The Secret to Making Powerful Friends | Jordan Harbinger on Impact Theory

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Tom Bilyeu

Tom Bilyeu

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@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
This was a really fun show. Thanks again for having me on and thanks to everyone watching for their attention. I hope to count many of you as fans of The Jordan Harbinger Show in the near future!
@jonathanacuna
@jonathanacuna 6 жыл бұрын
THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW wow I remember listening to your show years ago. Your advice changed my life to help build me to who I am today. Super grateful. Going to relisten to your show all over again this week!
@syrriamarshalleck905
@syrriamarshalleck905 6 жыл бұрын
okay...you are a genius. I always notice these 'covert contracts' from people and but I didn't know what to call it, I did it sometimes too. You helped me alot, so thank you so much I hope other people watch this and learn too
@michaelhardie9193
@michaelhardie9193 6 жыл бұрын
THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW I first caught wind of you on your previous show and have followed you over. Your content is amazing and having a podcast of both you and Tom is amazing. By far my two favorite podcasts!!!
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jordan! Great stuff. Dig the well before you're thirsty, Give without expectation of return, Don't keep score. Be a Value Arbitrator - help people who need each other find each other. Let me know if I can help your show in any way : D RP
@SiimLand
@SiimLand 6 жыл бұрын
Master Networker
@Wise101
@Wise101 6 жыл бұрын
Summary of Jordan Harbinger's rules for powerful friendships/relationships: 1. Dig the well before you are thirsty. (Start and nurture relationships before you need any type of help) 2. Give without expecting anything in return and without any attachment. 3. Do not keep score. (Don't think things like "I did this for you so now you owe me a favor.") Bonus: 4. Do good things for others when you can. If someone did something nice for you try to help them if/when and however you can. Help others even if they haven't done anything for you, and do it without asking for anything in return.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
I dig it!
@sidmichael1158
@sidmichael1158 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@jeffreyfine558
@jeffreyfine558 5 жыл бұрын
I know it is hard for most of us to not have attachment when we help others. We are just so used to thinking now we have something good coming in return or actually owed from that person. Instead good will come from our deeds but not exactly the way we think. Maybe another person from our network with help with something we need,
@mootastica3146
@mootastica3146 5 жыл бұрын
Mind shift!! I realising I’m often a taker and I take score a lot, I also have two people in my family that won’t do anything that doesn’t benefit them. Time to think about how I can help others more.
@noraparejo7673
@noraparejo7673 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@leslie_rogers
@leslie_rogers 6 жыл бұрын
How nice it is to watch an interview where the interviewer lets the guest speak without interrupting. Interesting and inspiring interviews, always!
@vr8944
@vr8944 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly, one of the things I can't stand of Gary Vee is that he can't stand other people being the center of attention. Tom is really cool
@viniholanda1223
@viniholanda1223 6 жыл бұрын
"Don't waste time making short term money when you have a long term goal!" I relate to this so much
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
BOOM ;)
@AchieversWorkshop
@AchieversWorkshop 6 жыл бұрын
They say life is 50% what you know and 50% who you know. Make friends with the right kind of people!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
indeed.
@johannafroese9484
@johannafroese9484 5 жыл бұрын
I am so grateful that I live in a time where there is awesome content like this available FOR FREE - sometimes I just can't believe how lucky I am.
@patricksslkpatricksslk2624
@patricksslkpatricksslk2624 3 жыл бұрын
True , I am staggered by the knowledge and I remember the days before the net. I believe there is more to come. Esp in the educational field. It's quite possible that alot of educational information seminars could be free online. Infact theoretically knowledge of this type should be freely available.
@SiimLand
@SiimLand 6 жыл бұрын
"Every second you spend feeling sorry for yourself you're wasting your time" - @40:40
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Truuuuuuuuth
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
nice one.
@ikbenmarko
@ikbenmarko 6 жыл бұрын
We sometimes should go through these emotions though and then CRUSH IT. hard to sometimes ignore it.
@ImWORTHITINC
@ImWORTHITINC 6 жыл бұрын
GREAT POINT, Siim!
@commanderpipi1youknowfromp730
@commanderpipi1youknowfromp730 6 жыл бұрын
You Sir are always come up with the best comments.
