The Neuropsychology of Men During No contact (SHOCKING!!!)

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Today we’re going to talk about the psychology of men during no contact.
First of all, most people, they’ll be able to hold on for a few days or maybe even a few weeks. The goal of no contact is to make the guy submit to you in a weird way, to make him come chasing back or to right a wrong that he did or to give you more leverage but the core of no contact is to inflict pain. This is the type of pain that men feel:
1. Envy and jelousy- men naturally feel competition. Every action that you do could potentially mean that you found another guy. It’s a lot easier to project things that are not there and if you’re trying to make him jealous, don’t be so obvious because he’s paying attention to everything.
2. A desire to connect with you - because there’s no oxytocin. What would happen if he actually loved you or liked you and you made no contact with him, it’s gonna make him long for a connection.
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[@QueenB-yv7br]

NEVER EVER be too available to a man who hasn’t let you know he is serious about. Get a career, travel, get a hobby, build wealth anything but running your life around a man who is not going to be your partner. Thank me later. Went through it twice got out of the relationship had to start all over. Have your ish so if he’s gone you have a fulfilled life still. Thank me later ladies.

[@cherankimiorak1739]

The realest here 😍🙏🏽

[@Lxoxo333]

🥳 this right here! 👏👏👏 ☝🏼 FACTS

[@luckie6682]

Amen, I walk away silently, gone on with my career, I will not allow any man too waste my time and energy, cause if he truly love you he will move mountains for you, he will help you build, he will help you too grow, and you will blossom, its equal give and take in a relationship, marriage, has nothing too do with just sex either, some of these women act like their danzel in distress and baby thats co dependcy, not good ladies, you are your own beautiful individual, make them give you respect and honor, you, Amen

[@floml7073]

Well said! Thank you for your wise words I screenshot your comment to always remind myself

[@breanna2408]

So not wrong

[@zubieM]

No contact is the perfect strategy when you realise you are dealing with an abuser or a narcissist- they CAN NOT stand it!

[@CashFlow287]

shouldn't you be leaving an abuser or narcissist permanently instead of using strategies?

[@Stephanie-dx1eo]

@cashow literally lol

[@lincolnhtschick]

Then it should be PERMANENT no contact!

[@shanaz3]

I’m about to try this and find out how crazy he will go

[@SanctifiedLady]

Raid?! 🪳 make them feel like a loser that they are and run

[@blak_momba3056]

I went no contact for two and a half months. He kept contacting me periodically. After a while he started contacting me more especially when I started post of ig again. He went crazy!!! He would not give up! I was trying to make it to three months but I gave in after two and a half because he texted me saying it was an emergency. I said ok so he FaceTimed me. The minute I saw his face I broke. He told me he loved me. We been together ever sense. Yes we still have problems but we work to fix them….. it does work but only if the guy loves you!!!

[@ToxicLittyGaming]

Did he love you enough to not risk leaving you and possibly losing you forever?

[@everythingpal]

Awwhh sweet what would you reckon if you don't know each other well

[@feiwaan]

@@dreamkitty unfortunately that’s how life works. You have to play the game

[@dreamkitty]

@@feiwaan no you don’t. many people aren’t playing games and would never

[@feiwaan]

@@dreamkitty Generally, people take for granted what is easy to access. People take for granted the one who is too nice, too available. Doesn’t mean there aren’t people who wouldn’t appreciate you. But they are few. That’s why we play these “games” in relationship. It’s called games but it’s really tactics to preserve your value, and appear emotionally grounded, rational and not out of control. When we fall in love, we are bound to do things out of naivety, and out of that emotion of love, and you could be taken for granted if you aren’t employing the right actions. That’s why Robert Greene wrote his “48 laws of power” book. Cos the world works differently than we thought.

[@farfetched9296]

I'll stay single til I die. Ppl are sick af. Between the games, entitlement, and ego I'll continue to love myself. It's no drama nor bs

[@KimberlyH.]

I used to think like that. Dating is a lot of work, if you don't understand the dynamics of the male and female brains. Really, it's a self esteem thing. Dating is about knowing what you want and how you want to feel. Anything less than is a no-go

[@The_Muse_73]

Yes this 100❤ I’ll love myself We came into this world alone and we will leave alone so learn to love yourself

[@verab2700]

Exactly right!

