The real cost for a Thai Girlfriend in Pattaya, what to expect and how it all works

Pattaya Thailand, home to thousands of girls. How much will a Thai girlfriend cost you?
There is a different way of life here in Pattaya, Thailand compared to other countries. Expectations may be set higher and costs may escalate. Take a look and share your thoughts on this subject.
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[@AeroAmateur]

Im in Pattaya at the moment Trevor is correct some girls have got bigger but to be honest i rather like having the more European figure . If you want the GF experience out here than i hope you've brought plenty of cash i would estimate £200-£300 per day based on 41 baht to 1 pound including the bar-fines etc etc you will burn through your money easily with food and going out . DON'T DO IT . stay single go short time .

[@MH-rx7tn]

I am put off Pattaya at the moment with these reports. Lack if hot girls and too expensive. Might as well have a top class escort over in Europe. British. Polish. Ukrainian. Latvian. Far hotter 🔥. No crazy air fare.

[@AeroAmateur]

I’m having a great time but if you want short time you would need at least £130-£180 for a good night out trouble is the exchange rate is so poor . 😢

[@MD-hd1cp]

ST or holiday girlfriend, either way you have to budget minimum $1kusd for a month of "fun"

[@keef6586]

@@AeroAmateur ……and just about to get a lot worse after today, it’s been smashed

[@markp9568]

Exactly all you will do is throw cash at a girl, I never see any girl overnight, I just pop into massage shop, have my massage and then go about my business, never take a girl back to my hotel that’s my sanctuary for relaxing. So many guys think they have a girlfriend, they like to live believe the fantasy.

[@JohnDoe-iv7yu]

Some other tips. YOU have the advantage here, YOU have the leverage. Never forget that you always have to keep women under your thumb at all time, no matter how "sweet" and nice she is to you. Women respect dominance, this does not mean being an "a--hole". Be nice to her, but don't be an ATM. When my girl asked for an allowance after about a week of dating I said no, "I pay for everything when we go out and never ask you for money, so I already pay enough." followed by "There are 100,000 thai girls here I could be with, don't push it or I will replace you." I also said "Your family isn't my problem any more than my family isn't your problem. I am not sending money to your mom, dad, brother, sister, aunt, uncle or kids. YOU work for them, not for me!" This works 99% of the time. If you think I am being a jack ass then YOU will fail here. Be nice, know your place in the pecking order, and women will respect that, they are designed to do so.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@douglaswilliams4274]

Bam !

[@geoleo2597]

@@JohnDoe-iv7yu yeah I went on n a second date with my friend’s girlfriend sister. I thought cool she’s trustworthy because we have common links, like a “referral “ if you will. Nope!!! On that date she heads for the high-end cosmetics counter, picks up a $65 Chanel perfume and with a sad 😔 face says “Buy this for me”. Damn. My heart just dropped because I knew she’s not for me. Geez I hate that about some of these Thai women. Do I look like I have “sucker” written on my forehead? 🙄

[@FreeMindAnonymous]

Working girls and non working girls are a different world mostly... can't compare them, no matter what country you are in. Of course if you choose to date a prostitute, you have to accept all the strings and headaches potentially. I have had normal Thai partners and it's nothing like this. I have also had working partners and it was exactly like this if not worse... haha. Lesson for me is... use working girls for what they are supposed to be used for to avoid headaches and all the bullshit. Plus it feels better not having a girl that's been creamed by 1000s of others and is probably mentally messed up from it in many ways. Don't turn a hoe into a housewife because most of the time it fails. Yes there is success stories but it's a BIG coin to flip and you could lose everything if you are a fool. Enjoy!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing mate

[@canibus1985]

A ho is a ho.... Do not try to reason or think logical. They are broken like a glass mirror. Do not waste money or time trying to repair broken women in society.

[@Big-Harry]

If you meet a girl in a bar you are a paying customer & that is how she will always view you no matter what

[@Buzzinpattaya]

That is so true

[@philipmarstri2839]

Guess so, but it’s a good game to play , and when it’s over if you haven’t been a clown you can play again with no regret 😂😇

[@krukon]

Is it ALWAYS true??

[@sgriffin8739]

@@krukon close enough. Believe it

[@chrishayes312]

Having a Thai girlfriend in Pattaya is a big financial risk! I am a longtime visitor in Thailand. You can meet serious girls in Thailand for relationship but with all the respect I have for the girls, Gogo & bar girls are just for fun but definitely not for serious relationship!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

yeah it can be a risk

[@markshepperson3603]

What’s the difference between free sex and paid for sex? Free sex is more expensive.

[@tradeladder146]

Especially in Milton Keynes.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

So true

[@allenwilson6462]

Get yourself a girlfriend from Cambodia then live in Thailand. Most problems solved. Never make a bar girl your main squeeze.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@chrismiles8297]

Just stick to the 3 day rule. It will be cheaper and you will have more fun.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@mikeygegan]

They don’t care about you at all, all they care about is how much they can sponge of you.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Mostly yes

[@mikeygegan]

@@Buzzinpattaya haha definitely yes. 20 trips done, I know this BS of these girls.

[@Paladinbr]

How is that different from any western women? I'd imagine that the honesty of the situation would be refreshing.

[@mikeygegan]

@@Paladinbr no difference. I’m just expressing my opinion on the topic. Hopefully that’s ok with u.

[@Paladinbr]

@@mikeygegan Like it would make any difference if it wasn't okay with me? Female nature is female nature the whole world 'round.

