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[@randytanaka8724]

I've seen a lot of videos on narcissism. By FAR, the videos here are what we are all wanting or needing to hear. Something will click and you'll realize this is what you've been looking for....

[@NarcCon]

Thank you 🌸

[@irenahabe2855]

True. Very true. I have been intensively listening and (in school) studying the narc disorder... and must say, that u Paula, nail it very hard and from many angles... Obe can see you gave been there, seent the narc under the skin and are very talented in puttibg the content clearly, strong snd empatic out for everybody who is willing to grow out of this... toxic enmeshment. I am very greatefull 4 u, Paula, for the community, for not being alone (any more). 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗✊ The narc shitstorm was at the end a real Blessing in disguise. Waking me up to me!

[@ulluvelez2802]

That makes so much sense how you explain it. Yes! The devil uses people to try to take us down. I totally understand that.

[@raccuia1]

Top stuff Paula. Narcs and their followers need to be treated ruthlessly like the criminals they are.

[@caron4725]

AGREE

[@belindageorge997]

So true. Narcissists try to destroy any good person who foolishly get into a romantic relationship with them. Stick to the truth Paula - this channel has helped me immensely in my healing journey. I was convinced I was the crazy one.

[@lizcoolbaugh6167]

After almost 2 years of having escaped (and over 1 year of going no contact) I still have a hard time understanding how can there be such evil people in this world and even worse that they pretend to be "good" 😢 I sincerely thought all the things I went through with my ex was because I was too "broken".... They really do mess with your sense of self and your spirit in a despicable way 💔

[@angelakeely5859]

They are despicable excuses for human beings, they put on an "act" of being kind, decent, as having "morals", it's all a game to get you hooked on them, but when actions don't match their words, then you know it's just talk, done to screw you every which way they can. Remember they are amazing actors.

[@annmaddock4569]

He used me to look "normal" to his family and friends. He fed on my stability but I didn't see it until after the discard when I was drained.

[@NarcCon]

I understand this Ann 💓

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aloha, for 33 yrs that looking normal was what he did. Escaped 9 months ago, threw away all the clothes because he us an active Stalker & moved twice. Currently at 6'3", long blonde hair - no Grey & 72 yrs old - he has more dresses than U do & changed boyfriends because the mask jumps off his face. Also, a young blonde 20 something, because she has a car & innocent. Though he prefers men, an 85 y o Polynesian Grandma who's been addicted to Meth for over a decade.

[@growingandlearning164]

Same .Normal being married man with a family.

[@tru2608]

The narc wants u gone, while they are still living off of u and benefiting off of u. With u not around. Wanting something for nothing.

[@Lily-dn4zx]

That must be true. My husband told me June 2023 why does it always have to be a divorce with you. Why can’t we live married but separate? I filed in August. He came to court without an attorney in September after having time to get one. I go to court 30 Oct. I hope it goes well for me and my daughter. Our children who are young adults 22 & 19 do not want him. He keeps telling me it’s my fault for them not liking him because I said bad things about him. He never had anything to do with them. He never poured into them. I did. I provided, loved, and disciplined when necessary. He wants to live married but separated to deep benefits off me and to come back when he wants to mentally and maybe physically tourture me/us. To suck the life out of me.

[@tru2608]

@@Lily-dn4zx . Don’t be anybody’s fool. Enough is enough. And y’all are not compatible anymore and u know it now. He’s been knowing it, but steady lying to u and hating it. Keep on track, and get out that dead end relationship and move on and live. Life is going to get harder and ur happiness may not be with u at times. But u will always have ur freedom and what u never had in that relationship, a peace of mind. And that’s better than all the abuse u can suffer again. Stay out and accept that it’s over and u made it out of that bad situation.

[@karlcase3047]

I just defeated my narc ex wife in court, thanks for your help.

