I've seen a lot of videos on narcissism. By FAR, the videos here are what we are all wanting or needing to hear. Something will click and you'll realize this is what you've been looking for....
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🌸
@irenahabe28552 жыл бұрын
True. Very true. I have been intensively listening and (in school) studying the narc disorder... and must say, that u Paula, nail it very hard and from many angles... Obe can see you gave been there, seent the narc under the skin and are very talented in puttibg the content clearly, strong snd empatic out for everybody who is willing to grow out of this... toxic enmeshment. I am very greatefull 4 u, Paula, for the community, for not being alone (any more). 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗✊ The narc shitstorm was at the end a real Blessing in disguise. Waking me up to me!
@ulluvelez28022 жыл бұрын
That makes so much sense how you explain it. Yes! The devil uses people to try to take us down. I totally understand that.
@raccuia13 жыл бұрын
Top stuff Paula. Narcs and their followers need to be treated ruthlessly like the criminals they are.
@caron47253 жыл бұрын
AGREE
@belindageorge9973 жыл бұрын
So true. Narcissists try to destroy any good person who foolishly get into a romantic relationship with them. Stick to the truth Paula - this channel has helped me immensely in my healing journey. I was convinced I was the crazy one.
@lizcoolbaugh61672 жыл бұрын
After almost 2 years of having escaped (and over 1 year of going no contact) I still have a hard time understanding how can there be such evil people in this world and even worse that they pretend to be "good" 😢 I sincerely thought all the things I went through with my ex was because I was too "broken".... They really do mess with your sense of self and your spirit in a despicable way 💔
@angelakeely5859 Жыл бұрын
They are despicable excuses for human beings, they put on an "act" of being kind, decent, as having "morals", it's all a game to get you hooked on them, but when actions don't match their words, then you know it's just talk, done to screw you every which way they can. Remember they are amazing actors.
@annmaddock45693 жыл бұрын
He used me to look "normal" to his family and friends. He fed on my stability but I didn't see it until after the discard when I was drained.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
I understand this Ann 💓
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
Aloha, for 33 yrs that looking normal was what he did. Escaped 9 months ago, threw away all the clothes because he us an active Stalker & moved twice. Currently at 6'3", long blonde hair - no Grey & 72 yrs old - he has more dresses than U do & changed boyfriends because the mask jumps off his face. Also, a young blonde 20 something, because she has a car & innocent. Though he prefers men, an 85 y o Polynesian Grandma who's been addicted to Meth for over a decade.
@growingandlearning1643 жыл бұрын
Same .Normal being married man with a family.
@tru26083 жыл бұрын
The narc wants u gone, while they are still living off of u and benefiting off of u. With u not around. Wanting something for nothing.
@Lily-dn4zx10 ай бұрын
That must be true. My husband told me June 2023 why does it always have to be a divorce with you. Why can’t we live married but separate? I filed in August. He came to court without an attorney in September after having time to get one. I go to court 30 Oct. I hope it goes well for me and my daughter. Our children who are young adults 22 & 19 do not want him. He keeps telling me it’s my fault for them not liking him because I said bad things about him. He never had anything to do with them. He never poured into them. I did. I provided, loved, and disciplined when necessary. He wants to live married but separated to deep benefits off me and to come back when he wants to mentally and maybe physically tourture me/us. To suck the life out of me.
@tru260810 ай бұрын
@@Lily-dn4zx . Don’t be anybody’s fool. Enough is enough. And y’all are not compatible anymore and u know it now. He’s been knowing it, but steady lying to u and hating it. Keep on track, and get out that dead end relationship and move on and live. Life is going to get harder and ur happiness may not be with u at times. But u will always have ur freedom and what u never had in that relationship, a peace of mind. And that’s better than all the abuse u can suffer again. Stay out and accept that it’s over and u made it out of that bad situation.
@karlcase30473 жыл бұрын
I just defeated my narc ex wife in court, thanks for your help.
