The Problem with the Black Man Should Commit to Black Women Discussion

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[@Solotv84]

Than those women get mad at you when they see you with Roselynn, Mi Leng or Becky but yall didn't want me in the first place oh the irony!

[@RomWills]

Exactly fam.

[@demetriusarmstrong5154]

💯💯💯💯

[@targetegrat]

Maybe I missed it but why would a black man want to commit to a woman that has kids when he does not have kids. I love black women but collectively they really need to get their stuff together when it comes to selecting a good man. When you to the mall, grocery store, etc you always see black women with multiple kids but no man around. Even in social media you look at black womens profile and what you do you see multiple kids without the father. Now if most of these women are divorced or their husband/bf died that is one thing but that is not the case. It is very embarrassing but unfortunately black women don't have a problem with it.

[@RomWills]

The single mother issue is big.

[@demetriusarmstrong5154]

@@RomWills I seen a black woman Facebook page n it's on her profile that she a mother of 5 n another one is a mother of 3

[@davidgrier403]

I've been called out by sistahs for just going out with Becky, not dating, when the sistahs didn't want me. I learned to ignore it.

[@RomWills]

It's not their business who you go out with.

[@uchiharod]

Thanks for being on our side Uncle Rom......I'm flying out of the country in a few days for some full blown cooperation from some hot, exotic chicks. When I listen to this vid and your other videos on the male imprint and the recent "Successful low key black men", I understand why more and more of us SHOULD abandon black women. The unfortunate reality is that MOST women live in a fantasy world void of any logic, reason, or accountability. There's no respect for the truth nor is there any respect for universal laws of "Cause" and "Effect." They think they can do what they want to men without suffering consequences. From my experience, abandoning them without explanation and treating them like garbage seems to be the magic potion that makes them act right. I went from being that scrawny nerd in high school (only got play from non-black women) to a muscled up dude who works in IT (approaching 6 figures) and now I get even MORE play from non-black women and "surprisingly" sistas are cooperating with me......However, I lost interest in them before even turning 23...... I gotta tell ya.......Revenge and rejecting BW feels GOOD.....REAL good.... Keep that heat coming Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

You're the one they should have grabbed when you were young. I've told Black women this on numerous occasions.

[@BGSIBMOR]

The Field Master strikes back ...LoL. No punches pulled Certain folks are on the bubble in the conscious community...

[@RomWills]

Man the level of disappointment I have with conscious community is so high. Much potential has been wasted.

[@thatguyfromthe6eh649]

too short too mean too nice too fat too dark too light too corny too intelligent too quiet... but never too rich or too sexy😂. The shit is laughable at this point💯✊

[@RomWills]

It's pitiful coming from adult women.

[@SubwayFan83]

My thing is how can a brotha commit to a sista that doesn't want them? I never understood the retarded reasons behind the rejections. The best one I've recently heard is in the Black nerd community. I've recently heard a woman say that "what repels black nerdy women away from black nerdy men is their trashy attitude and not the fact he's intelligent and have weird interests or the fact he's a nerd". I thought it was bullshit because I honestly feel it's a cop out for them to find attraction to other brothas or men across the board of their calibre. I fit under the nerd category, having interest in trains, videogames/Simulators, anime and comic books. Yet I've been around women that are intimidated by me. Yet I'm the most laidback guy to chill with. It doesn't add up with me...I think it's a mirror effect.

[@RomWills]

Interesting, I've intereacted with "Black Nerdy Men" and they come off as very sincere. Even the nerd girls want Mr. Goodbar.

[@SubwayFan83]

Rom Wills Exactly. When I first heard nerdy black women say that, it just didn't add up. They really tried to make us sound like we're making shit up. We're not out of our minds.

[@jamid87]

It's sad what happened to homeboy in Greece. That being said, you gotta watch how you move at all times. Especially when you are in a foreign country. I simply feel that as a black man, our existence is a big case of damned if you do, damned if you don't. I just go where I'm wanted. I don't care what people, especially the majority of black people, think about me. Majority of the time, black folk are the ones that put you down. #SYSBM

[@RomWills]

Well said. Ultimately we have to be about our happiness.