[@mattybuu4910]

If you look at a relationship from a pure economical perspective, having a Thai girlfriend costs peanuts in comparison to a Western European one. No matter how many times the buffalo gets sick.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Totally agree

[@shabbos-goy9407]

Correct

[@tradeladder146]

And alot less Backchat, well most of the time anyway. 😀

[@davejackson1270]

yup and the attitude difference is the number 1 for me I dont even look at western women

[@mattybuu4910]

@@davejackson1270 Exactly, even IF the Thai girlfriend is just in it for the business, when spending money on her, she is grateful for it, while western women think they are entitled to getting anything and everything just cause they are the woman.

[@caretaker8960]

Don't take the whole thing to seriously, be a butterfly and have a great time.

[@reread2549]

Sabai Sabai

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@tradeladder146]

Exactly Mate, way to Go. 👍

[@richie5019]

The vast majority of bar ladies have lots of boyfriends. It only gets complicated for them when two turn up at the same time. If they go with you instead of the other bloke it's only because you are giving them more money. It's only business to them, nothing to do with anything else.

[@farangutan6773]

yes , correct .

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I shared the story a long time ago about a girl I met in a bar who was very kind to me as I was getting further involved with her she stopped me in my tracks and showed me four sponsors that she had. She told me what each one sent her and that she was going to marry the fourth guy. We have stayed friends over the last 10 years and she did exactly what she told me and is now living in Germany and has been for the last 5 years married with one child.

[@richie5019]

@@Buzzinpattaya Yeh I know a lady a mate went with about 12 years ago. I saw her in July and she had just got married and was moving to Sweden. The same mate married a Thai about 6 years ago and she moved to England. As soon as she got her British nationality she blew him out and took half his money, he can't even afford a holiday now.

[@Rosie-ui5jr]

Five Types of Women You'll Find in Thailand (based off my Thai mum and my experience with Thai girls as friends 😂) When Thai women are mentioned, it's fair to say that most people immediately think of two different types; the 'bar girls' and the 'normal girls'. In our experience, there are actually five different types of Thai women that you'll find in the country. If you want to date a woman in Thailand, we think it's important to understand the differences between them. With this in mind, allow us to break them down below! 1. Bar Girls Since bar girls seem to get the most attention, allow us to explain these women first. If you've been on a few nights out in Thailand, we can almost guarantee that you've bumped into a few bar girls. In Pattaya, Bangkok, and other big cities, you're likely to come across bar girls often. Raised in poor families, normally in Isaan (northeast Thailand), they see their work in clubs and bars as a serious job. Whenever they earn money, some go towards their education and lifestyle while the rest tends to go home to their family. Unfortunately, their poor reputation comes from their desire to earn money. Since they earn more on this scene than they ever could in a day job, they're very rarely willing to forgo this lifestyle for a Western man. If you fall for a bar girl, make sure she is genuine with her intent, learn more about her, and assess whether or not she will change her profession for you. Bar girls have broken many a Western heart, so don't give everything away so easily. 2. Traditional Girls On the other hand, people normally think about traditional Thai girls as 'regular' or 'normal'. Many work long hours in their day job, they don't socialize in clubs and bars all too much, and the majority haven't yet dated a foreign guy. Unlike what you may have experienced at home, Thai women don't like casual dating. If you're a few dates in, they will probably see you as their boyfriend already. Traditional Thai women, take marriage and love very seriously; they believe in giving their all to their man. Additionally, they have strong values for: Traditional beliefs Meeting your/her family Children Religion Most Western men, find themselves in conversations about marriage within a year. If you aren't interested and aren't serious, we highly recommend breaking up before breaking her heart later down the line. As you may know, traditional Thai women are shy and conservative in nature. They rarely have tattoos and piercings, they don't wear too much makeup, and only an emergency will see them ask for money. In fact, most traditional Thai women prefer to save money, and this will help you find cheap hotels, food,salons, shopping malls, etc. This all sounds great, but we should inform you of one drawback; their ability with the English language. If you find a girl that doesn't speak much English, you can be certain that she's trying to learn. As long as you're both making an effort to communicate, love will conquer everything. 3. Thai Gold Diggers We mentioned the way that bar girls like to earn money, but this is nothing compared to the gold diggers of Thailand. That's right, some women will go to clubs every night dressed up in expensive clothing with expensive gadgets, handbags, and shoes, and they could even have tattoos. Either way, they look for rich men who will buy them gifts and supplement their expensive lifestyle. While some are happy to stick with one sugar daddy, others will seek multiple sugar daddies, so be careful (we assume you want to avoid this type of woman!). Many Thai gold diggers, they're happy to keep partying until the sun comes up. Most of the time, they don't care if you're talking with other girls because they're doing exactly the same. If you choose a gold digger, they will be demanding, they will ask for gifts, and they will prefer material things over your time. Since they're independent in nature, they will pay for their own drinks on a night out and may actually be against the traditional Western chivalrous approach (only if you take it too far; everybody loves a gentleman with good manners!). Here are some tips for recognizing a gold digger: She's always asking for material items and for youto spend money. She always seems to prefer fancy restaurants and experiences (rather than just a night in together) She's direct in asking for money Of course, we aren't saying that any girl asking for money is a gold digger. But there's a difference between running into money problems (and feeling awkward asking for help) and simply asking for you to fund their life. 4. Liberated Thai Girls For us, a liberated Thai girl is a traditional Thai girl who has been able to break free from shyness. They're accustomed to Western attitudes and men, they like adventure, and they're generally very good fun. Unlike the gold diggers, liberated Thai girls are independent and they won't be looking for a man with money. Instead, they're genuinely interested in finding somebody to love. Good with the English language, these women will have careers and huge aspirations for the future. Before settling down with a family, they will have goals. Thanks to their middle-class families, most have been to a big university and are now. While one is conservative, respectful, and extremely loyal, the other is independent, fun, well-traveled, and/or educated! Take care and God bless.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing

[@indiandaeng]

Rock Hard in Phuket used to have tee shirts listing what a Thai girl said and what they are really saying. Was hilarious. I will wait for you to return. Means: until the next paying customer comes along.

