For anyone else going through this…. This is actually a blessing, after they show you this and they disappear from your life, remember this exact moment and NEVER take them back. Behind the scenes they think they found a better partner, this will fail, and then they come back to you…. But it only works if you allow it to - and your shouldn’t.
@No-BS1369 Жыл бұрын
@Dansyoung , you are right about the blessing in disguise. The narcissist is my sister and our mother died in 2022 and my sister took everything. She had me evicted from my mother’s house and I was homeless, living in my car, for almost 3 months. I hated her so much that I will never be in contact with her again.
@NoMoreMrNiceGuy2003 Жыл бұрын
@@No-BS1369 I'm a scapegoat too even though my parents have not died, but I feel your pain. Hang in there! I'd rather be broke THAN EVER talk to my siblings ever again if I ever need money after my parents died
@helenlovell8587 Жыл бұрын
So true. Tortured me with the hew supply sending me pics of them in bed etc & she scammed him & he came running back. Foolish no more. Fully blocked now 💪💪
@amirhakopian4636 Жыл бұрын
Mine kissed be goodbye before I left for work. He texts me at work that he needs space. Came home to a clean house and peace and quiet 😊 . Best scenario to enter NC
@lauradelregno99 Жыл бұрын
😂😅
@sarahjane8949 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👍👍👍🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
@NoMoreMrNiceGuy2003 Жыл бұрын
5:10-"They also don't detach in a healthy way. So don't want you to detach, because they believe you're THEIR property. THEY OWN YOU! This is how they look at it."
@miivii Жыл бұрын
All true. Another feeling that I have had all this time came to mind. There was nothing spontaneous in my relationship with the narcissist (her). Everything seemed so "artificial" to me. Now it is clear to me why. A transactional relationship. A conditional relationship. Everything was staged.
@deb2319 Жыл бұрын
They stage the sex as a hoover tool...so gross and boring.
@miivii Жыл бұрын
@ryanross3395 E.T. was regular guest.
@Humble4656 Жыл бұрын
They are chameleons
@madmesh978 Жыл бұрын
lol give up on you're you tube channel love all is bang on about nae assists and you are one. ..lol she's so full of her own self importance. ....she's the narrasist who tricked you into watching her videos. ...lol get a life
@notyetskeletal4809 Жыл бұрын
OMG the transactional relationship. Why are their so many similarities with my ex. I even brought that up with her. She said everything is a transaction. The last thing I heard from her was a lie and I just rolled my eyes. I wouldn't call her a narcissist but there are so many similar traits in her games. She's on the spectrum!
@Nicole-v2e8w4 күн бұрын
Yes Just when I started to show abit of self care he did it again .. he didnt like me happy looking good being myself .. it sux still now its been 4 months.. Im starting to feel better but ha e to keep learning by watching these videos even though I k ow what hes like but I feel ins8de that its truly over
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly 💯 what my husband of 12 years did. The discard was so very brutal and vile. Although I'm hurting, I'm so grateful that I am Not him or his next supply 😈🤮
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
Great way of thinking, that’s how I feel as well. She can have him as long as he’s putting his toxicity toward someone else, so be it, I want to live the rest of my life peacefully Best of luck to you 😊
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
@hope2231 I agree! Peace is so important on our Journey. I wish you complete wellness & happiness. This type of abuse needs to be punishable by law
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
@@ladyvirgo013 thank you very much and One hundred percent agree with you. I hope I see it in my lifetime as something that the court system takes into consideration what it does to a person’s well-being.
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
@@AlwaysHope2019 💯
@prettyboymcfly Жыл бұрын
Yea between all the gifts , compliments and love bombing it was all breadcrumbs... I realize it now and I believe it was a lesson for us to learn so we know what we deserve in our future relationship
@lorettascott5477 Жыл бұрын
😢
@mastEren11 Жыл бұрын
"that's me in the corner, that's me in the spotlight losing my religion" I think that's the kind of broken she's talking about. Thank goodness I've never been that broken.
