Fully embrace vulnerability! Have the courage to be imperfect! Do things without guarantees of success. Feeling worthiness is the key! Let go of who you think you should be and just be! You are good enough! You are worthy of love and belonging! You are enough!
@dreamchaser63812 жыл бұрын
what risks did you take ? cheat on your husband without getting caught? LOL
@GaewayahaWhitker2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@dreyfalex11 жыл бұрын
As a perfectionist, I need to listen to this every day. There is so much important material in this talk, it is hard to take it all in at one hearing. She only sneaks in the truth, however, that children who grow up to believe they are worthy of love and belonging, are raised by parents who give them that message. The rest of us are severely wounded and need deep and ongoing healing. Practicing gratitude and vulnerability is not so easy for those of us with this wound, but powerful medicine.
@lauralunaazul4 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@carshapeter13972 жыл бұрын
So true, thanks for sharing Sharon
@johnmarte80832 жыл бұрын
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@nancyewood Жыл бұрын
@dreyfalex: Each one of us is unique, though, and that's the point that makes all the difference -- I grew up being raised by parents who loved me, nurtured me, supported me, and gave me the most wonderful life they possibly could (and it was estimable, since my Father was in the U.S. Army and we traveled overseas, and I was exposed to the good, honorable, artful, beautiful, and loving things in life) -- but I still have experienced the woundedness and need for deep and ongoing healing that you describe -- and I’m 75 -- But perhaps it came to me from another lifetime... perhaps I took the pain on to be inspired and moved to seek the experience for myself so I could become aware of and learn how to share the way through it with you and others in like pain… the shame... we never know. The Universe is 'waaay bigger than you -- we -- imagine, and the storylines and possibilities are WAAAAY HUGER than you’ve likely imagined. Watch a bunch of NDE videos on YT, and begin to get the Bigger Picture and see what the real story is -- thru each other unique person’s eyes and experience -- each and every story is different -- unique (look it up!) -- NONE OTHER EXACTLY LIKE IT -- and yet, It Still All Comes Down To LOVE, no matter the road and experiences we've followed to get ourselves there...
@GaewayahaWhitker2 ай бұрын
Same
@griffin088611 жыл бұрын
The way she speaks makes you feel like she's having a conversation with you one on one. Very enjoyable.
@xabierpombo87047 жыл бұрын
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@lesleyelalami25624 жыл бұрын
Soul connection.
@changeeyecolor38913 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@FlorDeFerro2 жыл бұрын
and not vulnerable, I'd say.
@sarahharb02 жыл бұрын
Lyy
@cynthiaogechukwu29742 жыл бұрын
I'm here October 10 2022 and I have to say this woman speaks beautifully. Her choice of words and diction is top notch. I'm glad she didn't beat around the bush making pointless quotes and referencing other people or their works, she just hits the nail on the head. I can listen to her speak for hours, She's very commendable
@yeseulshin9204 жыл бұрын
“Blame: a way to discharge pain and discomfort” it shed lights on why some people in my life were so harsh.
@SabyUsa110 жыл бұрын
"You know what, you're imperfect and you're wired for struggle, but you're worthy of Love and Belonging." -Dr Brene Brown
@docbeepsjb5 жыл бұрын
Powerful...❤️👊🏾
@david_oliveira715 жыл бұрын
Wonderful.
@mitchellmckervey7344 жыл бұрын
She is so wonderful. This changed my way of thinking. Love her.
@changeeyecolor38913 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍
@alliparker40843 жыл бұрын
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@clarajohnson51559 жыл бұрын
The words of this woman has helped me constantly through my three years of depression. I know her words will help me again in the future. Keep this video in your watch later; it will always help.
@xabierpombo87047 жыл бұрын
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@mavismorely33057 жыл бұрын
did u find out you are gay?
@lauralunaazul4 жыл бұрын
Listen to Louise L Hay, she help me a lot in my worst moments, :)
@jkennedymunden2 жыл бұрын
Same! Love her.
@comelypepper11 жыл бұрын
I love how the way she concludes. "That's all I have" captures the essence of the struggle between shame and self acceptance wonderfully.
@wontanajj78202 жыл бұрын
do the little thing in your life that for poor people that help your feeling make you feel worthty that anti depress or you pray for other with your pure heart that you can
@ReyyanK12 жыл бұрын
"They were willing to let go of who they thought they should be, in order to be who they were." Incredible, yet much easier said than done.
