The Real Reason Women Choose Losers

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[@ventromanable]

One thing he left out is when a man has his finances together and his sex game tight is that woman will be leary of him because there's no control, the complete loser with only the sex game and know financial stability she has complete control over a man in that situation.

[@FGAlele]

David Peace THAT Explanation Right There is WHY A lot of Good Men ESP Black Men are Single in America. Fewer Women are Playing their roles traditionally as Women.

[@spartacusjackson9653]

David Peace Those are the hoes you need to strap up with. The trap game is still intact bro...

[@speedlife301]

Yep I fall in that category. They don’t know how to deal with me and it fucks up their control and ego.

[@beowolfwesley8062]

You are right on the dot with that one bro👍. They like to bully us one way or another and trade us out for another man that is just as nieve as the one before.

[@wildbill562]

I once married a hot Filipina. As long as i said YES to her every desire, things went fine. When I said "NO, bitch" WW3 broke out. She commented, "When i first met you, I thought you couldn't hurt a fly." (meaning: I thought i could easily control you) Fuck that hoe.

[@lionheart3540]

100% TRUTH! If she don't LUST you, she won't LOVE you.

[@RomWills]

FACTS!

[@TheBsheep]

yep!!!

[@rodeorod66]

lust only last but so long! sooner or later shit got to get real!

[@lionheart3540]

rodney washington Unfortunately, the REALITY is she allowed herself to be fooled by STATUS and FAST MONEY. A wake-up call can be a BITCH!

[@ryanLeKing]

..Very Very Good, BRo Heart. ..Truly. Lust and Hope of Physical Pleasure is what's driving These Women.

[@jackmanslightpepper]

Dominance, edginess, assertiveness and emotional indifference. Throw these traits into a toned body and boom. Doesn't matter if he's a bad guy or not. Emotional stimulation....... if she doesn't get that from you, it doesn't matter what you do, or how much money you got...... she will either ignore you or friend-zone you.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@Burrgametate]

Tell that to the women who decides today that she wants something more like a new house and a decent education for her kids. And if he don't got it, then the clock is ticking. Emotional stimulation can get old too, don't forget.

[@ericlarousse1149]

I know a 400 lbs pimp who fights them off with a stick. Toned body not needed.

[@user-qj1bq3gq9x]

​@@ericlarousse1149You right. I have an Athletic build so

[@Superrdave6303]

"When a man turns a woman on, all he needs to do is show up" Boom!

[@RomWills]

Sums it up.

[@BMUSIK101]

It’s true I was fucking with this chick who’s like 5 years younger than me....and she chose me I didn’t have to pay for shit I had more than her and she was buying me shit also she never ask for a dime....she showed me her Facebook inbox it was hundreds of messages...dudes wanting to give her to world ...crazy part she had a boyfriend the whole time....she told me she been like me and she was gonna fuck me whether she’s with him or not

[@Digital_Knight]

I had discussion with a woman with this related topic . She told me a closed mouth dont get feed and I said that is not true because its like flower to the sun all the sun has to do is show up and the flower will grow . If a woman is turned on by certain guy she will do anything for him .

[@RomWills]

That's real talk.

[@vanaphill2454]

Not really. I am turned on by this guy and his brokeness is turning me off.

[@heyitsablackguy9553]

I agree. It's also about control. These women can control losers better than the,"good man." Also those good men aren't considered a challenge to those women at all, that's why they don't choose them unless they got multiple kids or overweight.

[@RomWills]

That control issue is a big thing with many women.

[@michaelalguire419]

You hit it right on the nose. No challenge.

[@hawaiiman33]

It takes a strong mind and a strong will, not to be controlled by anyone dark

[@seanglenn7517]

And your right when a Black Woman who is turned on by a man physically and sexually that Man really doesn't have to do or have anything, He doesn't have to work as hard. As you say all he has to do is be there.

[@aarongray1981]

If i were single right now i guarantee i would have a problem dating women because i have things together on my end, therefore less crap i would take from any woman.

[@RomWills]

That's how it should be.

[@aarongray1981]

Rom Wills Right! Back in the day when i didnt know any better, i took a lot crap from women. Even though i had more than my fair share of sex, in relationships it seemed like i worked harder than her. Then finally i woke up...lol

[@tonymaceo8745]

Your reason is 100% accurate, however it is incomplete. As a person who makes his living in the gutter, I'm telling you that these losers are sported like trophies. The sexual attraction thing is more powerful than many of us are willing to admit in broad daylight. If that loser is lacking socially or financially these women will gladly prop them up at the cost of their own demise.

[@RomWills]

+Tony Maceo Yeah I could have went even deeper but that would take a documentary.