@gerasamaha4417 Жыл бұрын
She's been doing therapy for the last year, once told me something about the therapist saying she is a narcissist and she doesn't feel anything. I didn't know much about narcissism, she dumped me for new supply the same way she dumped her ex for me. After watching your videos everything became clear to me. Thank you❤
@HeyokaINFJpersonality888 Жыл бұрын
they will destroy themselves because now they have mistake with the person
@nancywest1544 Жыл бұрын
They always come back. Get all nice and drop a bucket load
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
mine already came back once, and I let him in and discard, was worse. Now he has a new woman that caters to his every whim, and fell for the lovebomb and blinded her from his true self in the same way that I did. Hopefully, since he already came around after the first discard. This one will be the last fingers crossed.
@marycauchon4314 Жыл бұрын
It has been about 6 yrs since I’ve been in a relationship. My relationship with the narc was so traumatic and he literally ripped the rug out under my feet and stabbed me in the back several times. I have picked up the broken pieces and I am still healing but I’m ok with the time spent learning to know who I am and I want in my next relationship. I still have a wall around me to protect myself knowing that is not healthy . Moving on to a healthier, brighter future! All in gods hands!
@melissachase1649 Жыл бұрын
Im so glad i told off a narcissist and he never came back. Im also glad i got a new phone number. Cant bother me now. But still my head is messed up from this person. I still have lots of anger. I put my anger towards my will of never letting this person back in my life. Im now completely put off from any kind of romantic relationship.
@turfitup01 Жыл бұрын
Seeing my ex in passing months after the breakup, some of the last words she said was. " I didn't think you were going to do good for yourself after we broke up I thought you would go back to all your old ways and you really surprised me" . I gave her no reaction and just said thank you! That break up has been the biggest blessing of my life. Don't live in the fog. There is so much life outside of a toxic relationship. We all have things to work on to be better but no one deserves to be constantly put down and treated like they are less than.
@faithanddevotion Жыл бұрын
It is so weird that a person that claims to need you, want you, has to see you, wants you like nobodies business. Than, within months or whatever they just bail and start blaming you and devalue you. What happened in their childhood that makes them this way??
@sharc.9259 Жыл бұрын
I've been wondering the same thing 🤔
@stephlm79 Жыл бұрын
Emotional Abuse
@deb2319 Жыл бұрын
They had a heart break and their hearts and minds are frozen mean-child. It could had happen during brain and nervous system development and most of them have bad diets...the skinny or the fat. The gut Brain connection starts with the family. It's also a family curse sometimes.
@deb2319 Жыл бұрын
Wow Anoushka yes you re making SO MUCH Sense! Thank you. ❤
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
I’ve always wondered this, too, mine always wanted to be around me 24 /7 if he could have he wouldn’t even take a nap without me, wanting to be in the room all the way up until the deval cycle which I never even knew with these cycles were before I learned about narcissism Proved to me his “I love you’s” were a facade.
@toniacevedo2010 Жыл бұрын
It all makes sense. Thank goodness I started the healing 4 years ago and feel the strongest in my entire life with boundaries self love and knowing my worth.
@marylourodriguez9227 Жыл бұрын
Yes! One month before he passed away!!!!!!! And he knew he was dying, I did not!
@josette_napoleon Жыл бұрын
Beat them to this last trick. U already know the cycle, so break away from it. And before they can destroy u, destroy them first. Find their achilles heel and hit once but hit hard. That will keep them away and u can totally break away from them by no contact whatsover.
@MM-jr3jd Жыл бұрын
It's what have done, pre-emptive strike! Wasted!!😂
@debbieb1320 Жыл бұрын
My bf told me Monday he was ending it for my own good. He has since texted me on Thursday and Friday to see how I am doing. I’m new to this narc personality. I miss him, but told him I am fine. I think he wants me so say I am devastated. I told him he is the one that made the choice. Unfortunately I am having a hard time getting through this, but I know I need to end it. period. I will be binge watching these informational videos this weekend to try to get my head on straight.
@ZonyWest Жыл бұрын
Won't be me again and I don't need closure. The door is completely closed and locked.