@elvinafernandes
@elvinafernandes 6 жыл бұрын
One of the few people who actually break it down and show how they got to the top
@Zoesstuff
@Zoesstuff 6 жыл бұрын
Action ends suffering because faith without works is dead. Incredible interview - thanks Impact team!
@nitahudson5109
@nitahudson5109 6 жыл бұрын
Tom is the master of intros. I’m glad he’s shortened them to be even more exciting. The art of brevity is truly impactful!!
@moshefabrikant1
@moshefabrikant1 3 жыл бұрын
6:40 Networking is the name of the game 8:20 Just record 15:45 Quote 16:06 First impressions is without talking 20:30 Upgrade your weakness and practice your strengths 21:40 How do you know you are good at it? Great question 23:55 Coaches are great. Find it as early as you can. 24:40 Help others with no return. And keep communications like that (Noah Kagan) 27:00 Start relationship before contacting them. Ask to help people before attachment to getting something in return 30:10 Don't keep a score of helping 32:17 Summary of relationships 36:00 How to approach the person you interview 38:28 Have income Of year or 6 months no matter what happens 39:30 Quote
@beltusnkwawir2908
@beltusnkwawir2908 3 жыл бұрын
"Anxiety is energy we don't know what to do with" 41:12 -- This is all needed to stop the negative thought pattern ann get back to work. Thank you Jordan. Thank you Tom.
@AsHleYxxX257
@AsHleYxxX257 6 жыл бұрын
I have watched just about every episode, some even twice,but have never left a comment... That needs to change, I want to get involved! Jordan was so real and authentic. He eloquently talked about the importance of human connection and I really needed to hear that. I loved how when you mentioned how he reached out to you earlier, he didn’t even remember, but it still held true to what he was preaching throughout the interview. It shows how he is living what he is saying, and it was a great example of how genuine connection with others is critical to long term success. I love it Tom! I plan on showing myself and my voice much more around here, thank you for giving me the opportunity and platform to do just that! Take care.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Ashley! You're so kind!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
I hope to count you as a fan of The Jordan Harbinger Show someday as well!
@theresagonzales3959
@theresagonzales3959 3 жыл бұрын
💕
@ModernConnoisseur
@ModernConnoisseur 6 жыл бұрын
That doorway thing is like practicing daily positive affirmations, rewiring our mindset, which changes our actions etc, i luv it!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
kind of, only it builds a real habit and isn't just positive affirmations (pseudoscience)
@alliesteamc3546
@alliesteamc3546 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, we also love Jordan Harbinger show also! Thanks so much for showing up here since we get best leads of who to listen to by listening to Tom Bilyeu’s impact theory!
@lflores5050
@lflores5050 6 жыл бұрын
Tom - you are exceptional at listening...I've learned so much from you just by watching you listen intently to people. Thank you! -Luis
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Very kind.
@l.kumaran55
@l.kumaran55 6 жыл бұрын
1. Dig the well before thirsty 2. Give without expectation or attachment of getting 3. Do not keep score I think this is going to change my life. Thank you Jordan, and props to Tom for asking such a question @26:15
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
nice -great list. Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@l.kumaran55
@l.kumaran55 6 жыл бұрын
Hahaha yea man, I stumbled upon you when you did an episode with Vanessa Van Edwards, and I immediately subscribed to your KZbin channel - Da Ding-Ding Cha ; ) I also downloaded Stitcher just so I could listen to your full show. So yeah... I'm a fan And man, if you ever find yourself in Malaysia, hit me up... I'll show you around!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
oh nice. Thanks!