@jennysprung60933 жыл бұрын
To be called a story teller is, in fact, a huge compliment.
@lovethelifeyoulive202326 күн бұрын
I agree
@simofish3 жыл бұрын
If you're reading this you are loved, you are beautiful, you are strong, and someone out here in this big ole world thinks you are amazing. Thank you for being you!
@lovethelifeyoulive202326 күн бұрын
Hello beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your positive energy and love with the world.
@lovethelifeyoulive202326 күн бұрын
@@O0001I hope you now understand how Important you are
@Goldun-nah2 жыл бұрын
This is so so deep. I can’t believe this was 12 years ago. We could all use this lesson today. Much of our issues is coming from our lack of self of awareness.
@BobSmith-ic5qo5 жыл бұрын
That was nine years ago and it still feels like cutting edge clarity on something that underpins everything we do and are. Brilliant.
@coraautumn1130 Жыл бұрын
Having parents who couldn’t show that to themselves meant they raised children who didn’t know how to show it to themselves either, parenting is such a massive contributor to this.
@cancelyoursubcription10 жыл бұрын
I could listen to her talk for hours ! She is such a great speaker.
@tylermcknight36504 жыл бұрын
You should read her book Daring Greatly!!
@robst2473 ай бұрын
There's so much wit, emotional intelligence, authenticity and usable wisdom in this talk that when she ends with "that's all I have" she seems to dishonour her own worthiness.
@dreamswankim10 жыл бұрын
I am the person that LOVES ALL my emotions. I wallow AND Celebrate....I like the highs and the lows and I can tell you that MOST people think I'm crazy - when I tell them to 'embrace, the sorrow' and "THAT is LIFE happening in your life"...I think that we do not want to feel and I cannot figure out WHY. Thank you for a little bit of clarity. I give (as a gift) your TED talk to my friends. When they need it.
@susannakpetersen4 жыл бұрын
You're not alone I feel exactly the same way. feel all the things and love all the things. It helps you to have empathy for others as well.
@misskeisha48203 жыл бұрын
that’s a really brave way to live life, i hope i’ll have that one day for myself as well
@jvyoga11 жыл бұрын
WOW! Ironically I used the word Wholeheartedly on a video years ago at my brother's wedding. I had no idea others would make fun of me for using that word. I let that experience affect my self image for years. Thank you for this research story. You created a breakthrough in my life today. I live wholeheartedly and choose to speak authentically and lovingly embrace times when people, even family, make fun of me or don't quite get me! Thank you for giving me back the permission to be me.
@hazelgreen10014 жыл бұрын
Wow! Inspiring words. Always be true to yourself x
@filmneye2 жыл бұрын
It takes courage to live wholeheartedly and to speak your Truth, be your authentic self. I try to be my authentic self, which defies the Asian stereotypes that Society puts on my race, and is not met with acceptance by a lot of White folks. But I've gotta be me, so I forge onwards, and keep breaking those stereotypes!
@bonnierobinson86842 жыл бұрын
If you get here, give me a call. Callie, Mandie, Jeannie or Bobbie! 💗💗💗💗
@nancyewood Жыл бұрын
Ohh, jvyoga, it makes me so happy to hear that you finally found relief and expanded awareness for yourself thru Brené's words (me too today)!! And the ironic part is -- see how loving and FAR AHEAD you actually were, instead of the "behind and less-than" as you imagined then... Great congratulations, and wishing you even more happiness to come...
@KellaCarter Жыл бұрын
I have the same issues of family not always getting me. I live wholeheartedly as well.
@dqualey112 жыл бұрын
As a Social Worker, as a mother a partner and a person this hit me to my core!! I have my shield and sword out at all times never wanting others to know I'm vulnerable and how many times have I shouted blame at others. Thank you Brene' today is a new day I see things differently and will begin to move forward with grace, openess and a large HEART
@lukmanaliyuyahaya2 ай бұрын
I think this woman is directly talking to me. It's like I am trying very hard to put up a lifestyle that is essentially not mine. It changed the happy and friendly person I originally am, to an indifferent and somewhat rude me. I've lost the part of me that reveals weakness almost entirely. An elderly woman whom I deeply cared for passed away months ago. She was the wife of one of my grand uncles (a younger brother to my grandfather). After the death of all my grandparents, she became their equivalent to me. Whenever I travel to their city, I'd stat at her place, eat and do many things at her place. I enjoyed every minute of her life. She was very friendly, and happy, and have this sunny disposition. The she suddenly passed away. I was in the middle of my invulnerability, I couldn't even go there to properly pay my condolences to the family she left behind. I just phoned and sorried them. God knows I am struggling with this habit of mine. This isn't what I use to be. Work and city lifestyle have taken away the best version of myself.
