12 Ways You Can be a High Value Woman He’ll Never Want to Leave 👑👸

[@SabrinaBendory]

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[@etorresrodz]

Loved your make up in this video! The daylight work also well with you :)

[@marizadelprado6890]

Love it

[@moresingingandstuff8485]

HOW do i walk away? Just stop answering calls? Or,, do i say, " I'm not feeling this."

[@natashajacobs5579]

“You build self esteem by walking away from things you don’t want” so powerful

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

Amen and Amen!

[@x.v.7348]

I walked away from a guy who didn‘t prioritize me over his female friend. I don’t regret it, because I know I deserve better

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

Amen. Yes. Going thru this right now in my marriage. I am not first because he doesn’t believe he needs to end it.

[@jumutudor4095]

Getting The Kissing Booth 2 vibes over here

[@deliageorgianasocaci8670]

I had the same situation. I totally agree to walk away.

[@pattyaap7345]

I got chills when I read your comment. Well done!

[@kat9587]

Ditto. I walked away from a guy who didn’t prioritise me over his male friends. I wish him a very happy life with his mates.

[@ramashaban8145]

1-decide 2-full life 3-look the best 4-have boundaries (standers) 5-use walk away 6-don’t obsessed 7- don’t show off ( don’t talk about yourself) 8- don’t wait insurance for self esteem 9-yourself first 10-be good person 11- accept yourself 12-fake it till you make it 13-…

[@deliageorgianasocaci8670]

I was in a toxic relationship. Not appreciated, he would go out with his friends and left me alone. I had a surgery and didn’t come to my hospital and not even call ...:( this was so painful 😣 and I was in love with him completely. In the morning I was going to work and decided: this is over. I told him on what s up he accepted and said he doesn’t love me (more pain)...I had a few weeks hard at work and by night but...after a few months my self esteem is back, I feel so much better and no more pain so much happier. The power of walking away is amazing. When u are disrespected, taken for granted,0 effort from him, toxic relationship walking away is so powerful !

[@Chahlie]

It all goes so much deeper. Most of us women with low/no self esteem have had a narcissist family of origin. It's a long road to recover. You need to change your entire way of being going way back to your childhood. For me it was 45 years of having low self esteem drilled into me. I will probably never have another romantic relationship but the difference is that I am now happy with that :)

[@mathmommy]

Same here. I’m starting to accept that a romantic relationship is not in the cards for me. But you know what, it’s totally okay. I would rather be single forever before I settle!

[@rhealee4775]

iiiizuuiii

[@dfair277]

Watch what you say to yourself hun.

[@ginag1290]

I come from a messed up dysfunctional broken home. I now find myself struggling in my marriage of 11 years . I guess I cant see some bad qualities I have on my own. I am praying for God to help me be a better wife and I see things differently in my marriage and I can overcome my narcissist uncles on my dads side and low expectation grandmother who just said negative things about me and my siblings when ever we visited. Dad got weekend visitation rights. Almost all of my family had been divorced, so I had few role models. I am working on making my life have more quality in relation to my husband and children and people around me .

[@Chris-tg3qy]

I love that you said it the way it is. Stop wasting time on losers and damage cases. Love yourself and be happy being by yourself. The minute you think you need someone, and accept anyone without standards into your life, is the minute you invite losers in.

[@rainetravels1410]

Agree with this video I learned this through trial and error just wish I figured it out before I got older...

[@babmanalt2433]

My self esteem is increasing. I can feel it because I really like this guy but he was honest in sainv that he was not willing to give me what I want. I first I was accepting his ways, but later I realize that's not what I want. I moved on and have set boundaries for myself. Although I like him, I have to love myself first.

[@natashajacobs5579]

I definitely need to work on being a high value woman. Him being uninterested is not a reflection of my worth. I am worthy!