@Kingly24
@Kingly24 5 жыл бұрын
I've never been so engaged in my life with just listening to someone talk. He makes Jim Rohn looks normal. He kept my attention although he has the same tone with the same soft pitch. This dude uses simple analogies and examples which anyone could understand and learn from. You truly have earned my attention Jordon Harbinger
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
hey thank you! this is so kind of you to say. Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@BryanDivisions
@BryanDivisions 6 жыл бұрын
Dude this was excellent advice and such a humble dude! Main takeaway - Ask people how you can help them, and expect nothing in return. I've noticed this lately as I've had friends ask me to help them with things I didn't even know I could help them with! Much love Jordan and thanks Tom for bringing such an awesome talk out into the universe!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
you're welcome Bryan! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@lindienhlapo5231
@lindienhlapo5231 6 жыл бұрын
Tom iis such an inspiration though, He is sick but he is up doing what he loves and giving it a 100 percent. Man, If you are not this passionate. You might need to check yourself. Loved this interview. From South Africa! x
@ImWORTHITINC
@ImWORTHITINC 6 жыл бұрын
DIG THE WELL BEFORE YOU'RE THIRSTY! Now I have phrase for the things I've experienced the last few years. Another great reason: DO IT JUST BECAUSE BRINGING OTHERS JOY BRINGS YOU JOY! Being resentful is a result of premeditated expectations caused by covert contracts!! Thanks so much, Tom & Jordan!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
you're welcome! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@Nashking20
@Nashking20 6 жыл бұрын
I discovered Impact Theory after listening to Tom Bilyeu's interview on Jordan Harbinger's old podcast show, and I've been listening to Impact Theory ever since. So, it looks like things have come full circle!
@PhiloSage
@PhiloSage 6 жыл бұрын
Nashking20 darn I must have missed that one, might still be there though. I know that they have removed many episodes.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
ha! That's great! I'm so glad we introduced you to Tom and now you're back watching me on I.T.!
@titifash74
@titifash74 2 жыл бұрын
1. Dig the well before you are thirsty 2. Give without expecting anything in return 3. Do not keep scores. Thanks for the wise words, really helpful
@hrvojeodak
@hrvojeodak 4 жыл бұрын
Yet another FANTASTIC show Tom. Jordan is one of the most intelligent, funny and simply awesome guys you can learn from. His Jordan Harbinger Show is my go to podcast nowadays, along with Kevin Rose, Tim Ferriss and Peter Attia. Topics he covers are very wide, you can learn everything from dating apps to management techniques and he has a very, very unique style. Also, his Networking course is pure gold. Simple and effective, actionable advice you can incorporate immediately. Tom, thanks for bringing this guy on the show!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words!
@jaydurham778
@jaydurham778 6 жыл бұрын
These interviews... I've heard some of these people before on podcasts and I used to be a subscriber to The Art of Charm. Seeing these people on IT, I always end up opening a notepad on my computer and typing in takeaways to review later and important quotes from these shows. This channel is golden and Jordan was an awesome interview.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jay! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@paulperole
@paulperole 6 жыл бұрын
someone (a user or a guest) once noted that Tom has the BEST INTROs for all of his guests. so well written & presented. Tom, you're doing such a great job.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
that was me actually...on this full episode.
@paulperole
@paulperole 6 жыл бұрын
what do you mean? anyway, I love how you come back and check the comments. Jesus, can this get any better? 🙌🙌🙌
@jeffreyfine558
@jeffreyfine558 5 жыл бұрын
I took copious notes which is a rarity for me. That abundance mindset shines through.Jordan, I want more !
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
glad to hear it! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@sydnichattman2738
@sydnichattman2738 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve paused this quite a few times to make “hello how are you doing...’what can I do to help’ phone calls within the last two hours and it felt good! Thanks for dropping jewels!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
you're welcome! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@sydnichattman2738
@sydnichattman2738 6 жыл бұрын
I watched/listened to one of them just this morning in my *save for later* you've got a new supporter! Thanks!
@jesserodriguez3614
@jesserodriguez3614 5 жыл бұрын
Love the authenticity. Always a great interview if it's impact theory. Love Tom's depth of research, excavative questioning, and though he asks the best questions and can even better articulate someone's response than the they can at times, he remains translucent allowing the full completion of the response. Master of his craft! Jordan was awesome and genuine. It is much appreciated on this side of the screen. Thank you both!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jesse! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@Miki91nis
@Miki91nis 6 жыл бұрын
Talk at 30 minutes, about passive aggression, really resonated hard with me. Plenty of usfull advises, and Tom, you delivered again, in spite of you having trouble with your voice. Btw, I'm from Serbia, and really thrilled he speaks my language! Veliki pozdrav ako citas ovo Jordane!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
citam bre! ;) hvala puno
@Miki91nis
@Miki91nis 6 жыл бұрын
Hahah, to care! Nema na cemu, hvala tebi na intervjuu :)
@DomCTBG
@DomCTBG 6 жыл бұрын
You're so handsome.