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

No Contact works- so does being willing to Walk Away…. Another great video Alexis!

[@farfetched9296]

No contact is just feeding the dysfunction. Walking away is way better. Never know when you're dodging a bullet

[@adamsandlermovie9355]

Was gonna say the same!! Walking away is the best choice in mose cases

[@Soouber]

Exactly...always walk away! If it doesn't flow, u cut it off at source....remember you only want one person, not many...so that means many frogs!

[@demetricchapman460]

No contact along with walk away

[@Eyesofanenigmaticsoul]

“Not feeling fulfilled makes you search for love”

[@heiditugers]

I disagree. The purpose of no contact is to get someone who has nothing to offer you, or is toxic out of your life. When someone shows me who they are I believe them and move on. I don’t need to do a replay when I already know what I am dealing with. A snake doesn’t turn into a puppy by you going no contact, or wishful thinking.

[@Alinenebulosa]

He is telling how the other person reacts to it. Your reasons to no contact are only yours

[@basicinfo2022]

It's also to help you detox the love drug chemicals and regain clarity.

[@heiditugers]

@@basicinfo2022 💯

[@abenadickson1660]

This!❤

[@willowmalone9215]

Protect this man at all costs! He is a treasure!

[@HealingNomad]

The first time I did it he ended up working and made me his girlfriend afterwards. We dated for 2 years. Didn’t know this is what happens i genuinely wanted space because he wasn’t acting right. It works. It worked for me multiple times

[@BrooklynBaby100]

Yea but did you guys get married?

[@designhub360customapparel]

@@BrooklynBaby100 not everyone wants to be married

[@luxetales]

Really loved this video. This was filled by biological facts, rather than the emotions, letting us learn what's going on a deeper level. We need more videos of this kind 😍

[@ninanicole1648]

Or, he is just not that into you.

[@safiamahummed5879]

The Tyrone joke gets me every time 😂😂

[@Yanaristocrat]

Literally scrolling to see if this has someone else cracking up as much as I was.

[@viktoriaerssonfloding8064]

U know girls. I decided stop texting with a man. Why ? Cause we are so diffrent and its just create too much stress. Just fuck it. IF he want us he call

[@shacutehuntyssssx]

Fr

[@nativechique7589]

I love how he doesn't have "time" I'm done here

[@atsanik4838]

If he really liked you in the first place you wouldn’t need to be watching these videos.

[@jessicag6328]

I agree! Lol. if you’ve made it to videos like this In your algorithm- or looking for external answers- you’ve got your answer. Move along

[@jodaisy113]

@@jessicag6328.. nnext 😂

[@electriclioness4607]

Good point 😊

[@brendavillanueva1447]

False. These are strategies for real life. Even treat your husband like he’s an option. Because he is. He better be at your feet too

[@dawnharrison7232]

Why you on here then😂

[@cathy_clarinet]

This is excellent, really. I feel that a man that loves you, he would protect you from feeling so bad that you have to go NC. Good info 👍

[@amyhope3951]

Here's a question: Why the hell men are only interested after women are away? 😑

[@misspretty2861]

foreal...i left my sons father alone and now he's talkin about i still love u, i never stopped, i want to marry you...yes but sir-- i no longer want you!!

[@angelicaangel2624]

They want what they can't have.

[@patriciaanderson6300]

Didn’t he just explain why in this video 🤨

[@Sarablueunicorn]

They are not interested. They see you as a spare tire you know. They don't need you to have their car rolling, they have all their tires available but it's recommended to always have a spare one in case of emergency. A spare tire isn't something a man keeps in his car because he plans on using it, actually he hopes there's no need of using it but as precaution it's better to take one.

