The ONE Person You Should ALWAYS Avoid

#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #negative
A nitpicker is a person who finds faults, however small or unimportant, everywhere they look. After seeing a movie, a nitpicker lists every tiny thing he or she didn't like about it.
Use the informal nitpicker when you're talking about someone who is extremely critical, even when those criticisms seem inconsequential. If you can always find something to complain about, you're probably a nitpicker. a nitpicker is as careful and meticulous about finding faults as a literal nitpicker would be about finding each tiny nit
Having high expectations is certainly not a bad thing. However, when high expectations translate into nitpicking, it is a problem. Some nitpickers are just highly arrogant types who think they know what’s best for everyone. Others are actually anxious and worrisome, and they nitpick because they need to feel some sense of control. Others believe that they are offering the team a valuable contribution by over-analyzing everything
If you are a nitpicking boss, you could be crushing employees’ morale. Every time you pick apart an employees’ work, they’ll think “Man, I can’t do anything right,” and they may give up trying to meet your unrealistic expectations. It’s demoralizing to work hard on something, only to have the boss disregard the effort and positive qualities and focus on some trivial detail.

[@Forged88]

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[@Forged88]

I forgot to mention one other thing in the video. This type of individual also expects you to do favours for them from time to time, and they'll tell you through implying that you either "Haven't" or "Should've" done so

[@anonenoemos4895]

I have been watching your content for a long time and I really wish we could be able to talk to you some how

[@rimasoosamir8167]

I guess you've got one person in mind.

[@africaart]

@@rimasoosamir8167 The video almost spoil my mood because I could picture two 'bastards' (as he put it).

[@FMATheQuiet]

Excuse me, mr forged, are you from Indonesia?

[@cigarmonkey]

Can I edit your videos?

[@LionelKnight]

Recently figured out that it was my father that did this to me. Now, no matter what I accomplish it never feels like enough. But I am healing, and I have already begun to take massive action in the opposite direction. Thanks for this video mate.

[@Forged88]

I believe he feels insecure that you have accomplished, or on your way to accomplishing more than him when he was at your age, or even in his entire life

[@poopoobanana8594]

mr forged i thank you for all the advice and wisdom you have given us dudes. you have helped me during my self improvement journey. some people ive encountered in my life try to tell me who i am and who i am not but thanks to your wisdom and advice. you have helped me stay true to myself. never lose yourself king okay, sadly there will be many people who would want to try and break you down and become this mindless husk of a man snuffing out all the potential you have in your life. i wish you the best and once again i thank you for what you do. men like you give us dudes hope to live our life to the fullest so one day when our time has come we may die with a smile on our face

[@Forged88]

Thank you for that mate. Speaking of bringing me down, there is one long time subscriber that have done just that in the comment section. Perfect timing mate 👊

[@michaelwolf8024]

This video is truly valuable! Recently had to cut off my “best friend” cuz he was a chronic nitpicker and gaslighter. Such a good explanation of such a subtle and dangerous type of person. Thank you!

[@Long-cock-johnson-lll]

How long ago was this?

[@eliaspittman]

It took me until 42 to finally admit that some of my closest relatives and friends were like this. I cut them out of my life and it’s a wonderful feeling not being gas lite on a daily basis and being constantly confused because my accomplishments by all accounts were awesome to me but seemed like sh@@ to them. I recently invented a brand new exercise equipment that will change the way people strengthen their lower abdominal muscles and they treated it like it was nothing and stupid so I cut them out and I’m bringing it to market in June of this year 💯🙏🙏

[@danielcox7383]

Whats the equipment??

[@danielcox7383]

​@offroadguy7772i smell something

[@eliaspittman]

It’s already being sold !!!

[@_SpiritDan_]

One insidious form this can take is when you have achieived something, and these nit pickers turn around to say something along the lines of "next time you'll do better". It initially sounds like encouragement, but if you really put attention on it, you quickly come to realize there was never any aspect of acknowledging or celebrating your achievement. It can be hard to spot as there are people out there who genuinely say and mean these comments. But when it comes to the nit pickers, like Mr Forged mentions in the video, you need to keep watch for their eye contact and body language. They will almost never look directly at you, or have closed body language/always be facing away. It can take a long time to pick up on, but eventually you come to realize these people never positively acknowledge any achievements made by others. Spent my childhood surrounded by this kind of attitude from almost every close adult in my life (anyone who was in my life on an even semi regular basis). Got more praise, encouragement and celebration from complete strangers than anyone i actually knew. Eventually it wears you down and makes you feel like you're never good enough, but you'll never really understand why.