@alliesteamc3546
@alliesteamc3546 3 жыл бұрын
Tom Bilyeu offers such awesome interviews-great selections,- great questions, great responses, great lessons! Thank you so much for your fabulous contributions to the community!😁
@laurentiulugo4579
@laurentiulugo4579 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you made this happen so people could follow examples and bring all of us closer
@ukknightrider
@ukknightrider 6 жыл бұрын
Wow ! I love Jordan he's a really special human being. That was a the quickest 49 mins, it honestly felt like a five min chat. Good luck in all you do sir. Peace
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
thank you! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@phanicewamukota3006
@phanicewamukota3006 6 жыл бұрын
That was worth all the 48.57 minutes spend here. Thank you.
@manjeet7595
@manjeet7595 6 жыл бұрын
It's not good to compare two great things, but hey tom i enjoy your impact theory more than ted talks because you go in deep.
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! I'll take that compliment! Thank you!
@manjeet7595
@manjeet7595 6 жыл бұрын
Tom Bilyeu Thank you for your precious reply tom 😆.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Impact Theory is def better than TED because of the interaction and the depth.
@mitchell.9632
@mitchell.9632 6 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Jordan and Automobile about the interaction. Ted is good for shorter overview but may not cover all points.
@mandylee2898
@mandylee2898 6 жыл бұрын
LOVE how authentic Jordon Harbinger is. Grateful for this episode.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mandy! Do you also listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show?
@mandylee2898
@mandylee2898 6 жыл бұрын
I subscribed to your channel once I found you here. Will do!!!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
welcome!
@somethingbeautiful2212
@somethingbeautiful2212 5 жыл бұрын
I love Jordan Harbinger! Every pore of my body and my “ear balls “ is soaking up the important information he shares! Thank you 🙏😌
@janedildine2014
@janedildine2014 6 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen, I think, "This one is my favorite!" THIS ONE GOES DOWN AS ONE OF MY FAVORITE !
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jane!
@vr8944
@vr8944 5 жыл бұрын
I love this vídeos. I haven't watched mainstream media in years. Don't even trust it anymore, but Tom is awesome
@luket79_gc56
@luket79_gc56 5 жыл бұрын
This sort of interview makes the world a better place, thanks guys. I'll take building a well before your thirsty and especially action leads to less suffering and run with it. Many thanks.
@trishataylor2837
@trishataylor2837 6 жыл бұрын
I had never heard of Joran till just now. I had watched several of your shows before Tom so knew whoever he was, it would be good. Wow....It was Great! I listened so intently, it was like I was breathing in every word. What I mostly heard was a great deal of opportunity as the core of his success as in " it just so happened " several times. It gives me hope as I am preparing to move forward in my life. I have been at a job for 10 yrs and besides physically needing to leave, I need to expand my horizons for bigger and better things. It's opportunity I need to come to me a it has in the past to bring me to a place where it won't be so much work as it will be fun and passion. Thanks for interviewing this very dynamic individual.👍
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Trisha! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@MrMcfire2
@MrMcfire2 6 жыл бұрын
The advice he gave on reaching out to others, givng without expecting anything in return, is key.
@Merjen_nur
@Merjen_nur 6 жыл бұрын
I love Impact Theory and I listen everyday at least 1 podcast or KZbin video but i never thought there would be a talk about my country Turkmenistan! Thank you for this!
@stukenborgpodcast
@stukenborgpodcast 6 жыл бұрын
This made my brain sizzle watching and listening to the top two Heavy-Hitters of Interviewers!! Thank you both for sharing your time, experiences and knowledge with us!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Pam!
@stukenborgpodcast
@stukenborgpodcast 6 жыл бұрын
THE JORDAN HARBINGER SHOW Absolutely!
@tammymccarthy1204
@tammymccarthy1204 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you both Tom and Jordan. The best part is your vulnerability on your part Jordan . Thank you so much for all your great content . Well appreciated when I was wanting to wallow in self pity 😊. I will now take ACTION. Much love
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?
@mysteriouspsycho4010
@mysteriouspsycho4010 6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these videos so much, they've impacted me in a way that makes a simple thank you not enough but thank you is what I can do. Have a great day Tom Bilyeu and Crew.
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! That's very kind!