[@cherylhulting1301]

Ladies, believe in yourself. You are irreplaceable. Live your most authentic life. Develop your heart and mind to the best of your abilities and share your gifts as you see fit. Make sure to ace the toxic people. They will only hold you back and down. Develop your best sense of who really values you and don't hurt yourself too much if your trust sometimes turns out not to be merited. We just learn. People can be shallow and manipulative; don't let that get to your beautiful self. Believe in your own dignity and inherent worth. No one gives you your status in society or your worth - that's yours to make and own. No one can put a price tag on you or take that away from you. If they try, it's all about them, not you. That's all you need to know, ladies. Rock on.

[@deborahhernandez5774]

I wish I would've seen this 5 months ago. Better late than never.

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

ME TOo!

[@itsmagdalenaaa]

damn so i haven’t seen this til 8 months later

[@Kankun512]

Same here

[@curlywomen6288]

I just don't what to do..He really loves me , cares for me and all but he is not ready for commitment. By commitment I mean to say marriage. So I just don't know what to do.

[@mfar7400]

Same lol, its hard to put into practice when you’re in that situation. But this does not just apply to relationship advice this applies to ALL kinds of relationships

[@BajanPana]

I’m literally going through this now. Lost all confidence and gained low self esteem by questioning his reasons for not being consistent. The pandemic situation didn’t really help much either. I think he’s trying to build his ego by talking to as many women that he can but he’ll just text me whenever

[@estherjosaijgcccjosaih5172]

It happened to me too.he broke up with cause I try to talk about his bs and disrespectful way he treat.i didn't beg or anything I accepted and left after 2 weeks he didn't call .he was just messaging me up and but I replied we did that back and forth but I later said to myself. This guy never called,nor apologized and he want to just act like everything is okay by texting? So I put him in his place and told him to not text me again and that am done taking his bs.i love me and appreciate me ,so I won't allow him make me feel less or treat me less.So yes I dumped him without looking back.

[@diamonds8001]

@@estherjosaijgcccjosaih5172 Don't you hate it when some men can't take responsibility for their actions?

[@texasstardust6010]

I once had a friend ( former best friend) who had to make sure she expressed to men...." I am good woman ", when in conversation about generalities in life, or conversation about why she was divorced. It became annoying, because it was unnecessary.. .so ... one evening, we're out on a girl's night out, I took her to the Ladies Room, and asked her ( being kind about it) why she felt she needed to do this ; she really had no idea " why ".....I explained to her ,that in attempts to " validate herself ", it was coming across as a bit narcissistic and might be a red flag for some men. I asked her if she knew the quote from Margaret Thatcher.... " Being powerful is like being a Lady , .. If you have to tell people you are,..then you're not. " She got the message, lol.

[@debbiedyer9318]

This was an empowering message and immediately useful information. The problem is that self-esteem takes time, and, to your point, no man will create self-esteem in any woman - she has to create it herself. Understanding that and having healthy boundaries (a very hard lesson) is the best advice for all women. I’m a psychologist and do this work with my clients almost everyday. Self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence are all internally defined. If you allow your sense of self to be defined by other people or situations, you will always be miserable because those will always change and shift. You don’t have any control of that - you only have control over your own thoughts, feelings and behavior. My two cents :)

[@tintinpenaredondo6531]

I love myself, I am vulnerable and valuable, I am worthy of respect and love! Who walks my boundaries again and again I cut to my life.

[@chrisbyrnes7368]

Another great video! From a man point of view everything Sabrina is saying is very attractive for a man and types of qualities a high quality man will chase and want to commit too! My only advice is once you have a high quality man keep being a high quality woman and don’t stop doing what you were doing before and you will continue to be happy with yourself and in relationship!

[@justinlancaster2854]

I totally disagree with this assessment. Nothing about this self-absorption and self-centered self-promotion would make a woman an attractive partner to pursue. Very skewed view of “value.” How about skills and traits that go toward partnering, parenting, cooperating, listening, supporting, etc. This is sad hogwash. Good luck to these high value women!

