The Problem Women Have With Good Looking Guys

[@RomWills]

This is real talk.

[@chimkinNuggz]

Lowkey. Good looking guys have it harder in dating women. Good looking guys get judged twice as much than average/below average guys. They get judged by men and women. Who assume theyre players, who assume they can get any girl they want, who assume they have no personality, who assume theyre not genuine,etc,etc. And because of that, they write him off without even talking to the good looking guy in the first place.

[@JayAlizayBeats]

no they dont. i remember me my good looking friend were chilling wit a girl in my car. he had the looks she liked, i had the car she liked (she even complimented it twice) but guess who fucked her in my car? the one she was attracted to. pls believe me looks makes women feel better about herself but if you a guy without good looks you gotta bring something else to the table.

[@MrNapalm313]

Okay so this explains why they have attitudes all of a sudden, I mean I'm a regular guy I'm cool but I don't take any shit from anyone I'm at a point now where because I'm not giving a fuck now I just want to get paid off my creativity and leave the 9 to 5 life. I've heard niggas calling me pretty talking to other bitches when I'm near em when I look at them chick and the dude they both look down at the ground on some childish shit it's like a nigga can't win just being himself minding his business.

[@simdawg9342]

RuggedALAN bro, lol we need a club. I struggle with this so much at work, its good to hear that this isn't personal.

[@underrated7725]

J born sinner Boy thats sure what it seems like. Lol. I love the basket ball goal comparison to women

[@FrenchJae]

RuggedALAN Preeeeeeeaach!!!!

[@MrSivram28]

My ex girlfriend told me that life must be easier for me because I'm good looking. I said me? and laughed. I told her that everything in life is difficult for me and that I'm hated by most people including majority of women.

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

That is a fact. There is jealousy , envy , people imitating you. Trying to put you down, wanting you to gain weight, change yourself and your style. It is a huge pressure. They want you to be confident all the time. And they don't even say it. We just feel it.

[@kisigma1011]

Exactly

[@nafajonit8854]

Women hate me for no reason. Wooooow

[@richardshearer7094]

You told her that though? Probably not a good thing to let her know

[@MrSivram28]

@@richardshearer7094 That's what I told her

[@hichcoc]

All that is bro is that she is looking for someone which she can manipulate, control and have chasing after HER ass....Anybody on those types of shenanigans shall receive their pink slip before the movie even begins young blood... You can't ever be afraid to walk away gentlemen.... Class dismissed.. H~

[@MrSadelover100]

This is why its Very important for a perceived "Handsome" guy to keep an air of "I dont Really give a shit about you attitude" especially towards women who play the fence with them. Make them shit or get off the pot. The last thing you really want to deal with is some Hateful (low key Feminist) type chick trying to Destroy your Manhood,.Self esteem and Ego by playing you for a buster. Keep that Charge button on Automatic....youll thank yourself later.

[@333mher]

Mr Locario is so brilliant, it happened in many cases that women told me that I am too good looking for them, and actually I had a case a year ago, she told me directly that she wants to look better than her man, and she stopped dating me. Also when you are a good looking guy and your shit is right, women get crazy jealous and insecure that they ruin the whole thing.

[@MrGQ1984]

lol this is true. the insecurity is crazy.

[@icemedia5938]

Im with you on this one bro. Same thing happened to me

[@keithfauntleroy2001]

333mher only black woman are like that. Date other races bro.. Im telling you

[@ericbonaparte9790]

100% True

[@CellGames2006]

Obviously women want as good of a partner as possible... but looks are a double edged sword. If he's TOO good looking she'll be afraid he leaves her. The optimum ratio I hear from studies is the girl should be a BIT better looking than the guy and around 10% shorter. If you keep failing at average chicks whuile your ugly friends pull them with ease, you might be going for girls that are too ugly. Trade up and see what happens.

[@karlmarcs31]

Most attractive men are lonely when it comes to women. Women either put these men on a pedestal or they're trying to bring them down a couple of pegs. Others just assume those men are out of their league. Those guys next those girls quickly. Guys are less picky than women, but these guys feel isolated. Even notice how attractive guys usually end up with average chicks? That girl was probably the only one who treated him normal. Didn't laugh at his shitty jokes. Didn't cup his balls 24/7, pat him on the back, tell him how perfect he is. She went in there, didn't play games, had some fun with him and he ended up liking her.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

I'd like a average chick I'd be fine with that shit

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Yeah but sometimes that same girl worships you. Whereas the pretty girl prolly won't.

[@beeyaybaracas3240]

Most women won't give a good looking guy the time. They just assume he's a jerk. It's infuriating.