@psychictruth50373 жыл бұрын
⭐⭐⭐
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Soo much congratulations and big relief god is good 🌸
@bernesemuir80223 жыл бұрын
Im happy for you❤ just remember not all females are like this there good ones nice ones i know this because I am one. Blessings to you from New Zealand 🙂
@thesecrettragedyclothingco71943 жыл бұрын
I obliterated two narcs 8 months ago. That left me just one... the mother of my child. I realised recently after having my eyes opened wider than ever before that the six yrs of blackmail and abuse I suffered after our split is over. The game she played for all those yrs didnt work. My 9 yr old son has seen me fighting to see him all this time. He knows right from wrong and I've tought him enough that i can see that he now has the power. My relationship with him is too strong even after all her tactics. I can breathe knowing I wont play her games anymore. All i see is my boy and a much more informed and brighter future. It's been a hard journey but I made it. For many yrs i didnt think i would. I gained more than i ever thought i could by learning about mental health. Good luck good people. UK
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Powerful 🌹
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
Aloha from Honolulu. More power to you. Keep watching Nar Con & gain strength & knowledge - it truly is power. Keep loving your son, no matter what. Find strength& keep learning & fighting. Will be praying for you.🙏☝💝
@andreabenfell3588 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou,so glad you are ok
@clairedraper70993 ай бұрын
Well done.Glad it's all working out for you.Good luck to a brighter future with your son x
@colmanlong10323 жыл бұрын
They want to cripple you for the rest of their life,so they hav a constant high hit,just like heroin does to the addict,again brilliant analysis.
@christoole14883 жыл бұрын
You have a gift of explaining and giving help to targets the very had to explain. I'm glad your free.
@MrFredsAdventures3 жыл бұрын
Yes she does have a gift.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chris 💓
@karenshepherd90643 жыл бұрын
Well done honey speeking the truth will help others imforming people of the dangers amd about discernmemt remember god has already won this battle for decent people
@midnightmoonflower91843 жыл бұрын
You are a healer. Your videos are my favorites and lift me up as no other channels. Thank you.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this lovely encouragement Beverly sincerely
@damonpurdypresents..3 жыл бұрын
Don't let anyone change you! Your message is spot on. Thanks and God bless ✌🏿😎
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
I hear you..thanks 🙏🌸
@davidpayne11613 жыл бұрын
this is a spiritual warfare i know , good for you, your right on point here, i wonder if its not narks who have said this to you to knock your confidence.dont let them succeed.x
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks David, possibly 😊🙏💓
@leeforbes73015 ай бұрын
Paula, you are right on with this video. My ex had me followed from overseas for 2 years after I left him. He had a picture of me placed in a private origination my aunt and uncle belonged to here in USA. This went on for 2 years. He accused me of cheating. I never did. He did…. Next I had a coworker tell me her ex was gong to kill her for divorcing him. I told her to contact the police. They could do nothing about verbal threats!! I contacted my supervisor. Everyone knew this woman’s threat and could do nothing legally. Finally, the ex broke into the house, poured gasoline (petrol) in the house and all over this courageous woman and lit the house and her on fire - in front of their 2 children!!! He took the children from the home and with him. She lived for a month in agony with most of her body burned. The children are now living with their grandparents, their mother’s parents. When this man was on the news being taken away to his demise after court, he sneered into the camera. His face was PURE EVIL!! Don’t believe there aren’t psychotic narcissists all over the world who will take great glee in taking the lives of us spiritual warriors if they can get to us. Keep up the great work warning us about this ancient evil just coming to the light. God bless you and all of us exceptionally strong spiritual warriors. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@lindensky79513 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful soul and beautiful human being inside and out...thank you
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much 🌹
@natoahameans24763 жыл бұрын
So true trust me I know they are very dangeroua
@fishgrl6910 ай бұрын
BRAVO TO YOU, PAULA!! For NOT taking ignorant or lost people’s opinions who probably have no idea the severity of a NARC‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😘😘❤️🔥
@elizabethstewart67673 жыл бұрын
I have seen them look anywhere from puzzled to exasperated that I'm still alive and thriving.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 😊
@TheLordsbattleaxe3 жыл бұрын
This is an opponent to not take lightly. Its a formidable opponent that can take any human down if they get entangled with it.
@susanmcmahon47333 жыл бұрын
Hi Paula, THANK YOU sooo much for your videos, anyone who says anything against your videos have NEVER been in an abuse relationship, they are SOUL destroying and THANK God in this day and age people are speaking out, the went through it for 28 yrs as I said before n he didn't have me fooled but he did my family, my lovely Dad went to his grave knowing what he did to me and my children, devastating wasn't the word for it, these videos weren't out there at the time n I couldn't understand the extent of it, now know EVERYTHING I need to know about narcissist, my ex made my family his we were his MEAL TICKET out of very very poor circumstances, sorry for making this so long but the GREAT work you put in to help those who are crippled by these people should have a voice, I have NO problem now telling people I was in an very abusive marriage, before I was afraid n thought people wouldn't believe me n NEVER discussed with anyone, PLEASE PLEASE keep going n reach those that need this, I lucky to have my freedom n my voice now n won't let ANYONE take that away from me, THANK THANK you n bless ALL going through this all I can do is wish them LOVE n PEACE 🙏
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Oh Susan thank you so much for this message I can feel your heart and beautiful spirit through it..so good to be free and strong enough to speak..if you don’t mind me saying your dad must be so proud of you now..I believe they see us still x
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
Aloha from Honolu. First narc husband alienated my 3 sons. Now over 30 yrs later have one son. Praying.