[@akhilasawant]

Rom WallsVodapon man

[@akhilasawant]

two x film

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

@09:03 "A leader is ultimately a servant" I'm glad you said that, Rom. Because I believe many people don't know that....that leadership is service and it is a heavy _burden_ to bear. Even the word, Sergeant comes from the Latin root meaning _servant_.

[@RomWills]

People need to know that.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Damn Rom, went all David Banner on this one. *ROM SMASH!!!* GRRRRRRRR!!!!

[@RomWills]

I had to say something.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

The cold hard truth. You should do what is best for you. Don't be similar but be different like myself.

[@RomWills]

I always say that.

[@ashleym.5078]

This was a much needed discussion indeed. Not only do some of these black women you described get mad when the same brothers they rejected ignore them down the line, they also get furious when these same American brothers seek out black female mates in other parts of diaspora.

[@RomWills]

That's an angle that no one talks about. I've had continental African women tell me they got shade from African America women.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Ashley M. Because the men they didn't select didn't stick to the plan of being the backup/fallback/last resort men for these black women once their options with the men they did want dwindled. We ad libbed from the script and went where we were appreciated and celebrated, not just marginally tolerated. That wasn't the "plan" they had for us. 20+ years ago that could work, because without the Internet and social media where us men could have a voice and put each other up on game, we fell for that shit. Now with those two advents, men have woken up and said no to the okey doke. We aren't playing the game anymore and sistas are not big mad, but humongous mad about it.

[@RiderRed]

This actually how I started dating interracially, I still will date and have dated black women recently, but I can recall a time between 2001-2009, black women were not check for guys like me, and they made it known. It still happens here and there. No dread/braids, No chevy caprice on 28 inch rims, not covered in tats, or lack of "swag, ..I've never really been rejected "to my face" for being 5'9, but I'm sure its been a silent factor cause they know its dumb. It seems that black women want the "right of 1st rejection" over the actual relationship. Of course not all but this is VERY common, and in Minnesota black women are scarce as it is. You said it in another video "They want the men THEY want to commit" There is even a picture meme online that has 3 black male "Goodbar" types as you call it on it with their shirts off and at the bottom it says " These are the chocolate men we are talking about ,not your broke black crusty ass" that thing gets passed around and praised constantly by thousands of women. Same women will get mad at the Kardashians.

[@RomWills]

Your story is shared by millions of brothas.

[@deangelo1477]

just because we look alike dont mean we aren't enemies lions,tigers,jaguars,leopard,cheetah, all apart of the same cat family yet compete mercilessly same with black women and the black men

[@RomWills]

Good way of looking at it.

[@100footsie]

That's right big bro keep reaching, teaching, and preaching. Thanks again.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@100footsie]

Wow where do I start. First off and I've said this a hundred times before but this is the best video thus far. Big bro I've always said commitment is a two way street. You can't commit to someone if it isn't mutually reciprocal. And as for Umar Johnson I've been on to his pandering for a while now. Its funny that he's still pandering to black women after he was thrown under the bus after that stripper scandal. Sisters better understand today's men aren't going for the bullshit either your with us or your not but we aren't obligated to them and their whimsical flaky ass behavior. I could go on and on but I think you have articulated most of my points. Thanks again big bro.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. That was the point of this video. Black women want commitment but only from certain men. These women don't want to commit to the majority of men.

[@prestigousone]

its all about the choice of men they want and it piss them off the y can't have them. They want those men to not have options so they would not have to compete with the other women vivaing for their attention.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@kevinmurry8803]

The Denzel Principle

[@blaccrocc757]

If you go stictly by the numbers... there is roughly 1.8M or so more black women than men. So some sisters are going to be left out unless we practice polygamy.

[@RomWills]

They ain't trying to hear that.

[@MrJslaps]

First, thank you this is the truth!!!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@css360]

Lol Facts Rom! My Ex that's 5'7" said that I'm short at 5'11''... Took a lot for me to let that argument slide

[@RomWills]

That's crazy.

[@dsetgetatme]

It's funny you mentioned the height thing. A lot of women criticize you saying "oh you're too short" even though you may be in shape...but as soon as you criticize women for being OVERWEIGHT, then you are being disrespectful. What does me being short have to do with you having an eating problem ?😂😂😂😂 I crack myself up sometimes!!

