The Real Reason Why Women Act Hot And Cold During Divorce

The dramatic fluctuations in her behavior are not actually a reflection of you or even how she feels about you. The real reason why women act hot and cold during divorce is something else entirely.
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I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.
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[@davidmazariegos4456]

Married to hot & cold for 26 years. Separated 2yrs ago. 10k divorce cost. SAVING!

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you're navigating a challenging situation, and I appreciate you opening up about it. Rachael’s free Masterclass could offer some insight into understanding the emotional dynamics that can come up during divorce. It may provide strategies for managing overwhelming emotions and offer a deeper understanding of the "hot and cold" behavior during this difficult time. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@MarcSteiny]

Rachael - I can't tell you how much I appreciated this video. I've watched and listened to so much to try and understand my current situation that I've been in for a couple of years! Obviously, it's an unwanted divorce, and I couldn't figure out WTH these different versions of my wife were. I've been trying to catch her in that kind, amicable state so I could at least talk some things out with her. This just gave me the clarity and understanding I've been trying so hard to get. This won't change the feelings I've had, but now I can at least begin to grieve. Thank you, thank you for the help and guidance you have been providing for so many of us.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m sorry you’ve been navigating such a difficult and unwanted situation, but I’m glad this video brought some clarity for you. Rachael offers a free Masterclass that you might find helpful at this stage. It walks you through a step-by-step strategy for calming overwhelming emotions and managing intrusive thoughts as you process everything you're going through. You can access it here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Wishing you peace and strength as you continue to move forward. Roman Rachael’s BBD Team

[@almac4067]

Helpful. Thank you, Rachael.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for your comment! I’m so glad this resonated with you. If you’re looking for more support and strategies to navigate through the emotional challenges of divorce, Rachael’s free Masterclass could be a great next step. It teaches powerful tools for calming overwhelming emotions and quieting intrusive thoughts, which can be especially helpful during times of uncertainty. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@ASTK974]

I'm experiencing this, we're actually in the amicable category of a divorce. I'm also at fault before all this happened, but even if she's cold I'm still trying to keep the peace between us so we can both leave still as friends.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing this. It sounds like you're handling a really challenging situation with a lot of patience and respect. Keeping the peace is not easy, especially when emotions are running high, but it can make a big difference in how both of you move forward. You may find Rachael’s free Masterclass helpful at this stage. It teaches a step-by-step strategy for calming overwhelming emotions and managing difficult interactions. You can check it out here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Roman Rachael’s BBD Team

[@shepardthinks]

Thanks for all that you do!

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for your comment! We’re so glad this content resonates with you. If you're looking for more support or insights, you might find Rachael's free Masterclass really helpful. It goes over emotional regulation strategies and the steps to healing during and after divorce. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@MrSupertwo]

Thank you for sharing this. I have been in fight/flight mode for years.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing this with us. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it's understandable to feel stuck in fight/flight mode during such a challenging time. Rachael’s free Masterclass offers a step-by-step strategy to help calm overwhelming emotions and regain a sense of control. It could be a great next step for you. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@kw7796]

NEVER TAKD HER BACK. They all want to come back at some point. GHOST THEM & NEVER LOOK BACK!!

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it's understandable that emotions can run high during such a challenging time. Rachael’s free Masterclass dives deeper into emotional regulation strategies and how to approach difficult situations like this with clarity and peace. It may be really helpful for you as you navigate this stage. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@zcorpalpha2462]

Some nations, Divorce is not so simple, actually It can ONLY be incepted by the Male. Quite common in Qatar 🇶🇦 & Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 Woman must have “ EXCEPTIONAL EVIDENCE “ , to even consider such a move. Man has a clean record, no criminal history, good provider to his wife & children, has provided a home 🏡, cars 🚘, educational school 🏫. Most society will be confused as to why the female would want a divorce ❓💔🌹 Not so easy outside the USA 🇺🇸, which one has to respect them asking simple question of “ WHY “ ❓

[@nm9586]

Women are like Gastan. They see themselves as the hero, saving Belle from the Beast, even though the beast poses no threat.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! Divorce laws and cultural norms can definitely vary significantly from one country to another, and it’s important to understand the unique challenges individuals may face in different parts of the world. If you or someone you know is navigating emotional challenges related to divorce, Rachael offers a free Masterclass that provides valuable strategies for managing overwhelming emotions and finding clarity. You may find it helpful as you work through these complex feelings. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@eltonbrock1]

Masterclass

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[@khawajamazhar9188]

If both of them are ready to move on, then it’s a happy ending 😊

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for your comment! It's great to hear when both parties can find closure and move forward positively. If you'd like more insights on navigating emotions and communication during or after divorce, you may find Rachael’s free Masterclass helpful. It teaches a step-by-step strategy for calming overwhelming emotions and quieting intrusive thoughts. You can check it out here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Roman Rachael’s BBD Team

[@zacebrahimi4254]

What if they are in Limerence with someone shes in an emotional affair

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Hi there, thank you for sharing your thoughts. It sounds like you're navigating a really difficult situation. If you’re feeling stuck and unsure of how to manage these emotional challenges, Rachael offers a free Masterclass that could be really helpful. It covers emotional regulation strategies that have worked for many of her clients in similar situations, helping them regain clarity and emotional control. You can access the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@JMVT62]

Mine was much the same and still is. Scathing e mails and text messages, but sweet as honey in person. Typical keyboard warrior.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your experience. That behavior can be so confusing and emotionally draining. Rachael’s free Masterclass can provide you with a strategy to help you manage these kinds of emotional rollercoasters and start finding clarity. It could be really helpful at this stage. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

This is a long drawn out explanation of how a child behaves. Adults don't need a bunch of nonsense to explain immature behavior.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s definitely frustrating to experience hot and cold behavior during a divorce. If you’re finding it hard to manage the emotional ups and downs, Rachael’s free Masterclass might be helpful. It teaches a step-by-step strategy for calming overwhelming emotions and quieting intrusive thoughts. You can check it out here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register. Roman Rachael’s BBD Team

[@Nintenga37]

No offense, but it sounds like excuses are being made for schizophrenia.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s true that divorce can bring out a range of behaviors that can be difficult to understand. Rachael’s free Masterclass dives into emotional regulation strategies that can help you navigate these complex emotions, whether it’s for you or someone you’re supporting. It could offer some valuable insight on how to manage overwhelming feelings during such a challenging time. Get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Rachael’s BBD Team

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

Not schizophrenia, immature/childish behavior. Western societies are gynocentric and have facilitated this behavior.

[@netochidozie5528]

In my own opinion, I see it as low interest.

[@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s understandable to interpret behaviors like this as a sign of low interest. The emotional complexities of divorce can lead to unpredictable reactions, and understanding these dynamics is key to navigating them. If you're looking for more insights into managing these emotional fluctuations, Rachael offers a free Masterclass that may be really helpful. It teaches you strategies to deal with overwhelming emotions and calm the uncertainties during this time. You can get the Masterclass here: resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/masterclass-register Wishing you all the best as you navigate this journey.

[@netochidozie5528]

@@RachaelSloanRelationshipCoach Thanks a lot.

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