@kmax25843 жыл бұрын
Keep speaking your truth and spreading your light!💫 The haters can either put you on mute when you speak, listen to other KZbin channels or simply unsubscribe. All of those options are actually the least narcissistic approach than leaving disparaging messages. That way, the rest of us can continue to choose to learn and grow from your knowledge and wisdom!💪🏻
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you 😊
@TheLordsbattleaxe3 жыл бұрын
I am definitely learning the enemy.
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
Aging cluster B would rage, then panicked and insist on going with me on my errands. "I don't want to be alone." Drew boundaries had me time & never went anywhere with him.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Experienced similar always with you 🌸
@Ana-vr2qo Жыл бұрын
I love that you're reminding people that you're not here to please them. The scope of poor and dangerous behavior is vast and it took me months to wrap my head around how they can reach incredibly new lows that can shock and horrify! I love your strength and courage❤. Thank you so much!
@narckillaanon85673 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling it like it is and having the fortitude not to cave to various pressures. I think this topic is incredibly helpful as it serves a reminder when my NARC comes back again batting her eyelashes and using her sweet voice that it is not real and she will only hurt me always and forever.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Yes and so fake stay strong
@TheLordsbattleaxe3 жыл бұрын
It is real and sometimes i forget its real. No matter what science or psychology says it is so much more.
@marymccomb4113 жыл бұрын
This one hit home. Thank you so much for your input. We are so much better than them. Light conquers dark. It's good versus evil. They are selfish and totally messed up. Unfixable..I tried. I gave up. I'm happy now. I never realized what a dark cloud they are. It's not even evident to you until you leave. They can't be alone, I knew he had someone else or he never would have let me leave. Good riddance.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Mary it’s always just another supply resource..they themselves are empty and need to take life from others, nothing there to grieve
@caron47253 жыл бұрын
AMEN...WELL SAID
@cartour84973 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot again. Keep it coming please. This is a language that will only been understood by those who have gone through the abuse. Devils are here with us and working through the weak people. I can see it clearly now. And those weak people are what we call narcissists.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@eileen58743 жыл бұрын
Thank you Paula, excellent video as always. It is very important to have this knowledge as I feel the narcissist will never give up until he destroys me. Things have been quiet and I have been getting out and living my life and posting on my Private Facebook page and then I see he has been looking at my page (or trying to) and it all comes up for me again. 😥 I too feel this is a Spiritual War and God is with me as I am praying to him everyday for strength, courage and protection. I am so sorry to hear people are giving you a hard time. I am grateful for your help in this time of healing and recovery. 💞 Never give up!
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear Eileen..yes they always come back..be ready and strong..they have nothing to offer other than destroy your peace and ability to move towards purpose and happiness x
@houseofjoy79433 жыл бұрын
I love that you speak the Truth. Keep it up Preach it. What beneficial information. Thank you kindly
@dawnhandelman30810 ай бұрын
What grows in the dark, dies in the light ✝️
@robmerwd3 жыл бұрын
Your bang on again Lass, so much love to them that gain the understanding. Lost my dog last night, I have buried him on the Moors not far from me. Heartbroken but still strong. X
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Oh Robert I’m so very sorry..it’s like losing family..please feel love coming to you..you would have made his life so happy..that’s good to think on..he’s with you in spirit true love stays x
@robmerwd3 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful Lass, I can feel the love. Hector was a gorgeous border terrier who we managed to get to 17 years, I will miss him....he was my best mate.x
@treelover10503 жыл бұрын
HEY ROBERT I HOPE YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND FIND ANOTHER LOVING DOGGY WHEN YOU ARE READY. DOGS ARE FAMILY.
@donnebonne5 ай бұрын
So sorry for the loss of your for baby.
@anneroarty64733 жыл бұрын
Yes Paula you speak the truth . I am a victim of Narcissist abuse and I can relate to everything you say.Godbkess you Paula.