[@eyezearz_org]

Not being critical here, thought it was well written, but you said five types of women, but only noted four.

[@rickandersen707]

@@eyezearz_org the last one.....non existent

[@RonDevito]

The Real Cost for a Girlfriend: All your assets till nothing's left. The End.

[@krex4159]

🤣🤣

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol

[@jimmydempsey6857]

Yep Ron they'll take the shirt off your back.

[@alistairnewton8898]

Just remember gents she is not your girlfriend ?, it's just your turn as long as you have money !.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@jimmydempsey6857]

Yep u never lose your g/f just your turn 😂😊😀

[@raymondlanier1112]

I can see what kind of men go to Thailand

[@NicolaSturgeon-pl4bs]

Stirring the porridge

[@caink9142]

Same as with any woman anywhere!

[@martinhunter2720]

You can take the girl out the bar...but you can't take the bar out the girl! Was told this many years ago and from what i've seen and heard, it's fairly accurate. However, if you don't buy a ticket, you won't win the raffle!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

True mate, it is a risk

[@CryptoSteve007]

Who in their right mind would want a jealous, lying, unloving, totally dependant, money grabbing leech of a girlfriend? The whole relationship you've described sounds very unattractive & in fact somewhat toxic. I guess there's a sucker born every minute. Lol.

[@DiscoDrew]

A girl I Pattaya told me last week that if she can’t find a boyfriend this year she will be with a man in January who she doesn’t like, but he has promised to buy her 4 Million Baht of land. (£100k). I asked how long she had known him, she said 1 Day in Pattaya then just talked on the phone . 🤷‍♂️

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I can say from experience, marriage in the UK is far worse and way more expensive

[@CryptoSteve007]

@@Buzzinpattaya Lol. OK Trevor. Sounds like you've jumped from a pot of boiling water into a hot frying pan. Just keep paying to keep your wife, her family, their sick Buffalo's and their broken water pumps & I'm sure you'll have a long and prosperous marriage.😂

[@farangutan6773]

@@CryptoSteve007 the paying never ends no matter how long the relationship .

[@PREPFORIT]

That is no way to talk about your mom !

[@soihollywood850]

Forget the girlfriend experience. Just go massage with happy ending.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Often the best way

[@YandereBestDere]

Short time Short time hotel Short time vacation This is the way.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha good man

[@JulianUrsano]

don't forget you can also just get a normal gf in bkk (or pattaya, KK, UT, Krabi, etc anywhere) and she will split expenses with you and even pay for your dates sometimes. my experience

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@SpeedyBlueBiker1]

I met my Thai GF, and later wife, in my home country where she was a grad student. We were both students at the time back well before there were mobile phones, the internet, etc. Her family never asked me for money. Probably because they were a lot richer than my family 555! There are a lot of lovely Thai women out there that are not involved in the bar business.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

wow thanks for sharing mate, much appreciated

[@martinkerry7538]

Met my wife by being introduced to her by her sister, living two streets away from me in England. She was not involved in the bar scene but was a cleaner in a hotel. Her family have not made much in the way of demands on me. Also, through living with me in England for eight years before we moved to Thailand permanently, she understands better about our money and knows we're not All millionaires. She has stuck with me when I've been flush and also when I was staring bankruptcy in the face. I'm very lucky, I got a good one

[@Buzzinpattaya]

fantastic mate fair play and wish you all the best

[@harold6863]

Nice one👍

[@tomharvey2040]

Yep there are def good decent thai girls about.. even in pattaya, you just have to choose wisely 😊

[@franciscoquevedo8240]

@@tomharvey2040 Yes even in Pattaya but... if she has no tatoos, no smoker, no drinker. I think after one week toguether you can check her head is ok (sadly some of them are not very well in the head). Finaly know a little about her family..

[@alexanders4911]

@@franciscoquevedo8240 so what you are saying basically is; if she has no tattoos, doesnt smoke or drink (big chance), spend a week together with her. If she does not show signs of being mentally ill and you have chemistry - go for it! Did i get u rite?

[@siamsnowman6357]

For every successful bargirl relationship, there are probably 99 that turned into a train wreck. Bargirls are for entertainment, not a relationship.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sad but true

[@SimonWallwork]

She's not your GF, she's a prozzy, and you're paying for it!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

gotcha

[@clivesweeting4410]

Exactly .. When will guy's wise up .

[@dmitriikurilov3662]

@@clivesweeting4410 We can wise up and what? Can we change the order of things if it is the same everywhere? Or should we become gays?

[@kesayo]

@@changnoiboi That’s right. No woman gives it away for free. You either pay for it up front or over a period of time. No matter how you slice it, you’re paying for it.

[@nelsonegidio6540]

In fact, all women has a price, if you want something more than chat....think about it!

[@davidcoleman2796]

I know 100 % its not love . I go to jamaca and cuba . ( 3 hr from Toronto ) i have been ripped off a few times but who cares . I am 66 now . Im living the life . The women i have in Havana is 33 with one son . I have another on in Jamaica that works at a bank . 42 with 3 kids but great in bed . Hot . Lol . Ok . It does cost me money but i can't take it with me .

