The SADDEST part of the movie called THE HELP.🐦

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Siu Prescott

Siu Prescott

Күн бұрын

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@jckholmes9194
@jckholmes9194 Жыл бұрын
Imagine peer pressure being an excuse to treat people like they're lesser humans.
@IzzyKawaiichi
@IzzyKawaiichi Жыл бұрын
You don't think that is at the core of how this entire social structure came about?
@littleangel4780
@littleangel4780 Жыл бұрын
Adults do it all the time and perceive it as normal. The pandemic was a perfect example. How people vote is another.
@coolmoon4382
@coolmoon4382 Жыл бұрын
​​@@littleangel4780Yeah, all these Flag waving God Fearing So called Patriots who Pledged their allegiance to the Flag America and the Government UNDER GOD .. AND, THESE "AMERICAN PATRIOTS" Showed who they really were. When they showed they HATED THEIR FELLOW AMERICANS HATED THEIR GOVERNMENT and LIED TO THEIR GOD.. . Refusing to wear a mask get the JAB Pretending that COVID was FAKE. If it was fake the Government found out who would be good Military material and who would actually listen when in crisis. That showed who was going to be problematic and not help when in an emergency or War situation. They realized that most every Republican will Rebel against this Country and be a hindrance and not the help they need if there was a real emergency. They found out that Dems and Liberals Love the people of this country and would help and sacrifice for the greater good..
@dominadoramor7767
@dominadoramor7767 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean “imagine?” Sadly, it happens every day…
@scottlund4562
@scottlund4562 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to MAGA Christianity
@maxmorganproject9927
@maxmorganproject9927 Жыл бұрын
"I needed someone to look up to" she said it all with that line
@PreYeah
@PreYeah Жыл бұрын
I was wondering how so much could be lost on this mother - “she taught me everything I know”, “I needed someone to look up to”. Eugenia was calling her mother out in all the ways the mother had failed her. Not sure if that registered to the mom = /
@tamekiawilliams5216
@tamekiawilliams5216 Жыл бұрын
As a mother, that would have put a dagger through my heart
@truthseeker9249
@truthseeker9249 Жыл бұрын
​@@tamekiawilliams5216as someone who plans to be a mother, it would be a dagger through my heart too. I'm determined to make sure my children never have to say that to me. 😢
@CrocusSeal
@CrocusSeal 3 ай бұрын
@@tamekiawilliams5216 Lots of mothers don't have hearts that care that much
@andrewkuldip8785
@andrewkuldip8785 Жыл бұрын
At least Constantine was with her family when she died. That's the silver lining.
@jolijnattema1638
@jolijnattema1638 Жыл бұрын
But she didn't got to say goodbye to Skeeter and she feld like family
@hennesseyme9112
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
There was no silver lining. That woman was discarded in the wink of an eye and the mother kept it to herself because she was ashamed of what happened. To Skeeter, the maid was her mother. What a terrible thing to have done to that old woman in front of a room full of strangers.
@andrewkuldip8785
@andrewkuldip8785 Жыл бұрын
@@hennesseyme9112, I know. But would you rather Constantine not be with her family during her final days?
@hennesseyme9112
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
@@andrewkuldip8785 Skeeter felt what her mother did killed her by breaking her heart. No one said a thing about being with her family during her final days. Skeeter loved this woman and I wished she would have had a chance to go and see her before she died.
@bre9328
@bre9328 Жыл бұрын
​@@hennesseyme9112The silver lining was that she got to be with her ACTUAL family before passing. Skeeter is NOT her family. Most of these women did not want to be a maid nor raise someone else's child. I know older black ppl who raised whyte children. The whyte kids, now adults, gloat about the bw who had to do the parenting in their households and loved their black nannies, babysitters, and/or maids, while the elder bw despise them and their whole situation, but still had to smile at them when they were kids and now as adults. The delusional mindset to say skeeter didn't get to see her, forget Skeeter and her mom.
@kimkelly5512
@kimkelly5512 3 ай бұрын
That's why her mother said " Courage sometimes skips a generation"
@aira7115
@aira7115 3 ай бұрын
"I'm glad you brought it back to the family." So moving, so touching
@evergarza1979
@evergarza1979 Жыл бұрын
We're not black, we're Hispanic. When I was a small child my mom cleaned a home for a older white couple for many years. We grew a relationship with them, they always treated my mom with respect and always showed love to me. As time went on they grew older and had to be put into hospice. One of their last wishes was for my mom to have their small pickup truck as we did not have a car at the time. Unfortunately, for whatever reason, their children did not respect that last wish. It was a little upsetting but in the end we let it go and chose to hang on to the memories we had with that couple, now that...they can't take away.