[@rose0514]

Now it all makes since to why I'm always seeing ugly guys with woman. And the good looking guys are always usually single

[@RyuEnGamer]

Or with some busted chicks

[@brandonwombacher1615]

The Cute And Attractive Guys Are Seen As A Threat And Hate Them And Make Him A Outcast If Possible

[@Ferien7]

Rose 051 good looking guys are single because they want to be, because they get chicks easily. Average guys have to relationship because they can't get it on looks alone. And this just means they are supporting their girls. Good looking guys don't have that problem.

[@imablazeuonfiya]

that's true but i'm single because i prefer it to being in a relationship. i can get pussy without claiming them so why an i gonna add burden to myself?

[@douchebagpatrol7237]

u mean ugly RICH guys?

[@echoequani8326]

Problems of being a handsome 1) Some women assume you are a player. 2) Some women only want to date you because of the way you look. 3) Some women assume because you are good looking that you are stupid. 4) Some women assume right of that you are concieted! 5) Some women assume if you are good looking you are a jerk. 6) Some women assume you must be gay! 7) Some women assume you have a lot of lovers. 8) Some assume that if you are good looking you want to only date women that look like beauty queens. 9) Some women assume you are not the marrying type your ok to fool around with though! 10)Some assume we only depend on our looks to get what we want. We want to be loved for who we are not what we look like. We know as we get older we will lose our looks. Looks fade and personality stays unless we get the dreaded Alzheimer's or any other disease that can cause a problem with ones personality. We are people like everyone else and being so called good looking does not always give people the perks people think it does! Being stared at and getting hit on often can get annoying.I dont consider myself to be attractive. My friends who get hit on a lot feel the same way I do. I have a friend he is married and women hit on him and they have let known what they want. He tells them he is married and he is not interested. They say so let's go have some fun. She won't know.

[@brandonwombacher2559]

Prejudice Is A Bitch

[@madmax7965]

That a lot

[@lordbeaky3496]

The problem with being a good looking guy is being yourself and nerdy is looked down upon. I want to attract nerdy girls but, what I find is they are too intimidated and scared to talk to me so I have to approach them and make a move everything goes well and she ends up rejecting me and I don't hear from her ever again. Usually the girls who do have confidence to approach me sadly are the ones who are very shallow and only like me for my looks and the way I dress and assume I am a player type when really I never had a girlfriend or a hookup.

[@johndavies7185]

Lord Beaky i feel u g

[@KazuchiX]

Same here...

[@seriekekomo]

Haha this is so true it hurts T.T

[@jjkqazolp]

I already know I intimidate women. They be hella insecure. I don’t even deal with insecure chicks.

[@themasternm1]

U right

[@tyrellmotleu9787]

It seems that if you are "good looking", it's a damn it you do, damn if you don't scenario. Being held to a higher standard, good looking men are expected to have many women ( which can intimidate many women). At the same time if they don't have many women( they will be looked upon as gay or lame). What I got from this video is don't go for the insecure women.

[@itz_akuma]

Lmao. Just like you can be nice. But you should never be the nice Guy. You can be good looking. But you cant just be a good looking guy. You need some game to accompany it. Or you just look goofy.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

@dailydoseofanimals4657 You serious 😂 only if a woman totally focused on your looks doesn't work all the time

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

We accidentally reject them every day. But the line for what constitutes rejection from us is a little ridiculous.

[@DarronBrown88]

Ironically men get insecure around good looking women 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@gu3sswh075]

Darron Brown not after watching this. Realizing the more attractive she is, the more insecure she is

[@DomoDev]

Daniel Grutta I’m surprised how average - ugly women have enough confidence to talk to men like Jason Momoa (Aquaman) but the good looking women always be so insecure and head for people like 6ix9ine...

[@jlionmenelik77]

Some American women just want dudes to entertain them a lot of these American women are not about nothing.

[@Slim545]

Martez x ain’t bout nothing at all

[@kisigma1102]

Yup

[@kisigma1102]

Don't forget get about support in anyway that can sustain them in life

[@Porsche915]

So glad I'm hearing this man... validate what I was thinking

[@ti253799]

You hitting it right on the head. I had chicks tell me that I must have a billion women chasing after me, and that’s not even the case.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Just say "Yup!! 😊"

[@KS-md3uj]

As a woman, I can confirm that this is really accurate with how I think about dating attractive men. I've started to be open to it, but for most of my life I wouldn't allow myself to go there.

[@realtalk6720]

Your very insecure and should only procreate with ugly ducklings 🤣

[@blindsightedfool]

Hi! Do you watch the Locario women channel?

