The Other Side of SHADOW WORK

[@nehemilia5033]

I am tired of people treating me as if my feelings and opinions dont matter;

[@wouterdesmedt1736]

“Noone can take feeling good away from you anymore, except for you.” Mind blown, as usual. Thank you. 💚

[@CandacevanDell]

Bunny McBunnyBun 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

This sacred belief I discovered when I was 7, is what has kept me alive... (unbeknownst to me, until my early 40’s) ❣️

[@wintersnow6816]

I would self sabotage because being loved does not feel good, it triggers anxiety, and it makes me feel like i cannot breathe properly. I know it s weird, but it just does not feel good, at all. Bless You Angel ✊💖💖

[@MarriageSupper06]

Your videos are a concise jab of light that's warm enough to integrate, peace to all here ☀️

[@GypsyJulie]

I needed to hear this today! 4 yrs ago I was mobbed by my sisters after posting on FB that my jewelry was in a magazine. I stood up to them, which caused my father to tell me in a very violent way that if I was against one I was against all of them. Went no contact! Since then I struggle with my creativity. This morning I received an email with a exciting offer for my jewelry business. Wow, am I triggered. Part of me wants to ignore the offer...self sabotage for sure! Will calm down and respond to the email!

[@jasonleeauthor2036]

There’s an addiction to the comfort of the chaos. That’s the paradox. Because of my upbringing in an unstable and inconsistent childhood, I only knew love as an unstable and unavailable form. It feels “safe”. Thus, as an adult I realize my self sabotaging is to create chaos or instability in order to feel safe and comfortable. Truth. It took me a while to get to this realization.

[@jasonleeauthor2036]

This is an excellent outstanding video and content. Your wisdom is profound and I just want to say thank you.

[@notavailable708]

5:50 healing.😊🧡

[@willmooney6096]

Relxently self forgibed a light issue

[@madonnahooper7490]

I love it. I love it. I want some more of it . Insert happy dance here ... :) :)

[@slinkyminx2010]

Great timing. This was coming up for me this morning. I have this strongly perceptive part that becomes active when I really start to validate my emotions/ intuition but fear comes up too that always leads to me feeling I have to sedate/control this part and I was feeling into how I could start managing it. Thanks for sharing!

[@anangeluiza]

this is beautiful!

[@MultidimensionalProductions]

The timing of this is impeccable thank you once again, you're amazing

[@ntovar2088]

LOVE your videos! and thank you so much! ❤

[@CandacevanDell]

Thank you!!!

[@carlossinrastro2736]

how come you know so perfectly what I feel? thanks for the guidance... I hope soon Ill make it to your courses because when I watch your videos I feel that you reach exactly to where I am today, and I need to move on from many Many of those patterns... again... thank you master!

[@CandacevanDell]

Carlos Sin Rastro beautiful, thank you for sharing!! Please try to join emotional rehab. It’s just what the doctor ordered!! emotionalrehab.candacevandell.com

[@joakimwahlberg6567]

Thank you.

[@SoNiels]

Candace you are so amazing - so enlightening and beautifully and eloquently expressed! Thank you for being you - thank you for sharing with all of us 🙏🏻🧡 Blessings

[@lesliehunsinger7644]

Thank you so much 💕 I was a scape goat child. And I literally outed myself to my husband for the same reason! I freak and am uncomfortable when things are going well. It is getting better and I really appreciate what you do

[@PO-si4ty]

So true, Candace. Thanks for sharing. Such a great talk.

[@bzznz]

Thank You Candace, your insight and intuition - collective consciousness - is brilliant and a pleasure to experience. This was a welcome reminder 🙏

[@pinkglitterbunny6484]

candace is such a pretty fairy here to save humanity🧚🏻‍♀️

[@LoreMIpsum-vs6dx]

Candace, this helped a lot. Thank you.

[@Aceldama013]

Wow!!! I was the scape goat 🐐 for my narcissistic mum she blamed me for everything so now as a audlut am a empath i have started positive affirmations that i will not be my mums scape goat 🐐 over an over again am trying to retain my brain 🧠 i do alot of meditation an also positive affirmation s an also mirror work i was a sabotager but when i started to meditate an positive affirmation s an now i am healin my layers now thats funny this video has come up as have work threw all this an getting to become a stronger empath an usin my voice so please people if this is u to please try these wonderful techniques an affirmation s as they do work!!! Namaste 🙏 good luck all an no your no one scape goat 🐐 no more sendin love an light on this hard but worth it journey!!! 💕💕 please give yourself self love xxx ✨✨✨✨✨✨no 🐐!!!

[@willmooney6096]

Path if least resistance

[@notavailable708]

Pleaseeeeeeee make a video on soul retrieval. What's your take on that?

[@camarorules1]

So what about family that can't accept me when my light shines...it's so lonely

[@thetemplelaboratory]

Ask yourself, "why do I want to be around people that can't accept me?" I've noticed when I run back to abusive relationships from the past- I old self defeating habits emerge. I've also noticed when I take the time to hibernate and focus on meeting my basic needs *and having fun* suddenly new people show up in my life. Ones with that match my new vibrational frequency. Don't focus on the old, create the new. You've got this. I love you.

[@620annika]

@@thetemplelaboratory This is wonderful to hear. I completely agree. I feel like I had a very similar experience

[@willmooney6096]

Breaks it down

[@sulviagania5665]

Do we have control over our destiny??????

[@nehemilia5033]

i just feel like my voice is being shut down all the time and i dont know what to do about it

[@redblueiris]

What happens when the girlfriend says she wants to sabotage the relationship but the boyfriend had already pre-sabotaged in advance of her sabotage ? Is it possible for the boyfriend to un-sabotage the pre-sabotage or should he sabotage her sabotage attempt??

[@nehemilia5033]

Please i need help