The REAL Reason We Left the USA

[@RaisingVoyagers]

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[@belindasmart3759]

Love your kitchen, view.0

[@disnoyranavas4799]

Hello!... I have written several times asking them to please put the subtitles in Spanish and nothing they do, it makes me very sad that they do not take their followers into account.

[@beverlypatout4326]

@@disnoyranavas4799 that may be a setting on your television to change the language. Are possibly a KZbin setting you change yourself

[@paulinehiggins8239]

I’d so love to join your Patreon but I’m on an Age Pension and I just can’t afford it.

[@Noname-cn4ly]

@@paulinehiggins8239🤔

[@jongarr6610]

As a 72YO retired nurse of 46 yrs, I can not begin to praise you enought for doing what you are doing, You are putting family first and doing what makes you happy. USA is now so stressed that we have LOST our way. Work and money - how much is enough? To have enough money to live, have family and feel happy - you are rich and will grow, even if in another country. I will be watching your progress. Sending my best.

[@pamelawing5747]

People in the US truly think they can take it with them. If I were younger and things were different for me, I would be looking for a place to live out of the US. Yes, I realize other countries also have their issues but the US now is not the US I was born into.

[@ReeceS6419]

​@@pamelawing5747 Amen to that! We are becoming a communist country and no one is stopping it. My poor grandchildren 😢

[@artureff3046]

the only issue is the need to revoke citizenship in order to avoid global taxation......

[@buckbeans1]

@@pamelawing5747 True... The communists have failed in Europe and Asia and found open game and will try their luck in the United States.

[@buckbeans1]

@@ReeceS6419 Keep the faith and don't give up.. This country is worth fighting for..

[@sth.777]

As someone who emigrated to Europe from the US nearly 40 years ago, I feel qualified to give a bit of advice on the issue of homesickness: Attitude and perspective. You've chosen Italy and your property; that is HOME. Stop thinking of the US culture or conveniences as things to be missed or longed for, or as "home". Obviously, keep in touch with family and close friends; but make friends where you are, and when you think of going home, think of your stone barn, not the States. The sooner you can make that mental step, the easier it will be. Make your life where you are; dig into the culture, history, neighbourhood and community and integrate as soon as you can... Also, if you are missing certain comfort foods or items from shopping in the States, try and find alternatives in Italy as soon as you can - that will help with the feeling of "being home"...

[@Feeoryne]

Yeah, "BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED"

[@iluvtheusa5044]

​@@FeeoryneI think you meant: BLOOM WHERE YOU ARE TRANSPLANTED? Ask yourself why more people want to go to the USA...before 16 million foreigners were allowed to invade our country!

[@RainbowSky3693]

@@Feeorynewhat a beautiful saying love it 💐

[@Sofiarivassculptor]

Nice people there

[@brucemartin8435]

2 Canadians going through this exactly this outside of Caserta. I miss my friends and family but every day this becomes more home 🇮🇹🇨🇦

[@juttak4484]

Absolutely correct! I am from Germany and moved to the US with my husband who was in the Army. As a European I must say that here in the US people live to WORK......more money more stuff . In Europe....life and family first. Relax and enjoy life. Great show!

[@Ida-fz3ir]

wo? Ich kenne nur Leute, die für ihre Existenz immer mehr Kraft aufbringen müssen, oder buckeln!

[@jesseleroy76]

I hear you. on the Live to work thing. I am 46 yrs now. and I was layoff of work in 2019 before Covid, and now I am not planning to go back to work now, but am also now Full-time taking care of my 70 yr old parents. they Just past their 50 yrs of marriage. I love being able to care for them and helping out. I don't have much. I have clothes on my back and a bed. I see my parents house bought in 1990 and just paid off Feb 2023. and they have things in the house. that they bought and now is just sitting here in the house. collecting dust. We can't take it with us when we die. I would rather just be able to sit and talk to my family and long-time friends and extended family. than go buy them something that is going to sit on the shelf. Money doesn't make happiness. family and friends do.

[@lindarussell4216]

Yes i think family first if i could do everything over again i would live in Europe. Italy or Spain. Ive been to both countries several times. But now im 76 moving might not be my best interest now. Im alone and now looking for options for the rest of my life. I love how this family made a big change i wish them the best in their lives. Follow your dreams life is to short.

[@tw8725]

That’s the way life should be.

[@thundergrace]

i would like to move 😢

[@Astropaesan]

I am an Italian immigrant whose family settled in Canada. You are raising the next generation so it is vital that you lead by example. I envy you, and I think your logic is sound. I can say, you are leaving a toxic country, which is only getting worse, because to fix it would involve too much change, and as you know, people find it difficult to change. The US is a slippery slope.

[@peterhowells7309]

Greetings from Scotland! I can sympathise with you guys because my wife and I went through a very similar process. We married at 18yo and went on honeymoon to the Northern Scottish Highlands - and we stayed! Jobs were abundant and houses also! The first year was really hard and we both wanted to give in and go back home. At the end of last April we celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary, in Scotland - where we still live, very happily! We are both SO glad we stayed, brought up a family and our children have done the same. Hang on in there guys!

[@rossrainwater5619]

Much love to the captured scots.. Freedom is coming. Love from USA.

[@peterhowells7309]

@@rossrainwater5619 Hello to US! I really, really hope so! Things are in a bit of a mess with a conservative government in the South. We badly need independence!

[@kindlydude]

@@peterhowells7309 I had a Scottish history teacher in a school for foreign diplomats & foreigners in general in Indonesia as a child. The Brits (but not the Americans) ...thought they were all radicals for wanting independence from the Crown ...but we never thought of the Crown or any of the Commonwealth as conservative either ...we thought of them as colonialists. Ha! ha! ...funny how those terms are viewed so differently in different countries! My Scottish teacher was passionate about reclaiming the Scottish Crown for Scotland alone as well. The small contingent of "republicans" protesting the recent coronation are seen as "radicals" ...but in America a Republican is conservative ...go figure!!

[@erikdemoeij6442]

Any vids about your life in Scotland?

