The reason WHY a man PULLS AWAY! (And it's NOT your fault)

[@FancyNeonWolves]

He chased so much in the beginning.. and i slowly gave in.. then suddenly hes hot and cold, broke up, got back together, made a big show for valentines day, now cold again. I finally am done and stopped trying.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm sorry to hear this! I understand how confusing this can be.

[@dianaverano7878]

That guy has not looked deeply on what he truly feels for you for the long term

[@fatmanasir6691]

Alex, I have learnt a lot from you. I exactly mirrored his behavior. I stopped chasing or asking him any questions. I feel better, in control. He is texting, if I feel like I reply teelling him about my new activities. I'm not talking about my or his feelings. In some instances, I just read and do not reply. He is paying attention. I stopped calling at all. Even if the relationship doesn't work. I got some pride and walked away with some self esteem left.

[@alaalfa8839]

Problem is sometimes both genders want to be chased by everybody and be attractive for everybody. Their wishes came true. They are attractive for everybody and chased by everybody. Except for the one they have the love, empathy and gratitude for. they give the energy out to the world, instead of going inward and changing their mindset.

[@preslytanus]

I wouldn't even text him after 2 or 3 weeks. If he doesn't have the balls to initiate , i don't need him.

[@MermaidV666]

Amen👐🏻

[@stefanieleavitt5224]

At that point right now...wondering if he died! jk

[@amigalable]

@@stefanieleavitt5224 ;-)))) LMFAO

[@artemisappollo1491]

@@stefanieleavitt5224 ,😂🤣

[@ManifestingMagician2323]

@@stefanieleavitt5224😂😂😂😂

[@carolsmithson9970]

Alex this is so true. Men are clever manipulators. Excuse makers and take advantage of a 57 year olds vulnerability. I am done. I told him today. Forget you ever met me. I’m better than this and I deserve better than you. I should be your first option, not your last one.

[@rowenairog-irog154]

I let him go because too much hurt always pulling away and doesn't reply my text immediately...I deserves someone better who gives me attention and time...Thank you sir Alex for great advice ..God bless and take care

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I know how difficult this can be but you can get through this.

[@maureenmuse1684]

A Godly relationships with Godly people in it needs no rules and regulations on how to love. Love is God and love is pure. When all these behavior starts, then I think you should check what really builds his idea of love.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Maureen, thank you so much for sharing this comment with this amazing community. 🤗

[@esthertabat3024]

Accurate sis,if it's from GOD, NOTHING makes him pull away without coming back to you because GOD IS FULLY INVOLVED

[@serenepoyer]

I promise i will never give too much to a man thats pulling away

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Exactly Serene!

[@nellyosoro2294]

Alex he did everything to get me but now he is pulling away

[@AM-qr4ys]

wow!!!! did this make all the sense to me. thank you so much coach alex. you have helped me with so many of your videos!

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

Alex, thank you. This video is important. This can be sad though. If he takes you for granted, you will know, and somehow you will also find a way to move on without him. There's no other choice.

[@reshmak3419]

Thank you Alex I am in the same situation ,I promise I will overcome from this.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes, i'm confident that you will.

[@ret435]

Thank you Alex! We deserve more. I’m dealing with an ego issue but with a good man. It’s been a month. I let go.

[@ayeshamendoza8121]

Thank you Alex for good advice

[@ngoziemeruwa5396]

NG from Nigeria. U are always apt and on point. I love the French accent. U are simply the best

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Wow, thank you

[@rubinaacceptthetruthpanes4391]

Thank you Alex "I deserve more💯 Watching from Israel💕

[@KousarSadeghzadeh]

He ghosted me, now 3 weeks 🥺 then I reached out his friend who called him and his response was “he was clear about the breakup!” whereas he never spoke to me about us breaking up 😔 I have lost hope…

[@lemagloria]

F him and find somoene who match your energy love.

[@Ace7of7Cups]

sounds like immaturity to me. there are better ways to end it and he was a coward.

[@cars8459]

Hey beautiful lady! My best friend got ghosted too and reached out after a month…? No way !!! 3 weeks is too long to ghost someone. Find a better man who is mature enough to address arguments or that it’s not working by just saying. These men are spoiled cowards!!! Find a good man you deserve it!

[@dianaverano7878]

Sometimes silence is closure. Dont ask ghosters. They disappeared. Like they are dead, bury their memories in soil.

