The Reality Of Life As A Little Person

[@TheFirestarter1992]

I love how Pam mentioned that kids are usually just curious when they ask questions. My niece is one of those curious kids, I have hearing loss and ADHD so I can’t always understand what she’s saying and I forget things a lot. Around when she was 4 she started asking why I couldn’t hear her and why I forgot things. Now she 5 and 1/2 and when I ask her to repeat herself she actually gets louder (sometimes too loud but she’s 5 🤷‍♀️) and is starting to say my name before she starts talking so I know she’s talking to me. Also if my ADHD is acting up and I’m forgetting more than usual she ask if my brain is having a bad day cause it’s different because that’s what I told her when she asked. She knows that I’m different but she doesn’t care and is willing to work with me when I’m having a bad day. (Side note: one time she kissed my head and told me my brain was all better now, I almost cried)

[@amybarnard8026]

I also have ADHD and hearing loss! My nephew is currently 3 and hasn't quite clicked why I struggle but I can't wait to teach him about my problems so that he can be more accepting of others

[@Ailieorz]

That 'saying your name before talking' is soooooo important! Gives you that second to switch on so you can listen

[@HumanHuman-fe8rc]

When you have a bad brain day :c

[@tiny-angry-chicken]

That's so freakin sweet, adorable 🥺🤧

[@akaiatama]

BRO THAT SO CUTE

[@alexdavis5766]

Loved what Pam said about being disabled and how disabled people don’t wish they weren’t disabled just that they wish the world was more accessible. Really needed to head that today, I’m disabled and a full time wheelchair user, last few days have been testing and I’ve found myself wishing I wasn’t disabled but she reminded me that I shouldn’t be the one to wish I could change (and I obviously can’t) I wish the world was more accessible to make our lives so much easier. In 2022 it should be an issue.

[@fabrizanna7575]

I totally agree with you! I have dyslexia and my entire school experience has been made for people who aren’t like me. It’s felt like im the one who needs to change my disability in order to be able to be like everyone else when in reality i think the world needs to be more accommodating. Pam is such an amazing person.

[@akt9]

I was the complete opposite of that, me having fragile x syndrome I had always wished I was quote "normal" like everyone else. I had this mind set of why can't I be like everyone else, why can't my IQ be high, why can't I understand certain things. Through therapy I've learned to accept myself as I am, learning to be proud of my disability 😊. And learning to say hey I'm capable of doing anything I put my mind to!

[@rhov-anion]

@@fabrizanna7575 I also have dyslexia and dyscalculia. A wonderful 4th grade teacher named Mr. Rios got me out of the mindset of "I'm disabled so I'm not able" and instead told me "No, you have a learning challenge, so take up the challenge and fight!" He took the time to teach me how to read (something other teachers simply dismissed). However, numbers remain a mystery and a massive challenge. I honestly can't tell if a number is 123, 321, 231, etc. I was a straight-A student with a D- in Algebra. The school refused to give me a break due to my "learning challenge," and try I might, I simply could not get numbers right. When I reached college, it was required that I take at least basic College Algebra (since I was so terrible in high school). They at least offered self-paced classes, but I struggled to even get through the lower math levels to reach College Algebra. At last, the college started a new program: "Algebra for Liberal Arts Majors." Rather than dealing with numbers and getting them twisted around in my brain, I could do art that demonstrates the mathematical properties, or write essays about the mathematicians, or write a song that explains the math theorems. Basically I could be creative in whichever way worked for my brain. It was the first time in my life that I scored an A in math. Simply by the school realizing, not everyone has a brain that works with numbers, but we still use math in art, music, and life in general.

[@cbryce9243]

I too use a wheelchair. The hardest part for me is when the restroom has a sign that says it is accessible, but you get to the door it's so heavy I can't open it, or I can't shut the toilet door because I can't get in far enough to close it. It's embarrassing. I am almost to the point of wearing adult diapers so I don't have to go through that.

[@cbryce9243]

@@fabrizanna7575 I am in my 60's. Back in my school years, dyslexic kids were told we were lazy and not trying hard enough. I was 40 yrs old when I found out I had 3 kinds of dyslexia and I didn't learn to read until I went to a community college to learn how to read and write. It's sad to hear they still don't help people with dyslexia, that's really crummy. Have you ever considered contacting the media to tell your story?

[@maddieguise1309]

I love this. My Mum tells a story of when I was 2 years old we met a Little Person on a train and I asked him "Mister, why are you so small?" He apparently replied "Because I didn't eat my Vegetables".... 😅😅😅

[@Burning_Dwarf]

Little kids are so fun My 6'8 ex was asked "Sir, can you touch the clouds" and "why are you so long" (yes they said long)

[@dimaster5880]

I am shocked how you remember that from 2 years old. And yes that's hilarious.

[@mlapointej]

@@Burning_Dwarf One side my mother's have shorter people frequently, my grandma was 4' 10, and the other side have people who average around 6' 3 and up so I've heard a lot of different things. I'm at a nice normal average height rich height but my sons have been in the upper range so we'll see where they finish growing. The older two have feet in men's 14 and 15 shoes, ages 11 and 12.

[@carrot632]

@@dimaster5880 haha her parents told her ofc

[@carrot632]

@@mlapointej oh my, 14 and 15? wow

[@voxkine9385]

I always think this sort of thing is interesting. As a society, we value “tall” and it’s great to see representation like this, but I’m also 6’6” and I know there is no real representation of the other side of things. Being too tall for society is a pain. Every house/building is built way too small for me. When I use sinks, I’m crouching down. Even driving is a HUGE problem for me, as it was difficult to even find a car that I could fit into but even still, I have a very restricted field of view due to the rear view mirror obstructing my vision (right turns are scary sometimes). I actually remember outgrowing play equipment at a young age. So, it’s funny to see a lot of the same problems, but reversed.

[@Burning_Dwarf]

Not talked about nearly enough. Even when someone does not have gigantism, same as being 'regular' short, 'regular' tall can still cause numerous physical, socieital and mental problems. Being out of the norm sucks

[@XAutumnXFlowerX]

I've had to climb counters, if no staff is available I climb the shelfs at stores lol it's a bit dangerous but sometimes I don't want to wait for someone to help. When I was younger wind literally picked me up with an umbrella and I had to stop using them lol. Extremes have challenges no matter which side you're on.