[@Trey_W]

Me as a man has seen women who were attractive, but I wasn’t attracted to them. It goes for both sexes.

[@monkeyhumourfilms6429]

As someone who has been told by ALOT of girls that I am good looking. I have had these problems.

[@TheSmily4ever]

so where is your profile pic?

[@romesantana8960]

This is why I have problem being mix as well I get stair at all day from both sex. Which I get creep out when everyone keeps looking at me. I’ve alway been call a pretty boy which sucks.

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

@@romesantana8960 People staring is good and at the same time it is so uncomfortable. Men stare way more than women. So weird.

[@romesantana8960]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb tell me about it men be making the situation look weird 😂. I feel your pain I’m in the same boat 🚣‍♂️ smh 🤦‍♂️ if looks kill literally

[@kevinmurry8803]

As a good looking man, I have had similar experiences.

[@jeremycalhoun6783]

Me too man. It fucking sucks its like they dont even want to try :/

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

All the godamn time.

[@devilisbackk]

Same here...Been single for many years... 😂

[@THPS4.]

It's a lot easier being an average, below average or an ugly looking guy than it is being a good looking guy.

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

@@THPS4. That man is a fact. But averrage and ugly people will never understand it. They think it's like in movies but it's not. At all.

[@halfbakedcoatingsllc9911]

I totally agree with the complex that you think there's something wrong with you because you're too good-looking. Ive personally experienced it... especially if I go out and dress too nice. I noticed I had better luck if I dressed down then I dress up and look too good

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

That's why some Chads dress badly in sweatpants and sandals It's the only way to compromise

[@rose0514]

Even growing up around my make cousins. Out of them I was the only guy that was always being called cute and good looking by family. Now as I'm 21. All my cousins have girlfriends besides me. And I was always showed the most attention cause of my looks. It all makes since now to why I can't get a girlfriend :/

[@CellGames2006]

Being in your 20's sucks. There are many kinds of criteria grown women put on a mate, usually a list of at least 10 characteristics. But one of them is always that they want a MATURE MAN. Very few like boys. The chance of immature behaviour and bad experiences is great in that age group.

[@nicekix3038]

You’re destined to be the side dude. Embrace it

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

You probably not much a talker even if you handsome you still gotta talk to them cuz most not gone go up to a guy

[@antonellabellucci]

@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie yes this is real no matter how much high value or handsome you are you need that mouth piece otherwise no one gives a damn about you communication is very important and by this means communicate in a manner that arouse a woman not just random chit-chat

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

@@antonellabellucci This is a bit strange when you replying with that profile pic and supposed to be a guy

[@ubermenschsuperman2947]

This is why I don't bother with trying to figure out women anymore. Waaaay too much BS. I'd rather call a prostitute.

[@jeremyking5309]

I was once told by a girl whom I was talking to that I looked like a player mean while the truth is that I have never even smashed a girl before not because I've not had any green lights but because I just never wanted to

[@watitduful]

From what it sounds like, many of these women really don't have their stuff together. If the female is playing games like that and acting immature then really, she's not worthy of the "good looking dude's" time nor attention. If she really had her stuff together and was confident then perhaps she wouldn't trump this factor up to be more than what it really is. That's not on the dude that's totally on the female displaying those traits.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

She likes manipulating the boring lames more than she likes being loved by a handsome man

[@pr0l0gue]

Lol well it is true that plenty of chicks are a bit unsure of themselves and may avoid entering an interaction where they could get rejected by someone who makes them feel less attractive, but as a good looking guy, all that means is that you're free to take full initiative. The ball is completely in your court. Unless you expect her to do all the work, as soon as you make a move on the girl who was too shy to do it herself, it's done.

[@bumblebee4280]

This is true.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Sometimes if you actually get your foot in, yes this is true.

[@FrenchJae]

When you try to ask a girl out and she thinks you're joking and trying to play with her. So she says no.

[@jama3335]

Never knew this until now. The game is cold blooded. Thanks Locario.

[@terejov]

I don't feel insecure when I'm with a good looking man. I find it ridiculous. I feel good if a score a hot guy and other girls get jelly

[@gu3sswh075]

terejov just curious what would you rate yourself out of 10 for your looks? If you're really attractive you're most likely really insecure. That's what confuses me with attractive women..