[@TheBakingGirlShow]

Cuz they didnt have enough love in their childhoods

[@acquabablair5524]

It’s inconceivable what one has to go through just to be in a relationship that may never manifest into anything tangible..? If someone is playing games from the beginning of contract, those games may somehow precipitate throughout the entire relationship!! Cut it OFF from the inception so there’s NO need to do so later….where feelings get involved. If you can’t be honest to the other person involved, be honest with yourself for sake of your mental being. Like Alex always advices….check your potential partner from the time he/ she becomes disrespectful! This will only lead to further disrespect because ppl become easily comfortable with doing that sh$%t. No one or nothing is worthy of this type of mental consumption…period ‼️

[@valerieriggins3184]

WELL....This Infor Wouldn't Help A 🚸 CHILD. UNTIL.... Learning They Were Raised n Brainwashed By Narc Parents. Then Grow Up And Suffer, And Educate SELF! BUT That Saying Better LATER Than NEVER.🥰🥳💯🙌👌

[@AshleysActivism]

I snapped at mine for being a jerk and he broke up with me and still hasn’t told me he loves me after 7 months but acts sad to breakup with me but has no plans on making things work

[@Soouber]

Cut it off and walk very early..know yourself and self respect comes first.

[@simplynkule]

💔💯

[@kielaizensupresencia2265]

i believe in U

[@cladiavital3769]

Really is a gold that you explain biological way how the body response to what he feels ...no all the people are conscious about it,most people coach only explain superficial aspects about relationship between humans ...and the is so important to know how the body response.....inside our organis, thank you so much for this information...bless

[@redroselace9545]

Absolutely

[@rainbowbright922]

We have to acknowledge so many aspects of being human. There are the biology, psychology, and metaphysics of connection. In the end, the right combination of these, and many other unseen aspects will lead to connection. Live your life, get therapy, heal yourself, love yourself. THAT is the best magnet. Learn the laws of attraction and manifestation. But also, digest this content. Great perspective on the nature of men. Good to see quality YT content on the topic.

[@aurir3678]

This is so nice, I had to watch it twice. Father Alex dropped jewels as always

[@bushrayehia2758]

This is the best no contact video I’ve watched & I’ve watched plenty.

[@daviadouglas9252]

🤣🤣 “I promise u Tyrone’s going to have a problem with that” 🥂

[@bujitea8522]

What if we both are playing games

[@chardaemoulton1721]

Absolutely beautifully explained, thank you so much. I really appreciate you for letting me understand this on such a deeper level.

[@SGF1234]

This is a lot of cognitive work for someone who one day, hopefully, will be your medical power of attorney, and you his. Honestly, either he is ready or not. And when he's ready, it won't require anything on your part in any direction.

[@MsSadeBrown]

I ghosted my toxic narcissistic ex over three years ago and went no contact. He still calls periodically from random numbers. Block and delete everytime.

[@Synquette]

This was helpful! I just saw the house of Gucci and SPOILER 🚨 ALERT! And what you mentioned about it’s hard for people to get over someone if it’s attached to their ego and if being with that person gives the other person status or fame, it makes me understand the role lady Gaga played and why she did what she did to her husband when he didn’t want her anymore

[@franciscaworld8098]

it really helps that you post so much! it keeps the innerpickmeisha nice girl away 😂💛

[@michelledirelle]

Thank you. very good videos and because of the honest stories you're not toxic! Many women have problems because of a lack of acceptance. It's unfortunate because it creates unnecessary blockages only.

[@tansz8092]

So spot on! This is exactly how it's playing out on my exes! Great video!

[@atlfun08]

Professor Alex! I’m learning a lot about humanity!

[@torybee1167]

So very true, works time and time again when you apply the preemptive breakup. Stay vague...though...even if he apologizes.

[@forever-e-mazing]

“Remember what lead up to you gettin yo ass beat” lmao... this video was super facts though love the content..

[@alejandraquintana692]

Okay so what I’m getting from this is that you are much better off not getting feelings for anyone fast and it’s always best to take YOUR time and not allow the pressure of the person on the other side to push you until you’ve seen that person present something of value. Otherwise all these natural chemicals gonna fk with how you perceive things to begin with. Have any of you met more than one guy who is not insecure and not love bombing from the get go tho?

[@musicbrazilian7065]

Alex, you sound well-read confident, and wise I love your intellectually ambitious self. Thank you for sharing and I love your videos. You are so talented. After the talk with Robert Greene, you shine brighter than the sun.

[@deborahocampo852]

Very true he is a all rounder... very good videos....he knows his stuff

[@weekendnomad5038]

I feel like he really doesn’t gaf

[@Talkwithdulci]

update???

[@Krishnadeevani]

So this is what I call an intellectually stimulating platform ...