@claraclaraj2 жыл бұрын
I have lived and survived every single thing you speak about in your videos... With an extremely abusive ex who even threatened to kill me. I am coming out into the light, stronger than I was before. I am one of the strongest people I know.. based on what I have survived in this lifetime. I am still letting all of the lessons settle within me. And it still helps me to watch your videos. Thank you so much for the continual validation of the long-term nightmare I have overcome just recently. Thank you Paula.
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
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@khamxoxi553611 ай бұрын
Thank you Paula. The TRUTH will not be suppressed by these demons. It is killing them!
@lightandlovewarrior95523 жыл бұрын
Powerful words, thank you for the reminder of how evil they are. We cannot live in a fantasy like them. This is how they are, and we cannot let them in our lives to destroy us.
@zorada7553 жыл бұрын
Well look, I love love love your videos because you come at it from a spiritual angle where no psychologist will dare do. With narcissism, or npd disorder, it's more than clinical, it's spiritual. I know I've been with a narc for 20 years until I figured it out. The world did a shift around the end of 2019, now you have more and more narcissist running around with their heads cut off because they know their father Lucifer only has a short time on earth and his minions need to extract as many good souls as possible. I know this diatribe is long but I had to get it out. Thank you.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Hey thank you..yes been a shift now for a while 🌹
@darcybarwick37662 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@christo36353 жыл бұрын
No more people pleasing behaviors for me either !! It's time for all of us to live in our TRUE AUTHENTIC SELF !! Great video !! Every thing you said was spot on !!
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support Christo 😊💓🙏
@Daytheme3 жыл бұрын
May God bless you for helping people like me . May God give you strength to scale up your skills
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
Aloha & GM. Look forward to your energy & inspiration. Agree serious Spiritual battle increase. Important to be in The Word. Suit up! Ephesians 6:10-19.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
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@Tend2Rose3 жыл бұрын
You speak the truth and only people who have experienced these entities can relate and agree with you. Thank you for your videos. You are helping to heal me and to see that what I experienced was not about me. These demons are out there causing so much hurt and pain in the world. It is spiritual warfare. 🙏🏽
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rosemarie..yes you nearly have to have experienced it to believe it for sure 🙏🌸
@Carol-sp5yg3 жыл бұрын
Hi from New Jersey in the USA. New sub here! Wow. This is So true. my Narc father managed to leave a path of destruction with my brothers suicide and my Mothers massive stroke. He literally will call himself the devil. He’s 80. I’m so over him! So i say to him.....well if youre the devil then i must be St Michael sent here to finally fight that battle with satan. Lol. He literally wants me dead too. He refuses to admit he’s old. Lol. I always knew what he was, i just went along with everything for my mother because she would never leave him but now....its me and him. And i literally laugh when i checkmate and flip his games right back on him. Ive been wanting to do it for years but my Mom always got mad when I put him in his place and my brother was so scared of him, he never said a word. I never cared. I knew what he was. He’s not human. And I’ve learned from him to know what I’m dealing with and deal with it accordingly, no matter who it is. Or if its one of them....What it is. LOL. I just know that God put me here to squish them little demons. He gave me this ability to silence them quickly. Lol. Thank you for giving me a platform where i can speak out freely and have everyone understand what it is I’m going through. Because it was a long road getting here through all that craziness of my childhood. I made it out. My Mother and Brother didnt. Thank you❤️
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Hi Carol your so welcome here..thanks for sharing and joining and lending your voice 🌸🙏
@jaujosie72293 жыл бұрын
Thank you, missed your amazing videos, truly helping those who have experienced the hell of these demonic narcissist thieves.❤️❤️☘️
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you..I will keep bringing them..thanks for such great support 🌸
@elenegourley8902 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah she speaks the truth! 21:40 minutes "See by persons actions who they are."
@diannekevwitch69582 жыл бұрын
Praise God for the TRUTH! So many people want to believe that "these are God's children and we should pray for them " which RE-VICTIMIZED me when I was told that I felt so ashamed.
@reg75603 жыл бұрын
Keep Speaking your truth. You've got my support 100%!