[@siyabongakhumalo6319]

Dude I'm having issues getting laid because I look good and got a couple of bucks stashed up Finding a chick who can match up my standards and looks good is nearly impossible

[@googlewantstoknowyourlocat1115]

You wax your carrot too much

[@eyevincast5440]

2 yrs too late but anyone reading this don’t be more groomed than she is.........a lot of women like a guy with a bit of scruff......5 o’clock shadow......nothing wrong with liking the way you look but some women don’t want “perfect” they want a challenge they want a roller coaster ride they want a man who knows how to be dominant regardless of looks infact the regular average looking dude can pull more girls because of his confidence and dominant presence then the good looking dude who has no game and on no purpose .....you can get your foot in the door but won’t seal the deal if you don’t have confidence. Looks only go soo far you still have to do the remaining 90% of the work. Confidence, seduction, on your purpose, no fucks giving attitude, and pass her shit tests..........and then repeat!!! everyone forgets to repeat it the next day.......once you get her it starts right up again immediately after sex.......if you keep taking these steps 1 step at a time over a period of time on your own terms eventually they fall for you regardless of looks she’ll like you for you.......that’s the kind of woman you want the one you do connect with......that’s the goal. Otherwise just stick to 1 night stands if that’s what you want.

[@redpiller169]

This is not true at all. You just got zero game

[@iuliua]

i'm a good looking guy (athletic, beard, white shirt, confidence, etc) except i'm short but she was way shorter than me so that was not a problem..so i was in a club with this chick dancing kissing etc and she had low self esteem because she was a little fat and she kept telling me i'm too good looking..so while we are dancing shes checking out this fat guy with glasses( she was drunk so she forgot to check herself lol). i was wtf. This video explains it perfectly. When a girl keep telling you how good looking you are be careful, she will bounce soon, she can't stand the pressure. Also on Tinder i met this chick, decent looking, we talk a little bit and than she is saying how many girls do I fk on Tinder because im good looking, needless to say she didnt even want to meet. My tips for the good looking guys go directly for the good looking girls, don't bother with the girls you don't really like, they all are full of shit anyways so why bother with the ugly ones.

[@karllynch1243]

Easy to say your good looking and make up bullshit stories when you have no actual pictures of yourself haha

[@bantuboy96]

@@karllynch1243 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@seraph_davidson5771]

Yo Locario, you just described and explained perfectly my plight with these women throughout my life! I co-sign this video message!

[@earnestwilliams148]

Man he’s absolutely right,as a good looking Alpha male sometimes women automatically think you’re arrogant or conceded so that poses a problem,and secondly some women are intimidated by men that’s not swayed by sex,and when that happens she realizes she has to bring a lot more to the table worth value because of that.and last as men our value goes up as we get older and our shit is together and women’s value go down as she gets older especially if she has kids because she understands a lot of guys that got it together don’t want to deal with that type of baggage real spill.

[@kennethmcnair2740]

MR. L ANOTHER DAMN GOOD VIDEO. I THINK I'M A GOOD LOOKING DUDE ANDI EXPERIENCE THIS. I WAS ALWAYS WONDERING HOW I WASN'T GETTING CERTAIN WOMEN WHEN MOST CHICKS THINK I HAVE 100 WOMEN.........THE WAY U ARTICULATED IT USED THE EXAMPLES OPENED EYES BIG TIME.

[@nove9111]

There are grey areas. It's not black and white. Women expect more out of good looking guys. This is the really tricky part. She is expecting him to be the son of somebody, a high status actor/model, a successful entrepreneur, 300k and plus a year job, etc. This is where LMS comes in. What he says about a hot chick not wanting to date a good looking man because he is too pretty and shit is because he did not have any other metric to offer. "Oh, I am going to go out with this guy who looks as good or better than me, and I'm not going to get anything in return? He is just going to be my handsome BF who makes as much as I do. How am I going to feel feminine and taken care of as a princess?" If I have to go with Locario or FACE and LMS, I would honestly go with the latter. It is really about having at least 2 out of the 3 metrics which are looks, money and status. They are all correlated. People who have 2 eventually can get the 3. You got money, then you can have time to improve your looks and status. You got status, then you can use it to your advantage to get money and then improve looks. You have looks, you can get status and get money. Girls will follow because your body language of course will be congruent to that of a prosperous person. Who wouldn't be if you had looks, money and status?? Jeremy Meeks obtained status because of his looks and now has a career as a model. Gregory O'Gallagher is old money and used it to work on his looks and then status. Which girl would not be attracted to these guys?? That Alex from Target guy obtained status because of his looks and those two are enough to get him laid even 3 years after the whole shit. In real life, you got a good looking lawyer or a really handsome and buff doctor who owns his own clinic. While not having status, having good looks and money combined is enough to have young women swooning at them for their lifestyle. Having looks alone will get you plenty of stares but will get you laid by chicks you really don't want. Occasionally if you are lucky, you can fuck a hot chick. Having money alone, will give you fake love by chicks who will run away as soon as your money is gone. Having status alone, will give you girls as your status is helpful to them. Plain reality. Game is bullshit.