[@psychictruth5037]

⭐⭐⭐

[@NarcCon]

Soo much congratulations and big relief god is good 🌸

[@bernesemuir8022]

Im happy for you❤ just remember not all females are like this there good ones nice ones i know this because I am one. Blessings to you from New Zealand 🙂

[@thesecrettragedyclothingco7194]

I obliterated two narcs 8 months ago. That left me just one... the mother of my child. I realised recently after having my eyes opened wider than ever before that the six yrs of blackmail and abuse I suffered after our split is over. The game she played for all those yrs didnt work. My 9 yr old son has seen me fighting to see him all this time. He knows right from wrong and I've tought him enough that i can see that he now has the power. My relationship with him is too strong even after all her tactics. I can breathe knowing I wont play her games anymore. All i see is my boy and a much more informed and brighter future. It's been a hard journey but I made it. For many yrs i didnt think i would. I gained more than i ever thought i could by learning about mental health. Good luck good people. UK

[@NarcCon]

Powerful 🌹

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aloha from Honolulu. More power to you. Keep watching Nar Con & gain strength & knowledge - it truly is power. Keep loving your son, no matter what. Find strength& keep learning & fighting. Will be praying for you.🙏☝💝

[@andreabenfell3588]

Thankyou,so glad you are ok

[@clairedraper7099]

Well done.Glad it's all working out for you.Good luck to a brighter future with your son x

[@colmanlong1032]

They want to cripple you for the rest of their life,so they hav a constant high hit,just like heroin does to the addict,again brilliant analysis.

[@christoole1488]

You have a gift of explaining and giving help to targets the very had to explain. I'm glad your free.

[@MrFredsAdventures]

Yes she does have a gift.

[@NarcCon]

Thank you Chris 💓

[@karenshepherd9064]

Well done honey speeking the truth will help others imforming people of the dangers amd about discernmemt remember god has already won this battle for decent people

[@midnightmoonflower9184]

You are a healer. Your videos are my favorites and lift me up as no other channels. Thank you.

[@NarcCon]

Thank you for this lovely encouragement Beverly sincerely

[@damonpurdypresents..]

Don't let anyone change you! Your message is spot on. Thanks and God bless ✌🏿😎

[@NarcCon]

I hear you..thanks 🙏🌸

[@davidpayne1161]

this is a spiritual warfare i know , good for you, your right on point here, i wonder if its not narks who have said this to you to knock your confidence.dont let them succeed.x

[@NarcCon]

Thanks David, possibly 😊🙏💓

[@leeforbes7301]

Paula, you are right on with this video. My ex had me followed from overseas for 2 years after I left him. He had a picture of me placed in a private origination my aunt and uncle belonged to here in USA. This went on for 2 years. He accused me of cheating. I never did. He did…. Next I had a coworker tell me her ex was gong to kill her for divorcing him. I told her to contact the police. They could do nothing about verbal threats!! I contacted my supervisor. Everyone knew this woman’s threat and could do nothing legally. Finally, the ex broke into the house, poured gasoline (petrol) in the house and all over this courageous woman and lit the house and her on fire - in front of their 2 children!!! He took the children from the home and with him. She lived for a month in agony with most of her body burned. The children are now living with their grandparents, their mother’s parents. When this man was on the news being taken away to his demise after court, he sneered into the camera. His face was PURE EVIL!! Don’t believe there aren’t psychotic narcissists all over the world who will take great glee in taking the lives of us spiritual warriors if they can get to us. Keep up the great work warning us about this ancient evil just coming to the light. God bless you and all of us exceptionally strong spiritual warriors. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@lindensky7951]

You are a beautiful soul and beautiful human being inside and out...thank you

[@NarcCon]

Thanks so much 🌹

[@natoahameans2476]

So true trust me I know they are very dangeroua

[@fishgrl69]

BRAVO TO YOU, PAULA!! For NOT taking ignorant or lost people’s opinions who probably have no idea the severity of a NARC‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😘😘❤️‍🔥

[@elizabethstewart6767]

I have seen them look anywhere from puzzled to exasperated that I'm still alive and thriving.

[@NarcCon]

Beautiful 😊

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

This is an opponent to not take lightly. Its a formidable opponent that can take any human down if they get entangled with it.

[@susanmcmahon4733]

Hi Paula, THANK YOU sooo much for your videos, anyone who says anything against your videos have NEVER been in an abuse relationship, they are SOUL destroying and THANK God in this day and age people are speaking out, the went through it for 28 yrs as I said before n he didn't have me fooled but he did my family, my lovely Dad went to his grave knowing what he did to me and my children, devastating wasn't the word for it, these videos weren't out there at the time n I couldn't understand the extent of it, now know EVERYTHING I need to know about narcissist, my ex made my family his we were his MEAL TICKET out of very very poor circumstances, sorry for making this so long but the GREAT work you put in to help those who are crippled by these people should have a voice, I have NO problem now telling people I was in an very abusive marriage, before I was afraid n thought people wouldn't believe me n NEVER discussed with anyone, PLEASE PLEASE keep going n reach those that need this, I lucky to have my freedom n my voice now n won't let ANYONE take that away from me, THANK THANK you n bless ALL going through this all I can do is wish them LOVE n PEACE 🙏

[@NarcCon]

Oh Susan thank you so much for this message I can feel your heart and beautiful spirit through it..so good to be free and strong enough to speak..if you don’t mind me saying your dad must be so proud of you now..I believe they see us still x

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aloha from Honolu. First narc husband alienated my 3 sons. Now over 30 yrs later have one son. Praying.