[@sarahb6758]

This video is extremely accurate . Thank you Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Glad it was helpful!

[@georgetacarmen8824]

I am here for the french accent. :-)

[@deannejennings9544]

Thank you, Alex. I am growing in the distance.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Your welcome, stay strong and positive!

[@sofialee8174]

I will promise i will never give man too much attention

[@felymaravilla8108]

Thank you for your concern , god bless you

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You are always welcome!

[@theresiathadeo3034]

Indeed I deserve more

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes, You Do!!!

[@yanagolub2629]

THANK YOU!!!!!! YOU SAVED MY SANITY. HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!! I KEEP MY DISTANCE FROM HIM TOO

[@MilkaArenas]

Thank you for the advice watching from Philippines.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching! I truly appreciate this!

[@stephblenheim4283]

This is very accurate. Thank you for explaining this so well. This is probably one of the most valueable videos you've produced. I'm very grateful I've discovered you. Do you think he's likely to be pulling away because he's afraid of rejection?

[@Zainab-ng8dc]

Thanx a ton! Ur an angel in disguise😇

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for your support!

[@isatushadiajalloh4057]

Alex my situation is, we are in long distance for 2years now, he care about me he respect me and i think he loves me, but he did not introduce me to any body, no friends no family members only him, when ever i came up with that issue, he will says when we get home I will going to know everything about him

[@jodij9257]

Thank you so much Alex 🌹 Love

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're so welcome!

[@jenalynyanoc3820]

Hi Alex thanks a lot of your advice its really helpful

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching Jenalyn!

[@awatson8832]

Bonjour Alex, you are so right. Excellent video.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Many thanks!

[@maibaron3542]

I deserve more!! Thanks Alex ☺️

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes you do

[@sallycubillas583]

youve got this point

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching Sally!

[@neressakotas4396]

he know what he is doing

[@NamugangaSawuda]

Alex thx your medicine work for sure 🎉

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@nancybruney2202]

I love love love your videos.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching Nancy!

[@yvonnekalkhoven3459]

Well Alex I AM an amazing woman. Yessss. And I deserve more. I understand a lot better why he is pulling away. And all 3 well... I must be honest.. thats me and... I will change that. So thank you so much.

[@AskJax]

With my online ldr, who I know from my country as commented in your linked video. Your words are true, however every time we seem to get close emotionally and intimate, thats what happens. He doesn't have ego but its not a real set up. He is somewhat introverted and sensitive yet deep and soulful.

[@amishababychauhan5798]

I promise I never give too much

[@rajinderkaurdhillon8616]

Thanks Alex❤️

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

My pleasure!

[@eunicetsai949]

I deserve more and his best only love ❤️❤️

[@blaintu126]

I love you so much and thank you for your help 💓

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You're so welcome!

[@shavonthelifestyle8770]

Omg u so right

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much!

[@lornaamandoron6243]

I deserve more! 💯

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes, You Do!

[@cucle9494]

hello Alex love is very diffcutl to explained

[@natashakemp5164]

Let go....

[@ענתשפר]

Thank you Alex, your the best, Anat

[@neressakotas4396]

to be honest the worst thing a man can do is this to me. it makes me very angry although I don't say anything to him. I just now leave him alone and let him get on with it

[@mirakhan9527]

Thanks im ok now to listen you alex

[@kathykakilawapalo8072]

Thank you Alex 🙏...watching from Papua New Guinea

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Wonderful!

[@karenelas4619]

I deserve more !

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes, You Do!

[@yvette-yourfavoriteauntie247]

After two or three weeks of distance, I’m gone. I don’t have time for these games. 👋🏽

[@ManifestingMagician2323]

Yessss 💯

[@mamanene5557]

Thank you for your wonderful advices i really need this. I've been watching almost 24 hrs aready haha i can't sleep so i just watch ur videos, thanks you so much i learned a lot. Now I'm ur subscrber already. God Bless! 😇🙏❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for subscribing! Welcome to the family!

[@alaalfa8839]

Problem is sometimes both genders want to be chased by everybody and be attractive for everybody. Their wishes came true. They are attractive for everybody and chased by everybody. Except for the one they have the love, empathy and gratitude for. they give the energy out to the world, instead of going inward and changing their mindset.

[@portia8425]

I love u sir!!

[@rajindergill3128]

Thanks

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Welcome

[@TRINITYAUGUSTIN]

Thank you.i've subscribe💪❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you too! Your support is greatly appreciated.

