The Power of Loving Discipline | Elizabeth Judith | TEDxOcala

[@lowellnolder2075]

Hi Elizabeth. This is your cousin Lowell, your Uncle Richard's son. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about Self Discipline! It made think about about a few things. Appreciate your courage to go through this journey!

[@greekmom1993]

Thank you, Elizabeth! I have lived with guilt, shame, and people pleasing for almost my whole life. Years of therapy and I still do the same things. Your explanation was eye-opening and a fresh breath of air. It gives me hope.

[@ZhuldyzAsqarbekovna]

i Think itis the best ted-talk which i have ever watched

[@aurelia555]

I understand where she is coming from I tend to have the same struggles. Not the same exact situations at times. But yes the same people pleasing abilities.

[@catherineklabouch6872]

I like to say that "Discipline isn't a four-letter word" as a cheeky way of avoiding it. A gnarly, self-sabotaging habit.

[@martystonerock1609]

Alot of truth bombs here- thank you ! " Shame will never give you a beautiful life" & cultivating curiosity of yourself- love it. thank you

[@C.S.99]

🤣 truth bombs is right! "Shame will never give you a beautiful life" is IMO one of the strongest truths in her talk ❣️

[@erinlightheart4219]

An especially thought-provoking message for me as a parent helping my kids navigate a world inclined to shame and force, to be whoever they are becoming -- their best selves.

[@lsmoutreach]

I like your use of curious vs. shame. I'm a highly sensitive person that ended up in a police department, and assigned to an officer that toys with the emotions of HSPs. First of all, I didn't know what I was, so I didn't know how to defend myself. Secondly, he used public shaming (over the police scanner, which then, was also public) to embarrass me. He would pit me against the other cops because I'm a quiet person. (Very much an introvert.) For 30 years after the events; the humiliation I was put through haunted me, and I was only there for 4 years. He pursued me even after he got me fired, and I never stopped running. I had to leave my home state. I was so ashamed that I didn't know how to get out of the situation, but even worse, that I allowed myself to be in that situation in the first place. I discipline myself now to follow a plan, and not my emotions, but I still have to work through shame and fear. I heard about you from Kathryn Calhoun. She gave a challenge to make an offer for a program; and I failed to do that for the past 2 years even though I'm ready to market. Your talk was very nice to hear. I need to turn shame into curiosity so I can move forward.

[@fayenovick401]

The message of self-love resonates so much better than self-discipline. I already feel so much calmer about reaching my goals for myself by changing my thinking about self-love vs. self-discipline.

[@lindseyhobbs4382]

I am so proud of my friend I could just burst!! Liz models courage and comes from a heart of genuine generosity. She inspires me to be brave, to love myself and my journey. 💗

[@marybethlanet924]

That’s our girl! I just wanna jump up and down and show EVERYONE!

[@C.S.99]

Yes! That's so true, Lindsey! (jumps up and down with Mary)

[@aurelia555]

Currently 20 years old with similar struggles to be who I was meant to. I believe I was ashamed to growing up and now that I’m learning and finding myself again. These things have been coming up like crazy.

[@C.S.99]

awesomeness! "more than anything else, we need to abolish shame" truth!

[@BestVocalCoach]

Elizabeth Judith, thank you SO much for doing this talk. You had already impressed me with your superlative talent in acting and singing. This new chapter is even more impressive and your authenticity and sincerity are a rare thing, these days. You are insightful and inspirational. Such a professional, you are!!! Love, love, love it!!!

[@brigettecallahan3588]

I loved your talk. Self-discipline is that love hate relationship. I think I have it then I look and realize I really don't. I'm learning from your shares and your presence. Thank you!

[@AbCd-k1t6q]

a great lesson for my current problem called perfection instead of loving the journey.

[@angelatanger8901]

So proud of you Elizabeth! I've always admired your vulnerability and your ability to speak your truth. You totally nailed this talk with so many gems of your wisdom. Appreciate you sharing your story. It helps me gain a new perspective and I'm sure many others will benefit from your candor as well.

[@Vetroso_]

I clapped with teary eyes... Even if I'm young I know feel her. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful speech to all of us in the way of growing and loving ourselves ❤️

[@ATRTAP]

Succinctly, indeed loving, put TED talk on self-discipline.

[@wezoid]

Thank you for sharing your story. Redefining self discipline as a loving discipline including self devotion and becoming a student of yourself was what I needed to hear. Love you!!!❤

[@helenritter2192]

I loved it, Liz! I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your struggles, because we all have them. Your message is filled with love and wisdom and you are just a beautiful person, inside and out. Love you!