[@kmax2584]

Keep speaking your truth and spreading your light!💫 The haters can either put you on mute when you speak, listen to other KZbin channels or simply unsubscribe. All of those options are actually the least narcissistic approach than leaving disparaging messages. That way, the rest of us can continue to choose to learn and grow from your knowledge and wisdom!💪🏻

[@NarcCon]

Wow thank you 😊

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

I am definitely learning the enemy.

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aging cluster B would rage, then panicked and insist on going with me on my errands. "I don't want to be alone." Drew boundaries had me time & never went anywhere with him.

[@NarcCon]

Experienced similar always with you 🌸

[@Ana-vr2qo]

I love that you're reminding people that you're not here to please them. The scope of poor and dangerous behavior is vast and it took me months to wrap my head around how they can reach incredibly new lows that can shock and horrify! I love your strength and courage❤. Thank you so much!

[@narckillaanon8567]

Thank you for telling it like it is and having the fortitude not to cave to various pressures. I think this topic is incredibly helpful as it serves a reminder when my NARC comes back again batting her eyelashes and using her sweet voice that it is not real and she will only hurt me always and forever.

[@NarcCon]

Yes and so fake stay strong

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

It is real and sometimes i forget its real. No matter what science or psychology says it is so much more.

[@marymccomb411]

This one hit home. Thank you so much for your input. We are so much better than them. Light conquers dark. It's good versus evil. They are selfish and totally messed up. Unfixable..I tried. I gave up. I'm happy now. I never realized what a dark cloud they are. It's not even evident to you until you leave. They can't be alone, I knew he had someone else or he never would have let me leave. Good riddance.

[@NarcCon]

Mary it’s always just another supply resource..they themselves are empty and need to take life from others, nothing there to grieve

[@caron4725]

AMEN...WELL SAID

[@cartour8497]

Thanks a lot again. Keep it coming please. This is a language that will only been understood by those who have gone through the abuse. Devils are here with us and working through the weak people. I can see it clearly now. And those weak people are what we call narcissists.

[@NarcCon]

Thank you 🙏

[@eileen5874]

Thank you Paula, excellent video as always. It is very important to have this knowledge as I feel the narcissist will never give up until he destroys me. Things have been quiet and I have been getting out and living my life and posting on my Private Facebook page and then I see he has been looking at my page (or trying to) and it all comes up for me again. 😥 I too feel this is a Spiritual War and God is with me as I am praying to him everyday for strength, courage and protection. I am so sorry to hear people are giving you a hard time. I am grateful for your help in this time of healing and recovery. 💞 Never give up!

[@NarcCon]

Thank you dear Eileen..yes they always come back..be ready and strong..they have nothing to offer other than destroy your peace and ability to move towards purpose and happiness x

[@houseofjoy7943]

I love that you speak the Truth. Keep it up Preach it. What beneficial information. Thank you kindly

[@dawnhandelman308]

What grows in the dark, dies in the light ✝️

[@robmerwd]

Your bang on again Lass, so much love to them that gain the understanding. Lost my dog last night, I have buried him on the Moors not far from me. Heartbroken but still strong. X

[@NarcCon]

Oh Robert I’m so very sorry..it’s like losing family..please feel love coming to you..you would have made his life so happy..that’s good to think on..he’s with you in spirit true love stays x

[@robmerwd]

Thank you beautiful Lass, I can feel the love. Hector was a gorgeous border terrier who we managed to get to 17 years, I will miss him....he was my best mate.x

[@treelover1050]

HEY ROBERT I HOPE YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND FIND ANOTHER LOVING DOGGY WHEN YOU ARE READY. DOGS ARE FAMILY.

[@donnebonne]

So sorry for the loss of your for baby.

[@anneroarty6473]

Yes Paula you speak the truth . I am a victim of Narcissist abuse and I can relate to everything you say.Godbkess you Paula.

