The Real Life BABY REINDEER Is Absolutely Insane

[@kallmekris]

**MASSIVE SPOILER ALERT FOR ANYONE WHO HASN’T WATCHED IT!!**

[@Cahibonara]

Hii kris! Love ya

[@bluexxlakes]

love you kris

[@gwennnnnnn]

ooooooo! the show was so good

[@Eloise0207]

Hi kris the stalkers 😂

[@Galaxy_Tea-bx1wo]

Hi kris, I love your channel :D I watched oopmaville too before you guys got together and I love the vids you make together! Yall r the best

[@Mocha_teas]

Okay but the woman who played Martha in the show did such a good Job, I completely forgot she was acting half the time.

[@Isntmycatcute]

Fr. Her eyes, the way she looks, the way her lips smile creeply, the way her voice shivers It makes her look so unstable!!

[@hoathanatos6179]

Her name is Jessica Gunning, and she deserves to win awards with how well she presented Fiona Harvey without even knowing the woman.

[@dinosaysrawr]

Yes! Phenomenal performance. She nails two different accents and not only portrays a staggering array of emotions, but manages to flip between extreme emotions in a terrifying and believable manner.

[@Kahlessa]

Emmy award coming her way I predict.

[@The_rat_who_draws]

YESSS BRO WHEN I TELL YOU SHE ATE THAT ROLE UPPP LIKE SHE 4+4 SHE TOOK THE TABLE THE CHAIRS THE CHEF EVEN THE RATS IN THE KITCHEN SHE DESERVES EVERY AWARD THERE IS OMGGG

[@nehajoshy2706]

the fact that the actor is the actual guy in real life that faced all of this and had to go through all this again just for the show is crazy to me he's really brave for that

[@amanda4313]

I hope it gave him some closure and healing 💛

[@susanebel7288]

When I saw the "behind the scenes/making of the movie" I was so confused bc I'm thinking, that looks like the actor but kinda different hairstyle, is that him? Wait is that his story?? I completely 100% understand and respect his decision to do it himself. We all heal our own way. (Truthfully it is frustrating reading comments online about people shitting on him for playing himself - as a victim myself I can understand his logic.)

[@skeletonjack1969]

He wrote it. He didn't have to do anything, he chose to. This was his outlet, this was how he could cope.

[@anniesternberg2983]

No way is he really

[@salt5711]

@@anniesternberg2983 yes

[@EthanTucky16]

The end is when Donny realised that him feeling sorry for Martha and giving her a free drink wasn't the reason for Martha's actions and that any nice person would've helped her too, hence when the bar man gave Donny the free drink he looked at the bar man the way he did (not bc he was becoming like Martha 😭 I was confused by the ending too so that's why I explained for those who didn't either)

[@NoSubtext]

Thank you for this closure - I was really confused about the ending!

[@EthanTucky16]

@@NoSubtext yww

[@lapatti]

He was listening to the recording where she explained her childhood trauma and explained why she called him "baby reindeer". I think that, at that point, he also recognised that she was broken, just like he was, but she resorted to obsessing on others and stalking them

[@Alex-ym5ox]

He said he was "trying to understand Martha" when his ex visited him. At the end, when he was offered that drink, he finally understood her. He was offered a kind gesture while at the lowest point of his life. Just like she was. I think that's why he smirked, he could finally give up his obsession trying to figure her out and take his life back.

[@Letmein111]

@@Alex-ym5oxoooh damn thanks now that made me understand the ending

[@sunny9439]

I haven’t watched it, but I saw someone say that the scene where he can’t pay his drink so the bar tender gives it to him for free symbolizes how even when put in her position, he would never do what was done to him, showing how just because he did a kind thing doesn’t mean he deserved to be stocked and that lowkey healed something in me

[@Okay_____]

Someone said it on tumblr I think

[@rubycounihan1785]

as a teen who struggles with PTSD from being sa'd as a young child in an environment that was meant to be safe , this show really connected with me. Through out the show a lot of the feelings Richard described and portrayed made me feel incredibly seen and heard , and less disgusted with myself. The amount of times I silently broke into tears is unnerving but it did me good, I finally allowed myself to mourn and cry for the little girl who was violated and convinced into silence for nearly a decade. It allowed me to feel confident in my body , for that I'll forever be grateful.

[@Daughter_of_apollo_2]

I'm so sorry girl you shouldn't have gone through that. You should of been safe. I hope that bastard is rotting in hell and I hope your doing well, remember you are loved and remember to eat :)

[@CWazBroadwayBandGeek]

When the cop said: “Well, why didn’t you report it?” I literally shouted at my screen. Cops like that are EXACTLY when male victims don’t come forward.

[@PorcupineTheOneandOnly]

Yes, I was yelling at my screen too!