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing

[@davidcoleman2796]

@@Buzzinpattaya Thailand this winter for the first time . I hope I can go on one of your boat trips with all the girls .

[@Chronoxidex]

why need a thai girlfriend when you can have many? You don't have to feel the chance of getting betray all the time.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@raylemar2386]

I'm thinking the same, just date , have fun, after a few days it's over.

[@dweezfreez6284]

Go to Thailand , have a great time. have some George Best moments, then........Fastern seatbelts and prepare for takeoff and forget it. ...............Until next year!!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

That's the way to go my friend

[@mrsweeves7035]

Bugger the rent model, anything more than 1 night is a liability imo.🤣🤣🤣

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@shortmemory]

More than 1 hour is a liability in pats

[@seriousdoubt]

the real cost was 5 years of my life and empty pockets

[@Buzzinpattaya]

sorry for this mate

[@sgriffin8739]

If you pay her, she will never love you. You will be a customer.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

True

[@SefaOralz]

@@sgriffin8739 how it is possible w/o cash ? The whole pattaya is true professionals !

[@Muttey2024]

Doesn’t matter what part of the world she’s from all women cost money in the long run…

[@Buzzinpattaya]

gotcha

[@shaun7638]

Agree 100% mate

[@pauljones5066]

yes, but some deliver, some don't

[@Muttey2024]

@@pauljones5066 deliver in what way sir? Give me some chores you wish to be accomplished.😅

[@bohu4586]

hahaha, i love you dude. i'm chinese, before covid pandemic i met my first "long term thai girlfriend" at skyfall in pattaya, you certainly know skyfall, right? she's super gorgeous , i went skyfall five nights in a straight for her and took her out, we had a great time . but at the sixth night, she had a day off, so i went to another agogo bar and took another girl, and next night when i went to skyfall and took her to my hotel again, she checked her phone and asked me if it's true that her friend saw me and another girl last night, i said yes i was with another girl last night , she was very angary and said "what do you think i am? a bar girl？ " . i was confused and answered " i met you in a bar, so what should i expect? " she became mad and leave my hotel room, didn't even ask the money for the last date. i asked her back via wechat, but she said she don't want to see me again and don't want my money. i was shocked, you know. in china, working girls are working girls, they give services and get money, tbh i'd say chinese working girl give a better service than thai girl, but they don't play such emotional drama . i understand she was working in bar for money though, she was still trying to keep her dignity. i'm asian too so i can understand her feeling of losing face. but in china that's a very old school thing, we chinese understand it but we don't really care about it nowadays. i didn't expect that thai girls still think this way. i want to say sorry to her if i had a chance. after that i had a few more "thai girlfriends", some of them are working girl as well. sometimes i know they were playing tricks to get more money from me, but i don't really care, what they ask are very little compare to chinese girls. so i always fullfill them with respect, as long as it's not out of my budget. dude, you were born in britain, that means you are luckier than at least 95% people of the world. i was born in the rich part of china, i think i'm lucky too.but not all people are as lucky as us. you know how tough the normal life in SEA countries is. in my opinion, those thai working girls are most very good people , they might be cunning sometimes, but they have to do that for their life. i'm lucky about money, they don't, that's the only difference. so i don't ever be stingy to them. they share happiness with me, and i share my lucky money with them, that a fair deal. i don't know if my thoughts right or not, but anyways, i love thailand ,and i love your video. hope you all good and have fun~~ i'm gonna visit pattaya again next month~

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hi mate and wow what a story hahah. What do you think I am a bar girl and you met her in a bar 555555 When ya come over please come say hello mate in Buzzin Lounge be great to grab a beer, this story is brilliant. Safe travels mate

[@bobbruce4135]

Wow. Can you give any advice or suggestion on meeting working girls in China? This is not something we get much information on. We hear of scams where western men are lured by attractive young women. But, how can a man actually meet a girl for a clean and honest transaction if that's possible?

[@disclosurewars]

So basically women are the same anywhere in the world. It’s just all about money. Unless you find that 1% of diamonds that really care about you.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@stephendixon1759]

if they are happy with a farlang 20 plus years older than you trust me its money

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yep

[@Row2nd]

Its normal for women to date older men. If you're Nicholas Cage or Sylvestor Stallone you're a better catch than someone her age. Women don't seek beauty in men. They want a man with himself together and money is a by product of being a man of value.

[@stevenharris1460]

Who girlfriend's up a bar girl? That's just crazy.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Many do mate

[@mdubb4855]

Some are pretty sweet.

[@paulf897]

There was a good quote from a US millionaire who said, if it flies, floats or fornicates, always rent it!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@douglaswilliams4274]

I have seen 3-4 videos on this subject, they said the cost for a gf is 20,000 to 50,000 baht per month plus all incidentals. They will eat the most expensive thing on the menu , 2-3 entrees, at restaurants. They must buy new clothes every week and want to go out 2-3 times per week. I laugh at all the middle age you tubers with 20 year old girl friends acting like they are a real girlfriend. 555 I find it

[@argonaut816]

Don't tell my boyfriend. He gets 15,000 support per month. He will want a pay rise.

[@douglaswilliams4274]

@@argonaut816 , why are you so cheap. Pay up.. 555

[@douglaswilliams4274]

@@argonaut816 , if you are not paying, someone else is… 555

[@Buzzinpattaya]

As long as they are happy I guess

[@davejackson1270]

I think the key to that statement is 20 year old.......why does anyone think a girl in their 20's is ready to do anything but have fun? and that goes for most places in the world.