@GypsyOakRetrievers
@GypsyOakRetrievers 6 жыл бұрын
Watched tonight with my wife. Wrote down several great ideas and ready to implement then in my business. Love it!! Thank you
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
LMK how those ideas go! More drills from me at advancedhumandynamics.com/levelone if you're up to the challenge!
@gabrielmujimbere5556
@gabrielmujimbere5556 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much... My father always tells us to be focus on human investment than money... So happy to hear people like u too validate and upgrade one of my guide line in life. Thank you so much
@TheZGALa
@TheZGALa 6 жыл бұрын
Perfect message for me today. I am just recently coming to appreciate how much coaching can be such a catalyst for rapid growth.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
definitely!
@MaxMaxMax3
@MaxMaxMax3 5 жыл бұрын
Very openly spoken. Thanks a lot.
@jamiej6680
@jamiej6680 4 жыл бұрын
OMG Tom Bilyeu, I am hooked on your interview content. The best thing I have ever discovered. Tremendous thanks!!
@avijitsarker7015
@avijitsarker7015 5 жыл бұрын
im 16 and this is literally the best youtube channel I have EVER seen
@ismilareyes4176
@ismilareyes4176 6 жыл бұрын
Extremely powerful advice on how one can build confidence and true relationship. Great episode as always!!
@zeroooooooo22
@zeroooooooo22 6 жыл бұрын
"Dig the well before you´re thirsty" - in the case of relationships @27:30 - in the case of money @39:18
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
nice!
@ThomasJakobMusic
@ThomasJakobMusic 4 жыл бұрын
" *Every second you spend feeling sorry for yourself is a total waste of time.* " " *Put your pants back on and get back to work* " " *The one thing that made me feel better, was getting back to work* " Possibly the most important words in your life ever.
@EMillerphotography
@EMillerphotography 6 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best channels in YT 💓
@CookingwithZee
@CookingwithZee 6 жыл бұрын
Great job Tom, finding your channel has been the best thing in my life. Totally life changing, thank-you!
@moritzschroder
@moritzschroder 6 жыл бұрын
making powerful friends and networking is sooooo underrated! for me tim ferriss is the master in that. seriously, is there anyone in the personal development realm he is not friends with? absolutely mind-blowing! i really hope to have tim on my channel some day and ask him about that!
@DomCTBG
@DomCTBG 6 жыл бұрын
wondering why you said that here...*thinking emoji*
@WoahBeyney
@WoahBeyney 6 жыл бұрын
THIS IS GREAT STUFF! Tom, you are changing lives. Thank you.
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! So glad the content adds value!
@donakarunaratne6012
@donakarunaratne6012 4 жыл бұрын
Don't skip a bit! wow, this guy is so good!!! Thank you Tom!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 4 жыл бұрын
thanks Dona! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?
@brandonlee8312
@brandonlee8312 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best show on The KZbin Sphere hands down 🔥 🔥 🔥
@coachmo621
@coachmo621 6 жыл бұрын
most people don't build relationships before they need them...they're not thinking about digging that well before they're thirsty....yes!
@mirandasummer
@mirandasummer 6 жыл бұрын
This IT'S absolutely crucial to hear!! --- "Action Ends Suffering"
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@javierreyes-valenzuela6641
@javierreyes-valenzuela6641 6 жыл бұрын
This episode is probably the best one! So far.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
high praise! I hope you'll also enjoy The Jordan Harbinger Show if you like this one so much!
@Numantino312
@Numantino312 5 жыл бұрын
am autistic (aspergers) so am happily introverted, yet i've unmet needs in regards to networking, socail, etc. thank you both for giving me this much valuable stuff to think about and act upon.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
you're welcome!
@Grifons003
@Grifons003 6 жыл бұрын
Yep, that's it! I'll have two regulars now. I can already tell that The Jordan Harbinger show will be one of my things. :) You, Jordan Harbinger, sir, you are definitely someone I want to learn from. A truly great episode this was. Definitely one of my favorites here at Impact Theory! Cheers!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matiss!