[@simbasara88]

I have so many questions, particularly after going no contact with a narcissistic man

[@BamBam-un5pz]

I guess he isn’t jealous even if I am with another bloke. 🤷🏻‍♀️ ain’t heard from his dusty self in about 4 months

[@miat.t1309]

lololol

[@HairTalk101]

Exact 2 yrs for me.

[@PaanoTheTagalogHowToChannel]

Going in 6mos lololol

[@duyguarat6253]

İ love this guy's mishevious smile.

[@msgs6850]

This is so much work , ugh I can't deal but I like this guy he had me laughing 😁

[@claressarichardson1374]

This describes social media “algorithms” and interment tracking perfectly. An electronic narcissist. 🙈😴😳

[@AshleysActivism]

Hahahhahah

[@lena-cv3tv]

Better and better to listen🔥 Thank you so much for your wisdom

[@IAMLilianChanel]

A very rare comment from the Non smited friend . . Bravo on your class ! Mad cool

[@rcole1787]

I love learning about the human condition... great job! I LOVE your videos! I stumbled across your videos a few weeks ago... & am learning a lot! Thanks sweets!!

[@AshleysActivism]

You and damn “Tyrone” hahahahha love it

[@evelyndavis5102]

Thank you for this information. I appreciate that it wasn't presented as "I feel" It was based on scientific facts. Thank you

[@pennir8834]

Loved this video Lex wish it was longer though the psychology ones are my fav 🤩 can you treat us to an hour like the old ones 😁

[@Girlwithapurse03]

Yesss! I see the growth! This content is amazing.

[@selmatlemsani2789]

Serotonin is a chemical you get from respect !!!!! Okay bye bye !

[@stormvet3806]

Not Becky from HR! 🤣🤣

[@redalex8794]

Truly enjoyed you summarizing this research!

[@bowlegged876]

Ok

[@RR-us1lt]

Every time subscribe again I know some shit just went down in my life and I've got it bad

[@Hvjvr]

Maan you’re so funny i swear 😂😂

[@laurenjvvuuren5197]

These are the kind of video's I love I lurn so much out of this we need more.. You explain it so well tnx for that Alex!

[@jhoniikemp]

I no contact a dude so sharply back in the summertime. I know the next time he sees me, he’s going to fall into my trap. It’s all a game. Gotta play it well

[@Laurafettig02]

Yes!!! I did the same. How'd it go?

[@pc3140]

Stay ready.

[@sister2mysoul]

Stay Dangerous 💃🏽🔥🙌🏾❤️

[@selenasky2891]

Could you do a video what men think when you actually walk away from a Fwb sitationship

[@vgylsen]

So wait - are you saying that it’s harder to get over ego relationships than real love ?

[@sallylemon5835]

The title hit straight to my face thank you I needed this

[@liliarohmann4476]

You are so interesting! Thanks for sharing knowledge 💪🏼

[@tenchii555]

Are you planning on doing the social intelligence seminar online for your international followers? Or is there a livestream option? 💭

[@aparnamishra2984]

I tried this recently ,he said he is not getting the zeal to pursue this relationship and I said- 'take care all the best'. And deleted his number , now I know he will be back cause famously said - 'dicks are bomerang'. I will ignore and move on. Pure evil but also powerful. I will stay toxic hahahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jissoo777]

Dicks are bomerang 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@b.services9851]

Updates ?

[@mutechannel13]

Honestly the only thing that goes through my head is...She has another guy she interested in. I just move to the next. As a 35 year old successful man with no children. It's not that hard to jump to the next.....but I am getting older my boyish looks wont last forever lol

[@MN-re9oh]

I have a question: When the said thought goes through your head, do you lose respect for the woman you assume is interested in someone else, or are you indifferent? I'm struggling so hard to understand the psychology of the male. I am also assuming it's different for each individual based on his emotional maturity, whether it be high or low value. I would really appreciate your input (from your perspective of course)

[@MN-re9oh]

I got a notification of your reply but I don't see it here 👀

[@mutechannel13]

@@MN-re9oh it's there lol

[@derchillosoph]

@@MN-re9oh for me I lose all respect. if she values another dude more than me, she might as well be dead to me. hope that helps

[@humanjewel9312]

I’m this way as a single woman. I’ll ghost for real and be on to the next. YOLO

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

Great video !! Love your explanation so much Alex 👏👏👏👏👏

[@sincerelydee4787]

I really loved your breakdown of this subject. You made it so understandable!

