The Universe Doesn't PUNISH & REWARD, people do

[@SoNiels]

This needs to be in the educational system Candace I am serious! Courses on emotional intelligence and regulation and becoming unswayed in your sense of self in a balanced way - truly amazing! Your work is amazing and your way of explaining concepts is outstanding! Thanks for all that you do and share with us 🧡🙏🏻 Blessings

[@rdickinsondickinson]

Authority Jiddu Krishnamurti quote If someone has helped you and you make of him your authority, then are you not preventing all further help, not only from him, but from everything about you? Does not help lie about you everywhere? Why look in only one direction? And when you are so enclosed so bound, can any help reach you? But when you are open, there is unending help in all things, from the song of a bird to the call of a human being, from the blade of grass to the immensity of the heavens. The poison and corruption begin when you look to one person as your authority, your guide, your saviour.

[@elhadjdiallo633]

Alack of self love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe!!!! Dont chase people , be yourself , do your own thing and work hard , i mean working smarter , the right people the one who really belong in your life will come to you and stay !!!!

[@Aurelia2147]

This comes at perfect timing! Only last night did I have a crying fit because I don’t know what I’m doing at it feels like I’ve been not taking opportunities the universe has granted to me. For a good amount of time was I asking for forgiveness from the universe because I feel like I failed so much. Maybe your video is kind of the response of the universe, if one believes in that. Thank you! It helped immensely to watch this

[@TeraMangala]

If you can experience that, only then will you realise a degree of contentedness, because then there is nothing miss. All is well with the world.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

yes

[@bankheadpolo]

What i got from this is the universe loves you no matter what and it bless you with everything you need most humans in the world condition is Into bad people we was created beautiful beings the truth was already in us human just want control

[@xw6475]

This is a such a underrated video. Your being and message is so enlightening and you have no idea how much you have helped me just by listening to you and being present. I found your video 2 days ago and i believe we cross each other path for a reason. Thank you so so much Candace, thank you so much for sharing your light with this world. Universe bless and stay blessed.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

This is the most deep and universally true video you have made Candace!! And I am not surprised at all that I see the usual pattern, that there are more dislikes than usual, when someone is Really speaking the truth, without sugar coating, or looking at things solely from the ego point of view. Confronting early on that it is the ego structure that creates our suffering, and that this "ego" isn't us, surely upsets some people who are still in victim mentality- and thus reality. It is not "their fault", they simply haven't had this life expansive realization as of yet. But it is natural and will occur for all human beings, all. For some not in this or the next life time, it all depends on things beyond our "control" ( we don't have any real control in this life, and that is the beauty of it all. "The unknown" is our liberation, not our limitation ) but without the source life force "within"/throughout us, there is no human experience. The body-mind cannot be, without "You", beyond the concept of "you"/ego/personality. And yes, it implies that our parents, all and everyone are "that" too. Any human can realize this, but judgment, separation, prejudice of the mind will kick in very quickly when the reality and ultimate truth comes into their field of experience, and in this case on here, on KZbin, it will yield a dislike. "Eyyy nothing is my fault!!" "I am not an ego!!!" Yeah.. Who is the one speaking/writing? :) Anyway, thank you for going deep for real, and beyond the mentally based concepts of fear, separation, and thus - delusion. We don't need anything outside ourselves, and there is no past or future, just this very moment, on and on. That is our liberation, freedom and ecstasy. No one has ever experienced the past or the future, we can only think of them, and we think of them when exactly? Right, Now, in the present moment. All the love to everyone. Namaskar

[@drawingjackrabbit401]

You'd make a wonderful prison counsellor. I think all people in there need to hear this aswell as myself. Great job ❤

[@rdickinsondickinson]

Authority Jiddu Krishnamurti quote If someone has helped you and you make of him your authority, then are you not preventing all further help, not only from him, but from everything about you? Does not help lie about you everywhere? Why look in only one direction? And when you are so enclosed so bound, can any help reach you? But when you are open, there is unending help in all things, from the song of a bird to the call of a human being, from the blade of grass to the immensity of the heavens. The poison and corruption begin when you look to one person as your authority, your guide, your saviour.

[@CandacevanDell]

Jack Maine Thank you, I would love to speak at a prison!!

[@CandacevanDell]

richard dickinson The point of my video is to NOT look to a person but to a higher power.

[@wintersnow6816]

Yes, when we are being ourselves, people do punish us due to my non acceptance of the way i am. Much Love 🌻🍀💐 Ok, build an identity. Thank You

[@alessia_antonia]

Dear Candace, another beautiful video that has found me in the right moment. So touching, really made me cry and just got to that piece of my heart that was hurting. I am so grateful for you.

[@annieholt3256]

Your channel has had such a beautifully positive impact on my healing. Thank you so much.

[@heatherlynn3438]

“Don’t be deceived. God is not mocked. Whatsoever a man sows, that he will reap”. Most basic Bible Word concept on this subject. We don’t need to punish people for their wrongs against us. We need Jesus!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@CandacevanDell]

Heather Lynn 🙏🏻

[@clairecropper]

Thank you, Candace. Synchronicity is so delightful.