[@claraclaraj]

I have lived and survived every single thing you speak about in your videos... With an extremely abusive ex who even threatened to kill me. I am coming out into the light, stronger than I was before. I am one of the strongest people I know.. based on what I have survived in this lifetime. I am still letting all of the lessons settle within me. And it still helps me to watch your videos. Thank you so much for the continual validation of the long-term nightmare I have overcome just recently. Thank you Paula.

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@khamxoxi5536]

Thank you Paula. The TRUTH will not be suppressed by these demons. It is killing them!

[@lightandlovewarrior9552]

Powerful words, thank you for the reminder of how evil they are. We cannot live in a fantasy like them. This is how they are, and we cannot let them in our lives to destroy us.

[@zorada755]

Well look, I love love love your videos because you come at it from a spiritual angle where no psychologist will dare do. With narcissism, or npd disorder, it's more than clinical, it's spiritual. I know I've been with a narc for 20 years until I figured it out. The world did a shift around the end of 2019, now you have more and more narcissist running around with their heads cut off because they know their father Lucifer only has a short time on earth and his minions need to extract as many good souls as possible. I know this diatribe is long but I had to get it out. Thank you.

[@NarcCon]

Hey thank you..yes been a shift now for a while 🌹

[@darcybarwick3766]

Exactly

[@christo3635]

No more people pleasing behaviors for me either !! It's time for all of us to live in our TRUE AUTHENTIC SELF !! Great video !! Every thing you said was spot on !!

[@NarcCon]

Thanks for your support Christo 😊💓🙏

[@Daytheme]

May God bless you for helping people like me . May God give you strength to scale up your skills

[@NarcCon]

Thank you very much

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

Aloha & GM. Look forward to your energy & inspiration. Agree serious Spiritual battle increase. Important to be in The Word. Suit up! Ephesians 6:10-19.

[@NarcCon]

🙏

[@Tend2Rose]

You speak the truth and only people who have experienced these entities can relate and agree with you. Thank you for your videos. You are helping to heal me and to see that what I experienced was not about me. These demons are out there causing so much hurt and pain in the world. It is spiritual warfare. 🙏🏽

[@NarcCon]

Thank you Rosemarie..yes you nearly have to have experienced it to believe it for sure 🙏🌸

[@Carol-sp5yg]

Hi from New Jersey in the USA. New sub here! Wow. This is So true. my Narc father managed to leave a path of destruction with my brothers suicide and my Mothers massive stroke. He literally will call himself the devil. He’s 80. I’m so over him! So i say to him.....well if youre the devil then i must be St Michael sent here to finally fight that battle with satan. Lol. He literally wants me dead too. He refuses to admit he’s old. Lol. I always knew what he was, i just went along with everything for my mother because she would never leave him but now....its me and him. And i literally laugh when i checkmate and flip his games right back on him. Ive been wanting to do it for years but my Mom always got mad when I put him in his place and my brother was so scared of him, he never said a word. I never cared. I knew what he was. He’s not human. And I’ve learned from him to know what I’m dealing with and deal with it accordingly, no matter who it is. Or if its one of them....What it is. LOL. I just know that God put me here to squish them little demons. He gave me this ability to silence them quickly. Lol. Thank you for giving me a platform where i can speak out freely and have everyone understand what it is I’m going through. Because it was a long road getting here through all that craziness of my childhood. I made it out. My Mother and Brother didnt. Thank you❤️

[@NarcCon]

Hi Carol your so welcome here..thanks for sharing and joining and lending your voice 🌸🙏

[@jaujosie7229]

Thank you, missed your amazing videos, truly helping those who have experienced the hell of these demonic narcissist thieves.❤️❤️☘️

[@NarcCon]

Thank you..I will keep bringing them..thanks for such great support 🌸

[@elenegourley890]

Hallelujah she speaks the truth! 21:40 minutes "See by persons actions who they are."

[@diannekevwitch6958]

Praise God for the TRUTH! So many people want to believe that "these are God's children and we should pray for them " which RE-VICTIMIZED me when I was told that I felt so ashamed.

[@reg7560]

Keep Speaking your truth. You've got my support 100%!

