The Real Reason Growing Paynes Ended.

[@xSwitchBlade56]

Great to see bro and sis talking to each other

[@Astro_Wyvern]

Love faith, really enjoyed growing paynes used to watch every week.

[@TalkingDonkeyz]

good one 🤣🤣🤣

[@Dallanarx]

​@@TalkingDonkeyz calm down not that funny 🤦‍♀️

[@devanman7920]

Ewwwww

[@cephasmakuzva]

It was my favourite podcast. I watched every episode. I fucking loved it man. Learned so much and it was a great laugh and entertainment. At times growing paynes podcast was my time of peace and zoning out of the hectic journey that we go through of life. I would find solace in watching them. Helped so much in a way i cant describe. I was sad to see it go but i understand it fully and thank ethan and faith for helping me so much.

[@jimjogger306]

@@cephasmakuzva Faiths very likeable, And Ethan is very likeable, But dont let that cloud your judgement of something that was trash, It had absolutely no depth or variety, If you enjoy watching two people talking about there lives like theyre around the dinner table then that says allot about your life, For normal people, With normal lives, Who work and come home to a fammily, This was the absolute last thing you wanted to watch, No one was sitting at work thinking, Yeah i cant wait to get home and watch ethan and faith sit there and talk about what they got upto in the week, Come on, Get real, It's literally bottom of the barrel content, And they knew that, They tried, It failed, And they moved on.

[@craigsmith926]

I genuinely miss growing payne's was a great podcast

[@Trollcoyb]

Not sure what’s worse, seeing a parent shouting at their kids in public or parents who just continue their day and act normal while their kids are screaming. Both are shit options tbh 😂

[@sam-nw3zl]

Definitely the mum that ignores the kid at least the other is trying to do sonething about it

[@jordycrumpet]

I do think it depends. A reactive parent will spend more time shouting at their child because they only 'teach' in reaction to their behaviour. A proactive parent will have raised them to be less naughty through correct nurture and bonding. But kids are still kids, even the best behaved have their moments, and so do the best parents. If you can even call anyone that.

[@matthewturley352]

I know right she acts like they're the only 2 options 😂

[@nothisispatrick1753]

i’d definitely say the parent that does nothing. parents need to learn to be stern without shouting

[@rhw14]

@@sam-nw3zl the mum ignoring at least has an approach, the one lashing out has lost control

[@curlsofwisdom7617]

The comments proving everything Faith said. 😂

[@DonFWDiego]

You gotta find a middle ground, being strict but loving is important

[@DaveLad]

Loved the videos. Would always compare it to my marriage and have laughs with my wife. 😂

[@jonathanalvarado2704]

0:35 I agree just some kids aren’t built like that. I’m pretty strict but allow my son pretty decent freedom. He’s a good kid that knows consequences for misbehaving. Same way there are rewards. We are taking him on a cruise next month for a reward and family trip

[@michaelh7638]

It hit the corner 🎉

[@Grevoo]

Dont matter what she says shell get stick, shes proper grown on me

[@ashleybessant5565]

growing paynes part 2 is a must ....please

[@thetruesquad5059]

Ye thing is guess what, olive shouting in a public shop will annoy people, even if nobody says anything, she's a little kid it makes sense but it would annoy people

[@ITzzDecort]

especially on buses or trains.

[@rayanog]

irrelevant lmao🤣 her child comes first, not strangers

[@RealInfamoose]

What would you have her do? Duct tape the kids mouth? Mind control the kid to stop immediately? It's a kid... Screaming back at it isn't going to help the situation, it just makes both of you feel worse. If you don't like the sounds of other people, put your noise cancelling headphones in and keep to yourself 🤷‍♂

[@ITzzDecort]

@@RealInfamoose its not that deep lol

[@huricanethreeonesix]

​@@RealInfamoosediscipline the kid to make sure it doesn't happen. It's not that complicated

[@jmdyt3626]

I didn’t realise it ended

[@picconteg8944]

oh cuz you're rewatching old episodes?

[@jmdyt3626]

@ no I’ve never watched it but I’ve not seen new clips in awhile so I guess I should have known

[@picconteg8944]

@@jmdyt3626 i wonder if you see the irony of the comment given you posted for 7 years only to generate enough views to compare with a child constantly refreshing his own videos so at least you can sympathize with no one noticing you lol. lil bro is jealous 👍

[@JakeDL-q5y]

@@picconteg8944 I dont think its that deep yk

[@reddd76-g9f]

@@picconteg8944 This is the most parasocial response ive ever had the displeasure of witnessing. Not even Ethan or Faith would deep ops comment that much.

[@MrUmpalumpa99]

Faith seems quiet out of touch. If a mum works every day with barely any alone time and is stressing about bills etc and her baby is roaring crying in a shop, that could be enough for the mum to flip and say you’ve ruined my day. Faith doesn’t work and lives a privileged lifestyle because of Ethan. She sits at home feeding horses and chickens all day. Of course having her child scream the odd time won’t upset her

[@abbiewhite9273]

spot on.