[@lasharael]

My keys were stolen a few years back. I did know who stole them, so I reported it to the police, who told me that unless I had photographic or video evidence of the theft taking place, they weren't interested in investigating. Three weeks later, my building was robbed. ...like all the storage lockers were cleared out of anything valuable. But I watched this same police department swarm a guy who accidentally forgot to pay for a bag of gummy bears (he paid for everything else in his cart). The police confiscated the gummy bears as "evidence," then ate the "evidence" while they were loading the guy into one of the many police cruisers that had showed up for this, and discussed among themselves which gummy bear flavor is the best. Police serve an important function in our community. I mean, who else is going to keep us safe from all those illicit gummy bears hitting the streets? Robbery at your home, violence, stalking, call somebody else, but if you've got a gummy-bear-based crime on your hands, call those boys in blue.

[@infamouswickedjokestar]

It's like its caused on purpose. That brings our anxiety levels really high

[@infamouswickedjokestar]

@@Amélie20159 un peu plus tard que d'habitude, je me tenais au courant sur d'autres chaînes. Mais à part ça, je t'aime ma fille 🤗

[@bkucenski]

They say that to women as well. They're just dumb.

[@jeremyud]

There was this quote from Heather Burns (one of Fiona's victims) that stuck with me: "Why is everyone tiptoeing around her and her needs, rather than asking who else has she hurt? Who else has she done this to? What about them?"

[@badfairy9554]

Sir Keir Starmer for one. 276 nasty emails. Calling him and his wife.

[@PoppyMom1]

And a comedian called Janey (also a Scottish woman, but I can’t remember her surname but I think it begins with a G?) who very sadly has stage 4 CA, and I hope that her coming forward with her own story doesn’t get any more harassment.

[@freyallarganswald4746]

@@PoppyMom1it’s janey Godley, a Glaswegian comedienne. Aye Fiona was obsessed with her for a while too. Some of the messages were nasty. More people have spoke up saying fiona harassed them too, she is a nut job who lives in a fantasy world. Scary thing is, she believes her reality is real. Eeek.

[@cecynay7369]

Because everyone deserves as much kindness as we can muster without getting in the way of consequences. She never pressed charges. She should have. We treat people fairly, regardless of what they've done.

[@Chuck_EL]

Can you imagine if Piers Morgan interviewed a man stalking a woman and giving him cover? This isn't the first time he's done this with a woman abuser

[@iammyself7885]

The stalker is so odd, why go on tv like that just to make yourself more visible? I really respect the victim's choice to keep his boundaries with her steadfast

[@smussum98406]

It’s all about attention. They thrive on it.

[@OyasumiRay]

It’s cause she’s apparently the victim of being stalked herself by people who believe his “lies”. She just wants the attention and validation because she’s a narc.

[@juliyar1670]

Definitely all for attention. She's not stable and he was kind enough not to reveal her identity to prevent any stress toward her but I guess she came forward

[@hoathanatos6179]

She's a textbook narcissist. She did it for the attention and hopes that she could win over enough flying monkeys to feed her ego.

[@GusBried]

​@@juliyar1670he didn't reveal it, but ironically, watchers of the show sleuthed her out. And then she reacted in the worst way possible.

[@bluumondayy]

I think the ending scene was meant to show just how simple the act was - all he did was give her a cup of tea. We often think these stories are too crazy and would never happen to us. But after everything that happened in the show, it ends with the same act happening to someone else now, demonstrating how vulnerable we all truly are to these experiences.

[@AxelMacopelli]

Literally all Fiona going on Piers Morgan did, was reinforce how accurate Jessica Gunning's portrayal was 🤣

[@dr.wolfstar1765]

Except for the fact that it does appear fiona never pleaded guilty to being a stocker and never been to jail. She's definitely creepy but it does appear netflix lied

[@kurieita7607]

⁠@@dr.wolfstar1765 no offense dude but are you dumb? Netflix didn’t “lie” about shit, it’s a show BASED off true events, not a true telling of a story, like dude do you even know how the acting industry evens works; this was that man’s outlet, re-enacting his past in which it seemed he got to choose the happy ending he probably wished he could have gotten, this was probably quite literally his therapy and way to heal

[@camilacarnevale2152]

​@@dr.wolfstar1765 it's not a lie if the show is BASED on a true story. They never say it's 100% true, as with any other series of this genre

[@dragames]

@@dr.wolfstar1765 incorrrect; records have her going to jail but not being sent to PRISON. big difference. She plead out to a lesser sentence to AVOID prison.

[@theadventuresofzoomandbettie]

@@dragames differentiating prison and jail is a very american thing. We use those terms interchangably.

[@MikkiLGalloway]

I don't understand how people can go so far to stalk someone. I feel awkward enough if I accidentally follow the same car for more than one turn.

[@rddands]

omg YES! Same 😅

[@itzmaddie5751]

dang 54 likes in 1 frickin min

[@valeforedark]

Didn't she sexually assault him ?

[@UrbanKiwiana]

+😂😂 me to,. Even worse if it's going past my rural camp and I've followed them for 25km😂.