[@peterhowells7309]

@@erikdemoeij6442 Not really Erik, back in 1973 we were flat broke and expecting our first child. Vids were super expensive then. Just never been one for pictures or vids really. There are some mountain walks on my channel, but that's really it. I spent most of my married life working stupid long hours to just get by. My car takes all the vids now! 😂😂

[@Allioop_1]

Listening to you is like listening to myself. I left California, the city where I was born and it’s such a mess… my son said, Mom, get out of there! Come to Hawaii. I’m so glad I did. The stress level is so much healthier. This is my retirement paradise. I’m glad you found yours! 🙋🏻‍♀️❤️🙏

[@maximac222]

@Allioop , girl, you had to have someone tell you to move to HI? 😆 Good for you!!!!

[@Allioop_1]

@@maximac222 My son was in the Navy stationed at Pearl Harbor for seven years. He surfs and it’s his home. He was tired of worrying about me and the CA wildfires. Plus CA isn’t what it used to be. I would never raise children there. Even though my son and I are both native San Diegan’s, we lived there when it was a great place to live. Not anymore…

[@maximac222]

@Allioop_1 So glad you got away when you did! Seems lots of great places on the West coast have become like your San Diego. 😪

[@ccsocal768]

Hawaii is insanely expensive now. Friends moved there back in the 70’s with vacation homes, now many live there permanently and have expanded their vacation homes to huge multimillion dollar full time homes.

[@Allioop_1]

@@ccsocal768 I owned a home in California for years and it’s no more expensive than living there. It’s a better place to live out my old age though. I feel bad for renters in Hawaii though, there’s a housing shortage and it is actually easier and cheaper to buy here than it is to get a rental.

[@jeddbob]

We really enjoyed your reasons. We have enjoyed all your videos. We moved to Italy from America almost five years ago. When we get asked why, we always say that we weren't running away from America, but rather, running to Italy. It is such a wonderful country, filled with wonderful people.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Such a great answer! I may steal that one!

[@DanielaClapp]

How do you afford to live in Italy?

[@clairebeane3455]

THIS!!!! 💜💜💜

[@karate4348]

Trouble is at home and at least acknowledging that's leaving the problem to continue while we go away. Too much colonisation is based on dissociation from problems we actually carry with us to other places... Maybe this is a return to europe for some people's heritage, however admitting what we left unwilling or unable to address behind within or ahead of us (for decendants) is literally the difference between re, de or just colonising again and again. 8-9 months is hard to no return home..especially where children are involved... However Most important is healing the wounds of those who have been colonised and how we are all left when healing is not provided and allowed for... We carry on with culture which is not natural to the nature of the person, all of life or places of nature.

[@bogeythedog163]

​@@RaisingVoyagersthou shalt not steal!

[@gbbl6157]

As European women I would like to say that you chose the very best country to live. Italians have Feeling for family, live, eating. Also for style. I love to make vacation in italy🩷

[@brendabreed6580]

Thank you for sharing. We live off grid in interior Alaska. We are building a place out of pocket and living below our means as a way to simplify our life. Too many people are caught up in the rat race of life and the desire to have stuff. My husband used to be like you working 60+ hours a week and I was an at home mom. We are now working just as many hours BUT we are together, talking, laughing and enjoying each other. I am happy for you to be able to do this adventure while your children are young. They will have incredible memories and skills that most people do not. Thank you for sharing your life with the world.

[@16480287]

Good for you ! you still stayed in the United States ! Think about it ! The life style you wanted and still in the greatest country in the world !

[@rossrainwater5619]

Uh, they're in Portugal!

[@brendabreed6580]

@@rossrainwater5619 who is in Portugal?

[@picholoup]

​@@16480287 still living with rose coloured glasses, aren't you!😂😂😂

[@16480287]

@@picholoup Yes Sir ! Proud to be a a American living in the greatest Country in the world ! That so many are trying to enter !Love my glasses !!!

[@seapearltoo1]

What a well-done video! My Husband and I moved from the U.S. and will have been living on the Sun Coast of Spain for three years this November. You nailed it on every point. The vibe here is so much more relaxed and people love living a healthier, closer to nature lifestyle! Meals and socializing are for the most part outdoors...there is always a Fiesta or celebration somewhere to be a part of!!! Great point made about easy and inexpensive travel as well. We are no longer in the "bubble" and have a whole new perspective and appreciation for new possibilities! 🥰

[@danmcbride6258]

You can’t apologize for wanting a simpler life with less pressure. You have chosen a life in a more relaxed setting. You have set the foundation for your children to live a quality of life, education and culture. The biggest gift Parents can give to their children.

[@englishrose4388]

I vividly remember, when I was in the tiny villages in the northern Italian alps, how it felt like time was slower there. It was captivating. There was a shepherd on the hillside with his goats, just like in the movie, Heidi. It was incredible.

[@gypsylizzy8893]

I don't blame you for wanting out of the US. I've traveled the world over and can tell you this much, you guys are on the right track.

[@HikeBikeWalkRide]

The US is being destroyed by liberals and Biden.

[@waldemarsikorski4759]

@@southshore8911 Substitute "best" with most expensive.

[@kjade7778]

​@south shore I doubt that you have tried the medical care in *any* other country.

[@sallyannc3176]

@@southshore8911 IF you can afford healthcare! In the UK we never have to worry about that.

[@jennifercorrell1009]

Ya but the want to go visit that's so sad

[@billanton2166]

My wife and I love watching you guys! The education that your daughters are receiving is priceless. We are a couple in our 50's and totally understand the terrible work/life balance here in the states. Also, the expensive healthcare. We recently purchased a home in Sicily for less than you purchase a vehicle here in the US. At the first opportunity, we will be moving as well. We are looking forward to renovating our home and living in a beautiful, peaceful village!! Keep Going!

[@chickenfishhybrid44]

Yeah that's a great price but the wages also reflect that. If you can find work in the first place.

[@johndallara3257]

You are providing your children with an education and time with you that could never be replicated, great choice good work.