[@soapybsuds]

this reminds of an interview i saw with andre the giant which was for "the princess bride". he said the best part about working on the movie is that no one on set looked at him twice or treated him differently for being big.

[@Burning_Dwarf]

@@soapybsuds André Roussimoff was a soft and gentle man, even despite his raging alcoholism.

[@carelsby]

Dont forget about public transport! It’s so hard to be on planes and busses because they’ve become so cramped!

[@BorealHP]

“I don’t see Tourette’s when I’m with you Pam” “I BARK, yes you do!” I love her

[@kellynolen498]

lol have we seen her tick in any of her apearences i havent noticed her as any different do they edit it out or has she coincidently never had any verbal ticks like the bark example she said

[@Chris-xt8io]

@@kellynolen498 it can be very well controlled with a lot of speech therapy and medicine

[@patiencegrist7122]

I hope these two get married!!!

[@Oshin_Life]

Those two are like bros

[@erehyeager3378]

@@patiencegrist7122 what

[@gmillsy1086]

Honestly kids are ruthless but ask the most honest questions I was volunteering at a summer camp when I was like 16 and we were playing tag, and a little girl comes up to me and goes “why do you run so slow” I just go “cause I don’t run very much and I don’t practice” she just goes “K” and runs off again. I went home and told my mother and she started non stop laughing

[@TRYPH]

Yeah kids can be kinda harsh but for the most part they’re just curious and don’t mean to offend anybody.

[@s___akura]

two asked why im so fat :') im not even THAT fat

[@gmillsy1086]

@@s___akura I’m fat, and when I was playing tag with them they ran away going “THE BIG GUYS IT “

[@lonelycoffee8374]

I teach a kids skating class. One day a boy came in and he said "today it's just me becuase my sister has diarrhea" His poor dad was so embarrassed

[@gmillsy1086]

@@lonelycoffee8374 yea my sister embarrassed my dad this one time, she ran over to him (he was picking her up from school) and he’s going grey, and he dyed his hair, so my innnocent little sister screams at the top of her lungs WOAH DAD YOU DYED YOUR HAIR!

[@Vixxie475]

I spent 8 years in a wheelchair after a bad car crash. One day a kid in a pushchair asked me why i was in a 'pushchair'. Her mother went bright red and apologized. I don't her not to and explained to the kids that i was in an accident and my legs didn't work. It's often not the kids that have the issues it's the parents and i NEVER minded being asked!!

[@amandasnider2644]

I walk with a cane and I'm 27. Kids ask me all the time and mothers are always embarrassed but I don't mind at all. Kid: "Why do you have a cane?" Me: "My feet don't work too good and they hurt a lot so the cane helps me" Kid: "Why?" Me: "My doctor and I am not quite sure." Kid: "Oh...ok!"

[@Bubbles_Art]

Hey, idk if u think this, but I would be proud tbh and if they asked would _totally_ tell them.

[@Vixxie475]

@@Bubbles_Art exactly! The kids was very young so i sugar coated it AND joked it was an adult push chair!! But the fact that they asked made me feel it was a chance for that kid to realise it was ok to ask. My nan was in a wheelchair from age 21. She told me to always be open to kids asking because it would mean they're more open to disability when they're older.

[@Bubbles_Art]

@@Vixxie475 yes! I’m not saying It’s bad but I can’t eat most food and in public I’ll have kids come up and say why can’t u eat that sometimes.

[@mastershooter64]

would it be okay if an adult asked you that? or does it only apply for kids?

[@kateybarnett1145]

I come from a family of 5, All with achondroplasia dwarfism. I would love to come on and talk, answer questions if you’re ever interested. Thanks so much for the visibility and awareness!

[@rempanda]

That would be awesome if Mike saw this and acted on it. Mike has a great knowledge of a lot of medical conditions but collabs with people living with those conditions is just so great to get a fuller picture of their experience.

[@ijustlikebees]

Cool!

[@MM-fg4tw]

TLC would probably give you a whole show if you asked lol

[@cheryl-lynnmehring8606]

That would be awesome! And you could meet Dr Mike & Bear!💘

[@paperstrawsYT]

I love how you see through your differences instead of feeling ashamed about it!

[@L0st.s0ul.eat3r]

I love how Pam mentioned that kids are just curious and learning. I take a medication that causes my body to have involuntary movements like Tourettes, I also have multiple mental disorders that mess with the way I communicate and act. One time I walked into a first or second grade classroom (I forgot what grade) and my neck jerked back and to the side, and one of the kids asked if I was ok. I told them I was and said “I have something that makes me different, and that’s ok! If it ever happens to me just know that I’m different.” And the kid nodded. I came into the classroom one day because I deliver things to lower grade classes for my disabled teacher and my neck I started shaking related bad, and the kid just looked at me and said “It’s ok to be different.” Tbh I cried

[@L0st.s0ul.eat3r]

@For yt anti-depressant called Fluoxetine it is one of the more rare side effects

[@VotEtoPizdets]

5:10 Her explanation as to why Accessibility is so important to her is an incredibly profound and staggeringly simplified response. That actually caught me off guard and reminded me of an individual who is active in my philosophy club. The response similarity and simplification is uncanny.

[@nathanwatt8340]

Please do more of these videos where you look and make disability more "normal". There is nothing "normal" about a disabled person's life, but we don't want to be treated differently. Videos like this help to educate and entertain so that people don't feel weird about approaching disabled people or subjects of conversation with them

[@alecrechtiene558]

I believe being “normal” is “adnormal.” Everyone has something different about them.

[@alecrechtiene558]

@@koreyhayden1368 I’m arguing that nobody is the same, therefore there cannot be a normal. I feel I worded that last one poorly.