[@theGreenleaf84]

You want a woman you need to pay. Everywhere everytime 💰

[@Buzzinpattaya]

True

[@donaldlangdon]

Never believe what a Thai girl tells you - even the time of day, always double check!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hahaha true that mate

[@Mike-qo8nm]

It will cost you your soul.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol true

[@killan001]

I think I needed to hear that. Thanks.

[@chrisallen2005]

Hookers, not girlfriends. They only love you long time while the cash is flowing.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Kerching

[@tipigi3570]

as opposed to a western ex-wife who gets half your salary for X amount of years...

[@Cathycupcake68]

​@@tipigi3570who is probably the mother of your children that's the difference though

[@tipigi3570]

@@Cathycupcake68 assuming that you have children... Spousal support has nothing to do with kids.

[@Cathycupcake68]

@@tipigi3570 everything actually, someone actually carried that child for nine months and gave birth and nortured them that deserves respect. More cases than enough that child then resides with the mother with all that goes with it. Unfortunately mother's aren't free to swan off to other parts of the world to fulfill desires. You have to think of the shame and embarassment this behaviour brings to your family too.

[@davieboy666]

True cost is don't do it.. Do your homework find your girls online..if you play the game in the bars. Just get ready to have an empty wallet.simple. Most girls in pattaya are there to earn money. That is why they are there!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@DarkstarDarth]

Buy your toys and rent your women and you’ll be happy and wealthy forever. I’d rather meet local gals and become friends. No need to buy your friends, just make some.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said!

[@DarkstarDarth]

@@Buzzinpattaya ..Thanks mate😄✌🏼

[@stevied7372]

If she likes steak and chips chances are she's also enjoyed a lot of sausage😁

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I think you could be on to something there LOL

[@InternetXplorer]

100%

[@jonhobson3592]

‘My friend ‘ I’m meeting next week after chatting for 10 months , I met on Thai friendly. Not a bat girl , works in office , lives with sister .. non drinker , no tattoos lol 😆 .. We shall see how it pans out .. wish me luck 😅..

[@RonDevito]

Now this sounds like a good plan. I'd still avoid marriage or any other legal commitment.

[@keef6586]

It’s a miracle you need by the sounds of it, but all the best.

[@nonsumqualiseram220]

What's a bat girl?

[@jonhobson3592]

@@keef6586 it may be ok. Shall see

[@jonhobson3592]

@@RonDevito taking it as I find it .. open minded

[@kwalk4804]

I had a Thai girl say, "If you have no money leftover at the end of the month. It's time for a new Thai girlfriend!"

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol, brilliant

[@roberttudor455]

wow at least she was honest 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@senianns9522]

----She was threatening looking for the new girlfriend?

[@jonoda894]

Lol

[@Koray1964]

Why having a gf in a city full of girls and fun?

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I don't think people necessarily come here looking for a girlfriend but when you spend two or three days with someone maybe the feeling start getting attached and then suddenly it becomes more than what you expected

[@senianns9522]

The British Embassy is one of the biggest missions of its type in the world. They constantly deal with, balding, overweight elderly men, dressed in nylon fabric football shirts, cargo pants, sandals and socks and limited funds to remain here or even get back to the UK! They all came to Thailand thinking they had found Utopia. Sadly many of them are totally screwed over, finished and deeply sad at their own foolishness!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol, what a sweeping statement hahaha, have a good day mate

[@senianns9522]

@@Buzzinpattaya You too! COYG!

[@ma3stro681]

It’s hilarious to see these very han$um men walking around like God’s gift to women. All of them smoke too, and have nasty tatts. Her majesty’s finest …

[@senianns9522]

@@ma3stro681 Plenty of Brits but plenty from all over Europe too! USA and Canada can contribute too!

[@mikimoto99]

🙄Such wisdom😄

[@PREPFORIT]

Excellent Video. I think everyone that has been to Pattaya a few times or many times. Should warn newbies NOT to fall in Love but rather maintain Lust only relationships 3 days at a time with a different Woman each time. Do not seek out a serious exclusive relationship with a Thai girl that will eventually be a Girlfriend then a Fiancee' Then a Prison Guard! Unless You are retired and living in Thailand. Have a Lot of Baht and a Lot of Baht she does not know about!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate much appreciated

[@cumbriafoodie2259]

Or a better option might be to meet a Filipina girl , totally different experience, very genuine girls , very very loyal and they can speak great English. I met mine 8 years ago and she's never asked me for any money to send for her family.( we send a box over every Xmas (£80) and fill it full of hand me down clothes and toiletries. Fortunately i found a gem and as a result she's now my wife.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Many people say this

[@guynelson2341]

Hand me down clothes and some toiletries as a Christmas present for her family each year. Sounds about right to me.

[@christopherkawecki8544]

Hahaha i got at least 300 pinai girls asking me 4 money. I ve heard lots of stories. U r aro lucky keep her

[@alexanders4911]

In my experience pinays are very sweet. But i found some thai girls too that are sweet...

[@prestonphelps1649]

Agreed. But keeping your prize in pi isnt doable. . Pollution is horrible. Noise, burning garbage, crap food.

[@tommyjonsson6133]

Hi Trevor. I live in pattaya area now and met a very goodlooking woman BUT one night she needed money to buy milk for her child that cost 2000bht, next night she show me on her phone that she owe her childs dad 12000bht. Ofcourse i gave her nothing, and i think do they really think we are that stupid. I got sick and she wouldnt stop calling me and she tried to cry saying you dont love me and i anwered her with no i do not love you, and she goes why why, i said you only love my wallet. She is calling me all the time so have no sound on my telephone. This is a crazy place if you think with your dick. Take care and i will come over to Buzzinbar.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

happens a lot mate, just block and move on

[@misterbanshee7992]

Lol smart man save your money.