[@MzJauna11]

12 Way to be a High Value Woman. 1. Decide you are a woman of high value. Watch how you talk to yourself. 2. Have a full life. Do not wait for a man to complete you. Stop stressing about finding a guy. Exercise and have fun! 3. Look your best! 😍 When you look good, you feel good! 4. Have boundaries and stick to them! Prioritize yourself and your feelings. Do not abandon yourself! Have standards. Do not put up with poor treatment no matter how much you like a person. 5. Use your walking power. Be ok with walking away from a relationship that you do not want. 6. Do not obsess over your relationship, enjoy them! You are worthy of love 😚 7. Do not show off or try to prove your worth. 8. Do not rely on his reassurance to make you feel good about yourself. 9. Put yourself first! Do not bend over backwards trying to put your man first. 10. Be a good person. 11. Embrace yourself fully! Accept yourself for exactly who you are. Work on being your own best friend. 12. Fake it until you make it. Be Confident!

[@rndmkt]

Thanks!

[@MzJauna11]

@@rndmkt your welcome 😊

[@marciadawkins7731]

Awesome!

[@azurebing123]

Dejaunia Williams I like 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 and 11!

[@Peal99t]

@Dejaunia Williams....Thanks a million...!!!! I think these 12 points are important in life period...!!!!!

[@lanettewilliams7122]

I completely agree with what was said in this video. A lot hangs on being a woman of value because it save you from heartache and you know you do not have to accept what you do not want.

[@DrSharbari]

One thing I want to add is keeping no expectations from anyone.. No one except you yourself!! Key to happiness

[@danielleridgeway3857]

This is so good! Just went through a break up and am realizing how important it is to have boundaries

[@Naomily]

Wow. This was one of your greatest videos (speaking as a person who isn't in a relationship). I'll need to watch it again and again, and maybe post reminders of the points around my home. Thank you so much.

[@SabrinaBendory]

Wow, thank you!

[@reshikaarjoon5434]

The post reminders are an excellent idea Naomi !!!.Will be doing this😊

[@melindamary5913]

I'm going to play this same one all night.

[@lisawentworth6831]

I [normally] am a confident woman...that's what my partner was attracted to. Then he felt intimidated by my confidence...so somewhere along the line, I became a doormat. This week I have been plunged into another depression as he pulled away. Today, randomly my neighbor came upstairs [as I looked like the dogs dinner] and he said 'we each have two wolves; one is nice and one is mean. Be mindful of which one you feed'. I never knew I had a good wolf, but that bad one, ate Red Riding hood and her whole family in my life! I am going to try to get back to being a high value woman...

[@sameena713]

How's it going?

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@sameena713 Fine...I used more patience and tenderness and won the love of my life back, because I knew he was worth it.

[@juliadiaz7560]

I am super insecure and I always try to get a man to appreciate me and love me by telling them what I’m doing for them to try to make them stay but this video is going to help me out to learn my self worth

[@SabrinaBendory]

You got this!

[@georgetbutler454]

You will find it a miraculous and happy change. Once you've been there, being anywhere else is a waste of your time. You feel you deserve better and you are correct. Insist on it!

[@diouranke]

I've been there too

[@lisasinclair2748]

Aaaaargh please STOP and never, ever behave like that again. It's a massive turnoff when your GF starts acting like your MOTHER! (Said with love and care). Good luck. ps you should be asking yourself - what is my BF doing for me. Not in a selfish greedy way, but a real 'partner' should voluntarily add value to your life, not take from your life. Happy to give you more tips! Just ask.

[@sameena713]

That's sounds like a lot of energy, energy that you could put into yourself. Hope you've gotten better at it.

[@hakunasjamatata9816]

My person wants me to lose weight but he says it in a threatening manner. So, i told him in a nice way to find a gurl who best fits his desire. Is that being confident?

[@dianasoto7011]

You know, I had the same problem, and I lost 60 lbs, it didn't stop my husband from continuing to screw around on me. After 11 years of hell, I finally left him for good.