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

AWH HELL... As my first ever motorcycle coach ever told me, "Everyone else ONLY ever seems normal until you actually get to know them." AND I know he stole it... I've never bothered looking up who "said it originally"... BUT it's more true than you'd think. "Normal" or "Average" is a construct of statistical modeling... In real life, it simply does not exist. There is no "normal" or "average" individual, and the numbers are all over the place. SO there's your "scientific" answer. ;o)

[@Bumbaclaat360]

If everyone isn’t normal then they are normal 💀

[@SaltyCatling]

@@Bumbaclaat360 100% agree, If everybody is special than nobody trully is, so everone is just normal

[@debjoy12]

wow, my coworker is 6'9" and has exactly the opposite problems, he's had 2 surgeries for a herniated disc and can't bend or lean down without being in pain. I submitted purchase orders for extra long object grabbers, a "big and tall" chair, standing desk, and a 3ft-long scoop for digging dry ice out of the bin whenever we have to send frozen shipments. on the other hand, whenever I'm dusting the tops of the freezers and paperwork flies off I know exactly who put them there 🤣🤣🤣

[@RNS_Aurelius]

When I was in primary school I was considerably above the average height so to use the short desks and chairs properly, I had to lean over constanly. While not as severe as beinng 6'9" it still affects my posture today.

[@anthonykostin5591]

Your coworker needs to try basketball

[@milosstojanovic4623]

Yeah tall people would probably have increased chances of back, or more precisely spine problems. They should start training as soon as possible to build muscle to support spine. Look at basketball players, they are mostly over 195cm, and mostly healthy, but training is everything.

[@castiels_trenchcoat974]

@@anthonykostin5591 like they said, he had two surgeries for herniated discs and can't bend over or lean down without pain. He doesn't need basketball, he needs physical therapy and proper medical attention. Try to actually THINK before commenting something so incredibly tone deaf.

[@debjoy12]

@@anthonykostin5591 lol he has a bad back so no way

[@DoctorAzmain]

I remember learning about achondroplasia at medical school. Genetic counselling is so important for parents. And we have a lot more work to do to ensure that disabled people are not unfairly discriminated and have the same opportunities as everyone else. It’s important to remember that not all disabilities are visible either - and even for those that are visible, you have no idea of what that person is going through behind closed doors. Compassion is key, and we all (including the medical profession) need to continue improving. ❤️

[@christianedaguerre4540]

Malheureusement certains métiers ne leurs sont pas accessibles...infirmière, médecin, chirurgien...une de mes collègues infirmières a eu une intervention sur ses bras et jambes enfant...

[@khalilahd.]

Yes I agree 🧡

[@DoctorAzmain]

@@christianedaguerre4540 [English translation below] Oui c’est vrai malheureusement, mais on a un devoir d’améliorer des occasions pour les personnes handicappées. Les métiers dans le secteur de la santé ont des défis physicales ; cependant, on doit encore offrir des compromis pour aider ces individuels, par souci de l’équité. (Je n’ai pas pratiqué mon français depuis 10 ans, j’espère que j’ai du sens!) Merci pour votre commentaire réfléchi! *Translation:* Yes, unfortunately, this is true, but we have a duty to improve opportunities for people with disabilities. Jobs in the healthcare sector have physical challenges; however, accommodations still need to be made to help these individuals, for the sake of fairness. (I haven't practiced my French in 10 years, I hope I’m making sense!) Thank you for your thoughtful comment!

[@DoctorAzmain]

@@khalilahd. I'm so glad ❤️ we are the change we want to see in the healthcare profession and society!! Loving your videos btw keep it up! 😊

[@christianedaguerre4540]

@@DoctorAzmain votre français est très correct,et nous,adultes devons trouver des solutions dans nos différents domaines pour que si ces enfants rêvent de nos métiers, professions, qu'ils puissent les réaliser sans souffrir

[@JoelCHopper]

The content of these collabs are awesome. But the obvious chemistry between Pam and Dr Mike is so fun. They are so obviously good friends (as they mention) and it really is fun to watch.

[@saryducas]

Love this! I'm also 4'6 and have no diagnosis of any dysplasia. "I just forgot to grow" Spot on! 😂

[@julietm.5425]

I'm 4.6 too and I forgot to grow either 😄😄

[@BRICKASTLEY99]

@@julietm.5425 it would be too, not either. I forgot to grow too

[@BRICKASTLEY99]

@@julietm.5425 nvm I see that English isnt your first language, my apologies

[@xladyfayre]

I had to take growth hormones to grow. I probably wouldn't have grown if my parents didn't make me keep taking my shots as a kid. It was awkward when I had friends over and they would ask how I could do that. I was like, well, first i draw up the shot, get the site ready, make sure the TV is on, headphones on and music is nice and loud- and then I stab myself with the needle and plunge it in. Shot complete. Thankfully, I no longer have to stab myself with a needle anymore and haven't had to since i was 16 years old. Eighteen wasn't the magic number for me- it was sixteen, lol. Unfortunately, I'm looking at possibly taking an inject-able to migraines but i wanna give this nurtec a fair shake before I give up on it.

[@Dalas0130]

@@BRICKASTLEY99 Comedy at its finest.

[@juleosterberg5359]

I love that a doctor is making health fun for everyone. Way to go Mike😇

[@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521]

I like people with long brain. I have long amount of disl*kes btw. Why? Maybe people with short brain disl*ke because jealous of my long amount of subscr*bers. Please have long brain, dear jul3

[@Dreamer-nb9um]

@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 me reading this comment: what?? What is a long brain?? Do you mean big brain ??? Huh???

[@Zaxfine]

@@Dreamer-nb9um I know i was confused reading that

[@Praecantetia]

@@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521 wtf?

[@Datrocks]

yes

[@zinsy23]

I thought Pam's description of making things as universally acceptable as possible was spot on! There are other people that would benefit from it as well! For example, as someone who is hard of hearing, I rely on captions when watching videos. The experience sucks without them. I find even auto-generated captions hugely beneficial. They've gotten better over the years in my experience and it tends to be fairly easy to piece together the mistakes that were made. It doesn't just have to benefit people like me, it can benefit people who maybe want to catch more they would otherwise miss and those who want to practice their reading and language comprehension skills too! You name those types of things for any accessibility utility! You don't need to treat people with disabilities any different. Just make sure they have the stuff they need to be their best self. You could figure that out by asking them or learning about their disabilities from either them or other resources and ask them what they'd like with that, if anything.

[@laurao3274]

On a similar note, when I became a mom, I realized that the accessibility features for wheelchairs are greatly beneficial to parents with strollers. Or any public restrooms that have the step stools for little people are great for when you have to take a toddler to the bathroom. I don't have to break my back trying to hold my kid up to the sink. Accessibility for disabilities does, indeed, benefit us all.

[@zinsy23]

@@laurao3274 Exactly! Another great example!