[@Giannatbh]

Or when u daydream and UR STARING AT SOMEONE😭😭😭🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@TheThird1977]

That she is suing Netflix when Netflix made no inference to who the real "Martha" is means she is basically admitting she did it.

[@lordnoma]

Not to mention if she does sue Gadd or Netflix for defamation part of their defense would be to prove the accusations to be true. Gadd would be forced to release all of the emails, texts, etc to the court. All of this will be publicly available information. So it wouldn't really be a good idea for her to do that imo

[@kennaelpis]

actually they did use real things in the show that tied her to the show. people found her and were harassing her and threatening her.

[@daniellerose7579]

@@kennaelpisThere wouldn’t have been a way to find her if she hadn’t done it in the first place. She drew that map and signed it herself.

[@jellyisjam]

​@@daniellerose7579 That's just not true. Tiktok detectives found her before she came out publicly

[@HereDiianas]

​@daniellerose7579 Really? So if someone you've met make a show with Netflix then use an actress that will play you, with your accent and your look and the character has your origin plus they use a few exact same tweets you had written ( that does show you are a stalker) which are easy to find online, easy to think that the character is you... does that make you the actual stalker. Really? Thankfully justice is not that simple minded. People are weird. Not too long ago the world was making and believing lies all over social media on Princess Kate and here we go again. Netflix says "it's a true story" at the start of the show but they're still yet to release her criminal record although it would be easy and legal. The journalists who are now investigating this story have yet to find a criminal record on her. "Martha" is claiming that she has none. That's a very important part of "this is a true story" show. The show is about harassment and people online keep harassing this woman without knowing if it's true or not. The actor/producer has not talked since. Netflix speaker has very recently given a new version... true story WITH fictional elements which would make it to me ...a story BASED on true events... not the same thing at all with the first version. And now that they're being sued by her they play the silence game. At some point in the show his trans girlfriend who is a psychologist or something like that tell him... I know you like to entertain drama... He certainly does.

[@Itspulchra]

I have so much respect for Richard Gadd. This series had a big impact on me, as a person who’s been stalked and survived multiple cases of s/a. His bravery to talk about what happened to him as well as relive it through his character is astounding.

[@Shidonmytid]

Same, It was really triggering to watch but it made me feel less alone, I'm really proud of him for being able to put himself into a show like that.

[@Shimmer5Oart]

I hope only good things come your way from now on

[@ravenswrath89]

The scene where Donny comes out to his parents & how beautifully gut wrenching his parents responses were, had me in tears. Thanks for covering the show Chris, it touches on some really important/powerful themes.

[@DistantlyCold]

Yeah I cried during that scene. Especially with the fact that his father could relate.

[@tcf_iceland]

I bawled, especially his father's response 😭❤️

[@daMEGatron]

Such a beautiful part of the show, truly touching.

[@mamabearmckenzie5241]

This was so sad yet so informative. Also he didn't say it was all her, he did own his shit. you gotta respect the courage and honesty. I believe him.

[@Treviso100]

Except we now know that she was never convicted of a crime, never pled guilty to a crime and has never done time in jail. So I’m guessing a lot of it is fiction.

[@gwennnnnnn]

this case has got to be, and still is, one of the most confusing yet intriguing case of stalking. the Netflix show was so good and i’m so happy your covering it!

[@ThatBetchEllie]

Netflix is being sued by her for false info on the show

[@eurie]

I did see people kinda missing the point as of why he made this series. Some saying he tried to play the victim but he is as much to blame. He clearly stated he was partially to blame in all of this. He was very open to that and I appreciated that very much because we all have good and bad inside us. It was indeed a different kind of way to tell a story that has much pain in it. It's sad that some missed that part of it. Also it must have worked very cathartic for him to replay these events. Kudos to him because I am not sure I would wanna relive certain parts of my past. Hope it healed him a bit to the point he can finally move on from it.

[@maddybarnham]

Yess so well said🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@levinia333]

yes like how can people say he was playing victim when he admitted and put out the weird/bad stuff he did himself!

[@briannewman5614]

On the topic of reliving the past. I don't dream much. But when I do they are doosies ( marijuana smoker). I have dreams like I'm still in high-school, other dreams about my teeth crumbling out of my mouth( which HAS basically happened) Then dreams about smoking other illicit substances, it ryhms with smack. Now it's been al.ost two decades since I smoked it. I had a relapse about three years ago for almost a year. So about three years sober from the relapse.

[@McKenze-jg2nc]

I totally agree. I was actually talking about this with some of my friends. I truly think that Richard is a victim even though people think he’s just chasing clout. People would be a lot more upset if the gender roles were reversed. I’m really glad you brought up this point. ❤

[@justine8387]

There are no perfect victims, that's what predators bank on.

[@raelynnoconnor700]

This show had me messed up. And the interview with the real Martha was insane. So happy you’re covering this

[@VAGleaso]

I feel like her going on the show was her way of telling him it’s not over till she says it is. He tried to protect her identity and she brought herself out. The way she acts though definitely shows everything he said was true. She acts just like the show.