@sepalifernando6628
@sepalifernando6628 Жыл бұрын
Hey Tom , you are really a great interviewer no interruptions at all. You have done the research in advance . That’s how impact theory has become a great show. Lucky I have subscribed you long time ago. Hope to have more interesting and eye opening shows like this in the future. Thanks
@soheekim3314
@soheekim3314 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, i feel so inspired after watching this interview! Thank you, Tom, for bringing Jordan on the show! Both of you guys are so amazing, i can't tell you how thankful i am to know of you.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
You got it Sohee! You a fan of The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@soheekim3314
@soheekim3314 6 жыл бұрын
No, I unfortunately haven't been a fan yet because I wasn't aware of your existence. Soon to be a fan though!
@corynory489
@corynory489 6 жыл бұрын
I swear you air all the people i look up to on your show this is awesome. Jordan Harbinger, Judah Smith, naveen jain etc. I swear! And I'm always discovering more awesome people thanks to you! Great stuff Tom!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
thanks Cory! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@corynory489
@corynory489 6 жыл бұрын
I remember you sending out an email about leaving aoc and but it wasn't until today i found out you had a new show. I will definitely be listening.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Great!
@urbansproutfarms
@urbansproutfarms 5 жыл бұрын
Bro your interviews are so powerful! Thank you for your work!!
@Legend-sd7gr
@Legend-sd7gr 6 жыл бұрын
Tom;u r a legend 🙌 even after not being well u r doing your work!!u inspire me to work harder!!
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Very kind!
@ashleymackenzie7209
@ashleymackenzie7209 5 жыл бұрын
Monumentally self aware guy, very rare ‼️
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
it took years. thank you! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@lornag9608
@lornag9608 5 жыл бұрын
I love the door theory which I will now apply each time I walk through a door- brilliant thank you Jordan
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
you got it! more like that at course.jordanharbinger.com
@alliesteamc3546
@alliesteamc3546 3 жыл бұрын
America’s military industrial establish can learn frim Tom Bilyeu’s Impact Theory and Jordan Harbinger show in their generosity and fearless/not competitive creative and collaborative Spirit!
@organizer14
@organizer14 Жыл бұрын
Both of you are sooo awesome!!! Thank you so much!!!❤
@ravikollampalayam
@ravikollampalayam 4 жыл бұрын
Tom Bilyeu a positive Energizer pouring such energy through KZbin... I am expecting him to be in india that too in South india (Tamil Nadu State). Such an amazing Energizer 🤩😍
@amarinisiator
@amarinisiator 3 жыл бұрын
Im from Indinesia, no translating in Indonesia language, I like this podcast very much. Love it
@nidac9420
@nidac9420 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a good advice suiting the COVID situation to create an emergency fund at least for 6 months. Hanging it there, everyone.
@vn1118
@vn1118 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best talks I've listened too!! Good job guys!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?
@Remy1522
@Remy1522 5 жыл бұрын
Tom I want so badly to watch an interview with you and Jim Carry! That man has seen the light.
@JulieAndersonvideos
@JulieAndersonvideos 4 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome, I totally identified with the growing into the confidence as people start treating you differently. I definitely had shaky self-esteem and as I started to get more positive feedback on TikTok, it's like I have grown into that confidence and it's mine now. There's definitely something about the sheer scale and volume of feedback that changes a person. When he talks about feeling the imposter syndrome, boom, I've felt like that. It's honestly been only the last couple of months I feel more sure of me. Just how he describes it, it's not a fake veneer, it's like you finally believe in yourself. Not second guessing myself all the time, not looking at everyone else and wondering, how are they so sure of themselves? How do they KNOW? I was watching The Last Dance on Netflix and it struck me that the basketball players didn't deflect compliments or use the crying/grateful emoji every time someone showed them appreciation. They were themselves. And just got on with things. And this caused me to ask myself, why am I behaving like I'm so unworthy and so surprised to receive any crumb of appreciation, positive feedback. Like I have to get on my hands and knees and say thank you over and over again. It was an aha moment. Awesome interview, thanks so much. So freaking grateful that we live in a time where we can access info like this! Yay!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for watching! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?
@JulieAndersonvideos
@JulieAndersonvideos 3 жыл бұрын
@@JordanHarbingerShow I do!
@StayingHard
@StayingHard 6 жыл бұрын
This Video is a GEM.
@RicardoPicena
@RicardoPicena 4 жыл бұрын
Second time to watch this, one year about & wow! Great downloads this time
@sistasarita
@sistasarita 6 жыл бұрын
So good! Thank you for this!!!