[@NarcCon]

Thank you Reg 🙏🌸

[@Traceyitalia]

I wish I could like this video 1000 times. You are amazing and speak the truth. I know after 20 years of experience with these demons. I hope many people subscribe to your channel and give you the credit you so deserve 🥰

[@NarcCon]

Tracey thank you sincerely 🌹🙏

[@Traceyitalia]

@@NarcCon ❤💐

[@surfshack2]

Excellent. Great job ma'am! Thank you. Every bit of this is true. You better believe this is real. It is a battle between dark and light. I was very close to being overtaken by darkness. This last year was scary. It was not anything to play around with. I could've made the wrong decision and chose darkness which would've very much damaged me badly.

[@NarcCon]

Glad you chose you 🌹

[@surfshack2]

@@NarcCon It wasn't easy believe me

[@juttalarosa4944]

PLEASE!!! Paula continue to speak and spread the truth! We need your precious wisdom, knowledge, support, advise, help, compassion , love and understanding! You help us on our healing path, immensely!!! We all know that and we support you as much as you support us. Love and a warm hug from Germany.

[@NarcCon]

🙋‍♀️🙏

[@theoracle5265]

Paula we know that nobody can please everybody all the time but as long as your speaking the truth you don't need to be concerned, your doing a good service to a large growing segment of society because of narsissim, keep doing what your doing.

[@NarcCon]

Thanks for your great support Steve 🙏

[@edmundcrowley1912]

On a more positive note it is because of you and your counterparts in the USA that as a senior citizen I can now continue the battle with a powerful new energy,profoundly enriched spiritual ality..again my deepest gratitude

[@andreahanson3282]

You are a blessing to me! Thank you for your work, education and encouragement! I truly believe narcissism is less of a mental disorder and more of a spiritual evil, demonic. They choose the darkness at some point. They saw gain in it. Narcissists use the same tools that the devil uses.

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

@Narc Con Completely agree with you. After 33 yrs mask totally off & fully spent last few years waking, going to church and saw him choose the Dark. Now no contact the demon is running amuck.

[@suzynnnnn]

Wow. I just came across your comment. This same thing happened in my marriage. God bless you and stay strong 💪☺️.

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

@@suzynnnnn God keeps us strong & safe. He started stalking, then sent flying monkeys to gangstalk. Have 10 yr Restraining Order & moved. Both cells have new number, no more shopping anywhere we ever were. New apt, Wisdom, boundaries, $19,000 from Vocational Rehabilitation, frig full of food & cash in the bank. Daily Bible Study & prayer is my key to healing! Narc free & no contact 9 months & 1 day.🙏☝️💖

[@suzynnnnn]

@@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190 Yours is an excellent testimony of God's faithfulness. As children of Yahweh we have already won. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you dear Sister 💖🙏

[@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190]

@@suzynnnnn It's my calling to share & inspire others out of bondage to demons. The Lord kept him from killing me many times - talking broken bones, detached retina, surgeries & more than 5 mini-strokes...I should be dead, but God. Now I have my own 'baby' KZbin channel ( the name on my comments is my channel name) & just getting started. Nar Con was here for me in 2019 when I woke up like Sleeping Beauty. Now like Sarah Connor in Terminator & Harriet Tubman - the Underground Railroad, one of my callings is to free as many slaves as I can, in Jesus name. Amen

[@suzynnnnn]

@@clusterbfreekarynsmith2190 I just got goosebumps reading your post. You are amazing. I will definitely be checking your channel out. Thank you for sharing your experience 😊❤️💐

[@jeffreyomalley2458]

What a great demonstration of how power and peace can be part of a person's presence and message, Paula!

[@nancybrooks5696]

Dear Paula…I am so sorry anyone spoke to you about your content not being “appropriate.” The behaviors and motivations you call out ARE THE INAPPROPRIATE THINGS, that are perpetrated on innocent others by narcissists. Thank you for being brave to speak the truth about this very dangerous personality type.

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹🙋‍♀️

[@maryarchangel2131]

So much of what you said reminded me of the destructive force within my sister and my ex. Thank you for this. Only an authentic narc survivor could have such insight!! 👏👏

[@christie991]

paula, thank you for being so straight forward and downright honest about these narcissists. I did not realize until about 8 months ago just what was wrong with my husband. It was hsrd to wrap my head around someone being this vile. He is such a good actor, truly good. i was married to him for 30 miserable years. Because of all the stress that came with him I got repeatedly sick. Yes, repeatedly. I know now what happened to me. it was so cruel. But that is what they are, this is what they do. don't let anyone deter you from saying your truth. You know how awful they can be and I will tell you quite openly and honestly he just about finished me. This is no kidding around. This is real. These people have to be dealt with. They are dangerous and should never get away with the cruelty, gaslighting,lies, etc. I wish there was a way to let everyone know quicker than we can. i thank you for standing firm in your beliefs. you are the one who knows how evil they are.