[@RomWills]

That is an issue. Women feel like they can comment about a man's looks or height but cry when a man does the same.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Rom Wills the Fat Shaming and Slut shaming is just a ploy used by women to cajole and shame the top tier select men into choosing them "as is", with no adjustments or improvements made on her part. Notice no one ever tells women who don't men the standards or preferences of the top men that they need to do better to meet those standards. Nope, they go on shaming crusades to get those men to LOWER their standards to be more amenable to them, to make them fit in better. Yet these women will NEVER lower their standards for the men they view as non select. They tell those men "man up" "step your game up" so you can "get on her level", but she never wants to "step her game up" to the level of the men she wants. No she expects to be taken how she is and will stop at nothing to force those men into accepting her.

[@dsetgetatme]

Robert Teague you hit it right on the money

[@bmi3000reloaded]

Brother Rom, this compliments everything you said about the shortage of decent women. Women who have frivolous standards are a turn off to men. No self respecting man is going to mindlessly commit himself to a group of women who are shallow in how they assess men....Me and my brothers laughed at Umar Johnson as he spewed that nonsense on the Breakfast Club and Roland Martin's show. We were like, "ni#ga please!"

[@RomWills]

He's pandering.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Rom Wills he's always pandering, just like Simp Harvey, Derrick Jaxsimp and the rest of their ilk. They know the truth but won't speak it because most of their followers and contributors are black women. They know which side their bread is buttered on so they won't say anything to upset the apple cart. It wouldn't be in their best interests financially to do so. Seriously how many of Steve Harvey's double breasted "Al Capone meets A pimp named slickback's" suits were paid for by black women who wanted to be pandered to??

[@isaiahtaylor7013]

great vids Rom when I get my bread up Imma donate some money, always dropping knowledge

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@kevinmurry8803]

I remember having conversations like this back in 2005. Women want you to want them even though they don't want you. They love the attention of being desired because they are the least desired women on the planet. While Black men can date any race of women.

[@RomWills]

That the dynamic.

[@HHV44]

Hi there Rom you're telling it straight keep coming with great topics .

[@RomWills]

Thank you bruh.

[@spencer42012]

Great Video 💯 💯 I listen to you because you touch all four corners of the game board you're not just one sided... Thank you for considering and speaking up for the average or regular BM like myself... 💯💯💯

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@drockden4955]

Absolute facts Mr Wills! I'm sure glad you spoke up on the real! 💯🤛🏽

[@RomWills]

I had to do it.

[@damonbullock3609]

Love this video Uncle Rom! Thanks for being supportive of the brothers because very few do including those in our own community.

[@themanwithaplan892]

Thank you for all the work that you do and standing up for us.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@KeithBassJr.]

You went in on this one Rom...good video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@doncalypso]

Ezekiel 23:19-20... puts it all in perspective.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@zopound7688]

doncalypso just read it, wow that's powerful

[@KurtisStryker2015]

Thanks brother we appreciate it

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@swats214]

Great video Rom, you are one of the few brothas that I've heard address black women rejecting black men. I always did alright with getting ladies since I never feared being rejected it was part of the game. However, it was not until I began interacting with women in meet up groups where I began to hear women openly brag about the number of men that approached them and how they blew the men off. Yet these same women complained about the shortage of good black men.

[@RomWills]

It's amazing that women will complain about a shortage of men but reject every man that approaches them.

[@adrianthomas373]

Uncle Rom I love this vid because it was prophetic... I had just spent 5 hours with a Sicilian 92 Octane LOPHA and soon as I dropped her off @530 am, your video is playing while I'm on I-75. I love my brotha Dr. Umar just like I have love for many of the Sages in the Negromanosphere, but humans will gravitate to who chooses them.

[@RomWills]

Sicilian LOPHA? Oh snap!

[@AmgEnt135]

Agreed Rom Wells.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@tajhlee6134]

Rom your coming with ism , that we all can relate too , I've been fortunate to date some very beautiful women but also there was a time I went through complete darkness ( being on the banned list in the town hall meetings) lol but right after that I was fortunate to move from that environment, Rom it was so severe everyday I wake up I'm still on a HIGH to be gone , I know they regretting but I won't ever back track like jay z said ; "they get all fuzzy and don't remember that , Well I don't remember you "

[@RomWills]

Always do what's best for yourself.