@beemo9
@beemo9 5 жыл бұрын
The door advice was awesome!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
more like that here (and free): course.jordanharbinger.com
@hfortenberry
@hfortenberry 5 жыл бұрын
Great interview! He is so right about the covert contracts. That dynamic he's referring to with the covert contract is called "caretaking" and it's a trait of "Codependency". It's when people do things they don't really want to do and then expect something in return. There is also "Caregiving" where people do things just because they WANT to and there is no expectation of reciprocation. Caregiving is healthy, like the guy who gave the dentist recommendation. Caretaking is not healthy, it is codependent. It's very important to never do something you don't DESIRE to do, regardless of the person's response. Do it only because you want to do it, not because you think they will respond in one way or another. Doing something you don't really want to do in an effort to get somebody to do something for you or think of you a certain way or whatever, is actually manipulative and dishonest. Just do what you love and say "no" to things you don't get joy from doing.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show (podcast) as well?
@intuitive_duck
@intuitive_duck 6 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this one! Congratulations for another golden episode! I relate so much. It feels so empowering to see what he became. To see that he overcame his painful shyness that I often battle with. To see he learned multiple languages like I aspire to learn. To beat that scorecard. 100% gold, thank you!
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
So glad you liked it!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks D! Hope to see you at The Jordan Harbinger Show soon as well! Happy to help!
@jonasbaas
@jonasbaas 5 жыл бұрын
That's a whole lot of greatness in one room. Thank you gentlemen. Right Power.
@cibko
@cibko Жыл бұрын
"Action will end the suffering".
@celestereyes2960
@celestereyes2960 6 жыл бұрын
One of my faves. Love it guys and so grateful for this show. By far the most impressionable and helpful for my mindset and entire life!
@infernalweasal5670
@infernalweasal5670 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing! The Covert Contracts. I realize I've done that a lot in the past. Going to keep my awareness open to it! Thanks Tom and Jordan!
@Virginia.Rasmijn
@Virginia.Rasmijn 6 жыл бұрын
Thanx Tom for having Jordan! Great interview and super informative. Love "Give without no expectations". Its always better to give than receive. Honest connections work best.
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks V! Do you listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well?
@Virginia.Rasmijn
@Virginia.Rasmijn 6 жыл бұрын
So exciting to get a reply from you! thank you! Well, I didnt know about you before. Just now through Tom's show. So I went directly to your website and now listening to a podcast Deep Dive 22 via PlayerFM hahah ;) subscribed through my iphone podcast app to keep learning on the go. By the way, I really like your recommendations on books on your website. Always looking for great reads. So glad I found you! Keep up the good work!
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
welcome to the show!
@travelingkaspersworld4096
@travelingkaspersworld4096 5 жыл бұрын
So mesmerized with the story, sending out links to friends.....I nearly forgot to press the like button myself.
@krow449
@krow449 6 жыл бұрын
"Action ends suffering" @43:57 Love it!!!
@calderonjd30
@calderonjd30 5 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm a big fan of Tom's I'm so glad I found you here Jordan You are one of the most genuine guests I have heard here. You have a new fan! Fyi...your wisdom and confidence is very attractive ☺️
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 5 жыл бұрын
thank you! very kind of you. hope to see you listening to The Jordan Harbinger Show as well.
@aLr_boosh
@aLr_boosh 6 жыл бұрын
A good reminder on the power of networking. Took notes on this one for sure! Boosh!
@rajnishsingh9106
@rajnishsingh9106 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Tom for introducing us to so many amazing people who are doing such great work in transforming people's lives...one request please bring in sadhguru jaggi vasudev he's transforming millions of lives across the globe and your audience lives will truly be impacted.love your show
@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 6 жыл бұрын
We're trying! I'd love to have him on the show!
@selvarajan4331
@selvarajan4331 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome interview dude!!
@askaligna
@askaligna 4 жыл бұрын
Tom is the best introducer in the World!!! I need him to introduce me for my TEDTalk
@fitness-by-bonita
@fitness-by-bonita 6 жыл бұрын
I so needed this! One of the best episodes so far! 👏🏼
@JordanHarbingerShow
@JordanHarbingerShow 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bonita!
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