[@Tarasyoutube]

You should probably lose the weight. (If its possible, could be from medication and difficult or impossible btw...) But you should also have a huge talk about his language with him. Tell him you took it as abusive. (Which could be, or he doesnt know how to talk about leaving you, what he wants, etc.) If you get hurt or attacked more and no understanding human connection or apology once it sinks in (a real one, not the smoothe, player abusive kind) RUN he is abusive. You dodged a bullet and thank god you're overweight and got to see the truth about his level of meanness inside.

[@hakunasjamatata9816]

@@Tarasyoutube i love this dearest. Such a positive reinforcement. Thank u!!! 💖

[@ranjitadutta3854]

Yes. Losing weight shud b ur choice nt being forced abt it.

[@revelrove]

I agree with all your points and would add, find out what your life mission is. So many of us are brainwashed into thinking that a romantic relationship is so fulfilling and so important when I haven’t found it to be true. To me nothing is greater than being free and creative, just like my life path number 3 would indicate. I realize that the less I attach to any notion, the better my life is. Though I’ve learned from all my dating experiences, they haven’t been anything close to earth shattering. We need to get real.

[@neekooneshotparvar3201]

Sabrina? Can you talk about men being cheated on and how they react towards their potential future relationship? I wanna know how is it like to facing such men?

[@nandniprasad498]

She is so intelligent. Absolutely correct. I would love to listen her everyday.

[@a.tezeno2853]

She touched on everything I wanted to know

[@icarolineg]

I really need this scolding. Thank you! Finally some one that doesn't try to sugar coat it. Thank you for being honest.

[@zarifeseymaozdemir4450]

+ no one shouldn’t forget if someone is going even though you have these features, that means that’s a great chance for you to have someone you deserve 🤩

[@tamaravelazquez5994]

I kinda got into your videos thinking they were going to be about how to impress mens and be atractive for them, but then i realiced that this videos are more about self love and those tips about how to be a high value woman are also usefull to put into practice in any type of relationship like friendship :DDD Thank you!

[@lovetrustandpixiedust]

This video is so essential. I'm bookmarking it for life. Thank you, Sabrina!

[@clarepetzer7119]

I agree; thank you thank you thank you 👏🙏 I actually thought I was a high value woman until I saw this video, I used to say all those things to myself that you said to say when I was by myself but I couldn't have really meant them because as soon as a potential mate came along my boundaries would collapse and I wouldn't stick to the things I'd promised myself, and I've been let down more times than I care to admit or remember. I feel more confident about my choices now that I've seen your video and I'm going to start to have the courage of my convictions; I am now a woman of value. Many many thanks to you and your channel, I'm dealing with some heavy stuff at the moment and listening to you tonight has been like therapy, so thanks again... You are definitely a high value person x

[@awake6472]

I so needed this and believe this is spot on. Working on yourself to be better physically spiritually and emotionally THANKS its all about growth

[@deeshaminzies5655]

I’m so glad you made this video because we hear that we have to have these qualities but not how to get there. Very useful. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@SabrinaBendory]

I'm so glad!

[@Bridgets524]

I completely agree with your list! I've done a lot of that for a long time, it is an ongoing process! Working out has wonders!!💗

[@SabrinaBendory]

Absolutely!

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

How are you so strong!.. And thank you Sabrina, you help a lot of women with your videos. In a world where a lot of the times, women FIGHT over the men and or are jealous and catty for petty reasons, you (and a few other women dating coaches) bring it!

[@priscillapillay9]

Thank You Sabrina for being there for me ! you have been my mentor for the last 3 years. you taught me so many valuable pearls.

[@SabrinaBendory]

You are so welcome!

[@78saloniagrahari7]

A much needed video... on self love... self importance and self self worth... loved it❤️

[@evegarcia9771]

Thank you. I just use the 'boundaries'.. And it works...

[@LucieBeatrix]

I love this message and agree with everything you are saying! Yes to being high value women!