@sammy6176 Жыл бұрын
Oh boy did they let rip at the "end"🤣I certainly can "laugh" now because it was the most prolific thing that happened for me! I was taken down to my foundations and I chose to rip those old foundations out and started building on firm foundations block by block. Every block went in when it was ready. I found myself and stopped absorbing others. I saw me, I could feel me. What happened for me may not happen for someone else but it does for some. They call it a spuritaul awakening. I'm grateful to my ex because I got broken open, not broken apart my life is amazing and I still love them because I can be without them in my life💚
@BryanTrotter-op2dx Жыл бұрын
Kirkpatrick 👊💪😉
@swetagupta7018 Жыл бұрын
I used to have daily panic attacks and be on the floor screaming.
@reneeradick7456 Жыл бұрын
Omg, he left a week before our 25 th wedding anniversary with a card that said , I own you , you own me and then left a week later….. so true❤️
@dodibenabba525 Жыл бұрын
I got discarded on a hospital bed with a fractured spine, yeah really after a 33 year "marriage."
@Dean-zn8du8 ай бұрын
Karma will come
@michaelliscio Жыл бұрын
i have been watching a lot of these videos for the past six months , WOW my eyes are wide open ! cant believe i been dealing with this for so many years . i literally wasted thirty five years of my life
@KvonD9836 Жыл бұрын
They could've destroyed us....if we were dolls. Hell no darling, stronger then ever! The only broken here wil be the narco ending up alone.
@deatricehightower9478 күн бұрын
A blessing a blessing
@pemmylewis2861 Жыл бұрын
Anoushka you are Amazing!
@utedawson2548 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY LIKE THIS !!!
@ceecee1913 Жыл бұрын
My ex best friend is a covert narc, I could tell she was nit picking for months. She’s didn’t like the fact I had my own life, boyfriend, job other friends. She would covertly attack everything with sly comments. I never let any of it get to me and it bothered her even more to the point where she said she had “tested me” and nothing seemed to bother me….which healthy person does that ? She clearly couldn’t take my positivity anymore and went into a narc rage over a pair of shoes. This rage went on to mention, at least 10 different things she couldn’t stand about me. It was laughable because it’s far from the person I am. But it showed me how truly disturbed she is. I responded to her calm and collective and she went into a further narc rage clearly wanting to push my buttons. I blocked her and she tried to send me a txt playing the victim and saying she hadn’t done anything wrong…blatantly tried to deny the txts I had on my phone. I then changed my number and blocked her on all social media clear psychopath . I have been living my best life ever since.
@bettydoughtery3920 Жыл бұрын
Faced a similar issue, stayed calm throughout (5 year friendship). After watching a few of these podcasts, I knew exactly how to handle a difficult withdrawal. It worked, and was slow enough that friends, for the most part, were not involved. Such a relief.
@ceecee1913 Жыл бұрын
@@bettydoughtery3920 she was my friend since high school so 23 years. She never really showed me this side of her, she was always a bit of a gossip but nothing more than that. But I noticed when I had become her one and remaining friend she began to nit pick at me. I guess she had other punching bags before so she left me alone. She comes from an Indian background and has suffered mental abuse and still does as she still lives with them in her 30’s and is not married which is unusual in their culture. Her sister escaped the family and lives a happy life. It should have been a red flag to me that everyone that fell out with her cut her off for good. But I think because I always felt sorry for her because of her childhood I also became easy to manipulate. But enough was enough never seen such evil come out of a person in my life. Glad you are narc free too, it’s the best decision ever 😃
@chrisr6223 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely spot on. I’m currently going through all of this. 6 years. It’s almost text book. I’m attempting blocking atm. It is hard.