[@ineedyou1298]

Watching from Philippines😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hello 😊

[@bernietoplevelmma]

@alex His EGO is exactly what the issue is. I set a boundary when I feel disrespected and he shuts down or walks away . Then I get upset bc he won’t discuss or respect my feelings .. I’m trying to walk away from this relationship bc I’m the only one tryin to communicate like an adult . If I wait 3 -4 weeks then it’s hard to bring up the issue at hand ?! does that make sense?

[@Klj510]

@ Bernie... I have the exact same issue!! Is this a narcissist? He says it’s my communication that’s the issue, but he’s the one that doesn’t communicate at all. He broke up with me and asked me to move out rather than talk. I guess we should be thankful that we are free. @alex Help us! Lol

[@bernietoplevelmma]

@@Klj510 he’s a dismissive avoidant , I was making myself crazy trying to figure out what was going wrong , best to walk away , as hard as it sounds .. we are worth more . Learn more about dismissive avoidants and let me know if that’s what you’re dealing with .. 🙏🏽

[@lemagloria]

Find another man he is a boy

[@deepukankaria6973]

Hi good evening coach

[@lou9110]

How about not play the game and block him forever, cause this behaviour will continue happening

[@ethereallayo8903]

Lots of love from Nigeria 💖

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hello, so glad you are here!

[@eleo6966]

So true!! Tellement vraie. We need to talk.. Love this. 🔓💞 How do you talk to him about his behaviour?

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You just need to have a conversation with him. I would love to give you more advice on this but I would need to know a little more about your relationship with him. I hope you can book a coaching call with me! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

[@eleo6966]

I am not with him anymore, the reason he pull away was simple it was too have the upper hands, to control the outcome... Not a nice person... I told him I am letting you go. 🥱🤭😚

[@jennypascual3040]

Hi Alex...from Singapore 😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Shout out to Singapore, so glad you are here!

[@rosiecolney6468]

Hello... Alex I'm watching your videos from India and I'm trying my level best not to contact him for 3 weeks. I want to say I deserve more ...

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes you do deserve more and don't accept any less. You can do this!

[@shiengalleto1339]

It deep in our heart i deserve more

[@shiengalleto1339]

Thank u godbless in deeps ur advice

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You are so welcome

[@blaintu126]

I love you Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for your support!

[@imasakiyoumakanbyairtangan1891]

Many thanks Alex for this video. I truly appreciate it 💓.. /from Kuala Lumpur Malaysia

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

My pleasure!

[@imasakiyoumakanbyairtangan1891]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert MY BOYFRIEND CAME BACK AFTER WE BEING SILENT FOR 36 DAYS NOW WE ARE ON COMMUNICATION BACK TO AS USUAL JUST NOT HEAVY COMMUNICATING LIKE BEFORE BUT IT'S OKAY NO RUSHING...!!

[@Demtacos4life]

My unborn child’s father left the day of my sonogram. I caught him hiding posts & stories on fb & ig. He was flirting w/women and talking to his ex. She wanted to be with him and he hide it from me. I later found out he was looking at naked women online in my home. Talked to him a week ago after 40 days no contact. He’s still lying. I ignored 2 texts and 1 call. I was overwhelmed with his lies. He hasn’t reached out again after 5 days. I do love him and want him back especially for our unborn son. But, not at the cost of my self respect. What do I do?

[@cayenestorm7942]

Thanks for your advise from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

You are so welcome!

[@selamawitberhe4283]

U are the best

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

So are you! Thank you!

[@krystynasokolovska5329]

hello from Ukraine 🎉

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@cars8459]

Thank you Alex! He did ever to get me. Now 4 months in he slowly pulling away and I do not know how to address it. I will just stay busy and not be needy and address it. However, how do you spend weekends with him and get in bed when he is emotionally distant ?

[@erckiemaria7695]

i decive more

[@neressakotas4396]

I don't talk to him when he does this then he will text me and ask me if everything is ok

[@PiliWan-q5r]

hi Alex he was silent for 2 months now

[@ManifestingMagician2323]

Move on. He’s not worth your time.

[@auramalcev7689]

Can you explain how the approach changes for the 50+ years old age? I look amazing, I feel amazing, I am full of life , still men I meet think they can “jump” on the intimate phase very, very soon ( latest 3rd date) which I do not agree at all. I want first a connection , of course . Am I still from “this plane that I want this ?