[@ildikoegervari8664]

I love every word you say, your channels is my absolutely fav! :)) Thank you so much. 🌷

[@OShaughnessyC]

Blue suits you very well, Sabrina!

[@SabrinaBendory]

Thank you!

[@taragorm8097]

Christina I lost your number. I am back in Lodeve next week. Jacinta

[@almad212]

First of all - thank you for a very insightful video. Second of all: you look amazing in this video. Gorgeous make up and styling!🌻

[@carleenrusso7283]

so glad I watched this. never settle.

[@kat9587]

We need more of these messages out there and more young girls to get the meno.

[@vanessacharles9698]

Great advice. Always learning and growing. Number one priority is being kind to my self. By resolving the inner critic with a positive approach. Eating well Dress well Support our Mental and physical fitness and finding the joy no matter how small. I’ve realised a lot of the time people project there pain and habits but that doesn’t mean there ours to take on to be responsible for🙏 Listening, being kind and having boundaries are the kindest thing we can put in place for our selves 🙏

[@ginadibucchianico7984]

I love this and its what I am aiming for been doing allot of self reflection. Thank you for your help💕

[@emilymann4056]

I remember i walked away from a guy that was stringing me along

[@brigitte3828]

Your videos are great your advice couldn.t be more spot on I am so greatful for all of your advice .

[@snowmaiden5408]

Great video. Wish i got this advice 20 years ago. But u never 2 old to learn. Thanks Sabrina and Team. ❤

[@hirschiegirl]

This advice is GOLD!! 🌟 Thank you! 🤗

[@pattyaap7345]

Great advice!!! I agree with all of them!! This video will help out a lot of women, thank you for sharing it.

[@kyladanae]

I literally do all the wrong things all the time. No wonder I’m single. Good video!

[@angelicazhuzhang6140]

Hi Sabrina. Thank you for your consistency and hard work. They are really helpful, and most importantly, because your videos are made with honesty and love.

[@lainealonzo2926]

This is really the best video I ever watch. This really helps to every woman and making a high value woman Thank you Sabrina This is really a good advice

[@marilyncervantes356]

Hello Sabrina from Philippines, I really like your videos, specially how you talk and im enjoyed watching it a lot 🤭 not only that, its very useful to me 😜 too. Thank you so much and looking forward to watch more videos of you in the future..stay safe ❤️❤️❤️

[@lavendarj7318]

Thank you… your so right .. i needed this

[@lenmangiselpolizon7938]

I really need this..thank you for boosting my self esteem

[@love2vintage]

Oh I can’t explain how much I love your videos, absolutely brilliant and so spot on, thanks you so much ❤️

[@mikasa92]

Sabrina This video really resonated with me -I am going to archive this video so that I can reflect back to it when I start feeling a lack of self-esteem. Thank you so much this was a great video. Very helpful.

[@SabrinaBendory]

Amazing! So happy to hear it!

[@naominatural79]

One of the best counselors ❤️

[@meganhersom3116]

Thank you for always telling it like it is. Your advice changes my mind and actually works.

[@dfair277]

You were so on point. Enough said.

[@neetu7151]

Excellent content... Beautifully articulated by you. Definitely needed to hear this. Thank you

[@SabrinaBendory]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tracyfrancis9035]

Thankyou so much ....i been in a situation for 4 years where im the only one trying while his "busy working " but wont let me go ....i needed to hear this , tbankyou friend x

[@sunshine-lq2zp]

One of your best videos yet...Thank you!!

[@stephaniechewning9121]

Amazing content! I will share this with my daughter and look for videos on boundaries. I have never had good boundaries since I was a child. Thank you!

[@sabinamammadli9632]

I am currently working on it, thank you very much!

[@Gale345]

Thank you for this video Sabrina. Its what I needed. ❤️

[@romdays6713]

I like the way you explain it. Thanks.