@myGenevalewisshaw Жыл бұрын
My narcissist turn the whole city against me or she tried only people who matter knew the truth
@makashaka3725 Жыл бұрын
Just got out of an engagement with a Nac, it's still hurts deeply. Thanks a mill for this video. It makes so much sense 🙏🤗💐
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
I was a Covid nurse and worked 16 hours 7 days a week I was tired, exhausted, sad, broken. He worked out of town at the time but we always slept on the phone with each other all night long I would come home and he would literally get mad if I wouldn’t have. sexual talk with him on the phone He didn’t have one bit of empathy for me at all that a person can get tired, and had no clue what I was dealing with in the hospitals
@9secter Жыл бұрын
Thank you for opening my eyes Anoushka🙏🏼
@aw-bt4ci Жыл бұрын
My ex went for several weeks going behind my back to tell every friend we had how abusive and narcissistic *I* was with the exception of 2 and when she broke up with me she told me and I quote, "I didn't tell X or Y these things bc I wanted to make sure you had somewhere to live." lmao! How fn gracious of you to not slander me with accusations of abuse to these two friends to, out of the kindness of your heart, leave me a whole in which to crawl in and die. Fortunately for me no one believed her and almost 18 months later I still get random messages from new phone #'s asking to get back together. Shit's wild.
@marycampeau9378 Жыл бұрын
omg you totally described my ex
@LynnAdams-z4y Жыл бұрын
It was so brutal it’s been nearly 3 months and I’m still in shock and can’t stop thinking about it never in my life is anybody ever treated me like that I saw the signs he even confessed he was a narcissist and I didn’t think twice about falling in love with him oh was that a mistake
@sarahjane8949 Жыл бұрын
You will be fine 💯🤗 I’m 18 months free from that monster and feel better 🤞👏🙏🏻
@LynnAdams-z4y Жыл бұрын
@@sarahjane8949 Thank you for making me feel better Sarah it’s been three months now and I can hardly sleep and I’m hurt so deep inside maybe not so much because I miss him but because I never had an abuse so bad verbally but I know I am blessed it’s over God bless you sweetie
@dazmessent6067 Жыл бұрын
My shitty situation happened exactly as you described to the T. Unfortunately we have children together (3) yr old and a baby. She’s now using them for leveraging which I find unbelievable why someone would do this to another but thanks to your wonderful insights I don’t take any of her malicious tactics to heart anymore and only focus on being their for my babies.
@R037k Жыл бұрын
same here my boy is three years old and I love him to death, but I have to go, or wait for her last trick.
@lynetteireland Жыл бұрын
Can I ask what the leveraging is? I'm wondering if it's what my ex is doing too?
@stabbythedoll Жыл бұрын
Not all narcissistic relationships are intimate and sexual. Some are room mates, classmatrs, co workers.
@NoMoreMrNiceGuy2003 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment because I'm not here to cry about ex-gfs. It's about family of origin members who got shitty or a former friend I got fed up with
@Darren-su2gm Жыл бұрын
She also discarded me but she is the one in jail now because of her bad behavior
@lilfairycupcake Жыл бұрын
i completely understood. get the F out worked for me.
@emmajohnson6955 Жыл бұрын
Well hell now I have to watch all your post, because word for word happens just like you say.
@peat_dont_repeat Жыл бұрын
Hello, I saw and felt your empathy during the part when you said they have many people they cycle through. Yes it does hurt the viewers who are true victims of these people. Sometimes all the coaches do videos that point out how the victim picks up the traits. Please do a video on that cuz the guilt they lay on you and it is theirs and ours. Ouch it hurts like a .... WELL I WANT TO SWEAR RIGHT NOW...... DYKWIM..... THERE ARE GANGS OF THESE PEOPLE.... CULTS..... OF THE HIGHEST POWER IN THIS WORLD. I HOPE I MAKE SENSE ALSO>>... YOU MAKE SENSE THANK YOU.....
@dwaynemcinnes5914 Жыл бұрын
All of hollywood..and global elite are satanic. Fact. You are correct.