[@vincenterey1640]

I considered what you stated above and now you just confirmed it. Thank you.

[@Lonelyahk30]

Deep

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

They know about pretty power so they see it as you not using it but honestly it's not the same between genders as we're highly targeted with cruelty

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

I agree with you Somehow we're the ones getting lucky here and there with a hottie Being less attractive was actually better for my "game" which was just being myself lol Still myself as ever, less attention other than the awkward stuff outside and in stores

[@outtheboxkenya9227]

This is the best explanation I’ve found,women always try to make it look like it’s your fault God gave you good looks.the fact is insecure women can’t stand you getting some attention,it’s childish af

[@joshuafreeman9083]

So as a good looking guy you have to approach dime pieces who are secure with themselves.

[@gu3sswh075]

Joshua Freeman from my experience, the more attractive she is, the more insecure. Trust me dude I was thinking the same thing as you. Still on the lookout for a unicorn

[@SimienHill]

Dimes are the most insecure.

[@pogoacct8611]

Being good looking exposes alot of these womens insecurities

[@SimienHill]

More people need to talk about this. Seriously hard to date and I can’t change the way I look etc. like wtf am I supposed to do if a woman thinks I’m too attractive

[@brandonwombacher2559]

Find and hit on a girl that is more attractive than you, then she might not be insecure.

[@hoihoi1473]

Proof or it didn’t happen

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

@@brandonwombacher2559 A woman that is more attractive can still have insecurities some even about their looks that or if they confident in themselves they overdo it

[@demar_makavveli]

this is the bs that I’ve been dealing with since I started working out

[@MalakShelomoh921]

You can see the woman is feeling you when you interact with her but she just keeps running away so to speak. Good looks has its Pros and Cons, if you don’t understand women you’ll think you’re unattractive.

[@brandonwombacher2559]

She Likes U But Is Intimidated By U

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

But sometimes you can't even get a chance to try

[@tangbein]

So true. From Norway and one funny thing I've noticed is that when when I travel to southern european countries, I receive so much more attention because of my looks. Here in Norway I've only received attention from one good looking woman. That was probably because she herself was so confident. We aren't that socially competent here in Norway compared to southern european countries, so maybe that's why.

[@MrPrebuttal]

tangbein are Norwegian women into southern European looking men?

[@Norbizzle]

Very true and that's just hit me real hard. Chicks whose saw the potential on me they said even 4 years ago that I can get a lot of girls and I have that bad boy swag and even nowadays chicks tells me that "you are fucking handsome" and I get attentions like "I want to fuck the shit out of you" but the sad true is that in the end nothing really happened. I see them all the time with fat and skinny dudes with no game, no looks, no talking and nothing. They get with betas just to control them. But what's gonna happen in the end? When you as a fine dude going to get your money up, when your shit will start popping and blue check on IG then it will be hard for them to refuse that let's just leave it like that 😉 Or just have at least one girlfriend and see how they're going to react. That's has a same value as a blue check, that's the key, then just wait and look.

[@icemedia5938]

I promise you this stuff is real. When you are a good looking guy girls that are 7 and below but most especially "7s" tend to want a guy feel lucky hes with her. I thinks its because when they do their "beauty hacks" shit they FEEL like they are 10s because people gas them up on social media. I had an ex of mine tell me i didnt flaunt her when i was with her, i was like WHAT?

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

So basically worship them if they want that better show the same energy

[@maxamillion2140]

I don't know who you guys are dating, but I go from long term relationship to long term relationship with tons of options and no real problems. My current gf gets 5 times the attention when I'm with her she actually brought me to work to introduce me to everyone, the girls at work tell her how lucky she is and she loves it.

[@luc74]

You say it, she gets 5 times the attention when you with her… a handsome guy normally outreach most of the women and get more attention… me as a extreme handsome guy has it difficult to find a girl on my level, its rare… and when i go to an 7 or 8, she is very fast insecure and intimidated, because her feelings catch me from the first second, can be an advantage, most of the time it is a disadvantage…most of them like it to look at us, but when something should happen they are running away.

[@maxamillion2140]

@@luc74 yeah I know what you mean, that's the same as it is for me. I don't like to online date, so finding really attractive women is hard. And when i do, they're too young for me. Also having too many options can make things complicated.