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Reg 🙏🌸
@Traceyitalia3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this video 1000 times. You are amazing and speak the truth. I know after 20 years of experience with these demons. I hope many people subscribe to your channel and give you the credit you so deserve 🥰
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Tracey thank you sincerely 🌹🙏
@Traceyitalia3 жыл бұрын
@@NarcCon ❤💐
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
Excellent. Great job ma'am! Thank you. Every bit of this is true. You better believe this is real. It is a battle between dark and light. I was very close to being overtaken by darkness. This last year was scary. It was not anything to play around with. I could've made the wrong decision and chose darkness which would've very much damaged me badly.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Glad you chose you 🌹
@surfshack23 жыл бұрын
@@NarcCon It wasn't easy believe me
@juttalarosa49444 ай бұрын
PLEASE!!! Paula continue to speak and spread the truth! We need your precious wisdom, knowledge, support, advise, help, compassion , love and understanding! You help us on our healing path, immensely!!! We all know that and we support you as much as you support us. Love and a warm hug from Germany.
@NarcCon4 ай бұрын
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@theoracle52652 жыл бұрын
Paula we know that nobody can please everybody all the time but as long as your speaking the truth you don't need to be concerned, your doing a good service to a large growing segment of society because of narsissim, keep doing what your doing.
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your great support Steve 🙏
@edmundcrowley1912 Жыл бұрын
On a more positive note it is because of you and your counterparts in the USA that as a senior citizen I can now continue the battle with a powerful new energy,profoundly enriched spiritual ality..again my deepest gratitude
@andreahanson32822 жыл бұрын
You are a blessing to me! Thank you for your work, education and encouragement! I truly believe narcissism is less of a mental disorder and more of a spiritual evil, demonic. They choose the darkness at some point. They saw gain in it. Narcissists use the same tools that the devil uses.
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
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@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
@Narc Con Completely agree with you. After 33 yrs mask totally off & fully spent last few years waking, going to church and saw him choose the Dark. Now no contact the demon is running amuck.
@suzynnnnn3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I just came across your comment. This same thing happened in my marriage. God bless you and stay strong 💪☺️.
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
@@suzynnnnn God keeps us strong & safe. He started stalking, then sent flying monkeys to gangstalk. Have 10 yr Restraining Order & moved. Both cells have new number, no more shopping anywhere we ever were. New apt, Wisdom, boundaries, $19,000 from Vocational Rehabilitation, frig full of food & cash in the bank. Daily Bible Study & prayer is my key to healing! Narc free & no contact 9 months & 1 day.🙏☝️💖
@suzynnnnn3 жыл бұрын
@@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190 Yours is an excellent testimony of God's faithfulness. As children of Yahweh we have already won. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you dear Sister 💖🙏
@clusterbfreekarynsmith21903 жыл бұрын
@@suzynnnnn It's my calling to share & inspire others out of bondage to demons. The Lord kept him from killing me many times - talking broken bones, detached retina, surgeries & more than 5 mini-strokes...I should be dead, but God. Now I have my own 'baby' KZbin channel ( the name on my comments is my channel name) & just getting started. Nar Con was here for me in 2019 when I woke up like Sleeping Beauty. Now like Sarah Connor in Terminator & Harriet Tubman - the Underground Railroad, one of my callings is to free as many slaves as I can, in Jesus name. Amen
@suzynnnnn3 жыл бұрын
@@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190 I just got goosebumps reading your post. You are amazing. I will definitely be checking your channel out. Thank you for sharing your experience 😊❤️💐
@jeffreyomalley2458 Жыл бұрын
What a great demonstration of how power and peace can be part of a person's presence and message, Paula!
@nancybrooks56962 жыл бұрын
Dear Paula…I am so sorry anyone spoke to you about your content not being “appropriate.” The behaviors and motivations you call out ARE THE INAPPROPRIATE THINGS, that are perpetrated on innocent others by narcissists. Thank you for being brave to speak the truth about this very dangerous personality type.