@PeterShaw-ne1yq Жыл бұрын
She was a skunk that sprayed me but I was just out of range but close enough to sniff🫤🤤 her negative potential - ie she played her hand in vain
@luvphoenix956 Жыл бұрын
my exhusband tried it with me but he had know idea I caught on to his devaluing me he had moved out without a word then when I said I wanted a divorce he said he wanted to work on our marriage I'm telling u I was so broken beyond confused but when I realized that he was a narc I started taking care of my self lost weight going to the gym twice a day facial massages every thing self care he hated it so when he asked me after a year of trying to reconcile and he said we should have an open marriage I said no but I gave him a piece of my mind because I knew I was never going to speak to him ever again I said you know what was great about this year i lost 340lbs he looked confused I said 40lbs of my own weight and 300lbs was him he was shocked then I had to dig in deeper I told him I had 3 children and my stomach is flat when are you gonna have yours I said u look 9 months pregnant and he was shocked and angry I said that about his appearance cuz I've never tried to hurt him in the 27 yrs we were married but I needed him to feel how he made me feel for years sorry not sorry 😂😂😂thanks anoushka 😊❤❤❤
@TuerlingsTim Жыл бұрын
Haha, yes the message on my side was thanks for the service and choose a new one 😉. My trick was suppose to see for a healing and asked here what was important for here in a relationship. The answer was empty. My reply was okay clear. I will choose to spend my energy on myself 😉after that message I blocked here on the phone, internet etc. That was surprising for here🤣. The result with a message surprised and she still love me. The positive part was that I can move on to heal😉
@brookejones6777 Жыл бұрын
Mine does this, while my Mom was dying
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Prayers to you
@starwilkinson8020 Жыл бұрын
This video is powerful.
@TammyRogers-mx1kl Жыл бұрын
So so very true. Mine dumped me hours after my Son had been shot in the neck!! My Son did survice the incident. My bf was making excuses why he could not come to the hospital to be with me. I called him out on speaker phone asking him if he was going to be with the one he was cheating on me with and I hung up on him. Hours later I text him Zackary was alive if he was concerned. He said he could not be with me anymore! I was dead just devastated beyond repair. Later he states we had broken up 3 months before just justify him cheating and getting caught. This man is not a man he's a pos!!!
@annettedevries7559 Жыл бұрын
I hope he reads this. I,m feeling day by day. Al little bit better no arguments fights en drama,s. No more
@edgewalker7459 Жыл бұрын
You nailed the discard to perfection, u must have known my wife lol
@lenaleong4894 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@TheRobert64 Жыл бұрын
Something that happened to me and after which I found out it is happening everywhere is-the narcissist are having the other person committed by claiming they are suicidal. My situation was I got very upset and having 2 prior heart attacks I went to a clinic to get checked because of chest pains, the narcissist who is a Nurse contacted the Dr. And told them I was suicidal and causing me to be held for observation, while I was being held against my will she cleaned out our accounts and took stuff from our home and went and hid claiming I was crazy. We were married 26 years and have grown daughters. This was 2 weeks after a family friend did the same thing, and 2 months before another friend had his wife of 40 years did the same to him. It seems to be a common thread of tearing down so they can use it against you.
@dodibenabba525 Жыл бұрын
Yes! The narc tried to get me put away twice, on the third time I made the appointment myself and had done my homework to prove I was fine and that she was a narcissist.
@michaelliscio Жыл бұрын
My wife is a covert narcissist and I filed for a divorce. She literally just tried to feed me a raw piece of salmon
@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊😊💓 for this video is outstanding advice all this is true
@andrewmulligan6844 Жыл бұрын
Very good
@jkies11 Жыл бұрын
Oh, yes. As badly as I was treated all throughout the situation, and I'm telling you he was vile, the parting shots were hilariously untrue and ridiculous. By that time he had run out of valid insults to attack me with and had to dig into his bag of rubbish and piece together a few silly adolescent slams. I simply replied that I felt sorry for him and the only reason I contacted him was because he had burned all his bridges with friends and other lovers and I feared he was the type of man to eventually eat a bullet.