@BethanyKay5 жыл бұрын
Brene, I read your books and saw your Netflix special, and just barely coming back to see this original Ted Talk you did. I know you don't read the comments because everyone knows it's a recipe for disaster, but I still have to tell you that you changed my life. Your book Daring Greatly opened the door for me to understand a lot of things about myself, and I will be forever grateful to you for your openness, vulnerability and willingness to be real and raw.
@reelsoon4 жыл бұрын
Found this because I'm reading Daring Greatly right now😁
@patrickconnolly98074 жыл бұрын
she doesn't read her comments because this is ted talk's channel not hers.
@isaacwaring92634 жыл бұрын
In her Netflix special on Courage, Brene describes reading the comments under the original publication of this video and the damage it did to her because of the terrible things people said about her. Your kind response is a sweet contrast to those venomous replies.
@SW-rr7nl4 жыл бұрын
Even if she doesn't. Your comment helped me find the Netflix show.. thank you
@annakozlowski30713 жыл бұрын
Love it ... “ be real be raw”
@andreakatsinis2 жыл бұрын
You can tell this woman is a Sherlock Holmes, noticing every detail! & look at her matching shirt and background with her name! Loved every word Mrs. Brown 🤎
@AndreaVernucci2 жыл бұрын
This was 2010 and 12 years after I have red and witnessed this message spreading around the world. Stil though, we are the same society. And this still touched me deeply as it would have 12 years ago. Thank you.
@nancybats6664 жыл бұрын
Love this specially when she talks about children it’s ok to say you are imperfect you are still worthy. Don’t compare yourself to others, you are only hurting yourself
@user-onyoutube8687 жыл бұрын
Dr. Brown sharing her own vulnerability is what kept me watching. The authentic teachers are the ones who open up to let others see that they understand because they have been in the same place. That creates connection because of the commonality. She doesn't come across as trying to "fix us", but rather as showing us through her own experiences what really works.
@IzabelaWaniek-i1x4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this brilliant talk Brene Brown - it explains a lot of what’s going on in the world today. When we work from a place where we believe: we are enough, we stop screaming and start listening, we become gentler with ourselves and the people around us. We open ourselves for connection.
@125sano Жыл бұрын
As a perfectionist and a person with a big fear of rejection it was a hard pill to swallow. Her words went straight into the bottom of my heart. So so true. Where the trust are there the risk are. We have to be courage in order to fulfill our best with joy and love. Thank you so so much for that precious sharing.
@assinamita233 ай бұрын
She has hit the shallow foundation people are standing on and shaken the hollow and dead lives. People are living in the oblivion of certainty, blame and pretence. Vulnerability is what being human being is...and to numb that is the very cause of lack of quality life. She has very beautifully and eloquently with a jist of humour addressed th reason the very reason for suffering. It is wonderful to see people who are dedicated to causes such as vulnerability and who are breathing to make others breath and live life.
@PosyRoberts10 жыл бұрын
The "no family stuff, no childhood sh!t" comment was great. I've said those same exact words before. Great talk. I can't wait to share this with my husband. Thank you.
@s.c.mastergardeners53833 жыл бұрын
Listened to 17 minutes of the talk so far, You are absolutely right, WHen I lost my parents, dog, aunt etc and was so over whelmed forever it seemed with grief, I knew the only reason I grieved so profoundly was because I loved so deeply. And even though it was hard, I would never lessen my love to spare my grief. You are the only one I have heard recognizing this .
@yeunju713 жыл бұрын
It's true, as a college student, i've been vulnerable to my roommates, which changed my life in what i believe of connection. I was drawn so much closer when my roommates and I shared our darkest hurting secrets. From experience, I agree with her message.
@dlewis8952 жыл бұрын
HUMBLE IS THE SAFEST PLACE AND I NEVER STOP LEARNING
@amandalewis85903 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability for me is laying your heart and your flaws at someone’s feet and hoping to (whatever you believe in) that they don’t stomp all over it... and then being ok within yourself if they do. Being able to love yourself enough to know that that behaviour is fear and pain, not malicious intent. For the most part.