[@Treviso100]

Internet sleuths figured out who she was in about 10 minutes because Netflix did a very poor job of hiding her identity. They hired an actress that looked exactly like her, they had her speak exactly like her, and they used exact quotes from her social media, which were very easy to find. She only came forward because she was getting harassed so much. And she wanted to make people aware that most of it isn’t true. And we’re slowly learning that much of it is actually fiction. She’s going to get millions. No doubt.

[@ThePierogiQueen]

Biggest biggest props to Richard gadd for recreating that entire situation because as someone who has gone through stuff I could never.

[@Kallmekris112]

😅😅😂🎉

[@elsamartin353]

Not the hand binoculars 💀💀

[@叵]

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[@Kameko_49]

@@叵did it

[@叵]

​@@Kameko_49done ❤

[@I.am.Piggy.]

​@@叵did it

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​@@Kameko_49me too?

[@Gummyz25]

Something I noticed was that in all Fiona’s interviews saying she hasn’t watched the show, she references it and she constantly backs down when asked if she wants Richard to show anything

[@tiffanymichaels2429]

Exactly. I watch a KZbin channel called Behavioral Arts. He breaks down the interview. It is so fascinating.

[@susanebel7288]

​@@tiffanymichaels2429 I just watched that video from him and came to this video bc it was the next recommended 😂

[@tiffanymichaels2429]

@@susanebel7288 lol. Well he just released another video today cause she is now suing Netflix and the guy. She might just have a case. I never even watched the show. But I sure am watching the drama around it 😅

[@Xspecky]

On her Facebook she posted a pic of her watching it saying “f**k you Richard Gadd” and she talks about this so much everyday

[@MillaEspnes]

Kris should have her own crime channel 😂

[@sadiporter2966]

what crimes should she commit?

[@susiesawyer6216]

Lmao, the abuse of Pete lmao😅❤

[@padraigmiller7582]

Absolutely yes!

[@Lazy_lizard.]

Frr

[@j68715]

She does! It's this channel.

[@QueenAusetHeru]

I love how supportive Donny's parents are! That was so heartwarming ❤ more parents need to support their kids in this way. That's real unconditional love ❤

[@JMarieW79]

When I saw the tweet about the curtains I was FLOORED. She cant even deny it.

[@ashtrik3798]

SAME

[@jocelynbrown5903]

what’s “hang her curtains” mean i’m slow 😭

[@PhuongTran-yj7wz]

​@@jocelynbrown5903just check the google, it means having " aldult time"

[@leen1705]

@@jocelynbrown5903 same T-T

[@littlemonster2483]

​@@jocelynbrown5903 Another way of saying he'd "sleep" with her.

[@imfoxhunt]

The show is refreshing in that it illustrates that real life is very rarely a straight line. It's nuanced, messy, twisty, and complicated. That's life. It's validating to see it played out on a show.

[@TheOnlyRick3]

When I saw the poster for this I thought it would be about a lady that accidentally shrinks someone like honey I shrunk the kids, WELL I WAS WRONG!!😭

[@adamburdt8794]

Judging by just the poster I just assumed it was about a stalker lady who breaks a person down so much they end up keeping them like a treasure. Like a baby reindeer eating from her palm

[@heyheyitrachelgray]

I am laughing so hard at this!!!!!

[@hoathanatos6179]

She calls him baby reindeer because he resembles the stuffed toy reindeer she had as a child that made her feel safe while growing up in an abusive home.

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

I misread "Reindeer Baby" as "Render Baby", so I thought it was about using computer technology to make a combination of Kris and Kaleb to see what their child would look like.

[@slothmonster7165]

Me too! 😭 That is the same as that 'indian in the cupboard' movie and i thought from the sinister angle it would be like a horror version of honey i shrunk the kids or something 😓

[@caitlinholloway2627]

I'm not mentally in a place where i can handle watching the show at the moment, but when i am i will absolutely watch. Very much appreciate the intent behind its creation, and i sincerely hope he continues to heal and do amazing things.

[@brettjones4733]

Just a heads up Episode 4 is the most traumatic I found

[@ElpSmith]

Trigger warning for EVERYTHING

[@ashtrik3798]

I had to fast forward through most of episode 4 cus I couldn’t handle it and it kinda messed me up for a few days but it’s an important show.

[@caitlinholloway2627]

Thank you for the heads up yall 💜 will make sure I've made a lot more progress and I'm in a good sturdy place before I watch. And will be prepared to schedule extra therapy if possible.

[@2mikay2]

I love how Kris talks not only about the show, but the real characters' lives and shared what the creator intended on doing by creating this series; letting people know that they are not alone in their situation, which I feel is AMAZING. I really sympathize for victims in these stalking situations and love that people want to create "safe spaces" for others in similar situations💖💖

[@4RILDIGITAL]

The depth and complexity of the characters, especially its real-life basis, makes the series even more intriguing. Can really resonate with the vulnerability portrayed.