[@tonymaceo8745]

+Rom Wills maybe there should be a documentary.

[@maravilloso002]

The bad men they select are carnal and they "fit in" with their family, friends, relatives, etc. The man is submissive to her culture or identity. Good men with their shit together often conflict with a woman's background and how she bonds and interacts with her family. If you're spiritual, and they are atheists or christians or whatever, you won't fit in no matter what. She has to break away from the moldings of her past and present environments and the relationships she had with those ppl in order for her to choose differently.

[@alextrainor2552]

This is 100 percent true. Fell victim to this as well. Was fucking this girl all year till i asked her to be with me and she did for a while but went back because i have my own life and he has nothing and does whatever she wants and conforms to her family's religious values.

[@maravilloso002]

@@alextrainor2552 You never as a man ask a girl "what are we" or propose y'all get into a relationship. That's the woman's job my guy.

[@user-qj1bq3gq9x]

Women want men that's gonna be able to go outside in the jungle and get the bread. The thing is with nice guys they tend to just lay around a woman all day, worshipping her, instead of being outside on his grind. Now ask yourselves why do women choose certain types of men? Evolution lol

[@abemartinez700]

Well, 3-6 months of strict dieting and exercise can turn your average Joe into Mr.Goodbar. I'm speaking from experience

[@RomWills]

+Abe Martinez Very good point.

[@RomWills]

DaMayorOfNewYork LOL! Everybody can't be like you bruh.

[@RomWills]

DaMayorOfNewYork LOL!

[@rgw1380rw]

Abe Martinez The funny part is many bad boys aren't in shape like many that I know. Some have man boobs, Dunlop syndrome, or no chisel to their build at all. One guy I know has bad body odor, and well known to beat his women to a pulp. We all know that all bad boys aren't handsome, nor well built, but a female will choose them over the gentleman who is handsome and has a decent build.

[@stefonejames8336]

rgw1380rw bro why do you sound like a hater, lol shortstop

[@Osiris909]

Thanks for telling us the painful truth. As they say, the truth will set you free. I am glad I found your videos today.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@catalinaamzi]

One of my teachers back in high school got caught up with a Senior, popular football player. It was all over the news.. she was buying him gifts, even pressured him to get her pregnant. . He had to be laying it down, had to...she was even awarded Teacher of the Year one year.. now her teaching career is screwed..

[@RomWills]

This is too common a scenario. For every teacher getting caught there has to be 20 getting away scott free.

[@catalinaamzi]

Wow! Rom Wills

[@leejee88]

the dude was a lumber jack laying the lumber like a pro have females losing they cot dayum mind

[@Jxo901]

Literally screwed

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

Catalina Amzi lemme guess...she was married too..that’s typically the case.

[@326ka8]

good video.very true.truth be told.this is also the reason that so many black women have kids by losers and complain about their baby daddies because those types of men turned them on in a lustful way and left them as single mothers but couldn't do anything else and when the black women starts struggling with her kids by various guys of this type then they go looking for the smart brother who has his stuff in order but often times those women are rejected by those guys then she complains '"black men ain't shit" or "men are no good" but when you look at her past you will find men of this type in her background.

[@RomWills]

+326Ka Very accurate observation.

[@326ka8]

Rom Wills good video aswell brother.

[@Dr.StraightGutta]

PREACH NIGGA!!! I got the offering plate coming around RHAT NOW!!!

[@326ka8]

Marlon Sublett TRUE SHIT.

[@joebrown7331]

That's a weak woman to fall for lust ...When the game is to find lust and quality ...They have no discipline ..Lack of discipline makes you fall for the first thing and not try to win the whole game ... Here's the trick judge womans choies like you do men to reveal the truth ...

[@spencer42012]

Great Video 💯 💯 I got a lot of insight on this... Warren B says men need to learn how to lower their vibration and sometimes you can get the women you want. It goes back to that sexual imprint....

[@billyperry7999]

One can't buy love or lust matter how much money you have.

[@dexterspeightsii4456]

The ANGEL ON MY SHOULDER THAT TELLING THE TRUTH!

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@drdickskingofautomation]

Excellent videos, I just came across your videos and your speak the truth about black women. I plan to continue to keep watching!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for the support.

[@thomasmartin-rx2uu]

I've said it over and over all a brother has to be is 6ft plus 200plus lbs nothing else will matter,but they will have other races of women as well hence "shortage of good black men."

[@RomWills]

FACTS

[@vernonandrews6310]

thomas martin true! I was 5’ 11” 170 lbs in high school. 30 years later. 6’ 2” 230 lbs! Life is good!

[@marcosdelossantos1308]

One of my female cousins told me one day that the best sex she ever had was with the dude that is in jail.