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
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@maryarchangel2131 Жыл бұрын
So much of what you said reminded me of the destructive force within my sister and my ex. Thank you for this. Only an authentic narc survivor could have such insight!! 👏👏
@christie991 Жыл бұрын
paula, thank you for being so straight forward and downright honest about these narcissists. I did not realize until about 8 months ago just what was wrong with my husband. It was hsrd to wrap my head around someone being this vile. He is such a good actor, truly good. i was married to him for 30 miserable years. Because of all the stress that came with him I got repeatedly sick. Yes, repeatedly. I know now what happened to me. it was so cruel. But that is what they are, this is what they do. don't let anyone deter you from saying your truth. You know how awful they can be and I will tell you quite openly and honestly he just about finished me. This is no kidding around. This is real. These people have to be dealt with. They are dangerous and should never get away with the cruelty, gaslighting,lies, etc. I wish there was a way to let everyone know quicker than we can. i thank you for standing firm in your beliefs. you are the one who knows how evil they are.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@sebelzahntigerkind39232 жыл бұрын
You are by far the most amazing voice addressing the TRUTH of what we're dealing with here in the most humble manner and positive attitude possible. I am awestruck right now, this has actually helped me reach a BREAKTHROUGH in my AWAKENING process, and I can't thank you enough for it. I have a project growing in the back of my mind that will continue spreading awareness about the SPIRITUAL WAR we're in on this planet right now, and it's YOUR videos specifically that have helped me in my personal healing process recently. ❤
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
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@l.a.7592 Жыл бұрын
We need your accurate, well-rounded perspectives, your kind strength, and your humor, Paula!!! Sending you hugs of strength and love!❤
@honor6x7302 жыл бұрын
Paula, there might be narcs or other creatures like that watching your content. I am so proud of your clear statement, so strong, I love that! This is YOUR house! How insane must a individual be to only think, to have to tell you what to do? And they really did, did they? Come on, lets have a lol together. You are thinking my mind, you are speaking my soul with every word, YOU don't need my validation. So good that you being on earth. From South America
@elizabethandiosa4579 Жыл бұрын
Wow. All your older videos are popping up on my screen. More than coincidence. Yes, I've just come to the fuller realization that my brother is a narc. I have suspected for a long time that there is something wrong with him. He certainly is a abusive to me. I have often felt he is possessed and that some relatives have a very low disturbing negative vibe. I agree this is a spiritual war. It's important we focus on beauty, joy, peace, love and doing worthwhile pursuits. Such beauty, knowledge and prosperity can be brought into our world for everyone. Blessings. Namaste.
@deliamendez51313 жыл бұрын
TRUE AND WISE WORDS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@donnebonne5 ай бұрын
I'm so grateful for the fact that you're not willing to back down. I studied the body mind spirit connections for 10 years. I kept trying to get my mentor to understand your they apply and got gaslighted. I prayed for someone to integrate these principles like you are. Thank you soooo much for all you're doing. Keep up the good work. 👍
@mjhensley-young93842 жыл бұрын
Please, please keep sharing!!! My heart resonates completely. I should be dead by now, but I just held on to the truth of God’s love even when I couldn’t see. God bless you🙏🏻🙏🏻
@karensunden94883 жыл бұрын
Paula Thank you so much for speaking your mind .I do believe we are in a spiritual warfare fight and knowelege is our power and God is our sheild .These people do come to steal destroy and kill they are true monsters sent my the devil .Please continue to speak out be ause you speak the real truth .God Bless and protect you from the devil who seeks to destroy the truth .
@aalovelace2776 Жыл бұрын
The plain speak in these videos is what makes them so real and empowering .. you’re the best 😘
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@jamiehorne23893 күн бұрын
You are a brilliant and lovely lady my dear. My wife passed in 2019 and in 2020 I spent a year and a half with a woman who is a blue eyed monster. She shattered my already broken heart. Thank you for being you. I need to hear what you say. I wish I could find a lady like you.😢🙂💜
@NarcCon3 күн бұрын
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@vitalia26802 жыл бұрын
Please continue to speak the truth that helps those of us who are learning from your great videos. Thank you so much❤️
@narcissismandthedevil67783 жыл бұрын
I just want to add that I believe every word of what you’re saying and I’m a strong believer in God there’s many a times i experience spiritual things with the narc some of these things I’ve seen many won’t believe or reject seen with my own eyes .Please continue because I also believe we are in a spiritual battle unfortunately there are those even on this site may have difficulty in accepting the truth.
@stevencannon94382 жыл бұрын
The way you speak is exactly how I see & feel it.. your delivery is emotional spot on. 🙏
@maryholton1623 жыл бұрын
I am hearing of cases of widows and widowers being targeted for their money and resources. If you are in a vulnerable place due to loss of any kind, please, please be aware and careful.
@hugmc2 жыл бұрын
So called men off God are good at that one.
@colleenl15743 жыл бұрын
Excellent! Thank you Paula! Very well said.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Colleen 🌸
@user-yz5ff2iz7l10 ай бұрын
You are down to earth, to the point, knowledgeable, instructive, informative, and encouraging. Keep up the good work and never cave to negativity from any viewers! Keep telling our truth! This is most definitely spiritual warfare. I love you and God bless you. ❤
@elizabethash47206 ай бұрын
I love the way you stand your ground and have always been firm in your convictions. You don't need to give your confidence over to a con artist, and you certainly don't filter who you are and what you believe through any other individual or creature. So, onward Christian soldiers!! Thankyou for your insight into narcicism and for promoting whats right, whats true, and whats worthy of respect and honour. ❤😊🎉
@butterfly13483 жыл бұрын
Glad I found you. I watch Dave at narcology and several other light workers. Thank you for your truth. I love your videos.