[@mr.blackculture8111]

RAW TALK for us all. Especially the Afrikan Centered Family.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@justinharris6436]

thank you this touched my soul smh

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@donnelle222]

Great point Rom

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jehoramisrael7374]

Well Spoken as usual!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ratesforless]

While I was going to vent about these folks pandering to the sistahood because there's big $$$ in the business of telling them what they want to hear, I came across an epiphany... Could the very reason that they are now trying to shame black men into fully committing to the sistahood without thought of reciprocation be that they're painfully finding out that even some of the average guys are now gaining traction with non-black women just like the select men do? The fact that they constantly whine and complain about the high post black men getting with non-black women is nothing new. What is new is despite there being more sistas around than black men, there are more married black men than there are black women. In other words, this interracial marrying and dating 'thing' is now beginning to seep beyond the usual suspects of male celebrities, rappers, and pro athletes. That was not supposed to be part of the plan with the sistahood, who constantly tried to shame the high post men into dating them while having the bottom 80-percentile remain in stasis like Buck Rodgers. Instead, these guys are also calling an audible and going off of the grid as well. Black men who have their ish together are earning incomes that are on par with the median incomes of white, Hispanic, and even Asian men, which puts them in range to hit their women as well. At the same time, these guys remember the lengthy diss tracks the sistahood made of them being too corny, not having enough swag, or not having six-pack abs years earlier and are now avoiding them like tuberculosis when they try to come at them with their expanded waistlines, bastard kids, hairhats, and worn-out cooches while pretending to be born-again virgins. That decision becomes much easier when non-black women start approaching them in college or shortly afterwards while sistas are spending their prime years chasing behind Pookie and Ray-Ray. Is it making sense now, fellas? The reason why the sistahood and their pander bears are feeling bent is not just because the upper tier of brothers aren't within their reach. It's because Joe College, Poindexter, and Mr. Average, guys they were banking on to be the backup in case their dating options totally dissolve, are also being snapped up by Becky, Maria, and Mae Ling. At the same time, their attempts to swirl and leave 'Blakistan' behind has mostly backfired because most of them who try are only being used for one-nighters at best (click on any adult video website and go to the 'amateur' section where there are far more sistas hooking up with non-black men). Hence the shaming tactics and calls for racial unity when these sistas never really wanted these men in the first place...

[@RomWills]

There it is.

[@xavierfranz5148]

👏🏾 standing ovation 👏🏾

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Rom u went hard n da paint good looking bro

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Rom Wills u too man

[@oyh1016]

Oh, uncle Ron once again u speak the truth.....I"m 5'10", take pretty good care of myself, have my own apmt (in a very nice area - had my own townhome that I sold 3yrs ago), my own ride, NEVER EVER had to be dependent on a woman for shit - meaning I've always been self-reliant, independent, but I've been single (n dare I saw alone) for faaaar too long....but maybe it's just me cuz I deal w the online dating thing which has failed me time n time again so I definitely need another approach cuz time is wasting cuz in a couple of yrs I'll be knocking on 50's door!!!

[@RomWills]

Many men have similar stories.

[@oyh1016]

And I thought I was one of the 'non select few'.....

[@mrj9224]

No where near first today lol but who up so early on a Sat hehe right bro

[@RomWills]

I'm always up.

[@cyrusjohnson2762]

When I saw that episode, my mind did a pause when Umar said that also.

[@RomWills]

It's not realistic.

[@isaiahb.7956]

4 years old and this is still relevant.

[@morewisdom6740]

AMEN!

[@petroglyph79]

Trying to appease,conform and complement womens wants is what lead some men to make wring decisions and a big lot of them are dead in thier grave.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@JumpingJax777]

I agree with everything you said. I do believe that brothers need to try their best to marry sisters but honestly I am tired of getting rejected because I dont have street swag.

[@RomWills]

Check out Black women from the Caribbean or Africa.