[@jimmydempsey6857]

U've just deprived that girl of a romantic wallet !

[@misterbanshee7992]

@@jimmydempsey6857 no one wants to get scammed lol

[@jimmydempsey6857]

@@misterbanshee7992 🤣😂😅😄👍👍👍

[@fatalisdrakon83]

It's just easier to go the Charlie Sheen route with girls; pay them to leave. Much cheaper in the long run

[@Buzzinpattaya]

For so many mate yeah

[@CanadianNomadBiker]

Best rent not buy why on earth would go out & buy trouble with your hard earned money 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@kajman911]

A healthy way of seeing thai life as a foreigner. Everything you buy: house, car, motorbike etc is gifted to Thailand until the exception happens. The key word is renting and don´t buy anything you can not afford to give away.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@franciscoquevedo8240]

Yes, 100% rigth they have to feel that once you are not there they will loose all the things you have. Otherwise they will kick your ass as soon as they get what they were waiting to get

[@stevied7372]

The real cost of a Thai girlfriend - Your money, your dignity, your self respect and in some cases your life😉😉. Dont forget to observe the 3 day rule. Or if you're properly switched on the 3 hour rule.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@sgriffin8739]

You can die?

[@roccohoon2628]

I dated a Thai lady for 3 years she came almost every night to my place I mostly paid the bigger percentage of the bills sometimes paid the whole bill but it wasn't expensive restaurants we didn't go out much just occasionally coffee shop or get kfc ect . Usually we ate at home and sometimes she would bring something with to eat . She also paid sometimes and sometimes I went to her house to eat she would cook for me I probably spend monthly under 3000 baht more then I would have if I was single , She also bought me sometimes clothing or something for my room. True Lady

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair one mate, it can happen as you have stated, great share

[@paulpratt]

Today I learned unicorns exist and speak Thai.

[@benleno]

Why only three years?

[@naren2k6]

I have been visiting Thailand for over 20 years I have found out the best way to enjoy company with these lovely ladies is the keep them for the night and take them for lunch or dinner and in the Morning say bye bye baby. This prevents maximum headaches and hassles. If she wants a drink or beer I ask her and get it from 7-11, most of the girls naturally dont really care to drink outside, they want to either get back or relax. Great video

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks for sharing your experience with us mate

[@tracystjohn1957]

That sounds like very Sound Advice.

[@angelicupstart1977]

The true cost ? You are kidding mate 😂 Equality or no girlfriend 👍 How anyone can say someone who works in a bar and has had half of Europe hanging out of her is a girlfriend is hilarious 😂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Everyone no matter what they have or haven't done in their life is entitled to happiness

[@Crazyhorse71]

It the worst place to have a girlfriend..lol why would you want a girlfriend there? Come to thailand single..im telling you, trust me. lol.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hahaha

[@SuperBillybob53]

The cost is big. You will pay for everything. A house. In her name. Money you’ll never see again. A car. Money you’ll never see again. Motorbike. Money you’ll never see again. Lottery tickets. Utility bills Food Family doctor visit to hospital or doctors. All money you’ll never see again. Issan living in general is completely disgusting life out in dirt surrounded by non speaking English people. Of course great for them. There Thai. Our Village has no garbage service. Where is all the garbage. It’s all around you Sorry but, the hard core truth. Stay single. Boom Boom when you need to. If you need a babysitter. Go back home to your country. My opinion. Don’t get your knickers up in a ravel. Get a nice place to stay. Rents are cheap. Stay away from Issan life. Sure some make out ok but overall. I’m saying don’t do it. The scam never leaves a Bar girl. You are expected to put out all the money and you will. How ever you decide. I wish you the best.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

yep got that t-shirt when I first came here

[@kwalk4804]

Men, if you make an arrangement to go on holiday with a girl. Get it in a text...in writing. They seem to have a different recollection at the end of the trip about cost for there time, not in your favorite. Also what's expected 🤔 of them. I've heard several times that men assumed he going to getting his wildest dreams fulfilled. But ends up being disappointed at the end of the day. We need to remember to them we are a walking ATM 🏧 machine. And I don't mean it in a disrespectful way. This is there job, it's why they came to Pattaya. Like Trevor said they are pros at this be careful, and have as much fun as possible.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

fair one mate, thanks for sharing

[@BambinoAmericano]

Her phone is more important than your presence. Minimum service will be rendered to ensure the maximum money flow. Just stay master of the situation (which I always fail to do).

[@jimgoodreau1245]

I found the girls to be very reasonable. No girl asked more than 1000 bat and one only asked 500

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Wow nice one

[@davieboy666]

Did you have a safe in your room?

[@jimmydempsey6857]

The only thing that springs to mind there Jim is they might be doing the long con.

[@ForeverTributesNL]

I see all these guys walking around with their "girlfriends" and I'm just happy I love me some variety and paying for just my own steak.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@jasonjudkins2056]

Easy find a Thai girl away from the bars, I mentioned to my misses that I wanted to do the Chinese thing of following the flag down walking street, to tick it off the tourist bucket list, my misses just did the ✂️ motion, my man hood shrunk immediately and became a tortoise 😅😅😅. What darling you don’t trust me😅😅 No,.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

hahahaha best off keeping safe mate

[@benleno]

Real cost of a Thai Pattaya girlfriend - 1) Your dignity, 2) your wider family, 3) Your self confidence 4) Your self-worth 5) your wealth 6) your health - Enjoy your life and don't destroy your life. If you went to Spain you wouldn't take the sand home would you? Enjoy and forget

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Loved reading this thank you for sharing...