[@sthendlovu8844]

My problem with no contact is that I delete their numbers so they don't get to see what I'm doing.

[@lemagloria]

Even better

[@forhimbyher2689]

Don't, let them see

[@trainerswebmail5076]

Well done, brother. Your videos are very helpful

[@alicia4324]

Don't worry ur a good kid

[@Kate.Sangalang]

"Marinated with his testosterone" hahahaha

[@erinmeisel7518]

Your videos are awesome. You would make $$$$ as a therapist who keeps it real.

[@dawnm7450]

Love the message and you’re funny without even realizing it. Lmao

[@msgomui1]

Thank you for this information. You explained it so well.

[@Dr.Babe__]

You so cute and smart. When you said, “the limbic system” I almost choked on this hot chocolate in sipping.

[@Christilovestea]

Why does breakups happen during the holidays?

[@iamjuany9734]

Keep teaching us Professor Dalexis 🤓 lol I’m going tell everyone he got taught in Harvard .

[@Bonnadorable]

In terms of oxytocin leaving an imprint in a man’s reward system - what if he has other “reward” systems you aren’t aware of? Basically, what if there are other “imprints?”

[@patriciaanderson6300]

Thanks 🙏 I love this shit, what classes did u choose? I love learning too, you are a great teacher

[@kari9655]

Love this!!❤ You're so brilliant!!!💯

[@chanancha-nan4310]

Does this apply to men with multiple women?

[@MrsLibra444]

I love this video! This is great content & so funny

[@sabinatedlee4242]

This makes me so happy to know

[@deniseotoole6776]

Wow. You are taking on course on line. You are hysterical.

[@FlirtyPeachDark]

what if he has multiple lovers/sex partners?

[@forhimbyher2689]

It could hurt his ego so yes it will work because you won't be like the rest of them

[@eugeniah25]

Thank you Alex, I really enjoy your videos ❤️

[@kianaarabpour]

I feel like he doesn’t give a shit.

[@ringothecat1462]

Happy to catch ya live!! Watching from 🇨🇦

[@Sara-wb2bs]

You're Amazing!!! 100% truth.

[@vchild]

Very insightful. Thank you. 😊

[@marlimarlirni]

Becky from HR 😂😂😂

[@cali2vegas956]

Does this work for situationships where he considers you only a FWB?

[@forhimbyher2689]

YES

[@Lolamola333]

the min 10 is just hillarious

[@liztowers2058]

Well well well.....looks like I'm going no contact ;)

[@Audrey_3]

Oh Father Alex is taking courses from Harvard now?? 🤔🥰🧐 Just became so much more attractive lol 😉 Love your content! ❤️

[@Scorpio12348]

Why you always say my name? Lol 😂

[@meli8327]

Lmaoooo 😂😂😂 your facial expressions are truly entertaining im fucken dying laughing

[@goddess_Kate]

Your research is definitely coming along 😘

[@tupilator1]

If they got a rebound after your breakup, how does this affect this process?

[@bravesoul8572]

As long as you don’t chase them, cut off all contact and just ignore and act like it don’t phase you. Post cute photos on social media. It will KILL them.

[@ninachicana]

Question guys. I told guy ive been dating for few months that his indecisivesness on a where this is headed could be holding me back from whom I supposed to be with. He blocked me the next day...someone help me break this down please lol

[@ninachicana]

I dont have social media..neither does he and he lives hour away. He wants a relationship but afraid to mess it up so wants to be alone..yet wants to keep me around..???

[@marcuslong9761]

Don't verbalize boundaries like that. Looks desperate. If u feel that way, trust ur feelings and walk away. Sounds like he wants to just be friends.

[@missqui8217]

If he wants a relationship, then why did he block you?

[@thenutrientwhisperer3700]

Yeah he sounds like not only playing games but he is extremely unsure of himself. Probably has childhood trauma that he has not dealt with. Find yourself a man who has his shit together emotionally. 🍀🧨

[@stayce751]

You gonna have to pay the price boo-boo 😂😂😂

[@helenekailis10]

Love your energy, honesty and thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏😃💛