[@Myria83]

My boyfriend and I have been working with Americans and Canadians for several years. Last summer we went to LA to edit a movie and a documentary, and we lived for quite a long time in a huge mansion in Beverly Hills that had been "lent" to us by an old friend of our producer. We are both Italian, and we are about to finish renovating an old house we bought in Florence; we did most of the heavy lifting (including hurting our backs while digging dirt and boulders from underneath the whole house to insulate the floor from humidity, emptying a basement full of debris, and well... old poop, exactly like you did), then we hired some companies to do the things we weren't allowed to do ourselves. You know what? I totally get it. Our circumstances kind of "mirror" yours, since we were born in the country you've chosen to live in. Stefano and I LOVE travelling (we both used to work for the international cooperation, years ago), and we've had our share of what it means to live the best, most luxurious life in the US, but like many Americans we know, who chose to settle in Europe, we have no desire to "live the American dream": we'd miss our small, old house (now super-efficient and green) in our beautiful city, we'd miss our relaxed lifestyle, our 15-minute neighborhood, our vegetable garden, not to mention the family house built by my grandfather, sitting in an enchanting valley on the Alps and surrounded by a garden and fruit trees. I've just discovered your channel and I've already binge-watched most of your videos. Truth be said, I'd love to meet you in person and have a long, nice chat, 'cause I think that we have a lot in common and a similar mindset, even though we were born on opposite sides of the world. I wish you the best! Serena

[@kdclothes]

I agree with you. I worked minimum 80 hours a week for 40 years in Los Angeles. My work was my life, my family, my hobby, everything. I didnt even have time to take my dog for a walk. I had to hire dog walkers. I also do not want to live in the environment that America has become. It is angry, negative, hateful and fearful. Children being killed in their schools is not what I want to say defines my country. I felt a deep dark hole in my sole in the US. I began looking for a different life. I found it in Central Italy in the Majella mountains. I bought a small home, live in a tiny village, I can get anywhere by train or bus. I really love the live and work dynamic in Italy. The people here are more in tune with the big picture and what is good for all rather than me me me. Your children seem well adjusted and thriving. They will be able to open their hearts to their dreams. I wish you the best in Italy.

[@chickenfishhybrid44]

Minimum 80 hours a week? Yeah right

[@sapsinsweden]

I am an American living in Sweden and I could not agree more. This move was one of the best things ive done for myself mentally and physically. I had to learn to "relax" at work bc i was still stuck in the US work mentality. My work is always done but just in a more relaxed state. How wonderful for your children to experience life as an adventure.

[@jerrydufresne1886]

I've been considering becoming an expat to Italy or Portugal and my biggest anxiety is how I'll have to deprogram from our 'go go go' culture and actually learn how to be human and more than my job title.

[@michellekelley2927]

Yup! We chose to retire very early and move to rural Mexico. We have land, built a house, and live quite safely and peacefully. I have never, not even one, have a person here ask me what I did for a living up in the states. My mom lives here close in her own small house and we are quite content. We planned this for years and are happy with our decision. Choice is awesome! Loving your videos.

[@RaisingVoyagers]

Awesome! We had considered Mexico! Still one of our favorites places, and AMAZING food ☺️

[@sandybowman7140]

OK, I'm gonna say u just blew my mind, I've thought so much of Mexico since watching PBS with Rick Bayless & Patty Jinich and it just seems way more chill than the hysterical news snippets we sometimes see. Thanks for posting & I wish u well (with all that chill food, rich in great nutrients!) 🙋‍♀️❤

[@michellekelley2927]

@SANDY BOWMAN You can't believe everything you read. Your own experience means much more. There are so many parts of mexico to know. I encourage you to travel there and check it out for yourself. Our village is quite small, around 2000 or so inhabitants but a very large city is 1.5 hours from us for our monthly shopping and there is a nearby town of much larger population for weekly visits. People are very nice and calm as public rudeness or loud voices is frowned upon. The culture is almost opposite the USA on family so you rarely see anyone unhoused, even in the city. Food is great, no national fast food joints in our area and Healthcare is very affordable.

[@sandybowman7140]

@@michellekelley2927 Wow x 100! That sounds delightful, as I find Mexican immigrants here in the states. People from other countries can be demonized, but I always know there's a different story to be heard. Most Mexicans are deeply generous, as are Africans, Asians, etc and have standards way above what the US experiences. Thank u for adding that - I pray all the time people would stop the fear mongering & see people with their hearts! Have a great weekend, Michelle! Much love to u & ur family! 💞

[@jacklong7048]

You talk with people from other countries. They are amazed how some Americans, love to tell you their job title, how much they make, how big a house or what car they drive. I think Finland has the right idea. You drive down a street, can't really tell rich from ok. If anything considered rude to talk about being rich. Here some hang on every word Musk or others say. Because they have wealth, sad.

[@sandradavis8695]

Noone should be offended by the truth. You guys are a HUGE inspiration. Doing what you are doing is such a amazingly courageous thing and a testament to your love and dedication to one another. God bless you. I hope everything goes great for your precious family.

[@darrellnicol3136]

I moved from the UK to Bulgaria 5 years ago for pretty much the same reasons. I now have a very relaxed lifestyle and make bespoke oak doors and windows for clients all over the country, I have no regrets and wouldn't change a thing, love watching your progress, and having driven on the old road over the dolomites down to Trento I know that you are living in a spectacular part of the world 😊

[@susanaramirez1335]

I love watching people in Italy. People seem to have more time to smell the flowers.

[@sherrywilson2863]

First time viewer and I’m an instant fan! I totally understand why you left. Your house and land is absolutely beautiful! Hearing the bells chime and the view totally worth it. And your daughters seem to be happy and Safe. I have zero building experience but I would learn. 😊 I’m looking forward to following your journey. ❤ Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@annberlin5811]

That view from cottage is mind blowing

[@loisfolk5492]

I agree with someone else’s comments. The view is stunning. The house will be great when you get it done and I’m sure it will meet all your needs. Keep on keeping on.✌️🖖❤️☮️

[@tina00017]

As a European expat myself (lived in five countries and am now living in the US) with an expat mom and many expat friends, I don’t think I will ever shake the feeling of being torn. Or the feeling of no longer being completely home at my old home but never feeling completely home at where I am now. There’s always a piece of me in my old and new home and many expats I know feel the same. It’s a very unique feeling only familiar to people that have left their homes for a new home in a new culture and country.