@cbwavy12 жыл бұрын
I watched this on netflix last night and i think I'm starting to have my own breakdown. Never realized how my lack of outward vulnerability has completely shaped my life today. I'm definitely one of those that would fall into the category of struggling with connection and acceptance.
@lovethelifeyoulive202326 күн бұрын
How are you doing now?
@TheNinjacow221112 жыл бұрын
I was told this would change my life and as a person who has suffered massive heartbreak and felt feelings of vulnerability, I would have to say that this has changed my perspective on everything for the better.
@nancybirsch-celli94042 жыл бұрын
Bless you Connor.
@miracleshappen44838 жыл бұрын
Great job! I've got to the same conclusion after healing myself from depression. As you said, when we shut ourselves down refusing to be vulnerable and "seen" by others, we also shut our source of joy at the same time. I think we, as human beings, are obsessed with a sense of perfection which doesn't exist - despite being widely advertised -. We think we can improve Nature by controlling Her but are not humble enough to admit that our Nature is perfect and that the only imperfection is in our failure to understand that what we perceive as chaos or "imperfection" is a mere comparison that our mind makes between what is real and what we ought to be real and acceptable according to cultural or religious standards. I think it's time to change that and we shouldn't just love our children, we should also be completely honest with them because we are all imperfect (from a human point of view) and that's the beauty of existence itself!
@Gaurav.P03 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your understanding 🙂
@sandraviegas7298 Жыл бұрын
I love your way of thinking about it!
@SheriKaz14 жыл бұрын
SIx years of research condensed into 20 insightful minutes of wisdom for the soul. Thank you for sharing.
@marisacherry12 жыл бұрын
"Our job is to look and say, you know what, you're imperfect and you're wired for struggle, but you're worthy of love and belonging." YES
@Hubrisgoat14 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah! Someone speaking profound (yet common) sense, succinctly and with warmth of spirit and generosity. Well done Brene Brown.
@youyoua9883 жыл бұрын
Vulnerability is not always good. It can be detrimental with the wrong people. For people who appreciate it and understand how it help the connection, then yes!
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@suzannahjames52642 жыл бұрын
Yes , I’m one of them..
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@Morid13Rocks2 жыл бұрын
Keep reading and listening to Brene 😊 she shares about who deserves your vulnerability in ways that encourage you to hold your boundaries and your worth
@cefarther39452 жыл бұрын
I absolutely enjoyed this wonderful speaker! Very rare on TedX talks. Wonderful speaker, insightful, provocative thinking. Absolutely great.
@Imagomana14 жыл бұрын
Believing I am enough begins with being compassionate with ourselves. That begins with observing instead of judging. We all have within us unconditional love. When we are still we can hear its whispering voice behind our loud ego. Observing the ego quiets it allowing us to feel the love. Love tells me "I am enough!"
@plastiswafers14 жыл бұрын
We accept the love we think we deserve.
@FrameArtsWarehouse12 жыл бұрын
The risk involved to be vulnerable. Fearless Love is my life's mantra. To love fearlessly. I know I have hidden behind my buddhist practices and used them as an armour, a way of NOT connecting, a way of protecting. I know that many of you have done the same. And BLESS YOU, the individual who risks look of being foolish and risks being wrong, when everyone else has their armour so perfectly oiled and shined. Bless the sangha which embraces and supports their comrades through such a dance.
@sudeepgowda400 Жыл бұрын
02:03 Connection is essential, but shame can unravel it. 04:38 Believing in self-worth leads to love and belonging 07:27 People who live with a deep sense of worthiness have courage, compassion and connection 10:32 Living wholeheartedly means embracing vulnerability 13:11 We numb vulnerability. 15:41 Numbing emotions is harmful 18:15 Teach children they're worthy of love and belonging
@louisesumrell63312 жыл бұрын
We struggle with it because we're afraid of being hurt. The survival strategies of a lifetime are embedded deeply.
@BrenMurphy18 жыл бұрын
12:46 > "I know that vulnerability is kind of the core of shame and fear and our struggle for worthiness - but it appears it's also the birthplace of joy of creativity of belonging of love - and I, I think, I have a problem -, and, I just, I need some help, and I said, but here's the thing, no family stuff, no childhood shit, I just - I just need some strategies!" Brilliant - let me cut and paste that one...