[@biancajohansson321]

I love that she has different creative intos in every video 😂❤

[@leahtaufer4294]

me too! its so fun to see how many different intros she creates

[@GalacticEmpire-sl2ij]

I could listen to kris talk for hours ❤

[@Thegooberygoober]

I would order a yapachino if I have to

[@xanderwusky3001]

Agree for sure; nice voice, clear words, interesting takes and usually very reasonable opinions. Hard to tell for sure ofc without actually knowing her, but she just seems like a genuinely nice person (not just acting like it for the video or something)

[@chadwallace777]

U ain't lying.

[@infamouswickedjokestar]

She's clearly got an enthusiastic tone of voice which makes it fun & exciting

[@stacyrect143]

She got exactly what she wanted. Again. All the attention and the ability to get back into his life and upend it.

[@angelofdusk13]

I know it's a small part of the show, but him being afraid to tell his parents about being raped, and his father confiding in him that he'd been raped in his past (I'm assuming as a child bc Catholic Church), both being afraid to talk about this traumatic thing that someone did to them, and afraid the other person would judge them, that breaks my heart. I'm glad his parents supported him. I'm glad he and his father don't have to live with that secrete anymore.

[@Skziannai]

1:18 OMG SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS , CONGRATULATIONS 🎉❤

[@ChicagoFaucet.etc.]

OMG THEYRE ENGAGED!

[@Hiyeaionlycomment]

YAY!!!

[@SBreezee]

Is she just wearing a ring or does she actually say that she is somewhere? Bc I wear a ring on my ring finger even though I'm not engaged

[@magsmakes_stays]

It's on her middle finger

[@StarkJerk]

Guys, don’t do this… on a stalker video of all things. 🫣😂

[@judithgraal310]

i watched the morgan interview right after i finished the series and started laughing right away about how accurate her portrayal and accent was. give that actress her oscar right now!

[@emmadaugherty8841]

Did the math, she would have to be posting 6 tweets an hour for a year to achieve 54,000 tweets.

[@ChelleKT1]

Totally doable.

[@opalescentanklebiter]

i also did some math and based on the 1.5 years and 54,000 tweets she was doing ~100 tweets/day which is actually insane what the hell

[@OtterGirl84]

I know people who post 6 tweets in 10 minutes, so it's entirely possible

[@infamouswickedjokestar]

If that's the case then it would of turned to be exactly as it is

[@sherroncapitano]

Her facebook posts proves it is sooo possible 🤣

[@singingofsilver]

What's really interesting is how different the two people who hurt him were. One was a man he knew fairly well, who he trusted prior to the incidents, and who physically violated him. The other was a woman, a total stranger who he'd had some civil conversations with, whose harm and impact was vastly different to his first abuser. It really shows that this shit can happen to anyone, from anyone, at any time. It pushes against the notion that assault happens from strangers in alleyways, not people you know and trust. It shows men _do_ get assaulted, and stalked, and harassed, and that they can and should come forward about it without experiencing shame or mocking. The fact that it's based heavily on a true story only cements that. It's good that people are learning.

[@michaelsnow3536]

True story, there's a woman who comes into my work quite often. She's also of Martha's body type, was down on her luck and I also did her a kindness. I didn't think there was much to it but she kept showing up every Thursday after that and seeking me out for another chat, eventually getting my full name and adding me on Facebook. I didn't think much of it so I accepted the request. She went through my Facebook history and started liking or 'hearting' post after post, going back YEARS. My messenger immediately blew up with her messages as well and I realized I'd made a mistake. My sister convinced me to block her and I switched my Thursday shift. She still comes to my work frequently but I manage to avoid her most of the time. Twice during this saga I was told it was a 'Baby Reindeer' situation and I had no idea what that meant, hence why I'm watching this video.

[@xqelz]

baby reindeer is such a good show im glad youre talking about his story to bring more attention to it💗

[@stankehfish]

I was SO proud to be watching this show in my lifetime. I feel like this show finally brought the truth behind the potential psychological process of being an SA victim to people who would've never had to consider it. I thought this was such an important piece of work ❤

[@soupahbunnybusiness]

Same, I really think it helps portray what can happen to an individual trying to cope after being horribly violated and it kinda brought me some peace on a personal level. Like the kind of feeling like I’m not alone and it really can take a toll mentally and work itself into your everyday life

[@kelseydeboer1136]

Lil correction. Darien in the show labeled himself a "polyamorous pansexual" not gay. I only caught that on the second watch thru though with my friend.

[@reyray7184]

How is that any different?

[@kelseydeboer1136]

@@reyray7184 Well, if you are asking the difference between being pansexual and gay (although I doubt the sincerity of your questions)Being gay means a man who is attracted to and wants to have sex with other men being pansexual means a person who is attracted and wants to have sex with people of all genders. Pretty easy.

[@carellrcm298]

@@kelseydeboer1136 what you say here we just callled bi a few years ago....