[@jerms99]

To be fair. She literally said she rather live in a place more affordable. Ethan doesn’t. And she makes money, she has her own channel with 100,000+ views. She has money. (As well as Instagram brand deal).

[@Trollcoyb]

@@jerms99yeah mate but personally I wouldn’t call posting an instagram post with links to a product for 20 grand really considered “working” 😂 But yes, she could def be financially independent and doesn’t need Ethan for that.

[@MrUmpalumpa99]

@@jerms99 that’s just not true though is it. There is no way Ethan, from a council estate in london, dreamt about a move to the countryside and build stables for horses to live. I’m nearly sure Ethan has hayfever 😂 That is faiths dream. Ethan obviously bought into the idea and is probably delighted the way it turned out but faith grew up riding horses. She clearly pushed the idea on Ethan to live on a house with land and have horses and other animals living on the land. And regarding her having money. Of course she does I never say she didn’t. But she has all those followers on KZbin because her partner is one of the biggest KZbinrs in the UK and she doesn’t work because Ethan earns what he does. She may earn abit of money from brand deals as you say but nothing to sustain the lifestyle she lives now.

[@jerms99]

@@MrUmpalumpa99 they literally talked about it in a podcast, and ethan agreed.

[@danshinftw]

Freezy talking to freezy

[@coach4050]

frezzy and faith look a like, now i can't unwatch it, so weird.

[@iLozaXO]

They’re cousins..

[@MrUmpalumpa99]

@@coach4050 that is possible the stupidest thing I have ever read. Just because your surnames are/don’t sound the same, doesn’t mean you can’t be related you thick😂. If my father marries, he keeps his surname. Say if his sister marries an Indian man, she will take his Indian surname and their kids will have that Indian surname. The kids of each couple are still cousins.

[@coach4050]

@@MrUmpalumpa99 i wasn't meaning it like that lol, it does sound stupid hahaha i actually check it and it seems real, i still don't believe it for some reason.

[@CruzCGK]

@@coach4050it’s not real, they trolled about it for sometime but it’s not actually real

[@fanofav123]

Fame attracts haters, the more views and subscribers you get the more hate you get

[@Furney4President24]

I really want to see this vid done again when Olive is 7 or 8 and they have had another thats 4 or 5

[@olbapoli4074]

Cant believe she has never raised her voice at her kid who is a toddler....no chance. Plus to say she lets her daughter shout in public doesnt amke sneae. Good parents would tell their child off and nit let them carry on thats how kids get spoilt

[@Jacobe23]

My daughter is 9..... never once had to raise my voice at her. Not once ever. She's zero trouble at all. Parents are the problems not the kids. Too many shit parents blaming kids for issues they gave them.

[@Cotojo]

When have you seen a screaming toddler calm down when being shouted at??? It makes the situation 100 times worse. When a child is that upset they are experiencing far too much arousal to be able to think logically and rationally. Shouting exacerbates their arousal. I pray the people in this comment section don’t have kids.

[@BamBamOwO]

my parents instead of shouting at us, would literally just stop everything, leave the trolley in the supermarket, and go back to the car and sit there for an hour, and then we'd resume shopping and that completely stopped us from ever misbehaving again. and the when we got home they'd beat our asses and lock us in our rooms for a day lol

[@olbapoli4074]

@BamBamOwO loool I knew there was a second part to this

[@matthewdworschak4417]

What is the clip referenced at 2:20?

[@benjamincounter7099]

Thogden El Clásico

[@User-yu8er]

idk if Faith will read these but I'm saying this out of genuine concern and knowing she's still learning as a mother. The ignoring method can cause attachment and trust issues long term (Piaget's Attachment Theory). Her kid's likely to develop an attachment disorder if she keeps it up and develop poor stress management. This can also result in increased aggression or anti-social behavior in the child as they grow up. Kids with this attachment style also are more likely to stay in abusive relationships when they're older due to the anxious-attachment they develop from being ignored when in distress. Even though she may be crying over nothing, it's not why she's crying that's important. It's how safe you make her feel and how you can calm her down.💛

[@TaiTiger296]

No such thing as a gentle child, a baby only knows how to react that's it, if you treat a child gentle, you talk, you react gentle, they learn that....Hatred and Negativity is learned...if your child is going to scream the house down and throw shit around, the parent has taught them that....some how, by doing something, reacting, acting, by doing something similar.....its not hard to raise a good child....the only exception is Autism & ADHD & all that spectrum related stuff....that is the only exception.