[@Kukojin]

the fact is men no matter what race they are, will eventually leave from any place where they feel they are not appreciated. Even if a man stays in a place where he's constantly look down upon and his miserable, one day he's going to grow tired of it, and LEAVE. let's just be honest, for a gender that claims to be so much more mature than men, women reject men for the most immature reasons. To the fellas, I say don't waste your time. If a woman doesn't want you because of your height or because of your skin color of because of whatever idiotic reason she may have, she's not worth your time. Walk off, and don't look back, there are plenty of decent women out there.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@jholliday3]

Damb good viewpoint.

[@Sirdewitt]

I understand where everybody coming from I'm 21 and heading to pharmacy school. When I was younger black girls made me fun because I fat/big, but I still want them though, now whether they from here is the big question. If you want to date or marry a black woman I suggest associating yourself with Africans...Nigerians, Kenyans, Ghanaians, Eritrean, Ethiopian and Ugandan women are some of the most beautiful women I've met and seen. I work with them and they tell me all the time, they don't understand black American women, they verbatim tell me men are in control, they aren't into matriarchy. My Kenyan pharmacist works with will work all at and still go home and manage to take care of her husband and have his things ready when he gets home. And when I explain this to Baw they think it's being a servant and I try to explain it's not, it's just a widely duty. Now me going into pharmacy school I can say that I've met some baw that I could see myself with, but it's slim chance because baw are to westernized...I love me an African woman a dark one at that. And when you find one keep her.

[@RomWills]

Don't forget about South African women. I watch the Africa channel just to check them out.

[@Sirdewitt]

Rom Wills I definitely will

[@Quincy82AAC]

I dont owe black women nothing just because we share the same skin colour or ethnicity. Also black women dont turn me on sexually. Plus if I went for black women they would never go for me or date me cos I am too short at 5ft6in tall,slim build,and not alpha male. The crazy is and another reason why I get rejected by black women because they told me that I was too light skinned even though I am a brown skinned black man somewhere in the middle. This is the reason why I date interacially because those women accept me for me. Rom being 5ft10in tall is a good height to me and I would not mind being that tall because you get respect from women in the dating scene and they cant accuse you of being too short. Women and their height expectations for a man is crazy and unrealistic especially if they are short themselves (i.e 4ft11in-5ft2in) want a man who is 6ft plus tall. Short males in the dating scene(5ft7in tall and below) have really hard because all women in all races weather they are tall or short all want a tall alpha male guy and the whole world of women hates short men when it comes to the dating scene because we are scene as weak and less of a man. I still love women but its hard.

[@RomWills]

That height thing is crazy to me especially since the average height of women of 5'4" and slightly overweight.

[@Quincy82AAC]

But the funny thing Rom is that feminism,female talk shows and society in general have these womens heads so gassed up so bad that they believe in their own hype in that they can get any man or a top tier man they want even though they are either plane janes or fat,ugly and out of shape or a single mother while ignoring all the good men that can give them a stable future in their youthful good years in their teens and 20s when they have their pick of the men. These women get a rude awakening when they hit their 30s and hit the wall when their good looks fade and have bastard kids from other men if they make the bad choices in having kids with the wrong man.

[@GreenEyedScentGuy]

A classic!!!

[@deusexmachina7538]

Uncle Rom, thanks for being an advocate for black men.

[@cminus23msw]

I had some issues in the beginning with the assessment, but a number of points are worth while. Still believe black man should stay with one another vice versa for black woman.

[@RomWills]

That's fair but the Black women have to want the Black men. That's the only issue.

[@markcarter177]

Exactly Rom... Rule 1. Don't f**k with me.. pass that ppl can fall in love with whoever they find.. I've always dated black women... but lik the song says: "It's your thang do want you wanna do.. I can't tell ya.. Who to sock it to"!!

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@RASTAGOOB]

you know it's bad when the white boys and muts getting bw. and unfortunately most of us single good brothaz will be single or WILL HAVE to settle because of the wasteland of single moms.. biggest motivation as a black men sustain PROTECT provide and take care of his family. now A days were stuck saying "WHEN will I have my own family??" 😓

[@aktionman9188]

That's why men or going to different country an talking to Latino women an Philippines women.an I encourages

[@darrickbrisco5016]

I meant short

[@darrickbrisco5016]

I've heard the shirt one too but we all same height laying down but rom I feel u a lot of sistss b on garbage Becky n Maria on da prowl now

[@RomWills]

Sistas the main ones tripping about height.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Rom Wills cause they think tall= most virile and masculine, plus they wanna be the next single mother getting praise on ESPN for raising the next Kevin Durant or Deshaun Watson.