@chaosspy6723
@chaosspy6723 3 ай бұрын
personally I believe disrespecting the final wishes of the dead ties the spirits to this world and not in a good way so those ignorant descendents might be very unlucky until they make it right.
@n8vscience842
@n8vscience842 3 ай бұрын
God bless your mama. And your family. ❤ Dios está contigo..
@vababy45
@vababy45 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely correct, they can't take that away.
@buckeyehockey1979
@buckeyehockey1979 2 ай бұрын
This shows the importance of having a will, no matter how little you have. Sometimes our family is not going to respect our wishes. But you are right, memories are the most important thing, and they can't take those
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld 2 ай бұрын
You let it go but it'll stay with them forever. Reminding them of their wrong doing
@dobby6799
@dobby6799 Жыл бұрын
Being a "Yankee", I grew up with a huge fear of the South, thinking all Southerns were cruel and couldn't understand why they were so mean to people of color. Then I met a new friend, a black woman who moved to New York. She was a very successful, educated business woman who was kind and had great class. When she looked at property to rent, she would be told the house was just rented or they needed 6 months' security deposit. She taught me that northerners with discrimination often don't directly show it, but Southerns did. She said she preferred the honestly in the South rather than the hypocrisy in the North. Wow did I learn a lesson. There are kind people and mean people every where.
@void9837
@void9837 Жыл бұрын
They were paid workers. The daughter in this movie didn't respect her own Mom and her job. The grown woman could have waited in the kitchen.
@void9837
@void9837 Жыл бұрын
There's misunderstandings on both sides. During the pandemic and quarantine there are those who died because they didn't want to wear masks, and they believed in science of vaccines instead of washing hands with soap and water.@@danielshapiro2472
@Book_Dragon2562
@Book_Dragon2562 Жыл бұрын
@@danielshapiro2472As a yankee, you don’t know anything about the south or what its like to live in it. I highly encourage you to read the archived letters of the confederate army. You might learn something.
@JessicaFrameMusic
@JessicaFrameMusic Жыл бұрын
I grew up in the south and moved to California after graduating high school. I witnessed and actually experienced so much racism in California. I’m in an interracial relationship and had people in *California* tell me that I’ve ruined myself and that I’m a traitor because I’m not dating a white man. But then I hear others in CA claim that the South is racist. Meanwhile I have friends and family in the South who are loving and accepting of my boyfriend. The media really loves to sell the trope that the south is horrible. But evil is everywhere. And things aren’t always what you expect.
@kevonwill5783
@kevonwill5783 Жыл бұрын
This is SO real. Living in the north in Oregon they try to cover their hate but growing up in California and Las Vegas people are more honest and it diminishes the whole issue to be honest
@erockscott1184
@erockscott1184 Жыл бұрын
Imagine not having a spine...and then living with it...her fault...no tears.
@s_shaleh
@s_shaleh Жыл бұрын
To be fair, she was probably thinking of her family and the implications it would have on her children and husband if she went up against those mean women. Not making excuses, but that's the mentality of people living in that era. Even those who weren't racist had to act like one in order to fit in. It was still terrible though. That old lady didn't deserve that after so many years of working for the family. 😢
@suneyeintuition4315
@suneyeintuition4315 Жыл бұрын
I think that's why she got sick. Guilt and anger at herself about what she'd done. She got better when she forgave herself and stood up to Hilly for her daughter.
@mr.doctorcaptain1124
@mr.doctorcaptain1124 Жыл бұрын
@@s_shaleh we still have people doing that to this day. Gutlessness is never an excuse for being a coward
@nicholerubes2959
@nicholerubes2959 Жыл бұрын
The world was different back then. You have no idea how you would have handle this if you had been born in this erea. We are born in a time where this is consider outrageous. But back then, this family treating blacks as family was outrageous. Different times man. Different times. But at least things are moving forward in a postive way if can get others to see this
Жыл бұрын
​@mr.doctorcaptain1124 Actually, gutlessness is the very essence of being a coward.
@tainadelcaribe
@tainadelcaribe Жыл бұрын
Every time I watch this scene I cry because I know this happened so many times to so many good human beings for NO reason other than their skin color! It’s so sad that people did this and thought it was justified/ok to do.
@tsilva2183
@tsilva2183 Жыл бұрын
The bigger problem is that she did that Knowing it was wrong. She didn't think it was okay, but she did it Anyway. Peer pressure or not that woman raised her little girl and loved her. She deserved better than that and so did both daughters.
@bonniedark0
@bonniedark0 Жыл бұрын
It’s still going on today! Except it says CHILDREN of all skin color - and they’re being used as property and are being traded as we speak. The comments are vey wise but, if we abolished slavery in the U.S. how long will we pine over what happened in the past until we stop being blind to the slavery that is happening NOW!