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support
@joanneday39493 жыл бұрын
Thanku. Great speech! and I am grateful for people like you. Carry on being the great person you are. Anyone that had been involved with a narcissist will understand you and anyone that says any different is clearly deluded themselves. I am grateful to listen to you and it helps me very much so. X
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling me this..it’s very encouraging 🌸🙏
@artforsoul2 Жыл бұрын
This series of 3 videos REALLY gets to the current situation. ALMOST killed. Now changes appear to be that he has handed off the dirty work to someone else!
@artforsoul2 Жыл бұрын
It's been a 5-yr treck (plus many more yrs, previously, in the stealing stage). I have not been destroyed. Almost killed physically, but have survived that. (He was temporarily flying high in feeling powerful after a suicide). The community is aware of him (and that was quite an achievement because, as you have mentioned, attempting to tell anyone else makes one look like a lying trouble-maker). I am continuing to fulfill my purpose even more than before. The flying monkey that's been sent in now is pathetic. I was puzzled about the attempts by this new person we've never even met. Your series on these 3 stages has been so clarifying, even about the function of break-ins & thefts & vandalism. Yes, he did say long ago that thieving made him feel good about himself. Thank you so much! 😊
@user-qv9nw1dq2f9 ай бұрын
Spot on Pola❤ Thank you for telling the truth the world would like to hide, because the best way for evil to operate is to give it silence which is consent. We should not be people pleasers and we should tell the truth of what we think and who we are - the truth has good enournous power and it always wins. It is just a matter of time. God bless you❤
@sheiladay-od2me11 ай бұрын
These are evil people who have to win. We are in a spiritual war between good and evil. I have always known this, but did not think all narcissists were the same, that some could change with psychotherapy or working with coaches who had changed. I am not sure these coaches have completely changed. I will be changing my living situation. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and your openness and honesty. You are very good at explaining who these people are and what to look out for, as are many therapists and coaches on you/tube. I cannot imagine not giving a person a chance who genuinely wants to change and grow. Sometimes, we just need to let go of people and turn them over to God.
@Gruene201010 ай бұрын
I appreciate the spiritual aspect examination of narcissism and the definition of evil in a logical manner. Makes sense to me.
@CarolRemen-nt8wp5 ай бұрын
Yes Paula, he tried to kill me but when it did not work he tried to kill me spiritually to commit suicide. My faith in God and you saved my life. Thank you.
@tashasparxxx19103 жыл бұрын
PLEASE KEEP TALKING AND POSTING. AWARE IS NEEDED. THEY WANT YOU TO SHUT UP 🤐 BECAUSE YOU ARE HITTING SOME NERVES. DON’T STOP!
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
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@scottwwsi10 ай бұрын
towards the end, right before I discarded, IT was telling me IT was having dreams of mobs chasing me down in the street and killing me.... IT hoovered me 5 times over the next year and I told IT, 'you have no idea who you're fu(king with' and 'if I 'loved' you like you say you 'love' me, you'd be running out of here like your hair was on fire.' blank stare. your channel is spot on.
@gmbbrz2 жыл бұрын
I know this is slightly off topic, but just mentioning this because you are right; the spiritual realm definitely exists.My daughter started reading tarot cards (starting as as a beautiful intelligent sweet person). After a while, she started hearing voices. Now she is diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia. None of this was happening before the cards. I don't think that is a coincidence.
@adimeter2 жыл бұрын
Love “I won’t be told what to talk about”.
@sonjamyers6632 жыл бұрын
I watched you for the first time today and am so impressed with your honesty, way of talking, and explaining precisely what impact these evil creatures have on innocent people. I do have the feeling that you know not only from studying the subject what you are talking about, and I like to thank you for sharing your knowledge with all those people who desperately need any help they can get to understand what they are up against. To all of us: We are stronger than them. Light defeats darkness.
@mariannekoroleva64953 жыл бұрын
Pure TRUTH!!! 1000%%!! Thank You!!
@vignetteorleans1631 Жыл бұрын
You can never know how accurate you are and how being validated in the things we see by someone like you ,your saving lives.