[@AlexanderMrazek]

Liz, this is amazing. These feelings and thought processes get me everyday, and even with therapy, messages like this help remind me of the work I need to continue doing to be better to myself. Thank you for this!

[@jayanarayanan1006]

Where we are now is just a jumping point ..very well said 💫

[@ericlightheart201]

Wonderful Message Elizabeth! I love reframing discipline, and pairing with devotion!

[@katiematthews9927]

Such a powerful message of hope for people struggling with similar issues. Thank you for sharing!

[@AmeLivingston]

Priceless words that we all need to hear! This is fantastic! Thanks, Elizabeth!

[@apalm6793]

Elizabeth, this was an incredibly insightful and thought-provoking talk! Thank you for taking situations you’ve been through and turning them into such a learning opportunity for others! Cultivating self discipline through kindness rather than shame is definitely a more sustainable way towards a beautiful life! Your genuine spirit and love of helping others shines right through when you speak! Well done!

[@Valerie-rp4wd]

What a beautiful message Elizabeth! You are truly an inspiration.

[@marybethlanet924]

What a wonderful and encouraging talk. Definitely one of my favorites! Thank you for such raw and authentic sharing and wisdom. You seem to be speaking right to my heart.

[@mrsmeerkat6]

Thank you, Elizabeth, for sharing your story and for this amazing perspective. It's really eye-opening to re-think our definition and relationship with self-discipline - without shame. This definitely resonated with my own not-so-loving approach to myself and my desire to grow.

[@lifehandmade3712]

Perfect timing as so many of us are looking forward to setting new goals as we approach the new year. Great message! Thank you so much for having the courage to share with us.

[@nathanbonk4513]

Such a powerful message, and beautifully delivered. So many things rang so true for me and my journey. Thank you for sharing this Elizabeth.

[@jeannedemers5615]

Oh my goodness, do I relate. The 3 P's have been mine, too. Thank you for the stories that illuminate what these look like and such insights around how to re-understand discipline. Learn, study and GROW! Soo much more beautiful. Thank you for this talk, Elizabeth.

[@eves2370]

This is an honest and loving talk. I’m so impressed with your approach to living life! Thank you.

[@montelo555]

Why this talk has so much less likes. This desrves more likes. Lots of people have this wrong idea shame and fear being tools for discipline.

[@zoey173]

What an awesome video Liz! So very proud of you!! A lot of things you said really hit home. I'm so glad that you're finally getting to share your message with the world!! Thank you Liz!!

[@michaelangelocaruso]

Well done, Elizabeth! Great sharing the TEDx speaking platform with you. People LOVE your video, wow!

[@alasingletary1054]

Excellent presentation! Thank you for sharing your journey, your wisdom and inspiring us all to be more self-disciplined in learning to love ourselves more, each and every day. Your words made a powerful impact on my day!

[@cassandralogan871]

What a beautiful spirit and thought-provoking analysis. I'm very excited to hear more!

[@StageTime]

Wonderfully, well-delivered talk. Love your 3 P’s. Guilty myself. Great idea about discipline can be living. 😊 You are very charming and authentic. It stinks the TEDx Ocala would put ads in the middle of your talk. Augh.

[@cindystauffer9705]

What a powerful message. Really made me stop and think about myself. Thank you for sharing your story and educating me/us.

[@marybethlanet924]

This is a message I will save to listen to often. Thank you!

[@janetmac3152]

Wow! Amazing. What a beautiful message. Great job Liz! Bravo!

[@ItstheDaveShow1]

Great message, I have been successful in some areas and not so much in others. Thanks

[@rockichaparro5616]

Loved hearing your powerful and uplifting story. I could relate to your message and your positivity is contagious.

[@sherylcook9972]

Great presentation Liz! So excited that you are following your dreams and reaching for your bliss

[@chelesimms]

Wow! Thank you Elizabeth ❤ I love this talk and I could’ve used it YEARS ago! I grew up resenting my potential too.

[@dj12794]

What a powerful and inspiring talk. I needed to hear this today.

[@thejoyrev]

GET IT ELIZABETH! I see you! Great talk.

[@triciacrowley5526]

Thank you Liz for sharing your story and inspiration!! You are amazing and your delivery is so thoughtful and relatable. I’ll definitely be sharing your message. Just love you!

[@chia3805]

❤great talk 👍 very honest, authentic, vulnerable, and encouraging 🎉 Thank you, Elizabeth 🙏🏼

[@marykingstonroche]

Your message is important, inspiring, and compelling! Bravo!