@downhomegirl54 жыл бұрын
I think Coach Craig Kenneth is the best on KZbin just thought I'd share.🌞
@jconfident57533 жыл бұрын
Realizing being vulnerable keeps you open and humble. Holding in emotions can cause pinned up anger and cause you to shut down or burst out. Being vulnerable allows one to grow and learn more about themselves and those around them.
@Jeb9221 Жыл бұрын
I've watched this so many times. It doesn't get old. Love this Ted talk.
@kA-dc6zq3 жыл бұрын
She is a great speaker. I really love her way of speaking. It's very soothing.
@AstralDrivingSchool11 жыл бұрын
This presentation was an eye opening piece of just how you can live your life with more spirit, determination and passion.The research into vulnerability has opened a whole new spectrum which could really change your life. Delivered with skill, humor and a genuine voice..This is one of the most illuminating talks I have ever had the pleasure of discovering. Now it's off to buy the books! Thank you for a truly thought provoking presentation!
@imfree64862 жыл бұрын
I simply adore the way she speaks in a jubilant way. No words to describe about how attractive and connected she's with audience. Really touched mine ♥️
@thamirisnascimento3525 жыл бұрын
Every single piece of this universe is sending me this message: vulnerability is not weakeness. I just need to believe and practice. Thank you, Brené, for sharing a piece of your soul.
@nancybickel65822 жыл бұрын
"let go of who you think you should be and be who you are" thank you!
@mimicici1312 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Brené Brown for coming into my life right when I needed her. Twenty-four hours ago I had never heard this name. Then I came across it in three or four completely different situations. I got the message. Thank you.
@Gaurav.P03 жыл бұрын
Hey, how are you now after 10 years of this comment ?
@LRCgalaxist2 жыл бұрын
I first saw this ten years ago and not to be dramatic but it absolutely changed me. I’ve never forgotten it and I always send it to my loved ones that need the reminders.
@langlenmayengbam92979 ай бұрын
Who’s watching this in 2024🫂
@dwindlepatrick84338 ай бұрын
This topic is still valid.
@AgboubiMouloud7 ай бұрын
I watched this video now
@emalabado7 ай бұрын
Me
@emalabado7 ай бұрын
Me
@steelplayer1186 ай бұрын
I am
@Bebang603 жыл бұрын
So the ONLY pathway to joy, authenticity, belonging. is embracing vulnerability, not to numb it... Thank you Brene😍
@balau2770513 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of courage being telling the story of who I am with my whole heart. Collecting stories from people as research is something those of us in the arts & humanities have long understood as incredibly powerful. I applaud Dr. Brown's research and hope she continues on this path.
@BenjaminJohnson-i9y Жыл бұрын
Amazing that this was in 2010 because it sounds even more timely in 2023.
@ashleydollins60746 ай бұрын
I watched this because Steven Furtick mentioned your name in a sermon. I am not disappointed. Bravo
@Ziraishere Жыл бұрын
I am a Social Work student and I started listening to your talks on vulnerability/invulnerability due to personal issues in my relationship with my boyfriend. Every "symptom" you mention in the invulnerability talk match his character, and everything you say about people who embrace vulnerability match me... So now you can imagine what our issue is. I sense this might be the case for sooo many people out there, it's like a pandemic of the masculine experience, and it's heartbreaking that so many great people struggle or lose the opportunity to love and be loved out of fear. Redirect your fear please!!!! You should be more scared of never experiencing love in your life, than of being hurt. Pain can go away, we are amazingly strong and we can heal, and in the meantime love stays, I swear it does.
@aaronslusher72568 жыл бұрын
I can't believe this is from 2010! It is so perfectly true today.
@Wamagirii5 жыл бұрын
I heard of her only today from another talk. 2010? Its 2019.....her talk will forever remain relevant
@smit18075 жыл бұрын
This is because this message is as relevant today as it would have been in 1750. This is at our core as a species.
@lauralunaazul4 жыл бұрын
2010 isnt many years ago, really.
@ritadighent4 жыл бұрын
I think all the wonderful things that Brene Brown teaches us is symbolized by the "I am enough" photo at the end of her talk. It's written on a middle-aged woman's chest--not a Goddess's chest, not a 20-year-old's nubile chest. Just a normal woman's chest. Gratitude for your heart and fine mind, Brene Brown.
