The Real Challenges of Living Alone After 60

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

I'm 61yr old woman and don't think i could ever live with someone again

[@patriciagroth2015]

Back at you baby! Me 2!

[@jmlMARIO2009]

I am a man and can relate to this sentiment. It's tough to compromise as you get up in age.

[@lawrencedavis5459]

61 alone. Love it. Wouldn't change a thing

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!!

[@linlee8860]

23 years ago my boyfriend left me for a younger woman he met at some dive club, married her has a daughter and now they have been divorce for the last three years. He calls me all the time and today we are friends. I wish him well and hope for the best for him. He calls me to come and spend time with him and take care of him when he is sick but I am not interested in playing nurse maid. I am in my sixties and I take care of myself and feel great, I do not care to meet any man or be with one. I just put my trust in God and as long as I have health I am good, I feel bless. Its better to be alone then to be with bad company and that includes fake friends.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Your life sounds peaceful! Thanx for sharing your story.

[@VeRonicaMitchell-ii1pm]

Your level of maturity is admirable

[@yvonnebond4067]

I hate it if anything goes wrong in my house, finding someone to fix it, who won't rip you off or do a bad job, which has happened to me a couple of times. 😢

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I know, it's a pain in the ass!!!

[@KimSmith-b9v]

They ALWAYS want to rip you off if they get the chance. 😡

[@jjmack6563]

Having a partner doesn't mean they will fix it. My boyfriends never did anything!

[@WendyHannan-pt7ez]

Me too, I found that a woman alone can get ripped by tradies.

[@WendyHannan-pt7ez]

Ripped off I mean .

[@MargaretGSmith-c1q]

I’m in a committed relationship of 23+ yrs. There are days I would love to live alone. There are times I’m glad he is there. No perfect world.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're right! There is no perfect world. Thanx for watching!

[@johnballard6725]

No lifestyle choice is perfect but one will likely have more pluses than minuses ?

[@Ronick-Q-46]

One day you might regret saying that, because being alone for good might come true.

[@talulatree5297]

I'm a fishing widow. But I've come to enjoy the alone time. ( I'm 53, he's 67) he's doing something he loves, and I like to eat fish.❤❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@talulatree5297 wonderful!!

[@KathrynSelulic]

I’m 66 and I hate living alone . I was married for 35 yrs , husband left me for a younger women . I’m slowly adjusting to being alone but often feel very lonely . Kate from Australia 🩷

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry 😞

[@RobertMesa-fu9oy]

@@KathrynSelulic so sorry if you ever need someone to talk to I'm also alone

[@heatherfling7820]

I so agree. I’m turning 60 this month and I live alone too and love it but, I feel the same way I have the same struggles myself. I miss my husband so much.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes the struggles are real! ❤️

[@arth.3899]

I'm turning 60 this coming April. I'm still single and I feel strange at doctors' offices. I see others with their spouses and think that would be nice to have. I remember seeing a man quite sick and his wife was massaging his back and arms. I just looked and thought wow, I've never had a woman rub my back and arms. Other than that, I'm ok being single. My father raised me to work, and my mother raised me to cook and pay my bills. I have a back scratcher, that's all I need.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Your parents raised you well! I totally get the doctor's office thing too!

[@La_Dame_aux_chats]

I have a male friend who lives with me. He works full-time and spends a lot of time with his kids or friends on weekends...BUT...he sure comes in handy when it comes to fixing things , helping me when im sick, watching netflix/ eating pizza etc together . His rent money helps me pay the bills too. I had him convert my garage into a mancave so we have our own space. Its a win win situation. P.S. im no feminist either 😊❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!!