[@NarcCon]

🙋‍♀️👌

[@sebelzahntigerkind3923]

You are by far the most amazing voice addressing the TRUTH of what we're dealing with here in the most humble manner and positive attitude possible. I am awestruck right now, this has actually helped me reach a BREAKTHROUGH in my AWAKENING process, and I can't thank you enough for it. I have a project growing in the back of my mind that will continue spreading awareness about the SPIRITUAL WAR we're in on this planet right now, and it's YOUR videos specifically that have helped me in my personal healing process recently. ❤

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@l.a.7592]

We need your accurate, well-rounded perspectives, your kind strength, and your humor, Paula!!! Sending you hugs of strength and love!❤

[@honor6x730]

Paula, there might be narcs or other creatures like that watching your content. I am so proud of your clear statement, so strong, I love that! This is YOUR house! How insane must a individual be to only think, to have to tell you what to do? And they really did, did they? Come on, lets have a lol together. You are thinking my mind, you are speaking my soul with every word, YOU don't need my validation. So good that you being on earth. From South America

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

Wow. All your older videos are popping up on my screen. More than coincidence. Yes, I've just come to the fuller realization that my brother is a narc. I have suspected for a long time that there is something wrong with him. He certainly is a abusive to me. I have often felt he is possessed and that some relatives have a very low disturbing negative vibe. I agree this is a spiritual war. It's important we focus on beauty, joy, peace, love and doing worthwhile pursuits. Such beauty, knowledge and prosperity can be brought into our world for everyone. Blessings. Namaste.

[@deliamendez5131]

TRUE AND WISE WORDS THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.

[@NarcCon]

Thank you 🙏

[@donnebonne]

I'm so grateful for the fact that you're not willing to back down. I studied the body mind spirit connections for 10 years. I kept trying to get my mentor to understand your they apply and got gaslighted. I prayed for someone to integrate these principles like you are. Thank you soooo much for all you're doing. Keep up the good work. 👍

[@mjhensley-young9384]

Please, please keep sharing!!! My heart resonates completely. I should be dead by now, but I just held on to the truth of God’s love even when I couldn’t see. God bless you🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@karensunden9488]

Paula Thank you so much for speaking your mind .I do believe we are in a spiritual warfare fight and knowelege is our power and God is our sheild .These people do come to steal destroy and kill they are true monsters sent my the devil .Please continue to speak out be ause you speak the real truth .God Bless and protect you from the devil who seeks to destroy the truth .

[@aalovelace2776]

The plain speak in these videos is what makes them so real and empowering .. you’re the best 😘

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@jamiehorne2389]

You are a brilliant and lovely lady my dear. My wife passed in 2019 and in 2020 I spent a year and a half with a woman who is a blue eyed monster. She shattered my already broken heart. Thank you for being you. I need to hear what you say. I wish I could find a lady like you.😢🙂💜

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@vitalia2680]

Please continue to speak the truth that helps those of us who are learning from your great videos. Thank you so much❤️

[@narcissismandthedevil6778]

I just want to add that I believe every word of what you’re saying and I’m a strong believer in God there’s many a times i experience spiritual things with the narc some of these things I’ve seen many won’t believe or reject seen with my own eyes .Please continue because I also believe we are in a spiritual battle unfortunately there are those even on this site may have difficulty in accepting the truth.

[@stevencannon9438]

The way you speak is exactly how I see & feel it.. your delivery is emotional spot on. 🙏

[@maryholton162]

I am hearing of cases of widows and widowers being targeted for their money and resources. If you are in a vulnerable place due to loss of any kind, please, please be aware and careful.

[@hugmc]

So called men off God are good at that one.

[@colleenl1574]

Excellent! Thank you Paula! Very well said.