@bonniedark0
@bonniedark0 Жыл бұрын
@warrioroftruth6307 I’m a christian, brother 🫂
@livinghaiti1098
@livinghaiti1098 Жыл бұрын
@warrioroftruth6307Everyone can inherit the kingdom of heaven no matter what race. Don’t let you anger and emotions lead you to what you feel like is truth. There is a lot of pride division and hate in those groups and the Lord hates all three. Follow Jesus and let him direct your path not man playing on your feelings. I’ve been there so I know how it feels to feel like you finally found the real truth but there is nothing good at the end of that road. Everyone belongs to God
@mattsrage76
@mattsrage76 Жыл бұрын
The really sad thing is people are still treating people like this and it’s really shitty and pathetic that we as a whole society have not grown up at all.
@13scubapro
@13scubapro Жыл бұрын
What a talent Cicely Tyson was. And she was absolutely beautiful.
@lindachadwick7358
@lindachadwick7358 2 ай бұрын
I remember first seeing her in The Autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman when I was in my teens.
@PaigeWashington-q2k
@PaigeWashington-q2k 2 ай бұрын
I Cried like a baby. I was seven so kinda was lol​@@lindachadwick7358
@TracyAdams-ry2fc
@TracyAdams-ry2fc 2 ай бұрын
@@lindachadwick7358 I remember her in an episode of the groundbreaking tv show called Emergency!! She played a worried mom when her teenage football playing son got hurt & was unconscious. This was in the 70’s and probably before she became famous.
@Scottsteaux63
@Scottsteaux63 25 күн бұрын
@@lindachadwick7358 another great movie with her in it is SOUNDER. If you haven't seen it I recommend it.
@88GrandMrs
@88GrandMrs Жыл бұрын
The only photo I've ever seen of my great-grandmother was in this uniform. My great-grandmother was the help. I absolutely loved seeing this depicted in such realness. Her diary told many stories like this movie. I got my smile from her. Thank you Great Grandma Mary
@NadiaGirl1
@NadiaGirl1 Жыл бұрын
She must have been a great lady.
@88GrandMrs
@88GrandMrs Жыл бұрын
@@NadiaGirl1 thanks dear... I never knew her... just her diary and pictures.
@desertfamilyhomestead3127
@desertfamilyhomestead3127 2 ай бұрын
Have you thought of publishing her diary?
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld
@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld 2 ай бұрын
​@@desertfamilyhomestead3127seems wrong to me 😒
@desertfamilyhomestead3127
@desertfamilyhomestead3127 2 ай бұрын
@@n0tfr0mth1sw0rld I understand that thought but on the other hand you would be introducing her to the rest of us and helping to get the truth out. While I am appalled by the way these women were treated I throughly enjoy watching the movie and the book is great to read also.
@Mattnoble80
@Mattnoble80 Жыл бұрын
Let me preface: I am a white man and I have always said I have 3 grandmothers. One for each parent and the 3rd was a local lady that took my brother and I as a nanny or whatever you want to call her but we called her our grandmother. I forever am thankful that in college I found out she was in the hospital. I was able to make it to say goodbye.
@sharond.940
@sharond.940 Жыл бұрын
Did she have to neglect her own children to look after you and your brother?
@MessagesFromAurora
@MessagesFromAurora Жыл бұрын
@bre9328
@bre9328 Жыл бұрын
​@@sharond.940Right, whyte ppl trip me out when they talk about the older bw who took care of them growing up, as if these women didn't have their own families
@musicneurons7807
@musicneurons7807 Жыл бұрын
​@@bre9328theres pain and gratitude on all sides of this thing. But grandmother is a dignifying sentiment.
@SheilaR.08
@SheilaR.08 Жыл бұрын
​@@bre9328Many women have full-time jobs and also children of their own. Most work at least in part out of financial necessity (as I do). I'm speaking of current times, separate from segregation and slavery.
@Bumblebee67544
@Bumblebee67544 Жыл бұрын
It’s so sad how she wants to rush to go be with her and says “I have to go find her, she needs me” 🥺
@MrElPoderozo1
@MrElPoderozo1 Жыл бұрын
You broke her heart! Them words would be tattooed in her brain and her heart for the rest of her life. So sad things like this happened for real.
@Lyserg_
@Lyserg_ 2 ай бұрын
The short rest of her life 😢
@danicao5010
@danicao5010 Жыл бұрын
The really sad part is that there are still people out there, to this day, that think it’s okay to treat others like that, based on their skin color. I think En vogue said it best “be color blind. don’t be so shallow”. Love this movie.
@a.maddox7250
@a.maddox7250 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's really sad that people think that white people are evil because of something that happened long before we were born
@kellymcquay2626
@kellymcquay2626 Жыл бұрын
All races do it not just white people
@shuris_vibranium
@shuris_vibranium Жыл бұрын
​@@kellymcquay2626The OP didn't say or even imply anything about white people.