[@Stellagalloway444]

Sounds to me like your using your friend to your own advantage 😂

[@La_Dame_aux_chats]

@Stellagalloway444 i worked very hard to buy my house. He was homeless with a drug habit and nowhere to go . Its worked out pretty well for him too. 😀

[@ShirleyJackson-d9k]

It's harder with cancer. Being alone after chemo. Chemo brain Feeling disoriented. Can't go to stores feeling like this for 3 weeks afterwards. I miss my car so bad. Mechanic kept ripping me off so I gave it away. Couldn't keep taking out loans. I miss my freedom. I always took care of myself. I got a abused dog from the shelter. She's spoiled. Handful. Keeps me busy. Gets me walking. People are back stabbers. I keep to myself. Always want something. Gossip. Don't need.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry you're dealing with the after effects of chemo. You made some really good points too. Your dog is so blessed to have you 😘

[@stacyjones4789]

@@ShirleyJackson-d9k 🙏 I understand, I have some of the same issues. It’s hard. Just one day at a time.

[@talulatree5297]

🙏❤🙏

[@DawnFowle]

66 and love living alone

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!!

[@cynthia216]

I fear dying alone,like when the end is near.But again you hit the nail on the head there.🇨🇦🙋‍♀️

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Dying alone, yes, that would be terrifying too. Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@KimSmith-b9v]

Most people die alone. The worst is to die in pain.

[@minigirl6839]

​@KimSmith-b9v Agreed. We enter this world alone, and we exit it alone.

[@cynthia216]

@minigirl6839 When my Mother passed away in October this year, she was not alone.I think I am being misunderstood. 🤷‍♀️🇨🇦

[@ginaallred1587]

All very valid reasons. I am so fortunate that my living situation couldn't be better. I'm a widow now, but I live with my son, daughter in law and grandson. Good for us financially, I'm not alone and my son takes care of the home repairs and maintenance. I have no desire to be in a relationship. I'm very happy the way things are.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds wonderful!

[@janineholiwell1602]

I am 53 years old and I totally relate 🦋It’s the companionship Now that my sons are grown and on there own I still have a habit of cooking like they are still home LOL I still haven’t learned how to cook for just me 🦋

[@WendyHannan-pt7ez]

I totally relate to that , I shop and buy too much , when it’s only me. I shopped for a family for many years, and I think it’s habit. 😮 And yes ifs hard when you’re sick and being alone. Other wise it’s ok, you can do what you want to do.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha! I've learned to cook for myself but I'd rather have some companionship too!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes exactly!

[@talulatree5297]

Haha!😂 this is me! I still stock pantry and cook giant meals, my son has left home for about 5 years now. 53 as well. ❤

[@sandratalbert4253]

Lost my husband of 30 years last year. I'm a year and half later. I'm just starting to feel me again. I don't want to be alone the rest of my life. I miss the companionship and friendship we had. I could trust him and he had my back and I had his. I turned 60 this year. Widowed at 58 . It sucks. Guys are married or need someone to take care of them now or drinks etc. or players. I don't want that. Romance, Love & Friendship and Godly Spirit who likes to have fun.😊

[@chowter]

You are so much like so many friends/people I grew up with in Ohio many years ago. You made me laugh out loud of so many with your videos I have muttered to myself over the years. Glad to find your channel and looking forward to hearing your past and future shows, tysvm.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you so much 💓! I appreciate that ❤️

[@GoldenOldies-007]

At 62, Ive been living alone for 7 years. After trying the dating cess pool, I think I'm better off alone. I would not mind a companion, but there are not many choices available. Most are inactive and not financially responsible. I'd rather just pay somebody to come do repairs for me around the house- they do it when it needs to be done and they leave when it's done so there's no drama or misguided expectations.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm with you on the slim pickings in the dating pool!!

[@janebrown896]

I'm 54, lived alone forever. I've never been so unwell physically I've needed help, but I'm aware that could happen and that's daunting. I'm not a feminist either! From England 🇬🇧

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for sharing!

[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

I am turning 60 in April. I have eliminated a lot of people from my life because they were not nice or supportive. I’ve also decided I would like to start making new friends. I am a nomad and am happy to live alone most of the time but can understand the need for companionship. I live full time in an RV and am not in same spot for long. I think that finding correct people is important but sometimes just having people to invite for dinner or hang out with is nice also. I dont need help from a man most times ( and have found there are a lot not capable of doing things -I can do most things better- unless it is heavy lifting). I have been alone since March of 2017 and am grateful to not have to support another man or person. Finding someone who is good on their own is important. Start by asking some people to come over for lite things, cuppa tea or snacks. Test out people. Then invite them for a meal.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for your suggestions! I do have people over at times and while their company is nice, it's kinda not the same as having 'a special friend' ;)

[@egl3369]

100% agree. There are pros and cons to both

[@suzyvegalicious5646]

@@WomenBlazingTrails Yes I can totally agree with that. I'm 71. A young 71.