[@apscoradiales]

Being an expat myself (born in Croatia, moved to Canada back on January 15, 1970), I feel i have two homes. Sometimes, I feel I don't know where my home is, sometimes I love both places, sometimes I hate both. I went back to Croatia several years ago after not going there for over twenty years. The guy at the Croatian Immigration booth at the border, looked at my Canadian passport, noticed my Croatian name, and said to me "Welcome home". I cried.... Being an expat can be very hard sometimes...

[@andreaandrea6716]

So true!! I feel exactly the same way. One always feels as if a part of oneself is invisible.

[@andreaandrea6716]

@@apscoradiales Wow. Thank you for sharing that.

[@bookwormextreme]

Hey guys I’m not a regular commenter but I found this video really inspiring. I grew up in a similar way, sort of - my parents moved from New Zealand to South East Asia with me and my two younger sisters when I was ten years old. Certainly it was difficult at times but the places we got to travel to were absolutely incredible and the perspective it’s given me as an adult into different cultures and points of view has definitely made me a better person, and I’m sure your daughters will feel the same as they get older. Have a wonderful day 😊

[@jazztbonist]

We lived in Heidelberg Germany for 6 years (20 years ago) and I have struggled living in the US ever since. I'm very envious of your adventure! Good luck with the back injury and great job so far!

[@deborahbasel184]

Don't worry if others get offended. That's their issues to deal with. You just speak and live your truth.

[@oyamsbabe4028]

You are right, the only problem is that they now live on the revenues from KZbin so they have to be careful and refrain from speaking about politics or religion. Listen, I love the work they’re doing with the stone house and the location is breathtakingly beautiful. I’m a poc of color. If they had mentioned they were MAGAs, that would be it for me. It would just steal the joy their journey gives me and I was a Republican, but the lie about IraqI war did it for me. I guess that’s were we are now.

[@tw8725]

It’s very touching watching you guys talking about how you consider relationships is more important than your own identity/work. Not many people would think this way in my country, especially when high dedication to work is considered being equal to good work ethics. There are so many family issues running in my society because of long working hours. So much was sacrificed but not many people seem to have the courage to reset their priorities. Your sharing truly touched my heart and I wish your family a wonderful life journey in Italy. You guys have brought so much inspiration to me. Thank you. ❤😊

[@heinzgassner1057]

Very well said. Leaving one‘s own bubble, living in a new environment, learning new languages is a great opportunity to discover one’s own biases, grow compassion and celebrate the beauty of diversity, a prerequisite for experiencing that - beyond all differences - we are all ‚one‘. I admire your courage and positivity when navigating through all ups and downs of such an (ad)venture.

[@thomasluby1754]

Most people have biases, living in a new country certainly does NOT "grow compassion", and diversity is meaningless. Btw, Italy is more white and less diverse than the USA.

[@sandybowman7140]

I couldn't agree with u more @Heinz Gassner! I look for opportunities to learn from other cultures and shop in a Vietnamese or Korean Grocery Store and love the things that make us different. Diversity is simply looking for what's different and then admiring it, exalting it and seeing that others make up this symphony of life; not everyone can be strings or woodwinds, we need a simple tink of a triangle or the boom of a drum - people with all their glorious differences are what make life spectacular vs simple black and white. So glad u posted and show others how to "see with the heart!" Be well kind friend + I wish u many blessings! 🙋‍♀️❤

[@thomasluby1754]

@@sandybowman7140 Diversity for the sake of diversity, is meaningless. It all comes down to the quality of people one encounters, not JUST that they are different ethnically, tribally. Forced diversity can be quite disastrous.

[@sandybowman7140]

@@thomasluby1754 I just don't see life like that at all. I see the good and glorious traits different cultures have and I am in total agreement with @Heinz Gassner who clearly has an open heart and can see with his heart. I pray u come to realize all u miss someday! I hope ur fear subsides because differences are wonderful, they stretch us to have larger worldviews and touch us and make us change and adjust what we previously knew, it's an education. Wishing u blessings Thomas!

[@thomasluby1754]

@@sandybowman7140 Has nothing to do with fear. Have travelled and enjoyed it and grown from it. I just know people who push a DEI agenda are wrong and dangerous. I believe in freedom, not coercion. I believe in meritocracy, not DEI. It is the QUALITY of people one encounters, not necessarily the "diversity" of them.

[@SODAAgency]

It’s so admirable and courageous that you are expanding your mindset, and that of your girls, to the wider world by moving, traveling and living your best life. My husband and I also just left the USA and moved to Belgium. Within days we relaxed into the wonderful aspects of life in Europe, free from the worry of violence and intolerance. We are not going back. The US is great in many ways but there is a certain sickness there now. Viva Europe, viva Italy!

[@terryvonberg1290]

I think that regardless of your reasons for leaving your home country, the view that you get to look out onto every day makes the adventure seem so worth it. I've just turned 70 and like most of my generation spent nearly every waking hour working to provide for and prepare the next generation. It wasn't all just drudgery, every life has it's great moments, and we've had our fair share. But now retired, I wake up in the morning and see nothing more than the house next door, and the house next door to that, etc, etc. My dream was less adventurous, I just wanted to have a cottage by the sea, (sigh) I doubt it's going to happen. But boy I could get used to waking up to that view every morning, Italy looks so beautiful, wow. Enjoy every moment, life flies by and not all our dreams will get to be realized. It looks like a lot of hard work, but it also looks amazingly worth it. 👋🇿🇦

[@bobbycontreras8053]

You have gone against the odds unbelievable amount of work you are putting into it!

[@jeniferpollonais6546]

I moved to another country, had to learn a different language, felt very strange and afraid for a couple years, but ended up feeling like it was home and I became so comfortable with the culture, that when I did travel home to visit, I felt strange there! Just give it more time, you will soon feel like home. Italians are warm and friendly people! You’ll be just fine!