[@concara86]

I'm not hard of hearing, but I have kids and when they are loud having captions on helps me know what's going on. I have a hard time watching movies or shows without captions because I have a hard time hearing/understanding what's being said, especially if I"m with other people who like to talk in the background.

[@riverdaisy4215]

Captions could be helpful for even people who don’t have a disability too! It’s also great for language learning. I appreciate tik tok autogenerated captions too cuz i sometimes need to watch tik tok muted and get annoyed when idk what the person is saying. Like you said thing that make disabled people’s lives more accessible as well as able bodied people’s lives easier.

[@christopherlucchesi2205]

Like u I’m also hard of hearing and man do those subtitles come in clutch. If I’m being honest I actually like watching movies and shows more with them than when I didnt.

[@thefastreviewer]

I think treating them as normal human beings and not showing signs of sorrow are two fundamental points we need to keep in mind. This is helpful actually as it motivates them to have a healthy social life. Thanks Dr. Mike and Pam 🤘🏻😊

[@furonwarrior]

Socially, yes. Medically, no. We’re way more fragile and any skeletal work needs to be done by a specialist.

[@thefastreviewer]

@@furonwarrior Definitely! I'm talking as a non-specialist person.

[@OurCumrade]

True

[@panosg2686]

I can see myself being condescending to people like that and I hate it. Like, I wouldnt bully or make fun of anyone but I'd rather try to be gentle and help them all the time which is equally annoying for them

[@furonwarrior]

@@panosg2686 I think it’s good that your heart is in the right place, but don’t think of us as completely vulnerable and incapable of being able to handle ourselves. We just need some help if one of us decides to ask for it. The fact that you’re willing to help is a good thing, but knowing when is important regardless of who you’re friends with or in a relationship with. It’s not annoying to help or to be thoughtful, it’s seeing us as our disability and not us as individuals. I hope this help some. 😊

[@Amostar2557]

I’m starting to come to terms with possibly being permanently disabled at the age of 33 due to a back injury… and while life has been difficult, it’s a lot easier when people are understanding and accommodating. There’s a restaurant we go to frequently, and usually the same host seats us every time we go. He always seats us close to the entrance, so I’ve never had to walk very far. I assume he sees my cane and knows it would be easier for me to sit in the front of the restaurant. Well, we went the other day and it wasn’t him. The host sat us on the opposite side of the restaurant (despite the front having a lot of availability). I thought about saying something, but I also thought surely she’s not taking us much further… I was wrong. Advocating for myself has been the most difficult part of this. I’m unable to walk very far, and I should have spoken up. I know she likely didn’t do it on purpose, and she may not have even noticed the cane, but when people do notice and help in small ways like the regular host does, it truly makes my life easier.

[@alimiyan6540]

That's the spirit man and thankyou for sharing

[@myXusername]

Just the way that kid said "And so can I!" Just makes my mama heart giggle

[@bethdee679]

I really felt it when Pam talked about not wishing not to be different, and that people have this impression that those with disabilities are sad about it. I have autism and I hate when people pull sad expressions and say things like "Oh, don't worry, it'll be okay." I mean I agree, but you didn't need to say it like that. I know I'll be more than okay.

[@Miss-Anne-Thrope]

I feel like most of my problems are due to the assumptions and behaviour of neurotypicals towards me and their reluctance to accept those who are different, be it autism or anything else. Why do people need to make fun of me because I don't like socialising? Why force me to socialise if I don't want to? Why taunt me with loud noises when they know they physically hurt me? There is this overwhelming assumption that I'd be better of as a NT, as if my life sucks because of autism? No, my life sucks sometimes because of NTs!

[@starfishgurl1984]

Agreed! Though I sometimes get frustrated and discouraged by my struggles as a result of sensory and auditory processing disorders and my anxiety on top of that, I also appreciate my ability to smell the change in seasons in the air outside as a result of my SPD (similar to petrichor, freshly cut wet grass after a rain, only much more intense/beautiful than that) so I take the bad with the good and try to make the most of it.

[@robyndippenaar9404]

Beth, I'm with you. I'm also autistic and I wouldn't wish not to be but sadly this is not the case for many in the autistic community. I see everyday in support groups people saying they hate it and wish they weren't autistic and I understand their struggles. I wish I could take those feelings away for them

[@adaliawright6891]

@@Miss-Anne-Thrope NT? what-- or perhaps who?-- is that?

[@andreawangdahl6176]

@@adaliawright6891 Neurotypical - without any neuropsychiatric condition, like autism.

[@Khopper224]

Loved the focus on accessibility in this episode. I’m 3 ft 11 in but I use a power wheelchair, which helps me be a bit taller than if I could stand. I’m currently working on becoming a lawyer that focuses on ADA accessibility and IEPs for k-12 school kids.

[@wendy645]

That's incredible! Best in your professional endeavors - that's an amazing path 👏

[@willowoodz]

that’s amazing! you’re gonna help so many ppl once you’re fully graduated :))

[@colejosephalexanderkashay683]

Best of luck to you. Any stories you have to share

[@Judgement_Kazzy]

Potentially insensitive pun and I'm sorry in advance, but I can't resist. Better Call Small.

[@socialistrepublicofvietnam1500]

Wait, 119cm was even possible as an adult? I genuinely did not know that

[@meganwaters636]

Pam and Mike’s friendship is so sweet and genuine. I’m glad they have each other! The mutual respect is amazing

[@godrickstockwell1505]

It's nice to see a show that doesn't feel like it's exploiting the people on it or making them the butt of a joke. These people seem like a wonderful family

[@NietzzTube]

"I think we should work on that with all kids, not just kids with disabilities. How do you stand up for yourself if you don't get what you need to be successful. Because people need different things" This touched me, it's so so true. Loved what pam and mike said about the boy demanding to be able to see what happened in class. 'That's self-advocacy'. Yes.

[@jordanjake5]

I always get so exited when Dr Mike invites Pam to his videos! She’s so funny and always makes the video so much fun to watch!! Your amazing Pam!! 😄

[@EmEm78]

She's great. I love how blatantly immune she is to Dr Mike's hotness too.

[@jgabraham4913]

YES! I didn't know when I clicked on the video that she would be in it, and I got really happy when I saw her.

[@jordanjake5]

@@jgabraham4913 same!!