@joerogers7129
@joerogers7129 Жыл бұрын
​@kellymcquay2626 Who started it, Not saying two wrongs make a right but remember that next time.
@kellymcquay2626
@kellymcquay2626 Жыл бұрын
@@shuris_vibranium Yes they did
@senguptasayn
@senguptasayn Жыл бұрын
How beautifully performed by all the actors.makes me tearful every single time.
@pritamdumbre7885
@pritamdumbre7885 Жыл бұрын
The way Constantine turned back and stood with her hand over the safety door . . Heartbreaking to say the least .
@Liamalaing
@Liamalaing Ай бұрын
I feel Constantine knew what was really going on, but my God did that stab me in the heart
@davidlovegrove945
@davidlovegrove945 Жыл бұрын
You can see the pain that Rachel and her mom are in because of them. Find it very hard to watch each time since you can feel the pain yourself.
@kaijohnson7827
@kaijohnson7827 Жыл бұрын
That dramatic pause and the facial expression on skeeter were Oscar worthy to me. "you broke her heart"
@TheArchcrate
@TheArchcrate Жыл бұрын
Emma Stone really is a phenomenal actress
@jimj1525
@jimj1525 3 ай бұрын
That’s why you stand on the side of goodness and righteousness no matter what. Not only to prevent injustice but to not have to live with guilt like that
@ladonnanewland4085
@ladonnanewland4085 Жыл бұрын
Allison Janney is awesome in this movie. Peer pressure during this Era was huge.
@larisalynnortiz8979
@larisalynnortiz8979 Жыл бұрын
She's a phenomenal actress.
@marymitchell8625
@marymitchell8625 Жыл бұрын
Allison Janney is one of THE underrated actresses.
@welldamnjackie1320
@welldamnjackie1320 Жыл бұрын
I love Allison
@dnycebushton5008
@dnycebushton5008 Жыл бұрын
Lol... so it makes it okay then? Superior how...where? Weak ass evil cowards
@mikesixx7655
@mikesixx7655 Жыл бұрын
Democrats do have quite the long history of pressuring and attacking those who don't agree with them completely. Nothing has changed
@sarahstacy81
@sarahstacy81 Жыл бұрын
Aww. That's the saddest part of the movie. The great and the late Cicely Tyson. Wonderful time piece actress. 😢.
@lerayshaaen
@lerayshaaen Жыл бұрын
Give people their flowers when they are alive cause once they take their last breath and leave this earth the flowers you would be able to bring them are the ones you put on their grave. Life is too short. Tell ppl you love them now. Show your appreciation now. ❤ Have a blessed day everyone
@summersnowflake70
@summersnowflake70 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@sunblue22
@sunblue22 Жыл бұрын
The acting in this film is unreal. Alison Janney, as ugly as this scene is, really killed it. So did Emma, and especially the legendary Cicely Tyson (RIP ❤️) Just incredible.
@blpellicore4937
@blpellicore4937 Жыл бұрын
You summarized it perfectly. Stunning performances.
@LaShawndaLP
@LaShawndaLP Жыл бұрын
One TRUE comment! The actors/actresses in this film were superb. Really, I applaud this cast, yes, even Hilly (Bryce Dallas Howard) 😂😂😂
@jillschaefer1360
@jillschaefer1360 Жыл бұрын
💯 agree - this is the most underrated comment right here.
@brih220
@brih220 Жыл бұрын
Emma Stone shaking her head like that will never not make me cry. Like it’s hitting her that she’ll never get to see her again, she never got to tell her how much she loved her or say goodbye, and she’s just shaking her head in heartbroken disbelief. 😢😭
@judysmith-randle1558
@judysmith-randle1558 Жыл бұрын
It is not sad..a grown woman succumbed to peer pressure rather than behave as a human being. Typical ..courage skipped a generation.
@RhondaKL
@RhondaKL Жыл бұрын
That,in itself,is sad.
@IzzyKawaiichi
@IzzyKawaiichi Жыл бұрын
It IS sad. It's sad that she didn't have the guts to be strong enough when she should have been, and it's sad that when she tried to fix it it, it was too late. But, of course, the biggest victim in all of this is the person she wronged.
@DvorakSymphony8
@DvorakSymphony8 Жыл бұрын
It’s pretty frickin’ sad for Rachel. She got treated like dirt after showing them decades of love and kindness. There’s a lot of sad parts in this movie, but Rachel having to walk out that door with those harpies staring at her sure made me cry. What a way to end a long career of really hard work.
