When Some Black Women Don't Acknowledge Good Black Men

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[@redaquarian8665]

Some of these very same Black women WILL EVENTUALLY try to acknowledge a good black man AFTER years and years of being dogged out and run through by multiple dudes gets them some fleeting good times only to end up spiritually poor, spiritually broke and spiritually destitute...then that's when they want to acknowledge that good brother. Been going on for centuries and won't change.

[@RomWills]

Yeah it's a vicious cycle.

[@hammer5fl]

C Toomer Correct. By that time it's often simply too late to get a certain level of "investment" from the average brother(shrugging shoulders)...

[@hammer5fl]

Perverted .Alchemist The "church makeovers" never work on a cat with half a brain in his skull...SMH...LOL...

[@hammer5fl]

Perverted .Alchemist Some cats still stagger in occasionally for reconnaissance missions and "entertainment"...SMH...LOL...😂

[@hammer5fl]

Duke Mann Precisely. Starve The Beast....I'm already seeing this movement in the young adult, teenager, "educated lame" cohort of men...

[@SubwayFan83]

The sad and unfortunate truth is women are attracted to who they want to be attracted to. They know there are good men around them. The problem is they expect that good man they meet, stay around while she's having a good time with various men or trying relationships with who they "feel" is the perfect man for them. By the time she realize she had a good man around her the whole time, he moved on and already found his queen.

[@RomWills]

I try to tell women this.

[@SubwayFan83]

GodMode Oh I'm highly aware of that. Trust and believe. Their logical side doesn't kick in till after they've experience abuse or had multiple kids from multiple men that run out on them.

[@queenofhearts2013]

Jtrain83. How does she know that you are a good man if she doesn't know you?*

[@KB-tn1dj]

Sistas make no effort to understand mankind as an entity. So i guess they deserve every little thing that happens to them while they chase the thugs that they and their friends idolize...

[@doctorsorder414]

Maturing into manhood involves finding what makes you happy, keeping and protecting that which makes YOU happy first, regardless of who comes into the picture. A man's happiness can not be centered on meeting a woman's expectations. Your happiness is exempt from her expectations. YOU first and keep your foot on the Devils neck in trying to destroy it.

[@RomWills]

I always say a man should seek his own happiness.

[@ladyvin3598]

ANOTHER WAY OF SAYING IM GOING FOR THE WHITE WOMAN......ANYTHING BLACK DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY

[@infinitymfg5397]

One of your better videos Rom. I'm going to sound like a broken record on this, but this all comes back to the narrative. Many black women have spent 40+ years building this narrative that involves the striving, put-upon black woman and the shiftless, man-child black man and any discussion that challenges that will be met with the most vicious deflections. Once a narrative has been built into a culture and taken roots this deep, to explain it any other way is a challenge to their very identity. That's why the whole "educated lame/classic man" discussion became so nasty and was riddled with so many deflections; the idea that they were picking bad men was to blame was too much. That's also why so many women love the ambiguous "building, resources, infrastructure" argument. Its formless and can be adapted at any moment. Hence things like: "I have a net worth of $1,000,000", "why isn't it $2,000,000?" "I have 3 degree", "Why don't you have 4 degrees?" To acknowledge good men shines a light on her own poor decisions and dysfunctions.

[@RomWills]

You're right about that narrative. It's the very thing that has to challenged in order for there to be a change in relationships.

[@KB-tn1dj]

Bill Gates has stuck with his 1 wife whom many will call a plain Jane. The man is happy and saving human life, creating jobs and making life changing computers...lol....We are still struggling to tame DIMES.....hahahahahaha...poor black men...harsh comparison but valid in a few ways.

[@franciscobonne5380]

K B he is not saving lives he is investing on human depopulation

[@fivepercenter7]

The sad reality is that most of these black women don't like good black men that is actually doing good things. Most of them are jealous and seek to tear down a brother and actually feel good about it.The recent You tube attempted failed hit on black men KZbin is a prime example. I personal had to walk away from women that to bring me down financially and otherwise instead of just simply get there act together.Much respect for shearing the knowledge Rom Wills

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@kyandigaru5666]

when "some" black women don't acknowledge a good man, it's for these main reasons. 1) she ACTUALLY DOES have a man and cant go out with the good brotha. Some men think women lie when we say we are taken. 2) Her family haven't taught her how to date properly. This is sadly common in the black community neither side, man or woman know how to court. She when a good approach her without game, she will dismiss him. 3) She wasn't ready for the real thang! There are shy women, women with anxiety and other non-threatening issues. She is so.. caught up with other worries, she didn't recognize good. 4) she is a follower of fads and trends. If her friends got caughtup with a thug, so will she. If her friends are ALL BABYMOMMAS soon will she. Some women don't have a proper mentor.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that. Men need to know these things.