[@raphaelcamilleri6047]

Greetings from Austria 🇦🇹 You have a wonderful family all together given a hand in renovation it isn't easy there is hard work going on in process but the results will be a rewarding and satisfaction. Italy is beautiful country with rich of history and culture ❤ Btw I am originally from the island of Malta a stone away from Italy another gem in the Mediterranean. Good luck and I wish you all every success in your new journey guys.❤❤❤

[@colleenwilliams1452]

My daughter arrived from London to New Zealand yesterday for the same reason. The stress was overwhelming.

[@SquirrelInTheWild]

The life and home you are building with your daughters is the true gift. That is what I see. You aren’t just building a beautiful home. You are building a STRONG , SOLID family. There is nothing more primal than the family homestead. I see a family truly bonded with love and sacrifice for each other. There is no better foundation. I totally recognize the home sickness you are feeling. It’s real pain. I know you’ll get through. Together. As a family. I pray the universe blesses your family. The struggle is real but so is your strength.

[@bettyharper2214]

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[@valdemarvaldemarovych3007]

Hi there from Ukraine) love watching you and admire your family and how you do things together as a family, even your daughters help you and that's amasing, guys. I've also dreamt about smth similar, but my ex-wife didn't support me as I was doing my regular job and in the evenings restored our house. Hope to become a good example for my daughter as you are for yours. Good luck)

[@The-walloper]

When i visited italy i quickly felt like i could stay and never return to scotland without looking back. I loved how laid back the country felt and i loved the people i met not to mention i felt mentaly at peace in italy. I hope you guys have found peace and happiness, you come across as really good humans.

[@Tailsof2Spaniels]

I agree with you 100%. I moved to Italy twice on my own because I could see my life, but nothing felt. I needed to feel my life and being back in the US is tough. Yes it solves financial problems and you see people you know and a culture you know. But in Italy, you just feel alive. ❤

[@deniseblackman5229]

I spend 1 month a year every 12-18 months in Italy. While it’s not the same as living there full time from my friendships with xpats and my family near Naples I have learned that patience is a great trait learned while there. Italy really exemplifies that you work to live rather than live to work.

[@helenpecoraro9096]

I just love the two of you💕💕💕 I totally agree with all that you say. As an elderly person who has seen all the changes over the years here in USA. It is a divided country now and that is sad. I admire your courage to follow your dreams💕💕💕

[@LoriF25403]

You do you and care for your family the way you decide. No one lives your life but you. Best wishes

[@apscoradiales]

Just started watching your videos of your adventures renovating the stone house. Wife and I had similar ideas several years ago, but it did not work out for us, unfortunately. I worked for nearly 40 years as an architect in Canada, spending many hours, days, weeks, months, and years working on other peoples projects, and always dreamt about doing my own house. Got tired of working, quit my job, got married, and we travelled a lot. Took my wife to Croatia, my birth place to show her the place. She loved it. Came back to Canada, then she suggested we move there, permanently. I told her this is not like moving a hundred miles down the highway in Canada or US. I told her she was going to miss Canada, her friends, her children (she was born in Canada, and had kids from a previous marriage). She said she will be OK. So, we sold the house just outside of Toronto, Ontario, hired a mover, stuffed everything into a container, including a car, and moved to Croatia. Stayed at my cousins place that I fixed up a couple of years before...was a really nice second floor in his house. Everything started to go well, we even managed to buy a large piece of land on which we planned to build our house. Found a local architect to help me with the local codes, and things. One day, wife gets a message from her disabled daughter saying that she had to move to a group home, because her stepmother, and father (who had her custody) were being mean to her. Tore my wife to pieces! She would be crying as we'd be driving around in Croatia. Had to change our plans. Stopped the house plans, packed everything in a container again, and shipped it to Montreal. So, that's were we are now, living in an apartment close to her daughter who comes to visit us every second weekend.. So much for dreams. I hope you guys are able to carry out your dreams. Best of luck living in Europe. It is very much different than USA or Canada. I love travelling in USA...hitting the Interstate 80 though Nebraska, Wyoming, I40 though New Mexico or Arizona or I10 through West Texas...USA is a lot more than NYC or LA...great people out mid-west or west...real America in my opinion. Europe is great too...go and see Vienna, I would say it's the most beautiful city in the World with culture overflowing everywhere. Check out the highway hugging the Adriatic coast in Croatia. Pacific Coast Highway in California doesn't even come close to the beauty of that Croatian highway. Rovinj is a gorgeous town in Istria, Croatia - go and see it, it's probably only 2 and a half hours away from where you are now. Italian and English are spoken widely in Croatia. So is German. Go and see the place. Long comment, I know...

[@essene3695]

Sorry. But it doesn't matter what your reasons were, it was the best thing for you & your family! It is NOT anyone business as to why you guys did what you did. You guys had the courage to leave & start a new Life! I am happy for your new Life & new Journey! 😊🙏🏼

[@elisabetta4478]

Do not get discouraged by external factors because Italy is the right choice, in terms of food, relationships and striding to neighbouring countries. Struggling is part of life. Need to have the wisdom to accept it and move on with renewed energy. I get what you said on the account of the USA. I have had the same feeling while in California for a month vacation. I felt so packed up in my chest. I was happy to be back in Italy. Look for local neighbours and friends. Y. ou would feel welcomed and in plac

[@sharonmcdonald6398]

Love your reasons and your energy! All the very best for all of you. Your place of choice in norther Italy is WONDERFUL! All the very best to you for a Enlightened Life!!🌻

[@pattanaka7697]

You two are the hardest working people I have ever seen I totally understand your decision about leaving USA you have to do what’s best for your family and who cares what people think… I wish you and your family the best God bless you

[@sandraberry612]

Hi family ,It’s fantastic what your doing,not only you both ,but especially your children ,the pollution for a start is better, it’s safer ,there’s no need to have guns in the home ,your spending precious time with your girls,while their growing up, your relationship together as a family, will bring you closer, as you have time to breath ! We as a family, moved from the UK to Australia 🇦🇺 in early eighties ,because we wanted a better life for our children,better weather ect ect ! It’s tough at the beginning, leaving your relatives behind, but if your happier, that’s the most important thing ,at the end of the day ! Good luck 🥰

[@Patty-vn8kn]