[@beefbossonthewiiu]

@@carellrcm298 Pansexual=wanting to bang all genders (including non-binary and whatever else) Bisexual=wanting to bang men and women. Just two, as that is what BI means. Seems you skipped out on what suffixes mean what in grade school.

[@reyray7184]

@@kelseydeboer1136 I didn't really know and didn't care enough to look it up so your assumption is fair. However there's truly only four sexual preferences: straight, gay, bi, and tri-sexual. Tri-sexual means you'll try anything eg sheep, trans, furries, etc. All this other preferential nonsense is just splitting hairs.

[@livvy7666]

the way the show described hypersexuality as a response to trauma was so important. hypersexuality is something that is so stigmatized and genuinely not discussed enough. purposefully putting yourself in dangerous situations in an effort to understand it. this needs to be discussed more!

[@LeeLee2D]

I literally watched it today and I cried…and cried, traumatizing is an understatement for what that series is

[@stormthelost]

Stalkers can be so scary. I had one for 5 years. He started stalking me cause I was nice to him when no one else would be.

[@qxllioo]

I have a compliment for Kris. You make people's day and your videos brighten up people's lifes. Your jokes make people smile and your smile is what makes the dark world bright❤️

[@savanbanan51]

Kris saying "our company" and taking such pride in sourboys and all the hard work that goes in make my heart smile

[@aussiedragonz]

the fact that this show went over peoples heads and they down play his experience and say he deserved it, is heartbreaking. they've obviously never gone through what people like him have and imo, they do not have the right to give their "opinion". those people are why men don't step forward. because people take it as a joke.

[@Cove_Blue]

I went into it blind and I'm sure like anyone who has lived through any kind of relatable trauma, it was a hard watch but therapeutic in a way. I appreciate and applaud him for baring his soul for his healing and for ours as well.

[@X3r0.]

You're amazing at affirming others 🖤 thanks for speaking about male victims of SA with compassion and note its importance

[@blckmtbd]

Man, its crazy that people chose and go on to harrass that lady despite the creator of the show saying he didn't want them to.

[@lazuplayz7837]

She's actively wanting attention herself too by going on the internet talking about this. If she didnt say crap, no one would've been on her ass about this..

[@annjepsen1621]

I watched Fiona's interview with Piers before I watched the show and her inability to keep her story straight made me want to watch it. The show was a difficult watch for me (I've been stalked and SA'd), but I'm glad I watched it. Richard Gadd's bravery is admirable, it's difficult enough to tell your story let alone reinacting your assualts on film.

[@ElpSmith]

I hope it brought you some kind of peace ❤

[@kaitlanparks8061]

They torture me enough. The world doesn’t deserve that. But I’m glad others don’t feel that way and can find more adequate means of coping.

[@antoniatomaselli5338]

I honestly would be very flattered if Kris suddenly appeared in my home and did my dishes, etc. 🥰 In all seriousness tho, stalking is very terrifying and I'm glad that Richard Gadd was comfortable enough to come forward and tell his story. I'm sure he's helped a lot of people ❤️

[@sophiemoore9508]

Don't F**k With Cats: Hunting an Internet Killer this is a show on Netflix that is really good

[@InnerLuminosity]

So good!

[@emiliawind1071]

I just LOVE Kris she feels like a best freind even though I've never talked to her!

[@Mon67ica]

Kris and @BaileySarian are my favorites because you feel like you are sitting at the kitchen table with a cup of coffee with them and just having a friendly conversation. They truly make you feel like you are friends.

[@Lost_Emopo]

Who else has been waiting for the new KMK video all day? 😁

[@叵]

Don't Translate... 😮 ฉันจะสมัครรับข้อมูลใครก็ตามที่สมัครรับข้อมูลฉันและชอบความคิดเห็นนี้......

[@Ann-op5kj]

I always wonder the age demographic of her channel.

[@savvyanderson2586]

I never know when she posts idk if there’s a schedule I kinda like not knowing tho it’s like a fun little surprise😭

[@savvyanderson2586]

I’m normally asleeep to when She posts

[@Lost_Emopo]

​@@savvyanderson2586I can tell you the schedule if you want or do you want it to stay a surprise?

[@butterraccoon8296]

This makes me think about the stuff I went through and how I ended up self-harming myself, and staying around bad people, even if I wasn't happy Just afraid to be alone and rejected, and also wanting attention even if it was from an abusive way

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

Why? Why was it so important that you would put yourself into physical abuse and danger?

[@butterraccoon8296]

@TheNoiseySpectator because it meant I didn't have to be rejected it alone It meant I mattered somewhere

[@ElpSmith]

I hope you get to heal ❤

[@ashtrik3798]

That’s really how I viewed Donny’s character. I don’t understand that kind of low self esteem myself but my own low self esteem leads me to live a hermit life to keep safe. So totally opposite. Very interesting.