@BillBarr4President
@BillBarr4President Жыл бұрын
it's called a movie
@jessicacarlisle9160
@jessicacarlisle9160 Жыл бұрын
⁠@@BillBarr4President why do people say shit like that? We all know it’s a movie. Most people know it’s based on a book. No one thinks it’s a documentary. But the behavior isn’t from just that time period. Grown adults succumb to peer pressure and it use it as an excuse to treat others as less than them to this very day
@yayadolmo
@yayadolmo Жыл бұрын
This by far was the saddest scene I've ever seen in any movie. Just seeing the wind knocked out of her while her eyes swole with tears, broke my heart just watching it.
@daevonthesavage7483
@daevonthesavage7483 2 ай бұрын
The scene that does it for me is the little girl at the end banging on the window screaming for Aibeleen with tears in her little eyes.
@yayadolmo
@yayadolmo 2 ай бұрын
@@daevonthesavage7483 YESSSS!!!! That 🎯 hits too.
@patriciamartin1205
@patriciamartin1205 Жыл бұрын
Where's the pie? Need one for the ladies at the dinner table. ❤
@flwrfan1752
@flwrfan1752 Жыл бұрын
@patriciamartin1205-Minnie should have opened up a pie shop in that town!The first customers could have been the ladies ( her Mother’s so called friends)at Eugenia’s house!LOL!
@RachelIn179
@RachelIn179 2 ай бұрын
That was Eugenia's other Mama. She taught her what was right and wrong. I adored Cecily Tyson. What a fine actress.
@GoddessAthena_here
@GoddessAthena_here Жыл бұрын
People who look the other way are also abusers.
@s.e.e455
@s.e.e455 Жыл бұрын
You should tell that to people who live in New York.
@GoddessAthena_here
@GoddessAthena_here Жыл бұрын
@@s.e.e455 I see your point. Anyway, we have to remember that space is relative. We are all connected, no matter the country. And looking the other way is abusing yourself first.
@suvijii841
@suvijii841 Жыл бұрын
I forgot Emma Stone was in this. No wonder it was such a good movie!
@TracyAdams-ry2fc
@TracyAdams-ry2fc 2 ай бұрын
There were a lot of excellent actresses/actors in this movie!
@jenniferpook6498
@jenniferpook6498 Жыл бұрын
Yes I can, peer pressure is extremely effective, especially when paired from someone percieved as having some authority over you. The Milgram study proved that.
@dnycebushton5008
@dnycebushton5008 Жыл бұрын
We don't excuse evil or cowardice. She is a wealthy white woman ...I thought she was supposed to be superior in every way. 🤔
@theresedavis2526
@theresedavis2526 Жыл бұрын
These White Southerners never knew what being a Christian was!
@hennesseyme9112
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
It hasn't changed.
@hmo1076
@hmo1076 Жыл бұрын
And they still don’t
@QigongQi
@QigongQi Жыл бұрын
The South has good peaches and nice weather. I would much rather have grown up in TN or GA or the Carolinas than sick a$$ MinnesotaStan.
@Tigerlily_Fresh
@Tigerlily_Fresh Жыл бұрын
That's why they're unforgiven til this day, but let them tell it.
@QigongQi
@QigongQi Жыл бұрын
Neither did Northern Yankee Christians and their Sunday social club "churches."
@PlaceForAnEcho
@PlaceForAnEcho Жыл бұрын
Subtitles are painfully inaccurate but 1 of the best scenes in that movie is when the mother says to her daughter maybe courage skips a generation because her daughter is courageous while she, herself didn’t have a backbone
@estephanelia
@estephanelia Жыл бұрын
this has to be only a mild version of what it was really like
@enterme
@enterme 3 ай бұрын
Emma Stone: Angry>Shocked>Devastated>Disgusted. The best actress!
@JessicaCaldwell-ib2sm
@JessicaCaldwell-ib2sm Жыл бұрын
The mother later admtted that she had been a coward and mentions that bravery skipped her.
@MたいしS
@MたいしS Жыл бұрын
This made me cry. So heartbreaking 💔
@adaj472
@adaj472 Жыл бұрын
This is an example of someone who is simply “not a racist” vs. anti-racist. An anti-racist would’ve told the President to leave. Hell, wouldn’t have even let her in the front door. What you believe internally counts for jack if you let the bad stuff continue around you.
@tttthh676
@tttthh676 Жыл бұрын
Peer pressure defines people as being weak...people often jump on the band wagon as too scared to step out of line n be ostrisised....n the really coward thing is...those who jump on the band wagon act all innocent when later alone n crossing the victims path... I was once evicted due to this sort of behaviour though managed to soar higher than those who plotted against me.....cowards are everywhere
@Sliceofhaupia
@Sliceofhaupia Жыл бұрын
Gossip teen didn’t need any of that.
@thanavitthirachainan270
@thanavitthirachainan270 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, wasn’t gossip teen’s fault at all.