[@thryssinstitches9655]

As a blind woman, another example of universal accessibility, that would really help me is a standardizd set of tactile symbols for toiletries like shampoo conditioner and body wash and lotion. Often these bottles are in identical packaging. I can put them specific places or turn one upside down but I share a home with sighted people who don't put them back lol

[@rempanda]

Tell them that as they can't follow the system that everyone will just have to use those horrible all-in-one products hotels use so you don't get confused by the bottles - but secretly hide and use the actual products you like to use. I have to admit though, the idea of tactile symbols on toiletries is such a simple idea, it would be great to see that implemented. You should contact your favourite brand and put some pressure on them to start doing that. If one company does it, the rest will start to follow.

[@thryssinstitches9655]

@Rachael Emma herbal essence does it on their bio line and said they're going to expand to all their products but I don't know if they have. Most companies don't want to invest thr money. They don't see the blind as a revenue source because we are such a small group of people which is silly. Next hurdle is to get companies to agree to use one universal language with the tactile symbols. We just gotta get them to the table and agree its a worthwhile cause first and we've been trying for years.

[@rempanda]

@@thryssinstitches9655 It would cost mere pennies for them to apply those tactile symbols when they batch produce thousands of bottles, they're just being lazy. I'm glad you brought attention to it. As someone that isn't blind it's something that I've never thought about but I can absolutely see why it would be such a great thing. Why these companies need to have a committee meeting over these matters boggles my mind, it would be so cheap to do and would benefit so many people. There's no reason not to.

[@thryssinstitches9655]

@@rempanda we've shown them cost analysis on how they'd actually profit from this. Most just don't care honestly. At least it feels that way.

[@laurao3274]

Is your main issue when you buy the products or when you're using them at home? Because if it's the latter, there are multiple solutions for that. Braille labels or bump dots, assuming the adhesive stays on. (You may have to use a liquid adhesive). Or you could buy some empty pump bottles of varying sizes, and transfer the products into those. Or if you want to spend more money, hardware stores sell automatic dispensers for the shower, which you fill up with the shampoo, conditioner, and body wash. Those things stick to the wall of your shower. I admit, I'm a tad confused by your inclusion of lotion in the list of shower products. You don't apply lotion to wet skin. You dry off first. So your lotion isn't in the shower with the other bottles, is it?

[@khalilahd.]

Such a beautiful family. I love that they’re not only informing people but showing that life is just as fun and normal and I love that 💛

[@faithcrisis2138]

This family is really setting their kids up for being wonderful, inspired people. It made me so happy to hear the little boy say, "My dad can do anything! And so can I!" It's so heartwarming ❤

[@annamix5026]

I didn’t realize that google had that live transcription feature. My college does that for anyone with a registered hearing loss and when I found that out, I was so much more excited to go to school. I could actually understand everything the teacher was saying! Honestly a really useful tool.

[@notjebbush]

I LOVE PAM 😩 So happy to see her in this one. As someone with Tourette Syndrome, it's nice to have an advocate who makes fun of her own tics so people see it isn't us being self-deprecating when we do

[@NotLabVR]

I don’t have Tourette’s but I do have a tic.it’s really annoying because I get of them. What’s your tic?

[@notjebbush]

@@NotLabVR I have two main ones, a head jerk and a vocal hum. The vocal one is in short bursts, not super loud, but definitely noticeable.

[@NotLabVR]

@@notjebbush oh wow I have a vocal one too. I also just blink very violently every once and a whilw

[@kellyl13]

I like it when Pam is on this channel; she's so good at explaining my thoughts and experiences as a 4'3" person with a bone disorder who has neurological issues and uses a wheelchair: "I don't wish for my disability to go away; I wish the world was built better for people like me."

[@fridabone]

that little “my dad can do anything and so can i” at the end made me cry. such a sweet kid.

[@Aetherian1]

Except change the lightbulb without a priest, a rabbi and an imam

[@stellarstar9340]

“My dad can do ANYTHING!! & so can I!!” BEST part of the video! 🥰🥰🥰

[@crescentedwards851]

I love how attentive Dr. Mike is when speaking with people. When he does solo videos is attention is obviously to the camera but when he is next to someone he turns and gives them the explanation instead of us. Doesn't seem like much but I have seen youtubers address the camera at all/most times even when responding to the person next to them

[@michellecoleman5577]

I appreciate the focus on disabilities and the fact that we aren't just sitting around wishing we were 'normal'. Although wishing the world was created with disabilities in mind is the story of my life. My worst pet peeves are non-described shows from companies that have no excuse (Disney!), graffic novels/manga, and people who know perfectly well I'm blind and send me screenshots I can't see anyway.

[@zahraalhussein1912]

I really enjoy learning about different disabilities and how it affects that person. It's a topic that is generally not talked about, so thankyou Doctor Mike, and Pam, and everyone who put this video together, for the amazing content and information. We're really blessed to have this quality of information presented to us for free.

[@Vegan_womaniya]

"My dad can do anything, and so can I" Woww. That boy is just amazing ❤ I wish I could hug him because he radiates positive vibes to me.

[@arualstarr]

I didn't know Pam is short too! My grandma was only 4'8", my dad was 4'10.5". I'm a whopping 5'0"! No history of specific dwarfism syndromes. Years a go I submitted my dna results to a site that said I was more likely to have x chromosome linked shortness. Maybe she has a chromosomal thing in her family too.

[@pattermoon1]

I’m obsessed with this friendship tbh 🥺💕🙏 thank you both

[@starfishgurl1984]

I love this, growing up with undiagnosed learning disabilities (most likely sensory and auditory processing disorders as a result of being somewhere on the autistic spectrum) I had to adapt to the world around me when I experienced it far differently than other people and figure out how to best navigate it to meet my needs. I use my strengths as a result of my differences to help me contribute to my work environment and try to be as honest as possible with my faults and weaknesses to navigate life as best as I can under the circumstances. Life may be harder/more challenging for me than for most but I’m still able to do things like everyone else I just do them differently in a different time frame.

[@carriecook8600]

I’m so glad you introduced us all to Pam! Such great perspectives. I’m so happy to be learning from her. Such a beautiful family. Thank you Mike!!!