[@jimmydempsey6857]

Never forget my s.t.'s Ben, take them again and again if they tick all the boxes.

[@stupot1952]

pick a lady up whos got a proper job then you no bar fine easy if you know were to go !!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@expatwealthasia8702]

If you want a serious woman in your life, avoid the bars.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

indeed

[@symcarr]

there is another one, hired a lady for a LT but after 2 hours she got a message, her flatmate lost her key and so she had to rush home and let her in. She needed money and so in my innocence I paid her and she promised she would be back in 1 hour...... haha never saw or heard from her again, so money lost and lesson learnt

[@howdo1govern995]

🤣🤣 School boy error. I've had girls pretend to be sleeping when I get out the shower, I've had ones try the water works. I was brutal never fell for any of this bullshit. Earn your money or get to fuck.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

The girls are very good at playing on our emotions. One of the things that you will learn out here is that people are very harsh and often quite blunt. Whereas we are very weak and very kind-hearted and see the good in most situations so that makes us vulnerable

[@NorthernThaiGardenGuy]

This is why I am single and enjoy farming. 😆

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair one mate

[@richiep2028]

If your in town for 30 days plus. My advice is to meet Reception desk girls Waitresses an hostesses.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good shout

[@burtonknows9201]

I concur! Don't forget the gals working in mall.

[@farangutan6773]

no luck there , there is always the maid who comes to clean your room .

[@jimmydempsey6857]

@@burtonknows9201 Yep theirs usually rich pickings in there. 👍

[@marlecmarine5393]

Met my first Thai girlfriend online, l'm 60+ she was 40+. Her best friend owned an Aussie style bar in Udon Thani, we would go there about once a week. l deliberately tried to choose a quiet night, so we would arrive, spend a bit of money and cheer them all up. The girls were great, friendly and attentive, would buy them all a drink, order food and share with all the girls. I treated them with respect and got to know them as human beings and they treated me like family. Not all bars are meat markets looking to rip you off, you just have to choose wisely......🙂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Great share mate thank you

[@marlecmarine5393]

@@Buzzinpattaya my pleasure...

[@lostquantity445]

Udon Thani...wow...brings back some memories...

[@borisgurevich5504]

Can be summed in one word: minefield.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

very true

[@everythingcrypto5577]

How to go broke fast, date a bar girl

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol

[@jab5569]

If she's questioning what you are, or not, paying her, there is no question you should leave. Simply go a few kilometers away from the tourist areas and you will find ladies who will never ask you for money; they're down-to-earth and normal.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@joem8372]

Damn women always cost money lol

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@rudolfdesadeleer7995]

I had a Thai girlfriend for 5 years in bangkok....I never paid her a penny......

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@pauluk8700]

Hi trev, I’ve probably lived everything you’ve said over the years and much more, , I’ve learnt my lesson now, but would I do it all again , in a heartbeat 😂🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@Whalewraith]

Life's not a rehearsal mate. Enjoy yourself especially if there's more days behind you than in front of you.

[@philipmarstri2839]

Guess people on holiday don’t mind spending money and being ripped off with lady drinks, but surely most people wise up especially if you stay here a few months . I’ve no probs with the B girls many are generous and nice people but if you want to date them just see them once or twice a week that way you keep your freedom and don’t mind spoiling them a little when you see them 😊

[@Buzzinpattaya]

As you said once you've been here while you understand and maybe leave it

[@cliffcarr8206]

The book has already been written. Money Number 1. And others.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you for sharing one was more of a list of excuses etc and all the other stuff it wasn't meant to be serious

[@Ay00ant]

Can anyone please get me in contact with Thai girls who want my money

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol

[@thomasauslander3757]

Just ask for miss แม่มด

[@paulmillward7009]

Met many Thai ladies. Every time ended up a nightmare. Demands for gold, mother sick, expensive food, daily money handouts, trips to the mall. Whilst giving all this, have to put up with her immature attitude, mood swings, screaming, denying sex. 100% short time only

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@alexanders4911]

Sounds like any girl. Honestly. 😅

[@kiyoshitakeda452]

Sage advice. Hope people are paying attention. Last, let the girl choose the restaurant, but do tell her "I love Thai food!" You would be surprised at the great local places you will enjoy. Have never gotten sick and always great meals. Oh and yes they eat a lot. Put the patricians of Imperial Rome to shame. Enjoyed the tips. Thanks

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate

[@jaythay4716]

Damn... I've been hearing everyone saying the same thing about Thai girls' appetite. My trip's coming up soon, getting ready to add several pounds to my body weight.... ; -)

[@kiyoshitakeda452]

@@jaythay4716 prices are low by western standards and lots of veggies. No worries. Thai girls, love them, love Thai foods the best. Enjoy the place !!!!