@Jds_7
@Jds_7 3 ай бұрын
I love to see that later in the movie the mom redeemed herself by helping Skeeter from Hilly despite not being able to save Constantine herself
@bitokay147
@bitokay147 Жыл бұрын
😢😢 this is crazy because Emma stone seems so genuine and while hearted person that in the scene she was not acting that was her real response.
@msnos6245
@msnos6245 Жыл бұрын
Im stuck on the part where she said she sent her brother to bring the lady back. Not to ASK the lady to come back.
@margomckaine78
@margomckaine78 Жыл бұрын
She sent her brother to bring Constantine "home." Home. All inside of her she loved Constantine and Rachel and knew their home was with her. But as much as she loved them, she loved the acceptance of others more. When you finally learn that this type of acceptance is not worth the cost, it destroys a part of you.
@msnos6245
@msnos6245 Жыл бұрын
@@margomckaine78 I understand, but when the lady said she sent her son to go get Constantine it came off to me like she saw her as a possession. She should have written a letter of apology asking her to come back, Constantine wasnt chattle
@chgosatrap
@chgosatrap Жыл бұрын
@@msnos6245 Because she was going to make Constantine go back to WORK even at that age. You are right.
@hennesseyme9112
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
@@msnos6245 In that period, she was Chattel and I never looked at it the way you expressed except to the fact that she thought she could do as she pleased with the help. I wish it was written that Skeeter could have gone quickly to say goodbye before she died.
@katemiller5990
@katemiller5990 Жыл бұрын
With friends like these, who needs enemies.
@tigergreg8
@tigergreg8 Жыл бұрын
This is Exactly why I never in my life care what others think, I do what my heart tells me to do. If someone doesn’t like it, then the door is open, and I expect you to walk through it. I never would want to cause the kind of pain this woman would have felt if this were true. Honestly, I can tell you I’d ask everyone who was in the room to leave my home immediately.
@keithbell9348
@keithbell9348 Жыл бұрын
I believe you. Hats off to you because back then during that Jim Crowe era, it would have taken some phenomenal guts to do.what you say. The consequence would have been social ioslation. But I heard of steller individuals who knew that, but couldn't have cared less.
@tigergreg8
@tigergreg8 Жыл бұрын
Trust me, I could deal with isolation, if it meant isolating myself from people I have no respect for. I believe if more people stood up for what they believe, and hopefully believing something positive, more people would step up and follow you. The problem with Society today is, we have WAY too many followers and not enough true leaders. @@keithbell9348
@ClovertheUnburnt
@ClovertheUnburnt Жыл бұрын
"You broke her heart."
@hennesseyme9112
@hennesseyme9112 Жыл бұрын
Imagine living with the guilt of those words.
@Slimdadondada
@Slimdadondada Жыл бұрын
I’d been dead back then quick. Cause I just wouldn’t stand for their shit. Ugh I cried on this part.
@helenhull609
@helenhull609 3 ай бұрын
She did break her heart. 😢
@ladymary22
@ladymary22 Жыл бұрын
Sorry I'm so sorry. That means nothing. She betrayed Constitine over the need to belong.
@han7oee
@han7oee Жыл бұрын
This film isn't perfect but it can't be denied that a few scenes were heartbreaking, especially this one
@slylataupe4272
@slylataupe4272 Жыл бұрын
This scene is a good reminder of useful rule in life, know your place before acting silly. Fear the consequences instead of being hurt by them.
@Ghost-Mama
@Ghost-Mama Жыл бұрын
She should have used that opportunity to teach her child how to stand up to the Bullies and kick THEM out instead of her own family. Constantine was a part of their family. She should have been treated better.
@ankina86
@ankina86 Жыл бұрын
I didn't even know that I could be that angry... I would never be able to look at my mom without being pissed if I would be her.
@tinaturner3624
@tinaturner3624 Жыл бұрын
This was definitely one of the best movies i ever seen it has everything..... comedy! Tears, lessons , wow ❤
@karengraves3900
@karengraves3900 Жыл бұрын
I'm not crying...you're crying. Great movie!
@bre_me
@bre_me Жыл бұрын
I’d be so offended that woman was telling me what to do in my own house I would keep Constantine and Rachel there to spite her, not only because it would be the right thing to do
@moniquevalencia5427
@moniquevalencia5427 Жыл бұрын
You broke her heart, You broke mine too with this scene 😢💔💔
@horrorcide13
@horrorcide13 2 ай бұрын
The book was so much different in this part. I hate how they make Charlotte look in this. This isn't what happened at all and when I found out, lessened the how much I loved the movie. In the book, Constantines daughter was an evil spiteful brat who purposely tried to embarrass Charlotte in front of 95 other people. She even spit in her face. I could write every detail that happened but in the end Constantine decided to take her daughters side and LEAVE. 🤦
@birdenthusiast2095
@birdenthusiast2095 Жыл бұрын
This scene made me cry 😢
@Lovejazz01
@Lovejazz01 Жыл бұрын
It’s a movie , it drama , but back then it was real, this was the real world to a most if not all black people, especially in the south. This was our history , and your history..