[@FlagCutie]

"What am I gonna do? Go to a basketball game?!?!?" Pam, I have no doubt you would be the perfect cheerleader to whatever kind of kid you have, even an athlete. My brother really got into JROTC in high school and while my mom and I had no clue what it was at the beginning, just showing up was enough ❤️

[@leleskoob2011]

What I absolutely love about people with disabilities is that they don’t make excuses. Like the wife said they adapt to an average height world. They overcome and they don’t let society’s norms get in the way! Very inspiring and it’s all something we can value and respect! 💕😊

[@claratalbot7613]

I'm so glade that Google has the Accessibility function. I'm very sensitive to light so I have to have everything in dark mode so I'm not blinded every time I want to use my phone. Also I 100% agree with Pam. Being disabled is frustrating at times but it would be so amazing if we could continue to change the world so that it was accessible to everyone

[@doctorboi4314]

It would be cheaper to fix a way to cure all disabilities than make the world more accessible

[@notnerdkid]

@@doctorboi4314 actually no.

[@doctorboi4314]

@@notnerdkid Do you think changing every single thing to be accessible to all disabilities is cheap? You would literally have to rebuild the entire worlds infrastructure to accommodate everybody’s disabilities, it would most likely cost quadrillions of dollars.

[@Vegan_womaniya]

Am more happy to see Pam than I would ever be while meeting my friends. Welcome Back Pam. ❤ I missed you a lot and I mean it genuinely.

[@stacypalermo3506]

I love y’all’s chemistry! I was excited to see Pam back for another video because y’all feed off of each other’s energy and have great conversations about everything. Its also good to hear about how life is different for many different people because of the difference between each person. I believe that most of the exclusion that happens is more out of ignorance than intention. It is hard to know what people go through if you haven’t been shorter than 5 foot, had Tourette’s, been in a wheelchair, been an immigrant, had a language barrier, or any other differences. What y’all do helps people learn about what some people go through and helps make sure anyone who has any “differences” don’t feel alone. I think you two really help bring some tough topics to light and start the conversation that helps us move past ignorance and move to inclusiveness. Dr. Mike, your videos brighten my day, especially on the darker days. Pam, I love you stand up! You’re so funny and I laughed so hard that I was gasping for air. Looking forward to more videos from both of y’all! Sending y’all love from Texas! ❤️

[@JustifyingT]

I absolutely love this episode. I am 4’10 and 1/2 and I have mild cerebral palsy so the discussion around universal design, disability acceptance, and curiosity was just really refreshing to hear. I also like the fact that it brought light to the fact that people who are different does not mean that they are not able they just have to do it differently. Prime example I am an attorney professionally and personally have always been an ableism awareness advocate.I never let not being able to physically walk independently stop me from doing anything that I believed I could do even though other people thought I shouldn’t be doing certain things. Love it keep up the great work. Oh and that Google accessibility feature looks amazing I didn’t even know it existed I’m going to check it out. As far as turning it on so you can learn about the accessibility of places would be major for me because one of the worst things is getting somewhere and it’s not physically acceptable for my scooter.

[@XxilvstrngrthngsxX]

4:37 i just *love* how Bear gives pam a high five but not his owner🤣🤣

[@Emilythematerialgurl]

Pam's a whole mood in this video I'm living for it especially the bed part I laughed so hard

[@thryssinstitches9655]

I have osteogenesis imperfecta and I always appreciate when a doctor is up front that they're not educated on what it is. I will even stay in their care if they show that they are gonna learn everything they can to help me. There's something to be said for learning and growing WITH your doctor.

[@alot_lol]

Dr Mike really just got sponsored by google! Its crazy how he can have so much success and teach the world at the same time. Keep up the good work!

[@aalihte3378]

I'm only 5 minutes in and I absolutely am in love with this video. Great guest, great interaction and great information

[@sweetiepiemax]

As someone who has autism, ADHD, RAD, and multiple other mental disorders, also physical disorders, I freaking love both of you and how much you guys are so supportive of people who are different

[@gemowi]

“I bark, YES you do!” I like her 😂😂😂 She’s hilarious!

[@EmmaAnimalWelfare]

What exceptional role models those parents are, leading by example and self-advocacy. I learned so much in this episode, thanks Doctor Mike 🤩

[@alecrechtiene558]

I am on the spectrum. Although I am independent and feel I do quite well, I still can be self conscious about it. I love explaining it to kids because I know they have little to no preconceived ideas about autism, so they don’t make really any assumptions. The biggest thing that annoys me is when people assume I need extra help because of my condition. I don’t want the world to adapt to me, I can adapt to the world, and if I need help I will ask.

[@piequals314]

Just saw you speak at HOSA ILC! Loved your advice on paying attention to the humanity in medicine and vewing stress as a positive. Thank you for agreeing to be the keynote speaker!

[@Anna_b360]

11:40 with the whole “when I’m with you I don’t see the disability” thing, as someone also of short stature and with several other physical conditions, I don’t like it when people see my disability before me. Like, yes, it’s there, but I want people to notice me for my personality and confidence. It’s nice to be around people who know me and are used to my appearance, thus meaning they have also had time to know who I am.

[@jennifergriffin5761]

I recently discovered your channel and I love it! I have watched several videos and I am amazed by your gentle and open minded approach to all patients and illnesses. I have a genetic connective tissue disease, Ehler's Danlos Syndrome, and was treated poorly by 14 doctors before I was diagnosed with EDS at 33 in 2016 - two years after I became permanently disabled. I experience harsh judgment from others because of a lack of common knowledge about EDS, or why I am disabled and how all body systems are impacted. Not all illnesses are created equally or are visible - the lack of a support system and understanding is incredibly disheartening. The world needs more doctors like you! Thank you!

[@ZeliBnnuy]

This reminds me of “things you shouldn’t say to people with dwarfism” and I think MULTIPLE people said they’ve been randomly picked up by strangers and lifted like Simba from Lion King😰😰 it can truly be traumatizing even when they were just joking around cuz what if one day it’s the wrong person trying to take instead of joke. Scary world Edit: I honestly feel betrayed that nobody told me I put “loin king”🤣🤣🤣

[@furonwarrior]

Never happened to me, but if this happens to me in public, let’s just say I have my rights. If we’re dropped, it could be life threatening.

[@MollyFC]

That's so rude, what is wrong with people?

[@furonwarrior]

@@MollyFC If I wrote a list, it wouldn’t fit on the list.