[@elainegoad9777]

Not having family, because they are deceased and you're the last one. Not having friends. Not having anyone when you need a medical driver or you are sick. Not having anyone to help you do the things you once could easily do but now have trouble accomplishing. Alone for holidays. No one to out to eat with, go to a park, picnic, Just always alone. No one to talk to who is like minded. We're not supposed to be this alone.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

No we're not. You could try local groups of women in your area to make new friends.

[@Stellagalloway444]

You could get a dog 😂

[@francefradet2116]

Join a church. Or volunteer with the Jesuits. The Catholic church is absolutely blissful. Sunday Mass is unbelievable. I cry every time at our cura's homily. Remember to take tissues. Trisagion films introduces the Church Fathers. We exist to love one another. I am so glad I went back to the Catholic church.

[@ikejackson8676]

You are so correct about that

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

🙌🫶

[@rasiordia7265]

It’s nice to have a companion

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes! I agree!

[@johnballard6725]

A compatible companion is a distinct blessing ?

[@tray5377]

I've only recently discovered you and your videos. Yesterday as a matter of fact. This is only the 2nd one I've watched so far. The things you mention, I believe, are what many of us miss. Simple things come so much more in focus. I do feel much the same in regards to the freedom, alone time, space, etc. But I do often think of how great it would be to have someone around at times, especially for those times you mention. I think you are cool as shit, definitely not the "typical" woman in this age range...and that is meant as a compliment. Love the tats, the attitude, and your view on things and how you express it. I can tell you'd be a blast to hang out with. If I ever had another "partner" in any form or fashion, I would want her to be like you. You are definitely one of a kind dear lady. Sort of wish I was near Guatemala bcuz I'd love to meet you, lol. I'm a busted former 80s/90s rocker who retired as a New York State Corrections Officer in 2022 currently living in Myrtle Beach, SC. If you ever head back to Canada for a visit, you should make a pit stop here, lmao. Coming up after the holidays is the time of year when many of your former countrymen invade this area for a few months, hahaha. Take care lovely.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awe thanx so much! I was just in myrtle beach this past May for the world strong man competition with my son. Such fun. Great place!!! Thanx so much for watching, sharing your story and your kind words!

[@tray5377]

NO WAY!!? That is wild. Aah, this place is a little overrated. Hey, I'm a Taurus...is that a good compliment to a Libra? LMAO

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha! Not a bad match 😉 .

[@marias8007]

Love that your channel is growing 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx me too!!!! 🫶🙌🥳

[@ikeameltdown8012]

Accept your reality.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

:) yes!

[@jjmack6563]

Having a partner does not guarantee him doing jobs around the house. That he will be good company and want to watch what you watch. Might be in the pub instead of eating dinner with you. It has to be a great addition to your life otherwise you are much better being alone. Rather that than be in a bad relationship and being mistreated.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Amen to that!!

[@katec9893]

I had this experience recently too. I got ill about 6 weeks ago and I am still recovering. I ended up getting two illnesses one after the other including a fracture, meaning I can't drive until I am better. I'm used to being very independent doing everything for myself so it has been very difficult. I'm lucky that my mum has been helping me cope plus a few kind neighbours. For a while I liked the idea of getting good at DIY. But I agree with you. I much prefer it when men do those jobs and I can focus on doing other things. I would still really like a partner to be honest. I'm 41 and I tried dating again recently, but I always seem to encounter the same issues on dating apps, so I'm not quite sure. I look around me and see nice couples everywhere but I don't understand how they get together. It seems to be mostly luck to find a good male partner. Thanks for sharing Eva. Love your channel and I hope you're doing well 😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Hope you get better soon!!! Thank God you have help :) Thanx for watching!