[@africaart]

I have SOME extended family that are actual enemies, so I know how to carefully run away from these types of people... Deal with them with a long spoon or from a distance (acting as if i didn't feel the passive aggressive mockery)... We are such social animals that sometimes we have to eat with an enemy, smile with an enemy and even attend an enemy's party in the name of diplomacy.

[@fadexrucks1598]

Oh my god. It is like you know what I am going through. These people will frame their evil as they are doing it because they care and want you to be better. Thank God for you, your video and for the internet.

[@coltonkosto98]

Really cool that you started this channel bruv. people need to grow and prosper together and this is definitely a vessel for that

[@jetlifelifejet3658]

Another great video sir! Thank you all the advice and support. Like button smashed!!!

[@Forged88]

Much appreciated brother 👊 How've you been mate? Haven't being seeing you active here for quite some time

[@jetlifelifejet3658]

@@Forged88 I've been good sir, thanks for asking!

[@hernanevales2211]

This is the most straightforward 5-minute video I have ever watched.

[@coltonkosto98]

People like that usually get dismissed in my life...took time to recognize but a quick "hey, nobody fucking asked you" is the type of abrupt rudeness that seems to work temporarily

[@Idleon_n_chill]

I love your voice and way of speakin!

[@kellypittman7004]

great video. new subscriber. Love the context.

[@younggenah4940]

Real sum👊 on point

[@johnanthony4650]

I don't have words for your Mr. Forge the only word that fits you is Perfectionist.

[@hussainkhan3319]

Why have I not heard of this channel before! Thank you so much for all the valuable info Mr. Forge.

[@ryllebalingit4489]

I've already realized the nitpickers of my life like months ago but didn't have the word to describe them thank you for enlightening me

[@cupramen7977]

I realized that i nitpick myself and need to give myself more credit. Its not necessarilya toxic cycle but a method i have developed to constantly look towards a better future for myself. It can get a bit exhausting at times though

[@balasaravanan500]

This was very much needed at this time. Thank you very much brother 🙏

[@babsyyt4696]

Thanks for this one now I'll purge my "friends" so I can filter the real "friends"

[@mohamedaleem7351]

Soo true. Misery loves company. Dear Gentleman, Your work is amazing.

[@dexter5679]

I only have the negative people in my life, they are all small minded there is no masculinity, brotherhood or truth, they only be friends for fun no real friendship is there. I am tired of everything, everything now I feel like I want alone place to live, I feel like I don't want anybody, I am struggling in every area of my life and also in my mind so tired.

[@Real-1]

I'm tired of some people too, but we have no options but to better ourselves and get out of the situation with time. Keep struggling.

[@hbh7868]

Looks like Mr Forged took this one personally

[@saysamnang9851]

He seem sensitive af lmaoo from my view and from experience these type of people are usually jealous I rarely fking care these people don’t affect me at all and this forge dude seem to tried and please them from what he is saying basically it kinda his fault that he care abt what they think lmao

[@akunnaufo7250]

No shit

[@angelsantillan2115]

@@saysamnang9851projecting much?

[@Focus293]

Look at you being a nitpicker.

[@Ajm833]

@@Focus293😂

[@theunraveler]

"The unseen blade is the deadliest" - Zed, League of Legends

[@leozo5000]

I love the words you choose, its inspiring me to expand my vocabulary

[@frxk1765]

Would love a video about the perspective of knowing your life is temporary and should you even bother living up to your so-called "maximum potential" as a person or maybe there is an even bigger picture of this topic

[@amoahdaniel8135]

One person (you) should always avoid, instead of ( YOUR)🤝📌, MR Forged 🏆

[@Forged88]

Oopsy daisy

[@jacksavage279]

The most dangerous weapon known to man is the tongue 👅.

