The Narcissist, Children, and No Contact

[@Imnomexican]

Hello, Tyr. What if I think that I am a narcissist. Can I help myself? Or is it just some nonsense?

[@TyrRavensohn]

Good question. But, no. Chances are you're not a narcissist. A narcissist doesn't even think for a moment that they may personality disordered. That being said, consider the traits you think are hindrances that caused you to ask the question. You have an opportunity to work on those. When you address those, you will experience less suffering and you won't have to ask the question again. I wish you the best!

[@kemistryishere]

Glad to see you back! ♥️ No contact and low contact is the best choice...the other choices are insanity or death! My mother is now 67 her time is running out can't wait.

[@kemistryishere]

Keep healing and continue thriving. I am not on social media and the occasional comment. I am essentially IN HIDING from Narc mom, borderline sis all I have is an uncle who cares and that's it. I am at a point in which I am doing better took years to start being a better person. Point to note...the narc is NOT to be trusted ever even with older age!!!!

[@Bawkr]

All happened too fast for me to be able to do much. I'm almost no contact at the moment. Kids ended up at a distant relatives(I think, haven't heard from them in months, sent her letters), can't afford a legitimate lawyer. Personally I believe I was and am able to financially raise kids but that's not going to be everyone's opinion of me. Brutally aware of that now & am more guarded than before. If I ever make enough to hire one I might have a lawyer look at the case, after I organize it for them to see if anything can be done about it.

[@SlavicGirl.]

Like in the movie Ransom 1996

[@Markus-gf7su]

Yep, it would be so much easier to just go no contact. Impossible when you share a kid. You have to go grey rock and not react emotionally to them, don't give them fuel. Be consistent at not giving them fuel and hopefully with time it makes the situation slightly more bearable. That's pretty much best case scenario. You have to train them, just like a dog. Only difference is dogs are nicer and learn faster than them.

[@TyrRavensohn]

LOL! Well put.

[@kemistryishere]

They games they play with money is disgusting money, inherenance...my father died and she looted the house me and my brother inherited lol best thing is to make your own cash and call it a day you aren't getting shit from them.

[@pfeifenderleidender7320]

Yo Tyr. Your videos are very helpful. I especially like the videos you did with Connor. I can't seem to find Connor's work online anywhere. He seemed very well informed.

[@TyrRavensohn]

Yes. Connor has mapped out succinctly the behavior of the egopath. I can't say enough good things about him. Unfortunately his work is very hard to find right now. But, we may be working on something in the future. Note: He has said that it is alright with him if folks share his material far and wide.