[@butterraccoon8296]

@ashb3789 now a days I live a low lifestyle Staying away from people and enjoying time by myself I know I have to get myself back into society, but in a healthy way this time

[@patiencesinclair4287]

after watching caleb they act and talk so similar 😂 fav couple 💕

[@mattuwu9978]

9:00 As a trans guy, I feel like I have to clarify that you can date a trans person and still be “monosexual” (straight/gay). If a straight man dates a trans woman, he is still straight; if a straight girl dates a trans man, she is still straight. In my case, I’m only attracted to guys - while my dating pool is mostly bi men, I have been with gay men before as well. Since I look, sound, and am socially recognized as a man, it would be _very_ strange for a gay woman or a straight man to be attracted to me. If you’re straight/gay and aren’t into trans people, that’s perfectly fine. It would be hypocritical of me to say otherwise, as I’m preferential to cisgender men myself. But don’t judge or label others who are okay with dating trans people.

[@katc2040]

Thats just... not how sexuality works. Its based on genitals. Yall will be like gender doesnt exist and then act like sexuality is based on gender attraction

[@_Iemonboy.]

This! I'm also transmasc and if a gay man was attracted to me, that's factually gay. A gay woman being attracted to me would make her bi. Doesn't matter the body, but the brain :]

[@mattuwu9978]

@@_Iemonboy. you don’t have to tell me you’re transmasc with that profile pic (tsukasa enjoyer spotted 🫵)

[@Bug_in_a_log]

yes thankyou for saying this!!

[@NoudlePipW]

"I have a photographic memory." "What were your grades?" "I don't remember"

[@sevenmadmonkey]

54k posts in 1.5 year? I needed a minute to digest this. That's more than 100 Twitter posts a day!

[@deffnotbix]

I found you , you just recently typed this 😂

[@SauerPatchGardening]

I think there are alot more people that have gone thru something like this that never tell anyone or report it. And that is so sad and scary. I'm so glad you covered this story

[@PoppyMom1]

I agree with you, sadly. What I have found is that in some Police forces in the UK, they either don’t want to know and/or they don’t have the resources to investigate properly and they then want the victim to gather all the evidence and only then will they even look semi-interested. My child is still being harassed by an ex to this day because our local police was more interested in the ex’s MH, than the damage they were wreaking onto my child and the ripple effect that it’s still having on the family. I feel truly ashamed and I completely HATE that I can’t get any of this sorted for them…so the “Parent of the Year Award” doesn’t go to me. It’s not a pity party type of thing, it’s just something that I honestly feel and think. It’s so brave of Mr Gadd to have brought his own experiences to the forefront of what should have been a far more important conversation than it was previously.

[@dirtdotdotdot3726]

I love how he portrayed Martha. He didn’t make her the villain but just made us understand what she was coming from. I think a lot of shows and movies tend to pick a character to be a villain and just shove it in your face while you can still tell that they aren’t the villain but the films refuse to justify that. There was this one movie clip my class watched and this guy was mad at his father because his father was famous and it was ruining his sons life because the father was a bit controversial (I think) so it was ruining the sons life and the son expressed that but then the movie flipped him to be the bad guy for not appreciating his father even though you can see how it can damage the sons development in a society the film refused to show the sons side of the case painting him the villain of the story.

[@AChickandaDuck]

The funniest similarity between the show and the real Martha is the way she spells difficult words correctly and easy ones wrong. It’s pointed out by Richard/Donny in the script and it’s so odd and so specific. 😂

[@Livi-yk9jv]

MOTHER HAS POSTEDD❤😭

[@catsarecute2436]

I just realized Kris films like oompa now, with the multiple camera views and silly immature jokes, so adorable I love them 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@ElpSmith]

Make sense that they own a company together I guess haha

[@squintsbearchild]

U take on traits of people ur around and love. I feel like this is a perfect and healthy example of that. And I think they would both be sooo fun to hang out with.

[@catsarecute2436]

@@squintsbearchild I totally agree all the way, ik nothing in the world is perfect but they are DEFINITELY perfect together

[@scarletusagi]

Her behavior reminds me of my sister and the way she treats her "boyfriend". It's scary, recognizing pretty much every angle of these behaviors.

[@1KENDAL._.]

Just letting you know know that exactly 7:18 seconds into this video I paused it watched the whole show in a came back and continued your video

[@every1lov3s_ava]

i love the fact that she switches the camera angles like oompaville 😂

[@InnerLuminosity]

Exactly the same

[@racheljane_]

It was wild to watch the interview and see just how delusional she actually is. None of her behaviour is congruent with someone just chillin and living their life without being a stalker and/or deeply mentally unwell.

[@Wild-Wild-West]

I love how kris makes up the intro as it goes. It makes it so much more real and funnier 😂

[@theCemeteryplant]

Baby Reindeer is such an interesting but yet traumatizing show

[@uikmnhj4me]

Thank you for covering this! I couldn’t stomach the actual show, so I really appreciate the spark notes version bc this is a really important story.

[@benadams3569]

In interviews, I've heard Richard talking about how the actress' portrayal of Martha was so real and true at times that he'd forget to respond with the next line of the script due to his being stunned by it.