[@beverleyreid563]

I honestly think for the most part, most women love living alone. Especially if they have been married for years and the marriage was not successful so now they crave the freedom of living life on their terms. (That being said, if you get sick, it would be nice to have someone to take care of you and that is probably the biggest negative).

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes, I think you're right about women love living alone after a long crappy marriage.

[@reyinfante5553]

Man or woman, living alone 60 and above means you are not as strong as you were young, mostly tired and there is always something that needs to be repaired, needs to be cooked, needs to be cleaned. Getting a roommate who is a handyman is great.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

It can be frustrating! I don't have a spare room for a roommate but that's a great idea for some

[@MahnazAfghan-p3s]

65 and living alone and I love it …..

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Perfect!!!

[@FlameBlazers]

Living over 60 sucks in itself.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

It sure can at times!

[@freshair5358]

I just stumbled upon your channel . Subscribed! ❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for subscribing and welcome 🙌🫶

[@thomaspepper2201]

I'm 70, great shape, eat right walk. own my own place But to many years of heavy hwy construction, did it to my shoulders, both rebuilt. Hardest thing for me is folding laundry, it's at the wrong level painfull.Most of all things you said are to close, the companionship, the touch on the arm or back a hand in the hair, fixing, cooking all are needed by men and women. I love your ruggidnes, tatoo's, they way you talk. The fact you moved from Canada to South America by yourself is a feat there.I'm still looking and meeting but American women are afraid they will be required to be care givers to there friend, be there nurse. I joke when they say that, where's your DEATH CLOCK, I WANT ONE, who's to say you won't fall and break your pelvis and be chair bound. Old put to many negitive things in peoples minds and I believe they loose out on a lot of fun and happyness just being afraid to loose ? At this point in life most stuff is meaningless other then thing need to exist. Just keep looking good luck.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for watching, your kind words and sharing your story! I think we should all do our best with what we have!

[@dixiegirl999]

I'm 61 & all the things you mentioned you miss, even when I was in a long time marriage, I didn't have those things. I was nothing more than a 2nd mom & I too am a Libra so, I know how you feel.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Ack lots of marriages like that....:(

[@JoeSmith-s6y]

Ive I live alone also. It sucks at times. Other times im ok. I'm a Nomad. I move a lot in the desert in Arizonia.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Oh Arizona! Ya, for the most part, I'm fine. Thanx for watching :)

[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

I also am a nomad and have returned to AZ, so glad to wake up to 49° instead of 17°. ;-). Sometimes it is nice to have people, but the correct people is more important. Feeling lonely when you’re with others is so worse than feeling lonely when you’re alone. Gratitude Helps.

[@francefradet2116]

Just found you. 2025 you will meet a kind man. I did. I'm Cancer with a Libra man. Living alone is hard because the wood for the fireplace has to be cut and carried. I cook and run the house and he does all that stuff. We split up in 2010 then I got breast cancer in 2017 and he was there for me. Our relationship has deepened. We still fight but now I know that it's normal when neither of two people are doormats. I thank God for Emilio. We both felt odd without the other. We talk a lot about politics. That's the cement that binds us.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Wonderful!!!!

[@inezzbeadz]

Love the honesty!! 66 n w my hubby. Its great except his collectable mass of stuff😢

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Ooph!! Good luck with that!

[@txspacemom765]

I understand it. I am getting divorced and when I was sick and he just left me there. It's so dependent on the other person and them actually being there for you. I always say I was a married single woman. I was so lonely. DoorDash saved me quite a bit. I am enjoying my time alone now. I get enough of people at work. HAHAHAHA! But I would invite you over for a dinner or a cup of coffee.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yay to divorce!! I would have dinner or coffee with you too!!

[@txspacemom765]

@@WomenBlazingTrails

[@katec9893]

My ex was like that, he was cruel and selfish when I was sad or unwell. I'm glad you're getting divorced from someone like this, there's no point having people like that in our lives.