When we were 28, back some 40 years ago, we were offered jobs in Santa Cruz, Bolivia. We jumped at the opportunity and are so thankful for it. Like you, we were immersed in a culture totally different from our USA upbringing. Unlike you, at that time, there were no cell phones, internet or social media. Even tv was very limited and all in Spanish. We would walk across town every Sunday & pick up the Miami Herald that was flown in once a week. For us it was like going back another 40 years in time to a simpler life style. There were no shopping malls, and only one basic grocery store for dry goods. You went to the farmers market for veggies, the poultry market for chicken & eggs & the butcher buy some meat. Getting together with friends was all there was to do for entertainment. But that was all we needed. We immersed ourselves in the Bolivian culture and we are all the richer for it. Good for you for putting family over career & money. I love watching you work together and involving your girls in the process. The life skills they are learning are invaluable. I love my country but hate what the media has done to us. When we turn off the tv or get off our laptop and just go out and meet our neighbors or engage with people in the community, we find kindness everywhere. Maybe the internet going down for awhile would be a good thing. 😊 We wouldn’t get to watch your channel. But maybe we would meet our “tribe” all around us and learn how to love one another again. I love watching you make coffee in your mocha pot and take in the beauty around you before you start hauling boulders again.😅 You really do work hard! Thank you for sharing your life story with us.

[@AudriannaB-World-Peace]

For someone that traveled in Europe as a young adult up to my mid 20’s, I honestly wished I had stayed there. The quality of life is so much better in Europe. Medical costs are outrageous here in the US and the divide between the rich and poor is disgusting. There are so many bad things...like this debt crisis we are in now where one party doesn’t care about putting the rest of us in financial ruin, let alone what it does to the rest of the world. No other country gets away with this madness. Kids are in schools and every aspect of life here worrying about crazy people with guns. All I can say is that you are much safer there and you are living a dream life there! You definitely made the right decision! I would come back to Europe in a heartbeat!

[@sandybowman7140]

@Audrianna B I completely empathize with the feelings u shared, it doesn't feel like the same place since social media exploded and turned people ugly. YT is the only platform I interact & post. It feels very much like pre-1936 WW2 Germany is taking shape in front of our eyes. I haven't felt the same level of safety either. It seems to be forgotten that the role of govt is to improve people's lives. Thanks for sharing ur thoughts! 🙋‍♀️❤🇺🇸

[@josephdanielmarsh]

I can only guess you are a flaming Liberal.

[@kindlydude]

It is definitely getting worse in America. Lawlessness is on the rise. People always had guns from the founding of the country ...but something has changed. I never had a gun through most of my life until I got personally physically attacked. It changes you when that happens ...I had always been against guns ...now I have one for personal protection.

[@sandybowman7140]

@@kindlydude It is heartbreaking and it's personal, my family has radically changed & it even makes communication strained. It comes from the top, and it sadly doesn't seem like there's any respect for govt officials - "defund the FBI" is complete nonsense along with so many other anti-American chants. I'm right there with u but I feel like if had a gun it would used against me.

[@Julia29853]

@@sandybowman7140 trust the government? Really? We have been lied to, lied to and lied to more, they are out for themselves. I would never give up my guns now- I dont trust our government at all. I find it funny that most of the left wing ex-hippies that hated the government when they were young now trust our government and thinks it’s just wonderful.

[@tennesseetexan1957]

I retired and moved 1000 miles from Texas to Tennessee. Although it’s not another country, the distance from our children & grandchildren makes it seem so. Also leaving the “work life” to a slower pace has been an adjustment. We have no regrets, but living the rural life is hard work as you well know. However, experiencing the natural beauty everyday and discovering all of the amazing “secrets” of our acreage has been an adventure. You guys are young & full of energy while I am now pushing 70, so my body talks to me with each project I do. I have built a 500 sq ft cabin, built a 2000 sq ft post & beam forever home almost entirely on my own. I have also cleared & moved tons of rock over 3 years and the results have been so rewarding! Stick to your dreams and know that since you are young that you can take your time and readjust your goals along the way. The peace of mind you gain will be the ultimate reward. Continue to take risks as life is so short. Your videos are a joy to watch and your work ethic is astonishing. God bless you & your beautiful family as you continue your journey.

[@EnglishBulldogMom]

I think what you all have done for your family is amazing…I wish we had the courage to take a chance ..our son is disabled so travel for the whole family together is hard especially to Europe. I have taken my teenage daughter to London and plan on going back to France and uk with my son and daughter in November..I can’t explain how I love the UK so I get it. Hopefully Italy is on my list this next year…you are the sweetest families and no need to explain…love your family and live life with no regrets….❤

[@angelagalloway5486]

Free healthcare in uk 😊

[@michaelryan2562]

@@angelagalloway5486 WHICH IS CRUMBLING UNDER THE CONSERVATIVE GOVERNMENT SO WILL BE PRIVATISED IF WE DONT VOTE THEM OUT sorry for caps didn’t look touch typing

[@janicegartner5711]

I fell in love with England when we were posted for one year in the Cotswolds. We had wonderful weather I took up horse back riding through the countryside and loved the old stone buildings thatched roofs etc

[@4jesjes]

Thank you for your honesty. I've traveled to Italy and I understand how you fell in love. Italy is beautiful! I wish I was courageous enough to move as well... maybe someday.. I Hugs from New York City!

[@CrankyBubushka]

I can so relate. It's true you have to work a lot here (in USA). But we manage to live very simply here, unlike others we know. We don't have a fancy car or house, don't go on fancy vacations and trips, and live in a small town, but we don't have to work all the time either and that suits us just fine. Love your videos.

[@ITSMEAGAIN1]

I LIVED ABROAD IN SOUTH EAST ASIA FOR ALMOST 10YRS. IT TOOK ME AT LEAST 2YRS TO STOP FEELING HOMESICK. AFTER THAT THOUGH, WHEN I VISITED MY HOMELAND, I COULDN'T WAIT TO GET BACK TO ASIA. IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO GET BACK INTO THE WAYS IN MY HOME COUNTRY TOO WHEN I EVENTUALLY MOVED BACK. MOVING CONTINENT IS NO EASY THING.

[@abeautifulworldnow]

I am so happy and amazed by you. I think your courage and what you value is beautiful and full of love!