[@ROD2REALTV]

He was fucking for his life that’s why

[@prometheuscall5759]

You broke it down real good. truth

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MackeyDeez]

This explains the dynamic I had with an older married woman I used to fuck around with. Even after she and her husband separated I still had to sneak in through the back door. And even today she still tells people that I'm her god brother when I'm really the poontang man.

[@RomWills]

Yeah I know about the back door. I never said I was a saint.

[@Womanofthepast]

In my opinion it has nothing to do with control! Woman likes man who has the ability to make you feel like a real woman and I'm talking about the bedroom. If a woman is not interested of the bedroom then she's interested of the money.. if she's not interested of the money or the bedroom than she's interested in the warriors type of man with courage slides for a good cause were example but, just a flat man who just work and have a little salary and has nothing to offer in intimate bedroom then, yeah woman will go away.

[@chrissharkey9644]

Great video and subject!

[@doppeekidd]

Video is 7 years ago and just recently seen that yet ANOTHER teacher was caught doing sum with a student... married to a cop and everything. Rom wills provides real world information about the nature of a woman... shout out to u brother.

[@BP-lu9th]

LMFAO!!! listen baby I ain't got nothing but I'll eat dat box lmfaooooo. come get some lemonade lollllll

[@RomWills]

That's how some men do it.

[@lsporter88]

Very true.

[@lets_b_frank6956]

My 2nd point is this. Since the BF is unhindered would it be much of a stretch to say that the " good BM " is the 2nd choice. I've hear BF say that the non-BF who date / marry the " good BM " considers them a 2nd choice as she could not get the non-BM that she desired. So if the " good BM " is the 2nd choice all around then why would it matter where the " good BM " places his seed. For some reason I can't get an answer to this question.

[@RomWills]

+Lets_B_Frank Many Black women want that safety net of a Good Black Man regardless of how many losers she has been with. Many women will knowingly have their fun with Thugs and Players when they are young and then find a Good guy to settle with down the road. This is even in cases when the woman doesn't have children.

[@omj170]

great vid! subbed

[@RomWills]

+Ota 5 Thank you.

[@SN-yn6it]

Yeah, I remember when I was broke fresh out of college and could hardly afford gas much less chick-fil-a. All I ever did was work and go to the gym That was when I first started seeing women specifically older women lusting after me heavy. Very aggressively in the Starbucks. Rom is right, sex appeal is everything. You shouldn’t have to spend 5 cents on a women if she really lusts after you.

[@mauricechristian2786]

U forgot one more thing rom! Good points btw but what about some woman who choose men just for the sole purpose to change them. Gettin with men who lack in certain area but they get with them to try and "customize" the man to there "standings" keep up the good work! Thanks for the videos.

[@RomWills]

I probably covered that in different videos.

[@chadfox6030]

This is facts 💯 unfortunately. I’m absolutely convinced that women hate a guy who has a shit together. I’ve got more play being homeless bouncing around the United States than I ever have now that I have my shit together . It’s weird. I also notice that these chicks play a hell of a lot more games when they see that you are clean cut and together

[@paulwells5402]

Mr. Wills, your channel is real important. When we gonna see some sponsors?

[@RomWills]

I got some.

[@paulwells5402]

Rom Wills That's good. Your post make sense to me and I'm thankful for them.

[@DaLHasMo21]

Messing up the #1 rule, NEVER judge a man on the first night

[@yannnick1]

Great video

[@Mossy500A]

Very informative.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Iamomolara]

so true

[@RomWills]

Thank you sista.

[@wearethefuture21]

That's true about the sex. Also, good guys can be boring and many time can't penetrate a woman's mind with interesting ideas and challenge her the same way a loser can. Nice guys can have a status quo mindset that does not resonate with black women who are counter culture from birth.

[@RomWills]

At least you're being honest.

[@Youngboi8169]

I can relate, I’m coming from living with my kid’s mother and paying the bills to job slowed down and now I’m not with my kids mother, if you get the hint. Hell my car even let me down, so I’m careless too. I do ALOT of walking to get I need most times. I’m at my partners house, was sleeping on the sofa. But I workout still, I read, I still work but whenever I can get there. But what I notice is that women still look and say things. I know they see me walking, hell I was walking to the store and girl yelled out” you fine as fuck.” Girls who work at the quiktrip, smile and flirt and I know they seen me walking because I seen them see me walking. One girl I mess with here and there, we were sitting on the sofa and I told her this is where I slept, so this is where it’s going to happen. Eventually I got an air mattress and she still comes over, will smoke and sometimes takes me where I need to go at times. But the reason why I’m having sex with her because she was the aggressor. If not, I wouldn’t have pursued, I just don’t feel right approaching a woman at this point.. I’ll look and check them out, but don’t approach

[@valarieford8417]

Sometimes you don't know that you have picked up a loser some men lie then after a couple months you see things I met a man on a dating site who drinks to much drinks early in the morning has a job. I meet another man everything was cool he worked everything was great then then he started asking for loans he confessed he said you meet the right man at the wrong time he had money problems

[@RomWills]

You have to ask hard questions and pay attnetion to actions.