@mrdompaul
@mrdompaul Жыл бұрын
Two truly awesome actors!
@millercreativestrategiesll8863
@millercreativestrategiesll8863 Жыл бұрын
As a Yankee, I cannot imagine allowing racism to prevail
@spikesgirl9371
@spikesgirl9371 Жыл бұрын
You acting like you yanks were any better. News flash, you weren't.
@theresedavis2526
@theresedavis2526 Жыл бұрын
​​@@spikesgirl9371News flash...Yes, most Yanks were better! Blacks weren't lynched in the North, Blacks had jobs and even professions in the North, Some Blacks achieved middle class status in the North, Blacks were not as segregated in the North, and Blacks were protected by the law in the North!
@alleycat616
@alleycat616 Жыл бұрын
As a southerner, neither can I.
@teenaray8084
@teenaray8084 3 ай бұрын
Excellent acting in this movie!!
@medusagorgon8432
@medusagorgon8432 Жыл бұрын
When people do not take responsibility for their actions it is the absolute worst possible thing! It is dangerous and damaging! It IS your fault! No one is perfect. Self-reflect and take responsibility for your actions.💔
@torakunoichi
@torakunoichi 3 ай бұрын
Imagine going into somebody else’s home and demanding they fire their hired help These two poor women treated terribly but bigots
@livingdeadgirl939
@livingdeadgirl939 3 ай бұрын
This is so heartbreaking. Poor Rachel.
@dalecharlow5580
@dalecharlow5580 Жыл бұрын
The saddest part of the movie is the arrest of Anjuan Ellis.
@coleengoodell7523
@coleengoodell7523 Жыл бұрын
I can't even watch this part again. It hurt me down to my very soul.
@Lyserg_
@Lyserg_ 2 ай бұрын
I know some people like to say Skeeter is just a "white saviour", but they fail to realise she is a young woman who loved "the help" as her family. They fail to see this is about a young woman who comes back home to a missing mother figure, and that she can't ever see her again. Her relationship with Constantine is just like baby girl's with Aibileen. The paid worker cares more about raising the child with love, compassion, wisdom.
@rianamohamed300
@rianamohamed300 3 ай бұрын
It was the same in the apartheid years. Ppl uphold 'honour' in the eyes of their peers by belittling those less fortunate. Apartheid was ugly. I hate racism.
@ricanelson1189
@ricanelson1189 3 ай бұрын
She died around her ppl, who loved her
@jadebrown1017
@jadebrown1017 Жыл бұрын
I needed someone to live up too. Kills me
@Lelo.Machaka
@Lelo.Machaka Жыл бұрын
She regret it, don’t pretend peer pressure doesn’t exist at any age Especially in those times, some white good women felt forced to do things like that
@manahylgilani355
@manahylgilani355 Жыл бұрын
That's not the behaviour of a good person
@Lelo.Machaka
@Lelo.Machaka Жыл бұрын
@@manahylgilani355 it’s the behaviour of a normal person who makes mistakes, regrets it and tries to make it right like she did That’s a good person to me 🤔
@aliahspirituality
@aliahspirituality Жыл бұрын
@@Lelo.Machakawhen did she try to make it right? By still treating the people who worked for her like shit after? Having her daughter turn the tv off when they were all watching national news. Talking about don’t encourage them? Like they’re subhuman or little kids. She was still trash
@LoveNurture2003
@LoveNurture2003 Ай бұрын
Definitely a sad scene and an example that 'Evil thrives when good men do nothing'. I've watched the movie The Help twice which was brilliantly acted by all involved, however, it was extremely sad the way black people were treated and in some cases, still are. Cowardice is something so-called sympathisers need to be deeply ashamed of!
@sharonjensen3016
@sharonjensen3016 2 күн бұрын
Anyone who knows something is wrong, yet chooses to look the other way is just as bad as the wrongdoers.
@jaydamay6815
@jaydamay6815 Жыл бұрын
everyone did a phenomenal acting job in this movie .
@Satomiq
@Satomiq Жыл бұрын
Yeah, teen's minds as the character Emma's playing are always somewhat broken, that line is true.
@Cruisetravelers
@Cruisetravelers Ай бұрын
This movie is phenomenal. The acting from every single person is phenomenal. The Help is definitely one of my favorite movies of all time.