[@leftymadrid]

I too have left. Lived in California for almost 30 years. One day I decided to leave everything single thing I knew and had. Once I learned my parents (that are at that age) needed my help, I dropped everything I had going for myself, a good job, a wonderful relationship, friends absolutely everything!! As I've commented to you both in the recent past. When I left the US 5 years ago things started to seem a bit odd. I've lived basically all my life there and know how California and Californians are. I felt like good ol' relaxed and cool California has turned into the high adrenaline rat race, and saw how many began to actually struggle. And politically it IS very divided. And what's worse is I watched from abroad (where I now live now) how the banks "like vultures" took advantage of normal folks like you and I making them homeless, losing jobs, and forced to the streets!! The banks got richer, the government did nothing, and all hell is breaking loose now... So forgive me if I get angry when I hear that billions are being given to other countries, when in fact California, Oregon, Arizona, Nevada, and other states are suffering and being forced to live in the streets!! Because of this situation. I do hope you and the girls will be happy, and if you love traveling, where you now live is pretty much perfect! I too have missed the US , especially at Christmas time, and basically everything about it really, the people, the ways, etc... I still hold America close to my ❤️ and always will...

[@rossrainwater5619]

Hang in there my friend, believe in the Goodness of Humanity.. Freedom is finally coming to the World. Much love to all God Bless.

[@jennifersmall-maza8326]

⁠@@rossrainwater5619. Goodness of humanity. Freedom to us all. May this be true and thank you for being a source of this goodness and hope ❤

[@mexigirl64]

Lots of insight and facts. The honesty is refreshing. As a 59 y/o woman I'm in agreement and feel the same...and on many other levels as well. I'm looking into southern Italy......way to go!🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

[@kenclement9409]

I love you kids! Bravo for giving yourselves and your beautiful girls this wonderful adventure! I pray God's continued blessings of God provision, presence, protection, and peace 👏👏👏 ❤️🙏✝️🕊️

[@moremoola]

I've moved to the US from Belgium 25 years ago. My brother and sister couldn't understand it... I also LOVED traveling and been all over the developed world. For the most part I've been really happy. I do have to say in the last 5 years it has gotten so lonely and difficult to associate with people. Religion, politics, guns and LGBT issues are being exploited by politicians and they typically target the less sophisticated, which became blatantly obvious Jan 6th. So having seen both sides; I have to say I still prefer the US because of the better financial opportunities (taxes). I retired at 54 and now just day trade equities and bonds. But there's always the worry about the unscrupulous medical system, the constant worry about yet another mentally deranged individual going postal and social media literally ruining young undeveloped brains.

[@julieswiss1]

I'm sure yours was the healthiest choice, the best move, you are strong, determined and your new home is already a sucess. Kudos for the great job! 💐

[@lyn9128]

Y'all literally could be my neighbours 😊 I live in North Italy as well and the landscapes you show in your videos are so so familiar can't help but wonder where exactly your beautiful stone house is located!

[@bogeythedog163]

Phrogger much?

[@gwinwebb1009]

We moved with our young children from the USA to Cyprus 25 years ago. My husband is Cypriot but I decided to move due to the prevalence of gun violence and drug use where we lived. I was very home sick at first and we could not afford to travel back to visit often. It was a good decision for us though. We didn't have to worry about safety issues which if very freeing. Life here is also a slower pace and family oriented. Our kids now live elsewhere in Europe but we visit often. Love watching your renovation. You live in a gorgeous area.

[@MrRugbyprop1]

Everything you say is true. Also, there's the negative side of raising children in America -- they grow up lazy, depressed, rude, and hooked on social media. If I would've had a crystal ball, I would've left here long ago.

[@niceone1020]

completely relate to what you are saying! So proud of you for taking action. Growing pains, and homesickness is normal in the beginning. You are showing your girls a beautiful way of life. I can't wait to see what you do next! Congratulations

[@arissouko1142]

i hope you stay in europe and enjoy life .l left from canada for same reasons and i enjoy life in Greece

[@user-cn5wv6mf4g]

For me personally there’s nothing more important than being near family but I wish you and your beautiful little family the best there in Italy

[@herbhook71]

Never let anyone discourage you from moving to Italy 🇮🇹 Life is an adventure "per say" and what better time than now while you all are young and your girls become better citizens of the world learning, growing & sharing life's adventures

[@KelsJSheeran]

Deep appreciation for your sharing! grateful that you shared your reasons, but really you didn't have to! I mean we consistently are traveling and asking ourselves how to do that better! Great ideas.

[@erniepenny221]

Am loving your journey and been catching up on your videos, love your stone house and surroundings, all the best regards from N.Z

[@chase5hans]

Good for you to point out that we are a divided U.S. You are spot on!

[@Lovelifealways16]

I love what you guys are doing. I can also appreciate why you have made the decisions you have made. As an Australian I feel the same. We live in such a divided society and I also hate that. There is so much happening in our country at the moment and I feel we don’t belong here anymore. We would love to immigrate to the UK, France or Italy. It’s hard for us as I would miss my young adult children terribly. We are so unhappy here though. I wish we had the guts to just make the change. 😔

[@alejandroortega8540]

I love the idea of travel far away to settle down, but specially the idea of rebuild an old house is exiting. I like to work in my house repairing, painting or refurbishing any thing. It is verry satisfactory when you done something with your own hands. I love the kind of live that you choosed. Congratulation.

[@glidercoach]

The first question people ask me is where am I from. When I tell them Los Angeles, the second question is, "why?" I left in 2013. It was tough. It was a good move despite the problems.

[@alemassa6632]

You have the Trinacria flag in the image so I assume you live in Sicily....right? I ask you 'cause It doesn't understand if you live in Italy now.

[@glidercoach]

@@alemassa6632 Good eye. I do live in Sicily in the village my grandparents were born.

[@alemassa6632]

@@glidercoach Good choice! Enjoy your life in Italy, I wish you the best.