[@nolaant4568]

Get in where you fit in!!!! My Grandfather told me "If the shoe fits, Tie the mutherfucka"

[@RomWills]

LMAO! Your Grandfather is wise.

[@Surgicaldamage]

From young I felt it was justice when a woman would go all suicidal over a bad boy. Coz I knew what she would do to a classic man.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@dollarwil1234]

There are Black women all over the world. However, if a brother can't travel then he gotta get in where he can fit in. In the end, you gotta like who likes you.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@DmarquettePainter]

Kinda makes you reconsider a few things when the “conscious” black woman you fell in love with keeps accusing you of being gay one minute and hyper-masculine the next. On top of that urging you to adopt feminine ways saying nonsense like “women only created men as servants” and “women make the rules”. Always preaching about “getting out the system” yet wanting men to spend their hard earned system-made money on her. Embarrassing me in front of my family. I used to be really against interracial dating but ever since that experience and moving to China I stopped paying attention to race and focused more on cooperation no matter what race the woman is. Ironically I’m happier now.

[@RomWills]

Ultimately a man has to find his own happiness.

[@darknova7863]

Theres two sides to every coin and yo l'd be glad to date BW but like every women l have standard. Plus l'm the guy most BW would not date me because not a thug. Yo know l watch an angryman hangout and a caller said (Paraphase) bw rejecting brothers and doing brothers wrong will lead BM away and when shit hits they can't be surprised when BM don't come and help. Oh yea l am no violent person but Rom l got you bro.

[@RomWills]

Yeah are starting to get friendlier according to many brothas.

[@jessekirksey1980]

Not all but this is an intresting topic. I don't argue with them i just let them have an argument by themself. I learned to have peace within God and self.

[@CashCowz962]

Brother Rom...i think you spit real cerebral knowledge when you get into these rants brother!!! the latter end of this video is so dope. I wonder how sistas at a very young age get to be so experienced in the art of ruining the NORMAL HUMAN (young boys before the age of puberty, are in the purest normal human form of male existence...they are innocent to sex and its trappings, etc etc..and have a fertile mind that can grow any concept...CREDIT, VIDEO GAME DEVELOPMENT, FAMILY TRAITS, MORALITY..HOW TO TREAT WOMEN WITH RESPECT..HOW TO BE USEFUL MEMBERS OF SOCIETY etc etc..RELIGIOUS FAMILY LIFE...the things that build good families , generations and generations into the FUTURE...are the young sistas being given the useful FAMILY BUILDING TOOLS as children are are they allowed to be RATCHED and think TWERKING and having a phat ass is all a sista needs in this life?..`Of course that is the trick these REALITY TV SHOWS ARE selling to us. The story behind that truth is that these glammed up cartoon characters are broke , have bad character, have been to jail, are no moral role models....there are STDs and the still ALMIGHTY HIV swirling around etc etc etc.....but no one talks about that) character of young brothas. By telling these young brothas they don't have swag or are not tatted or don't have money etc etc or are not cute or whatever. like you mentioned around 15:23 ..ultimately leads these young brothas to branch off in search of these traits simply to be accepted by these young girls and get some ASS...(meanwhile sex should be the least of our worries...YET for BROTHAS...getting some ass is our biggest CHALLENGE till we die....And i don't think we are more virile than other men...cos if it were true our population will be the fastest growing in AMERIKA. OUr social structures make sure that we dont get enough GOOD sex and so our HUMANITY is always looking for it.....and we even had to invent something called GAME....it existed before our times...but we have a different flava of it customized for our women and their ways..lol.) when they get into their early 20s. Which can lead to crime...jail..low income..and other sorts of unprogressive living. But i guess brothas gotta play the hand we are dealt wif...lol

[@RomWills]

Well said brotha.

[@Bronxguyanese]

Response video in bound

[@RomWills]

Cool.

[@kevinmurry8803]

And this too, Black women are not even attracted to some of the men who interracial date. They don't desire Tiger Woods, Dave Chappelle, Wayne Brady, etc. They want their status.