[@rookmaster7502]

Grabbing strangers and lifting them into the air? Who does that?!? This is something you may see in comedy movies, rarely ever in real life.

[@sarahtheplatypus3237]

By strangers? I wouldn’t be surprised if it was by friends and people you know but just random people?

[@talifishman618]

Great episode! I have a suggestion- have you ever read 'This is Going To Hurt'? If not- you have to! It was written by a British ex-doctor, it's basically a collection of his notes from back when he was a junior doctor. It easily is one of the funniest books I've ever read, it ha me rolling on the floor. Being a super popular book, I believe a ton of people here would love to see your review of those insane stories :)

[@ezura4760]

Dr Hope Sick Notes channel has covered it. It’s rather interesting to watch especially because he’s a doctor from the NHS himself.

[@jillyj98]

I have some extended family with achondroplasia and they compete in Tough Mudder challenges. They are tougher than I ever will be.

[@taliahunt3213]

Pam videos are my favourite. Don’t get me wrong, I love you Dr Mike, but Pam just completely opens my mind and my thinking about disabilities, purely by the way she articulates her thoughts. You are so right Pam - sometimes people skirt around a disability because we’re so worried about how asking will make us look, when really, to so many people, it’s really saying “tell me about this incredible thing that makes you - you”. And that’s a beautiful thing

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[@sheliaball7306]

I just love her. She's such a wonderful fun person. And the two of you together are even better.

[@jamielondon6436]

Having Pam on is always a highlight - but this was also incredibly instructional!

[@rosam6152]

I always love when Pamela makes an appearance. More with her please

[@TheWheelBry]

Thank you for bringing more light to disability! I feel like whenever people talk about inclusivity disability and access always gets forgotten about.

[@tracydeyhle4688]

Wow, THANK YOU! YOU 2 HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD WHEN TALKING ABOUT KIDS ASKING SOMEONE ABOUT A DISABILITY A PERSON HAS! WE SHOULD NEVER SHUSH THEM! Last August I had a freak accident causing me to lose my right eye (had to surgically be removed). I work at McDonald's. I cannot tell you how many times a child will ask what's wrong with my eye and their parental figure shush's them. I always 1st calm the parental figure down and let them know it really is OK they have asked. It doesn't embaress me or anything. Then I tell the child what and how it happened. Some of them have questions like does it hurt, but most of the time, they just are curious why my eye area looks funny. One little girl came up to me and said you are beautiful even if you only have one eye!

[@mastershooter64]

yeah when i ask people about their injuries or disabilities other people are like "that's rude" or "wtf are you doing?" like what's so wrong about being curious about a person's injury or disability? I'm not a child, im 18 but still i dont see how there can be an age limit for curiosity

[@tracydeyhle4688]

@@mastershooter64 there isn't any problem I see with asking. Adults even, when they ask, will say I'm sorry I don't mean to hurt you, do you mind if I ask what happened to your eye. I always say don't be sorry. I have no problems with you asking! It's better if someone asks than just to stare at people

[@elizabethfreed472]

I love when you advocate accessibility! Thank you, Doctor Mike, for tackling these issues!

[@leana2922]

Great collab with Pam on a topic that we could all use more education on. Thanks Dr Mike 🙌

[@rishiamaravathi2671]

Best duo ever, one has no logic and is humrous, the other is full of logic and absolutely serious.

[@Carolynnie]

I’m sure you didn’t mean any disrespect with this comment, but I just need to point out that Pam has a huge amount of knowledge specifically when it comes to inclusion. She’s a disability and mental health advocate and speaker, so obviously knows quite a bit about both of those things. I think when she’s in Doctor Mike’s videos, she’s there to have fun, not to try and educate everyone on everything like Mike does. Also, Mike is absolutely hilarious! I went to his Boston show when he did his tour and I have honestly never laughed so hard. I knew there would be humor, but I had no idea it would be as funny (and educational) as it was! Again, I’m sure you meant no disrespect, I just wanted to let you know! 💜

[@heekamalokilo7194]

What makes you think that Pam has no logic?

[@Sophiesticated1402]

My uncle was diagnosed with cancer when he was 5 years old. The doctors said there was a 35% chance that he would survive. He went to St. Jude's and the doctors there said the same thing, they said to his mother and family that they should start saying their goodbyes. He fought cancer for about 1 year before a miracle happened and he survived. He barely made it out alive and the doctors said that he wouldn't be very tall, he wouldn't be very smart and that he certainly wouldn't have any children. My uncle is 6'4, graduated as valedictorian in high school and college and he has 3 very smart and healthy children. My family and I have no idea how this miracle happened, God must've smiled on us. This story just goes to show that there's still hope in the world.

[@crochetedfromTheRose]

That's so beautiful.😊

[@Sephirajo]

What does this have to do with the topic of the video? o.O

[@timiempire2279]

@@hunterG60k hes christian. thats fine.

[@vp9549]

Gods don't exist. Also, a one in three chance isn't even close to a "miracle".

[@timiempire2279]

@@vp9549 your opinion, and it is still a low chance.

[@drericshannonparr]

This is very informational and beneficial for little people to know. I’ve worked with many children with special needs and they fight with feeling accepted. I love how this family embraces the good with the bad.

[@artemisaprita1947]

Speaking of accessibility, I know it's not something most people think to control, but I appreciate how you both speak at a steady cadence in your low excitement states, as I'm hard of hearing on one side and subtitles aren't always accurate, ESPECIALLY with the auto-generated ones that is most common in videos across the internet

[@bigmiche1]

I never grasped the importance of consistent doctor visits as I do now. Your content is always entertaining and educational, an amazing balance. Keep up the great word Dr.Mike

[@JoeMama-nd8rj]

dr mike, the fact u advertised something in support of the deaf and hard of hearing is so epicly gamer epic, i cant even explain. literally nobody ever does that, and the app is so amazing, because almost all of the time, anything that captures sound and translates it into word, almost always gets everything wrong, but the app actually gets 99% of words right, even with accents

[@JoeMama-nd8rj]

just realized, i sound like a bot, i swear im not😂 i wasnt advertising it , although its worth one

[@xandosreign]

Love when Pam is on. Everyone is just bubblier, clearly her humor is infectious in the best of ways.