[@marleyjanim5033]

Both genders get hung up on the same insecurities

[@PabloB888]

Average guys get beautiful girls, but the better your looks, the less you need to talk. The most beautiful girls I have ever seen were chasing me, some even approached me first, and I was doing nothing besides looking good and feeling good about myself.

[@Lifeiqmovies]

Yehh that's right bro

[@quammutequauqed6898]

And I'm a good looking dude myself. But even if u are good looking it doesnt hurt to initiate a little bit of game and finesse to ease her insecurities so she can be herself around you. Especially with the ugly girls if u are super good looking they will get jealous and try to pick a fight

[@shapeshiftertimetraveller8147]

@@quammutequauqed6898 you are not goodlooking

[@madmax7965]

@@shapeshiftertimetraveller8147 🤣🤣🤣

[@rise1458]

@@shapeshiftertimetraveller8147 no offense to he just won’t understand

[@TreyGoose]

If ur a really attractive dude imagine ur ugly when ur talking to chicks 😂less pressure on yourself

[@morrisontheoverman7335]

Real talk😂😂

[@waytides]

dude this is actually a smart tip

[@KevinFrasard]

Completely nailed it on every point in this video!

[@mr.soundguy968]

Especially if you're also confident and got some game. You can only go for women who have self-confidence and self-love as well, and usually those are the more attractive chicks too

[@lucasdante4668]

My girlfriend is insecure that I look more attractive than her but I say we both good looking because I don't like being put on a pedestal especially because of my pretty boy look. I noticed average looking guys get more women and they have a longer lasting relationship. Look at people like Jay Z and Beyonce. Check people like Kanye West and Kim Kardashian. It all makes sense now. There are some other average guys out there that have it easy as compared to above average attractive looking guys.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

Jay Z would be in the ugly category not average Bro but his money above average asf

[@brandyallison2000]

Here's the thing what you are saying is true to a point. However, the thing that I have found when dating attractive men is most of time they are lacking a good personality. I am not a size 6 but I know who I am and I am a confident woman. Attraction is important. It is not only looks that attract me. A great personality is a huge turn on. Confidence without arrogance is sexy. If you are a pretty boy but lack the ability to keep me engaged in conversation, then I get bored easily. I need more substance than just looks. I need character, integrity and a flirty personality.

[@ivandunn1334]

Brandy Allison Even when good looking men have these traits, many women still don’t want to be with him. I’m not the absolute best looking guy, but I show charisma, confidence, flirt here and there and women are still insecure. I think many women just enjoy being with so called ugly men. In fact, many women want to have sex with ugly men and use good looking men.

[@drmvp21]

Maybe the conversation is boring because you're boring too.

[@amarson2322]

both man and woman have to have game to keep the conversation engaging.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

​@@amarson2322and here's the problem.... Social decay isn't only a male problem 😊😊😊

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Ok well talk to us in public sometime 😊😊😊

[@chenugent]

I once had a girl stay round my house that I was dating and when I woke up she wasn’t in my room and told me she didn’t want me to see her without makeup....

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

She not secure with her true self

[@ajamubey6924]

I'm good looking and I have no problem with women. You need GAME! The problem is guys today have zero game. I talk to my female friends and my female cousins and they tell me the wack things guys do on dates and it all comes down to the same thing. "Guys just don't have game." If you're attractive and you have game you will have the advantage over the rest of the guys. Looks matter ONLY when you got game!

[@ivandunn1334]

Ajamu Bey Give examples of game

[@vaughnamir.6457]

@@ivandunn1334 learn it on your own. It's your game.

[@stephenfragoso7328]

You're taking advice from women?? Lmao 🤣

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Most guys don't really get a chance Girls are choosing to interact with guys with no game is what you just said, in my view

[@annalore5513]

Soo true!! Agree 100% from a woman

[@ivandunn1334]

Anna Lore So women enjoy having sex with men who may be ugly but their attracted to?

[@zee9333]

Thank you for being honest Anna.

[@DantesFromHospital]

@@ivandunn1334 ofc

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

So when will you end this madness?

[@BenjaminButton6573]

I think being a attractive guy puts pressure on you as soon as you talk to a girl you like you feel like you have to blow it out of the park all the time. Or that everyone is watching you which puts you at unease.