@BellAtor-nw4ni
@BellAtor-nw4ni 2 ай бұрын
Betrayal kills in a lot of ways. Poor Constitine
@TheBeliever1204
@TheBeliever1204 Жыл бұрын
Awh it was very difficult back then to stand up to such peer pressure. Is the saddest part of the movie... As they all loved her really
@smartditzs7536
@smartditzs7536 Жыл бұрын
Some people stood up in that time period and helped. It was a choice. She was disloyal in a core moment , that with a little backbone could have been confronted. Ex “She comes in the front sometimes no big deal in my home, she’s worked here many years”, BINGOO ✨any human being with a decent conscious would have made that decision. So stop the white fragility sympathy, it’s okay to say someone/something was just straight WRONG
@sophiechen4874
@sophiechen4874 2 ай бұрын
Emma Stone is too good. She conveyed deep heartbrokenness, betrayal, and disgust all in one short scene.
@zacharybodine3670
@zacharybodine3670 Жыл бұрын
This scene broke my heart
@billymusselwhite5256
@billymusselwhite5256 3 ай бұрын
This broke my heart 💔😢😢😢
@carolynmaynard5039
@carolynmaynard5039 Жыл бұрын
Loved this movie and bought for my video library . That's exactly what was going on back then in the south.. Hard to believe this actually happened in our nation.😢
@hunterstanfield4061
@hunterstanfield4061 3 ай бұрын
God when she says that she died the amount of raw emotion captured between both of them is incredible truly great actresses and a truly great movie
@teresaescobedo5504
@teresaescobedo5504 Жыл бұрын
She never showed her true emotions only until someone cared for that person that the feel bad. Not on their own free will..she wasnt sorry..
@marieboyle6183
@marieboyle6183 Жыл бұрын
This movie is fabulous! I LOVED the chocolate pie scene. 😂😂
@jekmr84
@jekmr84 2 ай бұрын
I feel like the daughters actions were wrong in this time frame. Sure cost her Mom's livelihood because of her pride.
@bearlyalive9669
@bearlyalive9669 Жыл бұрын
Not enough people are talking about the line “you broke her heart” shit makes me teary eyed
@ashleylondono7004
@ashleylondono7004 3 ай бұрын
Wasn't it kinda the daughter's fault cause the lady told her she was attending people but the daughter decided to barge in to see her mom, back in the day she must've known something like that would get her in trouble or her mom, she caused the scene and got her mom fired. Though obviously the lady could've disregarded it, but the daughter was disrespectful barging in like that, I kinda feel like the lady stood her ground, although it's true that firing the old lady wasn't really necessary cause it wasn't her fault but it's a back in those days kinda movie so not everything was fair anyways
@likhithakommuri1472
@likhithakommuri1472 2 ай бұрын
I teared up when i saw this scene. How people change just in to fit in their group and how they cut ties with people abruptly who did no bad to you but "help" (service). Heartbreaking.
@Cocoiland
@Cocoiland Жыл бұрын
The maid lady is so gorgeous
@3114bsad
@3114bsad Жыл бұрын
At least she felt remorse for what she did, she handled the situation poorly and it's unforgivable but alot of people in that time would never admit they did wrong and feel remorse
@aliahspirituality
@aliahspirituality Жыл бұрын
She didn’t feel that much remorse because if she did she wouldn’t want to behave that way ever again. She still treated the black people that worked for her like shit. Turning the tv off when a nationally aired speech concerning their rights was going on. Then gonna tell her daughter not to encourage them by having them watch it. Don’t encourage them? Like they’re little kids. She was still trash.
@3114bsad
@3114bsad Жыл бұрын
@guidetotappingin yeah and humans have been terrible to each other for as long as we have been around, Humans being terrible is the default, here she at least shows she knows what she did was terrible and even during the exchange you can see she didn't want to do it, if you expect people to not be terrible all you do is allow them the oppertunity to disappoint you
@marisolreyes6502
@marisolreyes6502 Ай бұрын
This was definitely the saddest part of the movie. Had me/has me in tears.
@Scottsteaux63
@Scottsteaux63 25 күн бұрын
"You broke her heart!" I thought MY heart was going to break.
@indybruggeman1293
@indybruggeman1293 Жыл бұрын
She said "you broke her heart" not "you broken her world"
@valerievention
@valerievention Жыл бұрын
“gossip teen didn’t do anything wrong” ✋😔
@sabrinaaguirre8055
@sabrinaaguirre8055 3 ай бұрын
I’m not saying she was in the right for firing her, not by a long shot. The daughter shouldn’t have busted in like that. She should have known given the situation what the implications were. To this day I would not just bust into someone else’s home like that. With that being said, this was pure discrimination and racism, nothing ever justifies that.
@bettyspaghetti7654
@bettyspaghetti7654 Ай бұрын
Went against her own morals. She would forever regret that.
@sharizazepeda9502
@sharizazepeda9502 5 күн бұрын
Rachel and Skeeter had the same energy and spirit both fierce and brave women because they were raised by the same strong mother ❤️
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