciation for who these individuals were in life and death. Thank you

[@mybb2012]

I know I love someone and their voice when I don’t skip through the sponsor portion 😆

[@venessam4907]

What😂

[@chelseaschaper9553]

I am newly diagnosed with BPD. My heart breaks for Elaine, her years of suffering makes me so sad for her because there is nothing worse than battling your own mind and emotions in the way BPD does. Rest In Peace ❤️

[@SJ-ou9xs]

Welcome to the BPD Club ❤ its not he best club in the world but sending you all the love in the world! X

[@chelseaschaper9553]

@@SJ-ou9xs aw thank you that’s very kind xxx hope You’re well

[@TSBJunkie]

Why the police didn't check her laptop and / or phone immediately and in-depth in the year 2012 is beyond me. I can't think of a single solved case this century that wasn't somehow tied to data from a phone or laptop.

[@kennedyseptember]

i’m loving your new intros so much! been watching you for ages i’m so proud of you & how far you’ve come🖤🥺

[@tuesdaywithjisoo8395]

Eleanor is my inspiration do try and study Criminal Pyschology or Law. I would to do exactly what Eleanor does but that's not the easiest thing in the world.

[@xchloehannahx]

The documentary I watched about Elaine is honestly the true crime documentary that has stayed with me for years. The feeling I felt when I finished watching it was so strong I felt genuinely devastated like I knew her when it ended. She deserved so much better

[@ravensierra5924]

The fact that I usually watch ur 2parters when they're already out....ugh I'm so impatient I absolutely NEED to hear Eleanor tell me the rest of Elaine's story !!!

[@chthonickore]

This case makes me so sad, I've heard a lot about it since I'm Irish, I know you'll do her justice ❤️

[@Natalie66796]

We stan police officers who go above and beyond like this guy! Well done!

[@SYLVECHUU]

Oh hi taro

[@kadeelacayo4806]

No we don’t .. that’s what they’re supposed to do

[@FlamingBasketballClub]

You mean they are supposed to protect and serve?

[@sheilagabriela2434]

Let’s take a moment to appreciate 2 videos in 2 days !! Love the consistency

[@kynzieward3720]

Elaine fought even after death, she fought to have her case reopened. Enticing the men to the shiny things, staying present in the mind of that man and the officer, leading the dog to her body. She was trying to solve her case.

[@bradleymclean622]

I think it’s weird that it took so long for them to actually go into her apartment to check on her. Especially with her suicide attempts and mental history