[@kathycourter]

My husband was a Libra me a Virgo he passed away from cancer 2013 but he was disable the last 12 years of his life

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry for your loss 😔

[@janeeland4531]

I’ve always been by myself, met my partner exactly a year ago, he moved in 8 months into our relationship and honestly, its such a relief having him around, i find myself being more reliant on him on so many levels, i. e just talking crap and having him what i call “nothing days” when nothing is happening😂😂

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That's wonderful!!

[@suzyvegalicious5646]

You didn't mention if you were in 50s, 60s etc.

[@janeeland4531]

@ I’m 58🫣

[@edranetz]

I luckily have a husband. He helps me monitor my back for skin cancer because I had melanoma last year and I don't want a reoccurance and also melanoma can metastasize to organs.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

You're very fortunate. I'm sorry about your cancer 😥

[@edranetz]

@@WomenBlazingTrails Luckily I am NED now (No evidence of Disease) but I need quarterly skin checks from my dermatologist.

[@edranetz]

@@providahotwater7688 If I want to pay a doctor every day to look at my back, but I don't. You are clueless about money or perhaps you live in a National Health Care country.

[@RachnacooksBlog]

My mother-in-law lives alone after my fil passed. I actually saw her come into her own. She enjoys her independence, but yes she struggles with a few decisions and chores even.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

The freedom is great, the struggles are real! Thanx for watching!

[@vannesagannon4555]

❤from IRELAND ❤❤❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Nice!!

[@vinnybell5075]

I've been living alone for 25 years. I been with my girlfriend for 12 years. She has her apartment and I have mines. She has a 14 year old son, she works a full time job, and part-time College night school. So she makes a appointment with me when we have our time. She gave me keys to her apartment. And I'm a writer so I need quite alone time to write, workout also do my art. I guess I'm use to it, so it doesn't bother me.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Sounds like you have a wonderful arrangement with your girlfriend!

[@genovasquez8361]

I'm 48 and I don't want a woman living with me

[@StellaChristelle]

There is always Task Rabbit. Also when I was married and I’d get sick, my otherwise loving husband was no help. Also you’re forgetting that taking care of a man can be A LOT of work. And the older they get, the more work they are. I am 66 living with my 26 yr old daughter- it’s nice. I’m never lonely and always have help, plus it’s fun. I know she will move on one day, and then I’ll have a new adventure- Whatever it is - Bring it!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Awesome!!

[@jmlMARIO2009]

@StellaChristelle You say you are 66 and living with your 26 year old daughter. That would imply you live with her at her house. Then you say I know someday she will move on. That would imply that your 26 year old daughter is living with you at your house. It's not my business to know which is really the case. But there is a big difference.

[@joeyyudin2025]

I really freakin love your video. So funny and so true❤️❤️❤️ love from Guam, looking forward to 60 in 3yrs, lol. You make it sound exciting!!!…lol

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha! Thanx so much!

[@roseyc.5846]

Iva, I live in a two-family house with my son, who was recently widowed, and six year-old grandson. So, though I'm not technically "alone", being a widow myself, I feel VERY alone. It IS different for men, absolutely! Having a husband, and, later, a fiance (now deceased also) was a HUGE plus. I DO want a man to do the things men should do..I don't want to do it, either. I'm NOT a feminist, either. I totally HATE the single life, I have to say it. I don't get women who say they LOVE being alone. Not me!! I'll never get used to it, no matter how old I get. It's true, it's not all about sex...it's SO much more. Sigh. I'm a Leo, and, I once read, "Life without love is like a plug without a socket for Leos". It's true. I really appreciate this video, and, your candor is SO very refreshing. Thank you for sharing...God bless. 🙏🏻 Rosemarie 🩷

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx so much for always watching and commenting Rosemarie. I appreciate you! And ya, this alone stuff is not fun!

[@stacyjones4789]

3 days 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been down alone an hour from town for 3 mos. Yep, scorpions etc here, too 😝 I don’t have a choice. I don’t know Anyone, including family. Thank God for Dog!

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching! :)

[@Daisy-r8h]

All truth. Does having someone to open jars count under the fixing stuff around the house category?

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes!!!!! That too!! Thanx for adding that and for watching :)

[@edranetz]

I find that I can open any jar with either a rubber gripper or if it's vacuum packed a spoon under the lid if I can't use my hands to do it.