[@davidcoleman2796]

Never take them to a shopping mall . Lol dont let her take you anywhere . Its your Is holiday

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol

[@gymratt17]

Not only the cost of food, (My god little thai girls can eat!), but also the amount of time involved in eating. She wants to pick up a bite to eat? She wants you to go with her.. she eats 4-5 times per day? Half the day is filled up around food.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol so true

[@globalman2]

sounds like you are hiring an escort …. the description is definitely NOT a girlfriend but a CALL GIRL.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I get ya mate

[@luxuryseaviewvillas6744]

that's all they know

[@reread2549]

The network of spies it’s truly amazing among the Isaan girls, but there are also what I call the counter agents that will start flirting with Farangs and don’t care if they have a partner or not, and guys unless you’re 21 and cut it ain’t about your looks😂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely on the nail my friend

[@aeonsleo2]

i guess this video is about paying for girls company and not really a girlfriend, for a real girlfriend make another video please.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Done that already

[@BambinoAmericano]

Just finished my 4th bar girl relationship. “Although this one was unique, honest, unspoiled, loved me with her heart etc.” Gonna enjoy my income for myself.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair one

[@effewe2]

Smart

[@davothefirst9371]

Love you long time 20,000 baht Na !

[@burtonknows9201]

@@davothefirst9371 LOL! No, love you short time...

[@harold6863]

My. Ones different 🤣🤣🤣

[@tedcarter8839]

My wife comes from Chiang Mai and was working in a private school, she is a fantastic Thai.❤

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Brilliant mate nice one

[@dmitriikurilov3662]

Absolutely reasonable choice man, my congratulations!

[@rickgalla3377]

Great video Trevor, they have a million excuses for need of $$$ besides Buffalo, I've been asked to pay for braces, big breasts , new motorbike and many many more, the sick relatives are always used,

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah the list is always long lol

[@dmitriikurilov3662]

What was your response if you do not mind me asking? Straight NO or something less direct like "probably later babe"?

[@spirittravels.]

Best advice is if you want some company, try meeting other travelers. Thai girls are fine if they've got proper jobs, otherwise proceed with caution. Common sense really.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate

[@jamescasey611]

Very simple....dont do girlfriends....enjoy holiday, no need bar fine, meet girl in nightclub. Negotiate there if have to...most times no real cost involved if your a cool dude. And smart .

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you for sharing

[@dtmdave1765]

Thank you for the update, great reminder of the reality of a Thai girlfriend experience. You must hear some amazing stories from guys who meet a Thai lady on holiday and say they are "different to the rest" and you don't really understand the amazing friendship/relationship we have. Often they end up sponsoring them thinking it is the real deal. I have a family member who went through exactly that, married his sweetheart in Thailand who he had met in Pattaya (yes we heard the statement "we are in love and she isn't like the rest"), he moved her to Australia where he worked, they had two children but she missed the Thai lifestyle so much she left the kids and moved back to Pattaya. Now divorced. Again thanks for the reminders of what can come with the girlfriend experience. Cheers

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate much appreciated

[@donaldlangdon]

I have seen grown men crying on the beach after losing everything to a bar girl! never trust them and sleep with one eye open...

[@HunkyMan777]

Never buy a woman's affection. Pure and simple. That is called SIMPING

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@dmitriikurilov3662]

The majority of us come to Pattaya for 2 weeks and have little interest in spending days courting a decent Thai woman with no guaranteed result. We are buying the time of the more available women (let's call them freelancers). We pay them some money so that they can maintain their life. I see it as a little bit of sponsorship.

[@surfingonmars8979]

Wonderful old movie, THE LAST DETAIL, with Jack Nicholson. One character is talking to Nicholson’s character, about women. The other character says, “…any pussy you get, you pay for one way or the other……..”

[@DaygoKid94]

No it's not. It's called tricking. I hate that slang words have made it mainstream because it seems like most of yall have zero idea what they actually mean.

[@ralphstern2845]

Are you 16? Love is and has always been an exchange. Love is ephemeral and transient

[@toddp.226]

Her 20th grandmother just died and all her buffalo!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Ok

[@titi7776]

As a tourist I had very pleasant experiences. Nothing creepy ! I got close to 1 bar girl and 1 Freelancer. #1 Bar-girl from Isaan, she announced to leave the Bar couple of days while I left but never asked for money, like EVER ! I was waiting for Sick buffalo, never happened! #2 Freelancer, stayed with me 3 days LT, asked for money 1st date then she said she had feelings for me and SURPRISINGLY stopped asking LT payment !!! Of course I payed meals and drinks but no extras. Now both of them keep contact long-distance but never ask for money. I guess I was lucky.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@kasperle20260]

you got the lucky number

[@titi7776]

​@@kasperle20260 Most of girls I met were freelancers met on ThaiFriendly . All very nice attitude and conversation. Just treat them like a gentleman, and they return it tenfold. I basically met girls over 30s as they are more mature and less demanding.

[@bobbruce4135]

How much age difference? Looks difference? Perhaps that's the key.

[@titi7776]

@@bobbruce4135 10 to 20 years difference. I avoid girls under 30s. Best experience with 30 to 40 years old. The Bar girl was 36 old, very attractive, beautiful body and face. Still in contact and never asked money.

[@kenrehill8775]

If it flies, fucks or floats, rent it.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@mickyLat3652]

To anyone that may think Trev's rant may be a bit far fetched - You have been warned. Seriously, tread very carefully like you are walking through a landmine area. Cheers

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@simonnz7193]

I had the its my birthday and it would be nice to have a small party in the bar, but as tear start rolling down face "I have no money, sob sob" Oh well thats another $500 from me and probably birthday number 12 that year for her ha ha. If you see a nice girl in a pharmacy or other shop a few times, take a chance and start talking and casually ask if she is single, if she says no its not a big deal as plenty of other shops.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yep many times mate

[@jamisonmunn9215]

I goto Thailand a lot and none of these have ever happened to me. But I dont go into long term relationships with what should be short term fun times.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

fair one mate