[@XandaFoolheea]

And then if it’s raised to scream and shout when they grow up they will self diagnosed with adhd and autism to justify it

[@BRKS1999]

Letting your kid scream a shop down makes you and her look like a brat. We don’t all need to hear that shit. Teach your kid maners

[@yozaaaa7402]

kids scream all the time would you rather stay in the shop for hours trying to get your child to calm down or just get the shopping over so you can go back home where you’re child will calm down 😂😂 you being mad about a baby crying is crazy teach yourself some manners

[@frankgallagher7812]

Its ok saying "we got so much hate" but notice how ethan doesnt get the same hate when doing his own bits. Or sidemen . I think its faith people hate lol

[@Jacobe23]

lol the thing is with that pod is she constantly belittled him and disrespected him (and his fan boys couldn't see it was a joke mostly) Almost every comment section was about how much of a red flag she is lol I felt bad for her.

[@glenallsopp280]

Letting your child inconvenience other people is a problem

[@theolashley4107]

Really isn’t

[@Jcku6me]

Cameraman getting sacked in the morning

[@charlieashdown6060]

tbf who was ever asking, “yo put on that new ethan’s podcast with his wife”

[@novaclan8542]

It didn’t make enough money that’s why you coudnt be arsed anymore

[@1999TrebleWasthebestTreble]

Costing them money more like having to bot the generic praise comments

[@robsouth4051]

Will she go back to OF if they split? 👀

[@ChapmanPlays]

Ended because of the way faith is

[@DETECTEAGUE]

'i LET her scream the whole way round the shop?' - Faith, kids cry because because usually they are in need of something like food, a nap or cuddle.. ignoring them till they calm themselves to listen to you is damaging to a childs mental health, although to us it isnt traumatic but in theirs minds it is an she will currently self sooth herself from her own trauma, which later leads into them learning manipulation tactics just to gain what it is they need

[@willfleming3857]

Kids mental health yuna… shut up you melt

[@delsmontgomery]

genuine question - i personally know of other mothers who ignore their kid when they cry until they stop. What if they scream when you are trying to make them nap or cuddle? what do you do then?

[@DETECTEAGUE]

@ depends on the age, but if they are restless for example and fidgeting with their legs, it could be literal ‘growing pains’ - as ironic as that sounds, but this is usually between very young ages, and one of the best methods is to let them exert their energy, so if you notice your little one ends up running round and being crazy before bed, it’s them finishing off the fuel tank of energy from the day, it is draining as a parent, but even a little walk outside, change of scenery, change of parent can be a massive help and just allow them to use that energy they have

[@Wnb-tj7fm]

Freezy talking to himself is cool

[@Scott54x]

Jesus she’s clueless

[@harrysmith8090]

About what😂

[@Dallanarx]

Like you'd know any better

[@afropunkx]

People who hate on her are honestly just showing everyone else the trash person they are 😂 it’s so misguided and weird 😂 You desperately need to go outside.

[@DFzonefd]

@@harrysmith8090 Pretty much everything

[@crmpts]

She went from olive is good as gold to; 'she screams in public for ages and I do nothing' pretty quick there

[@Cotojo]

Or she has a realistic expectation of what to expect from a toddler. Having a tantrum doesn’t mean they are bad, it means they’re overwhelmed and haven’t yet developed the maturity to manage their feelings. I think it’s great she understands that and she’ll be a much better parent because of it.

[@alexshepherd1760]

@@Cotojoalways white women having their kids scream in public being like “Well what else could I possibly do” 😂

[@crmpts]

@@alexshepherd1760 facts hahaha

[@Rodders0223]

Anybody who says they haven’t shouted at a 2 year old is a liar

[@kristyshipman6169]

Faith looks like Micheal jackson

[@4mzz_14]

Proddy c so fine now

[@todhold2673]

Kids raising kids.

[@brandoncockerill6183]

This kid is going to he an entitiled brat if it thinks it can act however it wants. They need discipline and need to know that their behaviour has consequences

[@Dan-z5r]

whats crazy if she didt have eathan she would be working a 9 to 5

[@casualadvertising]

Lol you don't know... Traditional families exist outside of the "famous" realm lol

[@Cotojo]

And if he didn’t have her his life would be a whole lot more miserable.

[@lostinthoughtscalminsilenc8167]

Bro thought she was off the internet ffs so annoying

[@DanTheMan940]

Clueless

[@karikarisworld2693]

Was it actual HATE or criticism. If it was hate then people are sad but hey ho it’s KZbin and they get more views than me

[@danmark2824]

Faith, you're alright and i think you should continue the podcast, i think you get a bit of hate because everyone just wants to defend ethan because they know him better than you

[@GavinSullivan-e1w]

Worst way to parent your kid I ever heard they’re screaming in a shop so you just let it happen and piss everybody else off. Stinks of major self entitlement if you ask me.

[@mikedench1521]

“What if she turns into a rat” That girl actually looks like one, so it probably will

[@kakarotuchiha8662]

Nah her kids gonna be a brat if she never yells at her child lol. Then parents that let their demon children loose at stores or parties and annoy other people are terrible lazy parents who cba to do anything about it

[@HugeP24]

Way too opinionated her