[@Daisy-r8h]

@@edranetz I have a rubber gripper but very small hands! Running the lid under hot water helps but its still not as easy as handing it to someone else 🤣

[@Kenny-r7m]

Everybody needs somebody sometimes~~~>dean marten😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha love it!!!

[@kergos967]

I ove it. You know for me it is healing. I have know fear of that. I agree with not being able to digest personal situations especially when it not great. That can scarey. Fixing things in home has been very upsetting to me you cannot trust contractors in Florida it is alllllll about money. You know I love being alone it is healing and you see your strengths and weaknesses. Friends are not there unless you have alot of money. Trust in the Lord only

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Amen to all that!! Thanx so much :)

[@DebberraHarriman-y5f]

I think its great living totally alone.just get some lady froends and hobbies spending time with family.if you want to work then u wont have for time for anyone

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching!

[@kasspriscilla9350]

Well I may not be 60 yet but I'm 58 and I live alone and there are times that it gets really lonely I had to move most of my friends are gone and that's hard either they lost contact with me also I had to move that was a big Downer that there are times that I really need to have a friend and that's the biggest thing for me even one friend would be great so even though I'm not 60 or over 60 I can relate to this very well thank you

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for sharing your thoughts and story 💓

[@Utubegal]

You can be really sick, and so can your partner at the same time! Too sick to care for each other, and in a bad mood because you both feel like garbage. Not all men can do home repairs

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Great points! Thanx!

[@francefradet2116]

Iva, I hope you meet a lovely Hondurense man. But you may have to accept his family too and nietos and chaos and the joy of being a grandmother. ❤️‍🔥🌹

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm in Guatemala. Not many Hondurans here

[@pedrozatravel]

I am very happily married. I am sure though there are many times it is nice to make a decision and not have to consult on it.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Right? Though on the flip side, I wish I had someone to consult with for decisions. Thanx for watching, I just subbed to your channel..very cool!!

[@orlymarq6238]

Guatemalan are friendly and inviting. May be have some neighbors over dinner?

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I do have some lovely Guatemala friends that have been over for dinner. Not sure they'd be so keen on cuddling up on the couch and holding hands though 😅

[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

I thought the same thing. I was in Mexico and made friends. If you want people, you need to make the effort. I am in a similar spot, where I am reinventing myself. It can be hard to trust yourself with new people. So I get this.

[@stephaniemcgreevy4114]

@ ohhhh so this I want a man thing and not just being alone thing… gotcha !

[@Carolina480]

I totally agree with yuo I’m 54 I hate to think I’m gonna end up alone dating it’s difficult and men don’t really want us older women and yes I need a man to fix things in the home it’s hard it’s get lonely at night I miss having a man to cuddle at bed time the companionship and also to go out some outings it’s better to have someone to enjoy to talk to when I get sick I need someone to b there for me I hate feminism this idea that we don’t need a man but we do need them and like yuo said I don’t want to get laid I don’t want just to be used and dumped this why I don’t date until he also wants the same thing I’m looking for

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Yes exactly all that Carolina!!

[@francefradet2116]

Spanish saying: tell me what you say you love, and I'll tell you what you are missing. Dime de que presumes y te diré de que careces.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

🫶💓

[@CharlieGirl1964]

Ohmygosh, I had to laugh when you said I CAN do it, I just don't fuckin' WANT to! Girrrl same! I'll be turning 60 in literally 12 days. I need shit done around here & like you, been downsizing & getting rid of shit because in the back of my head I don't want my family having to be bogged down by worrying wth they're gonna do with all my crap. I love that you have tattoo's & nose ring....I too have full sleeves, nose ring, labret, & tell it like it is, without giving AF! (that might be the Sagittarius in me tho)...anyway, I could go on and on, I just wanted to share real quick: I don't even know, nor do I want to know how to start a lawn mower! Haha, I've never mowed a lawn in my life! To me, it was always a man's job. But, I also busted my ass at GM for over 15 years lifting Eldorado doors when the suction cups and machinery were "down" before the repair men could get there, plus held them in place wilst securing them to the vehicle while the line never stopped! So, I know what ball busting work feels like. Been retired for about 10 years after working my entire life (2 cervical spine surgeries) so that took some real getting used to, it was depressing as hell. I feel I've slowly found my way & decided I really like this being alone & honestly it's freaking awesome. Sorry for the long comment, I have so much more to say! Haha! Thank you for your video honey, you rock! xo