[@rleeder9956]

Can totally relate to your decisions! So glad that you finally explained why you left the United States. My family did the same many years ago and even though we came back several times we always left again thank you.👍👍👍

[@bethlehemeisenhour5807]

I left the states in 1978, and went to Germany where my Brother was. I always wanted to live in a Bible land, and there, I met many Greeks, that told me to go to Greece. Well about a year later (Thinking to spend 2 months in Germany, and stayed 2 years) I was moved about it, and know, I am to be here. There was nothing left for me to do in America, and did not want to keep going as things were. I did go back once in the 90's and tie up loose ends, and now I am happy and won't be going back. I have 2 children here and Greek citizenship, so I thank GOD for that. The ancients and the sea, the people and the food, everything is good. And other things as doing with Music that I wasn't allowed to do in the states. A school friend of mine is living in Spain, loves it. I think where you are, you will have plenty to do when the house is done. as it is a little strange when something is done and you look around and say, "Now What"? 😊

[@janesmith9024]

Good luck from the UK. I haven't moved countries but started working for myself full time in the 90s and it was and remains a wonderful change of pace of life.

[@lpearson765]

Totally get your reasons for leaving the US…..right in for taking care of yourselves and your family! You’re an inspiration!!

[@rca-in-glasgow6781]

I hope people understand that somebody needs to pay for the content you provide (even if that’s just watching and liking) Because it has value. Huge value. The production quality and just overall sincerity is what makes your channel one of my favorite. You deserve every penny from patreon and I know that’s not what is enabling your life of world travel, really. It’s those absurd deals your are able to find! So more power to you. PS I lived in Glasgow for three years. Broke my heart when I had to return to the US. 😢🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@guzziwheeler]

62 year old german here: You did right! For you and the future of your daughters. They will learn italian in no time, and then they can teach you. Kudos that you had the balls to make a big change in your life, it will pay out in the future. Welcome to Europe! And Bradey: You are young and strong and ambitious, like I once was. Do not overexplorate your body, take it easy. Or you will have bad spine problems one fine day. For me, today is one fine day (but I still love my life).

[@elizabethenslin3414]

You made the decision to thrive as a family, to me that is the unselfish decision. I wish you all the happiness that you as a family deserve. There is more to life than just money and not enough quality of life. Enjoy your family!

[@CanaryIslandsToSF]

I live in Northern CA so I understand your reasons. I too have pondered moving overseas for a slower paced life. My favorite minute of this video was between 7:15-8:13. It made me feel like I was there too, and even it was for a brief moment, it gave me peace. Thank you for that :)

[@maryandrade2534]

I hear you about tickets. It cost me almost 2K to go to Australia. It cost me 600 to round trip to Seattle. Thank you for sharing your story to the why.

[@oskarwallin8715]

I found your channel just the other day, thanks for opening up about your life in Italy. Me and my GF is probably moving to northern Italy the next year :)

[@sharonmcgraw5641]

Absolutely! I quit my job that was killing me to work at the YMCA and everyone was FREAKED! SO happy for you, tons of lov and prayers!

[@finance_leads]

When watching your videos I admire your teamwork and co-operation. Always inspiring, great result that never disappoints. Good Job!👍

[@ChristianPatriotGrandma]

Thank you for your honesty and your sensitivity. The USA has been divided for some time, there is no denying it. My husband is from another country that also had a much slower pace so we get what you are saying. It was a surprise to us, however, how affordable it is to travel in Europe! We wish you all the best.

[@DorieOwen-ck6su]

It’s no one’s business. Live and be happy. Peacefulness is priceless ❤❤

[@dontsaycant2448]

Supporting your sense of adventure, your love of family values and the fact that you are sharing so much! I wish I could say we had Social Media and You Tube when I was your age and our kids were all younger - I may have been brave enough to have done what you're doing! We got caught up in the American "Never Enough" way of life and will begin our voyage within a few years with only our youngest in tow - but you inspire me! We found your channel in pouring over Italian properties and trying to decide which region we would like to settle in. For now, just know that I watch (and sometimes my two youngest kids still at home and my husband) your channel to keep my inspiration. Thanks!

[@midcenturyalabama]

You guys are amazing! I just discovered your channel and I am enjoying it so much! I would love to retire in Italy! ❤️

[@brandiconley3800]

I’m behind you 100%❤ God bless you and your family! You know what matters most. Sending love your way💕

[@christinechandler4261]

As a Brit I take it very much for granted that we can travel across Europe at an affordable rate. When meeting Americans it always strikes me how very hard they work and it appears to take over their lives and they find it hard to switch off. I hope that more US citizens start to re-evaluate the balance.

[@SquirrelInTheWild]

As American, I can say you are looked down on here if your motivation is not money and possessions. It’s sad and wrong but it’s true.

[@n68quebec]

@@SquirrelInTheWild I’ve not had a single person look down on me for not prioritizing material wealth. Not one.

[@bogeythedog163]

​@@SquirrelInTheWildso like the chinese

[@judylarkin1978]

I loved this video, and I was wondering why you left the USA. I think what you are doing is great, and the education you are giving your girls is priceless, God bless you all❤️

[@RespectAndLoveAndPeaceWins]

Welcome to Europe..choosing life quality and prioritizing family life seems like the best reason. You guys are awesome & you are welcome to Sweden any day. ❤️💐🙌

[@corinneone]

You guys are so amazing! I locked in on you guys so I’ll be looking for your videos on Sundays!! Nice way to end the video! You guys are so fun!!!🎉😊😊

[@kathyfann]

Your property and your views are gorgeous that’s all I need to see is why you left it’s so much calmer it’s so peaceful there that looks amazing as long as you can get the supplies you need stay warm and cool that sort of thing it looks fabulous

[@barbarabeard6017]

Wonderful reason for moving! Travel, everywhere, with the children! Forever special memories! (I usually watch on my TV, then move to phone for likes and comments.)

[@leanneclare3750]

Hello there, I’ve just started to catch up with your back catalogue. Wow! My respect is with you both undertaking that project and in a different country. I appreciate what you say about the divisive culture and it is getting that way here 🇬🇧as well. I think the work life balance is fundamental especially with a family. I used to do long weeks and end up sleeping at the weekend, what a way to spend my life. I think you have the right approach but look after your health..cannot imagine how you hurt your back! Love Heather wearing her hat in the cold bath .