[@conniemoessing3908]

Your thoughts on this subject are inspiring and it has helped me see discipline in a new and exciting way! Thank you for sharing your important thoughts in an entertaining and helpful way. Loved every second.

[@the-intentional-mind]

I love the idea of approaching your life with more curiosity instead of shame. This concept of loving self discipline is huge and so needed in the world right now. How do I find out more about your work Elizabeth?

[@FinanceMovie]

Wow... powerful message you shared Liz!

[@pennykroll6758]

Wonderful words of wisdom, beautifully delivered!

[@ericbridges5372]

Thank you so very much for this incredible message. You know much of my journey and this really resonated with me in a way I didn't expect.

[@PresenterTradeshow]

Fantastic message! Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others to action. Congratulations on accomplishing this talk!!

[@anitab1260]

This is such an important message, thank you!

[@hiker64]

Thanks for this wonderful perspective on self-discipline - Feel more motivated and validated for the challenges I've dealt with in this regard!

[@markpalmieri6180]

This is a great message. Well done Elizabeth.

[@kathryncalhoun4854]

This was so inspiring. Thank you for sharing this! I needed to hear all of this today. The 3 Ps massively resonate with me!

[@JohnRichterAustin]

Elizabeth - thank you for this inspiring message!

[@tcbfasttwo]

Great talk, Elizabeth. Some wonderful thoughts on discipline...and the pitfalls of the journey.

[@yourfriendinspreadsheets6023]

Thank you for sharing your story. I love and can relate to the 3 P’s

[@roxannechanlac6864]

Thank you for your sharing and awesome talk, what a gift to the world! Will work on applying these great insights. 🙏

[@angelique1213]

Absolutely LOVE this! 🎉🎉

[@alexandrialee5080]

Definitely needed to hear this! You’re incredible!!!

[@richardalventoza6424]

beautiful talk thank you so much to give me these advices about self discipline. it's true is not a field which all of us want to listen to .but I think it's very important to have a purpose in our life . we are human and we need to grow learning reading discovering. taking this way lead us to happiness and self estime every day I try to learn English on my own reading the bible and other book . thank you your talk is beautiful keep doing that to help people to grow and reach satisfaction. Richard ALVENTOZA

[@tamthethird]

I needed to hear this today. Thank you.

[@hennajody]

This is lovely! Thank you for the new perspective!

[@normacress8269]

That is Awesome, proud of you!

[@Mimi12350]

Always self-discipline 🤍🥰😎

[@suepickett2012]

Very powerful speech bases on the concept of self-discipline, to ensure the process of learning how to love oneself and achieving our goals. Such a needed concept to learn and very difficult one to achieve. Great presentation, excellently presented. Great job Liz so would like to hear more keep going lady you got this.

[@cathygooden]

Thanks for sharing your story and your wisdom !

[@joygardner9859]

AMAZING! Great food for thought!

[@burleighlogan9700]

Thank you so much for this amazing talk - you've really hit such important points here. My relationship with self-discipline is definitely "not-so-much" and the shame can be crippling. 😏 I can't wait to learn more about your method.

[@fmorlando1]

Great video and message! Thank you!

[@geriv1582]

Wow!! This was so insightful! Really well done!

[@chrisgooden5249]

Excellent message, and good personal stories!

[@deepakraja252]

Inspiring talk! Great message!

[@mikeclemensen1248]

Well done, Liz!

[@thuaphi]

Respect ❤❤

[@brewierwelch1402]

Great presentation Elizabeth.

[@EquallyIndian]

Her experience of living in parent's house to husband's and the 3Ps is the story of majority of Indian women.

[@dutch-americantheatricals5843]

This is fantastic!!!

[@andreasrubio]

wow wow wow amazing!

[@ROvilla-d3q]

just magnificent this video

[@HeymonthNinja]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@Sanjivkjain]

Fabulous information

[@barrywhite5117]

Awesome…I love it!

[@SanyamGrover-ly6kn]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ozumbachinonsoemmanuel6604]

I want to have self discipline

[@wellbeingbyresham]

amazing

[@Laura-b9b5t]

Shame never will give us beatiful life

[@harrypearle9781]

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[@harrypearle9781]

thanks much

[@pski3]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😁❤️

[@myfinalcut]

👍🏼

[@haveanidea6147]

Waste of time, she's just telling her story of a indipendent women and relating it to self decipline 👎🏻

[@ngoclinh3319]

Kỉ luật = học cách học

[@carol-us4xn]

A waste is just what it is 💩💩💩