@bartlichtenberg8037 Жыл бұрын
Spot on
@dianelopez8344 Жыл бұрын
After we were married I remember him saying, I can’t believe you’re mine!!”. I really did not pay much attention to his words as I thought he meant it with good intentions!? Now 30+ years still being married and discarded with all his actions and abuse he feels entitled to everything and owning me in his sick twisted mind!! He continues to make my life miserable and will not leave our home ( as we both are on the title.) The Narcissist that I am married to is a malignant narcissist and the worst person I ever encountered!! The only way out is an Attorney and lots of prayers 🙏🏼
@annadraper26 Жыл бұрын
🕯️🍀 feel hugged 💐 you will be Fine
@docnine45 Жыл бұрын
Definetly. My ex tried that with me immediately after she broke up with me. She threw every kind of insult. Called me every name except the N word. But in 5 years she didn't pay attention to the fact that insults don't effect me. It just made me go more Grey rock. That drove her crazy, and of course made her go in harder.. Ironically just 5 minutes after watching the video of What a narcissist will do when you move on. She texted me lonely, and asking why didn't I fight for her, and that she needed closure. I responded without giving her anything she was looking for, and told her I have never been a person that needed closure, and any need for closure that I could have wanted was taken away from me the day she broke up with me. So that shut her down for now. I know given some more time she'll reach out again. Also I know she's not ready for me to really answer that question. She won't be able to deal with the unrestrained honesty that I would give. I'm very thankful for these videos, as well as ones from other people on this platform. It's helped a lot with the healing.
@LynnAdams-z4y Жыл бұрын
Also I told him I had cancer and a week after he left me right when I needed him the most thank goodness my cancer is removed and I am cancer free and I am also free of that dirty old narcissistic man
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to hear that the cancer is removed and that you’re doing well I hope. I told mine one time that I had a suspicious lump in my breast that I had to get looked at that I couldn’t make our weekend plans, he got really upset and told me if I canceled our plans that he would be done with us. then proceeded to block me then unblocked me a couple weeks later didn’t ask how I was or anything. I just said that he loved me and that he wish I would do better.🙄 wow and I knew that was wrong, but still took him back. Thankfully I am out of that relationship and he is in a new one. She can have him and his mess.
@isabellehoebeke891 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏽❤ thank you.
@sharc.9259 Жыл бұрын
This is so true. He left me 2 weeks after my uncles funeral. I thought I was going to die
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to go through that. Wish you all the best
@sharc.9259 Жыл бұрын
@@AlwaysHope2019 Thank you!
@tathe3786 Жыл бұрын
He said to me, when I wanted to know what's going on again and this time it's not easy... stop forcing me into a relationship, should I give you money, that you finally leave me alone... you're destroying me! !! That was mean, vile and hurtful! That's my sore point, he knew that! I had told him that my ex-husband never really stood by me and that, as the only daughter in my family, I often had to fight for my status since my father died...
@shirleyanngilbreath4353 Жыл бұрын
Here's the ridiculous crap told hin we're done... Two days later, I love you, come over please, never gives up but still nasty, careless, evil and controlling... E. G. I will never hurt you but while choking me slso dragging me back in to his place because he cannot take no for an answer. Right he does not feel anything... The 😈 devil...
@simplyjustash Жыл бұрын
Last trick? He married someone he barely knew within a month of me kicking him out.
@AlwaysHope2019 Жыл бұрын
Do they keep watching and stalking and could possibly return even if they have a grade A Supply and it definitely isn’t a downgrade from me?
@coffeegirl6854 Жыл бұрын
My abuser did she got my own kids and grands and great grands. OMG. They are so gone now. This older ex sibling can take it up with our Creator. Unfortunately they can no longer exists. I had not been allowed to have feelings for a long long time. It is so sad she (and the others)were able to get at those i loved most😢 She knew right where to get everyone to dig their knives in. I feel bad for my kids. But they are adults now. They know what they have done. They know. They were egged on to help try to murder me inside. May our Creator rebuke them.
@noturbo Жыл бұрын
Her last message to me was (That i hate her, she wants to die and that she loves me.) never heard from her since. If you see this i been a mess ever since, hope you feel good LOL
@meganfreer6505 Жыл бұрын
My 8 year relationship ended with him trying to strangle me. I had to get our dog put down. He took the car. And now I am still finding it hard to get a few of my personal things back. He msg he hates me then he msg he loves me. This goes on all day everyday for the last 3 weeks after the break up. How much more can a person take??