@NarcCon Жыл бұрын
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@nicolatullie92872 жыл бұрын
I SO appreciate your deeply insightful, practical and spiritual commentary & education. This is a spiritual war and the relationship I have just survived with a religeous narc has proven this fact beyond a doubt! God speaks through the entire Scripture of men who are lovers of self and these end days will be worse than ever before. Be AWARE people, this is to be taken seriously. Prayer is powerful, use it to protect your soul, especially once you've recognized the enemy🙏🏻
@FerencRezmuves-tg2mm3 ай бұрын
"No weapon against you shall prosper" Be standfast in your faith beloved if The Lord with us who can be against us!? Ámen
@user-akroban9 ай бұрын
I wanted to add, I wish there would be more discussion about sibling narcs. My younger sister who is a narc has alienated my adult daughter from me. Advice on how to handle this nightmare of a situation is very delicate. I went no contact in 2019. And, she has since needled me through other people. I haven't reacted not one time. Then a bit over a year ago my daughter started being very angry, hurtful and ultimately went no contact if sorts. I know my sister caused this by process of elimination and the timeline. She is evil, jealous and envious of me I've come to realize after many years of her mind games, stealing my belongings and her horrible rage. Please consider doing a podcast on this subject. And, yes I became suicidal over this. But of course got a hold of my emotions. Thank you Paula, I am so happy to have found you. This has nearly destroyed me.
@sama30339 ай бұрын
I've come to look on Truth, the undeniable truth from the marrow of your bones as the most beautiful thing there is. Especially when it means admitting that the narcissist chose you because your boundaries were so weak, that you were totally vulnerable to their deception. I asked for it before we ever met. Yes, she groomed me but if I'd been smarter she would never have been able to penitrate my walls. The flags were there to see and I ignored them.
@chocolatecookie8571 Жыл бұрын
Very good explanation of the narcissist’s plans 👌🏻 It is frigtening how they operate. We have to face the enemy and be strong.
@elizabethkruger40862 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your commitment to this cause of educating people on narcissism. These 3 videos you've posted is exactly what brings it together for what I've went through. You are a fantastic couch and the fact that you do it with God's Word is absolutely wonderful. I wish I could scream it out to the world what narcissist are as we are surrounded by them! My biggest concern for myself is that I will be involved again with a narcissist and I want to avoid that at all cost now that I have educated myself and understanding myself better and why I have been making the same mistake every time. I pray for you and the wonderful work you are doing! Thank you so much!!!
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
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@twogirlsandapsychopath48792 жыл бұрын
You are EXACTLY right! I didnt even know who I was after 7 years with him and my self esteem was nonexistent. He did HORRIFIC things to me that I will never fully recover from. Even though I'm in therapy, nothing can fix some of the things he did.
@NarcCon2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear 🌹..keep moving forward with support
@user-ne6nk4vd7w10 ай бұрын
Well said Paula , we all understand the psychology behind this disorder but there has to be a spiritual dimension to it as well. We are not machines we are spiritual beings.
@bernesemuir80223 жыл бұрын
I have been smeared really bad and can see and feel what now people think of me, (some dont bother with me now) believe of me, but as I am not that person will my name my being ever be cleared? Will all those people see through the narcissist and what he said, im gathering he will eventually treat others badly, hurt others and his actions will show. Will people ever realise what has gone on..... Thank you for ur channel and I look forward to more walks and more talks x
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
There’s an old saying the truth will out..live yours and it will come..I’ve seen it happen..old enough..let the ones eventually who don’t see it go..x
@bernesemuir80223 жыл бұрын
@@victoriadorgu3207 Thanks but no thanks I already know alot of stuff and he's my ex now he left me so his life is his life his business now, with out me
@darcybarwick37662 жыл бұрын
Luke 8:17
@almohvn3311 ай бұрын
PREACH IT PAULA.. IN THE END, YOU COMMENTS about smuckers telling you what to say. I am ... empath and Christian.. AND YOU ARE THE BEST OUT THERE. THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!!! TO THOSE TELLING PAULA WHAT TO DO... FLY A KITE! SHE IS SPOT THE F THE ON!
@reishaterene71573 жыл бұрын
Thank you, that was exactly what I needed to hear today 🥰
@NarcCon3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad thanks 🙏
@dawnhandelman30810 ай бұрын
I believe everything you share about the spiritual warfare!!!!!! Praise the Lord, Thank you Jesus Christ 🕊❤️🙏