[@Jantonov1]

You nailed the problem for me.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Perfection required

[@eugenebruno1481]

It all starts in middle school, girls only like the good looking guys. Because they are starting out in the game. This still continue in high school. Good looking guys never had to try to get girls. But all that chane when girls start ti mature and know what they want.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

Basically how it started with me girls liked me but highschool it wasn't my looks that was the problem lost value in myself and I wasn't very popular

[@B0serve]

it all makes sense now

[@stevenlee7818]

This is facts , it's crazy how fucking complicated it is

[@kitcatmeowpurr745]

I think the elephant in the room is a VERY attractive person will never stop ATTRACTING ENDLESS competition. Endless competition from other women who don't care that the man is in a committed relationship. He MAY be strongly devoted to his girlfriend/wife but because his appearance is by default a chick magnet, eventually some determined woman can tempt him. His girlfriend/wife can only take so much of this constant torture of having her relationship TESTED. This is one of the main reasons why most straight and gay people LOATHE bisexual people. As a woman I already know other women are competition. But as a woman, I will never be able to "compete" with a MAN if the man I loved was attracted to men. I think an EXCEPTIONALLY HANDSOME man puts a woman in a similar never ending third wheel provocations. I also know that more and more gay men feel it is socially acceptable to prey upon straight men. There are videos where gay men are coaching other gay men on how to approach a straight man. I think EXCEPTIONALLY HANDSOME straight men have a target on their back. "Really hot guys?" I think they may be just "TOO HOT" to handle.

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Yup and so we date down and get badly damaged Or damaged by the 7 we could get.

[@jus3278]

I had one cut me off for that very reason lol. It all boils down to people's insecurities.

[@DeCurtaRican]

Some of the dudes here need to slow down. You’re misinterpreting the argument posited in the video. The premise of the video is this: *”If you’re good-looking, it can present problems attracting women.”* *Good-looking -> Dating problems* Many of you are arguing the following: *”If I have problems attracting women, I must be good-looking.”* And/or... *”If I have problems dating, it must be BECAUSE I am good-looking.”* *Dating problems -> Good-looking* Do you see the problem here? Some of your arguments assume that other issues do not contribute to a man’s inability to attract women. That’s highly flawed logic. Indeed, other issues, such as a bad attitude, bad body odor, weak rap game, or other issues, can contribute to a man’s dating problems. The first argument - as presented in the video - DOES NOT commit this logical error. By necessarily attributing your dating failures to “good-looks,” your argument DOES violate the logic. In short, don’t assume that if you struggle with women it must be because you’re good-looking. You might just be an asshole, or maybe you stink. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

Real talk. N*gga. Real talk.

[@kirsakaboom-5960]

Good looking makes it easier but without game, you can have all the physique you want aint shit gonna happen.

[@stephenwaterman9644]

I know some ugly girls with confidence who aren't afraid to approach good looking guys. It's about her confidence.

[@jimmieparker8093]

True story no lie ...so i have been told that i was attractive...had no problem meeting women...well one day i saw this drop dead most beautiful caramel skin woman ever she would visit my neighbor who had a babysitting buisness...well she would never look my way or barely speak when i do i would tell my friends how stuck up she was..well one day i was talking to my neighbor and she came over ...my neighbor decided to be funny and tell her i wanted to take her out....to my surprise she said oh well he never told me that...well long story short we started going out and i aaked why u never looked at me or spoke to me ..she said and i quote...u were very attractive sobi thought u were an asshole stuck up deuch who was a wanna be player....well i started approaching beautiful women and to my surprise i usually get a good resonse and the number 7 times out of 10...

[@CopycatNinja875]

The good thing about being good looking is that you dont have to worry about ugly and average girls trying to hit on you. However, it does kind of suck that attractive women are just as insecure as their less attractive female peers which means that handsome men having limited opportunities in the dating scene.

[@beeyaybaracas3240]

My dude, ugly and old women hit on me all the time.

[@brandonwombacher2559]

I'm a good looking guy and I feel like a fuckboys cause of women's insecuritys.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

Nah they more bold what you talking about and average ain't bad but shii if you ugly you gotta be at least good in the body

[@JuicyFruityify]

My sh*t is on point. I can feel chicks are intimidated or at minimum assume I'm a player. Most have self image issues and don't seem to feel the need to do anything about it i.e. regularly exercise. It seems in their minds a pretty face is enough. I put the time in to keep myself in peak condition, I expect the same from the girl. Anything less lowers my interest. Girls/women with husband's or boyfriends always catch me with their eyes, interestingly the guys rarely notice their girls behaviour. The single girls steal a look then quickly look down or away as if having made the decision 'Well, he's out' spontaneously.

[@Israel_Dethroner]

*(Internal screaming)*

[@myownshow4928]

Definitely speaking facts.