[@intelligentargument5733]

I told this one sister who was constantly complaining about they're not enough good men around that there could be a downpour outside, raining nothing but good black men and you would go outside, put up an umbrella and say "there ain't no good men". She had two good men that I knew of who really loved her but she always found reasons why they weren't good enough and left them for a no good man. SMDH...

[@RomWills]

Happens a lot.

[@BookerT1]

kinda off topic but i remember in high school we had career day.....a brother who was a lawyer came to speak (from my memory he was a descent looking guy.) He made a comment that i didn't understand until adulthood......"i had to pass the bar, because if i didn't my wife wouldn't want me." the older i get the deeper that statement is to me

[@RomWills]

That's deep when you think about it.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

wow

[@BookerT1]

sebastien delva one could think his wife was a gold digger or one could see what motivates a woman when (in the words of rom) "choosing" a man.

[@ladyvin3598]

BOOKER T........No stupid it means you black men are afraid to grow up and be a man...HIS WIFE WAS BEHIND HIM PUSHING HIM TO MAN-UP....behind every good black man is a good black woman......give credit where credit is due

[@BookerT1]

LADY VIN so what if he didn't pass the bar exam and had tho live with his mom for the next 5 years?

[@Wack-rp9nz]

There are a small percentage of black women who genuinely want a good man. But mostly I observe two types of women who scream where the good men at. The first group says they want a good man. But only go after thugs hoping they will treat them right. The second group want a good man in a certain package. Has to be attractive, tall, and make a certain amount of money. I noticed with black women I got more attention when I ignored them and stopped giving a fuck. Which is cool but you're asking to get played if you don't date the men who value you the most. I guess since even a broke woman can get all her financial needs from the government. It's less of a risk to have casual sex with men who won't stick around.

[@RomWills]

Very good points. It's time to celebrate that small percentage so other women will get the idea.

[@ladyvin3598]

WACK 100......You are right...there are two types of black men and those are the choices we have to pick from.....pickings are slim to none...and since you good black men quote unquote are looking forward and never back ..jump out of the pool and all that is left so called thugs....you good guys with stars in your eyes are going for white women

[@pickmeisha]

I knew someone who met a very cool, viable black guy on a plane trip and she decided not to pursue him any further because his hair wasn't 'good' enough to 'have a baby with'. I had to limit my contact with her after that statement. Its troubling but not surprising, the single black woman's narrative in dating/relationships.

[@RomWills]

But sistas get mad when a brotha rejects them based on skin complexion.

[@jasminepearls1047]

Majority of black women wouldn't reject a man like that over his hair.

[@Mcdowells]

I literally laughed out loud at that hair comment. Kudos to you.

[@felipealem6590]

Thats crazy.I had no clue people are like that.

[@ddrebrne3336]

She has the right to choose. Just like you do.

[@patton1909]

I'm convinced a good black man is always the option of last resort

[@RomWills]

For many women it is.

[@patton1909]

Rom Wills sad but true field master

[@KB-tn1dj]

Becky and Moica Valdez will take you and make you happy and your boys will worship you cos you got dat non-sista...live your life!!!!

[@spacelyman9482]

Greatness Awaits Good black men always get the leftovers smh

[@nuchanucha7336]

Rom, thank you very much for this video . Yes ,many of us black women do see the greatness of black man and we proudly acknowledge that ...😉😉💚💛

[@RomWills]

You're welcome sis.

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

Suuuuuuuuuuuuure... After how many bastard kids? STDs? Lowlifes who bang and bail?

[@KennyMansa]

Some sisters want a King until he assumes the position.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@CHAARAWTAZA144]

can't add much to your dialogue brother Rom. you're spot on. basically, a "good black man" differs from woman to woman.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@ratesforless]