[@NarcCon]

Thanks Colleen 🌸

[@user-yz5ff2iz7l]

You are down to earth, to the point, knowledgeable, instructive, informative, and encouraging. Keep up the good work and never cave to negativity from any viewers! Keep telling our truth! This is most definitely spiritual warfare. I love you and God bless you. ❤

[@elizabethash4720]

I love the way you stand your ground and have always been firm in your convictions. You don't need to give your confidence over to a con artist, and you certainly don't filter who you are and what you believe through any other individual or creature. So, onward Christian soldiers!! Thankyou for your insight into narcicism and for promoting whats right, whats true, and whats worthy of respect and honour. ❤😊🎉

[@butterfly1348]

Glad I found you. I watch Dave at narcology and several other light workers. Thank you for your truth. I love your videos.

[@NarcCon]

Thank you for your support

[@joanneday3949]

Thanku. Great speech! and I am grateful for people like you. Carry on being the great person you are. Anyone that had been involved with a narcissist will understand you and anyone that says any different is clearly deluded themselves. I am grateful to listen to you and it helps me very much so. X

[@NarcCon]

Thank you for telling me this..it’s very encouraging 🌸🙏

[@artforsoul2]

This series of 3 videos REALLY gets to the current situation. ALMOST killed. Now changes appear to be that he has handed off the dirty work to someone else!

[@artforsoul2]

It's been a 5-yr treck (plus many more yrs, previously, in the stealing stage). I have not been destroyed. Almost killed physically, but have survived that. (He was temporarily flying high in feeling powerful after a suicide). The community is aware of him (and that was quite an achievement because, as you have mentioned, attempting to tell anyone else makes one look like a lying trouble-maker). I am continuing to fulfill my purpose even more than before. The flying monkey that's been sent in now is pathetic. I was puzzled about the attempts by this new person we've never even met. Your series on these 3 stages has been so clarifying, even about the function of break-ins & thefts & vandalism. Yes, he did say long ago that thieving made him feel good about himself. Thank you so much! 😊

[@user-qv9nw1dq2f]

Spot on Pola❤ Thank you for telling the truth the world would like to hide, because the best way for evil to operate is to give it silence which is consent. We should not be people pleasers and we should tell the truth of what we think and who we are - the truth has good enournous power and it always wins. It is just a matter of time. God bless you❤

[@sheiladay-od2me]

These are evil people who have to win. We are in a spiritual war between good and evil. I have always known this, but did not think all narcissists were the same, that some could change with psychotherapy or working with coaches who had changed. I am not sure these coaches have completely changed. I will be changing my living situation. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and your openness and honesty. You are very good at explaining who these people are and what to look out for, as are many therapists and coaches on you/tube. I cannot imagine not giving a person a chance who genuinely wants to change and grow. Sometimes, we just need to let go of people and turn them over to God.

[@Gruene2010]

I appreciate the spiritual aspect examination of narcissism and the definition of evil in a logical manner. Makes sense to me.

[@CarolRemen-nt8wp]

Yes Paula, he tried to kill me but when it did not work he tried to kill me spiritually to commit suicide. My faith in God and you saved my life. Thank you.

[@tashasparxxx1910]

PLEASE KEEP TALKING AND POSTING. AWARE IS NEEDED. THEY WANT YOU TO SHUT UP 🤐 BECAUSE YOU ARE HITTING SOME NERVES. DON’T STOP!

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌸

[@scottwwsi]

towards the end, right before I discarded, IT was telling me IT was having dreams of mobs chasing me down in the street and killing me.... IT hoovered me 5 times over the next year and I told IT, 'you have no idea who you're fu(king with' and 'if I 'loved' you like you say you 'love' me, you'd be running out of here like your hair was on fire.' blank stare. your channel is spot on.

[@gmbbrz]

I know this is slightly off topic, but just mentioning this because you are right; the spiritual realm definitely exists.My daughter started reading tarot cards (starting as as a beautiful intelligent sweet person). After a while, she started hearing voices. Now she is diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia. None of this was happening before the cards. I don't think that is a coincidence.

[@adimeter]

Love “I won’t be told what to talk about”.

[@sonjamyers663]

I watched you for the first time today and am so impressed with your honesty, way of talking, and explaining precisely what impact these evil creatures have on innocent people. I do have the feeling that you know not only from studying the subject what you are talking about, and I like to thank you for sharing your knowledge with all those people who desperately need any help they can get to understand what they are up against. To all of us: We are stronger than them. Light defeats darkness.

[@mariannekoroleva6495]

Pure TRUTH!!! 1000%%!! Thank You!!

[@vignetteorleans1631]

You can never know how accurate you are and how being validated in the things we see by someone like you ,your saving lives.