[@ratanyaNtarangwi]

Given that I've been single my entire life, I must be really good looking and that scares women away. #Kenyan

[@MrThatone35]

girls just go for the girls who show you love and not only show you the love are consitent any signs of inconsistencies move on

[@jesussson3467]

mr locario, im at a crossroads with this.... i hear you say women will not get with good looking guys because of insecurity/competition, but the other hand, i've heard you say, women are attracted to men who get lots of women, because that implies he has qualities that draw women to him. The only conclusion i have is, as a man, you have to be average looking, with game and financial stability to get with lots of women. If you as a man is financially stable, has game but is scary good looking, then you are out of luck with women because of their insecurities, i'm i missing something? please clarify

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Well yeah getting girl #1 might open doors

[@pokeyerface]

I think you are talking more about little girls than actual women...

[@Movieclips_101]

Speaking facts 💯

[@yesman1743]

For me is not hard to get into a relationship, the hard art is when I get in that relationship. Then is like all girls have their eyes on me and I try my best to ignore them and not insult them in order to not make the girl I am into a relationship jealous. This is why I cant have a serious relationship, it always end bad.

[@bharris0619]

That is sooooooo true.......

[@Rudmyster]

I’m one of those men and you are sooo right my Average looking friend got more one night stands than I ever could get. I got more beautiful women but it was hard for me to ever have a one night stand or even hit it on the first date. But once I did they would latch on tight the Average guy can smash and walk away we can’t just walk away first of all her guard is up hi with the good looking man. Only a few times will a women just fall down and let me have my total way but this is rear. Most of the time they get scared of us. I’ve heard that more times from women than yes I want to get with you.

[@dedricklane4899]

6:45 that’s my girl she’s fine but she a has a little belly and love handles. When we would do it she would always try to keep a shirt on because I’m in shape and she’s worried I’ll think she’s fat lol

[@stephaniebracey3181]

Eye candy is not good just for a relationship...

[@olfam7197]

Thats real talk good video fam

[@Atlstreetpodcast2.0]

what if she's the 10 & he's an 8...she still looks better than him and she has a stud on her arm...win/win!

[@youngboi24]

SO MEN ARE BEING PENALIZED FOR BEING SUCCESSFUL AND GOODLOOKING? WHAT KIND OF SHIT IS THAT SMH

[@JayAlizayBeats]

no its bcoz he's good looking successful but has no game

[@youngboi24]

IM CALLING BS ON THAT

[@JayAlizayBeats]

youngboi24 sir everything is based on opinions and experiences but feel free to say why u disagree

[@Tommyttm]

Lol 😂 finally yes you are right!! Good looking men !! Do have problems with women !

[@tooslimey2272]

Ain’t gone cap some of you dudes in this comment section are extremely delusional and need to be real about your looks especially from whats seen in y’all profile pics

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

😂 but you not wrong tho

[@bambam9315]

on point...strong logic...u just described my world. this shyt use to be so confusing...the issue of her insecurities still doesn't motivate me to jump for joy when not selected by her---which is most of the time. Women are highly in their own heads most of the time. It's called radical Solipsism.

[@MrThatone35]

great topic

[@roger8654]

I have this problem so much. Women say You are very atttactive, you must do this all the time

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Since I stopped alcohol , some low value people just disappeared from my memories , how they can exist in my memory , nope , no need them in my life and memory , dysfunctional girls disqualified from my dating pool

[@deedontcare584]

I been learning this thru dating apps

[@rightlibertarian8355]

Some good looking F boys ruined it for every other good looking guy on this planet.

[@esmoove2144]

When is the bad boy book coming out?

[@ThExKiDxCuDix]

bro im so damn Good Lookin but I got no chicks, its all in your Game. Trust me.

[@darkmagician1710]

TooBlakRG It's all in your mindset

[@malikr2271]

Dark Magician seems like u gotta be extra cocky damn near arrogant and savage when ur good looking dealing with bishes

[@jadizm]

15:08 and there it is! True words...

[@cosmic1913]

So I should go cut my face up and I'll get a girl

[@junaidinomani6821]

This guy is amazing 😂

[@jbrolli86]

Those are FACTS 💯 Brother

[@Cornbreadmuffin86]

As woman I find good looking men to be effeminate or the "pretty boy" type

[@wavyboyo]

lmao my homeboy did that, nigga live all the way on Utica made it to bushwick in 2 second for some pssy

[@joelr7208]

😂 I had this issue where a woman thought I had other Beaches…. I was like wtf is wrong with you, I want you now…. Being straight no chaser or bsing…. Which we know she had a dude and was like Dag I could fall of this branch (meaning me)