@MALPALable8 жыл бұрын
Just revisited this and so appreciate Berne Brown for leveling the playing field for all us humans.
@andrewjameslochrie2 жыл бұрын
Such inspirational and important work. I have to say that if a person fails Dr Brene Brown's rules for trust (BRAVING), being vulnerable with them may not be safe.
@theharnessingyourpowerpodc77153 жыл бұрын
Forever my favorite Ted Talk. So grateful for coming across this when I did. I can listen to this over & over. ❤
@RichardPosey14 жыл бұрын
90% of TED talks seem to qualify for the word "best." I have to rank this talk as one of the "best of the best." I think almost everyone I know would find Brené Brown's presentation well worth watching. Thanks!
@jd20087654 жыл бұрын
I was meant to see this today. I am sitting here crying at the recognition of myself in what you've said.
@cassiosoares3 жыл бұрын
Came here recommended by my therapist. I'm actually learning a lot from this. Thanks.
@juliengelmanga14 жыл бұрын
Wow. Such a wonderful honest talk. I was touched. Something Dr. Brown might consider, if she hasn't already, is the research on "attachment theory" - how early caregiver interactions affect how our nervous system forms - what we learn first are "ways of relating". This research shows the extent to which early secure, ambivalent or avoidant attachment orients us to ourselves and our world is a very basic way. Thought it's a relevant connection.
@kevingeorge8622 жыл бұрын
one of the best descriptions of human nature ive heard
@khalidsafir5 жыл бұрын
This talk is essentially about self worth, which from my experience, is mostly an issue in individualistic societies. Brene said that you cannot love others until you love yourself, I believe its the other way round. Only when you love everyone indiscriminately, like your brothers and sisters, as is common in many non western cultures, will you stop discriminating against yourself. If you are harsh on others, you'll be need harsh on yourself. I see everyone as my brothers and sisters and feel need to look out for everyone, friend or stranger, it's the way I've been brought up. When you are kind to everyone, without checking if they really deserve it, then in the same way, given that you are also a person, you should be kind to yourself. This way of thinking comes from a well known saying in the poorer, more communal parts of the middle east "your self has a right upon you".
@dmt76749 ай бұрын
This is difficult for people who abandon themselves to take care of other people
@1MoonChild4ever Жыл бұрын
12:59 this part right here!! From this point forward you changed it all! I used to watch women leaders and public speakers like you, and feel empty. I have always known that my soul’s purpose is to be a leader of women, but I didn’t have the sense of self to find my place to fulfill my purpose..then this! Then this! Then this Brenee Brown! You built my insides..well I did, but you gave me this!! I am fulfilling my soul’s purpose now and it has given me the opportunity to know the difference between happiness and joy. I will be carrying on your legacy wherever I am. Why, because I am enough and I want to pass along to others in the way you have, and let them finally find their knowing of being enough! ❤ Just as you have for me!
@maryadamson73752 жыл бұрын
So right on Brene. To me the the biggest challenge we have is to learn to love who we are. Big job!! Not easy, however, necessary. I love to listen n learn from your incredible wisdom and willingness to be right in your face honest!! Makes my heart sing. Lov ya for sure n grateful for willingness to let it all hang out!! 😍😘😄😂😂
@lovethelifeyoulive202326 күн бұрын
Remember I am Enough Everything is available for me What I want matters
@Uzma2449 жыл бұрын
You know Brene I saw magic happen infront of my eyes when I followed you in living with wholeheart.I think not a single day passes without I questioning my worthiness, and after I stumbled upon you it became my textbook for life I cannot imagine living without it(again I might be afraid of being vulnerable without you).
@jornkirkengard82386 жыл бұрын
Everybody needs a friend like her in their life.
@sheridan11214 жыл бұрын
I was glued to this from start to finish. Love the message, the delivery and the speaker. Start with an attitude of gratitude. Amen to that!
@jovicepo11 ай бұрын
Here on 01/10/2024 and watching this talk again. It really hit me and my heart and is helping me go through my issues and improving my life.
@scubapepe113 жыл бұрын
I have probably watched this video close to 50 times. It's so valuable to hear, really hear this message. Of course, my favorite part is the last couple of minutes which gives you the "punch line". I love the positive message of how to accomplish having an effective life. Beautifully said.