@tb22k Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@faithanddevotion Жыл бұрын
Why would they not want to move on if they don't want you to any.kre or don't want to have them with you??
@dannyturczyn763 Жыл бұрын
Where is the description box what does it look like? I don't see it I can never find it
@tyhurley7815 Жыл бұрын
Why and how do they stay married for years?
@sleepydoppy8516 Жыл бұрын
I allowed her to throw me out 3 times and cheated 3 timed. She also tried to kill herself and blamed my boys and I because she felt guiltily for forcing us to move to a new state when the kids were in 11 and 12 grade. 4 weeks before my last son graduated she told me we needed to find a smaller place to save money. I said, " i can't wait to start our live together just us. We looked at 7 places and decided to stay anouther year. Next thing i know, I have 30 days to move out because she found a plce to live. Funny how it was the one place i said looked a little unsafe. Of course she move to that place. I have no car i have zero money and i am briken. However, I will never contact her at all, unless one of the boys has something b8g going on. To make sure she could not get near me again, i moved back home 2000 miles away. Her whole family is horrible. I'm so worried about my oldest son. No dought he has narcissistic tendencys.
@Sally-vn5le Жыл бұрын
"Season 3"😂😂
@coffeegirl6854 Жыл бұрын
It was so bad. I had to basically perform an ambutation.
@coffeegirl6854 Жыл бұрын
* amputation
@taze317 Жыл бұрын
No. I will have the last word. Narcissist? How about crazy? I will destroy my narc daughter in court, just as I have once already. Don't step up to dad.
@alanmiller36629 күн бұрын
i told my ex girlfriend npd that i have a new girlfriend that i am very happy with and i have been taking her shopping and out to dinner a 5star resturants, do you think this me telling her this will get her to stop hovering me,? please LMK your opinion.
@TheTelesam Жыл бұрын
When are you online ? Live stream date and time thanks
@anoushkamarcin Жыл бұрын
I am going to be live streaming this Tuesday 18th July at 9pm BST Hope you can join us 😊
@steenkristensen6351 Жыл бұрын
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@ironmindvideopodcast9309 Жыл бұрын
Great video but please could you lower the volume of the background music. Very hard to hear your words. Thank you for posting.
@SweepDailyWin Жыл бұрын
Video right on time!😂 😘😘😘🤍✨️
@dcikaruga6 ай бұрын
Free will? Come to think of it, do narcissist's actually have a mind of their own? Their own sense of free will?
@faithanddevotion Жыл бұрын
Why would they need this too feel better?? If they want to you not to move on why would they want you back but not want you back....I don't get it.
@sylettemonroe8878 Жыл бұрын
Because they are insane.
@thomasc2680 Жыл бұрын
@faithanddevotion Like children they want what they want when they want it.
@aronhighgrove4100 Жыл бұрын
Too generic. Not having closure is what can keep you "attached" when in real you don't care about them, but the harsh situation they refuse to clarify. People can have trouble to move on or have anxious attachment for many reasons, especially after a traumatic relationship.
@lorettapenney7328 Жыл бұрын
Me 😂😂😂😂😂
@lorettapenney7328 Жыл бұрын
I had the last laugh
@grays13371 Жыл бұрын
ure so obsessed about them did u lie ?
@olivelane3044 Жыл бұрын
Trauma bonding is when you're attracted to a person who consistently betrays you in one way or another. Yet you feel addicted to the abuser and panic at mere thought of leaving. One part of you wants to leave, another, stay. This inner conflict usually stems from the abuser's confusing behavior , shifting from cruel to tender. You find yourself making excuses for their behavior no matter how many times you get hurt. One of the reason for trauma bonding is the attempt of resolving your childhood traumas through the deductive relationship. You try to get the abuser to change and love you even though show little or no capacity for healthy love,my cousin told me about this professional investigator @JOEY_TOOL , who could get into his cell phone and all drives. I found dirty things on his phone that really helped. Don't let your narcissist partner abuse you no more.