[@4d.4c.4b4]

But Alex, why pull away with zero word, when he is the one who clearly told me that I can call him anytime???😮😮

[@karenwright1727]

Hey Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hello, hope you are having an amazing day!

[@kritikakapoor1404]

5 months ago i waitd for 3 weeks..and he came back to office after 3 weeks having hand in hand with the girl whom i used to call my friend..now he has committed to her..n.they both do pda fearlessly..n be is serious wih her now..its been 4 months and they do that with no.shame of course...rather he expresses himself to her more openly in front of me...

[@sweetdouglarselisha750]

Great

[@zeldapowers8094]

Sounds like a narcissistic move. They probably won't last that long

[@mimiela2261]

I promise 🥺

[@healedinambiance8905]

I deserve more.

[@Helu7797]

wow 👌 this is what exactly am experienced with my husband. please Alex how can I can contact you . please I need your help 😢

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi Emebet, You can book a one on one coaching session with me using this link. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ Hope to hear form you soon!

[@veeyouthyful826]

I’m in a 21 months relationship. 11 weeks LDR for training. Not sure why exactly I felt he is hot and cold distant when text me. No idea when to call me

[@Angie-jw9uw]

Damn accurate

[@sanandasen1011]

I didn't talk with him or texted him for 3 weeks. He didn't turn up this time. So what I should I do now?

[@lemagloria]

Move on

[@kekeaufi9834]

*Just in time 💃💃💃💃💃❤️❤️❤️*

[@jdillon121]

Isn’t that game playing?

[@rosemulroy3259]

He always does this to me ...

[@cocogomez2278]

Why do you keep giving him attention

[@linda3649]

I want to know about when there’s love and he do that…

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Hi Linda, I would love to help you with the situation you're in. I hope you can book a coaching call with me! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

[@stefanieleavitt5224]

Almost 3 weeks since he said he wasn't ghosting and had a rough week. I have tried checking in and silence so done messaging now.

[@pamellamketo3234]

Update please

[@neetujain6271]

I got married and three months before nd nw I m getting divorced I tried no contact rule nd manifestation everything but nthg is working out he is happy nd nw searching another girl fr his 2nd marriage

[@tru3g3mini44]

Let him go

[@neetujain6271]

Vill he cum back sir I luv him a lot

[@farahkasi3432]

Hey alex...i want to ask u about a situation where a guy initially contact me and we talked for a week very nicely then he offered me to go to date and i ignored him because of fear that may b i was played by him because he has very high fan following of girls and i thought why he approached me if i m an easy option for him...then he stop contacting me for a month and then come back and now our contact is like once in a month or after 2 months especially when he is on bed😂😂 hope u understand....also he always try to jelous me....now wht is this plzzzzz guide me i m going mad thinking of him consistently....😭

[@HildaAndisi]

Better avoid him as early as now

[@nuurtonalka2983]

I am from Somali and its hard to leave him for financial reasons for kids what is the solution

[@olivmanit2601]

Is there any book about this in English? I really need

[@bethuy2157]

alex, i cought him with the maid. i just left but he continues to stay with that maid and he never contacted me. y?

[@NAJErEa91]

@4:26 yeah he is an Alpha male like tall dark handsome ball player type yup his ego is already huge and all I did was stroke it up and now he pulled away😑

[@NAJErEa91]

Yup I definitely feel for granted taken lmbo 😂

[@lailaroshni4462]

I will never call him until 2 weeks

[@farfadetdelimoges]

hahaha yeah, once I asked for a f2f explanation chat of why my date was pulling out, wanted to find rationale explanation... and i said whist we were taking about that “I’ll meet you outside the bar, gonna have a cigarette”, he said “yeah meet you outside, I have to go to the toilet”... he went outside, unlocked his bike and cycled away whilst I was chatting with mutual friends 😂😂😂 dont ask for questions, yes, but not because we are needy, but because they’re fucked up and cowards... period.

[@zeldapowers8094]

What an immature coward. Not a real man

[@bellaramos3176]

Alex after 3 yrs of dating he pulls away when I start to ask him,he tell me he's not ready and he doesn't know what he wants..I give him time to think but at the end he go away but he want to be friends.but I distance myself after a month of no contact I send a message and I let him go never disturb him again.and he tell me the same.i block him and he block me to all