[@madonnahooper9641]

The more I do this work the more things seem to "bump up" against me, but I'm realising when that happens it's an opportunity to say, "Hmm, my reaction is pretty heightened for a small thing, wonder why?" and look at it honestly from the meaning I've attached emotionally to it - which comes from an old wound. Always opportunities for healing and growth the more my eyes are opened since working with you, your KZbin videos and most importantly my own noticing and validation of those childhood emotions.

[@graziacavasino8884]

At last someone besides me saying all that! Thank you, Candance, you are fantastic. Sending love from Italy

[@trustme_imnoone]

This video really opened my eyes and has helped me so much! Thank you!!

[@AStarryEyedLife]

You are wonderful. You’re really helping me right now. Thank you, so much.

[@meganl5233]

Such amazing insight Candace, thank you!!

[@MegaKoko15]

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! I love you.. thank you for this.. I was meditating on this.. and I found this.. ♥️

[@chrysalisveganarts]

I feel there is need for more flexibility around the notion of good or bad. And in this video it got confusing at times because we are limited by language and conventions. For example, if I feel the need to do drugs because that was part of my journey, taking drugs is considered ‘bad’ but it may still have had a hidden spiritual explanation. Also, sometimes time has to pass to get a sense of whether something was good or bad; in principle these ideas cancel each other out in the true sense of the universe.

[@nehemilia5033]

Only love Can heal

[@jeremyking3986]

That’s what I’m going through. My wife left me, so there must be something wrong with me. And she was a bad wife, but I don’t focus on that, I focus on the abandonment, the rejection.

[@jennalee2134]

Jeremy King you are worthy. You are beautiful. You are enough. ❤️

[@maissakaizen1714]

Thank you so much that so helpful

[@sarapatch616]

Ive been taught no matter what good I do it won't ever be enough 😒

[@nehemilia5033]

And life is energy

[@shopgirl4956]

Mind❤️Blown! #spoton

[@nehemilia5033]

Let love lead

[@nehemilia5033]

Life is believe.

[@Youtuspace]

I'm really astonished by this subject and it's seems simple to understand, but not to syntonize with. I recognize that punishment and reward are concepts that were created by humans but it's so rooted in our society that it's difficult to eliminate it completely. Being aware of this, what advices/ what do you think it's better in what concerns children education? ''Black & White views'' are outdaded, so how can we teach children there are consequences for their actions and simultaneously be loving and compreenhsive towards them, accepting who they really are? I hope I made myself understand (as you said in another video, I'm a HSP and- an Indigo- so I still fear to be misunderstood xD)

[@Youtuspace]

I certainly haven't yet overcome all my conditioning etc lol xD

[@Youtuspace]

One more thing ahah xD Would it be possible for you to share the script of the videos too? Because reading gives a more wider perspective on all this and it's better for consulting, reflecting etc. Watching your videos now and loving it :D xx

[@lordvenus7999]

my sweet lovely coach..

[@Trevurr]

I would love to see a video regarding your views on the darker side of the law of attraction. I hear from so many people that if you're dealing with anxiety or depression then you're just attracting negative energy and making it worse. I never liked that because it sounds like blaming someone for their own mental illness, like "Well if you were more positive then you wouldn't be sad all the time!" It doesn't seem fair that having a chemical imbalance you can't control equals drawing more negative things into your life to pile on top. How do we ever get out of the hole?

[@Trevurr]

Love your videos by the way they really help me

[@IsitReallyrealreally]

Maybe start with not believing in the 'chemical' imbalance and practise some balance

[@TheGlamAgent]

It’s more so your belief

[@nehemilia5033]

Thé Law of life is thé law of belief

[@adelbertuskennethfernaldy5783]

Hey, thanks for making these videos, it really helps a lot, love it. But lately I am doubting myself as highly sensitive. I always been misunderstood, having attachment trauma, but I'm not sure whether I can feel people's feeling or not. Because in normal situation, I can't tell the difference, since if I can feel, that means I will always feel, and if not, I always not. Sometimes I can suddenly know what's people motive, but not all the time, and I'm not sure whether that sudden "knowing" is correct, or just some random thought. What are the sure sign of highly sensitive? Thank youuuu

[@willmooney6096]

Wow

[@heartsofgoldenrod]

What does that mean? I know what it means when I say it to my child, but how do I turn that inwards when I’m uncertain about an action?

[@connieace16]

An ad during the video. Horrible. 😭 Other than that: great talk. 😊

[@wouterdesmedt1736]

This explains all of religion throughout the entire history of human kind. 🤷‍♂️

[@CandacevanDell]

Bunny McBunnyBun 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻you get it

[@lailarose999]

ok but what about karma?? like if u hurt someone wouldn't the universe give it back?

[@lorenzo399]

❤️

[@GOLDSTEIN106]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

[@yaellynn649]

What about the universe punishing you by you breaking an arm?

[@stoogey1]

god or the universe doesn't punish? I think bringing you into the world and your biological parents don't want you, and taking away your adopted mom, dad, grandad, brother, and uncle before you started high school is a EXTREME form of punishment. I've not been enough since birth, and god or the universe shows me every waking minute of every day that i'm not.

[@rileyreagan7378]

I don't know. YOU DO BAD THINGS AND YOU'RE OK WITH IT? Confused. If you know it's bad or it hurt someone and you're ok with it, how is that helpful, productive or constructive for anyone? I vibe with most of what you're saying, but that piece of information seems dangerous to me.

[@catalinapopi2892]

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