@josephercastor80262 жыл бұрын
Being vulnerable shows strength and confidence
@Elgriffon57 Жыл бұрын
This a fantastic speech!. I cried a few times!..thank you Brenne
@jenniferl19082 жыл бұрын
One of the best TED talks ever. Everyone should listen to this talk. The world would be a much more evolved and whole place if people could embrace vulnerability.
@georgiarodgers93582 жыл бұрын
this ted talk was a link in my lecture. I bawled my eyes out. It just made so much sense and kind of called me out a few times. You are a great storyteller and I think about this a lot. This gave me a whole new perspective or answer that I've been wondering. Thankyiou
@kentlarsen58342 жыл бұрын
Brene's talk is just tantalizing and amusing and a hodgepodge of thoughts and circumstances. It's a kaleidoscope of endless feelings. But Brene does have lovely hair.
@lou4lou110 жыл бұрын
I fine this information very real. The thoughts presented here should be shared on a massive scale for the betterment of all. Thank you Dr. Brown for your outstanding authenticity and personal vulnerability, you should know you are appreciated greatly!
@xabierpombo87047 жыл бұрын
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@khogeveen714 жыл бұрын
WOW! I am truly inspired. I found a post on Facebook shared by a friend and started listening, went to Brene's site, checked for my videos and am truly thankful for her work. Brene has encapsulated why life is most fulfilled when we risk being authentic.
@cephoras10 жыл бұрын
Love this woman and her wonderful books. The Gifts of Imperfection is brilliant.
@Chris-dt5td4 жыл бұрын
I believe it is good to accept that we are imperfect but that we can better ourselves.
@Becca62962 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@ElaineHansenHRD14 жыл бұрын
Excellent - totally agree with what Dr. Brown has said. My experience has been when in a small group, one person's vulnerability can open the door for connections for all in the group. [note: the group has to be wiling and able to "hold" this - to sit with the discomfort of someone else's or our own vulnerability without fixing, saving, or rescuing.]
@YeraMezs3 жыл бұрын
This video has helped to make the conscious decision to be vulnerable about my feelings of shame with my therapist and for that I’m grateful ❤️
@Once_More_With_Feeling2 жыл бұрын
Wow... You just blew my mind. I started my vulnerability journey when I was diagnosed with general anxiety seven years ago. Got on meds, and started treating myself with compassion and humility, then got off the meds a few years later. :) I want a little-scaled life full of the people I love, very few dramas, and lots of feelings. Thank you Dr. Brené Brown for your words of truth, they may have been said more than ten years ago, but they reached me today.
@AGracefulHome9 жыл бұрын
Brene's timing is always perfect. As a mentor I am always balancing what I can share with those who I am helping and what I need. Embracing vulnerability is powerful and necessary to grow. We are beautiful hot messes!
@dorothyp513 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most important concepts a person can listen to. If they truly hear it, it can transform their life.
@hannahgrace41733 жыл бұрын
what’s the concept ?
@gigijacobs970511 жыл бұрын
Love, Love, Love You!!!! Thank you so much for the work you do! I pray and hope that your words,wisdom and knowledge will help change the world. It is hard to be vulnerable and exposed, but so important for growth.
@stevebernihansen11905 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage to be real and vulnerable and share such amazing truths. If we could all live so courageously.
@selmaberrios254911 жыл бұрын
Wow, here I am looking for a good video in authenticity in Social Work (for my students) and I found myself watching, and listening to this woman who is describing my struggle. I am a story teller who is afraid of writing the stories because I am not sure about the "worthiness" of it. Specifically, the story of First Generations Puerto Rican women coming to the USA. Who cares for these stories? Anyway, the relationship between the sense of belonging, vulnerability and worthiness is very real.
@ZiddersRooFurry10 жыл бұрын
I would read it :)
@selmaberrios254910 жыл бұрын
Agradecida, grateful. Selma
@nomadchica9 жыл бұрын
Selma Berrios I would read them! :)
@devgene8 жыл бұрын
i would read it
@selmaberrios25498 жыл бұрын
devgene Thank you for vote of confidence. Health to you
@heyitsfp12 жыл бұрын
I understand when people say this speech lacks in many way, but please, also consider that, to some people, just to know that there are others like them, talking about what they live is enough to change some of them. Even though this wasn't as descriptive or deep some of you would've liked, it's still helpful material.
@arisner1214 жыл бұрын
This presentation was a joy to watch from beginning to end. Incisive, intelligent, compassionate,warm and funny. I feel richer for having viewed. Thank you.