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@nicolatullie9287]

I SO appreciate your deeply insightful, practical and spiritual commentary & education. This is a spiritual war and the relationship I have just survived with a religeous narc has proven this fact beyond a doubt! God speaks through the entire Scripture of men who are lovers of self and these end days will be worse than ever before. Be AWARE people, this is to be taken seriously. Prayer is powerful, use it to protect your soul, especially once you've recognized the enemy🙏🏻

[@FerencRezmuves-tg2mm]

"No weapon against you shall prosper" Be standfast in your faith beloved if The Lord with us who can be against us!? Ámen

[@user-akroban]

I wanted to add, I wish there would be more discussion about sibling narcs. My younger sister who is a narc has alienated my adult daughter from me. Advice on how to handle this nightmare of a situation is very delicate. I went no contact in 2019. And, she has since needled me through other people. I haven't reacted not one time. Then a bit over a year ago my daughter started being very angry, hurtful and ultimately went no contact if sorts. I know my sister caused this by process of elimination and the timeline. She is evil, jealous and envious of me I've come to realize after many years of her mind games, stealing my belongings and her horrible rage. Please consider doing a podcast on this subject. And, yes I became suicidal over this. But of course got a hold of my emotions. Thank you Paula, I am so happy to have found you. This has nearly destroyed me.

[@sama3033]

I've come to look on Truth, the undeniable truth from the marrow of your bones as the most beautiful thing there is. Especially when it means admitting that the narcissist chose you because your boundaries were so weak, that you were totally vulnerable to their deception. I asked for it before we ever met. Yes, she groomed me but if I'd been smarter she would never have been able to penitrate my walls. The flags were there to see and I ignored them.

[@chocolatecookie8571]

Very good explanation of the narcissist’s plans 👌🏻 It is frigtening how they operate. We have to face the enemy and be strong.

[@elizabethkruger4086]

Thank you so much for your commitment to this cause of educating people on narcissism. These 3 videos you've posted is exactly what brings it together for what I've went through. You are a fantastic couch and the fact that you do it with God's Word is absolutely wonderful. I wish I could scream it out to the world what narcissist are as we are surrounded by them! My biggest concern for myself is that I will be involved again with a narcissist and I want to avoid that at all cost now that I have educated myself and understanding myself better and why I have been making the same mistake every time. I pray for you and the wonderful work you are doing! Thank you so much!!!

[@NarcCon]

🙏🌹

[@twogirlsandapsychopath4879]

You are EXACTLY right! I didnt even know who I was after 7 years with him and my self esteem was nonexistent. He did HORRIFIC things to me that I will never fully recover from. Even though I'm in therapy, nothing can fix some of the things he did.

[@NarcCon]

Sorry to hear 🌹..keep moving forward with support

[@user-ne6nk4vd7w]

Well said Paula , we all understand the psychology behind this disorder but there has to be a spiritual dimension to it as well. We are not machines we are spiritual beings.

[@bernesemuir8022]

I have been smeared really bad and can see and feel what now people think of me, (some dont bother with me now) believe of me, but as I am not that person will my name my being ever be cleared? Will all those people see through the narcissist and what he said, im gathering he will eventually treat others badly, hurt others and his actions will show. Will people ever realise what has gone on..... Thank you for ur channel and I look forward to more walks and more talks x

[@NarcCon]

There’s an old saying the truth will out..live yours and it will come..I’ve seen it happen..old enough..let the ones eventually who don’t see it go..x

[@bernesemuir8022]

@@victoriadorgu3207 Thanks but no thanks I already know alot of stuff and he's my ex now he left me so his life is his life his business now, with out me

[@darcybarwick3766]

Luke 8:17

[@almohvn33]

PREACH IT PAULA.. IN THE END, YOU COMMENTS about smuckers telling you what to say. I am ... empath and Christian.. AND YOU ARE THE BEST OUT THERE. THANK YOU!!! THANK YOU!!!!! TO THOSE TELLING PAULA WHAT TO DO... FLY A KITE! SHE IS SPOT THE F THE ON!

[@reishaterene7157]

Thank you, that was exactly what I needed to hear today 🥰

[@NarcCon]

I’m so glad thanks 🙏

[@dawnhandelman308]

I believe everything you share about the spiritual warfare!!!!!! Praise the Lord, Thank you Jesus Christ 🕊❤️🙏

[@MrFredsAdventures]

GREAT VIDEO!

[@NarcCon]

Thank you very much 🙏🌸