I've stated this numerous times and it bears repeating. The main reason why so many sistas are still complaining about there not being any 'good men' around is because as a collective, they only recognize four types of men... Men they've effed Men they're effin Men they want to eff Men they're about to eff With very few exceptions, if you don't fit into these categories, she will barely acknowledge you as a human being much less a good man. That's why a woman can openly lament about there being no good men in a restaurant filled with nothing but good men. Because they don't find the guys as physically attractive enough to sleep with, they're not deemed as 'good' to them. Always remember this, fellas. What we generally define as a 'good man' is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT than what women define them as being. When we think of a nice guy or a good man, we think of that guy having a good heart, responsible, kind, hard-working, loyal, et al. What they see in a nice man is a nicely-paid man, a nice looking man, a nicely-proportioned man, a nicely-endowed man who so happens to believe in monogamy. Anyone who doesn't fit whatever measuring stick she uses in this regard are deemed as guys she can easily get without much effort later on down the road and will still be in wait long after they're done riding the c0ck carousel (see dual mating/dating strategy). If this wasn't the case, we wouldn't be seeing decent, everyday guys getting curved and friend-zoned (see 80/20 rule) at nearly the rate we do today. Remember your value, gentlemen. If a woman you're attracted to is gripping about there not being any good men around while you're sitting next to her in the restaurant booth, she no longer deserves your company. Let them complain on someone else's time and dime...

[@RomWills]

As always well said. How's the book coming?

[@ratesforless]

I'm sectioning things off and updating a few things. The e-book will be televised...

[@malachibenyisrael2037]

I don't need to be acknowledged, I get my women from South America. What I know is that black women thrive on the narrative that "black men ain't shit" to define their own identity. Any brother waiting on black women to disturb their own identity to acknowledge you will be waiting forever.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Tay Made you do know that there are black women in South America right?

[@queenofhearts2013]

Altiar Beezelbub. We know this,read your post.I agree with her.

[@queenofhearts2013]

Tay Made. i totally agree

[@iprofox3758]

Malachi Ben Yisrael hows them south american women? i already know they look good.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

They are bashing us because they are jealous. I gonna be honest it never happened to me personally but i saw it happen a lot of times. I'm a extravert type but very composed when i'm focused. Brothers stop dating toxic black women because they are the worst. Spot that diamond and she will come for you.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@ladyvin3598]

SNIPER 11 N.D.......I HOPE YOU MEAN BLACK DIAMOND

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I meant diamonds in general. Color is not the issue.

[@1moretime265]

Already starting my week off right! Thanks Brother Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thank fam. Hit me up when you get a chance. Let me know how business is going.

[@1moretime265]

Will Do!

[@hammer5fl]

Timely solid work as usual Mr. Rom...Played this video in the car taking my sons to school...The truth is the truth and your work is so much appreciated. Take Care And Have A Good One!!! PS We'll definitely be hitting you up on the private soon...😎

[@RomWills]

I look forward to hearing from you.

[@youngboi24]

IM NOT TELLING NOBODY I HAVE A MILLION DOLLAR PORTFOLIO ESPECIALLY NOT NO WOMAN THAT'S A HUGE MISTAKE

[@RomWills]

Let them think you are broke until you see their character.

[@youngboi24]

THAT'S HOW YOU DO IT

[@peepingtom24hrs]

This is a next video you should do Rom. Keep quiet and build, doing this for years.

[@TheMABExperience]

Great points Sir 💯💪🏾

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@aarongray1981]

I had a woman tell me one time (and i really liked her) she told me she thinks i could be the man for her but i was just too tall. I couldnt believe it!

[@mikev6046]

I think people may be over thinking this. Black women's ideology is based on not depending on black men, period. So, if you have a "Good Brother" who's success has parity with a BW or exceeds that BW's level of success, then that brother contradicts her ideology. Think about Germans during the Olympics when they thought they were superior to everyone and a brother named Jesse Owens came in and ran circles around them Europeans in their own country! Black women who see the "Good Black Men" feel the same way as the european do. Only now, black women have become She-Males. A White man in the physical body of a black woman.

[@RomWills]

There's truth in what you're saying.

[@baron-44]

The purpose of all Men is to become an Adept of the Craft of Life...don't you dare put your life on hold because of someone else's whims...the Journey is long & lonely but worthwhile particularly for you Black Man...the world have not seen in full Splendor in a while...you can't afford to let the ugliness of rotten hearts...shun your Light...Respect your Path for those who came before you have Shown & Proved who/what you are...it's your duty to Honor them with your Success...as i always say...do as you will as you see fit but make sure you Suit Yourself to look at your Best...you need that...Shine my Brothers!. #SUPERIORMAN

[@RomWills]

*Slow Clap*

[@slimflex1]

Taking my morning dose of rom wills knowledge . Thanks brother for the medication. 😂

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@m.rogersbey5446]