[@xenisthename]

Not me getting paranoid because I'm watching this at work rn, work, at a bar, at night.... Why do i do this to myself🤣

[@_Iemonboy.]

Hey, as long as you don't serve any tea you should be okay!

[@iron_beauty2024]

It's so funny to watch her deny everything in the interview with Piers Morgan. He puts her on blast & asks her if there is any truth to the netflix movie & she denies that any of it is true. But you can read it on her face what the truth is. 😏😏😏

[@TheNoiseySpectator]

I want to know more about all this from her pov. Why do people like that not understand what they are doing?

[@iron_beauty2024]

@@TheNoiseySpectator ikr, & just don't care when everybody knows they're lying.

[@smashalina1]

Not me waiting for the real Martha to start commenting on this video. Excessively. Obsessively. 👀. Kris be so brave.

[@luckydr2623]

It's also a show that shows that men are also not immune to being stalked, manipulated and sexually abused.

[@Wolcik3000]

the final scene in the TV series where he makes a TV series about this and gets actually big unlike the leaked video which only lead to the act that gave him netflix show

[@cherwilkes4564]

My heart hurts for anyone who is taken advantage of. I can image how scary it is to be stalked by someone! Richards actions played a big role in the crazy disfuntional things that happen to him, but he owns his mistakes along the way.

[@shandicharee2280]

I loved this show. It was dark, but had humor and it showed how we are all just human and have our faults. Some just have more demons than others, but we all have our demons. It wasn't black and white, it showed the grey area. I truly felt sympathy for all of the main characters involved on multiple occasions. The whole situation was sad. It made me think of that phrase " hurt people hurt people". Shows how someone can be traumatized then take it out on someone else, keeping an unhealthy cycle going.

[@kristinahernandez564]

👏🏼Bravo👏🏼 This is by far the most accurate description of the series I have seen so far, and I’ve watched a lot! You nailed the important details that many missed. The next time someone asks for a run down, I’ll be sending them this video! Thank you for also highlighting the fact that it’s NOT a documentary, it’s a made for TV series! 🙌🏼

[@kateroberts4795]

I still think of this series. So many layers. Amazingly well written and produced.

[@GhibliMovies753]

Yay! She posted no more boredom

[@Frey-09xoxo]

Kris turning around on the chair with pretend binoculars had me laughing so much 😭

[@violets_cutie]

I love these kind of videos,I still haven’t watched baby reindeer but from what I saw on TikTok it was very disturbing anyways I love her so much and she’s so beautiful 😭😭💗💗💗

[@Shimmer5Oart]

Would love to hear you talk about the netflix show Dahmer. It shook me to my core. The way you talk and explain everything is so clear and respectful, I love it. Thank you for shedding some light on Baby Reindeer. It was incredibly sad to see someone going trough all this. I don't understand how humans are capable of doing so many horrible things to others. Great job Kris

[@nikkipfaff]

i remember finding her facebook right after the show got released, and she was updating 24/7. she actually was chronically online. she would also twist her story the entire time. it went from "i dont know gadd" to "gadd worked at a pub" to "gadd was harassing me not the other way around" etc etc etc. all her posts were based around gadd

[@Maadddi.x]

when kris said “I switched urLaundry “I said “aweeeeee thank uuu “. I love her

[@ShaunLovesMaths]

You've got to love Kris' variety. It's such high quality!

[@estrellam1440]

Can we appreciate how she compliments us somehow in every video✌️👑

[@ULTRA_X_DEV]

I was ready with popcorn ,connected to TV, snacks and watched kris talk like a whole movie ❤ I could sit there for days watching kris talk

[@callummclaughlin5532]

This was an incredibly difficult yet, eye opening watch for me. As a 25 year old man who was “assaulted” in my younger years, the way Donny was, it was incredibly hard to watch and yet cathartic in knowing I’m not alone in the heartache and issues it can cause within relationships and everyday life

[@ElpSmith]

I hope you’re okay and hoping that person gets their karma ❤

[@madison_rt]

Her creative intros get me smilin every time :)

[@CrewAnne87]

0:05 Omg is Kris copying Debra, her (totally not a stalker) neighbour ??? 🤔

[@Gelca510]

This show was absolutely insane! I really liked it because it really shows about how trauma affects people and their choices

[@itsmid3974]

He made his mistakes in that situation but dude is awesome. I'm glad he survived. It takes courage to be vulnerable; and as someone who is finding their own voice, i really appreciate it. There's a ton of crappy 🍑 demons one has to battle to be able to finally open up. "The truth shall make you free"

[@Rainy-rl5cd]

There's a lot of lines that people who are mentally unwell can and do blur. It feels like that some people are very insecure and when they find someone that seems to care about them, that's when lines start to blur. When you were put through so much trauma that you don't know good from bad or, right from wrong.

[@Kameko_49]

I got to watch this later auntie Kris I’m not allowed on KZbin on the week but love you hope your doing good and hope everyone has a great day and if not your doing good and proud of you