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Don't apologize for being you ;) I love your long comment. You sound just like me haha

[@CharlieGirl1964]

@@WomenBlazingTrails 😘❤️💀

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@@CharlieGirl1964 😘😘🥰🥰

[@lindaellen808]

Live alone all my life over 70 ,with cats over the years., not any other choice really.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Cats are great companions!

[@genovasquez8361]

Im a 48 year old man. I'm never doing home repairs. Never have. I'm not a handy around the house. That's why I live in an apartment..let maintenance take care of that.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Perfect!!!

[@the.trollgubbe2642]

I am tired of (as a man), "you should be able to fix this and that, build things", sorry, I have no training for that

[@genovasquez8361]

@@the.trollgubbe2642 nor do I have a desire to fix that

[@jackiemonroe2174]

im 62 as well living alone everything you said is the same as me also i miss aman to put the rubbish out

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Right?? Thanx!

[@the.trollgubbe2642]

As a man I got tired of being nothing but a tool, and being manipulated

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

@the.trollgubbe2642 sorry you were treated that way.

[@Retired-jr3qs]

Most women that live alone are not financially secure. I have yet to meet a single woman that is physically fit and retired.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That's sad to hear....I know a lot of women who are fit and financially stable but I know what you mean though.

[@cup_o_TMarie]

All these are valid points. I’m 54, been married 3 times. Now I own my home & live alone on a mountain in Oregon an hour from the city. I don’t miss those same things but it would be nice to have a man who could look out for me for repairs & advice about my home. That’s really all I miss. lol

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Your life sounds blissful!!

[@cup_o_TMarie]

@ 🤍Thank you yes I’m truly happier than I really ever thought possible! Now I don’t know if I ever WANT to try to do the intimate partner thing again lol Truly only if they contribute to my peace more often than not that’s for sure. ✌️ Your life is certainly inspiring!👏

[@n8VKogdp-678i]

WWII women had it all over these modern cat-ladies. Feminism destroyed their lives. They can say they love living alone all they want; it's a cope and they know it deep down.

[@JD-tn5tb]

Not sure I understand why living alone after 60 would be any different than living alone when you are 30. As a single person, when I am sick I still have to go to the store for myself or take myself to the Dr., no matter what age. And as far as making a big pot of chili, I would just ask some friends over if I wanted to share. It sounds more like you want a love relationship although you weren't really saying that. On one hand you said you didn't want sex for the sake of sex but you weren't really saying you wanted a significant other. Regardless, I don't know what that has to do with being over 60 or any age. If you want someone, it doesnt matter whether you are 20, 60 or 90 and if you don't want someone, it doesnt matter what age either.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for watching! That's a lot to unpack in one comment 😅 I'll do my best. I don't remember having any of these feelings when I was 30 or 40 or 25. This is how I feel as a 62 year old woman. I guess i was indirectly talking about having a significant other to go through my senior years with. It would be nice to have that kind of companionship. Sorry I didn't make that quite clear. Yes, I've had friends over for dinner but that's not the same as having a special someone. Thanx again!!

[@stephanie3506]

One big difference is that when you are 30 and under, you have many friends that are in the same stage of life as you and doing similar things. Therefore, they are more accessible and more plentiful. As you grow older people's lifestyles change. People marry, have kids, move away, die, etc.... By the time you're 60, you could literally be the only one in your friend group that is alive or in near proximity to have companionship.

[@polly8844]

Why did you move to Guatemala? Did you initially know someone when you moved there?

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Canada is expensive and cold. I knew no one down here!

[@donone7686]

I'm a libra and dont wont no woman living with me getting on my nerves 🤣🤣

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha!! Love it! When's your birthday?