[@RomWills]

That's real as well.

[@vblyden]

When these women get to 30, 5 feet will be the new 6 feet!

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@verniciagraves2918]

Maybe preferences? I've heard many mentions of a "phat azz" not a "flat azz" in these videos. So women having a preference for tall not short is...? Male or Female to only consider phenotype is juvenile standards in choosing a mate to build with now a days. Also, being rejected in high school? Are people really holding a grudge for 20 years? Funny, I was told I was flat chested in high school...and not desirable. By 22 I blossomed to 36DD, not overweight...just transforming from teen to young adult. I'm not angry at the guy who told me I was flat chested and not desired back then..... I will not hold a grudge against men today who prefer a fuller chest...that's their choice. Life goes on...people must mature. We are all at the mercy of gravity...whatever height, live long enough you will lose a few inches and boobs will drop. Ijs!

[@RomWills]

Well will get past their physical preferences way quicker than women will. Hence the "thirsty" label. You have professional matchmakers who have talked about the physical preferences of Black women. Also if you are going to HONEST you know many brothas who are in their 30's 40, and 50's are being rejected by Black women. These brothas are also gainfully employed.

[@rharden66]

I don't recommend marriage period,if she wants marriage,she have to be the bread winner,husband and kids are her expense (in a legal marriage situation) otherwise,marriage is a bad deal for men under the current "simp ass" gynocentric system,I'm still not a advocate of marriage period.and who is she committed "herself & hers" which includes KID'S,and both are state property,you will discover this in the court room.

[@RomWills]

Many men feel this way.

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

Cast a wide net and catch better fish...that's all!

[@RomWills]

I feel you.

[@kennethclemons3415]

Excellent video Rom.When it comes to finding that woman to settle down with. I'm don't discriminate to whenever woman from a different race i like. Dont get me wrong, i still like black women , but the black women rejects me because of lack of swag, educated lame, etc..im going to date outside of race whatver i please. I sick of this black man/ woman self-preservation narrative within the black community, it makes no sense. Black women are so quick to guilt shame a black man for this, which totally unfair. Another fact that humans from different races had interracial mating/breeding centuries ago.

[@RomWills]

Ultimately we have to go for the right person.

[@MrOrlandodh12]

shit it's a risk and and a liability to commit as a black man basically suicide lol sadly but surely.

[@RomWills]

It's getting like that more and more.

[@megatron5047]

Uncle rom we're men.for the most part we think,and speak with logics.we as men understand there's no such thing as a perfect woman.but the average blkwoman today don't,or at least act like she dont understand there's no such thing as a perfect man.she's looking for some brother that don't exist.

[@RomWills]

It's those romantic illusions.

[@quavariussmith7377]

I became woke at 14 as a young black guy all I wanted was black females but they the ones who putting me down.

[@darrickbrisco5016]

Hondas are very reliable

[@RomWills]

I prefer reliable over flashy any day.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Darrick Brisco compare Hondas to Mercedes and there's the good black men/Goodbar paradox. A honda is safe, efficient, reliable, predictable and unless it has a lot of adornments like that ricer shit, pretty non flashy, I.e. "Boring. That's the good guy. While the Mercedes is flashy, expensive, luxurious and everyone wants one. Ergo, Mr. Goodbar. Problem is maintaining a Mercedes is expensive and nerve racking because parts are expensive, their value can drop quickly and except for the more expensive adornments they aren't much different from a Honda just a much higher price tag.

[@HatterFamily]

@Rom Wills. Where are these brothers at who wants a sister? The only one I've encountered recently is separated. Not even free. The only single brothers others than that one brother are nothing more than butthole Obsidian spawns. Very discouraging.

[@RomWills]

Even those brothas really want sisters. There's the pain of rejection behind the anger.

[@aktionman9188]

One day black woman is go to . need men attention a can't get it it.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

lmaooo i didn't think u would make this video. But i'm confused all the examples you guys give sound like it's women from the hood these guys are chasing or baby mamas.

[@RomWills]

Bronzed Beauty, These are typically middle class women with educations who are rejecting Black men. Ironically the hood chicks are more supportive.