[@michellemohammed195]

Thank You Sabrina!!! Oh I live for your videos

[@SabrinaBendory]

I'm so glad!

[@rachelg6962]

Thank you very good information, we need more videos like this for all woman 😊💖🙏

[@stephanieclark6526]

So motivating thanks this video was great

[@Edith-wn4hp]

Thank you so much... 🙏🏻💙

[@kartikakitty8391]

Wow. Very nice video. A great channel. Love your channel

[@patiadomaitis2840]

I really needed to watch this today

[@alcudiababe1]

Sometimes when I feel like shit I don't allow myself to feel like shit. I put on some music and go around the house looking for something to do. Sometimes when I think I can't be arsed, sometimes all I need to do is wash my hair and put some makeup on and my husbands like where are you going? Most of the time I fight against how I actually feel. My husband is the complete opposite and he can get very low - so I try and combat my feelings. I try to for him. Sometimes he listens.

[@arashk0]

Very useful talk.thank you so much.

[@Miss_Serah]

thank you for this Sabrina, its really helpful.

[@morgandouglas9455]

Love this video! Best one so far! Thank you Sabrina!!

[@SabrinaBendory]

You're so welcome!

[@tonyacarpenter4983]

You’re awesome!! Thanks for the video it’s a lot of reminders!! 😃

[@MACX-eb3cn]

I met a guy online and we texted just that day, he asked for my number. I wanted to text for a couple days first to see if I liked him enough first. But I gave it to him same day, I figured I could block him if I had to. He wants to meet sometime next week. His comment was, Your place, or mine? Im thinking, yes, Covid times, but there's still outdoor restaurants, but I didn't say it because. He says, "I'm not into PDA. Let's have a kissing test. If you can't kiss, it's a dealbreaker. I'm not waiting 2 weeks to find out you can't kiss."

[@danielleridgeway3857]

Sounds like you need to block him already.

[@reshikaarjoon5434]

@@danielleridgeway3857 Lose the loser!!!!!

[@reshikaarjoon5434]

Sorry Danielle Comment meant for X13X

[@carmenhayes8680]

Thank you so much! I am my own bestfriend.

[@firepuma777]

OMG!!! THANKS A LOT SABRINA!!!! I wanted this.....thnk u..!!!!

[@SabrinaBendory]

You're welcome 😊

[@reshikaarjoon5434]

Hello Sabrina thank you so much in the past month since i have discovered your videos you have lifted my spirit and changed my life for the better. Stay blessed

[@reshikaarjoon5434]

I'm watching this video over and over again !!! and each time i watch it i feel more and more inspired ❤. You are truly a godsend

[@SabrinaBendory]

Thank you! So glad you enjoyed!

[@jbruce]

I really needed this so so much! Thanks a ton!

[@Mesmerising_Eyes]

Thank you so much ❤

[@Songs-ls2pr]

Excellent advice

[@missindigo5770]

Thank u Lady S...love all your videos it helped me a lot..greetings from Philippines!!!!😘

[@tianiemitchell5692]

Write a list of your positive attributes and then write a list of your negative attributes you know like argumentative or whatever "Focus on your positive attributes working on improving your negative ones for getting rid of them."

[@fluffykookie230]

Hey your videos are usefull and thank you. 😃 Also can you please make a video about how to show our jelaousy without sounding needy altough we are not? Expressing our jelaousy over that guy without being missunderstood and ruining it is something really I wonder personally.

[@MotherIsRising]

love your content. thank you

[@eddie90059]

Awesome and I really appreciate your videos

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

How can I begin to teach my daughters these things? I think now during quarantine is the best time but I don't want to overwhelm them! They are 12 and 13 but the younger the better and before boys! Lol LBVS

[@byhafsii821]

for me thats the best video thankyou ❤⭐

[@Balodup]

I need to learn this by heart

[@nika...]

This is so helpful thank you!

[@lyndamcmullen9410]

Great video. Thanks ♥️ yes blue looks great on you