[@DRDOOM-od7uj]

I am one of the procrastinators but only in school now instead of crying about it I'll do something about it I'm cutting off my friends who are addicted to pornography and are weak with a weak mind set thanks to you I will try I will become the ideal man no matter how long it takes and I'm still not gonna do my school work cuz it makes me stress and they don't even let me horse play with my friends at school

[@tonrickharris7730]

Thanks for sharing 👏💯🔥🔥🔥

[@markoteskera2603]

imagine being strong/capable enough to achieve a certain thing/feat in your life and then having that achievement shattered because of something someone else said... jesus... sounds like a lack of self-respect/self-esteem to me... actually, it reminds me of those supposedly "happy" people who get instantly bummed out after a sad story...

[@chinikery2590]

This video helped me find the perfect word to describe my dad

[@ChiDante]

I recognize i really liked watching this one... Those are alot of people tho .i guess it's sometimes a matter of zooming perspective in a lighthearted way. Overly or underly observing the material input.. An obsessive neglect or a neglecting obsession,

[@KJ-pu8dw]

You just described my parents

[@georixyo7115]

the worst one is when your parents act like this 😁. That's why I will never share my successes with them.

[@shreyshah8144]

First! You're goated, Mr Forged - would you be able to make a video about your own story?

[@jonatanrodrigues3658]

My arts teacher on middle school was like that. She would always complain about our drawings. "this line could have been better", "the contrast on this drawing is off", "you could have used a better combination of colors". Everyone on my class hated her, the complains were so high that the principal had to replace her with the teacher that teached the children from the kindergarden. At least the replacement teacher liked our drawings.

[@Forged88]

I bet she also had trouble getting laid

[@shahan10able]

There is always a fine line to tread, I had a teacher who usually pointed out the things we did well in any task, before offering critique on things we could have improved, I believe that is the most effective way to teach an art student, without deprecating nor spoiling them.

[@combatxhoop7069]

True those kind of people are annoying

[@combatxhoop7069]

SPOT ON

[@boywitdapipe3514]

Thought hard. I am my own nitpicker 😅. But at least I don’t nitpick others

[@TheTherekrap]

Does this also apply to yourself as an individual? Disguised as self improvement leading to never being happy with what you have no matter how much blood sweat and tears it takes?

[@cremedrip]

Imagine if all those negative people comes from within your family. How do you escape ?

[@Findout_1]

Just ask them "where is your bugatti?"

[@shawkibouhroud]

I'll simply reply What BMW Version do u have?

[@EndUzer]

The people you talking about are called 'malignant sociopaths'. One of their psychological weapon is to always undervalue what you achieve. because they are not capable of doing it themselves

[@haydeanbeatz1449]

Interesting.

[@exjay9366]

Love the Prince of Persia thumbnail

[@mperor3530]

Only the true OGs recognize the empress

[@sambuddhar]

damn thanks for making me realize ima nitpicker myself

[@rimasoosamir8167]

'the delusional incompetent' lol. Me.

[@kingpin2760]

Where do u get ur stock photo

[@duke3229]

5 words.

[@christophermccutcheon2143]

Ah I thought this was gonna go deeper than a nitpicker after all that build up through the intro :(

[@midnightjazz7763]

Sounds like a hater. It comes from within their own insecurities. Its very rare I encounter these types of people. Maybe because they don't last long in my life.

[@justleoky8287]

If you're watching this video and you thought of someone then there definitely it 💯

[@monoXcide01]

"You can walk on water and your haters will say it's because you can't swim" - David Goggins

[@anomaly_echelon7994]

Reminds me of all the Elon Musk haters XD

[@bluedragon4168]

I took the life I had and my mind. You can only give me your boring money and fake "success"

[@duke3229]

I don’t want to expose you INTP.

[@danielcox7383]

90% of icebergs are below the sea.

[@safethamzagic7226]

Covert narcissist

[@redsol3629]

Buddha was a bum.

[@snuouun9672]

The world is not happy. Life doesn't revolve around positivity. Nothing matters. And in the end whatever lives, will die. Stop the struggle and note that we all are in an never ending cycle of misery. There's your positivity of the day, ya blond haired - pink nailed - tea suckling - womb lady.