[@alonzoterrell2773]

Yeah I feel that cause it’s hella older women that’s into me cause I could put it down and in shape but I don’t got money like that yet I’m a work in progress but shit u right tho unk rom they just wanna see that beast that gonna beat it up but shit ima get my shit together and be a better version of myself then yesterday 💯

[@marlobx7442]

Stay focused brother

[@treylovely1418]

@alonzo Terrell older women tell me I’m too young for them and I’m 27 I cannot put myself in your shoes

[@ernestmarshall8452]

Truth

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@seamusohoulihan666]

6:05 MESSAGE!!!!!

[@lets_b_frank6956]

Brother would I be wrong to say that there may be a cultural component to this even though it applies 2 all women. I'm thinking that since the BC is not a patriarchal society where the men place cultural boundaries on females to stay within cultural norms that BF are in a way unhindered in expressing this behavior publicly without fear of sanction from the " Good black man".

[@RomWills]

+Lets_B_Frank There's a definite cultural component in all of this. Universal problem though but there are nuances depending on the culture and subcultures.

[@roderick2722]

That porn music joke was funny as hell

[@hawaiiman33]

One issue is financial pleasure

[@francoisbienaimephotograph1091]

I like your francais !!!

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@marlobx7442]

Deep

[@burgernfries9720]

17 yrs old is way too old for a female school teacher. 14-16 is the age they like

[@RomWills]

Yeah they like them young.

[@jamesharris30096]

Black culture

[@ANON-G]

Western culture

[@solothywise3874]

That teacher thing sad such a waste.

[@ianbark7571]

is it ok to be attracted to oneself find ur self attractive comfortable under my skin.. or is it mental illness Cuz ion know something about me that I love myself u could say I got crush on myself its almost like I get instant turn on when I look at myself in the corner mirror.. Shiite I even say I'm very valuable person

[@RomWills]

Self love is very important.

[@livics610]

True dat! I love to have the feels like he's so special and when he walkps up on door and see that man, I kinda wet myself like crazy. This kind of feeling is smth I would die for... And only bad guys can deliver that to us... It's a constant struggle within our souls. Don't you think that we are not shattered by our twisted nature... But the thing is not all thugs can be good fathers, that's all...

[@corsicanlulu]

i feel u girl!! but we gotta wake up and smell the roses cuz these bad boys will destroy our lives

[@joebrown7331]

woman are like planets ..they have all natures in them not just twisted nature..the weaker one let their lower nature take over ..

[@karimbennett5651]

Enough is enough and too much is too much. I am with you in criticizing the poor relationship choices many black women make. But can we, as black men, do this without attacking and calling other black men "losers." Is it really necessary to be catty like that? A lot of dudes out there are not what they should be, not what they could be, and not what they're going to be; but the only time we should be looking down on a brotha is to help him up and show him how to be better.

[@RomWills]

You make a good point. I like your attitude. I'll check my use of the term in the future.

[@markgibbs2303]

Karim Bennett

[@markgibbs2303]

Karim Bennett dude shut the fuck up seriously call a spade a spade

[@Mr.Boddie]

Karim Bennett hey if the shoe fits wear it.

[@Health_Is_Wealth_Media]

I also say that its always that one dude that she will let hit for nothing.

[@RomWills]

That's how it is.

[@StreetsidePhotoOnline]

All of you fellas from yourself, to TS, to Oshay, to mgtow, dont realize the changes you are making to the spines of men to actyually acknowledge wats going on. Dont let up until change is embedded in society. If not, I'm cool I wont get married anyway and save money for my old age lol

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@sagetscippio8878]

💯💯

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jayslungsbloodclot2733]

6:22

[@victorkyalo76]

it is masculinity guys. Work on that and you will be both

[@damiie81]

Billion-dollar game thank you.

[@damiie81]

Next time I see this I know what's up lol

[@karolakarola5375]

A man without a job - or not looking for a job - No thanks.

[@Joker200084]

LoL thats not reality...maybe you. And it's all good... =P

[@karolakarola5375]

+DaMayorOfNewYork That was a very colourful comment :-)

[@karolakarola5375]

+DaMayorOfNewYork I dont know, maybe for some women, I dont think that deeply about things.

[@TrollingWithTheTruth]

hypergamy in a nutshell