[@Motherofthedead]

I get it honey. I want to do lady things too, not repair the leaky damn sink. I have to google everything I try to fix. It’s always half assed, but I did try. Sad fact is, as much as we would like to have a nice man around for companionship and help with house issues, it’s probably not ever going to happen. We’ll always get screwed. Be careful getting a handyman though, they are casing you and your home. The last thing you want is him standing over you in the middle of the night.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

😬😬

[@vannesagannon4555]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

❤️❤️❤️

[@JohnHam-ge9kd]

im 60 you are my neighbor, im 500 meters up the mountain behind your house

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Really? I didn't know there were houses in the mountains behind me 😎

[@RobertMesa-fu9oy]

Im 59 alone but do have a small dog im also homeless

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm so sorry 😞

[@RobertMesa-fu9oy]

@@WomenBlazingTrails don't be it's a little scary sometimes but I'm ok

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

💓🥹🫶

[@lindaellen808]

Is there not a handyman in the area who does those sorts of home jobs as employment to be called on.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm going to find one soon.

[@beverlydiggs1964]

This is why im not going to get my head all warped over a guy again it's not worth the time effort pain do yourself a favor and stand clear of a hurting heart do you😊

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

🫶💗

[@cmbooks2000]

It's funny the things that matter to different people. I love watching movies...alone. i hate sitting down to a movie with a guy. Either he's making annoying comments and talking throughout the film, or he falls asleep and snores during the movie. I rarely meet men who find films that I like interesting and vice versa. The only time I want to dine with someone is in a restaurant. I don't even like eating at cookouts or work/church/memorial meetings. Just makes me lose my appetite.

[@cmbooks2000]

Oh, and I call people to repair or kill things. I probably am not gonna do it. Lol

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx for sharing!

[@cynthia216]

So....welcome to my world.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I think there are many women who feel like this! 🥹🙋‍♀️❤️

[@cynthia216]

@WomenBlazingTrails I believe you're right on that.I do know a couple of people at my gym that have gotten into relationships because of all this.But they do not love the person.To each their own.

[@GrannyCeestorytime]

I hate mowing lawns !! Join a church , it helped me

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Ha! I live in Guatemala and my Spanish isn't strong enough to join a church unfortunately

[@blancau8223]

I'm recently married almost 9 months and miss being quiet when single. I hire a handyman,because he doesn't do certain things. Sometimes don't feel like cooking. I understand feeling lonely,but sometimes one can feel that way too. God fills the void. I'm scared of being alone when my mom passes away: she is 88 and my best friend. Growing older at 62 here

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Recently married at 62? How wonderful, congratulations!!

[@genovasquez8361]

It's not a man's job to fix up someone house unless you paying him top dollar

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Ok!

[@Toni-id2pv]

Grt a dog. Just relaxe and Sit yur behind down

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Got one thanx!!

[@lynfoster7870]

But sometimes u have them and they live the street

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

I'm sorry I'm not quite sure what you're referring to?

[@JoeSmith-s6y]

Hey Iva I even take the trash ou:t P 😁

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Haha!! That's one job I don't mind doing. My landlord takes it out to the curb for me twice a week :)

[@stephaniepersin4222]

Feminism has nothing to do with doing home chores and everything to do with having choices beyond being a wife.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Ok thanx!

[@veronicagarcia6830]

I don’t need anymore omg why always in need of a man. I don’t need anyone only my kids. They make me happy.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

That's great!!!

[@patriciaheichman82]

Your video just popped up on utube so I watched it, I’m over 70. Please go to the doctor I think you have lung problems, you may know already. It’s something about your breathing and skin coloring.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thank you. Well, I smoked for 49 years and just quit a month ago so my body is still repairing oitself 🙂

[@Jake-tc3zl]

You look so young

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Oh gosh, thank you!! 😊

[@FollowHimSewing]

My dear if you believe in Jesus Christ remember He left the Holy Spirit with us to help us. Jesus is our friend. He is just a prayer away. He loves us.

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Thanx !! 🫶💓

[@MahnazAfghan-p3s]

65 and living alone and I love it …..

[@WomenBlazingTrails]

Excellent!!!