[@shreyasidas8735]

14:01 that "so can I" was adorable ☺️☺️

[@thatrandomhufflepuff2632]

Ikr soooo cute ☺️

[@mikeysrose]

I was a personal shopper at a regional grocery chain for like 10 months last year, but I only ever shopped for people who had ordered online for pickup or delivery. If a little person had come into our store asking for help shopping and had been brought back to my department for help, I would have been so excited to help them shop.

[@steveobrien993]

As a father of a daughter with achondroplasia this was a very informative and respectful video thanks

[@motherlove202]

Wow, I barely made it out of being a dwarf. I'm 4'11" and haven't been diagnosed with a disability. Like Pam, I just forgot to grow. And yeah, the world is designed for average-sized individuals. I have step stools at home. Unfortunately, I have to push my seat up close to the steering wheel which is dangerous especially in case the air bag deploys. But I adapt to it

[@beccap4356]

Same! Sometimes I wish I was taller because the world is definitely made for taller people but you're right, you get used to it!

[@elocinaqui24]

It goes both ways. My best friends since middle and high school are complete opposites, one is 4’10” (and her mom is 4’6”) and the other was 6’2” by 12 years old, and was 6’7” by the time we graduated. He always said being small is better, because small people can always fit or use a stool, but he had to crouch down just to wash his hands in a sink or to peer into a fridge.

[@humanperson7269]

I'm short, too, and I have pedal extenders that bring the pedals towards me. They allow me to put my seat far enough back to be safe from the airbag. I highly recommend them for other short people! Sitting too close to the airbag is really dangerous.

[@ms.krueger2660]

If under 5 feet aren’t you considered a little person ?? Can’t you attend little people conferences ?? Just wondering ! 🌸

[@beetee4865]

@@ms.krueger2660 To be considered a little person, you have to be 4'10" or shorter. I already knew this, but it also showed during the video.

[@ninockastar1]

Love it when Dr Mike and Pam collab together,it is always inspiring and funny video !You two make a positive difference here and that is amazing,also you are hilarious together!Petition to have Pam at least once a week,Doc!😃👍

[@atropos_thefate]

I love watching Pam with Doctor Mike. They seem to have the funnest time together!

[@damariscolon-soto9920]

I love seeing you two advocating and educating us all. One of my fave duos for sure! 🥰

[@JohnnyVixen]

I love when Pam is in your videos. She's so funny, and she's always doing an amazing job with disability advocacy, as someone with TS i really enjoy and appreciate her spreading tourette's awareness and education.

[@themaddiemads]

I am always happy to see more Pam!! As someone who is also disabled, I love that you included her in this episode to provide a super valuable perspective!

[@emom358]

Love the interaction between you and Pam! This needs to be a regular thing.

[@cbryce9243]

I Love Pam, I wish she were on all your videos! I've seen the Google apps but had no idea they had an app for accessibility that really was useful. Thank you for sharing that handy little piece of info. As a person who uses a wheelchair do to Erythromelalgia, finding places to go can be a challenge. Many places that say they are accessible, are not. Doors are often too hard to open, they are heavy and I am weak. The yellow bumpy things at sidewalks are great for people who are blind or have low vision but they are slippery and impossible to roll over. Things that are high up, usually there are people more than willing to get it for me. Having a disability is no big deal, we just have to find a way to get around or ask for help sometimes, but who doesn't! Your shows are getting better all the time. Thanks Doctor and Pam! You two make a good team.

[@Downeydread]

I love how Mike stares into Pam's soul

[@roseoftheday582]

I knew Pam was smaller in stature but I had no idea she was 4’6”. Wow, the more you know. I went to elementary/middle school with a guy named Kris who was around 4’6”-4’7” and I kid you not, over the summer between 8-9th grade, he must have fell into a vat of milk because when he came back for our freshman year of high school he’d shot up almost 6 inches, and by the time we were juniors, he was 6’1”. Never in my life had I seen something that wild happen that fast.

[@kieleyevatt2232]

That must have been excruciatingly painful to grow that tall that fast 😳

[@ms.krueger2660]

I know a kid that happened to. He was 5ft 6. Over the summer he grew to about 6 ft. His knees hurt because he grew so much, so fast.

[@beetee4865]

I grew 6 inches the summer between 5th and 6th grade (went from 4 ft to 4'6"). It was very painful.

[@cutestephie1313]

I love Dr. Mike. I love Pam. It's that simple. You get me through hard times. Thank you so much. 🥰 I wish you two the best!

[@cassandrasingle922]

Hi Doctor Mike. Thank you so much for doing this video. I have Turner's syndrome and I'm 4 feet 8. The video was so positive and thoughtful. And yes I climb in the super market. I have been asked to stop turning over the plastic shopping baskets and standing on them. I also realised that I actually saw the is show on tv when hubby and I were on our first overseas trip in Malaysia. Oh and Pam is awesome.

[@lissie3217]

I also have Turner Syndrome and I am 4ft 7.5

[@becmer]

Me too

[@stellarae8257]

i would love to see more videos like this!! having a disabled person there who gets what i go through day-to-day is really so comforting. i agree that disability doesnt need to have a shameful connotation. while i wish i didnt have my disability, that's just because it's a chronic pain condition so it'd be nice to not have to deal with all that. but im proud of everything i do with my disabilities. hope we can see pam some more soon!

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[@mssaigon73]

I love when you and Pam do videos together . I would love to see a video of you two looking at other people with Tourette’s and how each case is different .

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[@cindot2520]

I'm 5'4" yet still have problems reaching some items. I carry a cane to get items off of high shelves in the grocery store & climb on my counters to reach the cabinets over my sink & stove.

[@Lynner2210]

We.Need.More.Pam. Love her!

[@KJ1234]

Such a fun video! Love the Mike and Pam collab! Great education about seeing how disabled people navigate the world. I love to learn how people individualy experience the world in their day to day life. That's one of the greatest traits about humans. Adaptability. Also those kids were so cute!

[@aliyapena2721]

I love that Pam is normalizing accepting what makes us different

[@PamelaComedy]

Yay! That's literally my life goal! Thank you!

[@encyclomemedia2914]

It's easy to take some things for granted, normally I don't even think about something like height but seeing this video gave me some perspective on the many challenges people with disabilities can face. I wished there was more engagement with these topics in the media to increase awareness. Though I will say, they seem to be the perfect height for riding a large dog like Bear!