The narrative that Brotha's ain't shit is too deep rooted in the psyche of Sistas's that none of us will do. Good men have to suffer for bad mens behavior until who knows when.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Another on Point video as usual! I know quite a few women like this, that's why I don't tell a lot of these women my business for various reasons, not just some wanted to get in my pockets and see how they can get something out of me, but also for this reason, some can be jealous and Hate. Like people always say, some women can be a little intimidated and Jealous by men who have a certain level of success too! These be the same woman will be quick to ridicule another brother and put him down when they don't think he have anything going on or if they're on her level. That's why you never volunteer no information to these women even when some women be bragging about their business, their education and degrees that what they got going on and I seen it , you just act like you don't even hear their ass which is what I do and I have done and keep handling your business and let them figure you out and wonder what's going on with you! What kills me with some of these women, they want to be quick to question your credentials and what level you're at and half of them not even know where near on your level will be asking all them crazy ass questions! So for women like that, you just keep having your business not talking and making your moves. Don't go into too many details with these women about your business comma they're just going continue to see how you you carry yourself walk and talk without them knowing too much about you and they are going to say to themselves like man it's some about that guy, what is he really about, even if you don't look like you have anything going on for yourself or any money because looks can be deceiving anyway, I see the way he carries himself and how he walk, talk, like you mentioned before Rom in one of your videos! You want to have it to the point where you have women dying to find out what you're about based upon your swag how you carry yourself and demeanor. That's why when you're trying to better yourself and get your business going and make it happen and become a reality, you can't do it when you have some women in your company most of the time because they will hold you back for that reason, which is to keep you from getting to a certain level. All you want them to do is see your come up, see the things that's going on in your life by the items you have, how you dress, the luxurious cars you driving, that'll do all of the talking instead of going to a whole lot of detail until you see where they're really coming from!!

[@RomWills]

Yeah I don't talk business with many women unless they are in business themselves. In general I keep my moves to myself.

[@khalidhasan5938]

*in competition not in cooperation* Uncle Rom, this slogan should be coined, without doubt!

[@RomWills]

Yeah let's get it out there.

[@themanwelch]

What these women dont realize is that the women that say, "there are no good black men" are just in a closed bubble, so they dont see good men. Why? Have you noticed that actors marry actors, doctors marry doctors, researchers marry researchers. The reason for this is mainly because people meet and marry others in there social circle. As a med student, i belong to a Facebook group that is dedicated to Black men and women that are medical Doctors, vetenarians, pharmacists, etc. The group has over 17 k people. Almost half of the members are men. Some neurosurgeons, orthopedic surgeons making over half a million dollars a year. There are many times where these black men may make a post asking about the availability of the females in the group( alot of them look good too). THEY jump at the chance for these good black men. Now, these women that say there are no good black men will NEVER SEE THESE MEN. They are not in the same social circle . THIS is WHY you have to invest in the lame brothers early. You have to invest in them in high school, college or grad school. The earlier the better.DOnt give your best years( especially sexually) to thugs, the guy with nice eyes, the player. Dont end up pregnant and overweight.Work with the lame brother. I have been with my fiance for 6 yrs. I was hard working with a dream and she was a secretary for a business.Despite, me having nothing and her having more money, she was still dedicated to me. Now she is a financial analyst for a large company on Wall street and I am about to graduate medical school to become a surgeon. Now, if she would of went for all these thugs and dropped me... she may have been one of the women today that says THERE ARE NO GOOD BLACK MEN, while i probably would of met a white woman in medical school ( in most medical schools the population is 98% white and asian) and have gotten married.

[@RomWills]

Thank you for sharing that. We need to see more testimonies like this.

[@Richjunior1]

This is one of the reasons why mgtow is here and growing like crazy!

[@RomWills]

Very true.

[@johnfreemanpayneii3091]

Self reflection and accountability is foreign to most women.

[@RomWills]

True.

[@KelceHurtsSwift]

I feel like this the reason why you see the black men with these white women 🤔🤷

[@vjvj85]

Uncle rom gave us an easter double dose lol! Thanks

[@RomWills]

Had to do a quick on that Gilbert Arenas thing.

[@tajhlee6134]

2 gems in one day rom on the ball

[@RomWills]

I had to say something.

[@johnnybarnes2120]

Good job rom

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

Do like I did,I took my million dollars and went to Brazil.The black women there treat you like a king.If you are ignored by these black women in America,go to another country.I just got back from Santo Domingo,DR.The black women there are amazing too....

[@RomWills]

Many men are doing the same thing.

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

Yes and I applaud them for leaving the Matrix.We are winners.....

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

hmm .. good food for thought! And i'm all for focusing now on good bw!

[@carolynemusolo6188]

pls in the photo I fancy the guy in the orange shirt.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@mrj9224]

2nd!!!!

[@RomWills]

LOL!